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4 Ways To Do Kindness - Loving Your Neighbor (Pirkei Avot Class #9)
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him
the third ahmood she is
said last week in China but he says in
something called igerita teshuva the
letter of repentance which he writes is
actually categorized according to the
days of the week
the precursor of all this foreign
so he has that he writes a whole lot of
stuff it's not just a synopsis of what
he writes in Cherry Trevor yeah it seems
to be he says like where he writes
things and does things there's additions
and there's a whole thing
and it seems to be the underlying
principle based on we said last week
which I don't repeat because we had
requests not to repeat it but even
though you know
um that it it's to be there for the
other person do you understand it's and
to show the other person another person
feels that you care about them that's
the underlying thing we just said last
week right this money and then
with rich people and we mentioned also
by giving a good answer do I mean that
that's also uh you know a thing you help
a person out it doesn't cost money and
we said the story last week with the
rich guy went repeat now
um but he says right at the beginning he
lists like four ways of like examples of
how to make out in the middle of
and he says one is when you talk to the
poor person right he talks beginning
with gemara says in babatra that you
know if you give money to a poor person
you get so many Brotherhood and if you
give them money to poor person and you
that with a smile you get like more than
you know almost double
and he explains right 11 and it's six
and eleven so and he explains what does
that mean it means you talk to the Ani
you empathize with him you Muhammad him
you make him feel good I mean you share
in his in his in his Sorrows is a whole
thing concerned it's not just again
he writes he writes um
expounds more maybe I didn't see it here
on that itself and there when he talks
about giving an ater he says that
the you get this for giving the answer
and the making the other person feel
good
meaning it's not even the the feeling
good that the person gets the one you
gave the advice to right is is not
necessarily the good advice meaning what
what he's happy initially you know you
said you know I saw this as a very good
investment you know if you do this you
might lose money if you do this you know
I'm saying I've had an experience you
might lose money or whatever it is or
you don't send to that school or send
yes to this school your kids I'm telling
you whatever it is right again it could
be a rich person it's irrelevant he's an
answer what's the best issue for his son
right
and you recommend something it's it's
not just the fact that it works out and
he gets back to you you know six months
later oh thank you so much she's happy
and they achieve and everything else
Robin implies that it's the fact that
you took an interest and the guy you
know that you heard that he's not sure
you've got experience and you're
offering you know I heard you know
whatever I want I want to help you out
that's that's what gives him the SIM
card you're feeling me
you follow me you see that underlying
principle what what the the definition
and he says that's why
even more he says over there that
um a fourth level is when you have ideas
in which to raise money for argument's
sake meaning if you're not a fundraiser
and you're not going knocking and
knocking the doors you're not writing
the website for matching and all the
rest of it but you have ideas here he
said there's also
because and it says
in some respect the one who caused these
things to be done is more than the
person doing it I mean if you had the
brain wave then the fact that everyone
gets together you know that for argument
is
unbelievable
organization I mean you know bottom you
know um
what's the word thingy prices no uh not
cut price wholesale price that's yeah
wholesale prices you know no profit
non-profit and it's so much organization
it's unbelievable right and everyone
involved is doing a tremendous right
they're not getting paid for it but the
person who's you know behind it I mean
they had the whole idea and puts the
whole thing in process it's more than
everyone running around and doing and
this and other you know even though
other guys might physically sometimes be
any more effort to a certain extent
you're with me
and he says um and that's why it says in
the pursuit
right and he said
is this this idea that because you love
Crescent get it not even actually doing
it because you love Christian you want
to help out the fellow Jew so therefore
you'll think of this idea now you're not
even doing it but you love you follow me
and again the the the the principle is
based upon the fact that you care about
someone else and you empathize with
someone else for following me I thought
was very important addition yeah is that
right that's an addition it wasn't no I
make sure so
um uh
the
um
what was gonna say one second I threw
myself off
um
yeah that's that's where he says Ah and
there's one more thing I never said last
week and you get the truth also over
there
when he says right
so he says
um
I don't know if I said this last week or
two weeks ago and he says
why now again I'm not going into how all
the other midsought
a different mitzvot because the Holiday
Inn I have the camera is included just
like you want I mean to build nice to
you kind to you blah blah blah so
therefore you do to others so why is
there separate and separate myths of
this and ending money except whatever is
fine
I mean they have extra things they
consider the mid to any turn right but
he says what's the cloud it's
unbelievable I never fully thought about
it everyone knows the Gomorrah in
Shabbat when the guy the gay came to you
know Sharma and hidal told him he said
he wants to learn the whole color Torah
a regular heart and he'll say to him you
know whatever you don't want done to you
don't do it to others Russia being
stupid shot him over there one is
the rest go and learn you'll mean the
rest of it you can learn about it that's
the whole principle which the Torah is
dependent upon
so when I ask people it's amazing even
though they know that when you actually
say what's
it what's going to be a keeper referring
to what is it about the house
right that's the door of the Torah with
me so the rest is going to learn the
details what is it it's amazing how many
people were like
he says the reason is because when there
is peace and love I'm not going to be
hippie or anything ever when there's
peace and love between the Jewish people
then the the Torah will be kept
everyone's their own thing so then that
affects the Holocaust from keeping the
Torah now he doesn't explain himself it
could be on an individual level because
people are upset and this type of
person's upset down Etc so he doesn't
function as well he won't be able to
down and learn everything as well as he
can on the you know on a community level
and on the national level when
everyone's with Shalom everyone's happy
and everything else the whole cloudy
soil are doing the Torah everyone's
available you understand everything it
makes enables everyone to keep the Torah
so that's why it's so important so I
know we're talking about here
but it's under the under the umbrella
and we just explained right the
underlying principle of which is that
basically
right but it's a detail of and you can
see over here why it's one because when
you understand when you have that Shalom
between people which comes from after
the whole the entire Torah will be able
to be kept
because of the Shalom follow me so it's
very very important
but to realize what it means do you
understand it's extremely important okay
now
um
well and thickness is Soho
I wanted to do to win whatever hopefully
we'll we'll
um a bit more inside even if anyone's
got it inside in the in in the thing
I'll just say outside the actual short
mishna antigos is
so first of all what's this word for us
well we'll just do that inside the
mission of the day right with enough
ashkova you know things that now
um what's the uh
press so in modern Hebrew I was we'll
give to your kids I'll give you a
process if you do this we do that right
price comes from prize prize right
so it means that means in time which is
extra a prize is something we shouldn't
work for
right that's the definition of a prize
something you just got the prize all
right the number they see because the
Nobel Peace Prize will say enough to do
anything for it can be a terrorist and
still get it right
you know what I'm talking about yeah
so you can see a prize and nothing to do
with what you do right you can get the
prize and all the covers and there's
nothing to what you did
so
um uh the method explained and
Technology soccer is demanding of his
tamidium don't be like the avadim which
is serving I'm not a couple press
meaning not only are you not certainly
don't serve Hashem just to get reward
you know
don't even want to do it as as a press
you get it don't even serve Hashem to
get it as a bonus as a result
just do it completely just because you
hear the difference that's what they
didn't say
this is
not meaning even yummy in that okay I
don't get paid for it so I mean but if
there's like a bonus on the side no no
don't even do it for that yeah that's a
high level right so that's that's
avatarship now
says what's going on over here does this
mean that if you if you serve Hashem to
get you are hoping you know for nice
home up there in shamaim right nice car
whatever you want
therefore you're not in heaven Hashem
excuse me you know whatever dashem
you're like ow that's it this is this is
what it has to be and nothing else it
can't be and he proves it he says he
proves it from three places he says how
we know from khazal that if you serve
Hashem with the intention to get the the
reward we're not just saying now you
know you should served
right just know yourself because you
want to get reward right he says there's
absolutely nothing wrong with it and he
quotes at least three places in Ghazal
one and and and some involt the first
one he says
um
when uh sorry let me stay out first Reby
says in the beginning of peric bit heavy
connected
personally wants to wear up you know
it's worth it worth it
Mitzvah if he loses out financially time
whatever it is
how a person should behave
excuse me so you obviously see that
there's pie that's part of serving
Hashem to think you know I mean I might
lose out I'm in the game but I'm going
to get scar so it's worth it for me
that's that's a a Bonafide the way of
serving number one
number two
um it's an independent the name
is
no it is n't the missionary don't worry
you're gonna get paid for it yeah the
real payment you're gonna get paid
another one we say you know Shabbat yeah
when we say a review
we say right before
illness
foreign
and um
and not only that he says if you look in
the words of the Tanner it says out you
covered
that means that if you are doing it I'm
not the Cabell press you're still in
every dashem get it it doesn't say don't
be like the people who are serving
Hashem for pros because they are not
really out of their Hashem they're not
really you know of their Hashem
yeah okay
now
um
so what's he doing
is demanding
this is the highest their Pinnacle of a
thing and and
um
uh and then when he says Javier we saw
that I mean that's that's the perfect
that's you know you're not interested
even in prizes nothing and we have a
heaven
that you're doing it for you you have
the perfect view at Hashem that's
Perfection okay
now
um
how much what time is it exactly between
uh
um so I just finished up with this Duke
and we'll go back something next week
until seon to finish and says why they
said
it means
we do say that he's asking
right why not so your answer is because
we're talking about
get it in the all the greatness of
college and the heavens are when a
person looks mention the Rumba many
times you see the heavens expanse the
universe that brings you to wow Hashem
is awesome is huge you're with me
I mean therefore we have era of just
like the Sherman you have you're not
because you're scared of Hashem you look
at your mind no you're just in awe wow
Hashem is huge Hashem is great that's
why you should have happened