4 Ways To Do Kindness - Loving Your Neighbor (Pirkei Avot Class #9)

him the third ahmood she is said last week in China but he says in something called igerita teshuva the letter of repentance which he writes is actually categorized according to the days of the week the precursor of all this foreign so he has that he writes a whole lot of stuff it's not just a synopsis of what he writes in Cherry Trevor yeah it seems to be he says like where he writes things and does things there's additions and there's a whole thing and it seems to be the underlying principle based on we said last week which I don't repeat because we had requests not to repeat it but even though you know um that it it's to be there for the other person do you understand it's and to show the other person another person feels that you care about them that's the underlying thing we just said last week right this money and then with rich people and we mentioned also by giving a good answer do I mean that that's also uh you know a thing you help a person out it doesn't cost money and we said the story last week with the rich guy went repeat now um but he says right at the beginning he lists like four ways of like examples of how to make out in the middle of and he says one is when you talk to the poor person right he talks beginning with gemara says in babatra that you know if you give money to a poor person you get so many Brotherhood and if you give them money to poor person and you that with a smile you get like more than you know almost double and he explains right 11 and it's six and eleven so and he explains what does that mean it means you talk to the Ani you empathize with him you Muhammad him you make him feel good I mean you share in his in his in his Sorrows is a whole thing concerned it's not just again he writes he writes um expounds more maybe I didn't see it here on that itself and there when he talks about giving an ater he says that the you get this for giving the answer and the making the other person feel good meaning it's not even the the feeling good that the person gets the one you gave the advice to right is is not necessarily the good advice meaning what what he's happy initially you know you said you know I saw this as a very good investment you know if you do this you might lose money if you do this you know I'm saying I've had an experience you might lose money or whatever it is or you don't send to that school or send yes to this school your kids I'm telling you whatever it is right again it could be a rich person it's irrelevant he's an answer what's the best issue for his son right and you recommend something it's it's not just the fact that it works out and he gets back to you you know six months later oh thank you so much she's happy and they achieve and everything else Robin implies that it's the fact that you took an interest and the guy you know that you heard that he's not sure you've got experience and you're offering you know I heard you know whatever I want I want to help you out that's that's what gives him the SIM card you're feeling me you follow me you see that underlying principle what what the the definition and he says that's why even more he says over there that um a fourth level is when you have ideas in which to raise money for argument's sake meaning if you're not a fundraiser and you're not going knocking and knocking the doors you're not writing the website for matching and all the rest of it but you have ideas here he said there's also because and it says in some respect the one who caused these things to be done is more than the person doing it I mean if you had the brain wave then the fact that everyone gets together you know that for argument is unbelievable organization I mean you know bottom you know um what's the word thingy prices no uh not cut price wholesale price that's yeah wholesale prices you know no profit non-profit and it's so much organization it's unbelievable right and everyone involved is doing a tremendous right they're not getting paid for it but the person who's you know behind it I mean they had the whole idea and puts the whole thing in process it's more than everyone running around and doing and this and other you know even though other guys might physically sometimes be any more effort to a certain extent you're with me and he says um and that's why it says in the pursuit right and he said is this this idea that because you love Crescent get it not even actually doing it because you love Christian you want to help out the fellow Jew so therefore you'll think of this idea now you're not even doing it but you love you follow me and again the the the the principle is based upon the fact that you care about someone else and you empathize with someone else for following me I thought was very important addition yeah is that right that's an addition it wasn't no I make sure so um uh the um what was gonna say one second I threw myself off um yeah that's that's where he says Ah and there's one more thing I never said last week and you get the truth also over there when he says right so he says um I don't know if I said this last week or two weeks ago and he says why now again I'm not going into how all the other midsought a different mitzvot because the Holiday Inn I have the camera is included just like you want I mean to build nice to you kind to you blah blah blah so therefore you do to others so why is there separate and separate myths of this and ending money except whatever is fine I mean they have extra things they consider the mid to any turn right but he says what's the cloud it's unbelievable I never fully thought about it everyone knows the Gomorrah in Shabbat when the guy the gay came to you know Sharma and hidal told him he said he wants to learn the whole color Torah a regular heart and he'll say to him you know whatever you don't want done to you don't do it to others Russia being stupid shot him over there one is the rest go and learn you'll mean the rest of it you can learn about it that's the whole principle which the Torah is dependent upon so when I ask people it's amazing even though they know that when you actually say what's it what's going to be a keeper referring to what is it about the house right that's the door of the Torah with me so the rest is going to learn the details what is it it's amazing how many people were like he says the reason is because when there is peace and love I'm not going to be hippie or anything ever when there's peace and love between the Jewish people then the the Torah will be kept everyone's their own thing so then that affects the Holocaust from keeping the Torah now he doesn't explain himself it could be on an individual level because people are upset and this type of person's upset down Etc so he doesn't function as well he won't be able to down and learn everything as well as he can on the you know on a community level and on the national level when everyone's with Shalom everyone's happy and everything else the whole cloudy soil are doing the Torah everyone's available you understand everything it makes enables everyone to keep the Torah so that's why it's so important so I know we're talking about here but it's under the under the umbrella and we just explained right the underlying principle of which is that basically right but it's a detail of and you can see over here why it's one because when you understand when you have that Shalom between people which comes from after the whole the entire Torah will be able to be kept because of the Shalom follow me so it's very very important but to realize what it means do you understand it's extremely important okay now um well and thickness is Soho I wanted to do to win whatever hopefully we'll we'll um a bit more inside even if anyone's got it inside in the in in the thing I'll just say outside the actual short mishna antigos is so first of all what's this word for us well we'll just do that inside the mission of the day right with enough ashkova you know things that now um what's the uh press so in modern Hebrew I was we'll give to your kids I'll give you a process if you do this we do that right price comes from prize prize right so it means that means in time which is extra a prize is something we shouldn't work for right that's the definition of a prize something you just got the prize all right the number they see because the Nobel Peace Prize will say enough to do anything for it can be a terrorist and still get it right you know what I'm talking about yeah so you can see a prize and nothing to do with what you do right you can get the prize and all the covers and there's nothing to what you did so um uh the method explained and Technology soccer is demanding of his tamidium don't be like the avadim which is serving I'm not a couple press meaning not only are you not certainly don't serve Hashem just to get reward you know don't even want to do it as as a press you get it don't even serve Hashem to get it as a bonus as a result just do it completely just because you hear the difference that's what they didn't say this is not meaning even yummy in that okay I don't get paid for it so I mean but if there's like a bonus on the side no no don't even do it for that yeah that's a high level right so that's that's avatarship now says what's going on over here does this mean that if you if you serve Hashem to get you are hoping you know for nice home up there in shamaim right nice car whatever you want therefore you're not in heaven Hashem excuse me you know whatever dashem you're like ow that's it this is this is what it has to be and nothing else it can't be and he proves it he says he proves it from three places he says how we know from khazal that if you serve Hashem with the intention to get the the reward we're not just saying now you know you should served right just know yourself because you want to get reward right he says there's absolutely nothing wrong with it and he quotes at least three places in Ghazal one and and and some involt the first one he says um when uh sorry let me stay out first Reby says in the beginning of peric bit heavy connected personally wants to wear up you know it's worth it worth it Mitzvah if he loses out financially time whatever it is how a person should behave excuse me so you obviously see that there's pie that's part of serving Hashem to think you know I mean I might lose out I'm in the game but I'm going to get scar so it's worth it for me that's that's a a Bonafide the way of serving number one number two um it's an independent the name is no it is n't the missionary don't worry you're gonna get paid for it yeah the real payment you're gonna get paid another one we say you know Shabbat yeah when we say a review we say right before illness foreign and um and not only that he says if you look in the words of the Tanner it says out you covered that means that if you are doing it I'm not the Cabell press you're still in every dashem get it it doesn't say don't be like the people who are serving Hashem for pros because they are not really out of their Hashem they're not really you know of their Hashem yeah okay now um so what's he doing is demanding this is the highest their Pinnacle of a thing and and um uh and then when he says Javier we saw that I mean that's that's the perfect that's you know you're not interested even in prizes nothing and we have a heaven that you're doing it for you you have the perfect view at Hashem that's Perfection okay now um how much what time is it exactly between uh um so I just finished up with this Duke and we'll go back something next week until seon to finish and says why they said it means we do say that he's asking right why not so your answer is because we're talking about get it in the all the greatness of college and the heavens are when a person looks mention the Rumba many times you see the heavens expanse the universe that brings you to wow Hashem is awesome is huge you're with me I mean therefore we have era of just like the Sherman you have you're not because you're scared of Hashem you look at your mind no you're just in awe wow Hashem is huge Hashem is great that's why you should have happened