A Father's Love - Likkutei Torah Matos "Veshama Aviha"#2 - By Rabbi YY Jacobson

the yeshiva dotnet 169 yeah Marcus will continue believe either will be able to work complete here that counts the Union will start from the parentheses yeah Pasha's Matos hey hey column one page 169 you see so the first column may be like one two three four five twelve lines from the bottom the line starts call her is soon in Oaxaca shoot'em our sheykh Nasus is slowly a surah surah and the next one has a parenthesis okay so now I'm just gonna repeat these few lines that we that we did but I just want to repeat it so I'll sum up the second half of the theme of the Mimer that we also discussed in the previous year says vis el shac Asaf the line starts with your mouth fully paren the parentheses the zojja Kossoff this is the meaning of the passage in matters the Shama a via a Schneider when her father hears about her nether his daughter's nether so he has the ability has the power to unknown that promised the nether and the pus ik says this she she carries no burden of responsibility to implement her nether why because Haney of erisa her father dissuaded her or influenced her and not this man and I guess dissuaded her from the nether or persuaded her to get rid of the nether hey Nia VI sir her father removed eliminated the nether for her that's what the puss success so now this is this is shot what does it represent every Mitzvah there's also what it represents symbolically emotionally metaphysically spiritually and psychologically ceases as follows of may finish on either the father anoles undoes the nether key my penis Avira be' father and bodies infinite Alvarado means not just read a little of the infinite love excessive of abundant love like we say in the morning according to some of the Nueske's avi raba right this two ways of saying it avisail amor Alvarado so toys for some breakfast makes the chareth to say in the morning one in the evening others are usually in the satisfier they say both times of asylum but summon the Sahaj kana as they say Avira bah and then at night of asylum so the word Alvarado means tremendous love excessive love the famous Alvarado whom a fer Qatar go mama Vatel the targum says what's mayferd obliterates Movado nullifies call her is surah in oaxaca shuuran this is how he touches in the Dharam all the nodding is the knots in surah he certainly doesn't mean prohibitions it certainly means from the word uh sir like base are certain confinements and the word Oscar means that uh sir really doesn't mean forbidden the word uh sir in Hebrew means mat ear Asuran he unties those who are bound those who are chained that's why it's called uh sir because I'm bound I cannot do it done so to speak in shackles on a deeper level the reason something is called uh sir is because that thing is bound up something that's uh sir I cannot elevate I cannot reveal the godly spark in it something that's mutter a fruit or a piece of food that's motive for example what that means it's untied doesn't mean it's untied this is what the Tonya says the divine spark in it is not locked it's unlocked it's untied in other words I can extricate it I could sublimate it something that's uh sir the object is bound up meaning the divinity is so to speak bound up it's trapped the angel is trapped in the marble so therefore I cannot extricate it so the Torah says don't eat it so us or our people shot means I am bound I am bound I'll pee mister it means the object is bound here he's using it as a symbolic idea the person is bound up color is cerium all the shackles all the chains that not you the key shouldn't you tie it up you're not it a shake necessarily a structure that the community of Israel represented by the daughter not just in the fridge daughter cloudy strollers called Hashem daughter they are bound up their orphan nodded they are knotted there they feel tight the a macabre smart Iraq Somalia the prisoner the Gomorrah says cannot on times on cannot matter as we cannot undo cannot free himself he who does he need he died they meters of a rabbit crema Sophia there's only one way to get the coverage outside of base our serum and that is to the attribute of our V wrap of tremendous law and that's what a via represents that's the pinna represented by a veer not just talking about a biological father the father represents enormous enormous flow an enormous experience and emotion of love towards the daughter and that is the issue the moment you have a father involved now we're not worried about the nether the father can help her undo the nether Hany of the eye so why because through the media of avenue through the tremendous love the prisoner could get out of a saucer in and this is the new code of the hasbro that we have been explaining that the only way one can get out of the shackles is not by telling them that they have changed and not even by telling them how horrible the chains are and not by telling them that they have to get out of the chains but by rather allowing them to feel more powerful than their chains allowing a person to feel more powerful than their chains more powerful than their desperation more powerful than their hopelessness more powerful than their doubts uncertainty despair how can I make a person feel more powerful when they feel the value within themselves and the dignity within themselves as a result of the alva that they're experiencing from their father the inion how assertive she are Sudak sure about what is what are these is sort of that we're talking about these these knots that the soul is matted is knotted by is confinement yesh Lamar behind Alicia sky asana fish see clearly articulates what do you what I've been saying it means that the kya karna fish feels weak the power power of the soul is infinite but the person may experience that the soul is weak and when you're weak naturally you're tied up you feel confine you feel inhibited you feel limited you don't have the creative freedom to explore to transform to sort the fly the class is weak a person is weak weak mentally a weak physically a weak emotionally or weak spiritually they're lethargic they're heavy on a mental level they're just heavy delicious shame but Catholicism in our take-home isara she does not she lacks the power the stamina and the vigor to go out of Nar taker and our taker is the anarchic the it's not the case it's it's case it's it's very good then I think I shush yeah wait to come in a teacup it's basically it's encased or not that can even be like a wallet something that in case is something a box that in case is something so she is like encased in something and it's back stood literally buckston she can't get out of it whom are sir over prisoner and when somebody's in that neurotic they just can't get in once you heard of art I don't know the original source it's a very good part in Bullock we see that as different terms for curses there's the famous term claw wa koala right there is ro ro but then there's also Bullock tells bilham covered the assam aza from the word cover Coface a macabre Lochaber kale in other words it's another concept of koala and what what's the root the root of it is very strange so loved one tells love and tells the active not for a life's worth of attina not Val I start off retina means establish set apart set aside or determine what your wages and I'll give it to you sometimes the greatest curse is when we decide and we establish who we are and who were not we put ourselves into a box that's the idea of cover you define this is who I am and this is what I'm not this is what I'm capable of this is what I'm not capable of my marriage will forever be miserable my relationship with my kids will never be good I will never be able to be successful I'll never be able to try be able to be a not angry person I'll never be able to be this I'll never be able to be that whatever it is a person puts themselves in to a fixed situation on our take Yaakov had Anessa heart this is what it is and as a result of that it's really the person remains in that box so the soul is weak it cannot get out of the my sir whom really this is hungry aside move enough for some Bahamas the biggest prison from it is the bleakness home raises the Brutus of the body and animal salt which on a spiritual level can sometimes completely eclipsed what exists in on the shaman from Asia custom of makkah Muhammad Ibrahim a school before additional su summer practice Easter this prison has explained elsewhere in another discourse which begins with the word predator solution yesterday but shaman is where there was explained that they had tired and him shut players voice Lynette fish Lovato cashier Mela the trailer gives the power to the soul to nullify to obliterate these mats vomica Malkin is buyer elsewhere it's explained the key shoot'em a ludicrous surface but I am a homina homina fish mr. bass is bad if you learned health estrellas you know there's a concept called cerca we all know there's something called Glatt Kosher what's glad cautious eye so once a pizza shop and it had a sign on it Glatt Kosher was very humorous because the person thought Glatt Kosher means it's extra cautious why not put on a pizza shop the words blood culture of course the very word the blood culture could only refer to family not theory because glop represents the concept called a circus circa means in English is called an adhesion basically let's take a surface area adhesion of the lungs if there's a group the strife that checks out the animal and he sees this is a part of the lung right a little strip of the lung that goes over and it connects it has an adhesion it's connected to one other part of the lung the question is what caused it to grow or what's under that so sometimes you rub it a little bit with your finger you rub it with your finger and it's locked it's smooth there's no surface so that's Glatt it's completely smooth the problem if it's not smooth how do you deal with it so that's partial tan Hollow now you have an Ironman which is a section of the ZOA he calls cerca he shootin basically you're knotted up you're not glad you have a person who's got Glock means you're smooth you just smooth you are what you are what happens if I'm entangled I'm full of knots you ever meet a person was full of knots everything is not it there's nothing that smooth everything is entangled and enmeshed and obscured and confused and connecting with somebody else and something else it's like almost you could you could see a face that's full of knots or a system that's full of knots that's called surface so there I am Hemnes says how nefesh mr. Betts has been the sole mr. Becker's mr. Bevis means it gets entangled in them you know with the word Conrad Vahine a aisle after nathas bespeak McLaren off the aisle in its horns it was caught up in the thicket in the thicket of the bushes so it became miss Tsubaki will say this is a sugamice abettors it's a complicated nuanced complex circuit you go in and you don't come out it's amaze you get stuck so some people's lives are like mazes they themselves get stuck you go in one way you get lost you don't know you're coming out there's nothing locked everything is entangled a regular telephone conversation is already entangled so this is the concept of service via days are in your final hours so basically with the sensor you can't fly because you're not it imagine a bird literally a bird and the wings of the bird are tied to a rack and the bird is trying to soar but it can that's called a circle so the soul is a bird the soul was destined to fly but if the soul has surface if the soul has a bunch of ropes that hold it down it can't fly it doesn't even know that it's capable of one so it can't go up and this is explained about a mask of inertia PASOK Miquel come on Ashley mine you could say here AG of all the kiddush forests in the dot and VI McKee put it this is the secret of nullifying the Nidoran onion kipper I knew what this means is they have children trouve of yom kippur initially nasa for us a bit lucky sure what sugar supposed to accomplish is obliterating and nullifying eliminating all the knots for the Nidoran vigilia either a Baba nefesh by revealing the tremendous love of the soul the tremendous love of the neshamah of the neshamah has fashioned and that a sham has to the neshamah and by revealing that love of the father which happens on Yom Kippur what's the first thing you do on yom kippur it is you notify told in the door and here we get a extra extraordinary insight with something that would seem quite perplexing you'll ask a Jew what's the holiest film of the year and every Jew will say Kol Nidrei and even Joe Jews who show up or never show up to anything but commiserate there is a feeling that people who are not around the whole you they show up for commitment what makes Kol Nidre the holiest filler of the year so generally most will understand because it's the beginning of um Kippur and you Kippur is the holiest day of the year and this is the entrance into um Kippur but Kol Nidre is called the holiest Villines why do we do comedy in the beginning of Yom Kippur really it's not part of the film of Yom Kippur after Kol Nidre we're gonna make a shot Ianno as the comedy restart might've and then there's different pew time you know yeah we'll touch on and I know the other people time and then you finish with Elena called nedra essentially is not part of the genre or of the experiencing in Kippur doesn't talk about sure it doesn't it's not a Davenant what is called Nidre essentially Caligula is a stately kenitra Vasari of a harem of economy versus ooh basically you say all of the pledges all over the oaths all over the promises all of the commitments the sarnoff shosanna lianca puddings a DMK put a ball in all the time' any pledge and promise and oath and acceptance and yolk that accepted myself from this yom kippur till the next jim kipper so what am I asking I'm making a declaration and the declaration is that everything should be shrikand Smiths and potato in little darlin well shrivel up and we should all be obliterated and all new journal on a dresser analyst Irish masala mushroom my promises are not promises my prohibitions and I prohibited myself and I prohibitions my hopes are not of become 2 cm Kippur so there is showing them talk about it's not a positive thing this is a complicated Sookie and I look the Torah and other is shining them it's a complicated sugan some people who suffer so even against it but the point is that the castle Hattori's negara more a serious issue what's the best time to make a tourist in the Dharam when everybody isn't sure because then you include everybody when is the time that people are most frequently ensure you Kippur so that's where the interest its instituted that before the year starts obliterate old in the dorm now some used to say called Nidrei on the past Nidoran the Dharam of the previous year era bina Tom came out against it so most messiahs kalindra change to the future so basically what I'm saying is that if I promise you in middle of January if I make a promise that I'm gonna give you XYZ don't take it seriously I already obliterated a nip on Yom Kippur if I make a promise normal cheesecake and I'm starting the diet tomorrow after the Bat Mitzvah don't take it seriously so even if I don't say bleed mat they're already in kit but I already said that doesn't mean anything it's not an Edison and that way nobody is neutral in the is sort of like a fedora why because they already obliterated it so why in Kippur because everybody comes to show that's why we do it the first thing I am sure why is happy the first thing because you're not supposed to do a terrorist in a dorm on Shabbos in octave in Kidron Shabbos so therefore you do it before sharpest usually you're supposed to start calligraphy for sunset the problem is usually the appeal takes too long and this sermon takes even longer so some people through come in today very late okay so with the evidence fine but let's not criminal committee is supposed to be said before steel because he's supposed to do a forest and honor before Yom Kippur so you have an interesting phenomenon you keep it really came into your community came into Yom Kippur it really from the back door it's not part of him Kippur it's not connected to Yom Kippur and nonetheless somehow everything gets my house my soul away no has the Mosel that is at the end of Dominique nobody people say it on the way out Khalid ray which is almost incidental made it as I into the beginning of Yom Kippur and some people only stay for coming leave this note filler there's no Bokashi then you have what's even stranger is the melody of him come there of commentary as I said in another shear the melody of kognito is everybody knows there's a heart stirring melody and most people it's good that they don't understand what the dream means because it's Aramaic but if you'll take an English master and you'll try to study and read the words while you're doing the melody any normal person will be quite perturbed by what in the world is the connection between this heart stirring and passioned melody that's that's ripped the Jewish heart apart from millennia and and and gave it this sense of mystique and mystery the order of yom kippur and you're reading the lyrics and you don't know what the connection is so some associated with the fact that the Kol Nidre came to represent the Spanish unloosen the Spanish Jews who were and mass converted to Christianity during the 1300s and the 1400s as a result of the Christian conquest of Spain the morano's and the elusive Mandelson was probably a better word and and they were of course Christians their whole life the whole year but they used to celebrate Judaism in private and many were burnt on the stake when the Inquisition tortured them and and murder and destroyed and burnt them and so forth so we say in the beginning of before kamila dasa mikuma dasa COBE she wished annihilation was won on a materialist poly Mariana we allowed us to join Fela even with Jews who are transgressors so Kol Nidre came for them to represent that the promise they made to the church that they're Catholics that they're loyal Christians the promise means nothing because really they're Jews that would explain some of the emotion embedded in Kol Nidre because it's not just a legal formula about the promises I'm gonna make you about cheesecake or about going on a diet or about not doing this or doing that or spending time with my kids every night and all those beautiful promises but it rather touches a very sore moment in Jewish history because it's a word a few Jewish converts according to Prime Minister Netanyahu's father benzion Netanyahu who wrote excessively on it there's someone say that there were close to 600,000 Jews who who left Judaism in order to avoid the death and persecution those are huge numbers you said a few hundred thousand Jews left on Tisha above 1492 okay but it's still it's still difficult and here and here it's really tremendous revelation of the ballot Anya reveals that comedy actually captures Yom Kippur it captures the essence of Yom Kippur and otherwise it's really hard to understand I mean you'll just just just to illustrate it and visualize it okay I want you to think about it in such in these terms she'll appreciate what he's saying take the last words of Kalinda nedra no La Migra serenella sorry Shaw son hola Luis now take the song of comedy Dre and put it to these words and do it in English not only is it strange it almost seems absurd and beyond absurd okay imagine somebody comes up to you because my promises are no promises and my pledges are no pledges and my oaths are no oh wow this is the whole community and then how it starts all my promises and all my pledges law stated in there now and they non-existent so you're getting got basically insane don't take my words at all seriously I don't mean what I say even when I say it I don't mean it okay maybe it's a good thing to do but wait let's put it in proportions so the emesis that here we reserved said to have a whole new deep rushkoff of what color is essentially kalindra is Yom Kippur it's the essence of Yom Kippur because um Kippur is a day of transformation and the prerequisite all transformation is to get rid of your knots to get rid of the oaths that you make to yourself more than anybody else about what you're capable of and what you're not capable of every one of us lives in a nether it's not an edit of a promise I make I won't do this it's an existential nether basically I feel bound ask yourself what are the ten most paralyzing factors in your life what are your knots one two three four five days imagine if you had absolutely no limitations and no fears and no baggage and no Pecola and no history and no difficulty with this person or that person and no shame whatever it is what would you be doing different how would your life be different every person has their Nidoran and those that dharam are defining they literally clip our wings they don't let it says they don't let you fly their surface they simply clip your wings they tie down your wings you can fly what's Jim kipper you Kippur is the day that the Jew experiences or can experience the infinite love of the father to the daughter the tremendous love of our sham to the jewel and when you can experience that love in other words you can feel your own infinity your own dignity your own value the first thing you say is needed now listen need a rah rah neither hey now it makes sense all my promises to myself but I could never be or what I could never do all the oaths if you would ask me on a regular day do you know yourself say yeah can you swear that you know yourself yeah so tell me who you are and you tell me who you are if you trust me or your therapist whoever you tell who you are in therapy says swear that this is who you are and you swear that this is who you are and suddenly and Kippur comes to ship her comes and you look in the mirror existentially and you say there's so much more to me there's so much more to me so what's the first thing you have to do you have to undo your own oaths your own Shavua about who you are or who you could be who you will be another Yom Kippur comes and bites the dust another year comes and bites the dust those oaths for the whole year you're gonna make because you Kippur is easier on the high you know you're fasting it's but the day after Yom Kippur the day after Tishrei it's all over see save me I don't keep poems that till the next you Kippur every day I'm gonna make an editor I'm this some that I'm not that I'm not that my wife is this my wife is that my kids are this I have this psyche of this mindset every person again physically psychologically emotionally spiritually you don't recognize the infinity of your neshama the Koya Hubley that exists in yourself okay the calicut mom why because it's in case that's eclipsed there's a shell around it and therefore it's bound up so I am Kipp when I say tell the next Jim kipper don't take my no dollar seriously I'm gonna make them I will find excuses for everything because there's something beautiful and being paralyzed because then I could blame everybody else there's something nice about being a victim let's face it I don't have to do anything I could be a prisoner there's some beautiful about being an emotional prisoner you say it's your wife you should we go you're never your community and this unit of course you're a victim your prisoner the moment you recognize your power now suddenly you take responsibility for your life who wants to do that who wants to take responsibility for their life so he's easier to pass the buck and say it's everybody else's fault so I say I'm gonna die no I'm gonna do it but him Kippur I'm a vato that's what he says so um keeper how far is Nevada me and Kippur is because that sugar of Yom Kippur is my battle all the knots I chew this through chuhwa you have the middle of all that knot that's what sugar means return return to your true self transformation interesting I lost on Yom Kippur the lavash Akoya and me David the mission they save at four offices sorry he takes over the garden and they put success Vahini how many places him so the Gemara learns how to miss after yuma that a coin is now letting used the garden that he cuddled the blood that he used one Yom Kippur is not what I used the next in Kippur now it's a fascinating Allah regular God him of a coin go that he used every day he could use for years until they until they decay he could use them the garden of yom kippur used once a year why bought artists use them the next team kid put them away use them not my luck is every year yes to use the new garden so the practice it was it represent something in Kippur is a time of newness you don't come with old baggage you don't come with old garments you don't say these are my brother this is how I dress it's not new it's a million Kippur so true ver allows you to obliterate all the nerd or him and that's why he says it brings forth the giver you have an average of a nephesh the tremendous love that exists in the soul and the love that exists on my shelf to the soul and when the daughter feels her father's love than the Nidoran go away that's the secret of comedy and that's a very profound experience that a Jew has in the beginning of him kippot and really encapsulates all Yom Kippur for everything in Yom Kippur is an outgrowth of kalindra now the melody and the lyrics not only match but they're reflective of each other they mirror each other ah yes lima-bean Ian Shaw of Mayford there's a nothing that could then the father nullifying the nether all that as much a cost of bizarre precious Emer god babe is mana did not let me be Abbeville abyss money did not let me be Emma sir you speaks about a time that you go to take the food from Patty and not from mommy usually food comes from mommy that's where you get the good stuff but there's a time you go to father and after mother explains goodness have been ever hadass father is represented by karma mother is represented by bina father contributes the seeds and mother develops the seat Cara is the seminal spark of wisdom and beam as a development he says my penis have been never hadass from Bhima and oz mommy nucleuses scarf is rocker from here you have the power to subdue unholiness from the word - the selling in a dharamchand Lucretius this is what it says a prickly Alvis and the Dhanam are a good thing because they're a sub there are friends for purchase if you want to stay away from certain things it's good to make another Michael Nozick a valley as is happening come on mush Leonora but to nullify the net that means you transform darkness into light you don't stay away from it you engage it EF surely is nobody must be know this can't happen from bina Chaminade demon miss re from bina we say in cadaver no we're saying Zoe are from be no comes demon stern judgment element prema scar from a love for he have to go to hokhmah cause of my deposit says initially a cosmetician aya Bala harshly mama look says drachma gives life who are bit bullsh Allah my Allah my Allah give a toss this is the one is that transcends intellectual comprehension the Zosia of may Fuhrer mahapatra shuttle in higher there's two stages in life there's this stage when you make an ad there into the stage where you do a tourist in the door Ned there is a good thing but it represents weakness I stay away why cause I can't engage you that's what a nether is and that is I'm not touching this why am I not touching it because if I touch it it's dangerous and that's an important stage in life but then there's a deeper stage in life and that is you don't have to run away but you could transform and it's two different stages in life sometimes you have to run away and sometimes you're healthy enough to be able to face it and confront it and use it in a positive way so New Durham is stage one half artist Nidoran bit on the Dartmouth stage to that the person is ready to come back and face the world rather than run away from it you don't have to go into isolation you don't have to segregate from all - means you don't have to say the world is a tray for place I'm not touching it when you're an addict you have to because if not you're gonna fall but when you are in a powerful state then you have to know that you're in a powerful state now you could do something deeper and that's mother and father in Jay basically an avoider system this is the difference between the state of bhima and the state of Kozma and the state of Kaufman there is a deeper sense of oneness with the divine and therefore the person could transform the darkness that's why the father representing Kaufman could be Mahapatra Schieffelin IRA Peter Shoshanna a vs but the past success he first hears about the nether he doesn't just nullify it I know Shia Day is scary but village zoeng in Amador him Mizanin shocked Africa Pilipinas Aurelius a professional an iron first he has to hear the nether and then he could nullify it in other words only when a person has the courage to do a scarf you can they then reach the state of his house if a person things that are right away going to transform they may fall prey to it only when he could first hear the net there in other words appreciate the value of the nether then there could be stage B when the state of the Father is revealed and the Sabbath Michele : ayah and this is a high dose a part of him Kippur that Yom Kippur a person essentially segregated from the world but nonetheless iam Kippur creates the power of a Shama a vs nidra that could be the revelation of hokhmah the end of Yom Kippur in the Elana which then brings a person into circus and so forth where the ultimate qivana is not only disengagement but ultimate Cavanaugh's to go back we see the mission that says at the end of you miss after Yuma that the coin Godley is to go home with sodium Kippur and used to make a yum turf but say simmer Solomon our coitus used to go home and make a young Vinney Rama brings in hoses I've as you say McKay put him the decline gobble used to go home after that void that no far shal seye why does that I'm gonna bring it what's the hollow its know-how lost their Messiah what's that look goes up we should he go to bowling alley we should go meet I am kipper chapters that's the how look the halacha is from Yom Kippur you have to go home cuz from an adored him to go to a deeper level which is how far this car this class is 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