A Storyteller's Worst Nightmare (A BeEzrat HaShem Film)

[Music] sometimes somebody's about to tell you a story that you know story it's M's story you heard the story before is teaching you both M about behavior and also how to really be a how never ever interrupt the story even if you know the story meaning you heard the story of how many times x amount of times you heard the story of mosu coming from Mount Si how many times x amount of times there a mitvah we're obligated to do every single year on P that you are obligated all night to study all night everything that happened from all the way to M even if you areki even if you are the you're obligated with the same Is Us Little People why go over the story again but I heard it last year and the year before and the year before and the year before go over it again number one you could understand something new from the same story all the time CU to it never ends that's number one number two if someone is about to tell you a story and you interrupt and saying I I heard it you could be ruining something for them number one maybe they wanted to try something out by teaching somebody and you just stole that opportunity for them now this guy that was about to teach you something all he needed was one student to say wow what a story and he was going to become a he was going to start teaching people every week and he was actually going to succeed and get people to do Chua every week and every week people do Chua people go to Hashem people do this do this but you ruined it why you thought oh yeah I heard it already already destroyed his confidence he now wants to go back to be an engineer now he wants to go back and go cut hair again he doesn't want to be a teacher anymore why you said I heard it the magnitude of you saying I know you just destroyed millions of lives potentially two second reason many times if you're a speaker you actually learn while you speak if you speak out loud you're learning you actually end up learning from your own speech why when you read if you're reading it in a secular way you read anything in a secular way all you're doing is reading with your eyes when you read in a religious way you read like a V like a Jew you're reading with both your eyes and with your lips meaning you're saying the words out loud you don't necessarily need to say like you know some people that never do a blessing the whole year but one time you do a blessing but they want to make sure the whole synagogue hurts you do every blessing like that if you do you should beu but it's all of D for the for the for the uh show off so anyway sometimes you learn simply by hearing yourself because now instead of just your eyes instead of your eyes and your lips now you're also using your ears CU When you speak you speak out loud and you're you're repeating something you're sharpening your own skills and you're also now seeing other people's reaction and a lot of things happen and now since you've repeated it out loud all the thoughts that you had before get rewinded and now you start getting new thoughts and you start getting a from your own speech from your own I can tell you many times during the sh itself I got a k many times literally I think it's at least once a week if not every sh always a k during this year that's just the way it works so now if somebody's about to give you a or some story that you heard a thousand times already he say no no no I know already and you cut their story up in half no no I know I know you could have potentially just killed now they're not going to get a because of you so the character trait that we all have to develop is to have enough patience to let people finish what they're going to say even if you heard it especially if it's tah especially if it's to if it's if it's the guy is telling you the same story about how he got into an accident in his car people that fish people that play poker people that in general do certain things they like to repeat the stories it's like theyve live vicarious ly through their own stories that you don't have to listen to again if you have the time and you have the ability and you want to develop really really good manners and it's somebody that's important like your father your mom you have to that's something else but if it's just some guy that's just wasting your time you have no obligation to listen to it but if it's Tor you have to listen to it number one you could help him number two you could help yourself number three you could potentially there's part of the story you never heard even though you heard the whole story a million times there's maybe he's going to mention one fact that you never heard that's going to complete the story for you [Music]