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Achiezer: ElderCare Plus. Mr. Ronald Spirn, JD, CELA: Asset Protection
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Achiezer ElderCare Plus conference November 8, 2015. Address by Mr. Ronald Spirn, JD, CELA, on asset protection.
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for the future and our presenter will be
Mr Ronald spurn just two technical
details please put your phones on
vibrate so that we don't interrupt each
other I realize that everybody who's
coming to an elder care conference needs
to take care of somebody and wants to be
in touch the other thing is the reason I
handed each of you as you entered an
index card is the way we are going to be
doing questions is please write your
questions on the index card pass them to
me I'll be up here in the corner and we
will take the questions via index card
if you need a 10 they should be in your
wonderful azra souvenir bags okay so
with no further Ado it's my great
pleasure to introduce Mr Ronald first
thank
you uh good morning uh it's a pleasure
to uh be here uh today presenting uh
with aer's Elder Care Plus uh event
we're going to be here all day and we
want to be as resourceful and uh as
supportive as possible and uh I know
noticed that among all of the wonderful
presentations and and vendors and
providers that are here today that a lot
of the program is geared toward the
social and medical model type issues
that come up caring for a parent long
distance and very few of the programs
are devoted to money now the title of
this uh presentation is called uh
something Financial planning or planning
for the future strategies really what
this program is about is about
protecting your assets or the assets of
your parents or loved ones it's about
asset protection and asset protection is
all about paying for long-term health
care so I handed out uh these uh
outlines and it's pretty brief because
the basics of elder law and I'm an elder
care attorney um are almost
Universal New York state New York City
it it Narrows down a little bit but uh
the needs are almost Universal so I have
a limited amount of time all right like
all of us and in about 40 minutes that
are remaining and we're going to leave
the last five or so minutes for Q&A uh
we have about 35 minutes to get through
the materials and that is why the
materials are not very lengthy they're
not onerous you don't see tons of
description there are no figures there
are no dollar amounts on the outline
because the outline itself like today
like the entire event is meant to
stimulate and to hopefully invigorate
the caregivers to do what needs to be
done on behalf of ourselves or our loved
ones
so the foundation of any solid elder law
plan has to do with Advanced Directive
documents you have to have the correct
forms and documents um in order to be
able to really Implement a plan of
action now if I'm dealing with uh the uh
individual themselves the senior the
parent or grand parent themselves so
that's one thing however if I'm working
with um I'm okay you want me to move
forward tell me
why you want this louder no just cuz you
hear me in there okay you don't even
need this you could just have me and
I'll take this thank you okay you got it
then I'll have the screen blocking me
okay hopefully that'll work okay
housekeeping um so the
the foundation of any elder care plan
needs documents because even if I'm
dealing with the individual themselves
who's to say that a year or a decade
from now that person will not really
have um the sharpest uh uh capabilities
capacity and uh abilities to do what
needs to be done so we want to see
immediately threshold and foundational
items that that have to uh do with
sorate decision making there are a lot
of different powers of attorneys there
are a lot of different forms out there
you can go online you can just download
a form but like so many other things
when we do it ourselves it may not have
uh the um what we need in order to
achieve our desired results and I see
that a lot so um it's extremely critical
that not only one have the form but that
the form also be drafted properly so a
power of attorney is a document that
gives another person or persons the
authority to make legal or financial
decision making on behalf of the parent
let's say the person who made the power
of
attorney the number one question that I
get in regard to a power of attorney is
well if I sign a power of attorney and
name my daughter and son does that mean
that I can't make any decisions anymore
and the answer is absolutely not a power
of attorney is not a document that is
meant to limit the principle the parent
in any way but it's meant to uh enhance
the capabilities of having family
members or loved ones step in and act on
behalf of the parent should the time
come should the need arise for
substitute decision making uh to come
into play now I said or I mentioned that
you could have more than one agent on a
power of attorney so if someone has a
children or an common to name spouses of
course if capable to uh act as a power
of attorney agent you can name more than
one person at a time you could name one
person and then you could have a
successor agent after that so there are
different styles and different
approaches there are chairs seats over
here come on in it's not going to
interrupt me um that uh can be tailor
made to fit the specific needs so again
it's really important to have someone
who can guide you and um uh uh show you
the proper or the best ways based upon
your needs how to have that document
drafted properly
there's a document there's a power of
attorney that's called the springing
power of attorney now I've very rarely
get involved with springing Powers of
Attorney a springing power of attorney
uh says that um my power of attorney uh
does not operate until such time as I
become
incapacitated so we don't really want um
uh uh to wait for some incapacitating
event for then a child or a family
member to be able to act because
sometimes it may not be uh convenient or
appropriate even and it's better for the
parent to see how that uh child uh acts
um while the parent is gun while the
parent is capable of observing and
participating in the decision making so
for a variety of reasons I'm not a big
fan of a springing power of attorney
also you need to get a letter from a
physician who says that the person is
incapacitated and if you can't get the
doctor or it's not you don't get the
letter so we try to uh only name uh as a
power of attorney an agent under a power
of attorney someone who is very
trustworthy um someone who is capable or
at least knows to pick up a phone and
say let me call up the lawyer let me
call up the accountants and uh uh take
care of these issues so if we don't have
a power of attorney and a family comes
to me and says oh uh mom uh has been
living at home uh and she's been getting
private pay care for the last four years
and she fell and she broke her hip uh
and she's a little Ava bottle she's out
of it a little bit and you know we never
did any planning we want to get Medicaid
okay we'll get into to that in a few
moments I say well do you have a power
of attorney no why well a mom didn't
want to do it she thought she was giving
up control or we went to a lawyer it was
too much or we're not into that okay so
I said well being you don't have a power
of attorney puts us immediately way
behind the eightball because now if we
don't have legal authority to act on
behalf of the
parent how can I submit a medic
application how can I create an asset
protection trust how can we shelter a
house with a deed transfer so a power of
attorney yes is tremendously powerful
and is capable of doing you know
anything practically virtually anything
you can think of a power of attorney can
do on behalf of the
parent so those are a legal and
financial decisions
what about medical or health related uh
decision making well we have a couple of
seats up here gentlemen two one one two
some in the back we only need
two so a uh a healthc care proxy is a is
another legal document it's not a
medical document it's a legal document
that has to do with medical related
issues and decision making and the same
way that if for parents did not uh
create these documents that we call
Advanced directives because the parent
is giving direction uh to the world in
advance of a disabling um uh uh
situation uh what to do then not only if
there's no power of attorney can the
family not make financial and legal
decisionmaking then if there is no
Health Care proxy the family lacks the
ability to make medical decision making
now we're not talking about um minor
decisions and there are always
exceptions and if the hospital knows the
doctor who knows the person then come on
up then um careful then the uh the
hospital or the doctors are not able to
um act on behalf of the parent so that
becomes another limitation so I advocate
I urge everyone okay people in their 30s
and 40s maybe not even in their 50s
don't think about it it's different
stations in life people are focused on
raising children and having
grandchildren and then it kind of shifts
and that's what of course you know we
see um and if we don't have these
documents in place we're at a tremendous
loss and when we lose time in this maive
in this situation it's all about money
just going up like like air it just
evaporates at a rate of thousands of
dollars either a week certainly a month
I'm astounded when families come in and
they say oh we're paying we have uh uh
two ladies are coming and taking care of
our mother and it's costing us um
$1800 a week
so all of this um relates back to uh
having the ability to act on behalf of
our parent or loved ones so a power of
attorney financial and legal
decision-making a medical proxy about uh
medical decision making um now the other
healthc care related document is called
a living will a living will is a very
serious um document it's an end of life
decision-making document that has to do
with unfortunately somebody who is not
able to survive on their own and without
medical apparatus breathing tubes
feeding tubes um artificial nutrition
and respiration all all of that is in of
itself a tremendous uh um issue that can
come up and crop up in uh the Elder Care
Continuum so um there are two types of
living wills for purposes of this
discussion wait they're taking pictures
don't
me good thank you um there's a standard
living will right and there's a halakic
living will so as you can tell I'm not a
rabo I'm not a posac and I always
recommend that um my clients who are
interested in uh pursuing and and of
course I can prepare both most attorneys
Elder Care attorneys can um uh leave
that up to my clients and their rabinal
decision-making uh uh needs to tell me
what type of living will they want but
it is an endof life decision-making
document so it's extremely uh uh serious
all right those three documents are as I
said you'll I'll just keep repeating it
are the foundational items of any elder
care plan without those if we don't have
a principal an individual who uh has
complete uh capacity then uh it becomes
very difficult to make
decisions come on in here you
go all children I just want to get over
than we're going I'm going to try to get
the questions at the end write it down
right I appreciate the break but okay no
problem you have one more seat up here
if you want to okay there's one seat
over here okay standing on the
ground three is
running not because of me all right Part
B under elder law living trusts why am I
already jumping to an intermediate or
some would say an advanced topic uh like
trusts right after talking about the
basics because the living trusts and
we're going to talk about two different
type of trusts revocable trusts we'll
talk about those for about 30 seconds
and then irrevocable trusts we're going
to devote most of the time
addressing a trust is an
agreement and generally the purpose of
the trust agreement in our discussion in
our realm is to be funded with assets
how do assets go into a trust by
changing the time
on the asset if it's a house we do a
deed if it's a bank account we retitle
the bank account so assets go into a
trust a revocable trust I'm going to
boil it down very very simply is mainly
to help a family avoid probate probate
is the process that an individual's
estate needs to go through after they
die and have to uh distribute the assets
and make sure the executive is appointed
so um I'm sorry the trustee is appointed
uh that's the basics of a trust when it
comes to elder law and asset protection
planning then we can only talk about an
irrevocable trust those are asset
protection trusts and an irrevocable
asset protection trust is almost
universally all the time utilized in the
context of doing long-term care or
Medicaid
planning and when I talk about paying
for Health Care uh in a few minutes then
um we'll uh we'll touch upon that as
well okay so an irrevocable asset
protection trust as I mentioned is a is
an agreement and in the agreement uh
contains all of the provisions that the
family uh will feel is important of
course under the guidance and advice of
an attorney so the irrevocable trust
will name the trustee name the backup
trustees it'll say that the trust is for
the benefit of the parents if they put a
house into it it says that the parents
are permitted to reside in the house for
the remainder of their life time and uh
all the other issues that come up we can
put liquid assets into the trust we can
put real estate we can put brokerage
accounts and by putting the assets into
this irrevocable asset protection
trust if a family uh comes to me and
says uh dad needs Medicaid home care
services we don't have money so when a
person puts their assets into such a
trust then they're able to qualify for
Medicaid community-based home care
services within 30 days a maximum of 90
days it depends if you're in the five
borrows or it depends if you are in the
um uh you're in nasau County so um the
uh asset protection
trust is a legal method it complies with
the federal um Medicaid regulations and
it says if it's such a drafted trust it
can go into uh this trust and then the
assets are legally not considered
available to um anyone to any creditor
and that's a legal way of Sheltering
assets so if the parent is able to stay
at home in the community then that's
great that's excellent because it works
they're not going to have to worry about
any lead time as opposed to and to be
distinguished and differentiated from
someone who needs nursing home care so
if somebody needs nursing home care then
everywhere in the country including New
York City you have to wait 5 years the
point being that this trust is either
going to work immediately if somebody
needs Medicaid home care and they don't
want to you know what even if they did
want to but if they need to shelter
their assets then this trust is the best
way to achieve that
objective more about that when we get
down uh in a few minutes to paying for
long-term healthc care
take a
Sit everybody knows what a last will in
Testament is you have to have a last
will in Testament will the world come to
an end if somebody passes away they die
and they don't have a will no but one
never knows what issues can come up in
the realm of Assets in the realm of
disgruntled family members in the realm
of of uh just having things
organized in order who is the executive
if the executor my daughter moves to
Arius Ro then who's the backup so I
don't have a gap I don't have any type
of
Separation um well I'm not here anymore
in the example but that the family
doesn't have to deal with those issues
it's not going to fall on the person who
does or does not make the will it falls
on the survivors so last will in
Testament very very important and uh
everyone uh to the extent possible
should uh have
one paying for long-term health care and
this is really uh going to
be the uh the heart of our discussion
now the advanced directives and the
trusts those are all uh threshold items
those are Gateway items that we need to
address and uh pay attention to before
we can even get to the next uh section
which is paying for health care so I
made it very easy there are only three
ways uh known to humanity that long-term
care uh can be paid for now what do we
keep saying long-term
care people have Medicare people have uh
Empire Senior blue Choice people have
United Healthcare Oxford and uh all
sorts of insurance coverage well those
types of insurance uh uh uh coverages
only cover medical care and very very
limited uh posts surgical postm medal
type of care certainly there's no
long-term coverage that uh comes as a
result of having Medicare so Medicare
will pay
for hospital visits uh surgery doctors
people get metap uh insurance policies I
believe that one of the presenters today
is going to be talking about uh those
types of uh um uh uh issues but that's
all Medical
Care situations and conditions that the
uh individual is meant to uh you know
get better from so somebody had surgery
hip surgery so there's postsurgical and
there's a physical uh therapy there's
wound treatment it could be in a nursing
home it could be at home for a few weeks
covered by Medicare but once it goes
beyond in a nursing home setting 100
days maximum and there are co-pays and
all sorts of moving variables or at home
3 or 4 days a week 3 or 4 hours each
visit 3 or 4 weeks finished if the
parent if the loved one still needs care
with the activities of daily living
Medicare pays precisely zero and the
only way to pay for that care the only
three ways are cash private pay and we
see people paying a tremendous amount of
money and if they have the wherewithal
and that's the way they want to go
beautiful no problem get a power of
attorney get a a a healthcare proxy you
don't know what could happen in the
future um okay private pay number two
long-term care insurance I know that we
have presenters and vendors today also
who uh uh deal with uh getting folks uh
situated with long-term care insurance
so if I need uh assistance with uh three
two three four for sure of the uh six
activities of daily living which are
bathing toileting dressing feeding
walking and transferring transferring
means getting um uh in and out of bed
unassisted uh on and off of the couch by
oneself which I sometimes have problems
a little bit especially on a shish
afternoon it's a different issue but if
somebody needs help with a couple of
those items and for sure if the parent
or the person is
incontinent that's when the long-term
care coverage will kick in there are
elimination periods you got to pay your
premiums you get okay you could have two
years three years five years very very
few people I see getting lifetime
coverage very expensive but if a person
has the means they have the wherewithal
and the finances
Good so that now gets us to the third
and I'm going to have to say in my 22 23
years experience as a certified elder
law attorney the most common method of
paying for long-term care is the medic a
program if you Google Medicaid you will
get a 100 different hits all about
Medicaid there are so many Medicaid
programs SSI food stamps uh all sorts of
Public Assistance section Aid housing a
Medicaid for the poor and when you ride
around any neighborhood you see on the
sides of city buses they're advertising
Medicaid uh Wick women infants and
children these are all different
programs that go under the federal
heading of Medicaid uh type services but
what we're talking about is very very
narrowly defined you don't see it
advertised um but it's there it's
available and it is very much so a
middle class
program why why do I say that cuz
somebody who's wealthy or has the money
to pay for it okay so they're able to do
that and they don't have to look to
another means of funding somebody who is
already uh living let's say you know in
poverty or how the law defines that and
they're below certain limits and levels
then um in that
situation uh they're already going to
qualify or they probably don't own a
house or they don't own um a lot of
assets
they're already on public assistance so
by definition they have to be below
certain numbers okay so um they don't
really need it but as usual it's the
middle class that feels the pinch that
feels The Squeeze worked hard um 40 50
years saved money uh didn't start
sending the kids uh to summer camp uh
until the uh uh mid 70s or 1980s and
denied you and you saved money and now
that money is there and meant to be for
the retirement for a nest egg or to pass
on to other family members in the future
well um in in in that situation when the
person uh needs the care to shelter
their assets they're looking at total
depletion and I have uh clients or I've
met with families that come to me
because they didn't read an article in
the Jewish press or they didn't catch a
flyer for an azer uh Elder Care event
and they're uninformed and because
they're uninformed they're telling me Oh
well we just spent Bobby's you know she
had about
$300,000 um about two three years ago
and uh it's all gone now what do we do
well that's a little bit of an easier
case because unfortunately now they're
no more assets to shelter but the idea
again is to do more of an advanced plan
and less of a reactive plan where we say
oh uh this is uh uh the stores on fire
what do we do what can we pull out of
the fire so let's talk a little bit um
about
Medicaid as it relates to the community-
based Home Care Program and then we're
going to talk about nursing home care so
as I mentioned anyone who wants to get
community- based Home Care Services um
and uh we've been getting clients uh uh
eight hours a day 6 days a week 12 hours
a day 7 days a week in some instances uh
and it's based upon a medical assessment
um it's uh been 24 hours a day and also
just uh so I don't forget I have here
today uh my associated attorney Esther
levenson SD runs of the law firm's uh
Medicaid Department then we work with
other vendors here all to make sure that
there's a Continuum of Care and that
everything is handled um as as best as
it can be uh done possibly so that we
have the best result and when a person
wants to get that Medicaid home care
they're not allowed to have Assets in
their name above
14,8 $50 now that number is going to
change come January 1st maybe the reason
I say maybe is because I understand and
we got a lot of calls about this that
the social security amount will not be
raised this year and that happens on
occasion and more so in the last several
years so it could be that the government
isn't going to raise it very much but
that is the asset or resource limit
person can uh have a house and up to
$4,850 and they can qualify for Medicaid
home care
services um and that's it we'll talk
about the house in a little bit but
that's the basics to get somebody on
community-based home care
services
yes I thought you talking about the
5year Medicaid look back me five why not
that's next so so um let's now talk
about the nursing home Medicaid Program
so the nursing home Medicaid Program as
the name employs is for chronic care
it's for
longterm care it's not at home it's not
in the community it's not at an assisted
living facility it's only going to be in
a Skilled Nursing Facility or nursing
home and in order for a person to
qualify for that type of care they also
cannot have assets greater than the
14850 threshold but there's a much more
uh difficult test that has to be passed
and that test is the fiveyear look back
period where Medicaid says show us all
of your financial uh uh um uh statements
going back five years 60 months and what
are they looking for they're looking for
the money has money been gifted or
transferred out of your name and now the
government says hey you can't give away
money like that 100 Grand and now expect
uh uh um the government to pay your bill
you get the $100,000 back from your kids
hopefully they have
it and um you spend down the $100,000
and then apply for Medicaid well that
doesn't really need to happen precisely
like that but that is the major concern
when it comes to doing Medicaid nursing
home planning now I don't have anything
on here in great detail but we can
address the eligibility issues we can
address spousal refusal spous refusal
mainly is a device a legal device that
enables a couple to do uh greater
planning than if it's just a single or
widowed individual uh that is is looking
to do the planning the last item I'm
going to touch upon and then we'll turn
it over to some Q&A uh and again uh if
you have those um index cards or uh if
you need a pen you could borrow one uh
to write your questions down hopefully
it's on uh what we're talking about if
it's a specific question then after I'm
not running away I'll be here all day
you could speak to me you could speak to
miss levenson and we'll answer if you
have a specific question but if it's a
general question okay want to add one
thing about the questions if you have a
question that you want to ask privately
you just want to like leave your contact
information just put your contact
information on the card with the
question or I do not read my question
and we'll happily forward it to Mr spern
and his office right and no social
security numbers
please Okay Mother's made name credit
card number right forget it you kidding
okay pulled income trusts I told you a
few moments ago that the resource or
asset limit is
$4,850 well there's also an income limit
and that monthly income limit is
$840 but in New York state we're very
fortunate and there are some uh vendors
here today uh who are uh the um um
administrators thank you SD uh of uh a
couple of pulled income trusts and a PO
income Trust basically says if you have
income in excess of
$840 then it's going to go into a pooled
income trust it's not the irrevocable
trust I was talking about it's not a
trust for a house it's not a trust for a
brokerage account it's a trust for
excess monthly income so if a person has
$840 a month income and they're only
allowed $840 a month income they have an
overage
of
$1,000 thank
you that
$1,000 under normal or other
circumstances would go to Medicaid it
would go to the Home Care Agency but
with a pooled income trust you're able
to take that
$1,000 put it into on a monthly basis
the pulled income trust and we work with
several of the different pooled income
trust plan administrators depending upon
where you live live and and other
circumstances and the money is then
directed by the family what to pay if
they're living in an apartment you pay
rent you're in a co-op you can pay the
maintenance you're in a house you can
pay the real estate taxes food cable
cell phones whatever a cleaning lady
anything like that they're not going to
really quibble and I asked one of them
they said that they will also pay
postmortem for a funeral yeah oh hell so
that's now what I hope is really a a
about 37 minute glimpse into what I do
what we do on a daily daily basis and uh
help families shelter their assets make
sure that they have the right um legal
documents and basically uh want to make
sure that people are able to do this and
forget about it they never have to look
at it again okay so let's get some of
those cards pass them up you have
questions pass them up I handed
everybody as they walked in I handed you
cards okay if anybody want could you be
the monitor please thank you
okay okay okay any more so just we get
the first round of
cards oh right you'll close it out right
on the back okay um okay I'm gonna I'm
in no particular order as I get them can
a family member ladies and gentlemen
this may be your question can a family
member be in charge of the excess excess
monthly income for a pooled
trust well I'm not sure precisely what
the definition in charge means but
certainly will direct and determine what
uh bills will be paid so that's as close
as he can get to being in charge but you
can't have actual um access to the money
and you're not paying those bills that's
what the pulled income trust does but
the family tells the pulled income Trust
what we want to spend it on okay who
distributes it I didn't understand I
don't think the pooled income trust okay
and who takes care of that the pooled
income trust plan administrator they
have an office they have people who do
that but for our purposes they will pay
the bills with that income overage so
there's hardly any loss of monthly
income yes okay why create a pooled
income trust if you already have an
irrevocable trust because an irrevocable
trust again is for Real Estate bank
accounts brokerage accounts other type
of financial assets a pulled income
trust is going to only address the exit
that we're talking about here a monthly
pulled income trust for the excess
income it's two separate um entities
completely what happens to the money
left in the pulled income trust after
death whatever is not consumed by the
pulled income trust is going to to uh
remain with the pulled income trust
which by law has to be a a listed
charity it has to be a charitable
organization so you'll see here today oh
lifetime Care Foundation uh kts keep
them safe and there may be uh one or two
others that uh are here and they can
answer your questions about those
mechanics okay power of attorney with
two people must both and or either make
the decision depends how the parent
wants to draft it sometimes we do see
that the uh kids let's say or the agents
are uh attached at the hip and they need
to uh uh act uh in concert other times
we see oh she lives in Lakewood my son
lives uh in flush so we don't want them
to have to sign every check together um
remember more than the relationship more
than anything else the individual who is
being named on the power of attorneys
trustworthiness is Paramount over all
other considerations okay is social
security income over $800 part of the in
payment that should go into the pooled
income trust yes $840 everything above
it Social Security pensions IRA
distributions annuity payments sometimes
long-term care insurance payments people
end up with a policy from 13 years ago
that's covering 150 a day not enough now
that's constituted as income so okay
along with the eight I think we're all
going to remember these numbers $840
liit limit is for home health care only
or nursing care also home health care
only nursing home care
$50 that's that's how much they let the
uh nursing home the person on Medicaid
keep a month the thinking being you got
all your food electric everything is
laundry you don't have you have no no
costs okay Snicker boss
exactly I'm trying I'm trying to
organize it somewhat okay on the
community based care for Medicaid do
they also look back 5 years no on the
community based Medicaid they look back
one month in New York City and three
months in nasson okay is
there Jersey that's a different
conference I don't know it's different
it's different Westchester do you know
don't know Westchester is there a back
on home based Health on homebased care
30 days in New York City 90 days naso
suffa County okay the these were some
questions about um about the trust if
you put your assets or money into an
irrevocable trust now is there also a
five-year look back absolutely once a
person transfers assets out of their
name whether it's to kids or to a trust
there's a 60-month 5year look back
period so would it I'm going to ask a
question just following up let's say
today or five 5 years ago 4 years and 11
months ago today I created an
irrevocable trust right and today I have
to go into the nursing I have to go
apply for Medicaid it pays for me to pay
privately for this one month so that I
don't have to do the look back
absolutely I mean in that type of an
example that's easy but some people come
to us a year into it much more
challenging okay but okay um if the
parents agree and transfer their funds
to a Child is This legal in quotes for
the 5year look back meaning 5 years
later it's legal to do whatever one
wants with their money there's nobody
looking over anyone's shoulder you could
do whatever you want with your money is
it legal for Medicaid I think what
you're asking is is that going to uh
cause any type of penalty period and the
answer is yes 5 years child or not if
the child is disabled if uh the child
lives in the same house as the parent
there are exceptions about that house
again we have to sit down and explore
and examine the details the protim the
individual circumstances to come up with
the best results okay I'm going to leave
this for the last because I think it's a
good ending okay if you divorce what
happens what's the
responsibilities that's a loaded
question in terms of what you have a
lovely wife okay yeah right um when a
couple divorces like all other uh legal
issues there no longer legally
responsible relatives to one another
there's no more in sickness and in
health or richer or poor so they're
completely now unless somebody's saying
no we really love each other but we're
getting divorced wink wink nod nod in
order to qualify so um it's a problem
because when people divorce what happens
you have to divide the assets so it's
not really helping out but again that's
a very very can a trust be divided at
divorce no no no on wills and trusts in
a in the context of a divorced couple a
dissolved uh uh marriage are are
nullified okay it has to be revocable
trust is nullified like that as it
relates to a a spouse at the time it has
to be redone and that's why it's never a
good idea to put assets directly into a
child's name because a trust doesn't die
or get divorced or get into a car
accident but kids unfortunately like all
other people could be in a car wreck
declare bankruptcy so if a parent gives
their assets money uh 50 Grand or
500,000 to a child or children that's
ill advised we don't do that one final
question and I just want to tell you
that Mr spurn will be repeating the
session not the next session but the
session after this he's also available
throughout the day for personal
questions it was somebody who handed one
to me on a card I'll give it to you um
the final question what documents do you
need when you come to visit the Elder
Care attorney um I tell uh families
whatever you have available meaning if
you've already done Powers of Attorney
and me medical proxies your last wills
and testament if you have a copy of the
deed to your residence a working
knowledge of your assets or your
parents' assets we don't need statements
on day one we just need a rough idea are
we talking about people who are very
modest people who have some more means
so we know again how to properly tailor
and craft a plan for that family okay I
want to thank Mr SP you really a great
friend of a from the very beginning okay
okay and if you have any garbage with an
exra this is an extra sheet yes okay