After Hours with Rabbi Yaron Reuven (14)

[Music] any questions yeah no no the uh Lots lot uh two unmarried daughters went with him to the cave and as a par says he slept with both of them saying before when were trapped in the house how did they escape whole town because the MIM made everyone blind and then they um they didn't know who's who they didn't know who's who so they went they went they went they went through the uh they went through the crowd they went through the uh no one can touch them they malim who did they hang up and oh that was actually one of his daughters before this happened this is when when hasem tells abah a in this week's Paras that I hear I hear the uh the uh the wickedness that's happening in s in Sadam that's what he heard the scream of one of Lot's daughters that allowed uh that did a gave charity to someone and uh the town was anti- charity the town was anti-id if someone came to visit the town he was only allowed to stay if he was bringing money to the town if he was rich if he was rich and famous he was rich and famous he's bringing economy to the town they allowed him to stay that's why they allowed L to stay and actually made him a judge but if he's there to feed off of the economy if he wasn't Rich then they would torture him until he they killed him if he was short they would put him in a long bed and stretch his stretch his body if he was uh tall they would put him in a small bed and cut half of his body if anyone gave charity they uh like L's daughter they uh put her they said oh you're giving something that's uh you know you're giving something like that to people okay fine so we'll give you something also so they put her into uh Bees Honey on her and they let the bees feed off of her like if you're so charitable let the bees eat off of you too and they killed her so she screams Hashem heard and that was the last uh har before hasem decided that this is a place that he has to destroy yeah places yes you change place you could have Lu there is be this place there is a saying there is a saying change a place change a luck the most the most the most important thing is to do the will of hem if what you're doing is because of hem you'll succeed if what you're doing is because of you 50/50 so if you have AEM in mind you'll succeed even if success doesn't happen right away eventually you'll succeed why because you did it for the right reason but if you're doing it because you feel like it you're moving to a bigger house not because you're going to do more MIT in the house you're doing bigger house because you just more more rooms you're moving to a bigger house because you want to show off to your friends that you have a big house there's no in that hm is not going to give you special because of this big house so if you want money because you are already doing a lot of and you've gotten to the point that you are doing above and beyond what you're doing a lot of people always ask me oh what's the Gula for more money scha for more money I said give money you want Gula for more money you want to make more money give more money how much money should I give as much as possible really should give 20% of your salary of your income to to some type of Torah 20% m is 10% but if someone wants to really become ultra wealthy should give 20% and the reason why is because when you give 20% it hurts first of all in the beginning it hurts it's very difficult to give 20% of a check regard especially if it's a big check but aside from that it's becomes a significant enough amount of money where the other people receiving it start depending on it once you get other people that are people that are involved in the Torah World either or organization or something like that and you get more and more people in that world to depend on you you're giving Hashem a reason to give you more giving him the perfect reason to give give you more why because you're doing exactly what he wants you to do you're becoming a partner but if you're giving whatever you think is okay it seems like a lot to you like a lot of people make a lot of money and let's say they make I don't know they make $500,000 a year and they give $20,000 a year inak technically $20,000 is a lot of money but for them it's not good it's not good really they should be giving 20% it should be giving $100,000 not even 10% he be giving 100,00 because you don't need $500,000 to live you don't need you don't need hem is not giving you $500,000 for you to live off $500,000 he's not giving you a million dollars to live off a million dollars so what's my source it says there's a was one of the three richest people in but also one of the three biggest meaning he gave the most amount of to such an extent that he financed the entire country has all of the people for three years one day sees his daughter sees a woman looking through the waist of the uh donkeys of the Arabs and he says who are you what are you doing she goes I'm looking for I'm looking for wheat sometimes the waste of the donkeys has some uh wheat grains of wheat that they haven't digested so hard even they can't digest it so I'm looking for some wheat in their waist he goes whose daughter are you go I'm the daughter of goes how could this be how could this be your father is the richest man in the land plus the sadik how do we know a sadik thear says that he's one of three people in history that Hashem stopped the Sun for him stopped the Sun in the sky for him who was the other people yesu so he stopped the son for him so he's bigad not he was aash with a lot of money there a lot of with a lot of money today no we're talking about sadik with a lot of money so says how could this be says yes he gave so the daughter says to yes he gave but not enough and the punishment for not giving could be that hm takes everything away so a lot of people that make a lot of money and think that they're giving a lot because it is technically allowed a lot of money by other people's standards it's not a lot for them so when someone is making a very high income they need to give more and if they're making even more than that if you know people that are making let's say I tens of millions of dollars or millions of dollars in reality should give almost all of it you don't need it you don't need it you don't need $10 million a year to live you don't you just simply don't that money needs to be used for Tor million and a half things you can do with money I always tell people if I had if I had serious money can make all of in a matter of couple years all you need is money unfortunately in the kir world it's very very difficult to raise money because it's not as uh Grand as some other charitable organizations that are somewhat useless next question yeah fish and dairy based on the uh [Music] um food fish you're allowed to eat with dairy you're allowed to eat it with dairy um the problem is chicken and dairy chicken and technically biblically it's allowed but it's not allowed why and the reason why K made that chicken and dairy is not allowed is because chicken many times looks like meat and someone that sees you eat doesn't know the difference so they'll think that it's allowed to eat cheese and or dairy and meat so therefore it's not allowed kazal made a fence around the fence that hasem allowed to make which is to make a uh chicken not allowed to be eaten with dairy even though technically chicken is not meat technically poultry is not meat but K made the law so you're not allowed to have meat and uh so when you eat um whether you eat uh um beef or some type of uh meat uh as well as chicken you have to wait 6 hours before you eat dairy that's the common Minag among Orthodox some keep less some keep Less hours but the vast majority keep six hours anyone that wants to keep less let's say if you want to keep four hours or you want to keep two hours or anything like that you want to go with one of those pusim that keep less that means you also have to keep everything else they say so you can't just say no no there's one p I don't know really his name but he said says 2 hours is okay so I'm going to keep two hours you can't do that you have to also go by everything else he does you can't just pick rule from him rule from him rule from him rule from this guy rule from that guy you can't it's not puzzle you have to pick someone you're going to go with you're G to go with want to go want to go ra ra whatever you going to go with you have to go you can't pick and choose oh I like the reie here I like here can't do that so with 6 hours it's acceptable by all that's what most keep some people like to you know keep less and they say no no some people say you keep less it's okay right it's not okay unless you keep everything else that thatc says same thing goes with a lot of other things people like to pick and choose it's not allowed it's not allowed to be ashkanazi the whole year except on P you understand so that's that's the thing as far as fish fish you're allowed to eat with uh with cheese um there's no there's no problem with that but you're not allowed have fish even if fish is with now cheese Just Fish itself you're not allowed to eat fish and meat at the same time uh so if you're eating fish you have to eat the fish first change plate and then eat meat can't eat them at the same time like what is it surf and turf I think it's called there a certain dish that's fish and meat at the same time that the go eat when not allowed to eat it first you eat the fish finish change plate change utensils and then eat you don't have to wait you can eat it right away but you can't use the same utensils or same plate uh to eat the meat tuna tuna melt is not it's not it's not uh meat and cheese it's uh sufficient cheese that's allowed it's allow enjoy enjoy just as long as it's not with meat and uh and uh cheese or meat and fish at the same time don't like mix it together that's because safaris don't like it safaris don't really like fish like ashkanazi do uh like the same type of fish but um and like filter fish is a very ashkanazi dish ashkanazi like fishy fish sapharic like different type of fish but you know in the reality of it is I've met both that like and dislike on both ends and the saying saying in Hebrew on um on taste or smell there's nothing to argue meaning your taste buds are different than my taste bud what tastes good to you could taste terrible to me or vice versa whatever you like eat as long as it's kosher enjoy doesn't make a difference food does not make you Jewish clothing does not make you Jewish payers do not make you Jewish language does not make you Jewish a lot of people think that you need to learn Hebrew for conversion you don't have to learn Hebrew for conversion that's not part of the you need to learn you need to learn but you don't need to know Hebrew to do so there are there's a lot of stereotypes or additions that people add out of thin air to Judaism that have turned Judaism into something very different than what it really is uh there's a lot of zul what they callot like these special merits like above and beyond what the mitvah are and the reality is that many of them are 100% ID worship they're not only not a they're actually a sin but not a small sin not like a sin like you uh didn't do everything that hasem says perfect no no we're talking about worst as a neck chain some people do this with their they do a they do a do Kal women to do kala but someone decided that if you want to get married you should put a uh little doll of a uh bride and groom like they put on the cakes on the wedding cakes you should put it inside the Kal this is 100% witchcraft was a key key is another stupidity there's no there's no place for these things in the Tor no one there's no place for these things but the putting a actual doll or whatever some creature some thing in your in your is 100% it's it's not it's not not uh stupid so there's plenty of this plenty of this stuff in Judaism it's not Judaism though so that's why it's very very important before you do anything anything double check text me text uh you know look at the books double check don't just be a robot double check it's also helps you connect with the mitv if you don't know what you're doing you're just doing it like a robot eventually you're going to stop doing it because eventually you're not going to like it eventually he's not going to make sense to you so it's very important to double check everything you're doing before you do it because a lot of things that people say you should do it's not only you shouldn't do it it's a it's like St the type of stuff that could destroy you I mean there's some people that think they're religious one woman tells me me I you know I say you're religious you keep Shabbat yeah I keep everything it's great usually you don't hear I keep everything so you keep everything B wow it's a you start asking questions you start realizing this person doesn't really know that much to keep everything and you ask uh which which besset you go to oh I go to this besset it's uh it's only like a 10-minute drive from my house on Shabbat like people think that keeping Shabbat is means you just don't work and you have K and you light candles they don't realize that there's a lot more to it so that's the thing double check double check next what about have all these different opinions like you don't know which one to pick no you do know what to pick you don't make from you make from no you learn you learn gar in order to know where do we where's the source oh you learn gar for a few reasons number one reason is you see it's the foundation of our oral Torah you learn the source of all of our mitv the source of all of the things that we have that's our law that we apply to our life why do we wear SE SE the details of it why theine looks the way it does why it's black why it's Square why we keep all these uh different laws for Shabbat the source of how we arrive at all of this stuff isn't what's the final law meaning what's the best way that the decided to the opinion that we hold by that is that's what we hold by there are other uh that came after that we hold by as well they didn't change the law they just improvised the things based on times but for the most part the uh the gar is the source of things but there's an that the r took from the gar and took from the r for the most part all of the almost all of the is from the rambam and the rambam almost all of it is from theology uh well that's the thing what we talked about the beginning you're in essence living that 50/50 life living the 50/50 life where part of you secular part of you is religious eventually you're going to have to pick a choice eventually you have to pick a choice and the reason why is because initially that 50/50 life is convenient initially a 50-50 life is convenient where you go to Sho every day but you go to the beach once in a while eventually yet in the beginning is going to he not going to tell you listen go to Vegas every weekend yet starts you off with small sins what you think is small sins so he says listen you go to bigness every day go to bigness every day learn to every day learn to every day go to sh at least a few times a week go to sh every nice to your wife nice to my wife everything is good okay you want to go to beach uh I mean I did so many you know I think I deserve it I think I deserve to let I do so many you just mention all these that you just reminded me thank you for reminding me of all the that I do I learn T I go to I go t I'm nice to my wife I'm nice to my kids I didn't kill them everything is good I'm I go to beach what's the big deal I deserve it I deserve it's a gift it's a gift to myself say it's a gift small so initially he say one small sin could also be I could watch TV for an hour a day it could also be I could read the secular newspaper it could also be I could read some a secular book for an hour a day secular book it's not always the beach starts off something small one book then it's another book then it's three books then it's l t one beach trip that's once a month then it's twice a month then it's every weekend then you went away to the beach on Shabbat but you tell it's okay to go to the beach on Shabbat because you aren't driving you rented a house on the beach that happens to be on Shabbat big deal but you didn't drive on Shabbat Shalom goes in so the the the Crooked ideology of being eventually eventually it becomes zero eventually you make enough sin that whatever meet what you're doing it's not going to help you I'll get you some reward in this world maybe even get you a uh some benefits in shamim they're going to help you have a more time in this world to live but as far as ganeden and you have nothing in common nothing why because already a person gets to a point where they start making the small sins become big sins what is a big sin a sin that it's called K once a person starts making a KET sin on a regular basis it doesn't matter what mitv he's making so for example if a person is a big b gives away a million dollars a year cash to Yesa another million dollars a year to whatever $2 million Year big he goes to twice a day twice a day no less never misses except when he's on trip to Vegas he does is each one is $3,000 rash best in the world his sons go to the best Yesa in the world best Yesa in the world his wife great everything but but but he doesn't keep Shabbat doesn't keep Shabbat everything's worthless why it's is considered an idol worshiper in the eyes of hem the is good he'll get reward for in this world his kids are going to be good they'll go to G but unless he does Chu and keep Shabbat no good so that Wicked mentality that the yet convinces you to have which is to start off small that's normal that's what he does he's not going to tell you to become an idol worshiper on day one he not going to tell you listen let's go to uh be Christians no he's going to tell you listen let's go listen to some uh Rabbi that says that you have to pray through him the rabbi understand next um sces also then why doesn't just say any fish that has scales is every every fish that has scales has fins and every fish that has fins doesn't necessarily have scales sometimes they do sometimes they don't so if you're asking why doesn't it say that every fish that has scales is kosher uh is because we have to determine what's a fish has to have fins because there are other things in the world that have scales or what looks like scales but they're not necessarily fish so we have to determine we have to the Torah is allowing us to elaborate on for us to understand the definition of a fish that's at least one reason that I could think of um why how come sometimes you say like blast sh and bless his name like as it's like another thing do that bless Hashem and bless his name I mean it's more is there are several things to uh he has Hashem has an infinite amount of positive attributes an infinite amount of good that he gives us to the world so in essence you are complimenting multiple traits that he has he's one but he has multiple good traits so for example I could say bless uh your ambition and your wisdom even though you're still one person Hashem blessed you with wisdom and also you have ambition the wisdom is to ask good questions like you're asking the ambition is to come to 12:00 at night how old are you 16 16 see see see this is this is this this gives me hope 16y old to come to sh at 12:00 at night what excuses you people have okay the two party system in America seems to be a reflection of and idolatry for the Liberals and idolatry for the conservative given that they build their their system or their value ideology on the Christian Bible and and the Lial completely reject anything thats with religion okay I mean government as far as far as Government just so you know in general democracy as a whole is anti- Torah democracy as a whole doesn't matter whether it's liberal or it's conservative or it's Democrats or it's uh Republicans or it's whatever all of them democracy as a whole is anti- Torah the Torah does not believe does not have a democratic system the the Torah is monarchy in initially it was supposed to be just AEM being our King but am wanted a king wanted an actual physical King we talked about it in last week's sh on Wednesday that am asked for a physical King and hasm says okay you want a king have a king but just know that your king is going to have rules one of those first rules that he's going to have to have a seph t with him a scroll of Tor with him at all times why to teach him so the uh the Torah has it's an in essence a monarchy system it's just one leader that is selected by Hashem in in essence for him to do what Hashem is telling them to do so all uh political systems communism uh socialism whatever all of them they're all against the tah in one way or another uh but again this is also going to end when mashia is going to come when the king mashia is going to come there's not going to be any of this stuff not going to be any election system it's not going to be any political system it's not going to be a government not going to be any of that stuff all that stuff is going to disappear very quickly how do the in like the mid how do they like take tin little verse like n well that's that's the m so the uh the original tah that we got at Mount sa that was three parts remember you asked some questions last week I showed you the uh a few sources in the tat where it's says that we got several things in Mount sa we got the written Torah that's obvious we got up to up to and the reason why it was up to and not the entire Five Books of Moses is because the entire Five Books of Moses was beyond the time of where they were so if they hem would have given them Beyond they would have known the future so he can't tell them the future they wouldn't have sinned they wouldn't have done a lot of things so he gave up to because is The Ten Commandments is exactly the time that we got the Tor and teach us that over the next 40 years that am is was in the desert AEM from time to time would uh tell uh uh mosu to write another par another another he would add to it eventually before he died he finished the entire Five Books of Moses so that was the WR tah the uh Ten Commandments first set mosu broke second set stayed intact both of them both of them went into Aron KES the broken set and the non-broken one and last but not least we got the oral Torah the oral tah was in essence the foundation of Judaism it's the it's all of the laws the details of all of the laws and all of the midashim all of the uh the background Story the behind the scenes the WR T tells you a very very simple brief message that the oral Torah explains so the uh written Tor says put on to between your eyes the oral Tor says what is to to is what isine are these squares that have to be made from a kosher animal that have to be black have to be cut in a specific uh shape of square only cannot be round cuz round is the way of the uh anti oral Tora people like the Kites and Sadducees uh and uh so we can't have round it has to be square and so on and so forth uh so the written Torah tells you the law the oral Torah explains the law explains the details of the law why who when what and so on and so forth so part of that oral Torah is the mid uh so the uh there's and there's also the background story so for example if you read or mid about what's actually happened last week uh in last week's par with abrah ainu uh you'll see that there's a wealth of information beyond what the written Torah says meaning the details of the war of abah ainu how he beat all the kings yet four Four Kings meaning four nations were strong enough to beat five nations which already is shows the power of these four nations and then you have abam beating all of them him and elzar how so the mid says that had special where hasem gave him a special blessing to you take uh um sand from the ground beach sand or any sand he throw WR it you know how many grains of sand is in one one handful is millions millions and millions of grains in every handful of sand you don't have to be a tractor to pick up a lot of sand one handful of sand is millions and millions of grains of sand and Hashem when he would throw it in the air hem would turn each one of them into a spear and the spear would go directly to the Target no missing so this is like the ultimate uh atomic bomb without the atomic part so that's how you beat all of them and so on and so forth so the the background stories are part of the oral Torah uh that's part of our Mas that we got on Mount sa if hasem would have told mosenu to write everything then it would present two problems if hasem told M to write the oral Torah the two problems will be as such number one the details of Judaism that hasm did not want to disclose to the all of the nations would now be available to everyone at ease so even now when you want to learn the real details of Judaism you have to learn some really difficult books like the and so on and so forth so for example a lot of go fight me because there's a couple of jokes to rabbis that uh say that everyone's allowed to keep Shabbat even though rambam specifically says a non-jew that keep Shabbat gets Heavenly death penalty not allowed to keep Shabbat if you're not Jewish it's one of the gifts that hasem gave to only that's what he says it's a gift between me and you not me and everyone so anyway there a couple of people misguided some uh people and told them they could keep Shabbat which in essence is a violation of the noahide laws one of them is stealing they're stealing a Mitzvah they're stealing something that's not theirs and Noah that violates the noahide laws is death penalty so anyway so there's many go that say they're keeping Shabbat and I try to explain to them not to keep Shabbat many times they listen bem or if they want to keep Shabbat then I help them convert to Judaism just be a Jew then but many times they don't want to listen many times they don't want to listen and I just disassociate myself with them I don't talk to them anymore uh and the reason why is because it just becomes officially a waste of my time you're not going to listen to me even even if you're a Jew you're not going to listen to me I don't want to talk to you there just there's no point I'm we're not not trying to make friends I'm not looking for fans this is I'm not a celebrity I'm trying to help you you don't want my help you want to listen to some stuff don't go find somebody else it's not uh no skin off my back so especially if that person is not Jewish and the reason why is because I'm not obligated to him I'm obligated to the Jew so the Jew all chase a lot more than a non-jew so anyway so many times the non-jew is not going to listen and he's going to continue keeping Shabbat what's his uh what's the uh uh special Mercy that Hashem has on him special Mercy that hm has on him that he hasn't killed him yet what's the mercy is that in reality without learning all of the details of the it's impossible for you to keep Shabbat meaning you're definitely violating it even if you think you're keeping it even as a Jew so hasem has Mercy on many of these go that are keeping Shabbat because they're not really keeping Shabbat they're breaking Shabbat they don't know how to keep it so the oral Tora teaches us the details of how to keep Shabbat how to keep kosher how to keep there are over a thousand that go into your that you put on every day there's over a thousand that go into making thousand so we're talking about a lot of lot of details to the law all of those details we got a mount goinging to something that a person that's trying to kill someone and he goes forward and he doesn't succeed he doesn't deserve to die right so if it's a Jew someone that someone that tries to sin but doesn't succeed as a Jew he's not judged for for for the sin because he didn't succeed but a non-jew one of the uh downsides is that hem punishes them even for trying hem punishes a non-jew for even trying to sin even thinking the sin he judges them for that so it's it's even though the non-jew has less mitv it's not such an easy life it's not so it's not as easy as it sounds it's much more difficult than it seems like it's not just simple seven mitv and you have gedin it's much more difficult than people think it is so that's why I tell people anyone that likes Torah likes hem and everything else I have no idea why you would stay a non-jew if you can convert many people want to convert but they can't either because their spouse is not ready or they can't afford to move to a Jewish Community or so on and so forth so those people should pray to Hashem for special assistance to make it easier for them to convert uh and hasem will answer their prayers at some point just be patient with hasem and be faithful if you are faithful and your patient Hashem will answer your prayers at some point but um for anyone that can convert and doesn't is a complete fool complete fool because why wouldn't you want to be part of the purpose of creation like it just it doesn't make sense so obviously if someone can convert and doesn't con convert that just means they don't really realize the the value of it and that's why sometimes I actually have a few people that are not Jewish and I told them specifically there are certain things that they're not allowed to do and they keep doing it so I just stop talking to them they could send me a million and a half messages I'll never answer them already I'm swamped already I still am answering emails from July I'm already swamped and overwhelmed and I don't know how I'm going to ever catch up uh even the you know I had some help and uh you know some of that help has gone down in the last few weeks so already I'm swamped already I'm behind so now once you get to a point where you're just just not going to listen to me not only am I not not only you already it's tough for me to help everybody now just I'm not going to help you period because there's no time there's no time for debates I'm not looking for debates like people tell me oh why don't you debate this guy why don't you debate that guy I don't have time for the debate I'm trying to save people I don't care about debate I'm not looking for Honor oh why don't you debate this Christian guy for what what a good what is it going to do is anyone going to do chuva because I debate some idiot that believes some guy died and now everybody else cancels the Torah like is it is that like even logical I can't debate crazy people I'm not going to fix crazy because of words if he wants to be crazy let him be crazy there's no debate oh why don't you debate that what is that rash that why don't you debate him for what he's a psychopath the guy is M he's he's a mental institution patient he's he's not a normal person I'll be afraid for my life with somebody like that in the same room he's he's not he's not all there he's something wrong with him there's nothing the debate there what's it for what for what for what what purpose will it serve huh what purpose will it serve who will do chuva because of that debate all followers what followers they all Christian they all looking for an excuse to be an idol worshipper what followers they're not looking for the truth they're looking for the truth they' be looking elsewhere not looking for him anyone that's looking for the truth may have a stop sign he may he may be part of the direction but no one will stay there why because within five minutes anyone logical person sees this guy and the weird ways his face moves when he talks and you could clearly see the guy is sick the guy is sick he's not and aside from that he's not exactly brilliant he's not like a he's an idiot actually he says stupid things doesn't make sense same thing with some people that are rabbis there this very very popular Rabbi that I mentioned all the time but I just don't mention his name cuz it's just too much of a problem but anyone that's a normal person should not be listening to these people they're idiots I mean I don't know what to tell you I'm not exactly claiming to be uh biggest in the world but I don't know I could tell an idiot when I see one there's just certain people just if you read what the Torah says you see what this guy says it's two different things he can't be right the Torah wrong cannot be a guy says God spoke to me and told me thank you you you still listen to him you have something more wrong with you than he does he's crazy what's your excuse he's crazy he thinks God speaks to him he thinks God speaks to him and tells him thank you why I mean okay he's crazy he's crazy what's your excuse for continuing to listen to him oh no he only did it once what do you think craziness goes away like a headache so that's the thing it's like people have to like people have to like step up a little bit people to step up stop you know making excuses that's the thing so I think I think that now it's a time for us to step up be theu that's in US be the s menu that's in us take it seriously go all the way stop being half secular I'm not saying you have everyone has to become a rabbi but stop being half secular you don't have to be a rabbi in order to be religious you don't have to be a raban in order to be religious but the secular mentalities that people have where everyone's aspiring to be some Superstar or some celebrity or some Tycoon that's not a Jewish mentality that's not Judaism you never ever see abuu mavid any of the any of theik ever say to hmm make me Rich never never not even SCH not even SCH The Riches of all of them they said that the streets had an overwhelming amount of gold in the streets when SCH was was was King there was gold in the streets there was one king go King that had some wood that needed to build a better mikdash wood that's special wood needed to build says it's not that didn't have any money you just you want this specific type of wood and had it what was his payment what did he give him as a payment he gave him six cities six cities but says wasn't happy why you not happy says because the six cities were full of gold the six cities were full of gold meaning the people in the city were billionaires so no one wanted to listen to him that's why he was unhappy but it's all his no no he wants people to be servants the point I'm trying to say is that schl had cities cities full of gold Bill Gates will be an employee City's full of gold he never prayed for money never prayed for money you understand so if you're praying to be rich far if you're praying for some type of Fame and Fortune far I'm not saying you have to be some loser in the corner homeless but again if you can talk to Hashem you talk to the King of Kings ask for something meaningful ask for something that's going to last ask for something meaningful that's going to actually carry you somewhere do something for you car is not going to do anything for you house is not going to do anything for you like money is not it's not going to do anything for you I'm telling you it's not you want to try it try it how many celebrity stories do you have that succeeded how many celebrities does the world say ah that guy is a winner huh how many guys maybe they've done some good things but as a life Torah life it's far from it even people that have done great like uh those two uh people what's the name Brad Pit and Angelina Jolie they both gave a ton of they [Laughter] both they're a mess [Music] [Applause] [Music]