Appreciate What You Have!

There was a guy that came to a rav. He says, "You know, I'm having issues with [music] with shidduchim. Unfortunately, it's uh you know, every person I know basically has an issue here and there in this parashah." And the rav said a ma'aseh they could think of. He said, "Remember when your son got got engaged and you all felt pissen with her pissen and the the machutanim said this and then he didn't do it and then the hall was like that or didn't come like this and this didn't work out." You come to the chasanah like with a with a heavy heart. He said, "Hashem Baruch Hu gave you a gift and you didn't like, wow, unbelievable. Okay, so there's a problem there. You you let the problem overtake you and you were full you you focused on the problem instead of the the unbelievable gift that Hashem Baruch Hu gave you. So right now he's not interested in giving you another gift. When when the gift comes, remember when the gift comes, you take it and you besimcha gedolah uma'od and you have Yesharah is always going to seep in there and try to knock out that gift and put down the gift for you. So you have to know how to like concentrate on the on the tov."