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Approaching Sinai | Rabbi Shmuel Gordin | May 19 2026
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The scene is as follows.
When the Israel have arrived at Har
Sinai,
Hashem is speaking to Moshe,
and he issues four sentences as
introduction to what's about to occur.
And one would think that these four
sentences are important because they
would reveal
lessons that Hashem wants Bene Israel to
think about as Matan Torah takes place.
So, let's look at these four sentences.
Top of the page on page one, they have
them all together.
Um, Moshe Allah Elo Elohim.
Moshe ascended
the mountain.
Vayikra Elo Hashem min hahar lemor,
ko tod tomar leveis Yaakov vesagid
livnei Yisrael.
And God called to him from the mountain
and said, "So shall you say to the house
of Yaakov,
and speak to the
people of Israel.
Bene so, children of Israel.
Od os
atem reitem asher asiti
doing Ashkenazis. Atem reisem asher
asiti lemitsrayim veasa schem al kanfei
nesharim
vaavi eschem elai.
You saw what I did to the Egyptians. You
saw what happened.
And I've
brought you here on wings of eagles,
and I've brought you to me.
Ve'atah im shamoa tishme'u bekoli
ushmartem et briti vihyitem li segulah
mikol ha'amim ki li kol ha'aretz.
And now,
if you will hearken to my ways, if you
will listen to my ways,
and guard my covenant,
you will be for me segulah.
Chosen,
precious,
whatever that word actually means.
Mikol ha'amim ki li kol ha'aretz.
Because the whole world is mine.
Vatem Kili Malachas Kohanim the
Kadosh you will be for me a
kingdom of priests and a holy nation.
These are the words that God said to
Bene Israel, that that you should say to
Bene Israel.
Okay.
What we're going to do is we're going to
take these four sentences and we're
going to parse them
phrase by phrase.
And we're going to see that there are
powerful powerful lessons that emerge
from these sentences that don't
immediately meet the eye but require
explanation.
Let's start with number one and what
I've done is I've
repeated the sentence to make it easy
for you down at the bottom of the page.
Umosha al Elo Elohim, this is the first
phrase.
Vayikra Elav Hashem min hahar more.
Moses went up to God and Hashem called
to him from the mountain. Okay, stop
there.
What what's strange?
It's backwards, right? It's backwards.
Chicken and the egg, right? In other
words,
it should have said and God called to
Mosha from the mountain
and Mosha ascended the mountain.
It says here Mosha ascended the mountain
and then called God called to him. So
first of all, what what would give him
the right to ascend and what was his in
what was his his intention upon
ascending?
Second of all, why does God have to call
to him
after he's already there?
Right? So it's not clear. It's really
not clear.
So we have a variety of different
interpretations. If you look at the next
page,
we're going to look at three.
The Ibn Ezra says and Hashem called to
him from the mountain
actually informs us that Hashem had
already called to Moshe. Ibn Ezra says,
"I'm going to solve this problem right
away.
Don't read it
that Hashem called to him afterwards.
It's an indication that Hashem had
already called to him, and that's why he
ascended the mountain. Moshe, says Ibn
Ezra, Ezra would never have ascended
without prior permission. Okay?
The Ramban.
The Ramban holds differently.
The Ramban says,
"Picture the scene.
Bene Israel have arrived at Har Sinai,
and there is a cloud surrounding the top
part of the mountain.
Moshe has gone up. Moshe ascends
only to the edge of the cloud.
That's what it means Vaya'al Moshe.
So, Moshe went up,
and then, says the Ramban, Vayikra. Then
God called him, "Come on into the Come
on into the cloud."
So, in other words, it Ramban says it's
exactly as it appears. That cloud was
there for all the days prior to to Matan
Torah, and Moshe ascends to the point,
and then God lets him enter the cloud.
The Sforno.
The Sforno doesn't really address the
question so much as as
underscore the importance of the
picture.
He says the text is underscoring
that the difference between
Moshe and Bene Israel at this moment.
At this moment, what are the people
worried about? Putting up their tents,
taking care of their children.
What is Moshe doing?
He's going off alone
to meet God.
And the Sforno's point, I think, is very
very interesting.
Because
I think what it underscores
is the lonely mission of Mosha.
Right? In other words, the picture of
Mosha ascending that mountain alone
and the lonely mission of so many people
who take leadership roles within
communities.
You know, I've often said a Havdalah El
Abdallah said when it comes to rabbis
and shuls,
it's crazy.
You hire someone to lead you
a year later you vote whether they're
leading well or not.
If they led well, some of the people are
not going to be happy because they've
got them angry, right? So, you how do
you how do you maneuver that?
Someone who did it in one place for 34
years, I'm telling you it's not easy.
All right. Yes. And why does it switch
between Elohim and YHVH?
Good question. Good question.
Why is there the switch between Elohim
and Hashem?
I don't know. I would argue that maybe
Hashem is being used at
>> [clears throat]
>> as the
to show the personalization
of Mosha's invitation. In other words,
Hashem is softer,
it's quieter, right? Elohim is stronger
and therefore perhaps I equal I love
Hashem. He went up to Elohim. He went up
thinking he was going to and whatever he
encountered I'll encounter, but Hashem
called him.
That's what I would think. Yes.
It's still not clear to me how did Mosha
know to go
up to the Okay. Good question. All
right, so that brings us to the last
point that I would make on this phrase.
There's a lesson here.
Mosha Rabbeinu
always takes initiative.
He always takes the first step.
Take a Think about it for a minute.
The The Moshe's birth is announced
before Moshe's even born. Vayelech ish
mibes Levi vayikach es bas Levi.
Vayelech
Someone went A father went. A man went.
He goes out to look at the slaves,
right? Nobody tells him to do that. He
goes out on his own.
When he's at Yisro's house and he get
encounters the burning bush, the Torah
is very clear.
The Torah says Vayar Hashem ki sar
lirot.
God saw that Moshe turned aside to
to see to to know what was going on and
then God begins to speak to him.
Moshe was always taking the first step
and that's what he's doing here.
He says if we're here, there's got to be
a reason we're here. We're here at a
mountain. I'm going up.
And and
he's bound His life is bounded by that
word Vayelech.
It's before he's born and then at the
end of his life it says Vayelech Moshe
and it doesn't tell us where he went. So
it's perhaps telling us specifically
that it's important to know that he goes
that he went that he did. Yes. Um
Moshe is always concerned with the
spiritual aspects of things. It goes
back when May Israel left Israel, the
May Israel were busy collecting the
wealth. Right.
>> And he was busy
uh taking the bones of Joseph. Correct.
Correct. This this The idea of Moshe
Rabbeinu doing doing something else
while everybody is doing their thing is
very real. It's very real. Okay, I'll
take two more comments cuz I see hands
up and then we'll stop there. Yeah.
You know,
so according to the Midrash which says
that both Hashem already spoke to him,
could it be that Moshe went up to
Elohim, but it was Hashem the rock and
he did his rocking and he that allowed
him to come up. It could be it's sort of
what I'm saying. In other words, that
that Hashem the picture of him going up
to Elohim which is me that
says whatever I'm going to encounter
I'll encounter and the rock calls him
in.
Okay, one last yes.
Okay, what at what point do they go show
on the canyon follow up? There are lots
of different opinions about that. So
it's I'm going to leave that for now.
All right. Okay, now
um
if possible, please hold the questions
and comments till the end. I will give
you guys time and if not, if it's really
urgent and you feel you have to say it
then raise your hand. Okay, now next. So
what we have here and so what we have
here is Moshe
lesson the final lesson we learned is
the very important lesson
and that is Hashem waits for us to take
the first step.
Where we have to we have to initiate. We
can't simply sit back and wait for
something to happen.
Like Moshe we have to move ahead.
Okay, now but what?
I can't hear you.
I can't hear you. I'm sorry.
Right, only Moshe can go up. That's
correct.
Okay, all right. Well, he's but he does
not command him at this point to come up
the mountain.
He they are they are they're there and
Moshe could well say, okay, I'm supposed
to go up the mountain. I'll wait till
Hashem calls me.
But he doesn't. Okay, all right. Again,
please hold to the end. Now now let's
turn to the next comment.
Okay.
Kosomar le bait Yaakov
usagade livnei Yisrael.
So shall you say
to the house of Jacob and speak to the
speak to the house of Jacob and say to
the children of Israel. Now, what's
going on here?
There is a the What is the most famous
explanation for that? That means Yaakov
Right. That means Yaakov is the women
and and and and benei Yisrael is the
men.
Now, that is that is Chazal's famous
interpretation and it may well be.
What's interesting, I think, and again,
there's a hidden message here.
Kadosh Baruch who is recognizing
different roles for different people,
different strokes.
Men and women are different.
Years before there was that book, what
is it? Men from Mars and women from
Venus or something like that, right? The
Torah Allah said, men are are from Mars
and women are from Venus. In other
words, we each have our roles to play.
And
looking at what's happening to society
around us now,
where
your gender becomes a choice
as a child,
this is this is really very very
troubling.
Right? I don't mean to don't mean to be
flippant about people who are struggling
with things, but that becomes it when
when when it becomes just the way to do
it,
then then you're destroying something
that really exists or supposed to exist.
Okay. Now, and again, I the struggle to
determine the exact parameters of those
roles are are real. In other words,
what can
Can a woman teach? Can a woman
What what and we're becoming more and
more aware
of avenues for women to make a real
impact on the community at large. That
doesn't negate
their primary responsibility of the
home.
Okay, so that's the
That's what the the Mechilta, the
Medrash, and that's the most famous
explanation.
The Ibn Ezra There are two different
versions of the Ibn Ezra this. The Ibn
Ezra
Ha Ro'ch and the
Ibn Ezra Ha Kazar. The long Ibn Ezra and
the short one.
These These
uh suggestions emerge from each of them
somehow. Not Not every suggestion Two of
the suggestions are in one, one's in the
other. Some suggest that the house of
Jacob, Yaakov, refers to the assembled
Israelites
while the phrase children of Israel
refers to their future progeny.
Kol Samar Levei Yaakov, to the people
who are here,
and this will be mirrored in another
bris that takes place at the end of
Moshe's life.
Come those who are here and those who
are not here.
It's incumbent upon them to be part.
And they're they're being offered that
that gift.
Others say that the phrase
speaks of the Israelites
and their descendants, and the second
phrase speaks about the elders. In other
words,
speak to the community one way
and speak to the Zekenim another way.
You can You can be more specific. You
can be more detailed when you're
teaching the Zekenim, and that This is
Again, I like to see universal lessons
from things. This underscores the job of
a teacher to recognize who he's talking
to or she's talking to, and to realize
what that those people to teach at the
level
that's appropriate for them.
So that's that's next.
In the final analysis, and this is very
it's sort of funny.
Sforno says even Ezra, I don't know what
the whole the fuss is about. What's the
big deal?
The Torah in in Tanakh, you often find a
double language. When Hashem wants to
stress something or people want to
stress something, they'll say it twice.
So that's what's happening here perhaps.
God is saying it twice.
And he says he he sort of dismisses all
of the other explanations.
And finally the Netziv The Netziv builds
on
the first explanation that the Ibn Ezra
suggested that you speak to the children
to the to the um to the nation and
differently to the Zekenim. He says
there are two times
that the Bnei Israel respond to all of
this.
One time they say "Kol everything that
Hashem said na'aseh."
And the second time they say "Na'aseh
venishma." which of course is the famous
one. The Netziv suggests that two
different
those two different responses came from
two different sources.
Nishma came from the people.
And na'aseh I mean na'aseh came from the
people.
And na'aseh venishma, we're going to do
it and we're going to study it we're
going to learn it because lishma in
biblical language doesn't just mean to
hear.
It means to comprehend. It means when
you say "Shema Yisrael." you're not just
saying "Oh hear, hear." you're saying
"Listen.
Understand. Take it in."
Okay.
Then there's a one final again, I giving
my final position on this. In addition
to all the explanations
there's another very very easy way to
understand the phrases here.
What's happening now is a huge
transition.
And that's a transition from the
patriarchal era to the national era.
And in many ways that is a transition
from family
to nation.
But,
what's fascinating is that even when our
nation is being born, Hakadosh Baruch Hu
stresses family over and over again.
What
Just the most basic, all right? It's the
night before you're leaving Yitziat
Mitzrayim. The night before you're
leaving Egypt, and
your nation is about to be born,
right?
You would expect declarations of
independence, constitutional
conventions, committee meetings. Thank
God there weren't committee meetings or
they'll still be there. You would expect
some sort of national
buzz. What does God tell you to do?
Go home and have a meal.
That's exactly what the Korban Pesach
was. It was a family meal.
And it was There was no mizbeach. There
was no It was
consumed by the unit that was created
for its consumption. In other words,
what you did is you Families took
came together and they also brought in
other people as well, and that became
the unit that would eat that Korban
Pesach.
So, what's happening is Hakadosh Baruch
Hu was saying something powerful to to
us.
He's saying number one, as you become a
nation,
don't forget that you were a family.
Number one.
I think he's saying it is saying even
deeper.
As you become a nation,
stay a family [clears throat] as well.
Always Always be a family. Understand
that this is this this national era is
not this cut and dry and black and
white. It is It's basically I want you
to to that that sense of being a a raven
zebra zebra. I want you to be family.
And therefore, what he's saying is as
you go forward
base Yakov
bene Israel, both.
You are the house of Jacob and the
children of Israel.
And I think that that's very very
important. And And the final comment on
that, and I've said this to you before,
I think, is that
if anyone were to ask me what the
greatest failure of
Diaspora Jewry is,
I would not say assimilation, cuz
assimilation is a symptom.
I would say the greatest failure is the
abdication of the family unit's
responsibility to teach children.
You You farm it out to other people,
right? You need to farm it out to the
school. You farm it out. And And in
reality, where does the child learn the
most?
In the family, at home.
And therefore, God is stressing that as
well, that your the health of your
national being
will be dependent upon the health of
each individual family.
Okay. So, that's how I would suggest is
another way of looking at this famous
double language.
All right. Now, the next phrase.
It's at the bottom of page number three.
Atem res mes asher asim mitzrayim
was ra eschema kanfe neshurim avias
melai. So, the first thing I want to say
is
God opens by ad ad by
admitting, not not or recognizing,
that's better. By recognizing what they
must be thinking.
They're They just saw powerfully
destructive acts.
They just saw things You saw what I did
I know you saw I what I did today. I'm
not I'm not dismissing that. You are I'm
aware you saw that. I'm aware you felt
that. I'm aware you're frightened.
But, understand that I bore you on wings
of eagles. And the rabbis say that and I
don't know if this is true.
I And someone a zoologist will have to
tell me, but that eagles are the only
birds that
pet place their young on their backs as
opposed to hold them down below.
And that's because they want to shield
the young from arrows and and and slings
or whatever that's coming from the from
the world. So, I the image of taking you
on on wings of eagles is is really
beautiful.
But, there's something else happening
here.
And again, we have to remember that
these sentences are being said right
before Matan Torah. So, the the the
depth of the messages are
are real.
This is underscoring a critical
balance between two different two
different features
in our relationship with God.
It's the balance between yirah and
ahavah.
It's the balance between fear and awe
and distance
and ahavah love.
God inviting you into the into the
cloud.
And they would seem to be contradictory.
In other words, how how can you fear and
love
an entity? It's very hard.
But, there's one human relationship I've
told this to you before one human
relationship that mirrors this.
Parents and children.
And if you take a look in the Torah,
you find that the Torah actually has two
separate places where it tells you how
to relate to parents.
The first one is the famous one. Kavod
et aviv v'imo,
right in the 10 10 declarations, the 10
commandments.
But, there's another one which is ish
imo v'aviv tira.
Right? Fear. So, we what kavod the
rabbis, that's the that's the warm one.
That's the
the show them honor, show them
tira.
Fear them or hold them in respect, hold
them in awe.
I
I would always
it always jarred me
when my friends as a child would call
their parents by their first name.
I just I just couldn't deal with it. It
just, you know, and then I made a mis-
when I became a rabbi, I said to my
colleagues, you know, I'm going to let
I'm going to be Shmuel, Rabbi Shmuel.
They said, "No, you can't do that here.
You you've got to maintain the balance.
You've got to maintain the distance as
well as the closeness. And that's a
that's something that
who is underscoring here when he says,
"You saw what I did to the Egyptians?
And now I brought you here. Strength and
warmth."
It's interesting to note, by the way,
that the transition from the first
generation of Israelites to the second
is a transition from fear to love.
Because what you have is this generation
can't go into the land because all they
saw was power, power, power, power, and
they feel powerless.
The next generation is nurtured
by the clouds of glory, by the manna.
So, they are
understanding that there's another
dimension to the relationship with God.
And that may be why, by the way, and
giving you a
a uh
clue to something that we may speak
about later depending if we get there
and that is
Moshe hits the rock.
Right?
But there's an earlier time when Moshe
speaks to the rock.
So why you know that that almost seems a
setup, right?
Telling him take your staff, stand by
the rock. You last time you hit the
rock, this time speak to the rock. Why?
Perhaps, and I heard this from from
another of many years ago. I don't
remember how much of it is his.
That this is Moshe was unable to make
the transition
from the generation of fear
to the generation of love.
And therefore
he this
By by the first time he's operating with
Dory and Tzi at Mitzrayim. He's looking
at the people and that God says to him
hit the rock.
Speak to them with strength. Speak to
them with power.
Second time God says to him speak to the
rock.
It's a different people. It's a
different nation.
And Moshe Rabbeinu perhaps, I mean it's
you know it's hard for us to to find you
know what what people do wrong, but
Moshe Rabbeinu perhaps looks out, sees
the people revolting again and says oh
no, here we go again and sees them just
as they were where where that's wrong.
That's not where they were. All right.
Okay.
So that's that's um
the balance at 10 reason. That's the
second possuk.
The at all
or this first part of the second possuk.
The at all you shall listen to my voice.
And you shall keep
my commandments,
my covenant.
And you shall be a treasure to me from
all the nations. You will be precious to
me from all the nations.
For the whole world is mine.
What phrase there sort of sticks out?
Key leak all ours, right? It sounds like
a contradiction, right? What? The whole
idea is I'm choosing you, right? Now,
first of all, let's understand this
defines what chosenness is. It's not
what everybody makes it into and
sometimes not understanding and
sometimes deliberately.
Chosenness is
follow my rules. You will be chosen if
you will be, right? This is the
introduction of the concept of Am
Segulah. This is where it comes from.
And and the Torah defines it right off
the bat. We are chosen for
responsibility.
We are chosen to do
and
It Is it conditional? It's a good
question. I don't know the answer to
that. I
Actually, yes. Yes, it's conditional. I
take that back. He's saying, "If you
listen to me, then you will fulfill your
role as a chosen people."
Now,
what's fascinating here, of course, is
the last that last phrase.
Key leak all ours seems to be a
contradiction of what comes before, not
not a support. Right, I'm choosing you
from everybody cuz everybody cuz
everyone's mine? Well, if everyone's
mine, then I shouldn't be choosing you.
So, what is he saying?
So, according to most commentaries,
he's saying, "Even though the whole
world is mine,
and I could have chosen anyone,
[clears throat]
I am choosing you." It's underscoring
the act of God choosing the Jews.
But, Rebbe Ovadiaf Sforno says something
fascinating. It's very beautiful.
He says, "You know what?
Key leak all ours is a message.
My choosing of you is not exclusive."
And And he said the way he puts it is
Hashem's choice is a matter of degree.
I'm choosing you because my relationship
with you will be stronger than my
relation or different than my
relationship with others. But guess
what? I relate to everybody. I am the
God of the whole world.
And that emerges over and over again in
Jewish thought. I mean, for example,
Shabbat.
Right?
Make Shabbat great again. Shabbat. All
right. So, Shabbat is unveiled twice in
the Torah.
The first time at the creation of the
world, the second time at the creation
of the Jewish nation.
That's underscoring that Shabbat speaks
to the world and it speaks to us. It's
not just And what we're what we're being
told here, according to the Sforno, is
don't think that I am choosing you
exclusively.
And as I've told you, it's it's really
unfortunate.
And it's understandable, particularly
certain as we look at the world around
us, that so many Jews will paint the
non-Jew with a with the same brush.
They're all the same. They're all this.
They're all that.
When in reality, we believe in Hasidei
Umot HaOlam. We believe people can be
righteous if they're not Jewish. What's
the proof? The proof is Sheva Mitzvot
B'nei Noach. The fact is we we basically
say to others you don't have to be like
us. You only have to keep certain moral
principles. And and people who do that
end up being Hasidei Umot HaOlam. And
even [clears throat] more, there are
those who do even more. I I
Like I said last week, I think, that um
I I would love to have the place in
heaven
that is occupied by the non-Jews who
saved Jews during the Holocaust.
That took a lot of guts.
That took a lot of courage. And I don't
know if I would have had that. I I often
I I often say that the biggest question
for me, an American-born Jew with
American-born parents, is not what would
I have done had I been a Jew in the
Holocaust, but what would I have done
had I been a German? What would I have
done had I been a Pole? Would I have
been one of those that had the courage
to stand up and to make a difference, or
would I have gone kept my even if I
didn't actively torment somebody, just
let it be.
So, here God is saying and and he
underscores this and this this concept
of God not being exclusive emerges
even earlier.
When Moshe when Avraham is told the Bris
bein ha'betarim,
God says to him, v'dor r'vi'i yashuvu
hena,
ki lo shalem avon ha'amori ad hena.
You should know,
the fourth generation of your children
will come back
because the Amorites won't their
iniquity will not have been full. What
does that mean?
It means you will not enter the land
until they they deserve to lose it.
And therefore, if you have to stay
slaves a little bit more,
do we'll do that. God will do that
because I'm not going to I'm not going
to deny their rights.
Now, that's a powerful thing.
And I I again, in looking at the world
around us and looking at our history,
it's understandable
that we talk about the sometimes
the way we do, but it's wrong.
We should recognize that we of all
religions are the most tolerant of all
religions. We're the only ones who
basically say you don't have to be like
us.
Right? Okay.
So, let's go on.
>> [snorts]
>> Assembly Segulah. Hold on a second.
Right. Then the next next line.
The attempt to be with a Mamleches
Kohanim
V'Goy Kadosh
Eleh Had'varim Asher Tidaber El B'nei
Yisrael Lemor.
El B'nei Yisrael. And you will be for me
a kingdom of priests
and a holy nation.
You know,
let's understand this is God speaking.
And therefore words are being chosen
for their intent, for their power.
What What is a Mamleches Kohanim and a
Kadosh?
So, let's let's start with the second
part.
What is
Kedusha in Jewish thought? Separateness.
Right?
Kedusha Kadosh to be Kadosh means to be
separate, means to be distinct. When God
sanctifies God sanctifies the Shabbos
only after creating all the other days
of the week because Shabbos has to be
different from the others.
Here too,
Hashem is saying, "I want you to be a
separate people."
But let's take a look at the beginning
of the sentence.
Mamleches Kohanim.
What was the role of the Kohanim?
To serve B'nei Yisrael, right? They were
They were
to take to to serve B'nei Yisrael, to
teach B'nei Yisrael. They were to um
to to fulfill the the the rituals that
you could not have everybody fulfill at
once. They were to stand there. So,
that's a Cohen.
So, what's Mamleches Kohanim?
Who are we Kohanim to?
The world.
Mamlachas Kohanim.
Uh the Rabbis say it. They say it so
clearly that
that
you have to wonder why we we keep
forgetting things like this.
The Rabbis say, "If you have to
How do you love God?"
How do you love God?
And one of the answers they give is
Sheyihyeh Shem Hashem
Ahuv Al Yedecha.
The name of God should become beloved
through you.
And they And they go on to say they
spell it out. If somebody learns and
studies and is brilliant scholar but
doesn't treat the people around him well
and and and and is is
not not sensitive to the people around
them,
then what?
Then he's Hillul Hashem.
And if he learns and etc. and he teaches
and he's kind and sensitive and and
tolerant of the others around him, then
that will be he will be a
that will be a Kiddush Hashem. And the
Rabbis spell it out.
And we often forget it that every time
you know, you don't I don't you don't
like hearing it but you have to hear it.
Every time we walk outside,
everybody is looking at us. We represent
the Jewish nation.
There was a a beautiful beautiful clip
that showed a tremendous Kiddush Hashem.
I don't I don't know if
if you saw it.
They some they did an experiment.
I don't know who it was. And they had
someone dress up, you know, they you
dress up in the costume like like a
carrot or like a this or like a that. So
they had someone dress up as like a
something.
And lie down
on the on the on the floor on the on the
sidewalk.
And they wanted to see
how people would react to this thing
lying on the sidewalk. Clearly a person
in the costume.
And they showed how nobody paid
attention.
They had people going around. They
actually had people going over
until two kids, young people from
Yeshiva with a yarmulke. As they came
said to them,
"Can we help you?"
And they helped them up.
Now that that is a monumental kidush
Hashem
because it shows what we what we should
be doing. You know,
jokes are sometimes said because they
[clears throat]
they mirror a reality that you would not
they they what they paint for us is
something that could [snorts] be
and we wish it wouldn't be. There's a
famous joke about somebody who has a
small refrigerator in the in the
hospital.
And one day he takes a
a there are a bunch of people who who
share the refrigerator. And one day he
takes a a carton of milk and he puts it
in
and he comes back the next day and part
of it's taken. Someone took some of it.
He says, "Oh, you know,
I I I really want to keep this as mine,
all right? I'm going to put on a sign my
name." And he puts his name on it and he
comes back the next day
a little more is taken.
He says, "You know, this is really
wrong." He puts up a sign, "Lo tiknof,
don't steal."
And there's a little more is taken.
Then he gets smart.
>> [clears throat]
>> He puts on a up a sign, "Not cholov
Yisrael."
And nobody touches it.
All right? So, we're we're laughing and
crying at the same time, I want you to
know. It's a great great because it it's
so so clearly could be, right? It's so
clearly could be.
And therefore, we we are forgetting our
mission. We're forgetting who we are
when that when we have that kind of
attitude. I go up to the country I
in the summers
we go up to a place in the country where
we have a little home and a place and
you know,
everyone on it's a it's a it's a um
Oh, no, it's not a bungalow colony. Oh,
they'll they'll kill you if you say
that. All right? It's not a bungalow
colony. It is a It is a vacation homes
uh setting, right?
Not so fancy not It was built by the guy
who built vacation home. I call it
vacation vacation village. I call it a
poor man's vacation village. In other
words, it's not not that ostentatious,
but everyone there
is from Brooklyn.
Everybody. Right?
They didn't I I and what happened? The
first Shabbos we were there
I walked into shul
and I sat down at the table.
And table was empty.
Soon it filled up with people
and the davening started.
These guys spoke over me, behind me,
around me, under me. Not a word. Not one
You I wasn't there. I It's not just that
they didn't didn't say hello. They I was
not there.
And now that's [clears throat] that I I
walked back into our unit and I said,
"Listen, you know,
we're going. We're leaving."
My wife said, "We paid good money. We're
staying." All right? And uh and
eventually they they had me give a shiur
to some women and then they took took
root and I give sheer every week, and
now they they they welcome us. But, you
know, the initial reaction should be I
see a stranger, I see somebody coming
that isn't, you know, I should say to
that person, "Hello, how are you? Who
are you? What Right? Right?" And and my
wife my wife thought I was exaggerating.
You know, she never believes me. So, she
she
she thought I was exaggerating, and we
went for a walk around the complex.
And we passed a couple of women, and she
said, "Good Shabbos."
And they looked at her like she was from
out of out of space.
Right?
Who are you saying good Shabbos Who's
You're saying good Shabbos to me? Who
are you? Right?
That's wrong. That's not the way it
should be. The way it should be is
Mamleches So, what is the balance being
created here now? Mamleches Kohanim
Vegoy Kadosh.
All right? You are a separate people,
but you are also you're a part of and
apart from the same time.
All right? And that's And that's the
balance that that again traces back to
Avraham Avinu saying to benei cheis geir
vetoshav anochi imachem, I am a citizen
and a stran- I'm a stranger and a
citizen here. Meaning what? I have to
balance. It's a
It's not an easy balance. I have to
balance what I can accept from an
outside society, and what I can give to
an outside society with my separateness
and my and my need to be separate. I
have to balance that. And and every
society struggles with that. What do you
let into your house? And now And now
things are invading the homes that are
that are really frightening. I I have a
a sister who was the head of a seminary.
There was a young lady who was in the
seminary and did very well and now is
married.
She
all of a sudden something turned, and
she started putting out false
information about the seminar,
about things that were happening.
And none of the none of the other stu-
students
say they said it's not true.
But she's putting this out on the line.
Now, that's that that There's no way to
My sister said to me, "How do I How do I
combat this? What do I do? What What do
I do?" And I I spoke to someone who I is
a friend of mine who's very involved
with internet things, and I said, "What
can she combat this?" And the answer
was,
"Not really. What you have to do is just
every time something is said, you have
to respond."
Problem is that what she did, which is
very smart, is she saw people who were
responding negatively to her, she made
her thing site private. So, he she could
say what she wants, and nobody can say
what they want. So, it it It's amazing.
It's amazing how you can destroy,
conceivably destroy, people's lives.
So, anyway, that's the the the I think
the culmination
of of this entire section.
There
Am Laches Kohanim v'Goy Kadosh, stranger
and citizen,
apart from and a part of at the same
time.
Okay, so we've looked at four sentences.
And these are the four the the the
The right title of the shiur should have
been God approaches Sinai,
as opposed to approaching Sinai.
Because what what is what's What are we
being told? This is the way that
Hakadosh Baruch Hu wanted to introduce
the event
that is the most important event in our
history,
the event that makes us a nation,
finishes the job of making us a nation,
and that brings morality to much of the
world.
And he These are the four sentences. Go
back and study them again. Maybe you'll
come up with other messages, but we I
believe that we've shared some very
powerful ones.
Okay, any question? Now, I'll take
questions or comments. Just a small
comment about the phrase "u'val Yisrael
v'Yakov" is again in the next verse.
Right, go ahead.
>> say "v'Yisrael
v'Yakov"? Why does it say "v'Yisrael
u'v'nei Yakov"? Why is that in the
U'v'nei Yisrael u'v'nei Yakov? Because
All right, because Yakov, I think, is
from the patriarchal era, which is the
era of the family.
So, it's Beit Yakov.
B'nei Yisrael, we become B'nei Yisrael,
we become a nation. That's who we are.
And therefore, the naturally you're
saying, "Speak to the family and speak
to the nation. Don't forget that you're
still a family."
Okay? All right, everybody. Have a Have
a
good Yom Tov and good Shabbos and a
meaningful tonight.