Attachment Theory in Chabad Chassidus - Torah Or Beshalach "Lechem Mishnah" #7

the yeshiva dotnet at last here at the end of the mine Murr where we're up to the last section the seal of the mine mare she goes back to the beginning of what he began with which was llaha Venini unless of Mishnah to understand let the mission in order to appreciate here how he goes back it's important to give a summation of the mahalo of this mind we're from the beginning that till this point in order to be able to put it all in context and then understand how he comes back here to the left her mission and what the ultimate point is the mine merit said he wanted on the stand less commissioner and the different ways in which people hold their left commissioner LP niggler copy Holika one is above the other one col above the other and I'll be mr. a result says together equal zeb it's Adso not zelda pisa not one bred on the other one but one near each other and the surface is just like many different men hug them that you find this one does it this way you ever saw two people cut the collar the same way everyone has their my sisters one holds the colossus how lhasa the knife here the night they make society makes a big statement that's most of them ok these are things in our v home has a different Mahalo that's how long the mother-son has denied on some ice in with Menasha an abortion with which Baker kisara shine the most so it's not so Pasha right right but the exit so you have different things you know some people create things in their own minds when you're dealing with the way it's described in a lock and the way it's described in Kabbalah those differences are very very significant they have very profound symbolism in order to understand this he said we have to go into the concept of benching versus a mosque and here he raised the following question when it comes to benching and that is the Gemara says a mass after breakfast of Memphis the Menai in the business are Muslim Anatolia generally all blessings and Judaism are rabbinic Lee obligated not biblical all brothers that we make were instituted by the rabbi's financial crisis a cannula or at a later point including all the prophets we make in the morning to pull parisa chakra all the brothers we make the for mitzvahs one the earth villain Mahovlich national Shabbos dish for any other brother and the tillis lulav Saffiano lob the canonical also make micro Magilla these are all Madeira Bona rabbinic obligations the same is true with Bertha's a mitzvah the same is true with brothers would make me for food all brothers that we make are rabbinical II introduced not biblically the exception to that is the Gemara says Beatrice at Ida and refers a maza the brush will be for learning Tara to say my shame Acura of a goda Lola can look and Britta's amaz in the brothel we don't before we the brush we make after week success in a curve we are called to the servitor will act as a similar cackle or it's a toy version ensemble so we know that business a muslin is minute rated says clearly you should eat you'll be satiated and you should thank you should bless God for the good land that he has given you and we say this invention we quote this brush this pasta convention from purchase a curve so the Mars has been eyeing the breakfast a annotate the Gomorrah specifically then concludes and continues and says how divisive October after refers to the first Brock has on asylum cool a bit over because you thank our shun for the food Azam massacre then we continue Alka orit's Zuber thesaurus know you love hashem elokenu shin cattle of is say no arid scam de allah or 'it's that's the second part of the básico house of asaroth of rafters at Chemeketa allah or its when i'm only thanking for the food with thanking for the land allah or its but then we also describe not just on my audits but rather our our it's hot over my husband actually don't accept a russian awesome off tomorrow says that played with zoo by the you shall I that refers to Wyman the bass emitters which is described as how hard I tell you about Zeb olive woman it's not just a land it's a good land it represents the capital of the land which was a value the epicenter of the land the spiritual epicenter them which is the base I'm English that's the third run of course as we know the same tomorrow so says the same arm in Broca's mum cast that moisture instituted for the Jewish people the first broker when the man came down they had to eat and bench because it's already after Martin 30 after bench again bench in his minatoya so then he gives them business a Muslim which broker the first one is on the sidelines yoshua when they go there to stroll gives them the second broker which is thanking our shun for the land moisture is not in the land hills and thank for the land they don't have the land they're heading to the left and then governance Lima doesn't care and settles you or shall I am the Jews were not initially until Nova de Mello right goodness by the elusive dove it created the center of the country you're shall I sowed oven and his sons Lima they introduce your client introduces the base I'm English right dov it speaks about Rackham are similar que no use I'll do so I am your Schlemmer speaks about seeing by them it's not drafted by them it's thanking it's not the look ah today we save actually much similar can I solo matter and then you have the fourth broker which is added by the Rambo is later after the destruction of the second Mesa McNish after the revolt of bar Kosovo around 130 after the Common Era beta is the last fortress to the Jewish people the last revolt that they attempt against the Romans and when it's defeated and the Romans don't allow the Jews to be buried and years later they allow them to be varied and they the bodies are not decomposed they make a new brush a hatov violative the fourth brush in which we introduced into our bench in every single day when we bench that's basically the structure that the Gemara describes and bronchus and here there's two details that are dressed in the minor detail number one is the Gomorrah asks a question later generally we have a concept a nice and mitzvah kovaleski villas we don't put together mitzvahs everything deserves its own dignity and therefore an abrupt you mentioned one thing not to things from the Gemara by benching we contradict us the first blessing we say Hazama Sequoia clear the next one we say over Navy bell of a nation slightly the third won't burn ibrahim of yours shall I am fine the second one we already mixed two things murder Qatar sham Wow harlots Wawa Muslim and generally we have a cloudy tomorrow sometimes in Christ Obadiah a brother you stick to one theme one concept don't mix in two things thank me for this lady could thank me for this here we say Allah Allah Allah Maas and for the Gemara it's the same thing air it's the masker Muslim it's not a thank you for the land it's for planning for the land for the earth that produces food Allah are eggs of our Mazda and it's not separate things it's on the type of land that creates food that produces food that grows that yields produce our art its art is the mask you must wear it goes through a few brushes where you have the same apparent problem and that is we say on responders today Makeda she saw the Russia Kardashian again new things onion TIFF we say bar Kadosh of Makati she strove Osman and tomorrow famously answers the same thing MacArthur she saw they cut Sheila's monument I didn't saw the cut similar Russian conduction doesn't sanctify touched a dozen sanctify hunter he sanctifies the Jewish people who create the spiders who create the of them we are the ones who create the crucial symptoms if PES Dhin doesn't accept the witnesses and say today's or straightish it's not restrain - and basis is not paisa who creates Yaman private it's the caduceus is wrong that have the power to create the condition of this shop is not Shabbos comes on naturally every seven days makan dishes Makar - our shoppers and say the kind of just solve our shops so it's not two processes one bro no mr. Kaul the trunk we don't have a problem with the category but not two separate things you're thanking for era - sir all are you're thanking for food something with thanking for the land that gives food for the land for the earth that produces food errands the mosque a mosque that's the problem it says Allah audits Barca for similar audits of Alamos and it sounds like two things which really goes back to a question and that's what he says explicitly is what's the point in other words you already thanked for Mosin in the first bra so what if do it again you want to thank for our extinct ferrets schism to hate what's the point that hazard over the union of LMI you might tell me we're not thanking here for the land we had a meal we're thanking for food okay so why mention errors not my mama sure if you're looking at to thank for food you ready thankful food in the first brother why do you have to thank again for food so you're gonna tell me because what's the point of thanking to the land it's not discussing the land they were discussing the meal so why do you bring another harvest don't bring it away LMI you want to thank for the land so what he have to repeat muslin again you ready did muslin in the first she say there's no point muslin the edits without muzzles or whitey bacala to bring in Eretz that's what he struggles with what's what's this width what's the real structure and why in the first prophet on you mention air it's the second brother you mentioned food in context with Eretz you mentioned both in the first only zon and in the third brother you mention only your saliva the base something that you don't mention anymore muslin you don't say for your schleimann the base some acres and the food everything is self-contained besides the second brother will you mix the air it's in the mosque let's put number one and and and you see this in how you said alcohol it's of our money you don't just say Allah Aras Bahamas and I've already fell alone which sounds like you really there are two things even though the Gomorrah says there's no two things question number two is really the Rasmus question the rajma asks a question of the Gomorrah contradicts itself if you're issuers the one who gave us the second brother how do you say all the three brothers I'm a Natalia if governance Lima gave us the third block I didn't say they may not pay them their minute owner then it's not bubbling slam it's not you sure love it and slamming you're sure can't create a new Toyota a terrazzo laity and my wife is one of the 13 principles of faith the whole trader was given by motion I mean nobody can create a Tyler not even a Muncie nobody has that prerogative to create a new Toyota their abundant could make mistress near abandoned they could make Xavier is they can make new mistress of Toyota itself it's an it's an Easter of my salsa for like seeker I can't do that so one me they make new brushes then you tell me to be knocked out how they become annotator so first the Gemara tells me all the three bracha seminar tyler before that the Gemara says it's your shoe and dominant schleimann big question of the Nationalists Abraxas not among us mr. starker question the rajma answers the rajma says that the shot is as follows that the three brothers were in the time of my shell so if not II can't statesman a Toyota but how did the supportive announcer General Catalyst was evidence enough have you saying it's been updated the three blocks I'm gonna trade the time of my shell the shot is however the text was altered what do I mean the text was altered the text was altered by moisture when the man came down he made the text of Burgesses on what was the new such by moisture breakfast or it was a different size there was a second brush but it wasn't the new set that we have he wasn't thanking a sham for the land perhaps he was praying for the future of the land the third brother the same thing it wasn't the text that we have it was a different text was malicious text Yahoo sure when they came into the land he changed the text in order to celebrate the fact that we in the land he can remain stuck in the past governance lemon when they came into your shall I'm and they built the base at Mukesh they changed the text the text was changed but that doesn't change the very fabric the very core of the Baraka that it's Minnesota the three brothers of Anatolia the text version of it change with each generation when the man came down moisture gave the brach and that's the text that we have today when you're sure came intention soul he gave the text of the second block of the new stuff that's the text that we have today Nidal hashem elokenu hashem how to love a sin to Eretz hem the table or a hibachi son or etc of the son who are brisk about while I feel us Missouri shoppers on here again you go back to the muzzle you seen the second rough you go back to the Muslim our fearless muslin charters on you any thanks for the Muslim but again you're sure wants to go back to the Muslim and then the text change with over than schleimann that's basically what happens so here we're left with a new question and what's the new question the text of moisture doesn't change even after they go in Texas Shawn there's no mind the first brother still remains the text of motion of a know because if you're just gonna say that the text changed oh so so then the second brush is also moisture the third block is also moisture everything has been at Tyler so you have to say like the rajab explains that no the three brothers I'm an operator but the Nusa is in every generation of different new stuff and yet the first Russia remains the new sort of motion of n which is the man of course the second question answers the first and that is that to understand the difference of the process you have to understand that it's different types of food the first process is celebrating one type of food the second drugs are celebrating a different type of food so now yes why are you repeating the food cause it's not the same food the first brushes left him in a shaman the second brother has left him on orous that's the finishing a diary misere when mistaking the first brother were addressing the different food hazama sequoias the man and then the second brush is addressing lesson min Norris ah course you have to speak about Eretz it's a whole different type of lack of Allah our deeds of Allah Muslim you nuts time talking about Muslim and I talked about errors you talking about the last him that originates in earth it originates in land it originates in Eretz different type of Muslim so therefore of course you have to repeat Muslim in the second brother it's not the same Muslim this is the man this is the Muslim that yoshu introduced which is the Muslim Ottoman aris and that's why I asked to speak about the Eretz over there because it's that's Kawashima Norris that's basically the so to speak the the structure through which the explanation of the minor gets built that's the structure Brush Company in the rushman doesn't give that point no not no Dinajpur just says it was a different nose they changed the new symbol doesn't take away the fact that it's men are tied in order to explain this in order to understand this he has to explain the difference in let him in the audits unless in Menasha Maya so first starts a husband of left human artists then starts a hazard of lesser Menasha Maya basically in one word left him in the Oryx revolves around the two worlds of toyou and Tico lesser Menasha million revolves around the world of Akutan that's basically the structure two types of breads introduced in the to process of mention let's recall what they are see let him in the RS is the fact that each of us needs nutrition from bread and a Santos bread that's all food that comes from the earth whether it's vegetation whether it's produce whether it's fruits with its vegetables whether it's grain whether it's legumes or whether it's animal food that they eat from the earth they pasture from the earth and they graze on the earth they graze from the land and then we eat those animals perhaps but it's basically all part of lesson in arts and the pus success and parsha sake if I gave you the man and he says over there kilala left him Levada you see autumn calcio mites appear chamois opiod we don't only live from the left and we live from the mites appear Shem from the energy of a sham so that result explains the energy of our chef in the bread that's what we live from asked Valtor ever we also have our own energy what do we need the bread and the answer is cuz the mites appear sham the divine energy in the lesson has something that the human soul and the human body needs what is it say explains at length that this has to do with the fact that pre our world there was another world called a llama toy in the world of chaos and in the world of chaos all the lights were very intense and we're very primal they were very extreme and we're very infinite and therefore ultimately there was a sweeter there was a breakage because each meda was self-contained each one was completely isolated and ultimately egotistical in its most extreme way and therefore it could not tolerate anybody else and ultimately it broke and it fell and as a result of this the whole world of gosh meais was created basically the whole world of gaseous which is a very self-contained egotistical material universe these are shards of Alamut oil the sparks of the lights of Toyo which were very intense and very infinite fell and this creates our physical world including all the food that we have in our world and especially you see this animal kingdom because each animal has its own meter and there's very little integration every animal has its nature and it sticks to its nature and it's connected to its nature in its most exposed extreme volatile primal and powerful way why because the genesis of the reality of every animal is from the world of tar you where there's no a scowl as there's no in the integration by M McWilliams then comes the world of ticklin which was all Adam the gamma3 amar with this compromise with his mitigation which is give witness take with his Escala loose with his a laugh weakness and self-consciousness and more awareness of the symmetry and the organism of reality pbut Salaam alaikum assalam Zucker and a caver together autumn is about integration and therefore in Tikhon the lights were diminished in the sense that the vessels can contain them because they are more diluted and more compromised therefore tell you in many ways is much higher than tickle it's deeper than tickle it's more intense than tickle the infinite light is very very powerful but to--you has the challenge because everything gets destroyed and everything breaks and that's why tickle needs tell you and tell you needs tickle tickle needs tell you because the gas of tickling the real gas of thinking comes from tell you but tell you need stick and in order to be sublimated back to its source so therefore when a person eats he or she elevates the food and in that sense they bring back the kalyan then it suits a soft are you back to its source and because of that tickle gets infused and elevated through Tahu and that's why the person has to eat the food that might appear shot but how the massive up of a rafter ssme lacasa even caballo hashem elokenu which is thickened which is adam kill al Aleph and lavada Ishihara are the mother my Ally another Murat sillas also is infused chemical through the bracha who bear after the flow that comes from taru which is the food that we eat that is lakum min Haaretz revolves around the two worlds of Toyo and tickle which come together when the human being needs the food and the food needs the human being so there's a very deep relationship that happens when the person eats between the food and the person the person is sitting at the steering wheel and the food is giving him the gas if the food sits at the steering wheel are you my avoid but if you don't have the food for the gas then you're missing the gas quite literally we need the foods for the gas but the food can't be the controller of the meal the human being has to be in control of the meal that's the question always when you're eating who is in control of the meal are you in control of the food is in the food control of you we all know that challenge that's the real question here who's sitting at the steering wheel who's defining what this meal looks like me the meal or the meal me sometimes the food simply has incredible control over even the most intelligent insightful spiritual minded intellectual Giants but something in the food that just captures them in a very profound way they don't even know what it is if later they regret it what is it truth is it style it's something there's something very volatile about it something very powerful about it and if I can't make peace with my own toy who ultimately I need a food to connect me to my toil in other words if you don't deal with your own primal emotions the food will make you deal with your primal emotions that becomes the substitute for it because you have to deal with it so if you don't deal with it in your own you become a victim to the food because it enamors you it overwhelms you because you never made space for it in your own life if you made space for it in your own life then the food becomes a continuum of that process that's the secret of food addiction huh what yeah yeah so when you feed someone else that's the next one yeah food is a substitute for emotions it gets submerged emotions are connected that's why food is such a substitute for emotion because food has a lot of energy in it so you could stifle and stifle most of the many emotions with it especially if you don't stop bigotry it's usually more with non healthy food very good question excites us of everything always commend your it with how much nutrition they give much less than its Isis that's why you need much more of it no no that's true that's why you need much more unhealthy food because you're really looking for the knit suits of toil so unhealthy food they make suits are some more powerful because then it suits us are always commensurate with the nutrition and it's in reality that way because nutrition is ultimately what benefits you it's the constructive vitality which comes from divine energy you understand the more junk the more clipper the lesson it suits us by carrot so you need much more that's why nobody eats one potato chip people eat one cucumber I've never met a person that has one to pay the check one cucumber yeah why there's one cucumber you really have it you got it you got you got it you understand one kale you got it what but but but a cookie won't cook what do you have one cookie you finish you finish a tray of cookies good one pistachio you finish there's a verse on the Baal Shem Tov it says in tehilim the famous capital Cove Zion how you wash em right that's many say Erev Shabbos before Minister Raven Gump's million not some Mohammed issetov so the Baal Shem Tov says people are hungry in thirsty they think they're hungry and thirsty because they want the food but Emma's not shown by him to Sato for the nephesh and then in them and in the food are asking for them to eat in order to be able to elevate the mitosis so there's really two things going on on one level I'm hungry and I'm thirsty the Cheesecake speaks to me again things will you want depends where you are but now she is something else going on not Shaban to Sabbath so there's a certain relationship the mission in your momma Illinois so yeah to neshama stem accuses never cucumbers the woman has to eat that who souls that both they both need to insertion sort of course she's more hungry that's what the Mishna says in yuma right uber uber uber yarmulke poram she has two souls you have to understand the world of biology and the world of spirituality are not different worlds one of the great mistakes by many religious Jews that they think there's a competition is the world of Toyota and there's the world of biology does the world of gosh misses the holiest site of terrorism or something was its high no ha the physical is a mirror of the spiritual scientific reflects the metaphysical by allergy reflects the soul an assassin so when you say there's a certain explanation and really it doesn't mean it's not explained the nationís fact because it's true like that on a spiritual level the physical mechanism is created based on the spiritual mechanism it's not two separate worlds the weights should the way it comes out in the solo to come out on the barnacles is an actus it's complete integration without without goodbye taken without qivana yeah there's some level of mindfulness that you need for tickle go stickin basically is balance sequence structure tikkun is always about design thinking is always about purpose you understand how you hates the word purpose and that's what makes it so exciting it's like stop talking to me about purpose just let me live tell you is primal didn't tell you was the tongue there's something very nice about it yeah the brother before the food is the mindfulness in order to realize what is happening now yeah budget it creates Chacal me a bit VAR a greater Priya dama how much menara he's much it Allah that's the concept of the block I wouldn't say the less tell you the more control I would say the the the less the person is in touch with their own Tahu the more control the food has over them because they get lost in it that's almost their way of experiencing it by osmosis that's their way of that of nurturing their tell you without consciousness all addictions are basically great fillers of voids because when I'm not ready to deal with the void I'm gonna go to other things to fill it and they're always distractions but I need good distractions cuz I've had none of good distractions what is it gonna help and the bigger the void the deep layer more intense the distraction if it's a small void I don't need so much to fill it if I have a big hole then I need a lot to fill it I need much more intense distractions so I need things which much more power with much more energy and I always need to up it and up in and up it it's all because I'm not ready to look at that void always more and more he needs to fill he needs to distract the pain he needs to distract the void all of us we have our voice our a cabacas hotel the Garthim chemistry everything there's an it's it's everything lives because it has an instance the question is what happens with that mixes drugs is an essence [Laughter] when you say admits us it started in another everything lives off kedusha right like we learned with pyro in the mine my passions for area the snake also comes from the stick everything has seals everything is alive everything has energy and the more energy the more vitality so it has admits if the question is how eclipsed does it how manipulated is it how misconstrued isn't what it feeds how it feeds how it's used how you use it etc but everything has ultimately an interest the question is can I have access to the Mitchells Valtor never writes in time they are very interesting in how often we call things motor and asar why motor and also literally what that means permitted awesome means forbidden but it's not the real translation ah sir means tied up McTeer assume a sorbet sauce room right motor means like in Shabbos culture and matter we're learning untying what's the connection so the pastor's it means us sir is my hands are tied behind my back so to speak it's a piece of hazard my hand I can eat motor means you're untied go knock yourself out but that's a superficial shot the deeper shot is not on the gown on the shaft sir when something is our surd it's tied up the knit suits is trapped I don't have access to it so if I'm going to start eating pig and I'm gonna say oh the bacon has tremendous resources and for 750 you can get bacon and eggs for breakfast it's awesome there is a meat suits in Gaza Gaza a lose a life in fact one day it's gonna go be a bacon is gonna be a Muhammad Ahmad made that greatness the man who says us it's oscillatory right that's what's called Casa house it's a absolutely so that's because I'll say it's gonna come back yeah some safer wants to say that McCoy a physician baguette bottle because dovish Ashley material some say fight over special in my team and it bought the machinist comes up with such limited some surface questions okay he has an answer but I see the question is an interesting quest she has to come any day I shock alloy because obviously my to name it bottle wait for machines come jalisa Hauser there's no bid to buy houses that's pretty tight that's it he has a child okay he has a gun Salaam does not for now but but the hazard is a sir what do I mean it's a sir not I'm tied the nits are just tied up I don't have access to motor means it's untied in other words it's accessible but what happens if somebody eats it for example yeah and then does truven so the Gomora says inhuman that pays off that when you do too bad of love is diagnosed now so like as obvious the sins become mitzvos how does a sin become a mitzvah the practice is not it ever says Jose that when a person does real chuhwa out of love what happens is the knit suits of that tray for thing actually does get on times why because what struck so bad of love how do you chew that of law what stretch them out of love true that of love means that the sin brings you to more love like when you have a very close relationship with somebody and then it breaks down and you become alienated from each other and then you get close to each other but you work through all the alienation so the love is now the strongest it ever was why because all the negative energy becomes now part of the positive energy all our hate towards each other becomes part of our love towards each other because we realized that the hate was coming from misunderstanding and from the hurt that we caused each other because of the love so therefore when you could convert hate and see how it's really a springboard for love so the love is fueled by the negativity so that means that the fact that he ate consarned yeah became a springboard for his hero first ala so retro actively he did access the Mitchells retro actively he found God in that again you can't I can't go eat and say I found God here it's against God it's an Easter gamma when somebody did it and then does true them so the Gemara says dirtiness Nasser look is obvious so what's the mechanism the marshes up in arms so my Shaw says a new MOBA the lawyer scared i'm mahalia a gawky a guy who saved his whole life then he does true he has more mitzvahs than everybody else yeah the about ditch the river this about did Sherman once in Kippur they say saw he's smoking on him Kip and eating a sandwich so the my dictionary was the hobos I Malamud sauce so he looks at him and he says cynically new Raburn of all substances organ what do you have to say so he says I'm in the Makana so y-you Makana me he says if you're gonna do children do you know how many myths was he gonna have that I can't even begin to think of you know eating him kipper smoking and kipper still Shabbos in the valence Davis he was such a cynic he says it ever come back next day you'll be very very well but when you have said before about all Jews are religious well you can believe in God but the point is that the ones who don't believe in God it's religion it's fueling there is their atheist yes that's the point he ultimately yeah the religion fuels the atheism so even over there deserve submit suits again it's completely distorted it's completely distorted ah it's it's atheism with religious fervor so therefore what happens is when he does true VAT of love this darkness becomes obvious why because the mid suits is in the Scala or when it's been the Messiah comes as mess through a hot tub my aviary minarets so then also the missus will be in this class everything will have an alia so that structure and awesome what's in an austere means the theft is trapped the theft is on top over here you can access it over here you can do but everything has an interest so now you ask if if if marijuana has an insolence already talking about heavy drugs or light drugs huh callosum in the shaft is Simon Schama pillow show head level cap before shipments are young but monsoon detective medical marijuana what are you using it with it becomes a mitzvah Parappa you're a playwright becomes a mitzvah or pikuach nefesh if somebody gives somebody trade for food the quartermaster's up here lover you have to do it right they eat on Yom Kippur so what is it you're not gonna say it's a sir and therefore there's no Nicks it's my character then then you could be my god Odin it's very good yeah most of things in halakha that are uh survival of motive are not right for example bus of the color of is possible Arlo's Ossabaw no but you have a horse meat is also by Hilbert's looked upon a light upon awful Moors you have I'm right yeah that I have enough room tray for food you lot of sell it you know how to use it so can you access didn't it's a catchy accent limit it depends what you're talking about it's at the gather of a hilly Kent let's have together of our know you cook some things no it's awesome I'm not completely some things that will send my money can't even be in your house my cup away this are like um it's um Pesach by your uh by your months it's a third-level so every union has a different equipment in it ah ok this is almost like a some soft him what do you have to do with Commerce if you did I'm a name be your comment tell us safer a common raft my father of Israel Eroica motto Liam yeah you could crumble the bread and throw it into the air or just thrown into the sea crumple it throw it into the sea you don't have to burn it you know it's to burn it so they famous magazine if you didn't drive on what do you have to do with comments so the rocket rubber writes on there he says I say that they're arguing about the word touch Bissell says I should be so sir mat wuts touch this so this is an interesting thing but it says the partials become cosine mahishmati higher on minarets beach party so the terrace Cunningham says Melissa Buda of shimmer if you diminish Botti I will eliminate wild beast is must be some in Harlem will destroyed from the world if Seminary men must be some Somalia's eco I will only eliminate their damaging but that wild animals could be there says what's the much like the McLucas is when it says touch beast oh yeah shove us resting eliminating something seizing what such seizing now be hood that says the eczema matsyas has to seize says bhakti hiya it means the wild beast is not here anymore if Simmons says no it means the quality of it that makes it a damager that has to cease my Malin when it comes to comments it says that should be sue so butan says the comments itself has to cease so therefore slavery after Burnet once you've burned it it's gone it's already panel cardassia's the hub including the persimmon say no I'm the father of azor a little once it becomes a crumb the comments is here the excellencies is here but the functionality is not what are gonna do with a crumb of bread what are you gonna do you're gonna feed it to your kids you gonna take it home and put it in a pantry what are you do with a crumb in this seat what are you gonna do with it but father in visalia lua the exome is here but the functionality is not here yeah you haven't shopped it's the same argument of you the option to view the holes it says if i shove us but you have my sweet dish miss according to Pew hood then melaka Saints this will go for hire well encyclical fee of the melaka but there's no movin in the Milan double shame to miss Calvin again Shimon says it's motor blocks encyclical for your party and same Nakota visit service or not show us a mind of community here the same is the same minyan when you say you have to get rid of something what do you have to get rid of if you say that the knit suit is completely completely concealed so then the only HS safer there's all no mother thing my father visited wacom italian means however which party hire are you don't have to destroy it you have to harness it you have to redirect it you have to find it in it sense so a cup on them and every Nakota there's arm it's us the question is how you deal with it how you deal with it what's your relationship with it doc the Internet ah smartphones yeah the Internet has big mitosis the internet as a laminate successor fatherless in the system very powerful tools in the world have tremendous nuisances well say snitch suits us again and it suits this is an abstract words let me translate it in English you'll see makes a lot of sense suits us basically means the ultimate functionality and purpose of any particular item from God's perspective that's what the mid senses the functionality purpose of any particular item from God's perspective that it's it's an instance what do I mean that's an instance that's its ultimate energy that's there there is the divine energy that fuels it what is that designed for that if you sell a key of something that's it schnitzels and that's directly connected what is its purpose what is it what is it here for what is it status what did have chevron its form or to put it in other words when I want something it creates energy but that energy is very concealed I can't say I want a cup of coffee in the cup of coffee appears and I have to go get coffee beans and grind the coffee beans and get water and make a coffee etcetera etcetera okay here we already do a lot of the work okay I want coffee and the coffee beans appear by Hashem ruts and translates into energy so when I shall want something he wants something that desire is energy that energy of the ruts and that is called admittance of the thing he wants this should be a donkey in the world he wants there should be a cockroach in the world he wants there should be an elephant he wants there to be a solar system wants there to be a hippopotamus he wants to be a turtle in the world he wants to be AI ena in the world that eruption translates into energy and that energy becomes the molecular atomic structure of that animal or of this plan or of this oh of this flake of snow that becomes the energy of attack Rutzen and therefore the NIT suit represents what is its purpose from the divine perspective what is its intent what did he want muscle think of all he wanted this for a particular purpose that's what the distances accessing the midst of something means looking at it from that perspective seeing what is its meaning in the context of existence and Encounters of my existence when you do that your provider the mid suits you align the object with its divine purpose with its divine functionality that's subunits suits us what's Prasad the opposite of better satis WP remittances means I've become a victim to it I'm completely not aligned not with Who I am and not with what it is I'm just like lost so that's why let's say I'm in a very bad mood and I'm eating what type of eating is it everybody knows what type of meaning there's absolutely no mindfulness it's completely compulsive I'm trying I'm not even trying to eat and try to avoid pain I'm not even looking for eating that's really the part the people who eat like this actually eat much more because when you're eating because you try to distract yourself you're not eating it's a hazy tenser you're trying to distract yourself you're looking desperately for something so this person goes to the pantry with alcoholism this person goes to the refrigerator where the food is but that's just a difference then she tips on what you're looking for is he that looking for food you're looking to avoid this field looking for distractions actually not even eating the eating is simply Oliver Street so you need to something else you're trying to do and the food therefore can't accomplish that why because you're looking to food for food food can't do this what happens the food supposed to help you what's listed from the nessam the food has its purpose as it's its thing so actually when you eat with this come on you're actually eating you're actually eating you're eating food you're not distracting yourself reading food what's is this a question of common as a frustration a confession what is it exactly you're saying that he's not very learning you say you're not learning you're right you're not learning listen it's better than doing other things it's better than running around molesting you know what I mean it's better than that no I mean I mean I'm saying a person isn't a lot a lot of one learns because they want to distract themselves from themselves right so again it depends no but a mother says Lully to us for Joshua I was a violet I Bagni yeah the end a lot of pain and he went to learn but what was it that was the toyota's sublimated his pain to tell you to soothe this pain there was a relationship there you're not talking about that you're talking about here oppresses he's not acknowledging it no but I'm almost acknowledged it and the Turner becomes like a substitute for that the truth is that it's very hard for that person to really learn tighter but we're promised there that little bit social is not right I mean it's also missing and then there's what the Gemara says and tiny the Gemara says and tine is that sometimes a person learns toyota not somebody some high wise uh-huh NASA's LOI some are mothers so the tailor gomorian Tina says the tailor could become poison Sam my mother's and found office kills you that means that Tony could kill you how can the Gemara say this about Toyota Sal my mother's the do your kids nicest voice on my mother's the toy is not some my mother's don't is some kind but nice it's like sometimes you can have a medicine one person it saves his life another person that kills him NASA's Lisa my mother sometimes Toyota could be used by a person in a way that it actually becomes a destructive tool the Turner makes it much more oppressive much more arrogant much more pompous much more dishonest much more manipulative huh slushy whatever all these things NASA slice na NASA slice em home office doesn't mean customers the traders are some others but for him it becomes us someone more becomes lethal huh how them laughter buzzer radiation it's not the same lever twice versus its Lecompton we use the Toyota for four to put down others to denigrate others you use the Toyota to denigrate others it's a different type of title whenever Toyota's Union to Democrats oh then it's already it could be a semi office so I'm saying you have this much season cuz all the title can be misused sometimes by being deferred that's the purpose sometimes I fulfill the purpose of something by exercising the muscle of restraints by saying no to you I'm allowed to by saying no to this item I'm allowing this item to fulfill its purpose sometimes it's motor bahama a donkey I can ride on a horse second rider I don't have to I have to reject the food sometimes the Theia becomes the NIT sense you're my lovin it suits by being nicer than it sense you understand that's a very powerful idea by saying no to you I'm actually helping you out by saying yes I'm destroying you it allows you to allow it to fulfill its purpose huh the stories about Kiva it's it's cuz I'll bring part of the story but they ran is - in the story you know the my son it's very a fascinating story Rock even lived in a Chester all of course and the Romans had governors that they used to set up it was a mandate as name was terminus Rufus Turner Rufus Russian malucia he ultimately executed a vehicle to miss Rufus was I mean Super Saiyan he was executed by the Roman but when a service used to debate him a lot to the surface had a wife and to nurse Rufus came home one day and he was very depressed so she asked him what happened she said there'll be a Kiva won the debate again they debated a lot the Romans used to debate the Jews he said he'd won the debate and I can never defeat him so she said to her husband I'll defeat him how you gonna defeat him she says my beauty beats every man no man stands up to my beauty I'll already do what I have to do and her bikini will become the laughingstock the great Derby Akiva was defeated by me so she went to the VA Kiba you know she presented herself as she was to do commonly sort of a Akiva looked at her and he spit on the floor he spit and then he laughed and then he cried and then he laughed so she asked him why did you do the three things survey Akiva said I Spit because I realized how with your beauty you make so many people live a life of vanity you destroy so many people's lives so I spit its disgusting to me she said why did you cry he said I cried because you're so beautiful and when you die the beauty is gonna be gone so I cried so she said why did you laugh he says this I can't tell you this I can't tell you so she was transformed by this she was transformed her husband died Tunis Rufus died she converted to Judaism maybe I keep his wife passed away and he married her he married her and he said that's why I laugh that's why I laugh now understand the Via Cavour would have laughed before he spit them before he cried what would have it looked like right they'll go in a whole bunch of a whole bunch of Hortman MS you understand hee hee the first thing is you have to spit I don't want me in the physical saliva I mean the concept the meais and then he cried and then he could laugh it's the eye and the oil right the NIT suits in her at that moment there was an insertion or a strong Richardson or even a Jewish Lititz in her but the reaction had to be one of disgust it's not his wife not even a Jewish wife that still misses his wife and he knew what she was there for she was there for not to hear a cheer for me in this tent she wasn't trying to be macabre Taylor for a B Akiva she was trying to seduce her be Akiva that's it so he spit he spit on the option on the conceivability of that option in her mind and in his mind and then he cried he cried for the objective truth of human life you know is a beautiful person and is wasting her time and her body is gonna die one day and he cried for that and then he laughs he laughed but they have to be in an order if you changed the order then you lose the nits it's the missus gets covered up even more and then you have a Gomorrah about you know the MU Mara was Gomorrah in my office there was a ye'd he says he goes to go to every sign in the world and he once went and he traveled like on some ice with a lot of money and then it's it's us typical Raj then ah no that's another matter now Vedas are read this is a Monaco's and they'll appeal everybody was transformed into mice and yeah it's it's is saved it so the Gemara finishes the story and says eyes oh oh you son Matt saw s8c a laborer yes sir he'd see you later the same mattress is the same sheets that he spread out for him when they were misbehaving the same mattresses and sheets she spread out for him when they together in marriage so everyone one that was a lie enough came in now if she got a new set of sheets wait that's really the story here oh you son Matt saw his hair if she got new linen look over the house and people are supposed to get new linen when they get married now but he still might say she'd see him Ibiza the shot of course is the governor saying something very deep the same energy the same Mott Sawyer's that would there be Easter when they behead her in other words it's not that his thumb got married all the energy that was being used the first time around was reach annulled into the healthy relationship that's what happened that same it suits that was there before what is concern is not so like as obvious I said Matt Soyuz there's something very special about stolen water right Miami ovum um taco we love doing illegal things people like relationships that are a little alien because you know it's you don't have to deal with all the packages it since its cash mark it's interesting it's its innovative its creative at least short turfs right so there's something very special Ison but to put it to put it very simply there's a reason Toyota says life's enough there's a lot of intensity a lot of intensity in love and romance specially illegal love and romance what they did was they channeled that intensity intimate into the holy relationship the midgets itself was transforming have left them in hush up Matt left him in are it's a muckerman of Shania bred from Earth and bread from heaven and those are the two first or the first two brothers of burkas are address those two different types of foods the first brother addresses the man moysha was moussaka 'not because moisture is the one the gomorrah says in tightness and his host a man came down and therefore he is the one who Institute's Bertha's on and the text of the broth reflects the nature of Lajamanu shaman the second brother deals with a different type of food that's left him in Haaretz and that's why we have to speak about al-hawa lamas and that is the brother of Eretz the broth of earth it's the bread but it's the bread that comes eros the mouseka Muslim the bread that comes from Earth then you have the third broth already deals with your schleimann with the base some addition the fourth bracket of I made them is Faruk a beta as discussed so the first two broth is therefore differ in their very theme it's not repetition you spoke about food you speaking again about food it's a different type of food welcome in our lifetime in our mind that's partial tune how long LP one is when you go on a spiritual level the nature of the foods are drastically different in one food we know the difference pushes the Gemara says that in the man there was no up silence the jews didn't have to go to the bathroom usually food has elements that are nutritious and elements that the body has to eject and the reason the body is forced to eject because there's nothing in these foods there's no part of this foods that is of any value to the body huh yeah there's nothing that the body can do with that the body seeks to utilize all food in some way then there's that part of the food the body says I did what I can and this is what we call soilless so Alyssa me is the leftover and this is devoid of Byron avoid the fires burn Silas McCall the body does this all the time the man did not have this that man did not have Silas the gemara says left in my birria ma College Lessons and NIV lubber a very methodical Morrises in human the last time the bread that was completely absorbed in the limbs what do we mean up is or all food is absorbed all food is converted into the bloodstream but all foods there's some aspect of it that cannot be absorbed and therefore the body says goodbye Charlie have a wonderful day that's the concept of the Soilers that exists in every food besides the man that's where the gomorrah says left him I beat him let him say melaka sure is illinois sir there was the opposite us now what is the meaning of it that was not Silas so literally it means you're gonna say it was absurd pure food it was completely imagine what I would say on the wrappers of the man how they would have found they would advertise it I don't even know what they would say if they take poisonous I write the song mino needs for bathroom no need for the bathroom for the next 40 years so yes nope Silas nope Silas what is it now Pete what is it in the iMac and the depth it represents a different idea not a different either the element of this idea is that all food is basically a product of a Chavira a product of a breakdown so of course the stylist because by very definition the breakdown of how you created MIT suits us that are covered up by shells and my husks and you always have to separate and if you don't separate you can ultimately embrace the husk over the spark and that's always the challenge of eating which is why the food needs the person needs the atom in order to sublimate the food and generally to sublimate all physical matter which are all products of Toyo what is TOI you tell you is intense divine energy that got lost in translation and got lost in a breakdown in its deep spiritual decomp decomposition to the point that you can't recognize the beauty or the depth or the holiness of the energy you don't recognize it's divine quality and the person is capable of elevating it and sublimating it and in that process the food elevates the person as well Allah Allah let them Levada you see a hard-on key el comité seppia sham you see HOD the mine is left him in a sham mind there's no sailors it doesn't come from the energy of oil Amato you despite the grandeur and greatness of Toyo where does the man come from he says the man comes directly he Saru cedilha el it's not the process of Toyo which is the Seleucid Allah SATA the human being elevates and in that process he or she becomes elevated and when I say he or she speaking about even what he calls Adam le on this album our zilla's which is also a vehicle infused with energy of toy you through the process of AHIMA but out of a savato who've a raft similar caca that is because Lawrence when it comes however to be Letterman Asham I am the man this is miss was Moshe Moshe squat hat or kavadlo Shinano see moisture can't communicate moisture can't speak because moisture represents the core of MA the core of Hoffman therefore it's hard for him to communicate this is always what we learned and in the process of existence he associates this with the world of Akutan the world of Akutan is not the world of toi UNT this is where the ten spheres are bound up completely in one vessel and the reason they're bound up completely in one vessel is because there's absolute integration but it's not like the integration integral integral the integration comes because the motion weak in the middle and they dilute them meet those they mitigate the middles and therefore they each become balanced and they become symmetrical because of tremendous diversity and the appreciation for the need of diversity which is critical and is vital and is amazing and that's what's so incredible about tika and it's because thicken ultimately senses something over the ain't safe which can only be experienced to diversity because infinity never looks like one color but ultimately it weakens every one of the qualities and in its weakness it becomes stronger because you give space for somebody else when you're infinitely strong you become also infinitely weak doing that Hara so much always my definition it's harder so much when you're dealing with I could them however there's also integration but not because anything is diluted or mitigated or compromised it's not that you take water and your mosaic the I in my mind you pour water into the wine on the contrary the midgets are in their full intensity in fact in their greatest intensity the reason they're united is because what's revealed in them is their source - ain't safe and the ain't safe is of course encompasses that ain't safe encompasses all over the 10min dice and therefore they're not considered opposites they're not considered divisive they're not considered fragmented and they're also very intense because their intensity is not coming from their own personality their intensity is coming from the fact that they're expressing insight through their personality ah expressing ain't so through your personality then the other personality is not a competitor to you it doesn't threaten you doesn't take away from you on the contrary on the contrary he's expressing what she's expressing ain't safe through her personality I'm expressing ain't safe through my personality it's through it's not in loop it's not we replace the insight with our personalities that's the key we express pain so through our personality so you have an interesting paradox and I could them the mythos are much more powerful than everywhere but they're also completely integrated they're more powerful because they're infinite they're not compromised they're not weak and yet they're more integrated than everywhere because they're infinity it's not coming from the ego from the sense of self containment it's coming from the fact that I Express they'd cipher nein ciphers of course way most of the cooler it's the perfection of all of them so it encompasses all of them it's not limited to this meat or that Midna and therefore and I could then we say they're bound up in one vessel and therefore what's felt in them is their source and they're expressing their source and if they're expressing their source you're expressing the source I'm expressing the source may be in very opposite ways a will they live really compliant as we explained the ultimate source of peace or he said shall I be Mihrimah of who yasser Shalom Elena while call you strawberry mouth in the world of Akutan there's complete Solomon team a conk of real Miami nation as an angora and this is all before toy you before tell you so hey there's no shimira when there's no Sri the man was food from this world since it was food from this world therefore you have an interesting thing with the man number one there's no Silas because there's no beer er there's no need for beer earlier right there's no breakdown that you have to bheemavaram oh so it's an interesting thing is that the oiler the man was one owner for everybody now we all know big kids need a lot of food that small kids need less food big people eat more so what's at with the Ironman the Emir has serious a for who the past success and passions mashaallah in other words it was a type of hood of Actos it brought out the unity oh so simply in the shear of food in the mountain below you do May they couldn't identify they called it man because they couldn't identify it law you're doing it says it's the food that you didn't know and your fathers didn't even know how they sat on the ballot Angus says elsewhere Assessors of Rome it's a jacket represents guessing guru Taveras but I could them is higher than the meter is Oslo universe at ha it's beyond tick on when there is distinctness it's all I couldn't be clear-cut so there's no way to identify it you can't give it a name on the contrary not knowing it is the best form of knowledge because that's the uniqueness of the man that you're not defined in a particular name or a particular color when you are defined ultimately how can they not be McLucas unless you're compromised yourself or you fight someone tell you you fight and then tick when you give it thought you was confrontational tell you is a sure Shinagawa supporter and tell you this bull fights by him look vamos vamos vamos everybody has to be a king and in Tikhon we learn to appreciate each other because tikkun again has a tremendous giving of ain't safe and when insight comes in to take on take on recognizes the need for diversity but i couldn't measure how it is in the source I couldn't really combines the my love tell you and tickle together but you can't remain in the world of our code then because I code them as a world in which there's no differentiation I couldn't miss a world in which there's no diversity there's no real diversity because what's felt is they ain't safe and this restriction from I could them to tell you is a very deep leap it's a quantum leap why can't you stay in a good it's not boring at all some people some people try to stay there as much as possible why can't you stay there I mean identically no we live in a world of identity the tactless ultimately is the key really is bordered by telling them to come into a world of fragmentation Clow pratik lung we go from the clown into the protium individuation we don't remain in our mothers wombs forever if all of our brothers and sisters would remain in our mothers wombs forever every family would be united and the mama's boy was honest unless you got coven ASA but but generally you would be you and I have but ultimately boys have to be born girls have to be born and they ultimately have to establish themselves somebody wants to ask something nice you see as he says you say why can't you stay they says there's no you to stay in other words what he's saying is the very fact that you're asking the question means that you're not asking the question right right the question the question answers itself if you have the question then obviously you can't stay there I think we tried a little bit we're gonna go there now so we have the two blessings of been business our arts and business has on and this explains the key two points that he said in hibiscus has done everything is motion mr. we speak in third person Baraka Tasha Hassan who noise and not after noise and who knows them but to voy a god neither too far god oh oh yes sir lo no not our textile oh no etcetera etcetera make the become a samosa in the second brother suddenly it's all noise huh now suddenly a sham is here no you look up not knowing the law saying how talk say say so three straw tell Oscar right Hank Azaria and Tom knew Allah : la working Lisa suddenly became no huh so Bala Tanya says to set pens on a different issue and that is suddenly we introduced the theme of Marie de da only the second bra and this is based on the idea that less time in the arts were already in a different paradigm the paradigm is a paradigm of fragmentation kale is a shame there is a McCoy cos the McCoy cos is darcel yin and our starter what is reality from our perspective LaMotta yesh Allah milah ayan the tangible the physical the creation that is reality divine energy we call ayan even if we believe it exists but our relationship to it is like a relationship to nothingness that's the leap that's the struggle from God's perspective is exactly the other way around lamella yet LaMotta is simply a manifestation of energy LaMotta Zion it's also exists but it's ayan it doesn't have it doesn't have that validity it simply uh it's a certain aspect of energy the higher you go up there the more you clean your lenses the more you cleanse the doors of perception the more the iron becomes yesh and the yesh becomes iron that's basically how life works so my them I'm not gonna lock is that everyday the Jew says I made them not not my the only thanks my dad's submit acknowledge I allow myself to be challenged by this idea I allow myself to invite this idea cuz that's what left them in our it says be ruined Boyer and I'm struggling I have to struggle then tal you broke and it does not tell me what it really is it tells me that it's a yes it doesn't tell me that it's an iron I don't see unity I don't see the vine energy I don't see transcendence I don't see spirituality I see insecurity I see frailty I see depression I see decomposition I see this integration I see melancholy I see the spear plenty any other adjectives I see toxicity exactly that's what I see though the mice it's a victim you know some of my system I envy are it's because samaya men are rats is me yeah I in leash mice it's our Dickon miss me as nyan that's a whole different key are some creates the world we create the Michigan and as a Canadian Dicer says for heaven to take back is much much greater than for heaven to give for heaven to create earth okay God is good at that for Earth to create heaven ah to give earth back to heaven to bring that back up that's the miracle of humanity condolence a dick in the gomorian service and my sister my imbalance code screwed everyone said hashamayim Shama Hashem the original sin living a Odom so there's two types of pastures some I am sure my unless I'm is God Heaven belongs to God and earth belongs to man like he'd once told our semi Shem it's mr. Stein was due to sting him Oh delicious mister nine verses to there I don't tell you how to run your business in heaven don't tell me how to run my business on earth they said that there was a schnorrer once called Rothschild at five o'clock in the morning and he needs a madaba the guy says five o'clock in the morning for this stupid thing that you need he says listen I don't tell you how to run your business you don't tell me how to run my business I'll call five without the money you'll think that it's an important it's an important class the cut Scarabus said Jose hashamayim sam-i-am Larson Heaven belongs to God waha or it's not some of Nahum as a Zanna smacking him o heaven belongs to God earth he gave to humanity that they should transform it into heaven I am his eyen I in his eyen sure makes from IES that we should make from yes I was out there ever said the neighbors to mark for Lumias gosh Aeneas today as Eaton's all masculine from - misogynist God converts energy into matter so matter should be converted into energy that's the second brother this is nice out here I can talk I can address the reality in front of me it's already a level of restriction tell you and thicken are in my domain the first brother is the gift of man I speak about involution mister and that's a tremendous record that certain things you have to speak about in third person right in in in Russian coitus when you want is respect somebody what do you say you don't say act all right you say what door on there but the guy is sitting right here what do you think doormat ow man because the certain recognition that is a part of you that's that's I'm not gonna wrap my brain around there's something intangible here there's something intangible it is something aloof you said a minute ago in terms of McLean is our dosa go to honey soccer yeah but that's not one of the shock - man what is this rostov-on-don you're saying that God gives the earth he makes but him to take back is not so easy and that's a really big shot but that's a shot on a ship when we think dole of mistakes I think you miss mission rice we're mission after it's a deacon with a rule to accomplish we're saying God though when you're saying that no no it's back to the person the gomorrah says there that the Neysa after and that the man in demand dices gift was taken back was greater than the first nuts that it was given why because in heaven to have a policy they give they don't take back that's what the gomorrah says a masochist eyeness the ballot Anya is explaining what does this mean we'll need to have this policy because the idea is that the whole process of existence is God giving I'm a college but typically I'm cometh the process of him taking back is basically the human achievement yes yes yes yes yes in other what he takes back as something that looks like I am that's also true of course that's also true but but what he takes back is the yesh that came back into I what's the mean takes it back let's understand what that means we're not speaking here in graphic terms and takes it back takes it back means it's something that is realigned with its source we give it back it's taken back because it goes back to its source in other words the yesh is realigned with that that's the process of Toyo in Tacoma Michigan that is the mission for us Uli mikdash Mitchell County Basilica that's the mission the Camorra says in on the mission under Nick Mick this ad in academia - huh that the whole world was one yard the Mukesh's to your time they come on it says us on the basis of my condition Darla my sister documents in the morning super stuffy my sister victim is Barry the nicest man but it's caused by this man Roger says he did it with his hand laughs yo D yo stash a Mayan my hand and by the basically just kind of knew your death huh both hands bit something that you need two hands in the whole universe you need one hand for the solar system one hand and for the base I make this you need two hands the Prashant is yet because one is from I yesh and one is from yes I need two events it's it's a it's a complicated avoid so we have two brothers two types of food this is my sure this is Yahshua tenemos Easter Cap'n a comma Tamayo short Cap'n a LaVon it's a different reality Marsh is the face of the Sun in other words the light is completely revealed is not symptom Panang a short Cap'n a Levana basically it's nighttime the lavona reflects the Sun but it's not the same light this is already a process of Toyo and thicken dispersed Euler's it's like human origin this gives us a Havanna why the morale you wanted to stay and I could them this is why the moraga didn't want to go in Texas wrong we look at the morale and when we think that they were just rabble rousers and soon as the Murano had a very profound perspective what they told the Jewish people is why in the world would you want to graduate from less diminish a mime and all of them in arms the fiduciary is basically the Marilyn felt like an aid them of Kest you know what I made them of Kester's an old Yiddish the son-in-law lives by the father-in-law for 10-15 years and he supported their what do you have to leave your father-in-law's house everything is wonderful what do you have to enjoy me is what do you have to leave the world of I could then and go into the world of Anna could remember the merits a jealousy as well that's what they said what for edit said hello Sarah lesson min Haaretz will eat you up it will eat us up and it will eat you up in the world of the mid bar they have an ami huh covet which is a graphic image of I couldn't all of Claudius role is bound up in one vessel which is cyka cyka say shaft Ian ami I covered that is literally a graphic image of my cousin not that they didn't fight in the mid but it didn't stop fighting so it didn't mama always match up with I couldn't but the state of consciousness was one that they were capable of that then they had my and the truth is as its brought in Cypriot Kabbalah that it's an interesting thing we look at the monogamous you know great sinners and so forth they achieved their goal for 40 years for 40 years they ate manna from heaven they had not a worry in the world imagine they sinned and sinned and sinned and sinned they rebelled but you know what they got for 40 years the Jewish people enjoyed exactly what they wanted the highest type of really and topi in life with motion with Aaron with the man with an anima covet 40 years radiating basking and bathing in the Divine Presence which they never had again later in history so it's a very interesting thing remember pano writes the Morrisons annetteanddave in managua mainland fevicol omaha bro he says cuz they were higher than ever huh England hey the cumin because they were high didn't LM hungry okay so now we come to the last the last the last phase of the mind map we went from Letterman or its lesser Menasha maíam to the next aspect and that was what Shabbos the secret of shops secret of Shabbos is beyond the hood why is it beyond the hood this is what's the idea of Shabbos Chavez say gave the Marshall that we spoke about at length that when a person works say a person writes or person runs or a person paints he projects or she projects their energy outward on whatever they're doing on the canvas you're painting on the floor you're mopping on the field you're playing on the mountain you're climbing on the paper that you're writing what or the computer I would say that you're typing that's what you're doing you and your energy goes out out out on the net and then there's a time of what we call Shabbos when you reclaim your energy what do we mean you reclaim everything goes back the energy has an alia first it has a here either it goes outward now it goes inwards and where does it go - it goes back into your core and it goes even to a place that is sometimes deeper from where it came out what do I mean by that saying writing for example if anybody here writes you know you write you plan to write something when you start writing things are created in the writing that you couldn't imagine before it unleashes a certain creativity and then when you almost read what you're writing things come back to you from the paper into you like it goes into even a deeper place it reveals even a deeper place than the one that was initiated when you started to write so when that energy so to speak reclaimed when it comes back it sometimes goes back even to a deeper place so on Shabbos what happens give a yahoo all the oil ermis that are created but then if you either during the shakiness email myself the divine energy now goes up so to speak and it goes back to what he calls chaotic lowly chaotic lowly means the source the core the essence he calls a chaotic lowly or mackovic lowly Okoye Hokulea portion which is completely undefined and he says that this is even deeper than I could them which is why the man does not come down on Shabbos why in the ISIS of the miner khuddam is cloud there's no differentiation whatsoever in a cloud there's no differentiation somebody once told me about speaking he said when you get up to speak yeah you have to do three things I'll quote this person he said in his classic English she says tell them what you're gonna tell them then tell them then tell them what you told them and sit down okay you got it Clow prop the clock if you don't do this you shouldn't open your mouth tell them what you're gonna tell them then tell them then tell them what you told if it sit down those three things problem is most communicators do not do this so and that's why everything is a full-circle cloud practically in the cloud you have no problem in the cloud you may have one sentence and that sentence may include four hours of information you may have one mission statement have one line you have one code and that code includes everything there's no differentiation but what is the definition of the cloud the mother of differentiation the synthesiser of differentiation the unifier of the French in other words I could them is part of the realm of a socialist it's part of the realm of differentiation but the way it's so to speak in its embryo where it's undifferentiated where you still feel the ain't safe and hence of course is no conflict for this is no fragmentation what's felt is the commonality and that's therefore the greatest source of peace but we're looking for peace we're talking already words peace why do we talk about peace vs. conflict because it's no realm where there is potentiality for conflict in other words tell you and ticklin emerge from a khuddam yes they don't look like I could them anymore that's true could the Mugabe tell you when Tikhon is is quantum light-years away so to speak spiritually speaking is there such an expression quantum light-years oh I just made that up okay I was just looking for some more some more intensity in the big yeah light is is this good no quantum as I finish you can look I thought together we'll be obsessed Ikoma holla together it seems they have to travel a little bit so there's no question between I couldn't tell you when ticklin don't lets them don't make us such an easy shot and bias between them just because he went higher than I could them you don't have to put down I could you have to just go higher you know I mean you go higher and not by putting down what you thought before but by elevating yourself that's important so but this is definition of cloud shop as he says it's not the cloud of prot shabbos he says you go back to a place that's beyond the mucker it's beyond the source the cloud is a source for productive and Shabbos is not even a source in other words it's not part of its consciousness its market for Chloe where Maya and Matt are the same and it's mark of everything with one R schmuck and therefore there's no mana shops I suggest for states to the difference ah no ok very interesting is reading the model from have the wrong there I have around Monrovia Hozuki we was four inch before each elephant he had his little co saris yes yes yes yes the clock well we don't call this clock the way the Rambam rode his mission at Toyota if you see the rammer without the Kazakh from the rammons mission at Toyota you learn what say there is you don't only learn what he says you learn what order is because he was an unbelievable misunder and he systemized Judaism the Rambam systemized everything so you see every halakha I'll give a headline let's call the toughest fillin mezuzah massive a terror right else's Shabbos selfish missus our services chauffeurs took a little special condition before he begins he give us a headline a definition the mission statement still he doesn't start yet then he'll count all the mitzvos that are in the Toyota for this entirely there's one mitzvah entire it is on the image to the Robin Hood of counter mitzvahs and then he'll start off with his with his allies and also divided by chapters and each chapter divided by a locus so yes because all learning begins that way Clow cracked and then clumb what are you gonna say say it and then take me back to what you said in other words summarize now could this attempt this is called inspiration out information about what you just said take me right to where existential of right threat and wash gothic pointed and almost every I'll look at the end almost every I look at that and then you'll be of Chabert says and hooks has comments of matzah he lost himself and then a star of the base on McNish okay so so the a sorry so we have here this is already beyond the man so it started the man doesn't come down that the man doesn't come down the man doesn't come down on Shabbos in her Burma smaller Mikkelsen right right right so now I think to clarify this a little more and to be able to appreciate how he's ultimately gonna summarize all of this I want to say a few words to try to apply this to deploy these these these moderate they're not my drag this but these states of consciousness not really states of consciousness even but I guess states of reality we could say we have taken we have toyou we have a kuden and then we have Shabbos which is even beyond that couldn't mean calls it here market huh Chloe where Maya and Matt are completely identical we're in I couldn't he didn't say Milan Matta complete identical and everything is equal because ultimately as we said and I couldn't it's a cloud where the 10 spirits are occurred be clear-cut you don't saying I could then infinite spirits are bound up in one vessel why that you say tensor is a bound to the one vessel because I couldn't miss route really the way that the ten are traced back to their source but it's finding the ten in the source we're beyond that code they may not finding the ten in the source you're dealing with one one does it have ten yeah it has endless possibilities could be could be wide acted why the Hat and why why had the why was there a need for ten spheres maybe this should have been eleven spitters maybe there should have been 1.1 secretary in submitted yeah there could have been well polish am shows ten as the building blocks of the universe but there could have been more could have been infinitely more I could then you say ten in one vessel why can you saying it's inside the shop this because that's what I couldn't miss I couldn't miss I couldn't miss a didn't Smithers use the achiever solution i could' is is a demon the Pratt in other words that's what the cloudless aim but allow elam ashur the flat I could them is an uptight in the Spheeris what do I mean it's an uptight I said in this year of a Ken that and I couldn't this fear is are an uptight and ain't safe right ms that's the fitness of I couldn't I couldn't miss the way you tied up Spheeris as not being serious as being in safe did that work yeah it worked okay in other words until you and take on the types of the serious is fierce and I couldn't the title of the Spheeris is ain't safe but that's the touch of the Spheeris I couldn't miss is there's a commentary on the Spheeris it's touching this don't thing the sphere is a sphere is the spirits are inside but it's telling me it's in the realm of a stylus it's in the realm of identity but it's not identity the way it's individuated its identity the way it still submerged completely in the Infinity and reflecting infinity and hence there's no conflict but what about the ultimate source they you don't talk about ten in one vessel you don't even talk about a vessel you're not even gonna talk about a light I miss and I quote them you're not gonna have ten vessels you can have complete Navitus but what's the nakute of that does the Nakota of that decision is Africa's axis of what after September and then you have the pin of Shabbos where everything goes back so to speak to its original source to the maka for Chloe to the copper ship which transcends any form even of unity of ultimate infinite integration so really in Shabbos there was never even idea of ten because by Shabbos this stone could have been 1.3 right oh yes it was only introduced yes you got ten is introduced and I could them again not 10 10 cuz then I could them it's still up could be clear-cut so we're not really calling it ten because it's really one vessel because what sense there's one and that would mean then that I could them ultimately in the world of toy I want it now I want to say here a few words about application for this I want to read something that somebody sent me I hope I could find it if not all suits from memory I was just a very precious email I like to read what people write let me see if I could find it okay this was written to me by a therapist - some of you know I'm just gonna read it and I'm gonna explain it a little bit because it's a little it's a little complicated okay this minor here but I could omit cetera seems to me as the ultimate commentary on John Ball B's attachment theory one of the most respected theories in psychology in terms of understanding human development human relationships and marriage John Bowlby postulated okay let me just explain this so everybody understands what's happening generally speaking for thousands of years the conception among much of the world was that when children are allowed to be too clingy it undermines their development you need to make children tough and independent till the 1960s if a child was ill even critically and had to be admitted to the hospital in Britain and in America parents could not stay with the child they can visit once a week for an hour or so not more it's hard for people to believe now they sit there 24 hours they bring Sean's office but listen if I didn't make my mitzvos and the hospitals and so on and so forth they move in they make me young and they take over the hospital they start dancing etc but an hour a week parents could come for a child and this was based on an idea based on ideas you have to make people independent in upper-class Britain and Germany children weren't allowed to eat meals with their parents when you were 12 years old you could come for dessert and this was the way the way understood you create mention on the contrary when you coddle children and you become a teddy bear and you embrace them and you hug them and love love love love love love what you do is you create dependent souls clingy Souls they can take responsibility they don't understand consequences etc there was a British psychiatrist who was born in 1907 I believe and he died you already looked it up okay but I didn't look it up okay not now not now and he died 1990 probably or in the 90s September 2nd 1990 okay and he fought very hard to change this he fought he also grew up in such a home he was allowed to eat dinner with his Matty dinner it'll come to dessert after and when he was 12 years old he tried to fought this he published the documentaries and films and when they were almost band and and papers and theories Upali was successful and what's happened is that in the last 20 years probably or maybe more but certainly last 10 20 years his theory in psychology is the dominant theory in therapy not just for children but also for marriage and everything completely was transformed and his argument is gonna sound very simple to you but realize how he had to fight for this argument his argument was it's the other way around if you want children to be able to be detached one day you have to give them an incredible sense of attachment if they won't feel attached they will never be able to become detached because they will always seek for attachment they will always crave it and it will be like a bottomless pit of need of voice that they will never be able to fill and therefore wherever they go they will never have a sense of self because the sense of self depends on the cell being connected to mommy or Tati or a source of love which is usually mommy and Kathy a source of love and therefore the two-year-old look at your two-year-old a two-and-a-half-year-old runs away from you in the house mommy says come come come time to eat , he runs but as he runs what does he do he turns around to make sure mommy or Tati are chasing him or at least looking at him and then he runs further what allows them to run further is the fact that he knows that somebody is looking at him if that person starts stops looking he also stops running he comes right back it's my attachment to my parent that allows me to run away from my parent now what happens if I didn't have that attachment John Bowlby argued I grow up and I'm bruised at my core and I keep on looking for it this was a big big idea very big idea and as I said today to you this I have heard from quite a few therapists that this is the predominant theory ms marriage therapy became like you sewed on your siteís okay so this is one of the most respected theories technology in terms of understanding human development so Bobi postulated that at the core of all human development is the deep and pervasive need to be emotionally attached to another human being this need for attachment is so strong that the equally deep and pervasive need for self actualization becomes impossible without it so we have two needs I have a need to be attached and I have a need to be not attached I want to be me but I can't be me if I don't fill the other need which is to be not me to be attached if you watch a two-year-old running away from its mother you might often notice that he will stop and look back to see what the mothers running after him or at least noticing him if she is that baby will continue running if not that baby might return to the mother in his theory the fact that the mother is running after the baby creates a sense of secure attachment which then allows the baby to explore the world on his own at the of attachment theory lies a seeming paradox our need for independence a strongly dependent on our need for dependence our need for independence is strongly dependent on our need for dependence and only in being dependent are we able to find our independence and if we don't have the dependence we could never become independent because we're always searching for a normal run a child who never develops a secure attachment because of a dysfunctional childhood or whatever reason will be unable to self actualize for this person any conscious attempt for self-expression self-actualization self-realization will be driven by a subconscious attempt at attachment so if the person didn't find attachment they're expressing themselves but really what they're looking for is not for themselves they're looking for attachment and therefore they will actually often sabotage they will often sabotage their self-expression because really they don't have a self so for example if this person will become a public figure what they really need from the public is love they can't really give they can't lead so really they're receiving more than they're giving because they don't have a sense of self they make believe they have a sense of self but really they need everybody for attachment this person can give in a marriage because this person so desperately needs to feel that he exists and the only way he can exist is by attaching himself so very often what happens is this person who doesn't have that sense of self will actually be driven by a conscious or unconscious attempt for attachment and any conscious attempt that attachment will be hindered by the lack of sense of self in other words who's attaching when he tries to attach he says I don't even exist I don't even count I can't attach so he can't even attach because he doesn't believe that there's a person who can attach this ongoing tension of the relation between the needful love and attachment and the need for independence and self-expression lies at the core of so much of human pain and suffering and most marital conflicts can often be traced back to some aspect of this theory where basically when the husband and the wife also desperately need attachment and they don't feel that attachment coming and then there's a lot of pain that develops from that and as a result of that one cannot even be fully independent because of that damaged relationship and that damaged attachment now Bobby saw this theory as part of evolutionary science that is the paradox in human development is simply an arbitrary core in the evolution of man basically it's a mistake that we're this way but we have no choice because in evolution over millions of billions of years in order to survive we have to be in groups if you had cooperation you had more chances for survival on the other hand you also want to be you survival of the fittest but in order to survive you need cooperation so therefore he believed that evolution created this paradox in human nature on one hand we need to be attached and on the other hand we need to be detached but since both exists or their form unfortunately one is dependent on the other our attachment is the cause for our detachment and our detachment allows us to be attached because we have a sense of self but based on this mind mer I now discovered that you have here this whole theory but really you haven't here this theory from a whole different perspective I begin to see human development as understood by attachment theory as a reflection of the cosmic evolution from ange so through I could them through toy you through tickle we each have our inborn and innate inner sense that our eye does not have its own independent existence because it's rooted and I couldn't and then I could them there's no separate eye yet at the same time we're driven by the need to express the eye as an independent existence because Hashem took I couldn't and he morphed it into tell you and tickled where there is independent independent identity and we spend our life somehow trying to make it all work but we are living in a paradox does that couldn't us that summons us to complete attachment to the point that we get lost in a reality that is beyond us and then there's the toy and tickled an idea which drives us for independence according to this moment it would only make sense that our neshama senses this dichotomy literally from the day we are born this is not a mistake is not just that happens to be this is actually the very core of existence that both are very real parts of the human personality attachment and detachment so now would be the perfect case of the baby who thinks of nothing but himself right right easy right oh oh so here is here's history what I want to bring out isn't therapy here's the form can be very brief now hopefully you'll get it so now imagine take for example a couple right he's talking about John Bobby spoke about children but of course as adults this becomes this it becomes a very a very real idea sometimes sometimes we have both elements yeah you'll see sometimes in dating where people are independent so they seek attachment then they get married they're attached now they seek detachment because both are very real forces in life and both need each other so I need attachment you need attachment both spouses need attachment and now they have each other but for attachment is a need for trust there's a need to be able to get lost in you there's a need for you be able to embrace me unconditionally like a child in the bosom of its mother if I don't have that what do I do if I don't feel that safety in the marriage if you don't feel that security around what do you do what do you do you start telling yourself different messages the first measure yourselves I don't need this person but all this person is crazy this person is a sick person there's no my shape for this person is our Russian this person is whatever dysfunctional what am I doing here I'm trying to protect my pain because I'm not getting my attachment but really what I'm really saying is I need you so much the way I'm saying I need you so much is by saying I hate you so much I hate you so much because I need you so much and it's causing me so much pain it's also very hard for me to be able to give to you for that I have to be a strong independent person it's hard for me also to self-actualize so the two become very very deeply connected and it's like mama Roxann should give me it's very hard for people to identify this in themselves because it doesn't look like attachment sometimes looks very very different now now the real question dollars it's very true that if you learn these my Martin and you'll see that this is a system that's in in dozens and dozens of my modern of the ballot Anya he constantly goes back to this theme Octus period back to artists attachment detachment back to attachment for him this is not only not a mistake it's almost it's the beat of existence dancing to the beat of existence means dancing to the beat of attachment the attachment attachment each Saturday Shabbos weekdays back to Shabbos everything is revolves in this because these are these are accords of the soul the soul has different chords and every court has to be played you have a violin you have to play a record is the chord of cloud there's a court of practice the court of I couldn't is the court of tell you there's the court of tickle you can't dismiss any part you have to be able to embrace and include all of them but here are two questions question number one is what if you don't have this what if you did not have attachment and we know many of us struggle with this struggle with having real attachment to be able to be really detached we struggle with our identity because we struggle with attachment for whatever reason early in life later in life abuse other pain the next question is can the two ever really make peace can the two ever is there a model for real integration between the two or is it ultimately a source of never-ending contention and dear it here is the uniqueness of Shabbos you see attachment and detachment are opposites we are the opposites they're opposites in a world will you contrast individuality from oneness in that world will you make that contrast you have tension that tension begins and I couldn't not until you went ago in a khuddam you already have the beginning of the tension I could absolves the tension by saying don't worry we're all one Toyo accentuates the fact I'm gonna say this sharply tell you is like a child who accentuates the subconscious issues of Nami and top t how you says that I couldn was suppressing individuality and it won't stand for it you understand it revolts against I couldn't because there was suppression ah so to speak I'm using here obviously dramatic terminology it shouldn't apply to I put them and tell you but that's really what's happening okay so tal revolts revolts and says a aaaa come on detachment is much more real detachment is much more real and brooding is like you know tries to bring the pieces together brings the pieces together what the ballot Anya is saying is that the real source of healing has to go to a place that's deeper than I couldn't because deeper than I could them there is no tension between oneness and diversity in a kuden there is recognition of tension so we flush out the diversity by saying we're one in a code then we don't flush out anything we're gonna fight this out we're gonna kill each other and brew them is like whoa this house is too dysfunctional for me let's just let's just let's just calm down when you bullet with everybody's fighting it out so we'll say I'm not willing to sit down with I couldn't drug make peace but I'm willing to sit by my shop it's about there I'm there there I believe that this is what so to speak in other words in the Maquis lolly there's no tension I'm not a koala and I could them it's a Corral that makes articles from praten so it's already in the realm of extols Shoeless where there is a concept of differentiation in other words there's a concept of detachment and hence a conflict between attachment and detachment in the world that's deeper there's absolute oneness what do I mean by oneness not even oneness in the sense that it negates diversity and therefore that's a type of oneness that can coexist with diversity that's the place where there is real unity between all of the forces because in the world of Corral I can't have praten on the contrary I negate throughout them to have the cloud that's what makes me a clown and that's the beauty that's the divinity that's the enjoy of other couldn't when you but it's in the realm in the realm of extortionist beyond astonish Lucy says it's Mac if Jaco Baracus my land Matta shovin you're not gonna say that and I couldn't I could them cuts out the matter in the market for quality of Shabbos my land Martha could be sure how could my land mass of each other because there's absolutely no definition for it since there's no definition for it not even the mocker of the ten it's not I take the ten back to Addis it's a point of complete oneness here that's not defined by this video or by that sphere it's not even defined by any form of definition it's not even defined by the fact that unites doesn't have to unite so therefore in that Naqada over there the attachment and the detachment actually perfectly live together what do we mean they live together they live together because they're really the same thing what do I mean they're really the same thing what stop they're really the same thing how can they really be the same thing what it means is that in my complete self identity I can experience complete oneness and in my complete honest I can complete an experience complete presence I think we have what to think about it this class is brought to you by the achieve Annette please help us continue the classes make even a small contribution at triple w dot the yeshiva net / donate