Bitachon Podcast 2 - Forget Tomorrow's Worry

you're listening to the second edition of the brand-new betta home series and we're going to continue our discussion of the alternative artic Sheeta Evita home with a dish that las' be talking without needing to do any efforts and I want to again stress the importance of learning and understanding this sheet to this understanding of reality because while it's true that the main sheet of them the generally accepted opinion when it comes to issue on loose is that we're supposed to do some kind of efforts we're supposed to create some kind of CLE some vessel for God to manifest goodness in the world I feel that generally speaking as the altar holds that there's a great danger in focusing on his status and focusing on efforts that we are to do because what can happen what often happens and if you look at any from Jewish magazine it's all about the his status it's all about the efforts and all of the PR and all of those things and it's important to know that the point of our existence as according to the Gras one of the one of the main focuses why we're on this earth is in order to gain a dependence on a Kadesh Bronco to have be talkin to trust God and it's impossible to trust God if we're completely trusting in ourselves or even if we're putting in a lot of H tell us a lot of efforts rather of course we're supposed to minimize efforts and so it's important to hear the other extreme which is to do no efforts in order to gain an understanding of what it means to truly trust in God to truly believe that Hashem is the one who is doing everything for us and we are just here to learn that to recognize that to develop that awareness I'm going to continue here Christian is binding the most to be talking the ultra says when we think about the essence of what is idea of trusting Hashem name sake he ty Vakula we see that there's a double aspect of be talk on of trusting God and that's why we were trying to understand why it says Baja Dara Shiva Shambo IMF taco there's a double language there what are the two things so he says there are two things Jaquez the first thing we're gonna speak about now we started last week we're gonna continue the new class nefesh a metemma called tiered asylum there's a certain peace and serenity the person has because he knows that who needs some PSR nephesh all of the places that the mind can go the the feeling of overwhelm the feeling of so many different details that need to be attended to make I in a due time ago for nefesh withdraw conscious icon of him some Mazique him and a person sometimes finds himself going in dangerous places in order to attain the things that he needs to attain his his livelihood I sure you holy cow a yacht only leash of herb a climber because she came a row a person can be destroyed physically and certainly a person can be destroyed spiritually or emotionally by all the efforts that a person makes in order to attain his livelihood him eh lyrically I'm an addict daga smoker so he lays down the most amazing sight the most amazing idea concept which is that there's a concept that I should be focused on today I don't need to worry about tomorrow and this doesn't mean like a hedonistic thing who cares about tomorrow we've got today let's let's have fun today no that's not what he's saying he's saying that if I can this is the level if I can have that ability to recognize that I have what I need today and I don't have to worry about tomorrow because Hashem is going to provide me with my needs tomorrow so instead of my life being filled with worry and and and peas are on FS confusion overwhelm about how am I going to live tomorrow if I see I have what I need today if that's my focus and recognition then I don't have to worry Narsha Shiva quotes of the alternative Artic any quotes it here as well that he used to say I can give away all of my two days for one tomorrow but what I need to do is I need to give away all of my tomorrows for today I need to live in the present I need to recognize that God has provided me with a roof over my head with food on a table with all of my needs today and the garag speaks also about this idea of duygu Schmucker of not worrying about tomorrow in a show but talk how is it that I want to worry about tomorrow because I am a certain shiyagare like cults are high that I will get all of my needs me bilious goggle acebos without having to turn around all of these different efforts doing with this thing if I contact this person and I contact another person and I put out this ad and I do this PR and I am seen on Facebook and I'm seeing that all of these things are not necessary I don't have to be so involved in worry and thinking how am I going to succeed because I kodesh about who was the one if I trust in him truly learned not to do that we'll speak about that whoa because how do we attain this but let's hear the idea first tarik avoid avail maulan though the work and the hard efforts but kiya Chekov éramos and a life of falsehood and trickery a net circle a clone a person trusting God does not need anything inna Mikasa Albany autumn Lestrade says la mulana foam he doesn't have to run after people in order to get them to be convinced or to have flattered them Ynez doesn't mean that guy he doesn't have to move from his way right there's a big danger I'm always trying to flatter people always trying to impress people I'm just trying to get on their good side so they'll do me a favor so the danger is that I'm going to have to give up my principles what I know is right when I know it's true person who has trust notion doesn't have to give up anything of his principles in Marathi me died to be uneasy Tadashi he doesn't give up his opinion for a bowl of lentils as we know that a sub did with Yaakov the Messiah Hadassah Nicola Sheila said I'm a person closes his mind turns off all the thinking turns off all the questions terms of all of the worries about all of the issues in his life move - in the XLE he is for sure he's certain that he won't be missing anything he will have his needs wha - Seamus nagua Chavez nefesh the person who trusts in God so he goes along with serenity his soul is serene hope takuan of nimitz away hungry when it comes to all the things that he needs in his physical existence he does giddy us a Brugha his understanding is clear he knows for certain she after the high Sevilla grill master goes La Habana that he can't add on to or subtract that which his creator has decreed for him a fellow Kahoot isara even as much as a hair's breadth gamma me Eric classically laced hair Milam even if there will be an emergency in the world a time of emergency no you guys are lovely but cloud it won't touch his heart it won't it won't make him nervous right there's stories inertia Shiva's tells about how the alter Navarre dhic he lifted her in the world with the first world war he was at the end of his life was immediately after world war ii world war one i'm sorry and personal travel by train they would walk into the train and there would be people there there will be soldiers there we very difficult to be very scary and so so he would get on the train with his students and he tells a story about they got on a train and they walked him to the car and there was all of these soldiers all around and they were very it was a sight which would ordinarily cause someone to be afraid and his student was acting a friend he said you're afraid there's nothing to be afraid of and he took his pipe and he walked over to the guy by the most although the different things on his on his lapel all of the awards for his bravery etc he walked over to me he said excuse me and he pulled out his pipe and he said will you light my pipe please and the guy said sure he pulled out a match he lit his pipe the idea is when a person has be taka when a person has true trust and god there's nothing to be afraid of even in a time of danger Mohammed Sevilla pretty solid LaFave I won't be afraid for his own personal circumstances his heart won't shake if it's Heine shamash leanings are love like I love the raw because he is certainly as amazing be talking trust in God that nothing can happen to him not no bad thing can happen to unless it was an examination I'm unless it was decreed from heaven then in such a horrific way Lama betta so happens such a person walks along in the world with amazing self-assuredness and of course it's not because he's self-assured buzz because he trusts in God it's a map with hell could believe the Agha boxes cloud he's happy with what he has he's not worried there's no sadness there's no depression it's only possible to be sad to be depressed because a person feels like they don't have what they need they didn't get what they wanted but if a person recognizes that they have everything they need Kela costs for light but khumba highway it's it's so amazing it's possible to look at one's life until you're so worried about the future so worried about what they're not going to have that they don't notice that I have everything that I need right now so the altar is saying it's an amazing thing because the gras in speaking about PITA home speaks about the the twins or the the sister concepts of betoken and his status potaka means I trust God and as we're speaking about here it's not possible to trust God and expect that I will get what I want or I will get what I need perhaps even what I want we'll have more of a discussion about that perhaps in the future but he stopped goods means and it's it's not the same concept and but it's something that he's mentioning here I stopped cos means that I that I recognize that I have everything that I need and I as I understand it so the idea of his stop cos means that when I'm in that space where I recognize that I have what I need I'm in a humble space I'm in a humble place and as a result of being in that place and that's that mental and emotional and spiritual place so then what comes along with that is that God grants me beyond just what I have right now and I merit to have an even higher level a great a greater level the example I'd like to give you is I often find myself on Fridays going shopping for Shabbos and often I'll be looking for the shortest line to get on as as it's time to get to the checkout counter and I always I shouldn't say always but ordinarily I find that the line that I choose is the longest line ends up being the longest line the should do something wrong with the paper the cashier somebody can't get their credit card working whatever it is so I found it useful to say you know what I dove good I want to go specifically for the longest line I choose the longest line and I do that with a little bit of humor and a little bit of seriousness and it feels to me that because I'm grabbing trying to grab onto the shortest line so a Shem says my dear friend we're gonna we're gonna teach you some patience but when I when I come in with that recognition from the onset you know what I don't need a shortest line I'll take the I'll take the longest line happened to me this past Friday when first is the longest line and then out of the corner of my eye I noticed that there was another line that was much shorter and I felt like you know I was in that right space I can go over to the what looks like the shortest line because I'm not doing it out of grab eNOS and indeed I went over to that line and it was shorter the paper did get stuck in the in the cash register but she fixed it rather quickly okay Verena daga daga smock marker says the alter the person the individual is not worried about tomorrow why they should Marcus we're not sure because he feels inside of himself she me Ashley B talk line Ashley Jaco that if he has trust in God he has everything he shares a high Michele vote a love is Clooney after we get ready talking every question that a person has every issue that a person faces in life can be answered with be talking with trust in God that's the ultimate answer all the other things that we trust in all the other places that we place our trust they might work they might not but God as he says later on is the share shots lufs God is the root of all success so any person that we're going to go to to ask for help the only way that that person will be able to help us is if God grants him the success for us so why go to the to the messenger go straight to the source if we trust in Hashem we have everything it's the answer to every problem so that's the first aspect is that a person who has beaten so he's got the answers he's got the answers vache knees she usually they're happy talking so the first one I'm sorry again is that he has the answers and therefore he has he has Manuka Sanofi she's he's calm the second concept is an amazing deep concept we're gonna start it now we'll get more into it next time the concept is that she usually dare have you talking he is someone who is a Babita hun he is somebody who has it's like it's like we're going to see is going to give us an example but but the the alter of Navarra himself used to sign his name yes aviable Horvitz Bayes base after his name would rent the two letters base base and some people write MD some people write MSW whatever the letters are the people write but he would write Bayes base which stood for excuse me Bobby talking because he had that sense inside of himself that was his milah that was his advantage that was his you know his shame to are he had a degree in be talkin that was his his thing that was his ability so the person who has be talkin this is the second aspect so he has that Miley says we're gonna we'll see you next time but he says it's like somebody who's very powerful despite the fact that people he's very strong he's an amazing commander of armies so besides for the fact that he could make money off of that besides the fact that people will pay him for that but there's the actual milah itself the the shame devar the title that he has that he is a commander he is he is an awesome military strategist just that thing itself is something awesome the fact that son is a Bobby talkin he has the Dara hobby talkin that in itself is the second aspect which the which he has and what it means is as well see you next time that everywhere he goes he knows that he doesn't have to worry about anything he will never have to worry about anything ever again in his life because he always has be talkin and be talkin always works you can always depend on a Shem shall always be there for him thank you so much for listening we'll see you next time and before I wrap up I want to mention that I'd like to start a group a live group of people speaking about be talking working on be tough on a men's group a woman's group a men's group led by men a woman's led by women if you are interested in such a thing I invite you to send me an email Ari Gold wag at gmail.com and we'll see how much interest there is and and where the shims help we will start 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