Brit Mila For Yosef Reuven w/ Rav Aharon Zeev and Rabbi Yaron Reuven

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have any p penny no I don't have he's go to theab say no what giving me money he say he not make money nothing Rabbi say I know the problem I go he said Rabbi I don't give money from the horses I don't give money from the gold I won't give money for [Music] like everybody from this I want for the people study to make not for that I from you is coming with the hes with the gold for that I know give money you know English what HEB people asking said NOAB I not speak Hebrew money from sh he put the money inside the if somebody make only from he put the money outside I know you make all your money I give from like BRS people from to study now I give double if I give 100,000 I give [Music] 200,000 fore [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] we'll say a couple of things we we chose to name the little sadik ysf why we name him Y in uh the the business of ah the uh business of when you do you uh you get surprised because you meet people from all walks of life you see you meet people that are not religious and don't really know much and don't really know the purpose of life don't really know why they're alive uh they work they eat they drink they sleep but you asking what's the point of life they don't really know and then you also so you figure okay so you bring some to to their life and you add some purpose but then after a while you meet some other people you meet some people that already have Torah but still are confused they're not really sure what's you know what's the point what's this even though they have they have it doesn't necessarily mean they have all the answers there's a lot of people that go to but they finish is without knowing anything they passed the test but didn't learn anything though so you meet religious people too and you see that in reality there are different people from the religious World from the non-religious world sometimes you also meet go that want to uh become Jews more than the Jews want to be Jews it's amazing how the right at the end of uh third page three bit talks about that before the mashia comes there's going to be a lot of converts a lot of people going to want to convert to Judaism a lot of people are going to want to be Jews and it's amazing that many times you meet people that want to be Jews a lot more than Jewish people want to be Jews why one reason is that when you look at things from the outside you see the whole picture but sometimes when you're inside you don't really value it take it for granted like somebody owes you something it's like oh yeah I was born Jewish what's the big deal you ask the that wants to be a Jew is it a big deal be to be a Jew the go tell you I'm willing to die for it why he knows what's the big deal he sees from the outside so you get to meet religious people you get to meet non-religious people you get to meet go that want to be Jews you get to meet people that uh want to become right righteous noahides so you get to meet people from all walks of life but one of the that we had is that early on when we first started about four or five years ago to do do lectures is we decided to do a lecture about something that uh almost nobody in the English World wants to talk about which is the sin of git the says it's the worst sin in the entire Tor the Z says person that doesn't do chv for wasting seed he's finished he keep shab he keep he keep everything else he doesn't do finished everything else becomes worthless all of his go to you see the talk about it scary scary and today we have a addiction to because most people don't know how bad it is somebody told me recently out of the entire internet one of the reasons why the internet became so popular originally it was a project of the government the government had internet but how did it go how did the internet go into home computers why did the home computer become because of pornography sites that's what built the internet and today there are more than 80 million maybe 800 million doesn't you know just one zero difference 80 million pornography sites 80 million ways to losea 80 million ways yet is working very hard so much so that it says that sometimes helps a person do go put on keep shabat learn T do do everything just make this one sin go to look at this website think about bad things why because then all of those mitv go to him anyway so he helps the person do mitv so he could take everything everything so we learn that the details of the story of after his brothers sold him yadik was a very very beautiful person one of the most beautiful people that ever lived he was so beautiful that his skin was shining shining like a sheemish like a like a light you see the light his skin was shining like this so much so that the women would throw something at him throw their underwear their shirts their money gold throw anything just pay attention to me but he never did he always looked on the floor always looked on the floor never looked at another woman so say wait a minute when the wife of she was also one of the four most beautiful women in the world she wasn't ugly she wasn't like uh giet or something like that with a uh Hunchback sold you know she was beautiful so how come Moshe ysf wasn't really uh how do he how did he pass the test how did he pass the test one of theim says because YF he never looked at her he never looked he tried not to look at her why because attraction is a two-way street if they look at you they get attracted but if you look at them you get attracted and then the attraction grows even more which is one of the reasons why watching your eyes to make sure that you don't look at the places you're not allowed is one of the foundations to doing chuva one of the foundations to having a good marriage one of the foundations of having a good life why because a person that doesn't watch their eyes and just looks at everything like a dog what happens a woman walks around it's not his wife he looks at her his wife says yeah but I'm over here why are you looking at her oh no no was just uh you know no I didn't mean to okay next girl comes out he looks at her too and the waitress and the this one and a that one by the time he finished taking a walk down the street with his wife his wife feels wait are you married to all of them or me he forgot about he forgot his wife is next to him person doesn't understand that if he looks at other women anytime he looks at his wife he's GNA find something's wrong with her why because there's always something that somebody else has that you don't have so if you look at other women guess what you're going to take the best of them so she had nice hair and she had nice eyes and she had nice arms and this and and then you look at your wife and you look at all the all the missing items and they're looking their best and your wife just came out of bed she's just waking up so what happens it ruins a marriage you're looking at other women it ruins a marriage destroys a marriage but it also ruins life in general why because a person doesn't watch their eyes he's always going to look at what his neighbor has you know there's an expression in English they say the grass is always greener on the other side you know you know the grass is green on the other side it really isn't green on the other side it's all it's always green it's green over there it's green over here but why does it seem like it's greener on the other side because once you start looking somewhere else you forget what you have you forget what you have home you forget to appreciate what you have home Hashem gave you a car but you're looking at your neighbor's car it's like is a g look at this thief he has a brand new car yeah but khabi you brought a brand new car two months ago why does he have to be a thief he has a brand new car you brought a new car two months ago you forgot you brought a new car two months ago why because he has a new car now is a g look at his house look at his house a million dollar house yeah but you live in a $2 million house why do you care has a million doll house what is it taking money out of your pocket what do you care he's living in a house you're paying for it people look at other people's stuff and they destroy their life why number one first and foremost they become they become a person that's not good to be next to second thing is which is even worse they give to themselves and third and worst they're never ever going to be happy with what they have Yik never looked at what wasn't his when the wife of told him no come on why don't you be with me says what I'm going to everything that the boss did for me P did for me gave me a job he gave me a house he gave me everything I'm going to go against him steal his wife you crazy so he didn't want to be he didn't want to be ungrateful but still one day thear says Tor says that everybody left the whole house left it was a huge house and everybody left nobody was there except and so asked wait a minute how is it such a big house so many servants so many slaves how is it that there's nobody home except and your says this was their holiday the holiday of like their Christmas their uh their Easter they whatever their Buddha holiday so everybody went to worship their Idol and the wife of potifar pretended like she was sick why she says listen I'm going to take my chance today today I have him alone I have your alone so she got YF alone and YF the says almost sinned he almost fell for it until the last second he saw an image of his father he saw an image of yobu and yob said to him listen if you touch her you're not going to be one of the tribes it's not going to be one of the not going to be your the tribe of YF nothing you're nothing you become nothing you become a gilou of a dog you come back as a dog that's why a Jew that goes out with and touches Aya comes back as a can go as a dog little pincher little pit buul he comes back that's what he says you see some dogs roaming in the streets so you should say maybe it's a maybe it's a little MOS from uh from the last why he wanted to go out with the Goya from the clubs person needs to know how how dangerous it is YF almost fell for it because he had it's came to him in an image but still the urge was very strong and thear says that he took his hands and he dug them and he caused pain to himself like broke his own fingers in order to kill the urge because sometimes that's what you need to do says in different ways that you could cool yourself off one of the ways they used to do is they would actually burn themselves why because you can't have pleasure and if you're a normal person you can't have pain and pleasure at the same time you don't need to do that if you do some of the other things that we can teach you don't need to do any of this stuff but the point is to just to show you how scared the were of wasting seed of of doing something that's not allowed that's forbidden the eyes of hem the same par same Paras also talks about because sometimes people think oh no see this is only a problem for the uh for Jewish people no no this is a problem also for going to too why the time of the sons of yud there's no Torah there's just oral Tor there's no R Tora all R hundreds of years later wasted seed hasem killed both of them them there's no Second Chance third chance fourth chance they wasted seed they looked at uh movies rated are finished I don't need you in the world why because all of the good which is called in Hebrew she she that hasem gives you when a person Wast seed when a person is uh doesn't watch his bleed he destroys it destroys it all the good that hm gives you destroy says if you're destroying everything good that I'm giving you there's no P there's no point you're not going to fulfill your mission so in this generation in this generation we need aik why because the problem of t is everywhere I'm telling you from experience because we have hours maybe I don't know 15 20 hours worth of wasting seed on the internet the most amount out of any English lectures that anybody else has in an English language there are a couple of other rabbis thata they spoke about it a little bit but each have an hour or 50 15 minutes two hours we had a whole series about it but because of that and because it's so rare in the English language people are very scared to say things they're all politically correct they oh it's offensive why it's offensive if it's Tor what's offensive about it's to well you're not going to know one day you're going to know one one way or another you grow up you realize you need to know what to do well if you wait until you grow up to know what's going on it's too late already so this is why hasem put it in said in the beginning of the Torah so the kids the children already know what it is that's what it was supposed to be but because no one teaches that anymore in English at least many people people from sometimes even rabbis secular people no Heights all people from all over the world contact us specifically about this why it's a for everybody and people are realizing little by little that it's part of the reason why they're they have a disconnection with Hashem because this is one of the things that Hashem hates hates Z hates immodesty hates being wasteful with the that we give him our body is not ours really we called our body because we become comfortable with it but how how do we protect this breit we have to learn from our aot we have to learn from our aot we have to learn to be strong like them maybe a few months ago my Rabbi told me had a lecture and he said a story about a K in Tripoli and this K had a family of gorim that would protect the Jews there were strong people that protect the Jews and one day they uh one day the go didn't like this the Arabs didn't like this the British didn't like this why because all of the Jews were were listening to these uh strong Jews these gim so he decided to arrest everybody because they didn't want to work on Shabbat they told him listen from now on you work on Shabbat the GI said to them we're not working on Shabbat we're not working on Shabbat yeah but they're going to arrest they're going to throw us in jail let us throw him in jail throw us in jail better we keep Shabbat and go to jail then we don't keep Shabbat we have a problem with hem okay so they arrested everybody K is in jail and they see the British rash sees everybody's happy in jail me skining they all happy in jail why cuz there they're over there they're in jail they keep Shabbat they see you know what there's only one problem this whole K has only one problem why this one gibo his name is GI his name is gii he's the problem he takes them out takes them out of the place he says I'm going to make an example out of you if you don't tell them all to be I'm going to break every single bone in your body he says no problem break not breaking Shabbat the British guy left he brought one of the his amalik soldiers that he has went inside the cell with him he told them kill him the British guy left but the Arab guy he knew gii he knew him he wasn't uh he knew he doesn't mess around and GI tells them if you touch me if you touch a hair on my body you're not coming out of the cell alive he says yeah but the the general is going to kill me you can kill me or he's going to kill me so at least pretend like I'm hitting you he says fine I'll pretend so he hits the wall he says ow hits the wall he says ow so the general left he released everybody and then after that there was a big bombing a lot of people died he took GI was the hero took all the bodies buried everyone every day he would come back from the uh place from the bombing with blood all over his body blood all over his body nobody else wanted to do it but you have to do it you have to bury the Jewish bodies somebody open the door after he finished burying all the [Music] bodies after you finished burying all the bodies they were very very poor and one rich person Rich Jew came to town heard about this mitvah he came to him and he says I'm willing write a check whatever price you want I just want to buy the mitvah from you now just you understand you have with food over here it's all good it's all delicious for giing they had one egg one egg for the whole family one egg for the whole family but because his wife was pregnant he's gave it to his wife he says you eat the rest of us are going to fast today you eat so somebody comes he says I'm going to give you any amount of money you want just give me this Mitzvah no one's going to knowby says what you think I'm GNA sell mitvah you think I'm gonna sell this Mitzvah these are my brothers I'm burying my brothers so you see this GI had strength he wasn't AIG he wasn't a uh he didn't write books but he had in and he stood up for what was right he kept Shabbat he kept the Mas he didn't make any uh excuses and years after he already left this world one of the says a story about him and interesting is interesting thing is I never knew this story until my Rabbi told me and why did my RAB tell me the story out of all the stories is because it's our grandfather it's our grandfather so the doesn't know it's our grandfather he doesn't know who I am actually answered one of our questions but it's our grandfather why because the previous generation stood for something stood for something we stood for something you have to think about it as a Jew you have to think about it if you're not going to keep tah 100% not 50 not 60 100% there's no such thing as like 50/50 there's no such thing it's either you keep or you don't keep there's no like oh no he's a half a religious there's no such thing you go to Sham say oh yeah yeah Isa the half religious guy there no such thing is the guy where half of the things he did were a half of the things he did were okay we pay him for the a we pay him for the mitv but the unfortunately have a very very big payment so until we get to the mitv maybe a few thousand years why so a person needs to know for you to be here today is has been sacrificing their life for 3,330 years mhu sacrificed his life sacrificed his life says erase me from your book if you're going to touch is why they did to him is Curse him and embarrass him and go against him if I was M say you know what you have a good idea maybe we should start something new why all they do is complain all they do is go against you hem you know what let's just start something new but that's why I'm notu mosu says noem You Gonna touch them kill me first after mosu you have Yeshua then you have all the you have you have the unbelievable but if you read the you look at look at you look at all of the you see that every talks about how much suffering is had to go through in order to be Jewish but not half a Jew not sometimes a Jew and sometimes a always a Jew and always proud of it you're going to read me soon says this is a Jew how do they know he's a Jew the Ben the grandfather of he says why cuz his pirs were so big you can see it from far away that he was a Jew M was a proud Jew he wasn't like embarrassed to be a Jew so he's wearing go clothes he was proud to be a Jew he was walking around with Hisar all the time he was walking around with hisim all the time he was telling people I'm going to learn Tor I'm not going to uh play basketball he proud to be a Jew you have M you have all of Thea AKA his whole life his whole life 40 Years of his life didn't hated Torah then he understood what Torah is he loved Torah after that for 80 years 80 years he sacrificed his life for at the end of his days they killed him in a very vicious way and his says why don't you say the sh kill everybody here with the Holy Name he says I have opportunity to make one mitvah now that I never made in my life to die on K to say hem I love you with my life too my soul I never been able to do this Mitzvah now you want me to ruin it for what by saving myself a few more years so you see understood the value of a Mitzvah it's worth to die for a Mitzvah Shalom wrote in his amazing book called to remain a Jew he says about aik at the time of the the Holocaust they made him undress took off all of his clothes and then all he left on was his TI says take off your tiit I'm not taking off my ti go take off your ti I'm gonna kill you he says kill me kill me I'm not taking off the ti yeah but you took off all the rest of your clothes he goes yeah the rest of the clothes meaningless don't take off why it comes with he goes why he goes because this is my agreement with that he's going to take revenge on my blood against you that's the he's willing to die for a is has been willing to die for the Tor for 3,330 years now you have to ask yourself a question if we decide we don't feel like being Jewish like the torat says so now one day after 120 or sooner we're all going to go there we're going to go to Sham and they're gonna have a bed in sh mhe David and they're going to be there my grandfathers are going to be there and say wait a minute look how much we wait look how much we suffered for you to be a Jew for 3,000 years we suffered for you to be a Jew this one sacrifices life this one sacrific all of his money this one this this one everybody sacrificed his life and you decide you don't feel like you wanted to be secular you decid you want to be a go why why' you ruin it 3,000 years stops with you think about it you're GNA go up to sh and say wow 3,000 years they all celebrating I'm is is I'm is then this little MOS is coming to sh say oh no more I'm is ended that MOS why he didn't want to be a Jew anymore he wanted to be a he wanted to go to the casino he wanted to go to the beach he wanted to go play basketball he didn't want to go to k he didn't want to go TOA he didn't want to keep Shabbat so it ended with him so you're gonna get up to sh you're gonna meet MOS M says why' you do this to me what I do to you 3,000 years I fought for you to be a Jew why'd you ruin it what are you going to say oh I had desires what you think he didn't have desires I wanted to have fun what you think they didn't want to have fun we think Tora is not fun in this generation we have to find a way to connect to our aot we have to find a way to overcome desires we have to find a way to constantly remind ourselves of why what we're fighting for what we're fighting for what's the point of all of it that's what we talked about yesterday what is the point of all of it but to have righteous kids it can't just be because of our it also has to be because of the parents here the says a story about a woman by the name of Kim Kim had eight children all of them every kid the came to rabit new help us how all your kids okay one kid fine two kids fine all of them all of them how what's the secret what do you feed these kids she says never in my life did the walls of my house see one hair on my head my whole life the walls in my house not the neighbors not the not the not the neighbor the walls the walls of my house never saw my hair she would have somebody with a sheet a bed sheet cover her so she could take off a why so the walls don't see maybe there's in the walls come back in G maybe somebody's peing from somewhere else maybe he going to make her comfortable with our too much she says modesty is so important for a woman I didn't even want to be comfortable with myself because I didn't become too comfortable myself and I protected myself and no one saw my immodesty no one saw my hair hasem gifted meik kids you could read T from here to next year but if you go to the beach every other day guess what nothing's going T is not going to help you better off to leave in the beach leave the te in the beach and you stay home it's better the point is you have to have teamwork the father has to learn Torah the mother has to teach it to the kids why it's not easy in this worldo there a lot of T A lot of desires a lot of problems the parents have to be strong strong for the kids until the kids are strong enough to do it thems if we can connect to to the ones that are in the books and the ones that we remember in our life just 10 20 years ago and take their strength their Torah their and remind ourself that if we do it right we go to the same place as them that's eternity of good if we don't they're going to see us they're going to say why did you ruin it do you really want to be the one that ruins it 3,000 years of history no one wants to be the loser no one wants to be the one that ruins everything so just remember is not just something to do it's what kept is Jewish without there's no Judaism all of the Kim all of the Heretics where the Sadducees duim all of the reform all of the kites all of these there's no memory of them they don't exist anymore there's new versions of them but the originals don't exist anymore the Greeks the Romans the Turks the the Nazis all of those the originals are all gone all that's left is but the only part of that continues to survive is the religious ones why because the non-religious eventually become go eventually they become go one generation finished so always remember if your parent your kids are copycats they're going to do a little bit less than you a little bit less than you that's just the way it works you're gonna talk business on Shabbat they're gonna work on Shabbat you're going to wear like a half a m skirt they're not going to wear a skirt at all they're going to wear jeans or shorts you're going to cover the hair sometimes they're not going to cover hair at all they're always going to do a little less this is what a parent needs to think about so if you do a little more guess what even if they do a little less they're still going to be okay they're still gonna be okay gives your a lot of a lot of gives his mom a lot of strength and his father a lot of to continue being that takes care of the kids teaches them day and night you look at the kids they know a lot they know they know and they're all little it has nothing to do with me I I work for for hem constantly I'm always out or I'm learning everything is my wife why she's constantly with him and she knows if is not ingrained into the kids day and night from morning to night all day we're not going to hold up we're not going to hold up and then we're going to be the ones that ruined it we don't want to be the ones that Ru it so we have a lot of strength to raise more more kids with thank you again for [Applause] [Music] coming [Music] [Applause] for for [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] for [Music] I want only to see to say one word what's this we say what is this it's nice to see for [Music] spee e [Music] n [Music] [Applause] [Music] la [Music]