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Can You Tune Into Your Spouse?
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there's two ways in which marriages
operate
one is
the simakis
and one is
the samach
rashi says
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if you're going to translate this
passage
i'll be happy the first year with my
wife you're making a mistake why are you
making a mistake what's wrong
for a relationship to really thrive
and reach
its most powerful place
its most powerful potential
is
when a person
can truly tune in
and ask themselves
what does the other person really need
what does the other person really want
that i can give
when a husband and a wife ask this
question
let me really tune in to you
let me really think
about who you are
your mental space your neshama
your life your challenges your gifts
what your day looks like what your night
looks like your weaknesses your fears
your joys your hopes your dreams really
tune into it
and bring joy to that place
what am i going to get out of it but
what is she going to do in return but
what is he going to do in return
and where do i come into the picture
okay i got it
if there is betrayal if there's a lack
of trust this can't happen
but in a healthy relationship of two
mentally
emotionally stable people who work on
themselves and who want a good marriage
if the focus of a marriage remains
limited to quit
you did this for me yesterday i'll do
this for you today you made me happy yes
okay i owe you one favor
the relationship lives in a very
superficial place
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