CHAZAQ’s Torah Talks #13: Harry Rothenberg - The Road to Heaven is Paved with Good Intentions

welcome yet to another amazing timely tuesday torah talk we have with us tonight a very special dear friend and guest mr harry rottenberg a renowned speaker a renowned lawyer oh that reminds you of how i met you that's funny i actually met harry because i needed his services and ever since kazakh and harry rondenberg have been synopsis production with so many events and chairman lectures and welcome harry to the show how are you doing i'm doing very well thank you always a pleasure to see you and i hope you're doing well too oh we are doing great and we are really excited about tonight's uh program the road to heaven is paved with good intentions that's a topic for tonight so let's jump straight into it okay so usually the focus of shavuot which is uh right around the corner is about staying up all night and learning sometimes we might overlook you know looking into the zucchini into the verses and meeting of miguel root can you please give us a small glimpse into miguel rude harry yeah so so to do that i want to point out that we know that we learn a lot of the laws a lot of the whole office about conversion about garrus from russ she's like the iconic convert and there's a very interesting gematria if you match up the the letters with their corresponding numbers russ's name in gematria the numerical value is 606 which makes sense because beforehand when she wasn't jewish she had the sheva mitzvah spinning noah the seven myths vote that apply to non-jews that they have to obey she added on 606 russ to get the 613 so that's her name now you'll say oh that's very interesting one second what about israel moshe's father-in-law didn't he convert beforehand and if you look at his name he's also got the reish the valve and the top he's also got rust in his name but he's an extra yud he is an extra unit because he was there at the mountain at harcina when we got the ten commandments that doesn't count if you're there when it shims up on the mountain give you the ten commandments buddy of course you're gonna convert so we don't he's not the person from whom we learn lessons she is okay so here's the key question if i say to you and we know there's this incredible scene where russ and her sister orpah they and their sisters-in-law they they were married to two jewish men who had moved to moab with their parents but not naomi and with ali mela and naomi has lost her husband she's heading back now to israel and she's telling rosadorpa go back to your gods and orpah kisses her goodbye and leaves and rus comes with and we learn from that like when somebody says they want to convert you have to push them away teach them some laws then when you see their sincere then you grab them so if i said to you the simplest question when did russ convert when did she become a jew you'll say to me right what are you going to say to me that's it this is it right then and there naomi's teaching her laws and she's saying wherever you'll be buried i'll be buried and i'm gonna go with you and your god is my god perfect there's only one problem if this is the time when russ is becoming a jew she's converting right now which means she did not convert before she married her husband we've got a little bit of a problem because if you look at the story later on what happens is that boaz marries russ and that's a big marriage because from that soon after a few generations later none other than david malek king david is born so that's a very big deal but before boaz can marry her he has to go to another person plony armonie we don't even get his name he's like john doe because he he he he didn't make the decision to to marry russ and he has to ask him permission because he's a closer relative it's based on if a man dies he doesn't have children would go to his brother so this is there's some kind of connection that russ has to the closer relative one second if russ met wasn't jewish and she married a jewish man we don't look for the relative jewish man marries a non-jewish woman and dies we don't say to his his brother his relative huh you have to marry her now she's not jewish if she converted later what's going on we can't understand the whole rest of the of miguelous russ she'll say okay obviously there's only one choice she must have converted before she married her husband great if she married before she could if she converted before she married her husband how is naomi telling her go back to your gods can you imagine a woman converts she's sincere she converts she becomes a yid her jewish husband dies you say hey you know what your husband go back to your gods well what's going on what is naomi doing how can she be telling them and orpha goes back so we're stuck if she converted now that we can't understand the whole rest of the magellan and if she converted earlier then we can't understand the scene what's going on you hear the question okay so my rebbe rabbi milevsky zadzal used to explain as follows he says that for sure russ and orpah converted before they married their husbands their husbands were the the sons of of elimelech and naomi they definitely did not marry non-jewish women they converted they had jewish weddings they married jewish women the problem is now naomi's going back penniless back terrace as well she doesn't know if these two girls were sincere maybe they married these jewish guys because you know jewish men they're very handsome and they were and they were wealthy and they had a shame told they had great names maybe they weren't sincere so what naomi is doing is she's testing their sincerity to see back when they converted were they sincere or not so she tests them and she sees ah warpa she wasn't sincere she never really converted russ is saying what are you what are you doing where you go i'll go where your god is my god where you'll be married i'll be buried i was sincere i'm a jew just like you i'm going with you so she sees the hebrew words lima freya she sees retroactively that orpah wasn't really sincere russ was so that's what's going on in this in this beautiful scene and that helps us understand the story of ross and her story what's one aspect of her story in the magilla and the point is that your intentions matter we may not know if you just looked at them at the wedding rose looks like a nice jewish girl and orp looks like a nice jewish girl brand new jewish girls they both look sincere they both look you know very nice they're having a great time at their wedding we see later one was absolutely sincere one wasn't wow amazing okay harry are there any other examples of this concept in the torah so so there's another beautiful one um what happens is a very difficult scene difficult to understand um dina the daughter of yaakov daughter of jacob is kidnapped she's abducted and violated by schwem and her two brothers shimon and levi they go into the city and they deceive the people in the city they say oh you want to marry our sister sure you just have to have a brisk mila all of you get circumcised on the third day after they convince them they get circumcised they go in and they wipe out the entire city so shimon and levy brothers in arms they went into the city why'd they go in presume they went in for the same reasons years later what happens shaman and levy have descendants shimon's descendant is a fellow named zimri who was an abs absolutely it's he was the leader of the of the shavit shimon but he made a mistake and his mistake was that he had a a relationship a dalliance in public with a with a non-jewish woman and his tribe surrounded his tent to protect him and pinchas from shay that levy went in pretended that he was going in for different reasons into the tent then he and he hid his weapon he went in with his weapon and he killed zimri and killed cosby the the uh the princess with whom he was consorting so you see again retroactively you know what was going on we didn't see this until now we wouldn't have known this shimon went in to go after the people that kidnapped his sister because you don't touch my sister family comes first lady went in because you don't touch abbasi strong you disgrace the jewish people when you did that so lady had in mind the jewish people shimon had mined my family and so you don't see that it looks the same what they're doing they did the same action we don't know what's going on in their head but years later we see from their descendants that what was going on in their heads was something very different and it could be could well be that that's why levy's lady leave he becomes the living lady becomes the the the priests and and a portion of labia or the kohanam shimon this isn't as well known become the teachers the people from shimon lake levy are spread out they become the teachers why maybe we could suggest because if you want to be a good teacher you have to feel like your students are your family and family first so that is hazak that's important you have to be careful it's not family first when you're with uh you know moabite princess and uh you know sinning then it's not hashem has to it has to take has to take priority that's another example amazing amazing uh just a few weeks ago we experienced freedom on pesach on passover can you please explain the powerful connection of the journey from passover to shavuot so i can but it's a painful one to describe and i'll tell you a story and this this bothers me every time i think about it many years ago i was in court i'm a as you know i'm an attorney i i help people out after they get injured in serious accidents and we had a case that didn't settle going to trial so it was in april or so and the judge says okay let's pick a trial date and he suggests a date and i take out my old blackberry my old phone and i look on my calendar and i say oh your honor i i can't do that date it's a jewish holiday and he smiles he says mr rothenberg he says listen um i'm not jewish but i've been on the bench in new york city for 30 years and i know there's passover in the spring and there are the high holidays in the fall there's no jewish holiday in between did your honor what are you talking about of course there is he says what are you talking about there's no jewish holiday in between i said it's he said what's that i never heard of it before so i explained to him you know the story of passover the the jews the israelites the exodus the ten plagues we all know that story he says sure i said well 50 days later remember that's a movie also charles heston moses he's up on the mountain and he and he has the the the the commandments the the tablets and he smashes them he says yeah i said we have a holiday we celebrate 50 days later when we got the torah he said i i apologize i had no idea and so of course he gave us a new date so i left there thinking like how is it possible he was he was so 100 sure so how's it possible because he has many many many jewish lawyers observing not observing jewish jewish who said your honor i can't do that it's passover your honor i can't make that date it's rosh hashanah your honor i can't make that date it's young kipper he never had somebody say to him i can't make that date it's shiva is and that's what's so so difficult because we have such an incredibly high percentage of jews observant not observant you can ask you can ask not every but an incredibly high percentage of jews what are you doing for passover oh we're getting together we're family we're going to have a seder observant not observing us you can walk around heir of shivers and go stop 10 jews on the street you know you know what tonight is no i i don't know this year uh sunday i i have no idea is there a new tv show premiering like well what's going on is it it a ball game no it's shivuas what's that and that is um it's a shame and i think that a lot of the reason is that on pesach it's like you open a an envelope and you pull out it to check like an unexpected check like i don't know a tax refund you weren't expecting or something you already said wow it's a check in the mail and schmuetz says you open up an envelope and it's a bill it's like ah right so pay stock of course we're all excited about pay side we're free and then schmooze comes oh by the way uh 613 mitzvahs oh oh i thought we were afraid and that's a big problem and i and i wonder i'm not pointing the finger at others i wonder whether that's not our fault those of us who are celebrating like if we're not as excited about shiva's that we are about pesach that can filter down and we have to be we have to be ambassadors to go out and make sure people hey you want to come for shows about that oh let me tell you it's an incredible night maybe invite people over to to study et cetera and we ourselves have to be careful because if we over celebrate pesach and we under celebrate schwa what are we saying to hashem freedom that gets me excited the mitzvahs not quite as much that's what we have to be very very careful about a hundred percent amazing day in and day out you mentioned it's vote we do many mitzvot we do many commandments what is something we should be aware of after we do a mitzvah after we do a commandment what do you suggest so um what i suggest is and and and sometimes we lose sight of this is that the the moments before a mitzvah we know we're difficult because maybe i'm not going to do it maybe there's something i don't want to do and i had to do it or maybe it's something i i really wanted to do and i didn't which is also a mistake to refrain from something right like you you were tempted to steal or do something else and you did wow okay great so i'm done i did it i did the mitzvah the biggest danger after doing a mitzvah is regretting it because if you regret it you lose it it's a very big problem as a matter of fact we say in the in the evening prayers in the in in the uh in in in some call it in in the paragraph of hashtag we say do we ask god the huster sutton milo forneinu we ask god please remove satan from before us and from after us so but first we understand there is he's tempting us we're asking god like get him out of my way what do you mean after us already passed them what do you mean after us after us is that you wrote the check you gave the charity right and it was not so easy and then you said yourself ah i think i gave too much yeah why did i get why did i get pressured into that you did the mitzvah you gave the person the ride you did the favor ah you know what i wasted time i lost time they didn't even thank me you regret it you lose it so it's a very very dangerous time period that's why very interestingly there's a there's a wild measure that rashi my personal favorite writer commentator on the torah writing in the ten hundreds and tua france he says that that the reason that sarah avraham abraham's wife died is that immediately after the ikeda immediately after um avraham was ready to sacrifice their son yitzhak who wasn't born until they were very very very old sarah was 90 avraham was 100 and he was born so 37 years later and the sun comes running back and tells sarah that avraham killed your son and she just she just faints and dies so what kind you know you're lost you know the son is trying to stop him from doing it he did it like what the sun is a sore loser what's going on and the answer the rabbis explained is that the sun wanted avraham to figure out oh sorta got the news and she died and he's going to regret that he was willing to sacrifice his son that's what he's trying to do he already did it this was like the biggest thing ever he showed i'm willing to sacrifice my son and the son is still hard at work maybe i can get him to regret it it'll wipe out the whole myth so if i can get him to that's why it was so important for abraham to get up and to eulogize her properly and then to cry over his loss but not to question god over what had happened not to regret what he had done powerful wow unbelievable does this same principle regretting a mitzvah then you lose the mitzvah apply to after doing a sin after doing an aveira so um it has to because it's got a it's got to work in there there's always we newton sir isaac newton gets the credit he discovered equal and opposite reactions okay very nice maybe he popularized he didn't discover it we've known about that for a very long time at the same time that pharaoh paro the torah tells us that god hardened his heart like made it that he just he could no longer do the right thing that was it was like you know what i gave you too many chances you're done that's it you're just a pawn now in my in my game you know let my people go no like he can't say yes he can at the same time the rabbis tell us moshe moses lost his yate sahara he couldn't do the wrong thing because if you have one person in the world who literally no longer has an inclination for good his gates or toe you have to also have a person equal who no longer has an inclination or bad now obviously it didn't just happen it wasn't like hashem said let me choose how about you moshe you look like a nice guy moshe had worked and worked and worked on it to get rid of his evil inclination and pyro had worked work that worked on listening to his so he lost his good motion lost his bed and so it's so it's equal and opposite so the same way that if you regret a mitzvah you could lose it thank god an incredible hesitant from god it's it's it's the it it may well be the biggest gift that he can give us and he gives us countless gifts the fact that we can do a sin and if we honestly regret it it gets wiped out and in certain instances is even turned into a mitzvah it's an it's an unbelievable thing that he that that god allows that so it's uh so yes the the opposite does work as well and so then that's good so the same way we have to be careful about regretting our uh our mitzvahs that we do we have to be just as careful to regret the the sins that unfortunately we did in moments of of uh temptation or or weakness or carelessness amazing harry wow so inspiring unbelievable um so so often times uh people feel that uh they might want to do a mid so to just check off a box okay yeah i i i prayed in the morning okay i i made a blessing uh when i ate my food like check check uh what one step we can take to elevate our mitzvah performance to the next level by viewing it as a golden opportunity everything will meet size and opportunity so i i think what we have to remind ourselves is that there's a a a very um simultaneously scary uh but uplifting passage in the torah which is that we're we're told at one point that god is predicting what's going to happen that we're going to to to stray we're going to be punished and he says the reason we're going to be punished and punished is that kashar law varity basim he says i'm punishing you because you didn't worship me with happiness and with a glad heart so read it read into what what he's saying he's not saying i'm punishing you because you didn't serve me saying you did serve me you know what but you didn't serve me with a smile and that's whoa whoa whoa wait one second god like you said i checked off all the boxes you told me uh since it's here here they are come you can you can you can feel them on me here you hear the scissors i'll show you the fringes i got the beanie on i wrapped the the fill in and i only ate kosher and i prayed and it when i prayed i even did this i did the whole chuckling thing and i didn't see any curse words i didn't say anything bad about my like i did oh i checked all the boxes and god says yeah but you did it with uh like you were you were fabulous enough you you were my grandmother uh you know make sure you rest in peace you still hello shawn used to say like you you you know about people who weren't who weren't nice or weren't friendly like you you you were going through the motions you were just checking off bob okay what do i have to do next god all right okay what's next okay okay fine and it's got instead it's the exact opposite it's got to be we have to be running to to uh to do what he uh to do what he wants running to do what he wants and and the so there's a great example of this it happened to me years ago and i'll never forget this i went to a um i like watching professional sports and it's a nice opportunity sometimes for father-son bonding so i went with one of my sons this is many years ago two i'm from philadelphia so i went to watch the eagles game and the eagles are about to lose they're down and that's it the other team's gonna kick a field goal it's less than a minute left and once they kick the field goal the game is over people are already filling out of the filing out of the stance and it just happens like i've never saw this happen before at the end of the game one of the eagles manages to get a few fingers on the ball as he's kicking the field goal blocks it the ball hits the ground another one picks it up runs the length of the field scores a touchdown and the eagles win and the place goes absolutely bananas okay forget that i'm hugging my son we're hugging strangers we're crying we're slapping unbelievable okay so we come home and my son with the time is maybe i don't know that 12 13 or so somewhere in that in that range plus or minus around bar mitzvah he's telling my wife you know she's pretending to be interested in this just because it was exciting never see was the most unbelievable you can't imagine they're about to lose they blocked and they whoa it was crazy we were going nuts oh i'm so glad i did a good time fine he goes to sleep so later that night he says to me um oh so you know it was a exciting game i said yeah so you were you were going you know crazy with i said i don't know if i'm going crazy i was you know i was mildly amused because i know i can see already like something's coming i can i can already smell them and try i don't know why i'm in trouble every day they won i cheered what did i do wrong i went to the game my team won it was exciting i'm just gonna point out to you you know i was thinking about this that um this was in the fall during football season that next week um is sophis and the endosotis is simchastora and i know that you're not usually one of the big dancers you know it's like not your thing but i was just thinking like you know our son's gonna be there watching you and like you know i don't know like he might see that when they won the football game you were jumping up and down and dancing and then when they're dancing with the torah you're not it's just something to think about right so think about that for a second okay something to think about here's my son okay what what do i want for him my my goal is that he's going to be an eagles fan okay it's very cute it's very nice it's father-son bonding for the same for the same laundry okay you know midnight green and gray and black and white and etc okay or do i want him to be excited about the mitzvahs and do them with a smile and do them with enthusiasm so what am i modeling for him the tour is out and i'm sitting on the side okay oh and it's my let me know when it's my turn in the meantime i'll be over at the at the you know where they have the snack table oh but when the eagles win yes yes and that's it's all recorded it's all recorded and it's not only recorded up in shamayam but particularly for those of us who who were gifted and we're and we're parents um they they see everything nothing nothing nothing passes their their view and they know and and they know us all too well and so we have to model that we have to be enthusiastic we can't every classification god forbid that we ever did we ever have that that that that look of like that that oh it's difficult you know like they say back in the day when you know in america oh it's difficult to be uh to be a jew okay difficult to be a jew you know have fun so i'm gonna i'll find something else to do so that's what i think is important to be to be enthusiastic and to and to show that enthusiasm it's my mother my favorite topic talking about happiness very important yeah i'll tell you one that just comes to mind i'll tell you i used to learn with a love when i was in israel when i was when i was younger um significantly older than me because he has since passed away and and he said he once said his kids are like so from and so stark and and so so enthusiastic about tori says he says i wonder like i'm just a regular guy he's like like i wonder myself like what did i do to deserve this he said i was i was thinking myself that there's only one thing i can think of that i can take some credit for is that my kids know i love a good steak i just it's one of my things i love a good stick but they also know that i love a good vartora when i hear the goods retort like i i jump out of my chair i stop people like god you gotta hear this tartare he said i think like maybe that rubbed off on them like they see how enthusiastic i am like that's what has to be we have to show them like that's what's important to us wow amazing harry rodmer you give me so much kazoo so much inspiration for all of us listening we're enjoying and uh very very great lessons and you know harry we live in a world that values the results you know for example how many home runs did the guy hid or how many sales did you make but we know in judaism we know that uh results are in god's hands and it's up to us how much ever we put into it uh how do we change our mindset out of a results-based mindset and and and uh remember that it's the effort that counts okay so um i i think that that one way is as follows we have to orient ourselves and realize um who we are and and what it is that we're doing here so to answer that i i i have an analogy that i like to use as follows imagine that it's that it's a mother's day okay and a little kid i don't know six-year-old kid sets an alarm you know quietly and wakes up early and tiptoes down to the kitchen and makes i don't know any pancakes or an omelette okay like puts it on a platter and brings it up to his mother okay in the meantime the kitchen is a disaster area the pancakes are and they they're barely edible okay like whatever i mean he's six years old he's not a cook imagine when he walks into that room okay what's the reaction of that mother gonna be you know oh yeah you messed up the whole kid all these pancakes are terrible oh my god is there an edible kind of monster right this is going to be the best pancakes and the best omelette she ever ate her she could be at the whole time she's going to be trying not to cry my six-year-old kid said wait wait you what you set an alarm and tiptoe downstairs and made pancakes and an omelette for me for mother's day get over here get over here for a giant hug and a giant a giant kiss for mom right and so like that's that's how hashem views it like if we're trying hard we're doing our best and he understands that he knows how difficult it is and people get down sometimes because the people who are who i i'm talking to myself okay and i say this every year and it bothers me more more every year is that okay so i was 13 young kipper 15. i was i was 25 i was 30 i was there like i'd con okay i'm in my 50s now and like i'm still like what come on like i promised last year you know come on but hashem understands he knows it's very difficult it's very it's not it's not easy of course we have to put on our our smile and it and it and and and it's a but the the omaha it's a lot that's expected of us and we have to understand that he still loves us and there's no we can't break that whether we've had a great day of course he loves us we're having a great day i learned that i doubt and that i keep talking of course he loves us but he loves us even when we when we make a mistake still loves us he's still there waiting for us like i i just just try just get just get up and and and you know and and get back on that horse because i still love you and i know it's i know it's difficult i know what happened i got it i understand that i i hardwired you i sent the sun there to tempt you i i get it and you'll say well sasham if you knew i was gonna fail uh one second right we always know how do people say like how do i know i can pass a test so there's an easy answer to that question god gave you the test so if he gave you the test you could pass it he doesn't give us tests that we can't pass and even if we and when we pass them you're you're you're obvious he's saying avraham avraham like your your name in shamayim is is now you just matched it your name your name down here and when we don't okay so you'll get another chance tomorrow's another chance it's all we want to be we want to be better tomorrow than we were than we were today and better today than we were yesterday if we make mistakes or just we said that before so you regret it hashem disgust is going to wipe it out we put a smile on our face and you know what hashem that's it bring it on bring on the next test i failed the last one bring on you don't look for tests but if it comes i'm going to be ready for it the next time several people talk to become a per uh a righteous person falls down but what makes him righteous is the fact that he gets back um back up and we all have tests and we have to get back up if if we fail him amazing harry you're giving us so much so much inspiration kazakh very strong um time is uh is up but before we call it a night can you please leave us with some closing remarks final message to our broader audience that we could uh we could take with us uh you know so i will i'll share with you one of my favorite stories that happened in in tanakh and it's uh in keeping with what i was just just talking about about our our father in heaven and it involves which is which is appropriate for shivers and involves so what happens is that um solves the king and hashem appears to shmuel to the navi to the prophet he says okay go and anoint the new king of israel and shimo's a little taken aback wait but shoal's still on the throat and that could be a little danger i guess listen listen to me this time we're going to do it you're going to go quietly secretly to the house of you shy and you're going to anoint his son as the next king okay takes the anointing oil goes off on his secret mission he arrives at yeshua's house tells yeshua yeshua of course knows who he is he explains his his mission and ishai can you imagine imagine a proud father calling his bahor right into the into the room right i imagine like a magic i can't even imagine my father calling me into the room but son come on you're the makour shmalls here and i come walking in the bachara of course it's going to be the bakar and he's handsome and he's tall and he's a warrior and he's a natural-born leader and small says not him okay because hashem whispers in his ear don't be fooled don't be fooled by he look he looks like he definitely if this was hollywood and you were casting it would be him this isn't hollywood it's not him so shmuel says it's not him so eusha's a little bit taken aback he says okay bringing the next song he brings the next son equally just i mean the guy is he is fit for royalty he's ready to to to ascend the throne and hashem says whispers to shmall who tells you shy not him they bring in the next one and they bring the next one and they keep bringing in sons it's got seven sons and he brings in the last son now obviously this is it you know yeshua knows why he's here he's he schmoes here i got one son left like this is it and you can imagine okay here he is like who would have thought who would have thought that it's the youngest one and he brings in the youngest one and hashem whispers to small and small says it's not him it's not him what's going on so so this this this exchange is in the it's brought down it's a measure just not in the text in inshamalallah but it's there in the matter says to ye sha do you have another son and ye shai says back to shmoel no and small no no and small says back to ishai i know i'm in the right place i got i got my gps okay hashem sent me to your house so i'm gonna ask you again do you have another son and yeshua starts stammering he says i'm there there's the shepherd it's too long to explain why yeshua didn't realize that he was he was the father was always a question about this the shepherd's lineage knew who his mother was didn't know who his father was so he tells his sons go get the shepherd so they go out back to the shepherd the guy who didn't live in the house you can imagine what he looked like he came and he's he's he's hurting sheep i can't imagine what he looked like when he's what he looked like what he must have but what the odor he must have brought okay and he and they go and they get dove it and dovid walks into the room and the oil in schmorl's flask starts boiling over and schmoll says all rise for the next king of israel and he pours the anointing oil on him now if i said to you okay if you were you were let's say you were a psychiatrist okay i'm described to you daughter living the whole family is in the house and each one i mean the unbelievably talented people and he's the shepherd out in the back doesn't even know who his father his father doesn't know who he is okay do you have another son no i'm asking you again okay and that's what he says he says we say to holler he says it unto him he says evan mosso habano high celeroshpina the stone that was that that people couldn't stand that they that they pushed away they were disgusted by it became the cornerstone how is that possible if you're a psychiatrist and i said tell me what do you think about this person you'd say i think they're going to be neat they're going to need to spend a lot of time on my couch and instead this is the guy who becomes david melech israel how because he understood that whatever the situation no matter what i have a father i don't i have a mother i don't i have siblings i don't they let me stay in the house they don't i can go off and do what they do or maybe not but at the end of the day i've got a vino bashamaya i've got my father in heaven and he loves me more than anybody and that's what every one of us has to remind ourselves that hashem loves us more than anyone and that's that's not simple because a lot of us thank god feel tremendous love from our fathers and our mothers and our grandmothers and grandfathers and and wives husbands brothers sisters sons daughters grandsons granddaughters however much that is hashem loves you more so put that smile on and think the right thoughts and serve him um with with joy and um and mirzashem will will soon bring in another uh another year reaccepting the the torah and hopefully we'll all soon be able to to celebrate that in uh in israel inaudible i mean harry rottenberg what a powerful inspiring and uplifting final message thank you so so much for your time thank you so much for the inspiration for the rizuk we got to do this more often harry that was really uh grand slam deal deal i really appreciate it thank you for the opportunity always great to see you and uh and kazakh and and continuously with everything that you do in the harbaugh store i always appreciate the opportunity maine i mean thank you very much and we want to remind all of our audience every tuesday night we have a special guest timely tuesday tour talks and we'll see you next week with another amazing program thank you very much have a great amazing night