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Chazaq Torah Talks #77 with Rabbi Fischel Schachter
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thank you
we're okay maybe even welcome to tour
talks kazakh's Tuesday night program
with special guests tonight we have with
us a very special guest a very dear
friend of kazakhra official chapter
about welcome thank you so much honor to
have you here at the Kazakh headquarters
before they had a headquarters oh that's
true that's true many many years ago
that's right
Hashem the rabbi has been inspiring
continues inspired thousands of people
and we have a minute accustomed before
we speak about our topic of simple
happiness which is an exciting topic
makes me happy just thinking about it a
little bit background about the rabbi
and the great work you're involved with
in the sheer mentora and good stuff like
that wow backgrounds above you it's so
hard to talk about yourself
some speakers love to do that so I yeah
so we gotta think about my background is
very complicated
um should I tell you how many times I
was sitting in the principal's office
really yeah yeah yeah yeah I struggled
but you know the story of my mother
right no but that that I want to say
because I think that's important
because that's I I'll tell you why it
kind of sets a perspective in my life I
know many people have heard the story 10
trillion times so I guess this is 10
trillion and one because
by the Museum of Natural History and uh
the tour guide says it's the dinosaur
and it's 68 billion year billion and one
year old like I said where did the one
year come from he says well when he
started working they told him that 68
billion is 81 years
okay so I was born after 12 years after
12 years my mother and my father were
sole survivors okay nobody else survived
on their family my mother came from
Poland
her family name was Gilbert still
looking for some of her family never
found so if anyone's out there she lived
in bendeen my father came from Galicia
Southern Poland and if you understand
the culture difference it's like from
northern Alaska to Southern Florida
speak the same yeah there's totally
different kinds of people and
um none of them in any surviving
siblings surviving immediate cousins
they all came here alone
and they got married at my mother Allah
um anyway the first 12 years they did
not have children
um year number 12. don't worry at the
end they had and they end their mother
had I guess you're wondering okay so
year number 12. so that we don't even
have all the organizations today that
they have that help you and it says
still and guide you like uh there was
like then either but the restaurant has
this private schlot so the fertility was
fertility was definitely something that
was off the nobody was not wasn't
anything was charts right but uh so she
was by a fertility doctor on Park Avenue
and that was like the end of the road
that was whatever could be done moving
on and he told me Mr shelter
um look it's over he said when here
we'll grow on the palm of my hand or
you're going to have a child no no that
that's not the thing okay so here we'll
grow in the pond you're in our child
um did he mean to be rude though he
meant to say like an hour with your life
and don't start don't worry there's no
chance there's nothing we do whatever we
could do and it's not gonna happen and
she left the doctor's office uh quite uh
shall we say I it wasn't just her it was
felt like me my my parents
my my siblings my everything she was the
only Survivor my father was the only
survive it was like 12 years 12 years of
disappointments and 12 years of waiting
and 12 years of ups and down
as we got onto the Madison Avenue bus
and she said
um
I'm never getting off this bus well she
said I'm never ever going to get off
this bus I'm staying on this bus the
rest of my life that's what she said at
the moment and the bus is going back and
forth and back and forth and at one
point the driver and African-American
driver takes up his cabin he goes man
you gotta get off the bus
and she says no I'm not going with the
bus I'm staying here forever I've never
got all four this is what she said she
was interested has these Messengers he
took off his cap and he goes and this is
because I had a hard day because I don't
know what your problem is but it's not
going to be song If you sleep in a bus
garage get off the bus and get on with
your life
and she felt that was a message
whatever you never hear from anybody
it's a message it's a message nothing
nothing is by chance and uh she said
okay you know what whatever is going to
be that's right he's right I'm not gonna
spend the rest of my life on the bus go
round she had her down she had got him
and she's after it a year later I was
born wow I don't know if they lived up
to their uh you know expectations but uh
I think that there is a moment so I
always consider you know to rabbi's the
oldest of the family or the youngest
middle only one the only one wow
so mommy's no family members that means
if I ask you a favor there's the that
one no one's related no one's related a
lot of children but
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um
so it's feel that okay so I've sent down
into this world and because I said
you're down for a reason we're even
supposed to be here okay it's like I
said you're not for a reason so do what
you have to do and that's not true for
me that's true for every single one of
us it's true it's true for all of us
so I think that's that's my background
everything else is just whatever
technicalities how one thing uh led to
enough but um so let me answer the
question how does it that the rabbis the
beginning or is that like a renowned
speaker traveling how did that happen I
never took a course in college renowned
speaker course oh really no no never did
everything right
PhD in speaking or or anything else it
just happened like you were teaching one
day and then someone's like oh that was
a great speech or right so people always
ask me when was that movie I started
like where did the curtains go up and
you said ah you're here no I don't know
I don't think that there was a moment I
think I think before we come down to
this world it goes breakfast sets our
course for us where we're supposed to be
I don't believe it one second or better
than anyone else right that says whoever
is uh you know everybody gets a lot of
Honor down here is usually in the back
up there down there is up front so uh
down here everywhere I'm gonna be
um
when he first left um came out he was a
Siberia and he came to Paris
so the man told me that he stand in the
middle of the shoe so someone asked why
does the rabbit go up front she says it
says what yeshiva's gonna come people
that were up front are in the back we
were on the back or you sit in the
middle at least this will be where I am
you know is that I'm trying to ask you
when I remember seeing him in the
Letterman show is always in the middle
right palm also never said
always to the side
um
foreign
you're leading the congregation but
again you're you're you're you know once
you once you're a leader once you're in
politics that's not politics for you it
automatically there's certain
restrictions to
real is the real king is in your house
in your home in your seat where you are
that's the Hummel from here okay there's
the description I got to show you where
to go very interesting way to go from
there so there wasn't I don't think
there was one night that made uh that
was a thing my father because I was in
the oven so I think my father always
used to that every single night before I
went to sleep and tell me stories
um all these fell asleep
and I had like this feel of saying
stories I have to be lucky as Hashem
with God you can use your pyramid group
so that helps a lot and she woke up for
that um I remember the first time I
heard a story so then I was just laying
on the floor laughing and they opened up
a whole new way of telling stories and I
was telling stories of kids am I black
and it's telling stories against my
house
and somehow just one thing uh led to
another amazing unbelievable I never
have any more since the towel Rabbi had
a shackles with a connection with and he
would say that he became an oratoric
speaker because his father would always
encourage him to speak in the Shabbat
table always order something anyways
can't see saying things and that's uh I
think the way it picked up
my father would say say a few words
without telling you before anything I
was going to say that then I was choked
but your father was also an already a
speaker
you know he he came here he was a
businessman he wasn't shot hit
originally when he first came there and
he felt that they were rushing him to
her clean he can't keep up you know he
doesn't take the responsibility so he
quit a lot and it was the joint that was
giving money then said well you had your
job you quit so we're not going to
support you and it was really up to Peak
when he was determined he started his
own business it's like a printing
contractor and Russia but he always gave
she working yeah and there so it
definitely no question about another
shot of this table here I mean to guess
into everyone else beautiful beautiful
Rabbi fish African inspiration to us all
so to our topic today um happiness we're
in the middle of Mark hashman uh Mar
which is bitter is a month with no
holidays and I see people walking around
and I see that frown on their face I'm
like what's going on you know the
holidays were fun it was amazing it was
great but now we're back foreign
so that's what people feel and this is
the topics people ask them when you
speak about and the rabbi could give us
some here's an inspiration but happiness
right wow
so let me think we were not prepared
right now
I love our official chapter off the cuff
this is crazy this is supposed to come
right because when I prepare I always
make mistakes this way at least I say
was off the cuff it wasn't prepared if I
prepared I'm really in trouble right now
I'm prepared how did you say something
so I don't have a teleprompter I don't
have uh no I don't know we're working on
it for future speakers yeah okay
um who gets to be the writer yeah
um
I think that uh it's really tough people
having it really tough
life is hard pressures are hard
and one of the reasons precious the
heart is because we don't stop
okay I'm gonna study once that there was
a time at night it got dark
and your only option of light was a
candle which was very limited it was
real light right a filmologist say was
much healthier for the eye and so on but
it was it was real life but basically it
got dark and you went to sleep and and
and and livestock and your mind had a
moment to rest and take a breath and you
woke up the next morning and the day
starts again
and I think that what happens today is
we don't stop
going and and it's not how we were wired
and I I think you need a couple of
minutes a day
just walk into a room
and take it out I would say 10 minutes
before I go to sleep or or at one point
during the day take out a safer take out
a ticket and learn and even if you're
not up to learning just sit there and
class for 10 days just 10 days well that
day's not bad I didn't start with 10
minutes
um just just close your phone
close your phone sit there and just
just sit there and do nothing
it's hard for people yeah
give a chance for your lungs for your
heart for your mind to catch update
hashems God spoke to my son
and he stopped from time to time red
right there's a pain in the summer for
the plastic wrap up the symbol to give
time we don't we don't have time to
catch up on breath
you sing it 100 I I I think just plan
into your day a moment of just slow down
slow down will that equal to happiness
for that you could maybe relax okay so
there is no happiness but there is no
happiness drug a lot of people think
there are
but it doesn't really work to the price
to pay for it right
um
I think that's one element in it
definitely just just stop pause just
stop stop and pause okay
um you have a partner pick up a little
some of that's uh Outreach does and
unbelievable way
and and
it got me for a few minutes you need
that one moment I always wanted by the
Shabbos table your little kids and they
come and they fight over of course not
in my house
and they fight over the sea this is my
seat is my sister and wellness anyone
kid pulls us enough how do you know
about the situation in my house
and uh can you finally you bring in all
the negotiators and bring in the
Secretary of State in the state
department why haven't you negotiate
everyone has their seat and you make
kids and 30 seconds later they're gone
we're on the seats for anything so what
were you fighting over
and the answer is in a kid's mind it's
not it's not the amount of time that
he's sitting there's that moment that
his father makes kid that she is a
special moment
the moment that you watch and give out
Timex is a special moment
it doesn't have to be you know we don't
force your kids to sit better shots
they'll just he needs that moment that
that's his connecting moment and he
wants to have his place then
we also we need our connecting moment to
ascend to have our have our moment and
have our place and just uh and amazing
amazing I think it's crucial advice take
a good save or take a good take a good
book a meaningful book and just close
the door sit down no look at her screen
your screen wears your eyes now even if
you're reading something good just give
yourself 10 minutes and uh I think it
makes a big difference amazing
suggestion okay love it there's a famous
thing Rabbi fake it till you make it you
know someone that's sad or not in the
moon any like you just start smiling
that word
actually smile forces it forces it
outside really interesting yeah so you
can tell us more about that whole topic
of fake it till you make it is is there
truth to it
right so the question is well we're not
supposed to fake things right we're
right we're supposed to be real
a very interesting story tonight I just
happened to hear it on the way here so I
guess there's a reason I'm supposed to
say represent Cipher was the son of the
for some cycle some slave was the
gravity of pressure
and roshinda was very very from and it
was a great genius and when he got
married his wife complained to to her
father-in-law that he's just to tense
and that he would walk in he would walk
in if he missed kissing the mezuzah it
was like yeah oh my gosh and uh of
course telling you have all kinds of
letters in the ABC but he was a great
genius and she felt she felt the
pressure and she felt over enough to go
to her
and uh
I'm sorry we did not say there don't you
talk that way about my son he said
come here
and he said she'll look into my face
and the similar the stream is Right said
it was hard for him to look into his
father's face so instead we had like a
certain shine to me says please look
into my face
and they looked at each other for a
couple of moments and he suddenly he had
a smile on his face of the rest of his
life he had a certain smile that was
that was off the charts even going
through very very difficult times
and he asked of some Sophie where does
it come from that says some learning
terrible smug really learning Terror
including Hashem is not relay the
statues of Hashem generate simply
generate happiness and you can you can
transfer it one one to another okay so
where's the subcycle let me get online
right hey here's the problem
and the answer is
I think we have to do it to ourselves
um so sadika said that yes you're not
supposed to lie not supposed to be sad
you're not supposed to be dishonest
even though they say how do we know that
a Manhattan is stronger than a din you
ever hear this I'm in high can there's a
halakhan is more important than I can
prove it to you because if you owe
someone money you have to pay back but I
mean I guess
that was a joke
just in case
um
so launcher said
that when you walk on the street you're
supposed to walk with a smile
because if you don't look at a smile
you're affecting somebody else you're
hurting someone else and your face is
your sister Robin
so as long as you said if you just like
there's uh one of the four uh damages
the zika is that someone digs a pit in a
public property if you're walking on the
street with your face down and your face
sad then you are digging a pit in the
street that people are falling in so I
heard from a male speedometer added
something else to it he said that's when
you're walking on the street he said if
you walk into your house in a rap mood
he said then you work then you're a
Goring ax
well he said but I go to one of my
Rebellion I really swirl spinner
um who said and he said it to us and he
I think he was 80 years old he must have
been married 60 years he says I woke
into my house
I put my hands on the doorknob and I
close my eyes a few minutes I say Hashem
let me do my job to come in as much WoW
grandchildren this is my this is my job
let me let me try there's uh about this
yourself
one of the great clasific Masters and he
says an Arab PESA
it says the name is coming over face so
his boss just told him you're in big
trouble first day after base I want to
do I always say something very important
to say to you oh no right and the
landowner's about to film that and the
wife was just everything in the world is
going away and she says when my husband
comes home I'm gonna give it to her how
dare him say he has a heart that you
know what I'm going through and she said
my wife complained one more thing
they're coming in this is Russia Ukraine
they're just coming in this world yeah
level one World War II world war three
Napoleon any war in the world they're
like they're coming at each other this
is and he comes in and and he says you
know what Young tip is coming I know
what happened last time we did this it
was a disaster
I said I I can't change the world I can
change myself and he came in I said I'm
going to come and smile like she said my
husband's coming in I'm about to get
like he's in like he's on the cross yeah
I see him what was the point what's the
point let me
and he walked in hi and she smiled but
he smiled it was a very fake smile and
they would they wouldn't even want to
ask her for it that was a bad fake so I
was a smile so it says Hashem looks down
and says you know I have such a rap
sheet against both of you you can
imagine
what should I do you're forcing a smile
wow you're forcing a smile on yourself I
don't know so forces and and we're gonna
do it and there's no question about it
there's there's a concept of these the
outside factors
what's within us we're a body but a sham
is Happy the soul of Fitness is always
happy right
the ridiculous said you should learn
three things on the small kid right
remember this one is that um you know
just until he guess what he wants yeah a
kid right you know oh you'll ask one
excuse me can you wait I'll never talk
to that person again the rest of my life
a kid if I don't ask his mother and
nurture nerds right uh how does the
story go you know the kid walks into a
busy Williamsburg Bakery and the guy's
orders and kid this is this little kid
alive and he says you have the USA
sprinkles you have a chocolate sprinkles
get that now go get up get these photos
he gets online again he walks up you
have a chocolate cookie with a lot of
stuff get out of here because you have a
chocolates one more time you come in
here I'm gonna close your mouth with
Crazy Glue you understand if you're
stressed and the kid walks out and she
looks like it comes back in and he goes
you have crazy glue no this is a bakery
oh good you have a cookie
so a kid does not get insulted at a
certain age you know there's certain age
you don't care someone that's one thing
I've learned from a kid just keep asking
keep asking for Hashem don't get
assaulted don't hurt either now the
other thing is that a kid nervous system
does nothing absolutely don't say
nothing there's anything a pocketbook is
anything for us
and the third thing is that he can cry
when they didn't laugh The Nest
the older we get the longer it takes us
to recover from crying right I'm angry
right back yeah I made up I'm not
talking to my wife and I told my husband
so at least has to go three weeks or
else but just get it out and and move on
so how can kids have this power how can
kids are naturally happy there's a
natural giggle in the kid
and so the wrist dress is very simple I
don't have a it happens is a very happy
place and these kids are coming together
it takes time until the depression of
this world
they come down happy and so the nashama
the core that's within us is happy and
when we force the Goof to smile it
generates what's inside also powerful
easier said it done but yeah for sure
definitely very very very powerful and
uh I I think I heard from him that's not
an excuse my way not to help somebody
somebody comes to you fail those little
fake it till you make it you you have to
help them in terms of ourselves
ourselves right that uh if you smile and
uh you for no reason then Hashem will
give you a reason for that smile or
that's right I'm not sure for what the
source is but it's a powerful thing go
through that story I don't want to get
too carried away here but there's a
source original the the Great Pacific
master of vision and that's the the
Beyond concern oh Beyond nice and let's
see uh
shout out to be on the event in Barrow
Park
okay so he went through a lot he was
arrested by the Czar and they had to run
for his life he went here's the story so
his ones for his daughter sorry crafts
he said let me tell you a story
it's unbelievably wealthy man and he
came on me was so upset because he sent
this guy to get him white horses and it
went exactly like they were both white
and he was so angry and God said that's
your problem okay next day this horse is
dying my horse was starting or so
Furious and then that's your problem
okay you know next business started
going down the make one thing went each
time it got more and more Angry each
time got something after your problem
I'll show you what a problem is that at
one point he lost every last penny that
he had and he had to go from house to
house and collect money and he was still
angry so now you're angry he lost his
health and he became a he was full of
leprosy and nobody wanted to speak to
him he won't put these in the woods he's
all alone and he looks at one finger and
it was cured he goes oh now this
one finger became good oh I have hope
because you think that's good I'll show
you what's good and his hand became good
next to his body because I got his
business is back and he came all the way
back to his horses
so he said to his daughter like don't
start that what do you gotta go down and
up just
but honestly where you is we we have a
weekend our the spirit that's not what
it means but it means come down and know
and know you're coming up afterwards
amazing powerful very very very in fact
as everyone knows uh today's Tuesday
November 8th and it's election day and
uh many people including some of the
Jewish people feel like we are
um judged with a magnifying glass uh you
know sometimes people uh walk down the
street then like are people staring at
me this and that uh is there any truth
to that that we as Jewish people we have
the um the people of the world are
zooming into us to Kalisa Jewish people
um
I think that if we're with smart we were
trying to avoid it but the reality is
not that way right the state of Israel
has put five million people in it it's
1.6 billion six million people it's in
in
what is it in the world it's such a
technology
dominates everyone's passion and
everyone's emotion for uh for one way or
another read the Press read the news
stories read the Israel read what's
going on and uh I think the reality is
uh are we are we held to a higher
standard look
for our part when you stand out you have
to be you know we have to do our best I
don't find it where parking places and I
don't wait to cut in by the the rabbit
lives in bar Park which is right right
along the BQE and jump in by the lane
that you close no I don't do it first of
all I just I'm not good at it second
of all it's not worth it it's not
whether we have to we definitely yes we
have to live like there's a magnifying
glass I know so let's see what whatever
you're gonna do it's not gonna help
people will hate us that's true it
doesn't mean we don't have a
responsibility
the other thing is another one ever
meant to be here forever
we keep forgetting we were never meant
to be here forever
and that's what it is and and we're told
you know we could try to survive in
gallus and it's colorless whether
whether whether you like it or not
and it doesn't mean we do our Civic
duties and we're going to vote and we're
gonna we're gonna be good and give this
as a question for example but sorry my
ears should be so stupid I'm gonna be
good okay we
but the reality is that guess what we're
not going to be here forever we know the
world's not going to be a forever
Everything Changes the world it moves
the whole world those planets turn
people move you know what it says in uh
sadness it moves in circles but atoms
protons or orbits all move in circles
why because Hashem says okay you mixed
it let me get it that's always giving us
another chance right to uh try to get I
have to actually quote you I remember
one time we had a kazaki and the rabbi
came to a specific show I remember which
one it was the second time so the rabbi
started off by saying coming to speak
for a second time could be a positive or
A negative the positive being it was
good last time and they invited you the
second time or it could be a negative
that you didn't do well the first time
so give me a second
so uh rabbit has some really good lines
the history of of our history is you
know even at times that we had to go to
countries at one point I began to crack
then I meant to crack in and I said it's
no one's full it's just a strange way of
saying guess what I got a reminder
forever put things into perspective so
is that a positive or is that a
connection that's what gives someone
like it depends it might be like
depressing no
so again it depends how you cut it okay
what's the pressing what's not
depressing really is up to uh so let me
share this with you I remember once I
was in a certain town and I came to a
Big Show and it was it was late for my
flight and I walked in and uh I went to
the back of this coffee there now not
only in two gardens and in
Williamsburg the school fields for
everybody right yeah for sure right so
I'm taking a coffee this man comes up
with me says he's the president of the
show
and he says to me are you a member here
so sad to no he says
it says uh coffee is from Members Only
so do you know where I come from you
know so there should be able to read
things differently like know the story
the guy went swimming and the state
trooper the ranger comes what are you
doing you see the sinuses no swimming
allowed he says Oh I thought you needed
this way no swimming around yeah
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he's asked me well this is this is the
this is the uh it's mum and call it's
communal funds it's communal funds and
this is how this was established this is
why we have coffee and I cannot be in
the doctor I'm not the one to to how you
say the word I I can't give in I can't
give it I'm not the one to the thing
that's not to my right you probably
think I'm mean
uh he said it's communal funds and
that's the way it is and that's the rule
of this shoe you go across the street
there's a coffee there's a coffee house
across street and so thank you so much
for the gaining the
permission to go grocery to buy coffee I
said trust me I will not forget this
company no it's okay it's fine thoughts
would be disaster in this town but my
son was okay it was fine oh yeah it was
a great time then the day before I left
wasn't it for a few days it was a little
shoe there and I went off to the corner
and there was coffee in the back I
didn't necessarily need the coffee but I
went to the back and I said who's the
president there's no president okay
who's the guy
little happy guy I said can I take a
coffee he said sure I said but I'm not a
member he goes it's communal funds it's
made for everyone
so there's this contradiction between
the president and the gun is communal
funds a reason to have the coffee or not
to have the coffee the answer is depends
to the gala yeah
so we are the Gabon of Our Lives we
can't change we're not going to change
politics in America we're not going to
change politics anywhere in the world
politics is a human being we have to
decide God put us here for a reason she
knows who we are he knows when we are he
knows why are you going to sing We have
to try to do the best power for power
but everyone's says
how many times but sometimes
which connects really well with the what
the rabbi judge just said it's in our
hands you've got to relinquish control
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some people tell me I hear this once too
many times to me but I'll just say it
the more the better it must be so I I
always say that if you hear something
too many times that means you haven't
gotten the message yet that means you
have to hear it again so you're not
doing enough time preparing but anyway
there's a flight from New York to Rome
uh this summer and the rabbis
with your imagination and uh the two
pilots fell asleep oh now MC very common
the pilots fall asleep because there's
autopilot and it's quite boring right
over the clouds of the hours and hours
but they're not supposed to sleep but
they do fall asleep but normally they
like sleep you know and I can sleep
during your class you know you're like a
little you know so that way and so you
want to be up you want to make sure when
the control Town closer you pick up the
radio
these guys were out oh okay they must
have had a good shot
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okay how's it going another king that he
wanted uh he couldn't fall asleep and we
brought all the doctors all over the
world they couldn't get the king to
sleep so apparently they put a guildo
Hungarian Jewel and he said I gave him a
good shot challenge
the king wakes up he says to his men are
you guys they said no we'll send it to
the CDC well the lab test on the show
we'll see what it is they came back so
you figure it out yes because we figured
out how you fell asleep so what didn't
you figure out how you woke up we don't
know okay so anyway these guys were
totally out there they're calling from
they're calling and they're not picking
up so it got to the point that they were
this is they got to the point where they
uh I'm getting ready to send that
military uh you know place to follow
through let's see what's up knows what
this is God told another 911 was going
on and the guys finally woke up and said
I know we're here we're okay
everything's all right fine it's a
minute you turn around the North Pole
where they were going to head back to
the Rome whatever the case was and there
was a hole to do obviously that's the
story
so here's a story that I had okay
sitting in the back of the plane I'm not
saying it's the same play but we'll use
our imagination and there's this this
middle-aged woman is like staring at me
and I don't want to put myself so one
thing I said can I help you she goes you
don't have your mask on oh my mask was
ah I said I am you have to wear a mask
though so Masters it's not over your
nose
I don't know what you think my nose is
this is what my mom told him it's over
it's not high enough and she's like oh
this is this damn serious over here and
she explodes she explodes it says all
you people it's all your you know you're
raising Trump and Biden and measles and
covert and inflation and global warming
and anything that gives you all your
fault and it's all this she's
scream grab them and they come over and
say what'd you say to her I said I'm
saying anything
and said do you mind changing your seat
I said okay I'll change my seat no
problem anyway she's whenever she reads
the New York Times Obviously the em in
greatest episode okay feel bad folks I
would just imagine imagine this woman
that says right now she believes right
now this current moment that the reason
her life isn't dangerous because my mask
is not covering hey guys that's what she
loses she really believes I feel bad for
her
and that's just similar to Tapped on the
show said by the way you're 30 000 feet
over the air right now and you should
know the two pilots are sleeping it's
letting you know if you want to worry
about something right so I think that
that's who we are okay we worry about
this we worry about that yeah you
realize that I'm holding you up now
do you understand I'm always you don't
even know what to worry about okay I'm
holding it I'm holding it up you're
doing okay don't worry about that you're
in my hands that's what we have to think
we don't know something says a very
interesting thing he says 90 of the
things that we worry look at your life
think about this ninety percent of the
things you worry about never came to
fruition go back to your worries and
ninety percent of your real problems
were things that came unexpected so most
of the time we worry about the wrong
things so he says
that God puts worry circles into our
hearts and we say I got to be a better
person Hashem I need you I'm becoming a
better person that chef says definitely
okay I'll fix it I need I need that
feeling I need that moment I need you to
be there at that moment so why is God of
the warriors with the real problems he
puts different puzzles most of the time
without worrying about the right thing
anyway
this is who we are let's see the Mars
doesn't accept this tiny set these uh
really bright standing with a Leo you
know with Elijah and he says who's going
straight into town look right those two
guys make a long story so what do you
two guys doing you'll get easy pass
straight into the matter so they say
um you know we see somebody we make him
laugh
so we do we just make our hand we try to
make him happy
so the martial says or the commentators
on the gamara we're in pain God says you
know my shoulders are heavy it hurts me
so much you have to go through a process
God feels our pain and you make someone
happy you're actually alleviating God's
pain so therefore someone happy you
deserve to go straight if they don't
have wow so they're very mushrooms
around he says answer the interesting
question you make a guy laugh okay how
long does he laugh for a few moments six
seconds right and some people laughing
right there that's a little couple of
minutes
it doesn't change his life how does that
what does it help really
so he gives the the parable of muscle
but imagine uh I'm an Amazon delivery
boy FDR or a person right and I'm going
to try and express the same with a big
package no one's opening the door and
I'm buzzing the door and I'm told this
package you have to deliver finally
someone opens the door I just put it
down just for a second thank you wow he
says God is standing there he wants to
give us so much good
but he can't unless we have a positive
attitude you make someone laugh for a
minute you're just opening the door wow
once you open the door you can put
things through that amazing such is like
so many generals yes we enjoyed every
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okay so I'll tell you
um you know I had a lease car and it was
very hard to at least at least is out to
coat right so I sat down with the party
they worked it out that it's better
you're better off buying the car
so I bought the car that's the same car
I had for three years okay this is not
an appeal right to help people buying
this
but if you want my
and I got into the car the same car that
I had for three years now the blue this
is up right and I turn on the engine I
don't know why what's that noise what's
that smash because it's the same smell
of the last 30 years the same noise I
know but now it's my car
till now I'm gonna get back who cares
wow we think we're gonna be here forever
and that's it we're so worried about
every little thing hey life is a lease
relax don't worry be responsible be safe
don't worry about any little noise okay
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