Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 109 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] [Laughter] [Music] with [Music] really I haven't heard from you in ages [Music] [Laughter] [Music] [Laughter] [Music] good F everybody I might have not broken my fast yet that I did I did I'm wearing this as a symbol I talk about this night the entire year I always say we learn we learn we learn on Kipper in fact this sheer well not really this one Garen a little the tomorrow she which I have to give right after this year in Hebrew I prepared today mostly before ding in the morning and uh during the break when my head hurt a lot and I don't think last year I wore my kid though but this year we learn every day it's unbelievable thing this Dai business wor last I I wore one year I don't remember was it was last year okay so that's it we have to wear it every day I'm surprised nobody here is wearing what's going on the way I ward in SCH this is how I was in SCH you want a maybe tals you got to bring a tals Tak hope everybody had a meaningful daving and uh it's interesting I think as we saying means but like emphasized like that was the thing that and I was like screaming there's no there's no but okay maybe he thought means like a sword like we're going straight into the sponsors the of the month sponsored by Rosenfeld business first of all welcome to all the guests who are you guys over there the is that who I think who's that you good thanks for coming wow who else what's your name tell us your name you yeah I know but what's your name tell us first time here no wow very nice keeper huh three guests where are you guys from what K God God K God K God herah and you in the middle wow what's your names Jack sner stepner what are you laughing about excited to be here I'm also excited to be here galic unbelievable wow wow give up like come more often we have a tremendous guest in the house we have Jonathan stefans our boys side big round of [Applause] applause y ah yeah I knew it was had something to do with his porck he's gonna he's probably gonna say his perm stick in a k now whatever whatever it goes all right the guy behind you he's new no know that way with the guy with the white long beard has no idea where you are so say introduce yourself no I'm saying to Jonathan turn around the guy behind you say hello to him he doesn't know who you are that's it yeah yeah you know what come here I I barely recognize all right the qu of the day rabie David dein in honor of RAB Stans you have changed my life wow did not read this before SP for the safe and speed return of all the hostages that come from supporting heal and strength for Belly in honor of my versary my father asked me to try it out from R where is he wow second day in a row I think that he sponsored Robbie shinski in case my chuen f don't work I'm trying to have all the bases covered who oh that's you sh I hope the cha worked but it's a great idea anybody else think that the cha didn't work there's a n Dar plus machine right over there Yi Schwarz y Wars the famous Wars and for all those who do not talk in from the beginning till the end of ding all the time by Le F in honor of becoming a for the first time I know the feeling it's unbelievable lady you should have a lot ofas of the and the whole staff to to make so enjoyable for so many we're in middle of a here test we're going to start out with very fun and then we're going to get into a little bit of a actually somewhat related to yipper even so to remind the we had a bunch of Pim that talk about yha um we'll see them soon we have the PK says that you give if person dies you give it to the son if he doesn't have a son you give it to the daughter he doesn't have a daughter who do you give it to you give it to the brothers if there's no brothers you give it to the brother of the father but what about the father himself so he said the following all the way at the end it says is referring to the father of the one who died he getsa but where do you put him exactly so yesterday we put him over here we said the the suim as theor is going to explain today don't really go in order and therefore it's son daughter father of the Dead we take him out of order he's really in Alf all the way at the end at the end of the list no we're going to put him somewhere in the middle of the list literally in the middle two above him two below him he's in the middle says the four lines from the top of who told you who told you to do that you're right that part I agree that the word means a father maybe in fact it goes like this maybe he should go over here in front of the daughter first he give it to a son there's no son give it to the father another male in the family and then he goes goes to the daughter maybe that's theot now now maybe if you're already going to do that maybe you should push him all the way on top no that much I don't want to do no a son is closer to his own father than the father is close to the son okay so that much not but we could understand that the father of the dead of the mace goes in front of the daughter after the son says if a person has a daughter there is no the only time that a person's brother marries his wife in other words if a person dies then the brother-in-law is supposed to marry the dead brother's wife that's only if he doesn't have a son or a daughter but if he has a daughter there's no here we learn from the we look we search with magnifying glass if there's anything even a daughter there's no a daughter is like a son a daughter is a shame why do you do so that there's a remembrance for the father for the one that died the daughter is the one she has a shame like a son obses so to a daughter and just like a son gets yusha so to the daughter gets yusha before her grandfather okay so now we know that a father of the Dead doesn't go before his granddaughter okay we're still going to go with that it's just repeating means the father oh maybe this doesn't make so much sense if you're thinking about it maybe yeah it does actually if who told you that the father comes before before the brothers maybe it means that the father comes before the father's Brothers before the uncles who are that you have you have a father and his brothers maybe the whole is coming to say what to say that he comes before the brothers like we said yesterday and that how we're going to stay no a brother comes before a father why you see that a brother does a brother has a certain closeness that a father doesn't have says the Gar so maybe okay I agree with you that a father gets yusha and I agree with you that the father gets yusha out of order but who told you to put him in the third slot put him in the fourth slot the just teaching us how we came up with this to begin with we put him in the third slot for a reason because you go through each and every one it doesn't make sense only to put him in the third slot says to say that he comes right before his own Brothers makes zero sense you don't need to PA for that why would an uncle even have how are they even related here they related through their brother who's the father so how in the world would a uncle come before the father okay there's a a grandfather and The Grandfather's Brothers a guy died his own father should not get yusha his own father should come after his uncles makes no sense the uncles are only related because they're the brothers of his father so the father obviously has to come before them I don't need a p to say all the way in the bottom I don't need a p to say that he comes before them it must come to say big that he comes even before the the dead person's Brothers not the dead person's uncles Bo don't worry about it we're almost done with these see some of you already falling asleep this is why I came to Young I could have been asleep now if there's a father his the father's Brothers the uncles should have you before him he's the he's the kid's father how the uncles come before him I don't need a for that says this the already told us the answer this yesterday but the are not in order it doesn't make any sense it says that's so let's just go in order you have and afterwards the father say sorry don't go in order what's the what's the most important thing from everything here it says means related the closest we're going to go with the one who's most related who is the closest person to a person who dies his own son then comes the daughter then comes his father it goes by whoever is closest huh mother doesn't get anything sorry that that was in the first M she's a she I'm sorry she's a she gives she gives over but she doesn't take yha she gives yha she doesn't take sorry we have another source how do you know where a father belongs in the yusha if you just read theim seems like he's in the fifth slot let's see the uh here we go now if you look at the other let's look at the other what's this understands it's an interesting different than all the other it's not of skipping over passing over in Hebrew what's this when there's a daughter she overtakes her grandfather the father of the one who died but when there's brothers and there's a father the father comes first so he did something interesting let's see this for a second oh you have a the heavier guy on top he's Uncle the father is on the bottom of the screen the daughter is behind him you have a brother you have a son and here goes everybody [Music] so now she overtook she skipped over the Father the father was supposed to there's no door she overtook him and then all way in the back is the uncle maybe you guys there was an English guy here's brother-in-law he's like oh this guys a bunch of after the fast kind of people maybe the p is coming to say that she does Skip but she skips over the brother but the the PK is not talking about the father at all maybe the father actually the father of the one that died her grandfather maybe he's before maybe the father comes first even if there's a daughter why did have to say why did that t have to say at all that she takes over um let's do the r bam for a second we hold on a second I think he's over oh he's what come to tell us says beautiful that this T is not holding doesn't hold like the Tana that we learned until now this T holds theim come they're in order as is GNA say in a second why what what does this T do with the word CH he doesn't do he doesn't learn he learns everything is in order so what does the come to say why does it use a l of to skip over it's coming to say to skip over because typically the father should be there this is something special where the daughter comes and does something that she shouldn't be doing she overtakes the father says so we have what word teaches us the position of the grandfather of the father is it or is if you're learning from what does he do with the word chro so everybody knows oh sorry I got you oh thank you a G's in the house he lives in Israel now this when I needed somebody in in Los Angeles to take care of the there where were you when I was there you weren't there I was on the east coast and then you traed off to Hawaii and I snard and I'm back and you're gone it's my fault how was that uh v b was that quick enough or that's good it's got feeling got feeling it's got energy after your own Kipper I felt it was great beautiful but those other songs are like one every Saturday night I listen it's a slow funeral this beautiful let's sing that song for him oh he's Shifty [Music] you call that a funeral song that's not what you usually sing on but that was a song that was playing before you said this is funeral like but this is the same one this is better this is the same one when Jews are singing together it sounds better okay okay excuses excuses it was a f what's your what's your favorite song yeah what's that song you keep on when you come up with it we'll sing it sponsors turn the da I'm just going to do sponsors by the time I'm done you'll sing it turn the da the B family memory of and my uncle off for giving up her husband for the cloud for filled with so a lot of you know this what sh is a famous Li what do you learn from sh anybody why Bo you have [Laughter] it the one that you seeing by the graves by the you know talking about yeah this one this one that you are every sat you know it's not my jam I need Up Tempo yeah you want to sing a solo one of your famous ones we're learning right now I came here to learn after but there's also there's also there's also some entertainment in the Middle come on rock this is Mr schack Rock what's what are you famous for what's your famous niggan I think minion man is probably how's it go it's a funeral [Laughter] dir so yeah he has what to do with the word he uses it that a husband could inherit his wife and the one that learns that we're where you put a father for you learn from so what does he do with the word show says Girl by the daughter it says how do you move the inheritance that Yeshua gave you and stayed in your family for many many how do you move it over to somebody else's family another shet through a daughter who married somebody from another shavit if she's the only inheritor she inherited her father's and she was married to somebody else and that guy died now it goes to to that person shave it from the co told me a v he said that why is it that made a year or Plus into the midbar how come beforehand so he said because perhaps could create you know different groups I'm from this group you're that group we're different we're better everybody wants to be the the better sh the causes issues made it that first of all there was um he wanted a year of together together and then he brought a mishkon that we could have something in the middle in the center that we all come to we're all part of and only after he had the mishkan and we had a whole year of togetherness then he set us on different path so to speak different who told you that this POS that we're talking about the entire time is the father father shro who said what's the word shro you know why because it says in the when do we have this today just a few hours ago so you see that and father go together says the but look at the next oh when do we read this also no today should be so his family the from within his family not some people are not going to like this it's only a few later no oh yeah you're right you're right you're right my bad my bad I'm looking somewhere else okay the father's family is considered a a family when it comes to we go with the is the father not the mother although there the famous Misa there's a couple in a car they were in a big argument they were in a big fight they weren't talking to each other for most of the ride and uh you know driving down there and all there's some cows on the side over there so the wife turns to her husband says oh I see your mishak over here hanging out he takes a look he says much much resembles my trigger you're right but is of the father every family knows what I'm talking about it's your family reason why he acts like that is because it comes from your M like just like your sister has the same problem that's no it's just me and my wife I you have no idea what I'm talking about because your wife doesn't have siblings right is just the fancy thing speak for yourself oh his wife is the one who told me she's the one actually who created the Stefan the people that married into stefansky they have free therapy for life if they go to his wife's organization she made comes from the what the mother so we're going to be discussing this case this story it's a sad story in a way in a lot of ways all the way into tomorrow there was a guy by the name of yan he loved money he's money hungry and he found a great job by mik to be in charge of mik's AAR he didn't want to do aara but you know for a little guilt he said why not so he took the job and the gar tells us that later on Don this part of the Novi Don came and they despised came and they they try to take him away they try to make him in charge of their then later on he did stuff so says like this this guy from Yehuda and then the POS continues and says was he from shav yud or shav Le he's and he lives there he's what which one is he he's from Le by the way what do we learn fromer anybody who's a Le here no you should know what he learn from Le how old do you have to be to be a huh 30 and if you don't have like we had a minion one of the was not 30 it's could be 25 that's when they start learning they start learning 25 takes them about five years to learn but it says in the that he's and Le you can't be both so the best we could think of is that his father was a Ley and his mother was Yehuda maybe his mother was a Ley and his father was Yuda no he wouldn't call him a Ley then he was performing he was a Ley but his mother was from Yehuda oh that's why the PK said calls him Yehuda and Ley so you see that the family of a of of a mother is considered a family he wasn't a real Ley his name was Ley so says oh his name was Ley and he comes from Yehuda nice try so then why in the world would his boss say now I know is gon to make it good for me it's crazy mik Mr says Hashem loves me look at this kiss from hasem said kiss from hasem look who came to work for me a guy who name is Ley to do thear and he's he's a Cen he's gonna be my Cen he's gonna be my priest forar hm loves me is going to take care of me so you see for me the thing that you have to open up your eyes you have to see Hashem in all situations mik unfortunately he opened up his eyes and he saw he saw what he thought is a sign from Hashem that he should be doing a look I'm looking for somebody to work for me and here his name is Ley not a he's the means a priest he's the head of again I don't want to huh m is like the G of oh that story I'll say the story you talking the G of comes to the repper that one what do are you saying which one yeah so there it's even more the guy G of comes to the Reb says give me my says what are you crazy he says listen every goty every person has to get robbed you know people GNA get robbed should make me the one I should be to be the one doing that okay every gun of DAV true [Laughter] I don't know if everybody heard you I repeat it says I tell the members not all some the one that have ants in their pants they they need to get out look look I don't I don't want to call but if there's a call it should be next door got it Val again I don't want to but I think we have to think about the yadm the Yash that we here in our we have an enemy with 150,000 missiles and they said that if we start off with them they're going to shoot thousands of missiles a day and they're going to be accurate missiles and they're going to hit the energy and they're going to hit to this and to that and the whole Israel is going this and estimates were the first days thousands of of of dead and this and that we are I don't know two weeks in and uh this's 13 13 14 dead which is a ton but not what they said these are not the number numers that they were talking about then you go back and you say the Beeper thing the walkie-talkie thing they get the next thing they get the second guy so if you don't pause and say's in every step of the way it's not again it's not the it's not the this it's directing traffic doing things I want to show you something somebody sent me here this thing from I don't know what station who knows if you don't understand Hebrew I'll explain it afterwards I thought it's very I don't know if the guy's wearing a yamak or not they said he is it doesn't look like to me but okay maybe is no that's how it is on the screen over there [Music] if you ask any a chance this is going to happen not one person even half what happen It's Not a Human [Music] Being wow wow she's in shock wow you have to believe the guy that Gan Ros the assistant head now how do you say Gan of the intelligence in Israel he says if you ask anybody a few weeks ago if they would have been speaking the truth nobody would say that even half of what they accomplished could have happened so you have to believe you have to have auna you have to believe that's not human beings doing this we take it for granted no seriously we take it for granted sitting here the guy I'm telling you the that we're in a war he's screaming about the I know the but we're in a war they they they they shot a couple hundred missiles today we're in a war what war G War we know about a war war we have say you have to you have to open up your eyes so different people open up their eyes in different things and opened up his eyes and he says oh thank you gave me ay so now I know is going to be good to me we have we have I know we said it 20 times we have to say just in case remember and there some new guys guy comes to the Rob he says Rob I want to be a says I cannot make you a Cen he says please R I'll give you $100,000 he I can't make you a $200,000 no but why do you want to be a Cen because my father is aen my grandfather's aen in you know what the kiss from hem was not that he was a Ley that his name was LE that's also kiss from hasem as his name wasn't even his name was okay so his name was not Ley he must have been a Ley and therefore you see that he's Ley and Yehuda and uh he's not even he's not a son of the son he's grandchild [Music] of he acted like so he's really Ley the reason why it says yud because he did a he did something that when somebody does something wrong so we name him after the the original the original is Masha that comes from when somebody does something wrong you say that it goes by the the person the original was very handsome he had the same mother as so they were brothers now we could pause here for a second because used to say say that we know was son and he wanted to overthrow his father and he chased his father he wanted to kill his father he wanted to kill his father chased him out of there and at the end he ended up being with his father 10 of his father's paction cuz he wanted he didn't want people to say oh you're going to make up with your fathers he did something he cannot make up he went and he had the 10ac his father's 10 10 wives he took his father's 10 wives so said I want to go to's grave I want to D iner why he said you have a son that's the worst son in the world he can't get any worse than AB Shalom want to kill his father took his wives and everything drove his father out yeah when he when he died when y killed him was very upset and he scream he says o what happened to my son and then he saw that his son's going to G so he said b b seven eight times he said to take his son out of to put him that's how a father treats a son after everything everything so please have on us our children we wen't as rebellious as of shom somebody told me he was in a taxi the guy told him says my son is the worst he did this to me and that to me he stole and he this and that and that and after he's telling him all the stuff about is he says yeah you know if he picks up the phone and calls me up I'll be because the father is son no matter what even you see here even so says who mother his mother was it's two different women since acted like he did he rebelled against the Kingdom so the T considered him like excuse me person should marry into a good family somebody once asked the if they read froma family is it okay to to marry a a girl that a father is About Cha she says why not she says cuz I'm Not About Cha she says no why not is joke there's nothing wrong if they're about how come you're not about cha so I'll prove it to you married the who's y son the one we just spoke about he had this who married the daughter of am who they marry Elish so when you marry somebody worthy you have good children you marry somebody not worthy you don't have good we're going to see how many generations up do you have to go what do you think how many generations who how do you know like a ah yeah three generations that's we're going to be see tomorrow is three generations says the should we stop over here no go a few minutes you saying the is pure also came from the son of Aon took from the daughters of he fattened that used to be the the priest doesn't mean means that he fought he struggled with his we know that struggled that's where they came from it's interesting says that if you marry somebody that's doesn't come from a good family really has to do with tomorrow's death with making sure that the s of your wife are good people he says that if you have children that are not good then the then the you get for that you caused it it's your fault says over here you have to go after the good if you don't go you can get punished for it did you see that they they were making fun of you see this Ben the son of a here they're talking about that he comes from is not from Y how did he kill he's a he's a Ben so pu is not a good word it doesn't mean that he means so what happened say no he came from both of them he came from and he came from if his grandfather came from then his great grandmother his grandmother comes from and if his grandmother came from I'm sorry his grandfather comes from right he came from both so let me ask you a question if he came from both so then why are we saying that he's good that he came out P came out because he's from y but he's also from is you hear the Kasha we're saying that P either his grandmother was from isra and his grandfather was from M or the opposite they're from both he's from both so why does say oh look I have a r that if you marry into a good family you get somebody like P what's the r both of his grandparents either one is good one is bad so what's the ri the answer is Jonathan said before that it only lasts for three generations the yro part is true he came from isra but it's more than three generations away was further away closer to I think we finished here right this is the thing oh no no one more word it says that's the preferred in it's plural there's two one was that's one was that he fought the you see that came from both have a wonderful week