Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 114 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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you straight ahead you're not a guest yeah you are a guest yeah what's your name n Nara what cats cats oh you're on the screen wow so uncomfortable and the guy next to is not a guest you've been there no yeah Mary kados Mary kados I didn't ask you for your name now we know Mar kados shout out to Mar kados and the whole kados family thanks for coming always a very very long da today so we're going to have to I just want to show you this for a second this this is our I don't know if I did did I show this already in in the Hebrew this shami schf this is the the first time I've seen somebody with that poster it's me boring so we had the poster here we had to show you this is this m like at its fullest you know like on the other side like separated or you could go like the where was that one there this is a little bit better I like that one better um what else do we have here M Michael chess I showed you right okay good so just to uh remind the even though tomorrow we don't have an official breakfast but the shear is at 10:00 because it's there's a longer diving uh we're Ding A bunch of us diving here in the sh behind us at 8:30 so approxim 10 o00 she right here M shabas 9:30 in the Suka I think Pizza is being served Sunday in the Suka at 10:00 breakfast Monday 10:00 in mdy Tuesday back in the Suka breakfast still looking for sponsors if anybody wants to sponsor breakfast pizza whatever you want to sponsor the Hebrew Shear the the flakes might be a little less um maybe not no there's a lot of people in the Hebrew okay so that's the schedule uh we have some sponsers the of the month for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages this is a new page maybe I heard them saying I heard uh the say that he offered whoever gives up a a hostage to let him out Scot free to different country just return that you don't have any pressures hopefully maybe maybe this is the a new page for them the p that come from supporting heal and strength for of Ellie and one of my favorite people he told me I could stick it in here so I'm going to say that's health and strength for another but not another an athlete who has problems with his elbow health and strength family Lakewood New Jersey because is the best and the Art of the month reell the whole to to make enjoyable for so many for being here we are holding by the way I did this sheer before on AR in 15 minutes no jokes no stories we just read let's see if you can do it again those of you who don't appreciate this she you can go there's plenty of other sh that are boring as anything you can go you don't like it go here the door is right over theread so we're talking about to remind here gu wants to purchase something he can't lift so do a ke what does he do he takes a handkerchief preferably after after he blew his nose on it and he gives it to the guy now believe it or not you see the clock is ticking he has an opportunity to retract he says give me back my uh handkerchief and he takes it back what is that time how much time does he have to retract he made a kingon the guy already lifted the handkerchief guy the r tells him the says lift his handkerchief and you'll make a Kenyon you everything to your new wife the guy could take it back maybe that's one not so what is that so take a look at this for second this is like it's not really but whatever guy says he has up until what point could could he have is we'll see according to one oh got stuck again okay good I what yeah but we have to go through that whole thing again okay hold on here goes that's oh when he stands up according to one it's over standing up okay to remember standing up as long as you're sitting you could have you could say I don't want to do the deal even though the guy lifted up the the handkerchief calls man there's a kid on a bus here and the elderly person came onto the bus the kid gets up and the the older guy says no no no it's okay pushes him back down in the seat so the kid gets up again pushes it back again so the kid starts crying he says what are you crying he says I just missed my boss stop I was supposed to get off [Music] there's the this is the famous RAB R you're going to see they argue a lot in ch Raba is he was the more what they call today like a lden the the better learner maybe R was the SII he knew a lot more the famous where RAB and they asked to be the r but he heard from the stargazers that it's only going to last for two years two years is it's not good that means that his life would be over she said no no no please no COV no COV give it to Raba let rabba and Raba he Wasa for 22 years and then became two years Mish like like they told him and that was it he was n so a little bit of a riddle how old was Raba when he became the Riva how old is rabba those of you who weren't here on AR Raba was NI at what age what age was he nter at 40 so if he was R for 22 years that means he became Riva when he was 18 years old [Music] so you remember this this is called as long as there're in this as long as they're dealing with the deal that they're talking about they're middle they're involved even though one of them lifted the handkerchief no we have a guy by the name of zakara paf he's the he does locks locksmith zakar so he told me I asked him afterwards he he has guest and they were talking at the meal so he scream out he goes does anybody here know what pig is and the guy go said her was over he decided to something from the shear and just throw it in there and then they decided sometimes it's to change over this conversation you go to the next conversation next you have says as long as they're sitting says as long as they're in the same minion I can prove to you that I'm right when three people came in to visit a sick person if they want they could act as a if they want they could act as will just say straight out what is aid aid means that he he testifies that this is what he heard he heard this sick person saying that so and so should get to what does a dying do a dying pasin you get the condo you get the Ferrari you get a million dollars in the he split he divides it and once he divides it what happens it's a division and if you say in fact that it has to do with sitting and getting up how could the D say you get the condo and it's that's it it's a done deal he gets the condo what happens if the guy gets up or I'm sorry the guy uh takes it back he says I don't want the condle to go to that guy even though there's a Kenyon there's a handkerchief done here it's up it only finishes when they get up but if they're still sitting there then the guy the sick guy can take it back so how could you establish a yusha based on this Kenyon when it's not over yet so what are you going to say maybe they did get up okay so let's see maybe the sick guy is going to take a bag and say no no no why would he say no so stop now throw this in the guy goes up to sh he sees there's like a whole call center massive call center calls are coming in every every 10 seconds he says what is this he says this is where they answer calls for all the people in this world that need stuff this guy needs kids this guy needs parosa this guy needs help they're picking up calls when they go next door there's the packaging facility this is where what's this is where they send people their packages this guy need a couple hundred bucks for this guy for a couple of this safer whatever they need next room there's two people sitting there by the phone what is do oh this is this is the the call that is made after you receive the package the thank you this is two people for the the whole entire world cuz nobody nobody really bothers to say thank you this guy he's on his death bed he says oh you you get my condo you get the this and they look at him he says just a condo why does he get the million dollars I want okay you know what forget it none of you next K has K say thank you say be appreciative no maybe I'm just says theor I said this over what did gain by this question what do say says as long as they're still dealing with that par whatever it is with theha a person can take it back even though he so what's the difference if if if it's sitting or the or how could the that he gets the C gets the million dollars maybe The Giver the guy that's sick is going to take back what he said he's not happy now nobody said Thank you to him he's going to take it back and they didn't even go on to the next conversation yet what are you going to say don't get too excited it looks like it's almost over this year he like yes finally a short night no I'm going to make sure it's not sponsors okay here go sponsors you sponsor I'll give you sponsors the bski family now let me tell you about the bsky family said you have no idea oh let me show you the chair they get here this every chair in this room is by the bsky family can do whatever you want in memory of my uncle it should be giving up her husband for the CL for filled with so obviously according to you have to say that they already moved on to the next topic that's why it's locked in once you move on to the next topic it's over you can't regret I don't understand the So it's talking met a case where it's locked in according to rabba why because they got off their chair once they get up they stand up it's over okay next says when there's an argument it seems like most according to most there some argue that say it's only B these things AR B seems like the is like in only three arguments well it's only two one of them is not even an argument RAB doesn't AR only two out of the three there's between and S is this one right over here let's say a father owns the center field and ruin owns the field on the on the right side s ruven says I would like my 50% of the yusha next to my field it's much easier for me now to plow I just go one one thing with the with the tractor and that's it well I don't want to go to the other side of the field so rabis says he's right why what does the other guy care what does shim care if he if he if he's insistent not to do that it's it's a kind of way to live and we don't says we could force a guy not to not to act like a if says no he has the right to say I don't want you to get the feel next to you there different maszle in the field I think the the part I should get the one next to you and you get the other one okay in that case what's it doesn't goip the kip is locked in not when you get off your chair not when you stand up rather when you're done with that topic very interesting is when a husband tells his wife and children he says I'm giving he says about himself that he is dying and he wants his wife and children to get a yusha how much do we give let's say there's four children and one wife so if he says I want the wife and the children to inherit so you can think that each one gets 20% divide the entire thing by five get 20% says no the wife gets 50% and the children get 50% let the four children divide the 50% so I want to show you because we have some time fascinating story in say over there but it's a great great story it's one of the classics in sh so the says like this I'm reading it out loud whoever wants to read with me here who's this son there was the Caesar who hated Jews he told the important people in the Kingdom sobody has like a little um what they call like a ward or something on his leg should he live with it or should he just cut it right off and he won't be chop it off and live in other words if you have Jews they're pain in the leg chop them off get rid of them so this wasn't Jewish he gets up there and he says it's not a good idea you're not going to be able to kill the Jews okay just like you need wind from all directions you need it's not a good idea I'll tell you why they're going to call you a chopped up Kingdom interesting his name is because of this line he used the word so he's known as I think also from later on so the king says oh you're saying very good there's one problem if you're right I'm going to have to kill you why cuz you can't beat the king I just lost a fight lost a fight I'm going to have to kill you you saying very good got to throw you into like some sort of dirt whatever because your dead man so they're bringing him to kill him as the bringing him to kill him one of these fancy women scream out to him how you going to go you're going to die now and not you're not going to pay your taxes he understood exactly what she meant here again it says that's maybe why his name is again he he gave himself a bris by jumping on a sharp Stone I gave my taxes that was his taxes they kept on bring him as he's walking he says I'm giving all my belongings to and his friends new so that's our person says I'm giving everything to my wife and my children what does that mean we said 50% to the wife 50% to the children saysa since he said I'm giving everything to Rea and his friends gets 50% and all the friends get 50% again says so gets 50% and the rest you divide with between the children of there's a Heavenly voice that said you are welcome to and this is the kicker and this is something we have to remember for the rest of our lives very famous it's actually three times in three different stories in started crying there are people who work their entire lifetime to AI there's nothing wrong with that but there are people that with one moment one one act it doesn't matter what it is there's many people that was for one one unbelievable Act you could be to the same the guy that's working his entire life this who saved all the Jews in five minutes and he gave himself and he gave and he gave away everything to to the to the greatest T that ever lived that person within a a moment fleeting moment we could also take that as a mus for ourselves that some some things come up in our lives once in a while it's rare but it comes up and if you act in a certain way you do a certain thing so let's see the mishna says in the mishna here it is enlarge it you can Mish read it it says a man inherits his mother and a man inherits his wife it says and let's see we should actually see this one has it full it says if the mission would stop right over here I would know it all it says that a a man inherits his wife he doesn't give his wife doesn't take from him a yusha he takes his wife's and he doesn't give his wife so they ask the then why do you have to continue these words that a wife husband you just told me that means that's if a if a husband or a son let's take the son for a sec a son inherits his mother but she doesn't inherit him so then why do you have to say a mother does not inherit her son but she does give it to the son it it's the same thing repeated says why do I need that again I just read it you're right it's completely extra but it's teaching us a that a a woman with her son is similar to a woman and her husband what does that mean so we had the of of here we have a father-in-law all the way on top the he owns 23 cities and there's a couple the the wife is the's daughter right the wife is the shar's daughter now what happened was take a look the wife died first this is the case where the guy is very upset the son-in-law is upset cuz now he's not going to get the father zusha he's waiting I'm not I'm not kidding there I was once involved in a and uh they asked so do they have money so the guy said I'm not I'm not I'm not making this up he says they don't have money now but they will have as soon as he the the grandfather dies like that's okay like waiting soon we'll have money okay but it didn't work out the way he thought it was going to work out his wife died first and a wife doesn't inherit in her grave in other words if she would in if she would inherit while she's dead she inherit the father her father so maybe the husband would come and take that yusha but what happens in this case take a look after the dies everything goes directly to the grandson it doesn't pass the husband at all so just like when we say that a wife doesn't inherit in her grave to give it to her husband so let's take a look very very simple stuff there's a guy that had two wives one of the wives on the left wife number two she has a brother okay this guy in the middle he had sons from both wives so those sons are called what brothers they're Brothers they're half Brothers but brothers from a father they shared the same father the middle guy okay take a look what happened the brother one of the brothers dies and then his mother dies so since the brother died before the mother had the mother died first what would happen it would go to the son and if the son died then where would the r go to to his brother let's say there's no father on top forget the father on top he died we should really kill the father on top Dave I don't know if you could turn him sideways make him a little gray fine while we're doing this'll take care of him he's good at killing people like that oops oh let me just let me just show what happened hold on before you change it so the mother died in this case since the mother died after one one died first it's step one the kid died step two the mother died in this case where does the go to it does not go to the brother it goes to her brother to her own brother not to the brother in the bottom doesn't go to the yish his brother why because the guy that says the number one by him he doesn't inherit his mother in the grave to give it over to his own brother so rather it goes to the mother's brother so let's see inside the guy that says number one by him he doesn't inherit his mother to give it to the to the brother with a pis well they both have payis I see the the guy on the bottom right he doesn't get it his uncle gets it in dead oh do you guys see he's dead the TP the guy on top the a they did a great job murdering him the guy M alive and well but he wasn't good for the sug so we had to get rid of him they say thater made peace with and they asked him why why would you make peace with when you're Reby you held so much of the V you made a little bit of a fight with them so he said I'll tell you mshel there's a bunch of brothers that are fighting they're going to fight unfortunately like we didn't discuss it enough but a lot of times when do Brothers fight because of yusha that's that's when Brothers unfortunately if it's not done well there not a good will this fights so Brothers are fighting and then oh it doesn't work work in this case in this story and then the father goes and marries another woman who brings in children into into the second marriage and the children don't get along is a big fight he say what happens is the brothers a lot of times they get together to gang up against the new wives the step the the mean Stepmother's Sons you know they get together he says we also we have enough problems with the masim and other sorts of things that are going on in CL Israel that we have to we have to battle that we it's not good for the brothers to fight now we have to make peace that's what he said so happens to be that mdy is known for our akas we have even if you look in this room we have here we have we have R we have anonim we have all sorts of people here but at the end of the day we have and we have shom especially it's known that sukus famous V but I like to say it I think it was who says that reel that Suka has to be two walls and a and a and that's a a symbol what are you showing the [Laughter] [Music] anti you hug somebody the the is hugging us with the the the one two and a little bit of a it's a it's a hand like this it's a say why why is it that what's the big inion of of why why is sukka a time of Peace because well if you're out in the Suka and the whole neighborhood hears you fighting you try to tone it down there's less fighting in the Suka going on especially if you know the husband sleeps here and then the Su and the wife is over there and there you know she's preparing meals so there's a lot of shom and peace during su's time so we should keep it up RAB keep up the peace and let's just get to the bottom of the the Israelis are coming early tonight I'm not sure why this is actually the beginning of tomorrow but let's at least finish today this is crazy it's unlike anything we we learned until now a father inherits his son and a mother inherits her son when when there's no father around then she's the one that inherits what's the problem with this what's the problem the mission says the opposite of this learns we'll have to repeat this tomorrow but let's learn it it says the word so a plural so we make we already had one he from here another one is here so let's just use it up we compare one to the other the shav of the mother the power of the mother to the power of the father equal rights so mother can Nar a son ask what about this whole that we had when there's a father involved then he wins his but if there's no father I just want to remind I like to talk about this all the time is 100% don't forget it's called but it's 100% we're allowed to do weed to do there are those who don't even write it's it's y like any other thing you know go do this you should really treat it completely 100% to the most you can you should make a suda drink wine forget about all the all the mundane things that you're not supposed to do you shouldn't usually do them there's a few exceptions should not even take your kids on trips I told my kids that's also for me okay have a wonderful we'll see you tomorrow for