Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 34 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] ASE good morning r the a gets better and better it's unbelievable unbelievable thank you so much for coming out live from Lakewood IR KES New Jersey I was born in the city it's a tremendous and honor to be here tonight thank you so much for coming out to each and every one of you so we're warming up we're warming up I'll give you something to clap a about the first thing a yid needs to do when he comes to this halga city is visit theum I went and I visited one of the Bas I'm not kidding around there it was a tremendous honor for me I never met him in person and on the way here literally 20 minutes before I got here not on the door and it was a beautiful beautiful thing rabai I'd like to share with you uh well hold on let me get there oh Bo you're not going to believe this the one and the only here we [Applause] go maybe I'll turn it around [Applause] wow it was a real real and uh I almost said the when I saidu we hugged it out for five minutes it was galic beautiful so to live in a city and city with many other but but to me ad if you come to my house his picture is on myet the only picture that remained from Su the poster so for seeing me and uh I do want to say a few thank yous to the anybody that was involved in arranging tonight I know there's many though we think is a big big part of MD from day wook Aon H the famous Aon H you know what I got to tell you if you aren't part of the chats and the groups here locally please join the local chats we have a lot of things in store for this coming year different things that we want to organize locally on a local level bav malas and things like that so please the more people that join and the larger the community is it gives more and more to everybody else and it's good it's great to see like different people came over I'm not on anything I only have email there's ways to connect and it's K because it's other people it's yourself and other people to see that other people are also involved somebody came over to me I believe his name was heshi Rosenberg right when we walked in because we are on a campaign and he walked over me he says I want to give you $5,000 soes Rosenberg a tremendous is to the 637 people 600 it's a very large number 637 people that took upon themselves a page a team and what that means is if you don't know what that means because I wasn't so familiar either I know I keep on getting from other Charities and other you know different companies basically team means that you accept the yourself to try to raise a certain amount of money you don't have to it's not but you try 637 people basically went out of their comfort zone you know what that means out of their comfort zone yeah and B we really we're on track we we are told by the charity people who are here today I forgot the last what's his last name seagull seagull and and and the boys they do they came up with the whole idea that's why it's charity the first ones I believe it's it's a gaval way to raise money because it's not so int you don't like bug and make people M suar you send the text message you put it on your status and somehow it adds up we already we're holding I don't know last time I checked was like $220,000 just from the small money yesterday we raised larger numbers you know people pledged $25,000 10, ,000 a lot of people gave very nice money in the Syrian Community I have a lot of here's a person literally went out of his comfort zone Jack Grazy he took me to his and when I was sitting by his I looked at him I said you know I also have a wealthy share I never really brought anybody to him a lot of people have asked me over the years no he myar is off limit I'm not going to start bringing people every five minutes of my and I looked at her I said did you ever bring somebody here how often do you bring somebody to your in front of both of them said never in his entire marriage I don't know how long he's married 18 years 20 years he went out of his comfort zone to bring me to sh so that could support Tyra so and is a known known B and as I was leaving somebody came in but used to do the da the whole thing the point is people have gone then he the whole par meeting with all these people from the community and to bug people going out of your comfort zone people could and betum should in a way go out of the comfort zone because you maaka another person and you're helping at the end of the day the bottom line is what are we doing we're increasing T in that's all we care to bring another to T through different programs through better art Through The gamar Campaign which cost us $300,000 last year Etc ET bring more people today the numbers prove it we have over 20,000 people that are speaking English speakers we're over 3,000 Hebrew speakers in two months so for coming out um what else there's an event in mon similar to this I think I don't know something like that for on Wednesday in mon so look out for that we could start oh I think we have a sponsor to here oh sponsored by Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages the forro I don't know what that is did I do something I should have done you know what I'll put it over here okay I'm G to shut this off can't read that either so I'll do it from here from supporting the very very famous One and Only gold is making tonight for the of the wedding of our son that's taking place now as we're learning the da is gold today was pushing on its status the charity campaign that's a dedicated person another extremely dedicated person I have to give him he gave my page [Applause] ,000 gold and Leon on their children's wedding did I say correctly something like that in the art of the month is sponsored by Anonymous for the for an easy child birth his daughter and healthy baby today's a unbelievable day it's historic really we are starting per many of us almost every one of us learned per at least the first da of it at one time or another and here we are in the beginning of the peric now I just told Yosi I said you know the word P might cause people to have a little trauma I need to take the trauma away the first moment before we even start so here traum word p this is what a pin is here we go oh it's not really working basically this guy has a goldfish is there sound I don't know if the sound Maybe all right so that's a p means you give somebody something to watch it could be a glass Fishbowl it could be the fish itself it could be a cow you have somebody to watch it for you now if the guy watches it for free he's a is Potter if it gets stolen or if it's lost if he gets paid for watching the Goldfish then he what does he for says a person asks somebody else to watch something for him and that whatever it is was stolen or lost I think I have another picture let me see yeah gal so here's a guy on by F over there and um I don't know if you could see it's the guy the breast of a guy that uh we used a few times he's sleeping away schen and a guy of comes and takes his sheep here I I just found this picture these are cows that got lost SLE there was a flood in a certain place I don't remember where and the you know the owner is looking around they nowhere to be found because they're on top of a roof they can't get off how you going to find him so because he's a he could just claim that it was stolen or lost and he's Potter but he would have to make a sh he would have to swear a lot of people don't want to swear even if it's 100% true they don't want to swear you have to hold the the whole thing it's a terrible thing the world was Destroy it causes a lot of SAR in the world what does he do he says you know what let me just pay for this how much is the cow $1,000 $1,000 I don't want to swear a if he wants he just has to make a and he's he leaves he doesn't have to make he doesn't now is we know that if we find the ghav the ghav has to pay double picture stole a Tesla he has to pay two Teslas that's the way it works here more heed the animal that he stole he made a barbecue he has to pay four or five for if he stole a sheep five if he stole a cow he already had the whatever he pays a little less had it since the paid for the object for the for the animal so he kind of comes in instead of the owner so instead of the owner receiving Cel or doll the hay four times he gets the four and five we're going to see it's not so POS this has to do with the owner conveying it to the Sher giving it over to the Sher being to the Sher sometimes he's mnet sometimes he's not so it's not automatic this has to do like the the owner feels bad for him you just paid me for my animal you felt bad that it was stolen I never paid you anything for watching the animal but it was stolen and you came at out of pocket to pay me you know what I'm going to give you the C we ever find the GH of you're going to get double some you get four or five if he swore he didn't want to pay if the GH was found we had this if the owner never got paid for his animal so the owner gets the cave the did whatever does he swore made a instead of pay okay so he doesn't get anything special that goes to the owner of the animal this a guy that came over to me and said that he started with us B here he's in the crowd somewhere forgot his name tall guy maybe no but he had a asazi name he said I learned since I learned all the English what kind of I take all the English out this is like the bare minimum English this is in like every word was English okay by the way by the way I have to say tremendous shout out to's sonor I didn't that he learns oh that's big because I learned May so he tells me I said where do you learn by I said he knows how to learn yeah talking that I told I learned there I know that know I learn Okay good guys good guys so why do you need what those are the only two items in the world that somebody's going to watch a CLE and a be there's other stuff also no what about fruit what about I don't know what why do we need two cases whatever the object is you see here in the talks about he's he gives him the right to have the C why because it's a and is not simple to take care of it's very hard you take the animal out the graves you bring it back in you this you have to feed it's it's a whole as oh you're oing and not only you're oing you're also paying me for my lost animal okay I'll give you the I'll give you the you take a guy's watch you put in the drawer that's it you don't you never you don't have to deal with it maybe perhaps you don't have to give him C you know he's not not that he doesn't he doesn't want to give him he's not magnet so the is that's why even that goes to so just say no it's not so much now if it's a Tesla a yeah have to pay double and sometimes you know $50 $100,000 I don't know how much a Tesla cost in America I but animal think about it how much does a cow cost anybody know how much a cow cost today anybody how much like $2,000 1,500 bucks $2,000 probably something like that times five is $17,000 no ponich ponic math no I'm kidding $10,000 right it's a nice amount of money that's a chunk of change of a sudden you're getting $110,000 there instead of two maybe that the the the owner doesn't want to be mnet doesn't want to give it over so whether it's an animal whether it's Cale he gives it to the sh so this is this we we did a little extra today for the you know some kids might be watching kid so we went a little crazy here basically a person sells the fruit that don't exist yet can you sell something that's not in this world cannot what's a typical case here fruit on the tree that don't exist the guy is a Apple buyer he says okay I'm sing you here he put his picture on every potential Apple eventually when the apples grow they go to him could he purchase that in advance says so what are we talking about here in order for me to convey to you the Cel I have to make a Kenyon so I give you my animal to watch and if it gets stolen and you pay you pay for it you get the double but when did when did you pay when did I make a Kyon when did I tell you could have it when do we make we made a king sud what do we do exactly how C is something in the future if it gets stolen and if I find the GH and if he's not the is to say all these thing if if if if if then there going to be C so when did I make a Kon on it you have to make a k doesn't St go from me to you you have to do something in order for that to happen remains of the opinion that you could make a key in something doesn't exist for for instance the classic case with him is if somebody says I'm a non-jew let's get married after I become a g so didn't happen yet when it happens we'll get married could he be today or he says you're not Jewish I'm Jew let me be M you today and when you become when you go through the conversion the whole thing then that's says it works that's the fruit on a palm tree why because typically speaking every single year the same fruit comes out at the same time for the last 30 years it's going to happen so there with who's arguing with the r the saying that hey you shouldn't say stories that never happened went flying over here came over there some of the stories are say you to say it because he give people some are real some aren't right maybe not the B we'll go somewhere else I don't know you know what I'm talking about right said this and all of a sudden came and then this and started that whatever the mice is so told him I have a r from says inid that a something that didn't happen so you're not mock you don't give it over to somebody else you don't tell him as a story which reminds me the famous but it's said that he asked Are you allowed to say a fake story make up a story in order to be M of another and the said 100% you're allow to make up a story as long as M another says and that's the first lie that I made up that I spoke to so he says says but if it's that's okay says every time the I want to be maybe a tile and the Isle okay maybe that's what he meant maybe that was Theus of it but obvious he was going to say about himself I'm aad but he wasn't even talking about talking about the the best or whatever he's talking about that in other words it's I also like to say it's not it didn't happen yet it's going to happen soon over here you have you learn said it's okay to say and pretend that the Mish happened physically say who says that there's going to be a theft who says that somebody's going to steal something it's if after an if after an if four ifs and even if it gets stolen and even if it was stolen you're going to find G how often do you find something that was stolen and even if you find the guy there's a way out of it he doesn't have to beay kful why because of this saw in Potter Kel is a and if a person admits to it he goes to the bed and says hey I stole that's it he's Potter so the chances of him paying C are so minute so what's the how is how do you give somebody over how does the owner of this give over the to the when it will get stolen and you're going to want to pay me that's what happened over here this is the key word until now we're talking about the ca that doesn't exist it's an imaginary that hardly ever happens you're right but guess what I'm not being you the C I'm conveying to you the cow which is a physical thing today that's what I'm giving you when you pay me in three years from now for the cow that got stolen May from today retroactively the cow is yours oh once the cow is yours yours then what then the ca is also yours how do I get you the ca by giving you the cow hold on oh we have a a picture of giz oh the wool right off the Sheep who owns the Sheep you're telling me that the Sher owns the Sheep the Sher owns the cow how retroactively became his and therefore the C also okay so then he should own everything off the Sheep he should own the babies he should own the gizo the T the wool no you're right so we have to say that it's besides the giz and the my PAs why would you come up with something like that why would he say you could have the but not the no it makes sense typically speaking I'm willing to give you something that I never worked for it came out of nowhere you're AI right he's ignoring me okay fine stand up show what it means to get five grand he's the guy over there in the left side the front left corner I didn't mean toop you know Anonymous there's no Anonymous in MD right just Anonymous from Lakewood that's it get over here from Lakewood he's not GNA he's not here he's not here tonight it's you you he's such an a get over here Mr Anonymous if it's you how much money do you give to the campaign let's hear you have no IDE there nice you know my M I was in Lincolnwood the show over there and uh the rabbi first he made an appeal once a we once a year he makes an appeal so the gab goes around after he gives the whole speech gab goes around from says okay $20,000 Michael Freeman 50 $50,000 $25,000 for and he walks over to somebody he's the guy that always puts a 20 in the push every time the push goes around he puts it and he folds it up in 15 times and he puts it in so nobody that it's him now the whole SCH knows it's him whatever he puts it in okay gab goes over to him listens listens he says and then he walks to the Bea and he goes Anonymous $55,000 so I scream out Anonymous $500 the whole show is m bigly what Anonymous you're anonymous everybody saw the guy walk over to you he with you for five minutes he made sure it took a long time and then then you're Mr okay but anyway it's not to be anonymous why because it's in way and do has to be given and hly a whole thing but if you give him people you know you talking L who wants to give money here say $5,000 hasy Rosenberg 5 I could also do it okay anyway you could also give it an installments you know it goes but something that comes right off the animal doesn't want to give it to you comes from somewhere else oh another similar to what we said before but different what do we say before before the started on the first of the month let's say Al now is saying that an an an alive it becomes your animal retroactive an alive if it gets stolen and you pay me so Al no that's not a good month Aliss it becomes yours okay over here saying the same idea but it becomes yours when a moment before it got stolen on not on Al un at this when was stolen and what do I gain by that now I have no question about what happened to the baby and the and the semmer no it it wasn't his until the last last moment right before it was stolen there was no T then the sem's the whole month from Al to but it wasn't his it became his at the end of the month so what's the difference between if it became his on Al or this exact thing that we just said had a question what what about the giz what about the what about the V the answer is depends if it was his from the first moment that he became the sh so he gets the giz then would be proud according to ra it only happened all the so giz is not even a consideration the so let me ask you if I tell you I want to give you my car in 30 days from now does it become yours in 30 days huh anybody like yeah should become yours well it depends where's the car how do you make a Kenyon if the car is in your driveway great if the car is another country how did it become yours just cuz I said oh so if this animal is in the aam is the middle of a marsh so how do you make a Kenyon on an animal that's the middle of the marsh I didn't you didn't make a you didn't do you didn't do anything that's enough okay in other words when you say that the Kenyan happened on day one when I gave it to you oh so I gave you the animal so you made a Kenyon when I gave it to you as I'm giving you the the par you hold it and retroactively at that moment it became yours but if the KY happened on l niss l Nissan the animal is in middle of the Marge so it's it's not yours okay and he decides to pay instead of swearing it doesn't mean he literally took out of his pocket cash even if he says I want to I have a r but what do we do with our says it says before he paid he didn't want to swear seems like you have to physically pay not want to pay so that's a great deal but we do the classic and what's the classic let's take the saer let's see how we're and when we have a contradiction in the from the the what do we do just abandon everything we don't learn from it says the he swore and he didn't want to pay it's from the it says he didn't want to pay if he wanted to just the that's enough it's becomes the forget it since it's a contradiction in the way inferring the inferring has a kind so we draft them both but is the one who says that what that if a person just want wants to pay then the C goes to him we're going to highlight this Bri soon so to remember these five words over here if a person rents a cow from his friend here we have a cow rental agency Sten what does it say here doesn't say he actually paid it says he said words St what does that mean I want to pay so here's you don't need to pay you need to say I want to pay and then we found the G gave that the is like the he gets paid even though he didn't pay now let's do a little bit about here see what was holding in okay it's not that complicated very very simple every sh basically goes down a level he has the best he he doesn't get paid so we can't expect him to do much so if it's stolen lost or stolen he doesn't have to pay when does he pay he pays when he's a p when he's negligent sh is one step down not as good as him gets paid for watching so he also he's responsible if it's lost or stolen when does he not pay when ises he poter o sh a borrower is one step below that he has to pay even if it's when does he not pay okay now that we know this we could actually here here the three that we're talking about for watching things for pay and the can I please borrow two dozen eggs C milk of bread your drill also do you have that's typical Israeli neighbor y if you live in you know what I'm talking about so I saw with my own eyes I saw somebody walk into my schwager's house without knocking they knew the garage Cod garage opens up I'm sitting there in the kitchen this person comes in takes six onions seven oranges goes into the cabinet a bunch of chocolates in the bag walked out didn't say hello didn't say goodbye and I went to my brother I said what is going on here yes it's normal different Neighbors come in they don't even say they just take like a free okay different cities different things I'm not recommending it it's just something I saw I was shocked says very very simple let's just look at this for a second if you look at the left column these are all the things that you're part of for when he says it was stolen when he says there was uh how do he say in English again an accident okay and Potter when it dies we have picture for that but we'll wait for a second what are you even it's like one step down each one one step down says like this each we're going to take the worst of the worst so let's take the the column that says says I was negligent was negligent so therefore if the ghav if we find the ghav he gets kful let's go next in line what do he so he comes and you know why because it was stolen for me oh if it was found you get the C what about the sh the sh says oh was m in accident he's does he get that's that's where it goes different let's see inside gets the C why because then you could go to the left the green the green says that could say it was stolen and it' be poter so since he could get out of it so the owner has like a car and gives him the gives him the I did wrong it was stolen under my watch therefore has why because he could have lied he could have said yeah I know a guy who wrote a 100 letters you know you know you like you write to the company people that are bored they write the company I found a moth in my chocolate chip cookies right and then you wait wait wait and all of a sudden the company sends you like six packages of cookies so he writes to a 100 different companies he writes I did not find the moth in my cookies they were galic but I could have said I did so could you please send me some cookies this is what he did over 100 companies Lisa you know what she got zero they all said thank you so much for being a this you bu buy a product one company I think sent him like half a cookie or something like whatever it was very so the saying I Could Have Lied be nice to me I could have lied I could have said I could have said I'm I could have said so now that I said give me the that's how it works what about you lend a cow to your friend and was stolen St you know you know about the guy that borrowed like eight lawnmowers from from all his neighbors his wife says what are you doing I just want to sleep another two hours today I know you live in here in Lakewood they mow Lawns no they do the it's the thing Sunday morning especially Sunday morning 7:20 and the the leaf thing you know what I'm saying okay fine so he borrows the cow in those days the cow was the tractoren now listen to this is important jumped ahead it seems like what is he ran ahead he went V oh sorry did I skip oh I hear the the mming just say it sorry no skip like 10 lines doesn't is not there's no why when he says I have to pay he doesn't nothing why what should he say he's going to say this a picture I love it he was riding the tractor and all of a sudden just broke down he's left with the steering wheel in his in his hands no yeah in that case's he's Tak but it's not very common so that's not a great Mig nobody has a car oh the second is not true does get the first Lo is he doesn't second is he does he does get he could have said that whatever he borrowed died while he was working with it and therefore he' be Potter and therefore the guy and he gives him the C not true when it comes to a you have to pay he has to not enough that he said I I owe you money by the way I have bad news the car I borrow from you dead CRA Mish total it and you know what I know I'm a I'm going to pay you no no no no no not not just a pledge real payment a guy that borrows he had complete he's not just because the owner received an IOU from him doesn't mean he's giving over all the benefits of the kful says you as a borrower should have calmed the guy down the guy that lend you something what did he gain from it zero so at least pay him for the damage pay him and for that oh he's such a sad because you said you got to pay him so that's why you deserve kful no over here comes my my said that I have Trauma from Mish real trauma I moved to I was very naive and I had a a used Camry and a US Sienna that's what we had and people said Oh What A B has a Sienna like every K guy in Lakewood has one and and uh I said already the guy with the keys he took the wrong Sienna in front of BMG yeah so it happens to be that a Sienna in AR Israel today is aund and something, EM check it out it's 110% of what it costs over here so a s it cost 40 it cost at least 90 but that's the base model you know what I mean so this guy comes to me says can I buy you Sienna I want to go to a lot I'm like yeah why not it's not my car it's my wife's car what do I care L my car she she want have a car there a little listen whatever you do just give it back to me the same way you got it I just brought it out of the car wash make sure it's clean ker he gives it back to me of course he's late by a few hours of course it's not the same amount of gas that we gave but okay this American he could afford the gas himself I have to fill it up okay then I see you know what I'm saying he's not looking at me the same way anymore in kidss are fast forward a year later I said what's going on what what's bothering you says what's bothering me H remember I borrowed you a car yeah remember you told me I should return it to you the same way you got it yeah do you how hard it was for me to vacuum all the potato chips and make Mish the way I got it and you didn't even say thank you to me I pr how do you how do you not say thank you to me I said are you 100 oh you see now you're insulting me no you didn't say that okay fine I'm like yeah you're right you're right I had to make sure you're right I should have t slipped my mind next time you know could you please borrow my car again and please you know don't don't clean the potato chips because of him I never lend my car out to anybody else after that time anyway no it's like it's like lending your your your Rolls-Royce to somebody you're going to lend $150,000 car with with the kids miss NE okay fine you want to hear the next my I let my van came back with throw up inside uncleaned my we had to go to a special place to take out the smells my wife would gag every time she get okay that's why we don't r anym or but thear says over here Rashi says you don't have any good for it what you did a guy a favor so at least you should have relaxed him and paid for the damage fine I got off my tra trauma now I could L my car for listening thank you pleasure wow thanks where are we I have no idea where we are ohid says that it's not enough that promises he has to literally pay and we didn't even get to B and we're already 47 minutes in here that that's it you see it says I was saying this before that the ran ahead and he paid but it says say it says so he has to pay says let's see over here oh so here we have the to make it easier for in case you don't want to go back according if there was just word said no money involved according to you don't get because you just said words you just promised you get the so says according to the first that what that you must actually pay for it then you get the kful that's why it says he paid for it that's gets it why according to the second that you don't have to you get it just by saying it so the question is why did it say why do you have to pay it's enough to say the words so all is going to do now is say that when it says it doesn't mean he literally paid it just means he said he's going to pay now the doesn't like that because means he ran ahead sort of okay we'll see in thear why is this stronger than that he paid it means only that he said it he didn't really pay he just said it he's going to pay doesn't say the word means he went ahead he went ahead and he paid M says no he went ahead before they CAU the GH he had to do this real quick he ran ahead and he said I will pay you because he said he locked in the C became his look at this beautiful this is myself it's not like a Yoshi style but okay the first BR says the word and it says and he said the second said says and it says why don't the two bres have the same exact lotion they should say I'm GNA pay then he gets the C why say the same thing so what's the obvious answer the obvious answer will be what do you mean two different BR written by two different people two different times two two different Generations I don't know why should have the same exact words it's not rebi writing M it has to be exact do the two BR written one after another they the authors the main authors of yes these two bres that you see here were written together and is a big question how come they're written differently obviously when it says is referring to what he physically went ahead and he paid now very inter very simple this is this is if a person says I want to pay and then he takes it back I'm sorry he the opposite he says a I don't want to pay and then he says you know what I thought about it I'm going to be a nice guy I'm going to pay you for the he already said I'm going to pay he gets the now said listen to this there's going to be 11 not less than 11 questions now one after another one liners asking what's the in this case there each one is slightly different than the other a little bit of no thank you what if he says I will pay you and then he regrets it and he says I'm not going to pay you what's the does he lock in the ca or not F today I'm just saying famous M famous m a guy is tossing and turning in the middle of the night his wife says what's going on why you going to sleep listen I have a loone do tomorrow $100,000 I don't have the money what am I going to do I can't sleep she says what's the guy's number she calls up say hi so and so my husband owes you $100,000 right guess what he's not paying you she turns to the husband says now he can't sleep you go to sleep that's what happened over here he says I'm going to pay and the second lady says I'm not going to pay why do he say I'm not going to pay maybe says the gar maybe completely took it back he's trying to buy a little time he needs to sleep tonight don't I'm not paying you forget about it don't even B don't call you want to go to bz go to bz try it out how many months do I just buy for myself we go to benzin I'm not recommending this I'm just saying that's what the guy's thinking himself I need to buy some time I'm going to win the lottery a billion dollars how much is it these days I don't know somebody somebody won it hopefully mdy somewhere yeah one billion okay tonight B so yeah like the like the Kida guy goes to his father says T I have bad news for you what I'm going off to D go what starts crying ripsa the whole thing next morning he goes to Shak all depressed the father like right around Bor the sun shows up starts putting out filling do he says now you appreciate that I come to show late h huh okay oh we'll do some sponsors reai sponsors the Turning of Da is sponsored by kov in honor of my uncle prman is he here today Baltimore that was unbelievable thing but they're not sponsoring anymore so we're middle of a bunch of questions you're allowed to be to do this so if you want to sign up of a page while we're learning sign up and then go back to the olda later here's a question a guy says I I I'm we gotta we got to step it up right so a guy says I am paying I'm a Sher I'm paying but then he dies does he get the and his son say we have no interest did they take a back what their father said perhaps they agree with the father they're gonna pay they're just pushing it off they don't have the cash right now another question one of the 11 questions what if the sons paid for the object can he say I will give the C to who to your father he did gave me gave me he did me favors but I'm not interested in giving you the double maybe there's no difference what if the sh is still alive and he paid the sons the sons of the owner because you gave him you never did anything for us why should we give you the maybe there's no difference if the sons paid in other words the the previous generation is gone the Sher is dead the owner is dead now the sons are dealing with the sons they s s and they paid what's the I want to tell you the first first had a big with the first so when the was and also the first re was the sons made peace so somebody a bigad went over and said how do you make you have to your father was what you going to make peace now yeah so the said he said you know my I'm not a sad like my father I don't have the of my father I don't have the and of my father and I don't D like my father so how can I make like my father you went away so B the sons of the sons it's a new generation we make peace we're out of here what if the Sher paid half half of the value he tells the guy you know I feel bad that it was stolen or whatever it is whatever the case I'm paying half so maybe he should get half right obviously he's not going to get the whole C but maybe he should get half he borrowed two he borrowed two and he paid a full one so that's a little bit more of a he paid a whole a whole entity one of the two not half the whole the whole of the half he borrowed from partners and he paid he borrowed from two partners and he paid one of the partners so he paid the entire amount of one partner to one partner or two partners borrowed one animal and one of them paid the whole so he paid his whole amount does he deserve the C talking about he bought from a woman and she brought into the marriage a nursing home let's say so that nursing home the husband gets to to to to benefit from it and the payment went to the husband is that considered paying the the owner what if the woman is the one who thank you or the woman is the one that borrowed and the husband is the one that paid off does do they still get the on all these we have to wait for for the answer now we said in the that could pay and not make a even though he tried to get out of the there's still a that he has to make that he doesn't it's not in his possession forget about the okay he doesn't have to swear that it wasn't lost or stolen what if it's in his house maybe really likes the Rolex watch and he decided you know what I'm going to take it for myself make up I'll I'll swear that it was not lost St if somebody lend his friend with a mashin in other words I'll lend you $1,000 if you give me a nice watch in return I told you show I have a drawer with a bunch of watches in it people didn't pay me back I'm still holding on to the watches if if you're watching I have watches for you what happened was the watch got lost now of course the life is going to come by they always do say oh you know how much my watch was worth my watch was worth $20,000 he only gave me 100 bucks the Mal says I gave you a a sell for dinner or two shek we don't have to know these things but it's good to just throw it out there I gave you a sell I gave you 100 bucks the watch was only worth half of that 50 [Music] bucks so he says not not true you lent a 100 and the Mas was worth a 100 poter yes let's just talk about it for a second there's something called means if I say you owe me 100 and you admit that you owe 50 so you have to make a sh but if you deny the whole claim you don't have to make a sh we're not going to get into it so he denies the whole claim he says I don't owe you $100 you know why cuz you lost my watch my watch was wor $1100 we're even we have four cases here they're all A variation of the same case I let you 100 and the Mala says but the watch he gave me was only worth half oh now it gets interesting you're right that my watch that I gave you wasn't worth a full 100 but I don't agree with you that it was worth only 50 I think it was worth 75 so now he's M on three quarters in other words instead of four dinner I'm that it's worth three so in other words I owe you how much I owe you Le owes now one instead of four the MAA says I lent you four dinner and Thea says yeah but the watch was worth three so I only owe you one now he what about now it's the reverse now the is going after the Mal because the is saying that the watch that I gave to you as collateral was actually worth much more than the loan lent 100 all of the watch was worth 200 not 100 not true I gave you 100 and it was only the watch was only worth 100 not 200 so so he is a the Mal is saying we are even now I got a watch that I lost I gave you 100 and the watch was worth 100 I'm not of anything Potter doesn't have to make a however if he says there was a whole same case right ra say we're in the sa now two Cas in the sa two guys in The Rao I lend you 100 the Le says I gave you a watch it's worth 200 that the watch is worth more than the money L not 100 but the watch is worth [Music] 125 so the Mal is that he owes him 25 Cuz 100 he lent him but the watch is worth 125 so I have to pay the difference between the 100 I lent and the watch so that's called thear why because what if the makes the will produce the watch and say you're a liar here you're telling me that the watch is worth two look it's only worth five dinner it's only worth 1.25 so so T goes into it so so what if he produce the watch let him be careful not swear falsely okay says what case are we talking about if we're talking about the final case that we just said what the says that the Mas I gave is worth two the Mala says I lent you uh sorry I lent you one but the watch was only not worth two the watch was only worth five dinner in other words 25 more or one dinner more than my what do you mean the shouldn't swear of course the shouldn't swear the is not the let's go to the first two cases my which one of the two cases sa the second case not the first case what was the second case I gave you I lent you 100 and you gave me a watch was worth 100 says no he says no I owe you one dinner I owe you 25 the watch was not worth sorry yeah the who who in this case that case said the swear why because maybe the Mala will produce the watch and prove that the is a liar and then he'll never be able to swear again in his life he's a proven liar he made a have a wonderful day so much for coming and great [Applause] day