Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 56 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good [Music] morning [Music] y [Music] for today she is for the 1500 plus in serious serious condition on many of themas those were and my heart really really bleeds yesterday I probably cried a lot more than I cried on y Kipper for the captured the captured the the women and children the old people an enemy that's a took elderly people forc them take pictures all sorts of crazy things the think about the S of a mother with the two little babies with these hitting and and ching and who knows what's going through her head and all them should all come back safely shouldn't have any more we hear the families L Jersey because our family should be blessed with health for20 the door please what's going on is that we're only allowing about 15 people to come in there's people at the door people drove far to come unfortunately we had to turn people away we have uh in the room we have people that are that are armed and uh we're trying to do the most we could do in terms of what we have we're not supposed to be many people in one place trying to stick to that the art of the month y that come from supporting I do want to mention I don't want to read emails and uh talk about anything else but one thing that's very very important mikro mikro starts today today bous and fortunately we have a full week to do bous which is very uncommon plus we have an extra month in the year so therefore some of the pares are much shorter it's the best year to start MRA join the you get a fre if you join I think even although it says not we're shipping a bunch as well don't join for that join because it's the right thing to do and it's um you can join you know what join all those who need a Yeshua right now and there are many who need a Yeshua think about the thousands of the the thousands of people in now that lost loved ones and it's unbelievable we're holding all the way in the bottom so sh a person has purple fruit and what you're supposed to do is if you want to bring it up to Yim and it's too heavy so you do this you you switch it for cash the cash is the is purple what happens is it switches the cash turns purple the becomes M Shen the fruit becomes this guy decides that he's going to buy he's going to buy an animal instead of changing the the fruit for cash he's changing the fruit for an animal now in you could buy whatever you want you could buy in terms of food you could buy food steaks beer animals buy schl so perhaps he's confused he remembers his father bought an animal in your with the money so he thought oh I'm going to buy an animal B CH now there's a big problem because if you look at the it says you take the so you change it into money I I need to say to Da was up in the booth I know that he was as of 3:00 in the morning he was somewhere in some post he's he heads the United at Sola and he couldn't get a hold of whoever it is and Gary is maybe on the front lines who knows where he's at right now so he decided to come down here he's doing the she he's with his thousand villain and he's going right back to to head the United Sola Dave just tell me is this true that people from United were killed Sola members were killed ma people were killed zaka killed they killed the professionals they killed everybody okay doctors they killed it say take the money doesn't say take an animal so that's problem number one in the red it says you could change fruit for money and not only that the gar learns V has to have it has to have a depiction on the money can't just take flat money and he went he did an animal R is another problem take an animal imagine taking a sheep from even all the way up the hills to what's going to happen to the animal it's going to get weak now you weaken the animal so says the and what if he didn't listen he did it did by accident this is a super important line right over here the sail is void and the money goes back to know that you're confusing goes right back to the buyer and that's it it's it's a says rash again he us a it's a so the seller as much as he wants to keep that money made a good deal he has to give the money back and what we're going to see is we're going to ask why is it different than other places where you get to keep the money and maybe the penalty goes on somewhere else why does the seller lose over it and if this was done on purpose so you take the animal and you eat it here's the right what's H the place the place in the entire world thinking now part of the issue is that they they they pretend that it's about their their M over there which historically and and and scientifically and everything you see that we were there way before Russ could always bring a a reason for the the place our [Music] place so says let me explain when he meant to buy a carbon great but if he is intention to take the money that's now my shy money and purchases with it an animal he has he has a bunch of money he doesn't know what to do it's m sh money what's he going to do with all this money so he figured okay I'm going to do a trick I'm going to buy an animal with it the money is going to become his the animal that I buy with it it becomes the money becomes stays sh he goes to the seller so look at Rashi here it's important to see this rash we been talking about it for a little bit rash six lines down this is what people do with the money they bring fine that's what people used to do how much food can you eat how many restaurants can you go to if you're a a land owner you have a lot a lot of M how much can you eat so you buy a lot of SCH you wanted to eat this animal outside of you had no intent on making a schlam your whole idea was to um launder this money so to speak you have M money know what to do with it so you purchase an animal with it and then you eat steak here in b then if it was by mistake so you never had intent to do it it was on purpose you have to penalize the guy it's a why do you sell the guy why' you sell it them a problem also it's you sold it you KN you knew you're the seller you know that you're about to receive my money you no business taking it you know that this guy's going to eat it om oh as the why is this any different now he just said a whole that the money goes back the S is void money goes back to where it came from the seller gets his money back the buy the seller I'm sorry the seller has to give the money back to the buyer and the store why is it different in our where says that if a person used woman she's why give it back to the husband to the the woman knows that it remains she agrees to get married she agrees to take this money and go up to and have a meal there but the seller he's a r he's over has no intent going up to he's just helping the guy out to laer his money if a person took and bought a p with it bought real estate bought slaves he knows that that's not the way to take the out of the money it's going to remain the money is going to remain you're not allowed to purchase even so over here he has to do a remedy what does he do he has to take the the the this guy that purchased a slave he has to take whatever money he used to purchase a slave he has to take that and use it as a m sheni he didn't gain anything he took M sheni money gave it to ruen the seller of the slave he he spent $10,000 on a slave he has to take that $10,000 and go toim and do it all over again use it for M and say sticks in a V I believe they argue on him also hard to understand he takes the money this new money and he says whatever money I gave that guy the seller of the slave should go into this money but what's the problem how come over here we don't say oh let the guy oh maybe maybe the guy is going to go up tol and use the moneyl no so how come when it comes to a woman we say oh she's going to go up she's going to go to why is she any different says we're talking about a woman who maybe this is the the source for women learning these days she she knows she knows what's going on and she knows she must go up whereas this guy that's selling an animal a guy that does doesn't know what he's doing she knows he doesn't know so we just learned if he went ahead and he used the money ofen to purchase a slave to purchase a house says to take whatever that money is opposite the money that it caus him to purchase the real estate and use it as just like we just started the when a person purchases a b person buys a kosher animal what's top of the the first line you give the money back to the buyer so how come over here if he purchased a pig why is a pig different than a cow if he bought a cow goes back to the to the seller if you bought a pig it doesn't go back to the seller why not we're talking about put it over here let's see I'm just trying something y c I want to see if that helps me more oh it's talking about that the seller ran away he has the money so who you going to get you can't go after the seller and tell him give back the money to the buyer you ran away scratch this joke says more time of the time of the B I'm not in the mood you guys are also not in the mood no BS I came home I don't know about you guys I came home I had such a headache I I usually don't have headaches I think it was from crying or whatever just being it's not fun but the time of the are you guys also all all the women anxiety and everything yeah dreaming tossing all the whole thing says the it seems like the reason why we give the to the buyer is because the seller ran away but if the seller didn't so think about it logically think about it logically you have two people you have a buyer and a seller if you were a policeman who would you give the penalty to the guy that bought it or the guy that sold it huh both the guy that sold it why the guy that bought it huh why he knew he he knew he's buying something bad what he he took the money he huh at the source what's the source most people do crimes like I people distribute drugs like stop more penalty to the Sal than the buyers why because then because they're the ones that they know wrong the on that Distributing but that's the because he has a lot of drugs on him he has a lot of this but happens to be let's say here in TR if you employ an illegal employee who goes who gets the bigger punishment the employer huh because they go based on the gar Maybe we get a punishment sometimes that that enemy doesn't really get okay you're saying if he didn't run away who you going to give the Kass to to the seller give the Kass to the buyer he's the one that started the whole thing he's the one that approached with the money he's the one that said I want to buy your animal that guy will sell to anybody he'll sell with myen money he'll sell with regular money he didn't ask to do a with the buyer is the one that came up with the money says the the famous saying this if the mouse doesn't have where to hide his cheese then he can't steal it here's the the picture that made back in G when we had the the the mouse needs a hole says the but that everybody's asking a hole without a mouse is nothing so the mouse in our case the mouse is the buyer the hole is the seller what the hole is is worse off than the than the mouse how could that be the mouse is the guy slepping the cheese he's the guy schlepping the M sh money he says I want to use this sh money you shouldn't give him only should punish the hole in the wall it happens to be that in I heard that people asking a shil this year they have a lot of rats running around the streets you heard about this they're asking if you have to sleep in the Suka is it a rats running right through the Su whatever the thing was I'm sure New York New York City especially they also have this kind these kind of shilas unless you do it on the rooftop whatever without the mouse the hole in the wall nothing says this is maybe what was saying this go to the source where is the source The Source right now is by the he has the money he's holding on to the money that's TR the it's not trfe but it's m money you shouldn't have been using this money for so he's the problem you have to punish him we just turned to the B sponsored there's a special thing for this month for all those in need of we could add for all those who need to be freed from captivity you saw that that lady that young girl they they she's full of blood from top to bottom and they paraded them [Music] says the second sponsor by's PR's nephew in honor of his uncle as for year filled with for all of the MD family we have a very simple Su over here basically the Miss is telling us that anything that's something you cannot benefit from you cannot be mad woman with you can't over a woman give her something that you're not allow to benefit from and say hey with this not icial object now what's very interesting is that we're going to see all the things that are in this world is a tree in the first three years the says he can't eat it it's also going to say how do you know that the that that you can't do how do you know that is if you plant in a vineard oh the the first one didn't go here this is our law first three years this is c car here one I think you have to push the button here oh this is one way there's another way this is the according to everybody this would be also to plant wheat in you have a Vineyard that's already growing and you plant wheat in the vineyard the pis yeah the pis we'll see yeah the by the pat here you go so if a axe kills a human being you have to Stone the axe and the axe is also you can't do you can't benefit from it you can't give it to a woman say and this ax is about to be stoned is when they find the dead person between two cities and they don't know they measure they don't know who who this body belongs to so they say they bring this uh this calf and they put it in a in a valley and they break its neck so the is also a person who's a here we go check this out oh you blink you lose here again here's a guy with a beard so in the process of removing his his teras and getting and making him T so first shaves it's a very it's probably the most complicated process in the T one of the things he do does he brings two um what are they called they have them here right the forgot what it's called in English already not a swallow Sparrow thank you sparrow and one and the other one he takes and he dunks it in the blood and sprinkles the MS with this bird and with all the ASO you see on the side the branch and then he he frees that second bird these birds whether it's the one that Sheed or the one that gets the fly away we're going to see the what bird we're talking about so if you're with us with in noer we I interviewed this guy this this individual had uh here has at the end of his Nair he shaves all his misal is here and he takes it and he puts it you see he's holding in his hand takes a little bit of the the water the from the pot of the schl and he puts the hair underneath the schl pot that's how it goes that here is also you want to make a sh you want a cancer survivor needs it very bad no person has a firstborn donkey so you redeem it you change it do a switch with a sheep also cheeseburger you cook meat and de together huh yeah okay otherwise there others problems you take a sheep and it's not it's not and you bring it into the you use that to woman and here's what if you sold the cheeseburger you have a a client you have a non-jew that likes cheeseburgers it's a for you to sell it it'll be a little bit of a problem slight problem to own a McDonald's just a slight problem even though it's one of the best franchises out there to be AES huh or to be a cook in a restaurant because you're benefiting from the BOS it's problem huh ask your local rabis asking if it includes owning stock in McDonald's whatever stock means depends what it means I'm assuming if it means that you literally own a Shear in that uh be proud you don't have control but you're benefiting you this I don't know don't know ask your local Rabbi so he went and he sold his cheeseburger even though he's not allowed to benefit from it and he made a199 for the whole cheeseburger and then took the money and he was why because the iser doesn't transfer into the money so all these things that are doesn't transfer into the money says how do I know that when it comes to the first three years of fruit shouldn't eat but it also says in the which I didn't highlight unfortunately it says the the you know you can't benefit it's interesting no you didn't do anything there's a apple you didn't do a thing you didn't you didn't cook it the wrong way you didn't mix it with milk nothing you didn't it this way that it's a you can't it's in your garden you're not a benefit for the first three years how do know you shouldn't use it for you can't use it for oil all benefits are if you planted vegetables or wheat in a Vineyard the word you have a to burn it with fire you can't you can't benefit from it you can't benefit from it then you took some of this these uh grapes these uh wheat and you gave it to a woman notes says no literally use the word Tash it should be likees like something the but if I transfer money into the into the animal into if it's it's not so I could take the out of the out of the object and put it into money and then object goes and it becomes regular and the in it transferred to the money if so what did say that the is doesn't transfer to the money but if you're comparing it to Hees this should transfer to the money says okay scratch let's just go to the first shot that means you have to burn nine how do you know that if an axe needs to be killed because he killed a human being how do you know you can benefit from the it says in the that you have to Stone the ax here let's see the very very simple stuff the story is that a ax g a human being and they di the axe Must Die the question is why does the Tor have to say that you can't eat its meat we know that the only way to eat meat is if you shed an animal if you took an animal and threw it off a roof and then stoned it of course you can't eat it so why does says because what if you went ahead and you did it properly after the bz said okay this ax is also that's what the Torah is telling us even if youed it okay so you're not allow to eat it how do you know you can't benefit from it you can't write a from it oh here I just who said this V on was saying that we dance with the to and we say look look what happens you could take an animal you can take a be that all day all it does all day is eats grass and whatever else it does sits out in the son and you could take it and elevate it to the highest Madre of by making writing a safe attire with its height if it falls on the floor we have to fast it's the highest so what about a human being how much more so a human being can make of himself if he does the right thing so over here you have a sh you want to make a safe attire out of it okay it says you can't eat it but maybe maybe you could can ride to save from it the owner of the ax is clean so so what if he's clean he's cleaned out of his belongings meaning he has zero so since in the slang so to speak there's a certain he's kny what happened to that guy he lost everything he's no meaning is the T is telling us you can't benefit one I order from it can't write you just told me they not let it eat it maybe after there was a from the B perhaps if you it at that point it's is coming to say that after you Stone it you can't eat it oh but we asked the question after you Stone it of course you can't eat it maybe the come to say after you Stone it you can't benefit from it because means you can't benefit from it say beautiful huh before no who says after after you Stone it after you Stone it wait a minute he stoned it already right the saying that after you Stone it you can't have it from it say you are allowed to benefit from if you have a a a cow that drops dead by itself with you're allow to give it you're allow to give it to the GU whatever says so the says beautiful the word could mean if I'm also learning from it that you can't eat it can't eat it and you can't benefit from it but if the word is only coming to tell us that you can't benefit that makes zero sense why would the tell you use a lotion of you can't eat it when the t means to say of course you can't eat it but you can't have from it so use the of if the wanted to tell me that you can't benefit from it so there's other words in in like what's I already know you can't eat it whatever the if you're learning that you can't eat it so I'm also going to learn that you can't benefit from it that you can't eat it I know already because you're stoning it if you Stone it it's not edible what if it's coming to say it's to say that even if you beforehand after before you Stone it it's also maybe I'll throw this out there you know there are stones that are much sharper than knives there's glass out there just looking it up there glass that's like I forgot what they said 30 estr I don't remember any what the there's a special word Like a Knife a very sharp blade is 600 you can get glass to go all the way down to 30 which is a much much higher level of sharpness they found the back the day that's what they used to use as you know for surgeries they would cut people up with not with metal so much as much as Stone and and and other objects so let's say you took a stone and you shed this animal with it Shing would be with a knife with a stone maybe that's stoning I use a stone so stoning stop throwing it out there maybe says why not tell me why that's not true looks like you're stoning using a stone maybe there's no where in the world does it say in the they have to use a knife it says as long as you don't drag when you learn so we learn about that the knife has to be super sharp so that you don't pull at the the you're not pulling you're not dragging you're not there different you could do should be should be very very smooth cut as long as it's a smooth cut I don't care what you use you could use any any object doesn't say knif use a even fine it says that it's with the with it's not stoning when you use a stone it's called with the with a stone I'm learning this of [Music] eating which I said before means that's a special that I would I wouldn't know from the maybe it's that learns these words that we're learning that you can't use the hide for or whatever it is for shoes he learns it that if you have an ax that never gour before first two three times then he only has to pay half usually but in this case he won't pay a half a he a full class typically if you hit a woman and she loses her pregnancy you have to pay over here the ax doesn't have to pay how do I know this he takes out the words from teach you know you're not allow to benefit from hi from the word s time out how how long are we going for 45 we're at 45 already let's just let's do this famous real quickly if we can s sorry in the addition to the meat is s which means hide why does he learn he doesn't in the word he D every and I say this every time we learn this RAB P has two very thick called just but he tells you every drush on the word s in the entire when he got to the word to the what are you going to add you should fear hem and also you should fear who there's nothing but hem he walked away what about all the just like I got foring and saying this I also get for walking away was once he once gave a shear and a guy asked him a immediately was thinking himself if I give into this question so they'll say well I'm not so smart and then my whole mus thing that I was going with let's say he doesn't know what he's talking about he doesn't know the shears he doesn't know M so maybe I should just how do you say NN in English whatever I should just blow him away and pretend that he doesn't know he's talking about L he said Ms is Ms and L the guy's a good Casher he walked away he he stepped off the be in middle of the D another interesting thing that perhaps I don't know if this is 100% that you could say this but you see that CH Sun said I made all these Dres now comes out that every one of my Dres is not true you don't Dess so you don't Dess RAB P put in the G A big one big mistake hundreds of mistakes but he says no when it comes to to even a mistake you get for mistakes and M I want to say it you could learn it differently I agree you could learn it differently but maybe you could say because a lot of people come to and say what about the I don't really understand that well it goes in one ear goes out the other but you see over here that and even if it's all mistakes if I don't understand you also get tremendous what no like I thought that I got there is add to theer not only should you fear you have to fear look what this did he able to walk away from his whole T that he died for years upon years that's is to fear have a wonderful [Music] day