Daf Yomi Makkos Daf 16 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Good morning. Live from Chicago by the time you see this perhaps already be in the air towards Israel. leaving just a few hours from Chicago to Israel and uh arriving in Israel at 11:30 at night or something. So shouldn't be back first year I will be Friday morning we'll be live to remind this might be the day of your spir uh here in Chicago it's it might be a little different by the time you see this um Dave Sharin put this picture in because today is for all those who don't have a yard site or I guess everybody that was in the and uh just this year we went on an MDY trip and part of that we were in the concentration camps and here you could see the ovens was it was very very emotional and uh I had to take out the garum and just learn a few lines give a little bit of a shear but by the exact spot where so many thousands tens of thousands of yidden were burnt creed This is not Awitz. This was in uh the what was it called? I don't even remember anymore. Uh but right over there, there's a few very scary things. There was um a a wagon, you know, the wagons to take the bodies into the oven, but there was also small wagons for babies. It was very very gross. Mad. Madanic. Madanic. Yeah. Madanic. And of course the from where I'm standing right across from I was standing maybe 10 ft across from the these ovens was a bathtub that the Russia Nazi um in charge over there. He would take baths and he would heat the water from the heat coming off off the ovens and he had no problem bathing and just to to to imagine bathing just 10 ft away from where these bodies are being cremated. talking about the today's suggesting human beings if you could call them that um we have here from Detroit to my he did six daff which is unbelievable way to spend a trip it's a long trip I guess but uh to spend it with Tyra who says you can't make up most of of you fell behind over. While I was catching up, I coined a new phrase for MD wires. When you fall behind, you're in a deficit. Thank you for your board. A few weeks before Pesak, I guess it's a little bit of a talking about, you know, I got an email from someone who said, "Listen, uh, it wasn't so nice what you said about the Gibralar. You said they engaged. I didn't make fun. I was just trying to make light of it. It it came out funny that the the kid is engaged. It's galdic that he's engaged. I didn't make fun of somebody. Not be it's all good. It's all gishmach. Very very proud of this 11-year-old that's doing it in Gibralar. And uh his parents, I'm proud of his parents who are proud of him. And um the person says, "Look, you look at you look at your screen. It was Hebrew and English." So it was translated from No, the Hebrew we translated the Hebrew from we're not trying to make fun of anyone. Uh if yes not for for jokes but not uh not not to make fun. Okay here's famous but here he is. Thank you for giving me the best y so far but getting to learn with my 13-year-old son made him feel so special. didn't go a day without making sure to do the daft hav I could say that about everybody I know that not a day of bisman went by without learning every day the smile my son had on his face he's learning the concept of it's not about the it's about the thank you and eventually I know you don't love when people ask to remain anonymous but alas here's where I'm at I been a person who has wanted to incorporate learning to my life for a long time everybody wants to I think a lot of people want to incorporate but they don't go ahead and do it after years post yes of wanting to learning in my life without any action. I'm finally in a place where I'm watching or listening to daily was able to complete all of I'm incredibly proud of myself. Oh galic so you know what happens when you're proud of yourself the steps in says listen you got to slow down and this is what happens. I had a question and suggest question you mentioned in one of your recent shurim that even if things are going in one year and out it still has value. It still has value. I definitely feel like there have been many days where that has been me and I agree that there's still value. That being said, I don't know how I feel about making a seal on Sanhedrin. I feel like I completed, but I don't know if I feel like I learned all to make a seal. Curious to hear your thoughts. Listen, I think it's the that's what I think. I think the is trying to get you to start doubting yourself. That is the nature of dafi. there there's many daft that go in one ear of mine and go out the other and I don't know if I understand or uh the same thing the could play games they say I'm not a r but I'm pretty certain that you can make a seal you listen to all the shim heard it all if you didn't understand no one understands 100% how could everybody understand 100% if himself saysim sometimes and uh so it's only 98% whatever it But the point is you make a seal and you celebrate the fact that you learned the full maka. So there's going to be holes in the maf. So you didn't understand everything but you tried you listen and sometimes you're tired and you fell asleep and it's all good. You make a that's how I pass him. Now the r could argue but that's what you're asking me. That's what I think. Suggestion. Okay. He said track groups. How to get on these groups down. Miki says that he saw the interview I did with and oh I should I didn't show this in the Hebrew because we had issues but here's another 11 and a half year old because we're mim with these 11 and a half year olds 11 year olds that are doing the daft and he was uh he says that he was learning in the hardest places to learn like on the train and and uh he had to make up some stuff and he gets up this kid gets up 5 6 in the morning to make up dapim that he missed. You believe this? That's kid is getting up 5 in the morning to be anyway. He's uh he already finished all the dam so far and he did 14 with us. He's very very has a lot of this is uh his son learning at 7:20 in the morning on a train. The missile is sponsored by turns in honor of my family in memory of their unclean. May our learning bring us closer to one another and to Hashem monthly sponsors. for Jeff's gourmet for the Thank you to Rebell's wife and kids for the great sacrifice they make allowing him to spre to the masses daily sponsors bursting bursting family in honor of our son Ezi and all the learning to dive with their [Music] belly I'm very proud of all you how many Are there are there really 40? Let me know. Somebody else write an email. Take some pictures and speed for Roa Basya Mala. Anonymous in honor of the birthday of the one who does the onscreen gimra follow along with much love. Wow. Didn't we just have something like that? H. Maybe there's the Hebrew and then the English. Okay. With much love. We have a lot of um it happens to be you're not going to miss Ems. I can tell you exactly who it was. A person by the name of Schlie Davis came over to me the white beard says I do your shear occasionally. I love when they say occasionally but he knew all this year. He says I'm trying to get my sons into it. He uh is a fundraiser, whatever. He helps out in the ve. He told me about the mash that the mash of Nve uh had a stroke and then and then he tells me it's so good the follow along today. This morning at chakras today coincidence the really appreciates this person whoever he is. I I I must have met him but I don't know who doesn't. I really don't. He's Mr. a real anonymous of plans to make their own summ because so many boys are learning the daf now in a nice restaurant they makes he's going to make something special for them wow I wish I could be there I would love to surprise them I'll have to do something continue or shashiva what do you say about just making a part of the curriculum you know at nighter or something you know like instead of a bakius thing we'll save some money you won't have to hire for sorry just put in a big screen and the watches one hour of mdy it's what do you say the daily spacel tan and ruthy poll in honor of son of Israel's fth Hebrew birthday today and in memory of all whom perish in the holocaust shalyah ezra Because should have an what a z that was mdy member right port n in tragic car crash. What's that all about? First I'm hearing that. Okay. Wow. Surus Royce. Not good. Not good. Um, last night. Whoa. Last night from Florida, an MDY member. Wow. Wow. Wow. Should have an aliyah. Okay. Wow. All right. Yesterday, yesterday we learned if somebody makes a If somebody makes a that he's going to eat a loaf of bread and the day goes by and he didn't eat it. So we have both and I'll just remind you with this. Where is it? Wow. They have to tell me this rice as I'm going to. Okay. It is what it is. Not I'm not I don't have tightness on the guy. Oh no. You're not going to believe it, Mark. Same thing all over again. Computer is acting up again. This is weird. Maybe gives me a minute to compose myself here. Young guy. Young guy nift in a car accident. Okay, we have a guy who swears to his father that he's going to eat a loaf of bread and the day goes on and the day goes out and he doesn't eat it. Malchus or no malus. But everybody holds no malus for two different reasons. Either because it's he didn't eat the bread. You don't get you if he would have eaten the bread when he swore that he's not going to eat the bread. That's a misa. He ate the bread. But over he didn't eat the bread. he just left it on the on the counter. So, you don't get a punishment for not doing something. Lamar, like the famous uh line, a kid asks his teacher, he says, "Um, does a person get punished for something he didn't do?" And the teacher says, "Of course not." He says, "Well, great, because I didn't do my homework." So, do you get punished for not doing something? And that there's no action. You don't get malus. So like we discussed yesterday, in order to get malus, you have to be warned. And in order to warn, you have to know if it's going to occur and when it's going to occur. If you don't know that it's going to occur because he might eat the bread during the day and in any given moment he might eat it, then I don't know that he's so I can't give malus on a doubt. It has to be something that's physically going to happen. In other words, has to happen. It has to be within just a few seconds of when the person takes action. I can't give at 8:00 in the morning for something you might do at 2:00 in the afternoon and to keep on giving and it might not happen. That's not. So we have what the reason is but both agree that when a person does not eat the bread even though he swore he will he doesn't get malus um something to think about just we have a very super interesting sug today with ants and uh worms and so when a person eats a worm on purpose. Which reminds me a terrible thing here on it happened to me on this block here in Lincolnwood, Illinois. Uh very I would say not he wore a yarmaka but let's call him very uh very light in terms of his observance. and he he saw me and my wife and he this is years ago when I used to live here and he says um I auditioned for what was the name of that show? There was a show that you have to do crazy stuff like be in a like in a cage with a bunch of rats and they um had one of these names like and whoever lasts the longest get a certain amount of money. So I said, "How did you audition? What do you do?" He says, "I ate a whole can of live worms." Like, "Hello. Do you realize that's like a h not Survivor?" No, no, no. Survivor is a different one. This was like they had it in also in Orlando in one of those um Fear Factor. I think it was called Fear Factor. Yes. Yes. Fear Factor. [Music] They used to do like those who remember remember like you had to jump off a building but you're tied to a rope. You have to do scary things. So he wanted to show that he's capable. So lo he eats a worm. A bunch of worms. Now how many is you if you eat one worm? What if it's a bumblebee? How many is on that? What if it's an aquatic creature? So we're going to learn about that. What if you grind it up? Like some people say, look, if you have worms in in uh uh strawberries, which they're very common or little bugs, if you grind it in a blender and you make a milkshake out of it, it's not such a problem. So, we're going to see that sug if you curse him, you get the death penalty. So, the answer to that is a father. father and mother. They both argue in what said. So we have the carbon pes are coming right off a pes is you have to eat the entire every all every piece of meat and if you have anything left over what's going on why did it pause if you have anything left over must burn it don't know why I paused oh very schmuck wow Oh, so here the the Torah gives us a remedy. The Torah is telling us what the remedy is. If you did a you left over from the Here's the remedy. By the way, I'm thinking that this is a old thought that let's say a person gets stuck. He has two pounds of meat. He can't. He's just not capable of eating two pounds. Now you're going to be over. What do you do? He miscalculated. He thought he's going to have a lot of guests. And then the guest didn't show up. And now he has a carbon pes. And he has I'm sure there's like a a somewhere that when you have this issue, they come and they devour the meat for you. There has to be such a thing. If not, we'll invent one. So says there's no malus in this case. Okay. Now you take and you you could infer from this is saying look in this case there's no malus because there's a remedy. What do you do? Put it in the fire like this picture. You put it in the fire and says it's only because the said there's a remedy put in the fire. you would get malus. Why would you get malus here? In this case, you don't know if he's going to leave it over or not. And you'll never know until the last until it's over. So therefore, it's a doubtful warning and an doubtful warning. There's no there's no malus. So says you see from here that when you have a doubt in the you do get malus what he wants to be. No, each one is going to have to explain how come they didn't infer like the other one. It's only because the says in the case of carbon because you could burn it. But if not, you would get this. Why? I'm alive. You see from that even though there is no actual physical action that he took, he didn't take a physical action. He just did not eat the the carbon. So you see that even in such a case you get malus. So now the is just going to take each one and say how come the other one didn't learn like one another. How come he doesn't say look it's it's definitely a case a clear case of suffic of a that's doubt. We don't know if this is going to be a or not. And so you see from here you get no other it says in the other we're talking about a very interesting story where a woman was married to a person and she got divorced. Now when you get divorced you can't marry a second person. You have to wait if you're a woman you have to wait for 3 months to make sure that the pregnancy was either from the first husband or the second husband. She didn't wait and she got married to the second man and then she had a baby. Before DNA testing and before you could look at the baby and say, "Oh, wow. It looks exactly baby looks like neither of them." Now, who's the father? We don't know. But he's one of these two. Comes the son and he's he has a lot of trauma in his life. He grew up without knowing who his father is. So, he he made a meeting with both of them and he beats them both up. Now, if you cause blood, whatever it is, you get the death penalty. What happens if he hit one and the next day he hit another one? He definitely beat up his father. I don't know if it was on Sunday or Monday, but he he beat them up. He cursed both both of them. First one then the other. Oh, now there's a case of what if he beat them one whack over both of their heads in one shot or whatever it was, he cursed both of them in one shot. Now, what is this? This is also a situation of I don't know who the real father is. So I can't warn you if oh however if you hit both of them in one shot says then oh so you see holds that suffic only when it's but if I just if I warn you and I say listen if you hit this guy if you or that guy you're gonna be malus I can't I can't do it why because I never I didn't know which one is your father. So I didn't give you a real Malikus. Nevertheless, you get Malikus. I'm sorry. You don't get Malikus in that case. according to Isn't this a case of the not eating the carbon pes and you see that like proves that even though it's you would get malus the only reason you don't get malus because says you don't get malus t says is a remedy. So it's that there is no here there's another in the name of any sorry if there's no action no punishment and So here he's going to hold that in love here there's no malus even though from from uh the business you see that there is malus says hold on oh there's so no males there's There's an exception to the rule. If a person swears, what kind of we're talking about a that at the time of the you are lying. Not something in the future like we discussed, not the case that of the bread that you only know later on. Something that says I ate I swear that I ate yesterday. So that's on the spot. What'sar? This is like my favorite question that I I used to it used to be my favorite question. I used to ask a lot of people that don't do the dav. Let's say what does tomorrow mean? So I say is how many mitzvah do you get for doing? Let's say if even if they know means that you substitute one animal instead of a carb you already put aside a carbon and then you you like another animal instead of it. So you say you know what the carbon should instead of it being the one on the left it should be the one on the right. Let's see how it looks. No volume please. just this is a carbon. Okay. And then he looks and he sees a much better gishmaker fatter animal. He says, "Oh, I want to make the one number two. I want to make that the carbon should be instead of the two should be instead of one." That's called that's so if you do that you get on the spot and if you curse your friend with fine says so we have a actual contradiction here between why because we said it's both and cursing a father they're both sha there's no action cursing a father you didn't take action you just curse And it's by the because you don't know which one is the father by it's because you don't know if he's going to eat it, not eat it or going to leave over. You don't know. So yet by no we say this is malus. And by says there's no malus. So why what's the difference? either. If you're saying if you go according to you say you know what we have a big problem they're both but one was brought down by one Talmet that heard a certain thing in Shir and the other one was brought down by another Talmet here look I can read one email and somebody looks into it this way and somebody looks into that way I'll ask 10 people to say no it wasn't insulting you just like you thought it was AI no you put them down if that's the whole So people hear different things. They hear what they want to hear maybe sometimes. I don't know. Sorry. That's one. The top one is his own. He holds and clearly heard this in the name of says that's the the love. Oh, and now we're talking about a brand of sug with her the the chicks, the baby birds or the eggs. And then there's a positive uh I say send away the mother and take the the the chicks for yourself. So let me pause it for a second and show you a video real quickly. Here we need some audio. Uhhuh. Here. Here's the bird. If you don't get close to it, it's not going to move. It's not going to move. Okay. So now, so you need to get you need to get the bird to go away and then get the egg. This is your house. It's my house, right? So now this bird belongs to you. It's my bird. It's my mosquito machine left here from sukus. It's all yours, right? All mine. So there's no if if it's all if it's all yours. Not mine. In other words, I said in once that I'm not any type of birds anything. Okay. Fine. So this is all. So So now if you the thing even when he's not being the egg, not anything, right? You're not anything. Okay. So now you can do again if you make this bird go away, right? Mhm. And and you take and then you can take the egg as long as he's on top of it. Even if he goes above but he's standing up there above the canyon. Don't take the eggs. Okay. It's also now you can go fly. What if he goes flying? If he goes flying, what do I say? You don't say because you're not sure that if you can. Now there's an issue that maybe it's the father and usually during the daytime the father sit on it and because we don't know so you're not gonna say all right to do mitzvah I'm going to chase away the mother bird and take the take the egg away when you do kavanas like this here we go always have a glove in your pocket just in case you want to do like like your son like your son has a cup just in case just in case. Okay, here it goes. from behind. Go from behind. Just grab its tail. Grab its tail. There's two eggs here. Yeah. Should I take both or No, you can take both. You can also take both. Should I do you a favor? You can also put them back if you want. It's very interesting. And I found another egg in there. Hold on. What's this? Oh my goodness. This has my signature in there. That's crazy. How did Unbelievable. We did it on my porch. I don't remember for who, but I think Oh, yeah. There it was only Americans then. Only in English. And uh we gave out in a jar. We gave a little like a box with the with this egg that said Allah. It was a special uh version of these eggs. It was printed by the egg company. So, and then you know you poke a hole in the top and the bottom. You take everything all the yolk out and everything and then you could keep it. Um Oh, so that's now there's two options here. Check this out. Oh, so that's way number one. What happens now? I'm going to show you the worst the worst of the worst. This is you take the mother. It's you don't take the mother and then you kill the mother. Now you're why? Because you have no remedy. Had you not killed her, then you could maybe chase her away according to Omar. But now that you killed her, you ruined it. That's called B. Remember we discussed B yesterday. When you get rid of every opportunity, there's no way for you to do the mitzvah anymore. That's B. Okay. So says the notwome if you take the mother with the eggs with the with the chicks says you get malus and you don't there's no remedy why because hold that this and is before the not After is not a remedy says ribbuda typically speaking if I asked anybody before the sh they would tell me like is not if I did take the mother with the eggs then you should send the mother away no send the mother away before you did it is like serve you the hold you get malus because there's no remedy say no there is a remedy if you mess up and you take the mother with the with the with the eggs then there's a remedy and therefore there's a remedy there's no malus right it's anytime there's a say in that say remedy it's a remedy there's no malus there's a cl and the gar is going to search for what other there's a rule so what else is in the rule anytime there's a remedy what exactly examples are there. So yesterday we discussed stealing. There's a remedy for stealing. We discussed a somebody who violates a woman and he's supposed to marry her. He married her and he divorced her. There's a remedy. Can we marry her? What else? So we're going to see different things today and we're going to go through the things that we learned yesterday as a one. There's two two total and one more where what the other one when you go find it find it. In other words, it's you know what it's a riddle. Let's make it a um whatever the word is I'm looking for. If I was in the BM, different people will be screaming out now. Maybe Mark will write down on a let's make it anar a uh a challenge. Let's make it a challenge. Oh, that's the word. You ask me what it is, you come up with the answer. He went out to starts looking through. Oh, he found if this guy the he was supposed to marry this girl if she agrees and then he divorced her. It says in the here the like we had yesterday with it's to marry her they forgot to mark I don't know if you can go in there if you can turn it to green it'll be great I don't know if you're able to doesn't matter I'll try to remember afterwards because it's a positive a positive we make green So if he's and he divorced her there's a remedy remarry her so therefore it's no malus but if he's a there's no remedy because a cannot marry her gets malus hair we had yesterday one time it says in the ratio the word the second time it says they have to be either both or both bele What's the difference? One means I can be just this moment and if I don't do it right now I get punished means I can be the entire my whole lifetime and therefore you cannot give me the only time you give me is if I'm like like we said before by the by the bird by the if you kill the bird so you can't send it away anymore then you get males. So you can get Malcus right now because you have to do it right now. If you don't do it right now, I'll give you Malcus. Gar goes into it to explain that you have to kill the bird. But what's the Gar's question? How do I get to the situation that I can never do the mitzvah? Let me send the bird away. So when it comes to I can figure it out. How do how could I completely like we saw before by destroying the bird by killing the bird. So I can never send it away. So you get somebody that's a woman. How do you have a situation where you can never marry her? So the gumar is going to go through a few like in the sh I asked yesterday without seeing this garra and this guy scream out this answer this mish did the garra the cat law this one I don't know if anybody scream out what if he killed the woman so now you can't marry her so now you should get malus but you can't get malus why because when you killed her misa for killing her and malus for not being able to marry her at that moment that you killed her so now you have two misa and malus. And what is that called? That's called and you only get miso. You don't get malus in that [Music] case. Interesting that we have two people with the same name. Just one came from one came from. So, oh, she accepted. She's engaged to somebody else. So, she can't remarry you. We have is of marrying your divorce is only when she didn't marry somebody else. Once you marry somebody else, you can't remarry her. So she didn't get married but she's engaged now. Engaged to get married. She's if she made her original husband. She's the one that did it with her own hands. She um let me just make sure that that's what it meant here. That's what it means. She made him if she didn't make her husband. So, she went and got engaged to somebody. What does that have to do with the husband? It's not his fault. He wants to remarry her now. He can't because she did. She took action and she ruined it for him to get married. It's not his problem. Why want she get punished for that? Even if she made him, she was the one that did it. says somebody else but the same name but from so that's what we said yesterday brings it down that over there that once he the man himself makes a nether he he makes a vow that he will never marry this woman then he can't marry her anymore so it's a great case it's a case where he want he he wants to marry her the Torah says he should marry her but he can't because he swore he's not going to marry her he made a not swore he took a vow that he can't marry can marry her but not just a regular vow a vow in public vow in public you can't you can't go to to the and be made for it that's only that you can't enul it so what if he did in public go to the rabbi say listen I didn't know I'm going to get 39 lashes that kills that hurts a lot had I known that I I made a vow against her then I wouldn't have made that vow I didn't want to get punished well the Alas, there's another case that you can't get out of it and can't go to the rabbi to know the nether and that is if you make the nether on condition that the the public agrees with it. So Rashi says something interesting. It's it's we have to understand it but he says cuz she did something wrong. They ask if she did something wrong so what's the problem? It's the right thing to do. Okay. Whatever it is it's a certain she did something wrong and he and he did it in public. If you make a nether in public, you couldn't know it. If you do with their then you can't take it back. That's the only one the only mitzvah that has a remedy. Gazel. Remember yesterday? Show this for a second. Gazel guy steals. So there's a remedy return says don't steal and then the says return it don't get in that if you take collateral from somebody says don't don't take his PJs don't take his pajama Hi. Um, okay. And the Torah says, don't you have to give back the the pajama before night time? I was just thinking in the Hebrew that just like they have uh like different organizations that do different things like um uh you could do, you know, they buy the kamar and you do the redemption. You just have to give them a few dollars so we can make a business. We could uh borrow somebody's pajamas and everybody pitches in and gives like I'll do it for MDY. Like I'll borrow pajamas from my neighbor and everybody gives like a hundred 200 bucks maybe $1,000. will charge cheap $1,000 a person and they could be part of this mitzvah of giving back to pajamas a night cuz people in my building have pajamas PJs not in yours. Oh, this I can do according to everybody. Now what? You're right. There's a remedy. There's a way out of it. But if you don't do it right away, according to Kimmo, I have to do it right away. If you don't do it right away, you get malus. According to the you have a lifetime to do it. So I have a way that you get malus. How? By burning the PJs. I burn them. Now I can't return them. Oh, I can't return them. Whoa. Big issues over here. I wonder what that is. Computers is uh acting up a little bit. says when a person burns somebody else's pajamas, then he has to pay him the $22 that the pajamas cost. So you don't get malus and payment. There's no you don't you don't pay and malus. What do we find that you do by you pay but usually you don't pay both. You don't do you don't get punished twice. So that's not that's why it's not in the list of things of that has an assay to fix it. mascul I have something else. It's the same thing. You take collateral from a but the G doesn't have any children. Doesn't have any children. He doesn't have any arum. So you have nobody to pay back if the G dies. You burn the PJs and then the Garrett dies. And now you going to pay back. So since you can't pay it back. So says awesome. This man is is ready to pay the kopaka. It's just that the g has no has no lean has no claim on that object. So let's do the sponsor here. Turning of the D by Ad Global Onetop shop for all your financial needs. Innovations LLC in honor of our sons KMO and Isli in honor of their global innovations true role models of how to support the DA and learning as what about pay is one of the things that you have to give to the poor people if you have a field and that is you have to leave a corner of the failed. Yeah. So, let's see. Oh, I think it moves a little bit actually. Yeah. Now, pay you didn't you decided not to give it to the poor people. So, you should get Malcus. You can't get Malcus. Why? Because the remedy. But what if there's no remedy? What if I could be I do something you can't you can't give to the poor person? What do you do? So, the go's going to go through it. Do not eat up the corners. You should there's a do not and there's a should you should give it to the if you don't do it right away you should get and if I destroy it somehow I can't do give it to the honey you should also get this what's the case the best thing is to give pay when it's standing tall if you didn't do it then so you should do it when it's in the bushels oops Wow. So you can see in the foreground you see the bushels. If I didn't take from the bushels, you could do it from the pile. Here's the pile. And that's called what he's doing is he's smoothing out the pile before he smooth out. Once he smooths this out, he should give him ice and give it to him. But what seems like that once it turns into flour, once it's past the stage of a pile, you cannot give it to the so that's it. You're stuck. That's a you can't you can't remedy anything. Says sorry no. So it goes according to No, that's not the end of the line. You could still give to the It's not the end. Give it from the from the dough. What if he got rid of the it's gone? He destroyed it. So now what are you going to do? You're right. That's exactly what said this one which is and this one the second one is the two. But you should know when we're talking about the the violator guy that's not included. Why? What do you say? You said there's a case to be to say that there's no remedy. Why? because he made another on condition that the public agrees to it. But that's not true in this case. Why? That's only when it comes to anything not a mitzvah. But over here since it's to remarry your ex, so then you could unull another that's done in public. says the Gomorrah and this is a wild wild gimra. I like to bring this gumra up occasionally because it's a shocking gimra. Many of the people who are watching who have trauma from from school where the rebi gave a couple of wax here and there. This is not going to sit well with them. So just like I give a warning to the people who don't like blood from now on, I'm giving a warning for people that have trauma from spankings and that sort of thing. Here's a there's a professional master shares his secrets, his whips, he has bats, he has all sorts of stuff. He used to hit the children very hard too much says Rashi kicked him out of this school and made another that he's not going to be a reb anymore. Now what's crazy is that that's Rashi over here. But I love this Rashi. I love you know telling people about this Read carefully hit them and they die. Oh, I just thought of I didn't think about this in the Hebrew one say the the psychologist of 2025 that when you hit the kid they die not physically but mentally traumatically they have trauma for the rest of their life they're mason do not hit your children do not hit okay That's snapshot. But Rashi says that there was a rebby in the school who hit a kid and they died. So they had to get rid of him. They made another. He's not going to work anymore. And what happened? The Raven and Ravina brought him back to work again as a Rebi in school. Imagine the horror of the parents. On the first day of school, bring your kids in. I want to introduce you to the son's rebi. This Rebi, he promised not to kill anymore. Last year, he killed six kids. This year, he's going to be much better. He's going to be much more careful with the children. He's going to go easy on them. Up to 22 punches in the stomach, not anything more than that. Because unfortunately, they died last year. And we spoke to him and he he accepted to be a little gentler with them. Why? Why did they bring him back? Because they couldn't find a Rebi as good as him. He was a great Rebi. Didn't make any mistakes. So, we got to bring him back. So, he killed a few kids. No, no. So, that's what I'm saying. You have to if you have trauma from these things, I apologize. I I think it's uh it's something to remember. Don't forget that. All right. Brand new. That being said, now that you're all traumatized, even those who weren't traumatized in yeshiva are traumatized by this rashi, and now we move on to the next sug. So if you weren't traumatized by this, we have something else to traumatize you. How do you like eating a bunch of ants and worms and these kind of things? So for this, you got to see this. I hope it is. Check this out because in the Hebrew we had a couple of issues, but uh it looks like it's all fixed up. There are eight pukim, no less than eight pukim telling you that you can't eat insects. Now, the two top ones, the red belong with everything. So, no matter what you eat, you're going to be over on two. One and two, you're going to be over on it. Sukim 3 and four in blue is only for water creatures, aquatic water creatures. Sukim 5, six, seven in green are only for something that crawls on the ground. And puzz is for something that flies. So let's do this uh exercise together. Let's say you're eating an aquatic creature. You go to China and you want to try out one of the aquatic creatures. How many lav are you over? Well, you're always over the first two on the top. One and two. Plus, in this case, you're going to be over three and four for a total of four. Let's say you want to eat a giant beautiful Madagascar cockroach. the ones that the jukim that fly around. They know how to fly. Believe it or not, some Americans don't believe it, but it's true. They do fly. There's nothing worse. Nothing worse than a cockroach that it's I believe it's the fastest creature on Earth um relative to its size. So, it could move really really fast on the ground. When you try to whack it with a towel, it takes off and flies and it seems like it wants to hit you in the face and it's gross. So let's say you eat a giant Madagascar cockroach. So for the for the green ones for sukim 5, six, seven plus one and two for a total of five. Same thing with the ant. What if you eat a wasp, a bee, a bumblebee? So it knows how to walk. It walks around on the table. It goes into its um beehive, you know. So it's walking. So for that you get over 567 obviously plus one and two so that's five plus it's a flying creature so it gets you for number eight now for that let's see it inside oh so there's going to be it's going to move here if you eat a worm out of a cabbage let's I didn't see that. That's a water creature. And this is Oh, yeah. So, this is like a worm. Yeah. I don't know what he did there with the worm, but at the first and 567. Beautiful. Um, and there's a few. Let me just show you this. Oh, here's a guy that eats the worm. Very Gishma. What do we have next? We have the ant chilling. I love this picture. This is very, very good. What else do we have? Oh, here we have um the guy ate the water creature. What's a water creature? Not this, but there's a water creature. The big crowd gave him malus. If you eat some sort of water creature, you get four. What's the four? Let's do the four here. This is the four. Okay. The first four. That's the four. Two are for water. Two are mima. What if you eat an ant like? So that we did already. Ant. Where are we? Ant. Oh five. And zero. But if you eat a wasp like a and that includes also the eighth. Okay. And let's just see what we missed here in terms of the Oh, this one was Gali. We saw it already once before, but it's again just that the the the quality of the animation. It gets better and better as time goes on. This guy looks real. Unbelievable. Okay, so this is important because when I was in yes, we always had a guy that was very on this. If a person holds in going to the bathroom, so there's always this guy that's super on this and he run to the bathroom every every 17 minutes. He's back in the bathroom. So that could be OCD a little bit uh wrapped in from kite, you know, saying that okay fine. What is that? I looked into it a little bit back in the day that it seems like from the Mishu that you're only when you really really really he calls it a ta to go to the bathroom. That's how he calls it. You really really have to go. But if you just start having the urge if you could hold it in for 72 minutes but the bottom line is it seemed like that you only even when you really really have to go. Okay. So, could be it's a little different when you want to go d and learn. Okay. That says a very interesting thing. I thought it's fascinating because you know um back in the day parents not my parents not my parents but I heard you know I had friends and I think I'm going I heard of I know of people that do this. They force their kids let's say to eat vegetables. you have to eat the spinach have to eat the this that you have to be healthy. So I I don't know but you ask your rub it could be that their ones because when a person doesn't like a certain food let's say vegetables and they eat those vegetables even though everybody else likes it but you don't like it then you're about so when a father or mother forces their child to eat something they don't like it's good. The other thing about bakshaku is acting in a way that uh well you shouldn't be doing things that are disgusting especially in the eyes of others. So picking your nose these are not just manners. Some people think oh it's just manners but it's not. The Torah talks about it grossing other people. The talks about spitting in front of somebody that could gross them out or all sorts of things that make people queasy. Oh, maybe I'm about when I show the videos of blood. I hear if you drink out of a vessel that's meant to draw blood. It's gross. It's a bloody vessel. What do you What do you drink from it? Um, what's worse than somebody that eats an apple and finds a worm in it? Somebody that says this joke. Yeah. Because the joke is everybody knows the joke. What's worse than somebody that eats an apple and finds a worm in it? Someone that eats an apple and finds a half a worm in it. What if a person took a bunch of a bunch of ants and try to make a gaz out of it picture he wants to be he's desperate to be. So you have to and and it's not if it's a full ant that's a brio we discussed brio a full a full animal even it's very very small but since it's reek he chopped it up he put it through the blender now you have a bunch of parts unless it's a and then he brought one more one live one so this picture would have been a lot better if they were all dead it's not accurate to the garumar it's just But they're all dead. One of them is alive and Rashi says that it dies as he's swallowing it for whatever reason argues on that. Now with the live one, you have a complete olive worth of animal and then for and for the live one. So how much are how many how many isim was a person for eating one ant? Five plus one more is four for full end. By the way, there was a uh real quickly I know we're late. There's a RV who I thought was a beautiful story where an ammon comes to him on Pes few as before and says Rabbi how do you check this lettuce so he didn't want to tell her hey you know you should have bought the gushkif stuff or whatever it's called today and uh you know you don't she says leave it here I'll I'll I'll tell you how to do it when you come back anyways he he took it and he washed it and he did the whole checking and he gave it back to of helping an alman somebody who doesn't know someone who doesn't have money was uh I thought it was a beautiful story on pes the last thing he could have said listen you do like this like that get out of here you know I'm busy no took the time went through it for her okay uh and now the says all you need is two ants only two ants plus the live one or one ant plus the live one. I have to look for a picture of a giant ant. You know, they have these really large ants that are kaz. So if you have very large ant, one is enough plus the the other guy. I mean one is a little less than a kaz plus the live one is a full kaz rais. Have a wonderful day. [Music]