Daf Yomi Pesachim Daf 87 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning today's share is being sponsored by avraham is that how you pronounce it he comes all the time he's there every single day huh how do you pronounce it he came from new york what a year and a half ago he was a misfollowed by my a very very hush of uncle his name is savitsky he was his for the bar mitzvah of my son yehuda gevaldik next sponsored by vladislav zakharov reforest lama for my 86 year old grandma with covid we have unbelievable news as of now it is legal to congregate in the basement as many people as could prove that they had two kovachats or had a covid so if you have a thing now what is very interesting is that the new guys sitting around in the table they're schmoozing as if nothing happened they don't know the rules we are extremely strict here we will kick you right out of these measures one word during sheer you understand so my beloved mother my teacher sorry bailor bassey stroll david cohen third yard site i have here a little note from him stevansky if you see this i made sure to use my my mother's hebrew names this time around because i sensed that you were a little disappointed when i used my english names a few months ago from my father's yard site so that i was never disappointed i'm not disappointed i just pointed out the gemara makes a big deal about us not changing our names not disappointed the people that don't even wear yamaka is at work there's a big percentage of people not disappointed but we could be better we could do better my father-in-law a surgeon top surgeon in the world never once took off his yamaha didn't lose out there's things that we could do better but you know what it's it's probably better to learn five minutes of gemara than to change your name to hebrew i don't know i'm just saying i use these names the other one's mama's giddy here i know it's very exciting that is back sunday we're making a full come back robert schoenberg is coming back and everybody else who has we're going to make a whole matzah here about true and still feels funny using my hebrew name and casual conversation and correspondence maybe it's time that i started getting used to it sponsored by zev daniel haskell yes by ellie dykman i think i forgot to mention his name yesterday but he was up behind me lily nicholas handled miriam bastrop mordechai david he's up twice today maybe is he really because this one doesn't have that she was nifty yesterday this one says yesterday okay lavish he deserves it twice ellie deserves twice he's sponsoring the whole week you'll see sasha also a person that's sponsoring a bunch of days vladov there's also a bunch of days you're going to see these names refuse slammer for shmuel bendevara a young father of three bayasi sasha with a giving heart that never stops please keep him in your minds for complete recovery here's the stickle purim torah real quickly from david address i finally he's telling us that he basically got out of the hospital he's out of bed already he's back to work he's just a little wounded i was so deeply moved by all the good will and wishes from you and the fevra you should have seen the huge smile on my face when i saw you were calling when i was in the er last week my wife thought i was getting a call from the president or something i told her more like the galador so i read this to my wife and i said you know no matter what i'm never going to let this get to me she goes what do you mean it already did like that without even a smile nothing she's serious vishalim so many people reached out it meant so much to me words cannot even express it please keep all the amazing work you're literally moving mountains and cloudy strolls you're inviting the entire teacher in one of those stories reading even your reading of medical records are sitting through thousands of chrysler i'm so glad i can be part of it in the mdy family thank you your support team double the dress you need to tell me that diet i need to lower my cholesterol next mdy is intermittent cookbook no but when you break the fast the trick is when you break your fast let's say you fast for 16 or 18 hours you don't break it on chocolate and ash you break into healthy food fruits vegetables healthy food you want whatever you think is healthy rabbusai we are starting a brand new parikh which is for sure brandon sekta and today's daf is an amazing agada tadaaf my poor son i told him do me a favor he's for these i said count how many words are in this stuff it looked like a tremend he comes back to me he says i counted it but i think there's a much easier way so that i realized i could just take the barry lamb put it into word and it gave me a number it might even be an easier way came out to about 1100 words one word for each daf that we learned from the beginning of the share three years ago 1100 it's a lot of words so we have to so there's not a lot of time there's so much to say here on this dot there's not a lot of time from isis and stuff like that we just have to read the words but we'll try to stick in whatever we can zak daily mishna we have the concept that we discussed many times that you must oh the official mishna sponsored by official from official catering in baltimore yoshikaya for the reminder it is in my gemara here you must be part of sham aleikum akiva wow and your father malaysia you must be part of a group in order to eat the carbon peso but you cannot be part of two groups you you have to say you have to decide where where where are you part of it's the possum it says in the possum you have to be part of the group and you have to be counted beforehand so the mission to discuss is what happens to a wife wife and children so the wife and children are going to go with the husband's carbon typically unless says the mishna heritage manchester when she's in her husband's house because in those days you know they did irison and they hung out in their parents house for maybe even a year up to a year they were like well it's almost marriage marriage but they they stayed by their father's house and then by nissun they went to their husband's house when she is fully married she's in her husband's house so if both her father and her husband had her mind and the carbon she eats from her husband's carbon let's remember this because there's going to be a bracelet that says the opposite says that was the minute in fact that's the minute today that the first yantef the first pesach you go to the cheverus house some even say that's why you don't wear kettle you don't want to up the spare whatever fine you go to the swears house excuse me sorry choco de leo viola so what if again both of them made a carbon pesach the husband and the father taught them she wrote now she could pick and choose and we're going to sing the gemara why you can't really the gemara says it's not true this is a very small kiddush in fact she cannot pick and choose just to pick and choose before the shrimp is going to say all of that orphan who had the the caregivers the people that took care of him that but drops him he had two and each one decided we got to take care of this yaasa let's think about him he's part of the carbon and each one did so he could eat wherever you want if you have a slave that's owned by two people now a slave a non-jewish slave is kaif and mitch is just like a woman so he's kaiven kevin pesach now rashid says how could ruvein ruben and shimon own the slave how could ruben go ahead and give shimon's part a current pesach he's owned by reuben and chamin he could give his own power to carbon based off he gives 50 he owns from one to 50 but from 50 to 100 he doesn't own that's somebody else so how could he give a carbon peso from 50 to 100. it doesn't work so therefore neither of them is a good carbon if you just take this idea there's a reuben and chimin that own one slave and one of them released the slave or the owner released the slave half of him but let's talk about this is the easier one to to realize reuben and shimon own a slave shimon says you are free to go famous gemara now what loi yo michelle rabbit again the master didn't give a carbon to the part that's free from 50 to 100 he's a free man he's a complete jew so from 50 to 100 the master didn't give him a current peso that part only the part that he owns says the gemara from the fact that the woman can pick and choose if she wants to use her husband's carbon or her hus or her her father's carburetor shrapness me no isbrera you could go retroactively figure out retroactively what which one of the two carbanas was for her because she could only be a part of one so she has the right to choose you hear david feinberg this is the beast mattress and in the basement we don't chat we're not writing i'm not i'm not for you i'm just saying there's no phones there's nothing we're here one hundred percent but i understand listen statistician has to do statistician stuff so i'm not i'm not really not beginning it's not hugging chatting shamans mean all yesterday you can do whatever you want what no i'm just saying people come with their bad habits from the zoom habits they're home and what are they doing while they're watching the show i see them leave your habits at home come here we're learning tired that's it we're done here we go here we go they're all picking up the phones this host david feinberg let those guys unzoom those networks that are not in the basement let them correct me by the way no you told me you bring a computer you're gonna find you bring a computer we'll let norm do it and if you see anybody on the chat that's in the basement you let me know right away my right to shito the only time she has to choose really we can't do any retroactive she can only pick and choose when you're in the basement so really there's no kiddush here she could choose from her father she could choose from her husband says mario vermino but we have a bryce that says the exact opposite isha regular richo nicholas michelle avila the first jantev she goes and she eats from her father's and what do we say in our mishnah she has a choice ober doesn't give her a choice she's only your father me love after the first gentiff right right now in our mission we said very different we said once it's over once you the marriage takes place everything is going fine the the sean bass is great she's only her husband whatever her husband does not her she doesn't have a choice now the bryson says she has a choice loy cashier says the murray very interesting kamber do for leila campbell radufa there's a woman that constantly wants to go visit her father a woman like that is a riot that her marriage is not didn't take didn't take hold yet so such a woman she could she could have benefit from her father's carbon as well that's the braiso calm shayna radufa but the mishna is talking about a woman who loves her husband she's with him she forgot about her father she doesn't need to go back visited mommy every day okay we're not talking about you know hungarians and so i'm talking about regular people well i married hungarians it's a little different it's not my marriage is perfect the reason why my wife goes back every day is cause she's hungarian so it's interesting brings here apostol maybe it's a character right but you see the idea of easy being of kombucha the woman is saying i'm like in the eyes of my husband i'm shallow i'm perfect i just want to point out here one thing just one thing for today i'm throwing this out with a little bit of a twist i i think i got this from the javier salvados and whatever else but did a tremendous hasid with us that he gave us parents and he gave us children we could have been born on a tree like just dropped down you know parachuted from something and and do however no but it gave us parents and and children so when we have children we see how much goes into the children then we appreciate our parents even more we don't need children for that but we appreciate to understand the relationship between a father and a son and more so the relationship between a husband and a wife the whole share of shirim and and and even and more so the the the relationship that a hussain has with the kala that unbelievable relationship that doesn't last very long but gave us that gift to go back and draw upon it to see that it's possible that you are so focused on one person that every thought of yours is in that person and everything you do even when you're talking to your friend and she's watching you're thinking what is she thinking of this and how are you going to write this letter and what's the gift and that's a gift that gave us so that we could draw from it and use it with our relationship with that because that that's the the ultimate relationship when you could treat and deal with the way you dealt with your kaala that's in all that all right so anyways going back to here i don't know if there was anything after the wedding there's a caller who who wants to run back to her father and tell her how wonderful her husband is treating her and how great it is talking this is a martial attack you'll call me ishii which is a much stronger lotion it's a lesson of issues yeah okay but and in hebrew bali is a husband yeah the literal translation is master right omar biolon the kids are like a collar that goes back that's in her because in those days they used to live a lot in their house so to speak in the you're not supposed to live in your mother-in-law's house but you live in the the the daughter-in-law lives in her house they like calabrese they got remember they got married really really young then they were they were kids basically so they lived in the all right says we have a younger sister she doesn't have the ability to nurse to give over um so rashid brings elam was in persia we had rashi brings daniel but what's very interesting that in kadusan they bring down that in conducion rashi says that mordechai was also there and that gives us a little bit of an insight what was going on in the time of purim that you had murder and daniel took daily islam and they couldn't teach torah why because nobody was there to teach it to them the you didn't weren't done they weren't learning they weren't learning torah they didn't what protects us the properties of protection come from tara vishali drops right exactly i was thinking about that we don't have the shoals 100 yet a lot of people go to show we this table right here most of us don't dive in a proper show y'all safe does right here in this video but if you don't have a show you have to be smashed you have mdy it's the protector of the generation omar ravens is real toriel barrow tv kenneth our young boys are like small trees like saplings miguel dola binurayam the girls are like the corners it's a very very interesting possible they're like corners that are like molded in like like the heckle like the young versions they keep themselves pure for their husbands wamp chat and rash you know what shannon rashid is that even though they're full of taiva they tell their husbands when they're in either israel mizrah is a bow full of it's a lotion of being full of taivo malaya our corners are full of of grain it's unbelievable that these girls these boys it's because when a person is my name prevents himself from withstands abstains from taiva that brings kedusha and by abstaining from taiwas when they're younger and they wait until they get married it brings it's kilo you built the hecho divided so it's unbelievable because yeah we're going now into a whole household here this is the four i did it for later but so you have no these are sorry sorry these are latin these are the malacca for later never really said this it's not brought down in navi so what happened is that we have to extrapolate right there's nothing we have to because aguesborough who said something later on we have to understand that there's a conversation that happened beforehand and this is what happened clydesdale they're bad people you'll see we'll see the gemara they were it wasn't the greatest generation so what should have been answered that oh my elo oh get rid of them send them to germany we don't need them unbelievable there's a whole sequel tour we're not going to get into it we're going to see soon might have a ramification we're not going to see you soon tells him i want you to go marry azano now the benjamin yoda says on the spot over here that it's a mitzvah to say that this never happened that it was an avua okay yes there's others that say the same thing how do you speak like that i'm going to give you a lesson that you're going to see that what you said is wrong hands on go married and go have children from zainab is he went in fact and he married a woman called goimer a famous zoina goimer how she is everybody finishes their their taivo bass de especially for mdy family please consider joining mdy teal group at hilum.8 she had a bad reputation her mother had a bad reputation she was sweet to everybody like like a like a sweet fig vibrio no match i called dashi boku veil they all tried on her like a develop kisser the government she's struggling they want to get rid of all the the money of kais troll in her generation in fact that's what happens okay so he marries the zoyno and they have the first son may love israel unbelievable tell them exactly what to call all three of his children and each one represents a terrible oynish israel is that they should be in golos we're holding by the first white line here rabbi albays basis then they had a daughter beyonce unbelievable i don't have pity well we're talking about funny names yesterday his name is he's born rav huna there's a guy in the hamburglan i don't know where he is now his name was like ishii russell do you have people like but he this name not so in other words israel is not going to have commanders he's going to throw klaus on ghosts and you're not my nation you're not my nation i'm not going to be there for you therefore he separated from his wife get divorced yesterday going down here well just divorce her who's gonna be there for the children the little guys oh there's a hole right here if you look at marshall bring it on the spot in the art scroll in the mesifta the the the there's a big concept in shaz kobielus does it apply to not okay but that's why they say that he called him ozokin you're zakin so by zakira might be different that you don't have color below because he's fine you don't even know if they're your children these are my children you're the the one that were tested this the kids of avraham this is unbelievable i acquired four things from this world you hear this four things what are the four important things that kosovo acquired toro kenya he acquired tara we're here learning tariq siva hashem kanani raises dharaku he he acquired it give them away they'll sieve i'm zukonisso i acquired that nation what is wrong with you how do you tell me to just get rid of them like that given to you now he he saw what he was dealing with he figured they're not good they're not good we got to get rid of them no he made a tremendous mistake he each other he realized he sinned so first he had uh he's selfish he decided to ask himself you should you should really ask him because of you i put them in gallows what is it i don't have something anymore denomination you better take care of that first recommend they're not my nation they are myself instead of not having rahman i said you're not my nation amiato you're my nation according to me there are those who said it did it's just to answer like zoina the whole thing why not you could you could do that because rachel did anything it's just one way of looking at it it's not talking about arov as much as it's talking about having authority being a king being in charge of somebody what is a douche caberas is it people don't live very long if you search a mafia boss what's the life expectancy of a mafi boss 19 years is the from the time that you got a mafia soldier they don't live very long 40 whatever it is i don't remember anymore it's a very short life expectancy when you're in charge of other people when you have a navi the the naveem outlived four kings so you see that the kings they rule and they use their authority you don't live very long beyond something very interesting because typically here you haven't seen this passage it's always about malcolm you never see in the navy that the navy cares about the malche israel so why is it that europham he was zaika to be counted to be considered mibnei shalom he didn't accept los angeles how do you see that he was actually reckoned with he is that's his name um we're by the very wide line i don't know mordecai you said you're going to be able to get get that up some somehow oh i see no no that the unzoomed way here it is on zoom they sent the message said they're going to kill you i don't believe it that i'm going to be here for four generations my family four generations i'm not gonna die so i don't believe that he said it instead of going and say what that's what he said let me take his head no i don't i'm not my capital shinaro and even if he did say it's there's nothing i could do about it why kushkina amralay so because he's so certain who gave this that he is going to live he's going to be there for four generations then it's impossible like who said and if i did say then maybe there's some sort of khat and that's why there's that nivoa but it's not almost his fault and there's no reason to punish him um so to speak he still has rahmanic it doesn't say the possibility it says it's almost like a play on words it's like him i will have rahmanus you can put a comma there killer very interesting line here i don't know because we we always learned that you're not supposed to accept the gear you should make it very difficult for a guy we have garen but put us in gala so we should go out and deal with gary go and grab gary maybe not maybe maybe the the guy will see us and they'll become gay and kind of thing i don't know what the shot is exactly but as i stayed over here who put us in we're testing their goals i know but let me see you're going to go and start recruiting oh so that's what i'm saying so you don't recruit so what so what yes so why we're in goals oh they give the opportunity so they see us they watch us they want to be like us exactly to be a light on the nations exactly hello i'm gary him that this should be more garem shinema uzratiyali baaretz we should i'll plant you now i saw you're going to plant such a small amount el atlas kamakura in order to get a lot so anyway obviously i planted small amounts of klysos so that we should have many more of talking about gary if anybody could uh reach out to amari storymeyer we need him part of the would be very very geshmak if he was part of him we could have a couple games on friday you'll say well he said it's harder to learn a dave gemara than it is to guard shaq as i think he's a member of this week but if you'll come to this year he'll see it's a lot easier to learn gemara than the garchek very interesting is referring to the guy i don't have a lot of rahmonas on them i will have rahmonas on the people i don't know in other words i need these i need this game to become gay like do not go don't even talk not nicely about a slave because vashamta is going to be considered a sin of a similar says a very interesting thing here we're going to learn that when a jew is in the lowest of the low he's still a jew don't don't slander a yid as we've had before over calvin you have a it's a generation that is going to curse the father and you're not going to bench the mother mission what does it have to do with not slandering ello i feel the door shall be called so you see from here that he had sort of the right almost they weren't good so send them away give them the no no punish them go marry zoning on the whole thing i gotta slow down what are we going to do we're going to finish early no it's personal anyway we just had this pasta where was that a few weeks ago i don't remember when by viral she remember she got punished she was kind of like showing off she said look clay's role could be now in an open field they don't need a they don't need walls anymore and she lost her navora that tough wherever that was no where was that where's levy levy where was that daf you have you know what i'm talking about where they lose the navwa somebody lost their their their being right then it wasn't it wasn't a week ago whatever what all right anyway fine i'm trying to stall so we don't finish before eight minutes husbands he scattered them around the world we're much better than you it says over there that he destroyed every zohar in adam you guys don't have any rahmanus you kill all the guardian like that look at us we're about we we're polite we're like the germans we're nice people it's look you live with us look at all these years we never did anything to you we never chap with you such a dumb question i'm not even going to answer what i'm going to do i'll is you one of my uh underlings well one of my one of my talmud could take care of you this is immediately tells them you know oh because you don't have the solution you have no idea how to do it you can't kill them all out why let's go back they're not in one area and if you're going to kill out you know small neighborhoods you know the the whole world is going to talk about you're going to be in the news the media is like oh well you're shying they killed that uh if you could kill everybody in one shot great you would do it in a second the problem is you can't and that's why that's exactly what we had we had a big meeting in the government and we decided no what's how we're going to get rid of these jews and we figured we just can't do it it's impossible because if we kill little pockets the world's going to talk we got to get it's not politically correct and if we do it in one shot they're not here we can't do it in one shot fine darko they couldn't they were they had one chance why because they're all in one place very nice he's saying that the in the omaha purim they were able to do it one time in khloe so because all of kaiju was together in in in under his mouth maybe is here maybe there's a a change in the print because of the game and the romans was a lot nicer to the jews it was closer to to to the redemption by being closer to sha'a shall never left them right back to where the mother the to their mother's place in other words came from it wasn't really that's where he discovered he sent him right back to kazden a person is mad at his wife there's three that went back to the original state eloy israel israel question israeli the money the the belongings of israel they belong to the jews and the the words of the lucas you swallowed that we just said they went back to babel because he left the words went right back up to shamayim to be repurposed we still have two minutes we can keep on going willa says that claire's role should be able to eat a lot of dates and learn torah in other words they should live birachmas says tiriana the time ray they gave him some of these beautiful dates all my little comic canada business how much does it cost what's the price over here in bubble oh malay plus business you get three for zoos you can make how much how much uh how much honey can you make out of the three you make one so in other words one thing of of honey costs one zeus i don't understand things are so cheap here it's like in america okay so you can get a whole slurpee for 99 cents it's america you have called tupshabailam you go on amazon for two dollars it comes to your house in 25 minutes it's unbelie and you don't learn torah what's your excuse the boy said what's your excuse unbelievable says the gemara belleotsaru these dates that he ate caused him tremendous aggravation he had tremendous stomachache omar molotzano you know what i take it back this poison these these never hidden in bubble they have to eat poison they have to take from amazon this does from amazon the mice is above they they can buy so much poison for one dollar above [Applause] [Music] foreign yeah it's great to see you it's unbelievable it's a tremendous everyday new guys but by the way one thing that you forgot to do is take a picture we need pictures of this as it's growing as it's huh yeah it's okay to go back it's not the same thing as a uh it's less when i'm at home see all the blanks the whole things i'm missing this one today yesterday that's right i'm telling you i'm telling you no no i i only said it to you because in the how long were we here before we went on the thing we had the days no no oh we're only seven years first seven days first day i never saw you playing your phone never i'm saying you got used to it right now don't be sorry i'm just kidding i'm giving monster because abby left the spot at home come here are you serious i wasn't i hope you didn't take a good person i wasn't personal stomach in china i'm not joking it wasn't for you to be in kabul i was not messing with you it's good to see you for real didn't buy i don't kill you on the phone what sometimes sometimes they're useful what do you say i got the round though i'm feeling fine i have no no no issues at all my wife is sometimes have some useful things sometimes but sometimes it's a good heart i know i know sometimes i'll respond to things but the phone the phone is uh the phone is terrible what do you say you're making a call no no the whole it's a distraction the stretching is out to check the chat while you're learning it's just a distraction i'm telling you for me like if my phone is in front of me and then all of a sudden i see what's up what's up they stopped the chat is a distraction you can't you can't learn to dab and do the chat it's like it's like no it's good for certain people they need it yeah yeah i'm saying somebody knows how to learn somebody that's a learner and you're there hey i gotta go with these guys i don't know how to pronounce it just tell me once and tell me once it's three times say it nice and nice and slow so i remember yeshua for a second um you guys are talking about the thing about getting good morning good morning you talking about the the drive who was that sort of rabbi stop stop time out rehearsal leaders on what's wrong with you how about now do you hear me now [Music] the doctor's in the house but you know what else is in the house repair she leader reparation leaders in the house oh really i'm still stuck here every single day i i really appreciate it what about victor is he's still giving cheer because he's stuck in america or not really the consistency of mdy mdy has consistency you got to drab you got to drop my brother-in-law like a hot potato don't ever go back to sheer no i'm just kidding a vigor stuck in america i told you what happened yesterday with my sister i don't know her she heard she she was so scared they she was in the in the airport and they said you know we're gonna have to take you now to a hotel for 12 days she said what 12 days she they said yeah don't worry about it every 24 hours we're gonna let you out of your room with soldiers to take a breath of fresh air for 30 minutes you have nothing to worry about it's it's it's almost like a jail but it's not like it don't worry she she the person she calls up is my wife now my wife is not known as a as a marker or somebody that could get people out of jail so she comes running my wife is hyperventilating and i hear my sister hyperventilating i said call up the mahr of the neighbor there's a woman in this neighborhood her name is she's a mocha she called her up and khayal sir says whatever she does do not go into the lobby you cannot go into the hotel because once you go in and you register you can never get out even with a mocha fine she put up a whole fight a whole fight they physically grabbed her and tossed her into an ambulance with their suitcases ambulance drives through shelam to the don panorama hotel and they throw her into the lobby the problem is that her phone died so now my wife can't reach her and and basically we're trying to give her messages don't do this do this say that kayasovich gets her a permission not to go in but there's no phone so she was she was fighting and she said i'm not going into the room they said we're going to throw in physically this is not you don't have an option you could either go but on your own two feet or they put her in a room and lock the room they lock it from the outside you just can't come out so yeah this is what they do it's called the malone if you come back if you this is what this is what yeshua is going to go through now when he sure comes back to israel on sunday 10 days no no no when when they were at the airport they separated them they said my sister could go my brother-in-law can't go so my sister was so sad that my brother-in-law couldn't go it turns out that she she was the one that had to be sad because she almost sat there anyway the entire friday kaya worked really hard with fagie and they were going back and forth and fourth and back and they released her somehow there was an ace half hour before shabbat she got home oh she is mad at the government ooh how did they do this to me i told her i said what are you upset what are you upset israelis look with israelis it's like a socialist country i said you knew it not only that they asked you you have a you have permission to leave she said yeah she said show us the permission so she showed them she said that doesn't count so but you're on the plane already we'll let you just go but you should know we're putting you in the system so she thought it's a big joke system system the system worked and they got her when she came back now she had two she had two shots but since she left three days after the second shot she didn't give it a full week so they counted it as nothing really and uh whatever it is she got out but now her husband is in america and i was diving the whole time that she should fail and she shouldn't be able to come back to marriage this role my brother shouldn't be upset at me and then she got i was like okay at least he didn't get on because it was every turn and thing is like oh you schmacked she's suffering so now my brother will have less tightness on me oh yeah mama's a rusher