Daf Yomi Shevuos Daf 31 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Lord, [Music] I wish we [Music] I [Music] shall teach Boy, a guy comes to me last night. He says that he if had I not said this during Shir, he would have missed the last day cuz he left MV early. He's like, whoa. Yeah, we we have Gaval here today. I mean, the shear itself is not so great. The daff is amazing. It's going to be very very Gishmak. And I want to remind the am that tonight at 1200 a.m. Shir on the bay right here in the Bush. Don't feel that you have to come. The same exact shear is going to be montiff typical time 10:00 1000 p.m. and matsv typical times. So 10:00 p.m. for English, 11:00 for Hebrew. The B was packed both room last night. Mhm. Um AI came a few minutes late and the seat was gone. There was no seats and people were here till 12:10. The year finished 12:10. They sit here as if nothing. It's the middle of the day. It's a big Here's a picture that Mati Bellski just sent me this morning. He says apparently he was learning on the safari. We're talking learning. Yeah. But the reason why I'm showing this is because Mati Bellski just donated $10,000 towards the new Gumaras of Avid Desara. We're still looking um Hebrew. We already have $600 out of 800 Garas. It went up 200 since last night. No new. So that's it. Okay. The last 200. We're looking for a thousand gumar in Hebrew and at least a thousand in English and besar we're on our way. What it's only about 18 days from now and I looked over the ma real quickly on chabas is so it's galic four five daff of a to start off with and it just gets better and better. Harbelli you should be getting blowback by lobaviches that don't know you and didn't hear two seconds before the video or the tens of times you've spoken highly. It was a funny video and that's it. A guy comes here every Friday with his at least one of his sons all the way from Beerishv Alabaturure and he said he loved it his majali. So from has been learning with you for a few months now. We very much appreciate you Noah. Dr. Sean Saxs and Ambassador Morty Aman my man had an idea to set up a viewing of the magister to bring the together and promote the all welcome. Please can you show the poster wishing you and all from Shim Leafman. So this is on Wednesday. I'm going to read from the bottom over here. It's very another one. I read one of these on Friday. I'm really proud of myself says this kid. This was hard. A lot of days that I don't want to do it and I push myself. I did it so my sh have an aliyah. So I did it even when I was tired. I've never done something that took so much effort before. I'm glad I did it. Everyone is really proud of me. Ari Topaz and the top part is his mother. Thank you so much for doing this. I'm not sure how I think this this was to official. This was written to Fishial. I'm not sure how it have been able to motivate Ari to take on such a big undertaking and know that he could succeed with it. As his mother really means a lot to me. I've seen him doing this late at night after Shabbat while driving on the turnpike. The cartoons kept him engaged. Having to post something that he learned made him stop to write down facts. official says you want the money you have to write on every daff learned made him stop to write the facts while he was learning and stopped to call uncles when he didn't understand something it really taught him so many skills you hear this a ysum has to call his uncle he can't ask his father he's almost exactly a year away from his bar mitzvah and him learning that he can take on bigger things as he gets older is amazing thank you again Mrs. Rose and Bloom Topzan monthly sponsors actualize in honor of Duvi working union and all the silver spring daffers Ellforka weekly sponsors refor Mosha Benita Lakewood central New Jersey MDY family handler son of a dear friend and fellow Lakewood MDY. I'm sure is going to have a Shila. He's going to have to ask the R if he's allowed to come to the Shabbaton. He was there two years in a row. I'm sure he's going to want to come again. And well, I guess he's a father. Yeah. Yeah. I guess you're right. You're right. And anonymous and Maroskazi. I wanted to donate but this is the first link I see daily sponsor hemati my daughter amuna rifka bat biny on her second yard side at only 20 should have an alien my grandfather it's my mother's I don't know supposed to be her birthday right cuz her name is Russ plus she was born right around I think a date I I don't remember exactly for 14th and kids art of the month we had he came last night to the sat right over here for belly and the whole staff to continue to make so many incl. Here we go. Shila, it's not the hardest one last night. Most people got it right. I'm assuming that you guys [Music] also. Somebody lent somebody $100, but he's a liar. He's a gun. when he comes to to take the money back, he tells the guy, "You owe me $200." So, there's two options. The guy who owes the money could say the truth. He says, "Okay, yeah, I owe you. I only owe you a hundred." But then what's going to happen? He's a mix. He's going to have to make a or he's going to say to himself, "Listen, this guy's a liar. He's a liar. I got I You got to act with a liar like a liar. He's lying to me. I'm going to lie right back to him. I don't owe you anything. And then as soon as we I'm gonna give a hundred bucks and put it in his mailbox and I'll pay him back. Why? Why should I do why should I get why should I have to? What's the which one does he have to do? Does he have to does he have to say the truth or you treat a a shak like a shakh? What do you say? How's he going to take a shak? Yes or no? Yes or no? What does he do? Can't take his check. So he has to say the truth. Say the truth. Say the truth. Anybody else? I told you the Israelis are better. The Israelis are You treat him like a liar. You treat him like a liar. Oh, finally somebody saying the similar to uh what it came to. You want to You hear that? You really want to avoid um using Hashem's name. Uh in lie. I fooled you. I fooled you. No, the first guys were right. Okay, guys. Don't fall for my stick. I should be We're going to learn from this. I was thinking as I was learning, I was like, you know, sometimes you don't need the M. You don't need you just read the Gar and it it seeps into the head. You you start learning mim like you look at life a little differently. Me personally, if somebody came to me and lied, I'll be so upset. I I'll lie right back. I I do it kind of shock. I'm going to start I'm not going to deal with you. I'm going to act to you the way you act with me. No, you got to be careful. So, let's see. says, "We are six lines from the bottom of flows very nicely with a nice little in the middle, but a small." So, what does that mean? So, it says Rashi, you have this a lot. I have it. I bump into this occasionally in the ko sometimes you get a guy good you know you ask him a good cash and he doesn't really know so what does he do he's like like you know the kid gets him good so what's a typical knee-jerk response start funing this and that and no you start says middle that he's making a mistake you you can't start bringing rise to your to your you know that you're you know that you're off in the really good you could bring from here and there and the other guy's not going to you're going to start draining him a cup a little you know you have to go back and say I made a mistake like the famous famous story with salant he's in the middle of a speech and sal say this again and again even though He's famous for his muser. What he's not so famous for that is the gull and learning. He was like considered the lambd of the dar he's being gala speech and learning and a guy asked him a middle and he says oh and he walked right off the stage and he said afterwards he said I could have answered him five different things the guy wouldn't have known. I could have said, "No, but there's Gomar over here." There's like, you know, he says, "Emis is Em." And I'm thinking about it years later in our generation, hundreds of years later, we we remember him as the person who went off the stage and then nobody looks at him like, "Oh, what a fool." In the middle of a speech, it's a it's a godless. Had he played that game? Yeah. I was in a shar in the mirror and he asked my coming tomorrow to everybody be on your best game. So the next day came I was asking and he said in the middle of he said and for the only time ever he said to me I don't know I don't know the answer in front of he of course he could have done exactly the same thing in front of he was a little bit but he did exactly what okay I'm going to start I'm going to learn from this ma and from now on I'm going to I'm going to be m to you I'm going to be m to you I always do that I'm on this when it comes to you usually get me and I'm so embarrassed I like this this time I'm going to Okay, that's nice. Nice. Next time we'll tear a page who doesn't uh you got to bring that up. Look at him. Look at him. He's not happy with that. That's not nice. [Music] So kids sir your I heard so many times from all these a lot of kids that go off to D they always say when I ask my rebi a question I said what's and he has a question and and instead of the rebi saying you know that's a great question and I don't know the answer they say don't ask such questions and it turns kids off a lot of I've heard many many times just say the truth say you don't know don't start hacking a chin Okay. So, here's one. We're we're in a stay away from lying. That's you didn't say a lie, but distance yourself. The only time in the it says distance yourself from a lie. Don't put some right in front of the the Rebi because he's going to say things that are not right and it confuse the Rebi. You should you should distance yourself from this sheer guy right over here. The Dian knows that his friend one of the day. Yeah. He knows very well about the D next to him that took a little bribe the other day which is kind of common. Not common. It happens in our generation where people could give the best and sometimes in different places different things you could give them a little money and all of a sudden it didn't comes. You know you know that he did it. One witness knows about the other one. He's a bad guy. He's the He stole money from somebody in the neighborhood. Don't you shouldn't be a partner with him. You have to distance yourself from I'm just saying let this seep in because we all have that friend. We all have we know that person. So what do you do with him? You got to be from him. realizes that one of the is saying something doesn't something's not working over here with his testimony, you know, let let them finish up. I'll I'll I'll cut it up. I don't know if it's true. I once read that the reason why we wear a lot of people with facts wear ties is because there's a guy that once uh he had a noose around his neck and the king of some I forgot he said okay let him go but as a simmon that he had to wear the noose around his neck him and his sons and eventually developed like they made a little nicer I don't know if it's true we got to look it Okay. So what the case the case is that instead of waiting all the way to the end and then say oh you found Adam right away cut you know that something's wrong here with the testimony in middle don't let it don't let it continue doesn't know what to do to slug it up that's the right he smells that there's something wrong here he realizes that within the he can't prove it 100% but he sees from within the words of the adim that he's off so just stop We continue with this theme. You're a student. You're a nobody compared to your Rebi. You're in awe of your Rebi. But you're able to say something against the rich guy for the poor guy. Obviously, the opposite as well. However, the the most extreme case is the guy you're scared of. You got uh you have Bill Gates sitting there. You see what you're gonna throw something out to throw Bill Gates under the bus and this this peasant, huh? No. It's bad for bad. You know something bad. You have to you have to speak up. You're not doing it. You're closing your mouth. That's also it's a sheer I heard a guy comes to says his kid is off the d he's going off to what should he do says learn this m this as he's walking out so one of the guys there says listen tremendous every day whenever you can express your love to your son tell him how much you love him you love him one day he'll come back he says how could I tell him I love him have to be m and Check it. Say he's a m he's rais don't take this literally. I mean take it literally but don't be a mug. You have to I learned in the got to tell the wife what you think otherwise it's mama no sometimes use your use your not because after sometimes sometimes yeah say that that's you see making mistakes Let me let him finish. Let him finish. Let everything. Then I'm going to knock him out like a TKO and then I'll rebuild the whole thing. I wanted Everybody should know it's mine. My case. What happened with you? Oh, my case. I thought that happened to you. You said my This is right away. Tell your Rebi the problem. Let him finish. You don't have to take credit. The Rebi looks at his says, "Listen, you know me. You know how honest I am. And if if I could take my I'm not going to take anything that that's not mine. However, that guy owes me [Music] 100. All I have is one aid. I'm asking you, do me a small favor. Pretend that you're the second aid. If you show up, we're going to get the money out of him. He owes me the money. You know he owes me and it's true that he owes him but you're not an aid financially certainly you can't go with [Music] him very another that could come out from today's d are you allowed to ask somebody a question when you know full well one of your employees yeah you know what your employee did you know very well so you call you call the person into your office you say did you do this and this no what's his reaction going to No. No. You're not allowed to do that. You're not allowed to do that. But it's not is one thing in you're causing a sheke to come out in the world. How you do it exactly. You say, "Listen, I know you did this and this." But don't ask him where I don't know how it applies to you ask your kid, did you take the cookie? No. So maybe is different. I don't know. But just have that in mind. You're causing somebody to say sheer. So as when this RV wants his to to pretend that he's aid that's not distancing from that's a real lie to pretend that you're an aid says you're not allowed to pretend to be an aid oh the case is as follows which is also awesome if you're going I want you to pretend that you're aid but don't say anything stand right next to like a go. You're just standing. That's also wrong. You're you're doing something that's not 100%. Stay away from it. Yeah. I'm not done. No lie is going to come out of your mouth. Even so, it's awesome. Somebody also won 100. money. So the guy has a trick. The Malva who lent the money says, "Listen, I didn't just lend him a hundred." Now I also lent him my car. Happened to me. I I lent the car to to a younger guy. He was doing some errands for me. He comes back with a massive dent. So I'm like, "What's this?" He says, "It's not me. Not me." Come on. I It wasn't there when I gave it to you. It's not me. Turns out there wasn't him. He just lent the car without permission to his friend. So he never told me, but somebody came over. He says, "Don't don't be upset. I know what happened." He gave it to somebody else. He told me, he gave, "Okay, fine." So what I could have done is said, "Listen, the hundred the $100 that you owe me." Yeah, you don't owe me 100. You owe me 200. So he's going to say, "No, no, what are you talking about? I don't owe you 200. I owe you 100." Oh, you just admitted to me that you owe 100. So that's Hey, let's go to Bez now. Swear that you don't owe me 200. And also swear that you didn't dent my Avalon or you know who did it. That's it. Now I can get him good on on the car. So that's a giggle. So on the giggle part, that's what we're talking about. I could I could increase the amount. I know something's wrong here. I know there's no dent before he got it. I know there's a dent today. So what's the big deal? So I g I made him do and he says, "No, what's the problem?" The problem is that he doesn't have the money for it right now. Maybe he doesn't want to do a maybe he wants to pay later and I'm going to roll in another once the guy makes one I could put on another one. It's not the right thing. time. So, a guy only owes 100 and this is the question I asked you in the beginning of this year. And this he's not such a nice guy. He claims that you owe him double than you really owe him. So, the guy says, "Listen, why should I admit the truth? All he's a liar, and if I admit the truth, it's going to cause me to say, so in I'll say I don't know you anything when we step outside reminds me the famous with a guy back in the day I remember clearly like the day she lived in and she loved American coffee you know nest what is it called the stuff you know with the red cap what is it cafe they didn't have an they only had when you came to you had to bring her one of those one of those is like the greatest gift you can get today they have everything here that fruity pebbles the whole So guy says, "Hey, could you bring, you know, somebody in whatever a thing of nest?" Sure, no problem. So he takes it and rookie mistake. As soon as the guy arrives in the shell, he starts getting phone calls. Hello, where's my coffee? Where's my coffee? The guy's like, "What's the co?" Then he realizes, "Oh." So he takes the coffee, opens it up, and he realizes that somebody tampered with the seal. Puts it down on a white thing, pours out the entire coffee, and sure enough, there's some diamonds inside. So he takes the diamonds, puts them in his pocket, puts all the coffee back, and he he gives it to the guy. Three and a half minutes later, knock on the door. He says, "We had some diamonds in here. Where are my diamonds?" He says, "What diamonds you talking about?" "The guy gave me coffee. I'm giving you coffee." So they go to the room and carel. They go to Bezon, the whole thing. And he says, "I don't know what you're talking about. The guy gave me a coffee. I'm giving you back a coffee." What's the problem? No. The guy had diamonds in there. Did you say that there's diamonds in? No, you didn't say. Huh? Hold on. I'm a little now. Now I can't use it as a short. Thank you very much. Start again. Anyway, so this is going to be a classic. It's going to be a classic. So anyway, so he The guy doesn't know what to do. They come out of Bezon and the guy says, "Here's your diamonds. Don't ever do that again to somebody like you could have gotten me Elijah. What if they they would have stopped me at the meas I would have been sitting in jail. Okay. So that's the so I don't know according to this but he says listen you're dealing with a guy you're dealing with what was no say you don't have to pay you're not why the guy never said diamonds. I'm giving you this is diamonds there. Maybe somebody stole it on the plane. I don't know. Why is it him? He didn't take a to watch it. And once he got and the guy wasing and this took two months to get, you know, to get the the the bezdon thing and then you going back and forth to back, you know, how many times you have to go to be he got upset. They come outside. He says, "You want your diamonds back? Here's your diamonds. Don't ever do it again." Never did it again. Not so funny. Hold on. Is that okay? Can let him sweat. I don't know. Based on what we're learning now, it's problematic. All right. I want to tell you I want to tell you that I'm every single day and it bothers me. This I got to amend the somehow. It doesn't it doesn't apply to me. That's going to be short. It says in you're not allowed to kid around. You're not allowed to say, "Oh, I'm just kidding." Like you're not allowed to fool people. You're not allowed to like to to pull their leg for two seconds and then it have to start. You guys have to be, you know, help me out. I have a bad habit. My whole life, this is what I've been doing. I I I went in middle in middle of the year, I went to collect money for my with the whole disguise and he gave me money, the whole thing. I mean, different things I would do for for the hack. Yeah. Another one just came through my not going to go there. You got to be stay away from. Yes, he's a bad guy. Yes, he lied to you and he said you owe him double than you really owe. But you're not at the same that you don't owe him the money because that's Sheggar. Here's a good one. I'll say the case outside. Three guys did business with one person. That one person owes the three guys a million dollars. He doesn't want to pay. They came up with a great idea. One guy will claim the million dollars. The other two guys are witnesses that he owes the million dollars. In fact, they know that he owes the million dollars. So, they'll just be witnesses. They come to be we saw that Ruben owes Shim a million dollars. It's a great they're not lying. He really owes a million dollars and like this the you're not allowed to do it. They're not aid him. They're they're biased. It's a great idea, but you can't do it once again. But it's my million dollars. It's a pellet cuz you could do done last. You could actually go into the guy's house and kind of take it out if you if you really need to. Maybe. Maybe. But the sheer part I hear the sheer part. Two of them will act as witnesses and say that the guy owes him a million and then afterwards they'll split it. A guy shows up with what's the fancy suit today. Bioni with the Prada shoes. The whole Zach. The shoes cost like over $1,000. You know what I'm saying? Then no, we don't know. It says in large letters Prada. And this other guy, Nebuch, he shows up as a, you know, from the the hand-me-down store, whatever, from the Gimach. So here we even have a thing here. Check this out. This guy has he's wearing the theas and the other guysim. He has to wear the smartutim. Either you buy the guy the proud shoes. You have a choice. You buy You have to be on on the same playing field. You can't you can't have one guy that has an advantage over the other just by being more dressing nicer. We'll we might shut the other guy up or knock his tightness out. The whole that's basically what we're talking about over here. Even cases today sometimes they bring criminals they switch their clothes out of the prison clothes into regular clothes. Of course they always a suit and this and a tie. You show up to a judge all the lawyers are wearing ties and this and you show up with something on your t-shirt. It's It's not good. It's not It's the biggest criminals, the the biggest rash, they have tattoos coming down their face and they're wearing the tie and it's like doesn't it doesn't pass so much. But okay, listen. His whole neck is full of this and he's wearing a tie. Yeah, exactly. That's the news. What did I say? Oh. It's worth a hundred. They tell the wealthy guy. You can't have an advantage. You have a choice. Give him you buy him clothes. That's the last thing you want to do. Yeah. Like uh you hate this guy. This guy owes you money. He's been schleing. You're going to buy him now new suit and new shoes. Prada shoes. I'd rather wear than to to buy him a new wardrobe. says over here said we saymem says let's go let's have a let's have a let's go says cuz we we have so our our clothing you our clothing is is red it's full of sin so you tell let's go to if we go to you're going to have to give us white clothing you're going to have to give us the pure oh so then we don't have a den would say, "Get rid of the get rid of your shoes. Get rid of your fancy MDY socks." No, nobody has an advantage over here. You have to gold toe socks. That's it. They come in with the simple socks. Nothing nothing. You're not allowed to hear what the guy has to say beforehand. Why? Because again, it's going to give the guy an advantage. You're going to hear it in a different way because we know the concept of going to say it again. You act differently in front of the guy that you borrowed money from. All of a sudden, you you're one-on-one with the with the judge. You're going to start saying things that are not so true. Does it Don't listen to the other guy. There's a story with sal. They bring a guy in bleeding and broken bones. His friends bring him in said, "Look, look what Ruven did to this guy. The Rub the RV needs to do something about it. The should of him." Okay. So, he tells this guy, he says, "Go look for Ruven." They find Reuben on the floor. They're doing uh um resuscitation. The other guy, the guy that came through beat the other guy much more. Like, you have to know the story. You have to know both sides. You can't just hear, "Okay, yeah, he's bleeding." The other guy has 20 more broken bones. CPR, don't don't tell the dian the story and make it all good. Cuz again the the guy the guy in front of is going to say he's going to say it differently than if he says it in front of his bel says the so in the it says means don't you it's talking to the don't accept don't accept things that are that are false. So he learns it. You could you could put a a under the don't cause the dian to say stuff. There's one iss on the dian himself to to accept and there's on you the plaintiff the the the litigant to to to make it easier for the dian to make a mistake. You shouldn't cause it. You didn't do good within your nation. What's we had it a few times? You hear you see this? It's you. It means power of attorney. Not so much like we have today, but a power of attorney. In other words, don't represent somebody else in court. The Baldin himself has to show up. So, Rashi explains why. says you're fighting a fight that's not yours. But maybe the the real guy, the original, he's he's a easier kind of guy and he'll he'll give in. He'll make some sort of compromise. First of all, this guy doesn't have the right so much to to to to make a deal. He's just coming there to to fight. We want the original says he's a tough character. He's a real, you know, he knows how to scream in bezant. What are you laughing? Says in certain situations, you have to know the situation. Don't be a It says in the Gmorrah, don't be a don't don't take power there. Sometimes when a guy's in another country, he's in Africa and he can't come to Bezon, you do do a power attorney. Sometimes the guy can't whatever for whatever the reason, it's a mitzvah what you're doing. But in general, you should show up to Bez and don't let somebody else come for you. This bunnies the advisel is not to be a d in Tel Aviv. Rather, you should go to toat. Why? He said invat they don't really have money back then at least to to hire a tyani an attorney. So in Tel Aiv where they have more money you're going to have you're not going to be able to think the way you want to think. You're going to have other people you know convincing you otherwise. It's better for for for a straight D to go to to go to. So that's not good. Don't buy real estate that had that's contested that people are fighting over it. A true story where a guy had a a a piece of land in Tel Aiv also Tel Aiv guys in the back was that you're the guy from No way. Stand up and say you don't have to come all the way over here. I just want to see you. What's your name? Multi seagull. Singer. Singer. This sadic come over here. M. Come on. Come here. Come here. You got to come over here for a second. You come. He he he he took a bus last week. I don't know what he did now. You came now from He came a few days ago. He learns in bells in took a a 2-hour bus from to and a 1-hour bus from to here. sat in the and then went back to I got back at two in the morning you come now for coming six hours 9 hours the whole thing round trip said you live on this block and you don't even come and this guy's nine hours he traveled unbelievable thank you so much all right so and your friend what's your friend what's your name oh really younger. Okay. Who else? What's your name? I'm not new. You're kind. He says you knew. Oh. Oh, the guy next to you. What's your name? Omos. Omos. From Switzerland. And where do you live now? Leora. You slept. We're working at Bra. It's a work in progress. We'll get there. We'll get there. Valdic. No, he's not. He's not move. All right. Started saying something. Oh, what did I start saying? Oh, so the guy the guy had a plot of land. And you know what happens if you leave a piece of land open? All of a sudden, this guy builds a little bit of a caravan inside. This guy puts a bedroom in there. Kids are it became half the size. So at the VA, his daughter's vart, he says, "I want to give my daughter and the new Hassan this plat of land." Just this is a few issues. It could have been worth a lot more. And uh so so one of the guests there says, "Don't worry about it. Where is it? I'll take care of it." So he shows up like the next day or whatever at 11:00 in the morning. Shows up with four bulldozers and they start ripping down sheds and buildings and any room that that extended into the plot, knocked down. Of course, the cops show up. But he says, "Okay, so Sumi, go take this." He says, "Well, you're going to start going to court with these guys who did something illegal, came into your land. It's going to take 20 years. First, you knock down and then you ask cautious later and then he paid for a bed and, you know, a piece of furniture." This I'm not giving advice. Of course, don't start knocking down people's houses. Now, my wife's cousin, Mashir Bamesh, the uh father, her father-in-law is is like a big real estate guy. He shows up. He says, "Why did a guy build right in front of your doorway this whole thing?" He says, "I don't know. We tried to talk to him and he's not he came with a he he rented a little Bobcat right down." The guy was scream scream. Sorry. It's mistake. Just knocked it down my door. What? Not giving advice. Anyways, oops. So, don't buy a piece of land that's contested. Even though you think that you could get away with it, you you're strong. And it says in the Mishna doesn't work with somebody that's related to you. It doesn't work with women. It has to be people that that could testify. And then the mission repeats and it only works with somebody that's available to to testify. So what did you just add? A king who he's good. He's not he's not your relative. He's not. He's not a but he's a king. And for king we have a special. What do we have the that king cannot forgive his own honor. Will need somebody who's who acts at least bigger and better than everybody else. You can't belittle him and say come to court and testify about a traffic accident. It comes to exclude somebody that gambles that that that plays with dice which is so certainly if if somebody that that's a gambler can't doesn't is not in the parish of this is certainly not a king. If somebody say you say that a king can't that's because it's the he could testify why either because you don't really want to give the money when you bet and you gamble and by you taking the money you're stealing is because a person who gamles a lot of times doesn't have a real life he's not he's not doing something productive with his life so let's say a person is is a doctor and he has a gambling problem at night. So according to the second it's okay he's not why cuz he's he just has a gambling problem. So, so here very very simple. If a person on his own swears on his own outside of Bezdon, you hear this outside of Bez on his own. Is it awes but you yourself swore? There's something called here. Let me remind a lot. I didn't believe that people didn't see this last night. Most of the people didn't even see this. You ask your friend to watch your goldfish. Okay. You come back and your friend says, "I don't know what you're talking about." So he swears Yes sir. So you have to swear this is very very simple. We don't know anything about your own swearing. All we have in the Tory by that's our pericus when somebody makes you swear that you know testimony about something that you witnessed a car accident you witness a guy going through a red light the talks about bezdon and somebody else makes you make it the doesn't talk about yourself making the I don't know and outside of but in I'm going to show you a chart it's going to be super simple in we do have that we have both we have and Where is it? Outside of bez. So we have a very simple shila here. One thing is certain because the p says this is called sha. Yeah. This button doesn't work. So I need your help. It says by you see the bottom is talking about the top is talking about. So we have we're going to learn one from the other and the other from the other. We're going to go from the from the top to the bottom from the bottom to the top. We're going to learn one from each both ways. So in picadan we know when a person swears himself it's a it's aw where did he do the outside of bezdon. Now here's the question. When I learn the top from the bottom, do I only learn one concept? The person who swears by himself that's considered where that I don't need that I'll learn for myself. I learn from the top where only indar language anybody remember or It's traumatic. These are these these words cause trauma, but it's the simplest idea. So, let me just show you how simple it is. Here we go. It says two ideas. First of all, a person swears on his own. You see the guy with a microphone by himself. He decided, I swear I don't I didn't see anything by a red light. Where does this take place? That's already a subcategory where the the the technicalities where it happened the talks about outside of so when I say I learn everything from and I bring it over to it looks like this I learn both things very simple what does it mean when I say I learn one thing I'm going to learn goes like this only this now where did it happen not in like I'm going to learn the of from the Torah talks about in only the doesn't mention anything so it looks like this that's just continue let's do the whole now I have the exact opposite I don't know anything about other people All the Torah talks about is as we saw before. How do I know in the idea of other people making you swear? Where did it happen? Oh happened only in so I'm going to learn both. I'm going both directions. I could go either way. Or if I say it's the same but comes out backwards because one is and one is so I'm only going to learn where did it happen outside of yeah over here it's outside of the same we're going to say it's we're learning okay but that's the whole these scary words are it's a very very simple concept I I believe I don't know for sure I think if I would have started reading so people start falling asleep then now I think we could fly through the what's the source of soar says do we learn both from one one place or we only learn from but we stay with the original place and we learn the the rest of from the original here. We have two and says we learn both two things just like another person could how do you say not inflict awah um impose awah something like that on somebody else. So too in our in our sug and and we also learn another thing what do I say? [Music] That's why we have the two according to we have both. No, we only learn one and we stay right there. So we go like this and now we just bring the from within which is only inside says in the Learning of the DA in honor of our son's colony learning center global making answering great again questions anatomist in honor of said who told you that they're doing a who told you they're doing I have a much simpler way to learn this this is one of the easiest in the entire sh if you could invoke a me then I could do it to myself. I can make my own. I could swear for myself. I don't need your help. If somebody can and once I learn that's also a Muslim in I just from the source what's the source I'm learning if somebody else can so too I could but wait a minute the source says it must be inside So I learned it from there. So I I can't be greater and better than him only inside not outside. Okay. So that's that's his learning. So they say to him and this we did already. Wait a minute. But you agree to me that you have to go the other way. Yeah. We're gonna learn, check this out. We're gonna learn I'm sorry. We're going to learn from that that you ask him that there's a do we learn both or only one. So if you're already masking in that you should be masking in this. So you don't need we're going back to this. What do you mean they don't argue in that? They do argue it says we're going to have a couple it applies even women non- relatives relative even relatives even people that are gamblers all these things and if you do it if you invoke the yourself even outside of and if it's from others you're inside. Even sorry even outside of how did they learn it? They must have learned it from this. No, they must have said that is outside of so even though I'm learning from I did this I learned from but I'm not going to take all the from I'm going to learn from itself from within. How do they know? Don't they learn it from? Yes. In our we wanted to learn from in that learn from and we are going so in our also so why you are you ignoring that fact and you're pretending that there's something new called so is a very interesting answer once in a while you see this answer says in you're 100% right I agree with you on we talk about and but in in our don't tell me that you can prove it from our because I could say our right in general there is in you cannot prove it definitively from our we go let's go at least to the so this is a a tremendous in the I shouldn't say shass it's in the where in the do you find in another place where somebody does something deliberately And he has to bring it says the word he forgot. He didn't know it doesn't mention it. What you do deliberately which you forgot you you made a mistake. What's the mistake? You knew that that you know testimony. You saw that you witnessed the car accident. You know it says in theory you have to testify. So what was your mistake? I know what I'm doing is wrong. I just didn't realize I have to bring a car. That's considered a another bomb. And if you by mistake didn't know, you thought that you didn't witness a car accident but in fact you did. That was the miso famous that we'll remember for the rest of our life two argued what h what did Rav say in cheer and each one swore that that's what the rebi said one of them was lying and then they went to Rav rebi who did you say like and he pointed at one of them Rafan ori I said like him so the other one went crazy what I I so I swore falsely he says no your heart fooled you so you see a fortune mission that if you thought You didn't see accident but you did nothing. Zero. You don't bring a carbon. So why were they what? They didn't know even though it says over there it's slightly different. We just established say this doesn't say the word vanilla doesn't talk about. So the beginning it has to be sim has to be similar to something by regular was beat like it says and you forgot. So I would think they're in that category a little bit he is a little bit that even them at all have a great day tonight at 12 at 10. Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor Ashir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor at mdy.com.