Desperately Holding On To EMUNAH - Jewish HaShkafa PART (3)

[Music] bashem we're here in P 5780 uh 2020 for the and uh continuing all of our um we're going to continue the uh series we uh started recently about uh thef the uh Jewish ideology uh and really what um what we're supposed to think where uh when you learn about this topic sometimes it could uh initially uh get you down because you realize how far you are from what we're supposed to be but at the same token this is uh the same case with anything in life do you try to Aspire for if you ever uh in a uh other things in life you aspire to do something good whether it be business or it be anything else you read let's say about the success stories you realize you're very very far away from where you're you know where you want to be but uh don't let the fool you into thinking that way because generally speaking if you want a success you want to read about success you want to learn about success because you have to know what to Aspire to be uh today the sh will be for a for Le David benis Bora D Mercedes Esther Bora and all of will have uh the um situation in the world today obviously is uh uh Stranger Than Ever to say uh I guess is a an interesting way of describing it because if you look around uh you know it's a uh you have a uh mix a mix reaction to what's going on on one end you see a large part of people are reacting to the Corona virus and the uh horrific situation at hand with massive hysteria uh people are simply panicking uh some for the right reason some for the wrong reason uh you know you're you're seeing people uh you know whether it be government officials or it be regular individuals people just simply panicking uh but then it could be literally right next to them and even in the same house the next person was acting like everything's okay uh like there's really nothing nothing to be afraid of everything's okay uh okay there's risks out there but uh okay there's always risks and it's strange to say the least because we've never seen we've never seen in our lifetime uh such a mix reaction to anything you know I uh walked around with my kids over the last few days and you know uh there's uh cars on a road and you see people inside their own cars wearing masks and they're by them themselves it's not like they're with somebody and you know they maybe they're afraid of the other person no they're actually inside their own car and they're wearing a mask like if you can't be safe in your own car don't leave the house but then you see people walking around the streets forget the mask they don't wear clothes it's very strange you see how uh there's such a different uh reaction between the two people one guy's you can say oh yeah but he's a doctor okay but if he's a doctor then he should also have the brain cells to know to wear the mask when he's leaving the car not inside the car if you need the mask inside the car then it's too dangerous at the same token you're seeing that the uh numbers are in increasing in the United States disproportionately to the rest of the world uh last count there was over a half a million people in the United States diagnosed Hashem ismo uh with this virus uh but that's only because it's a half a million only because those are the amount of people that were diagnosed with it it doesn't mean that that's the amount of people that actually have it uh one uh expert said that whatever number they post online multiply by 11 which you know you're talking about uh 52 million people actually have this virus according to that uh expert and uh the number is approaching 2 million people worldwide but anyone that you know is going to use their own logic or perhaps knows a few people that live outside of his house knows that that 2 million is a is a lie and the reason why is because you know that there is in other countries they're not reporting the numbers the same way that they're reporting in the US they're not reporting the numbers the same way they're reporting in the uh Israel uh in some cases they're not reporting the numbers for example my uh close contacts in India are telling me that they're shutting down the country and they're not expecting uh people to leave their house they're forbidding anyone from leaving their house for another month now but if you look at the statistics and how many people are infected in India it looks like wow the virus didn't even hit it there there a thousand people are sick why are they so why is the whole country shut down with 1,000 people being sick that's because it's a lie my contacts in India telling me there are millions of people there sick Millions because their leader pretty much uh reacted in a in a way that was the opposite of what the rest of the world did acted like everything was great and no nothing's going to hurt them and they could uh worship their false gods in order to solve this problem by making noise in the middle of the night or lighting a candle all types of Witchcraft that they have and uh until he realized oh it's not working and there are millions of people sick so now they're going from one extreme to the other and they're not letting anyone leave the house even including to go buy food and if you want to buy food you have to buy you know you have to pay 10 times the price so if you if it cost your a piece of bread cost you 50 cents now it's going to cost you $5 dollar problem is not only did income not go up income went down for everybody so how you going to afford food in the US unfortunately the price gouging is happening everywhere also uh Myan showed me today that that publ they uh uh someone did a compare an apple before the virus was a uh you know less than a dollar now it's $6 for an apple for an apple it's going to cost you $6 so this leads me logically to the next to this conclusion which I mentioned to you last week which is that whether they are going to admit it on their own that there is going to be no cure to this virus anytime soon or they're going to be forced to admit it uh one way or the other the the the solution the they have right now is not going to last much longer um you know now there's a uh expert that uh came out one of the people that's actually working on the virus on a cure for it he says and a vaccine he says this uh you know public statements that they're making that they're going to come up with some type of vaccine uh new vaccine within the next few months or or some type of uh uh you know a cure for it within the next couple years he says that's fair fairy tales he's the guy that actually supposedly he is one of the experts of the last big virus which was SARS he's supposed to be part of the team that came up with something for it um again don't quote me on these uh thing this is just something that I saw uh now he's saying that historically speaking and based on just uh uh his own expertise if they come up with a cure with in 5 years it'll be a miracle he says usually it takes 20 years to come up with a cure so we're back to what we said in the movie that was published today by a short movie that gave meuk uh in the beginning of the movie it says that there's no cure that's going to be found by human being for this virus no cure and it's not going to be a cure what's the cure chuva is a cure chuva is a cure problem is not everybody wants to take this cure they want to pay for one with money so is going to make them pay with money but just different ways he doesn't need their money so he's just going to take money from people until they wake up and the market crash that's going to come and the economic crisis that's going to come uh far beyond what's what's happened so far is going to be part of it but more so it's going to be a situation where you're going to have people taking things into their own hands which initially could cause Mayhem so what's my uh rationale say that uh and they're talking about it also in and I spoke about it with my today he agrees that uh this current solution that they have which is pretty much just uh you know keeping everybody like little Lab Rats inside until this thing goes away is not going to last very long and the reason why is because right now there's this irrational fear of this virus which again of course there are people dying there are people sick the the former just died a few hours ago uh you know it's a uh the problem is there it's not like a fairy tale it's not like some people oh it's a conspiracy no one it's it's happening it's bad it's not it's not a good situation does it really warrant the type of reaction I don't know but what I do know is that keeping everybody inside like labrats is not going to work very much longer and the reason why is because everyone eventually is going to do a a needless to say an accounting in their head and say okay listen not everybody that goes outside gets sick and not everybody that gets sick dies so even if I go outside and even if somebody gets the uh you know uh infected it's not guaranteed that he's going to die some people get it and then there's a nothing happens to them nothing at all they don't even go to hospital I have a few people that I know the whole family got it nothing and may continue staying that way several people they got it nothing changed they got diagnosed with it confirmed yeah you have it yeah but I feel okay you feel okay we don't know why you feel okay and there a bunch of cases like that so not everybody that goes outside gets infected and even the ones that get infected not everybody dies and even the ones that get infected and get sick again they don't die and people are going to do this accounting in their head but on the other hand after not working for two months I'm out of money I saved up enough money to to live let's say for a month two months if you're middle class two months maybe three if you have a business zero why if you're a business owner there's no such thing as saving money you're living month-to month as a business owner everybody thinks there's the glory of the business owner the glory of the business owner died why business closed the bills continued so you got to continue paying the bills so the business owners are going to be the first ones to fall and then the employees that depended paycheck to paycheck they saved up enough money for one two 3 months after that they ran out of money and they also ran out of food that they spent a bunch of money on for the last few months all the the food gatherers they they got all this food they get out of food also because you eat it it doesn't stay forever the food you know so so what happens then he's going to say okay hold on a second if I go outside I may or may not get it and if I get it I may or may not get sick and if I get sick I may or may not die but if I stay home for sure I'm going to die why I'm not going to starve to death I'm just going to starve to death not going to have food and that's when people are simply going to start walking out of their houses with without masks it won't make a difference they're just going to go outside why they got to go to work they got to go make money and that's pretty much my opinion that's what's going to happen very soon month two months Max probably sooner because the economic state is built in such a way the economic system I should say is built in such a way the people have built for themselves a way of life where they have put the carrot in front of themselves and they're constantly chasing it their whole life and they cannot just look at the carrot for 3 months without doing anything about it they have to do something they have to get up why they have to eat they have to eat so what's going to be at that point uh hopefully we've done enough chva to make Hashem have mercy on us and it doesn't get worse and more people get sick and so on uh if we don't then the other shoe is going to drop uh and whatever has happened till now may may get much worse uh but I don't believe anyone that's waiting for some cure anyone that's reading up on all of these uh uh papers that people are publishing left and right about this guy's got a cure and that guy's got a cure and if you do this and if you do that and if you jump up and down if you turn around and you do the hokey pokei and maybe you're going to get a all that stuff you're wasting your time why you have an opportunity to cure yourself what is it chu chu means you change your life and start looking at what instructions that a give you whether Jew or Gentile and start living accordingly if if you're a Jew that means you have to start keeping Shabbat keeping kosher keeping family Purity uh watching your your breed not wasting seed you have to learn tah every day uh not all day not 24 hours a day like people make it think no just learn for an hour two hours a day just to know how to be a Jew if you could do more do more you have to do your business uh uh kosher oh wait but my business is already not Kosher oh not Kosher shut it down yeah but I'm going to lose all my money it's better you lose your money then the reality is is that if if you are still living in la la land thinking that some doctor or some chemist or some guy with a high IQ is going to solve the current epidemic it's a uh you're you're simply living an illusion and you're going to be let down in a very very big way on the other hand the people that are getting stronger with chuva the get people that getting stronger with their connection to hasem from my uh from my understanding of how I see things and the people that that are in touch with me every day they're all in very good shape both physically and mentally now because there's a very high need for chuva uh team hasem is working around the clock to try to produce as much material as possible to reach everyone so uh if anyone a few people have noticed we've been producing a lot of material lately we came out with with for p first time in our in our history he came up with if you tell me that I know was so surprised like when do you guys have time to sleep I said no that that we'll do eventually maybe we'll do that no no one sleeps people don't ask me anymore when do I sleep they ask me where is everybody else on the team sleeps why cuz forget about you you we gave up on what about everybody else anybody else sleep no no everybody's a vampire nobody Sleeps why got to work got to produce stuff so we came up with anyone that read the commentary at the end or in the beginning or both uh there's a lot of uh interesting things there good stories good uh insights and so on so we came up with uh we came up with a bunch of different movies short films that used to take us months to produce one at a time we're on Pace to do almost one a week at least three a month now it's and each one is better than the next uh it's a uh the uh they're getting stronger and stronger they're getting better and better they're getting clearer and clearer some things that we said recently some things that we said a long time ago are being taken into uh and put in on film uh with different production that's uh giving the the right people theuk but another thing that uh we came up with today was also we launched a few more channels uh for our brothers around the world uh I think it was last week we launched our uh Spanish YouTube channel and Facebook page where uh different uh volunteers uh God bless them they uh took their time which I can tell you from my own personal experience putting subtitles subtitles on movies or on on lectures is a tedious nightmare it takes a million years I don't know how they did it I know when I was working on it for for Hebrew and I wasn't even doing the whole thing I was just doing the editing the editing forget about the person that did the actual thing I don't know how how they did it in one lifetime the editing of the Hebrew of my personal movie took me like 40 50 hours just editing not the actual writing itself and you have these and doing it in different languages it's unbelievable to me not just the movie and different things different movies different sh different short clips so I believe it was about a week ago two weeks ago we launched a Spanish channel uh so anyone that is a uh speaks Spanish as a first language knows people that speak Spanish is the first language get on the WhatsApp group get on the Facebook group that's specifically for that because you'll have uh different CH that have that and it's again it's the shim it's me speaking with the subtitles on the bottom uh and they've done a very very uh good job doing it uh but if that wasn't enough we have sadim in other languages also today we launched Portuguese uh Portuguese Channel Portuguese uh Facebook page and uh also uh German and um what was what else was there there uh Korean is coming hopefully tomorrow Korean Korean uh then we have French French was launched today a French channel uh French Korean German uh Portuguese Spanish and I'm forgetting one I think uh Portuguese french Portuguese french German Korean Spanish if I remember it I'll tell you uh so another handful of channels in different languages and also they're translating some of the other material we have like for example if you are a Jew you want to uh do the blessing of a the blessing that I keep telling you guys theal tell us this is the Gula this is the cure this is a special cure for any health issue we published one already for the last couple years we've given out tens of thousands of copies for free of this poster uh we have one side is ashkanazi one side is a safari n in a very nice PL uh poster and we've literally you know sent this out to all four corners of the world we just sent another 900 of them to uh to Canada uh for anyone that wants to give out a 100 uh or 200 uh to their Community let us know we still have a few left um so this this specific zul saying the blessing of is written in the books by many people uh whether it be uh the or be uh the prophet job or many have discussed the significance of seeing a by not by memory by rather by actually reading it because you have much more focus and uh so anyway one of the a few of theim translated this poster into uh their language so it's now in German and also in Spanish you can download it for free on our website and print it we don't have it printed in a on a poster but you could download it and print it hang it on your wall and have it next to your bathroom because when you uh relieve yourself as many times as necessary throughout the day the very least you can do is thank AEM that your body works uh and I promise you the people that have are sick or have been sick uh know how valuable uh that ability is uh and that's actually one of the things that the Kish discusses in today's Shu uh where if we simply understood the mechanics of our body the word atheism would become some some of a curse to us the the the notion of lack OFA would become an embarrassment to us if we just understood the mechanics of our body so we're trying to publicize the into all languages just as who told M to translate the Tor into 70 languages if you guys remember told specifically to inscribe and engrave the Tor on stones on special stones in 70 languages why why 70 Lang what's what everybody over there spoke Hebrew everybody over there spoke HEB what are you going to inscribe it for for who said for the next Generations next gener Generations could be a bunch of that also need to learn to but also as a knows the past present and future it could also be a bunch of Jews that are going to be in the four corners of the world and as you know right now the Jews are literally in the four corners of the world there's not a corner in the world that you're not going to find Jews in some places more in some places less but nonetheless you're always going to find Jews everywhere whether it be in India or in China or in Australia or in America or Canada or Brazil or Chile or uguay uh Korea anywhere literally you could find Jews in every corner in the world andh says those Jews have to thank me have to glorify my name have to serve me regardless of which corner in the world they are in there are literally millions of Jews that are not even on the charts in in Africa right now as we speak there's a place called bfra and it's also in Nigeria different places where there's literally millions of Jews there one of the times we uh sent packages over there with a bunch of our CDs and AAR posters and so on uh was a very big investment for us and uh we sent it to because the guy that was over there sadik that was over there says yeah I'm going to give it to my uh local community I have he says I have five synagogues in Nigeria I didn't even know there's any Jews in Nigeria so as soon as it was published somebody from there contacted me he goes ah hi Rabbi ruin listen uh can you send us some stuff too I said I just sent I just made a huge investment sent it over there no one's paying for this stuff hasm is paying for it you know it's a uh you know usually the ones that want to beim don't have money it goes two and two go together uh so I said I don't have I sent already I sent a bunch of stuff over there he said yeah but it's not enough what do you mean it's not enough I sent you guys thousands of dollars worth of stuff he says listen there's over a hundred synagogues just here in this area said 100 synagogues with [Music] people 100 synagogues I don't even know there's any Jews in Nigeria he says there over 100 synagogues there now you when people say yeah there's 15 20 million Jews in the world they're not counting the people in bafra and in Nigeria they're not counting them they don't even know they're there [Music] there are literally Jews in the four corners of the world and is going to give everybody a chance so we have to do our job our job is to continue publishing more and more emit more and more Tora and try our best to find kind hearts that uh are willing to make the sacrifice whether it be monetary sacrifice or time or skill to translate the sh public ize the sh share the sh share the videos everywhere they possibly can in order to get more and more people to learn it because as you obviously know the world is not the same most likely won't return to be what it was before this virus I don't necessarily think it's the end of the world uh but uh surely people are going to uh you know some people at least are going to act differently some even say that handshakes are going to be frowned upon moving forward you know it's become a uh you know very uh uh normal behavior that when you meet somebody you shake their hand uh people say now that after this virus thing is is over with uh people are going to frown upon sh handshakes because of what's happened and you know the funny thing is I actually heard from Shani that one of theim I don't remember the name one of theim says that handshakes is inappropriate anyway doesn't think it's appropriate for men or men men women obviously men are not allowed to shake hands with women even for the ones that say there's an there's a leniency if it's of power in reality everybody knows you shouldn't do it men and women shouldn't do it handshakes but men and men some of the are of the opinion not all of them some of the of the opinion you shouldn't do it at all why for what what purpose and you'll see many times I was actually a little bit uh surprised this when I went to years ago and you know we were in a alov over there and I met some people and they wouldn't shake hands like not that they wouldn't do it if you shook the hand it's just it was unusual to them what do you want what like you're going You're American you know American Jew like you know and the guy oh okay yeah shake your hand you give you like a it's almost like he's giving you a f like okay okay over there if you're sapharic they give you like a give you a nice like hug or something it's the shaking hand thing it's very americanish but point is some of the of the opinion it shouldn't be done at all funny story Side Story you know the reason why the uh you're not allowed to a man is not allowed to shake a woman's hand is uh in case that that handshake will give him thoughts give him thoughts of the woman and so on uh you know the man's mind doesn't work the same as the woman's mind as much as the woman wants wants the man's mind to work the same it's never going to work the same it's just never going to be she looks at a guy thinks about his personality he looks at her and he looks at a piece of meat that's just the way it is that's just the reality doesn't matter who what when and how that's just the way it is women will never understand that men it is what it is now knew this knew this says you're not allow touch a woman in fact you're not even allowed to stare at her if she's not your wife you have to watch your eyes so but there is a lean y if she's very unattractive and she happens to be in a position of power where if you don't shake her hand it could create problems so there's a famous story about Shalom one time he got an award early early on he got an award for his book for his which was a miracle of its own how Zionist state would give an award to a rabbi for his book so anyway uh so they wanted to honor him for this book of how how much wisdom was in this book and hisim it was unbelievable and uh they invited him to this uh you know this a kenis what is a kenis kenis is like a like a symposium or some type of uh uh event to honor him and golden which was the prime minister at the at the time she you know she came to to shake his hand and uh he didn't shake her hand no no I don't shake hand to a woman she got really offended so when he reached out to shake the hand of the uh of the man that was there I forget who he was as a comeback he was also a Zionist zift yeah no no I don't shake hands I don't shake hands with rabbis okay don't shake hands he went on stage so now other people saw this you know tamim saw this and it was embarrassment you know for people don't understand T they don't realize he's doing them a favor by not shaking their hand but anyway after they said I don't understand isn't there that say that the leniency in regards to shaking the hand of a woman you know if she's in a position of power and this he says listen even if there's in a tail of someone in a position of power and even if there's an a tail for a really really ugly woman like her I'm still not going to shake a hand he says there's no chance in the world that I could ever get a thought inappropriate thought of that ugly woman I'm still not going to shake a hand they're not going to shake needless to say you know when when you're in business and is its normal conduct so anyway that's the mind of a Jew that's the mind of a Jew that loves and knows that there's a time uh to uh be stringent there's a time to be lenient there's a time to do this there's a time to do that our goal is to get to that mindset or at the very least try our best try our best to get there now the Kish last week or the last time we did a sh about this the first two parts of this uh series he told us about the body how the body is a uh if you want to refine your if you want to refine yourself first and foremost you have to think about your body and understand that if you are aspiring to refine your character traits you have to be free of any bodily desire meaning you cannot be aroused angry uh sad depressed uh or any of these types of extreme emotions and think that you're going to be able to elevate yourself spiritually your body has to be free of these bodily desires at the moment now of course there's a time to be aroused when you're with your wife when you're with your husband surely that's appropriate time if you're not at that time there's something wrong as a uh you know men uh you know are not as difficult women are much more difficult which is actually a problem of its own maybe one day we have to do a second uh sh about to explain to people that Intimacy in a Jewish relationship is extremely important uh without it a Jewish marriage cannot be healthy it cannot be healthy some sometimes you have people that are simply become roommates they live together they eat together they sleep in the same bed together but nothing no feelings whatsoever and it's a nightmare to live in but they don't want to get divorced because of the kids because of the embarrassment because of the community now the truth is Judaism also doesn't want them to get divorced but it doesn't want them to stay married that way either and it's very very important to know that there's a time in place that you have to act like like a husband and wife now if men understood if men understood that the mind of a woman is different and women understood the mind of a man is different and acted accordingly life would be much simpler the problem is that everyone compares the other part the other gender to each other to themsel and that's a problem the guy is expecting the wife to act like him so he talks to her like hey what's up what's going on what' you do today I oh okay talk to you later no I love you you no muchi muchi no little hog no little nothing no no romance no nothing no flower last flower we got it was for the wedding 20 years ago why I got her a flower she had one I got her one already she has one it died 20 years ago like the love in your relationship died nothing no romance he doesn't understand a woman needs romance she needs it he does also but she needs it even more he's romantic relationship is not going to go anywhere no no we're good no we're good on the other hand the woman thinks that the guy could be her girlfriend and she could talk his ear off until he's blue in his face not going to work why if he's talking so much most likely he's homosexual if he doesn't want to stop talking most likely he he became your girlfriend became your girlfriend guys are not talkative unless they have a problem like me don't stop talking gave you a gift of talking but generally speaking seriously guys are not going to talk about the same things as women it's just not going to work it's that's not the way it is now a guy you can get his attention with different things and you have to understand that in order for him to be the husband you want him to be you have to be with him you have to be with him now even though it's not an obligation on the woman to be with the man It's actually an obligation for the man to be with the woman a woman cannot play a Nazi in the bedroom where she pretty much no no it's a uh he uh he didn't say this he didn't say that he didn't act perfect the last month no I'm not going to talk to him for six months you're you're Wicked Woman you starve your husband that way you're Wicked Woman why because you have to understand a man has different types of physical needs a woman does also but for a man thear says if his wife keeps bring raises his children and keeps him away from sin meaning the sin of wasting seed she's considered an the way word she's considered the best woman in the world greatest woman in the world why she has to raise his kids make sure they're not becoming a become make sure they learn make sure do they they respect the parents and so on and she keeps them away from sin those two things doesn't say if she cooks she cleans she has the best nothing she does those two things she's an which means what means if she doesn't do those two things she's the opposite of even though she's not obligated she's not obligated like the man needless to say she's not a good woman she's not a good woman why because she has to understand he has physical needs now would surprise many women that she actually needs to be with a husband even more than he needs with her spiritually why because there's a certain thing that happens spiritually when the man and a woman are together that gives to our soul talks about it gives to her soul when they're not together she's stressed out she doesn't know what's going on Angry stingy they all the worst things in the world so the point is is that the T talked to us about family Purity not just to let us know when not to be together the Torah is not just about what not to do it's also to bring light of what to do there's a time not to be together and there a time you have to be together for example mik night obligation to be together obligation my love told me he said listen uh you need to know family Purity we learned family Purity I said yeah but I asked the question I said listen right now you know I give shim at the time it was three people in a shield it wasn't exactly some big audience but I said L listen what if like a a big Rabbi I don't know name it name a big Rabbi has thousands of people and uh coming toim and it happens to be that he scheduled this sh thousand people are supposed to show up and happens to be mik night happens to be M night so without without losing a breath says he has to cancel the shoe no no no hold on I have to ask the question again hold on a second Rabbi listen listen to me is biggest Rabbi in the world he doesn't need you to tell him what to do he knows what to do right has every one of his lectures 5,000 people 10,000 people 20,000 people we're not talking about little five people we're talking about thousands happens to be he doesn't he planned it six months in advance right happens to be as the K runs the world 5,000 people are showing up to a place but it's going to be mik night which means that by the time he comes back from the sh 10 11 12 you know 1:00 in the morning she may fall asleep she may be sleeping already without losing her breath says he has to cancel the Sho no Sho I said yeah what about the 10,000 people he goes let them go somewhere else but they're waiting they they doesn't make a [Music] difference don't make me he told me don't start making to me [Music] that's how powerful family Purity is to show us it's not just about when not to be together it's about the power of how important it is to be together on that day and the rambam goes into it he says a regular doesn't know much every day he has to be with his wife if he wants to be she wants to be they together everything's good every day someone learns needs a strength and so on he could be okay with once or twice a week it's enough shouldn't do it every day why he's not going to have strength he shouldn't act like an and so on but the point is is that that relationship that you have with your wife that relationship that you would have with your husband is so critical that if people only knew and understood it there would simply never be a divorce there would never be guys calling me texting me emailing me at 2 3:00 in the morning listen Rabbi I need your help how am going to stop wasting seed I said get married he goes I'm married already 15 years I married 20 years I got three kids I said how come you wasting seed he goes no my wife doesn't want to be with me I said for a week two weeks oh no I haven't been with it in six [Music] months I told the what she she she's a she's a she's doesn't believe in God goes no she has rush and everything she come our face too become um different religion what's matter with you it's very very important when it comes to Jewish ideology to know it's not just about what's not allowed it's about what you're supposed to do that's what you're supposed to do these things are very very important why because you're seeing unfortunately now that the Jewish World never had a divorce problem divorce was a problem that the go had whether those guim were really go or Jews that acted like go secular Jews divorce was never really a problem for Jewish people but now it's becoming a problem religious Jews have a problem he's cheating she's cheating why are you cheating why do you need to cheat if you fck follow the instructions every month is gedin every month is honeymoon if you follow the instructions to the tea like it says in Al you don't touch you don't hug you don't this when you're not supposed to and then when you're supposed to you do if you follow it to a ke every single month is M like the day you got [Music] married but what happens people they listen to Manis fredman they may listen to they listen to the guys that wrote books with pornography stars because they want to learn about sexuality from because some zon was intimate with as many men as she can count so wrote a book with her he figured she's the [Music] expert and they so you have people with long beards writing books about this subject and confusing people even more you don't need to learn these books very simple follow follow you'll have the best life best marriage in history if the guy watches his eyes if he watches his mouth if he learns Torah if she learns Torah if they if they do everything they're supposed to you will never see one Jewish house with a divorce never you won't even see a house with a fight that's how beautiful it is but what happens when we start mixing our own yet driven ideology and mix and match it like a like a Shaka with the Jewish ideology and call it Jewish we get confused so the K is trying to do us a very big he's trying to elaborate and clarify what does it mean a Jewish ASF a Jewish ideology what does it mean so first he started is listen to me if you want to elevate your n you have to start getting control of your bodily desires there's a time and a place for everything a time and a place for everything you're allowed at this point you're not allowed at this point it may not make sense to you but it doesn't make a difference not everything has to make sense to you you don't really know how radio waves work but you still use a phone you don't know how the X-ray machine works but if you need to use it you're going to use it you don't know how the medicine works but you're still going to take it if you have to stop trying to understand everything trust the they understand trust the experts anyone that tries to understand everything ends up understanding nothing there's a certain time and place where you just say you know what this what it says finished why if this genius said it's good I'm just going to rely on him just like you rely on your local doctor just like when you rely on your local pharmacist just like you rely on a teacher just like you rely on every other profession our sages were Geniuses in all aspects anyone that learned some of the history about some of our sages and the genius that they had just in their personal lives things they've achieved would say I don't understand how how come this is not known by everyone in the world people used to call the Kish in the middle of surgery surgery the doctor just came out he said that there is a problem and they have to do a one of two options option A is to cut over here in the brain option b is to cut over here in the brain the doctors are confused at why we're calling our Rabbi but we needed your help K would tell him listen tell your doctor option A is going to him option b is going to debilitate him so both options are no good I'm going to give you option success what's option success he starts giving them step bystep instructions of what to tell the surgeon of where to cut in the brain they come back with instructions not once not twice not three times they come back with instructions to the the surgeon world renown surgeon said listen uh here's the instructions what you supposed to do with with my husband with my father yeah the surgeons were baffled it's like who's who's this who's this genius wow we never even thought about this who who came up with this what doctor he goes not Doctor Who Is He it's a rabbi what medical school did he study in he never went to school he never went to school he didn't go to university what do you mean how you didn't go to how does he know these he knows know to isn't it to talks about everything to talks about everything everything there is a I'm sorry there's a mishna that uh discusses different parts of the body in detail in because they need to know when a person dies different parts of the body and so on and it goes into the details and details of the smallest things investigated everything looked at everything there is a page 45a where uh there was a Zona uh prostitute that died and uh they uh investigated her body in order to learn from it uh point is and this is for purposes and the point is is that the investigated everything they're not telling you this is allowed this is not allowed from their own Common Sense they're not let they're not telling you yes you do you should do this and not do this because they thought it's a good idea our T from our Tor the Tor that we have today is a small small microcosm of what Tor is really available and even the microcosm that we have available to us we're not appreciating enough why cuz we think that doctors and the lawyers and the the politicians and the bankers and the the wall streeters and all of these people they know more than the rabbis why cuz the rabbis seem like uh I don't know they they look like they're uh old and out of fashion that's a mistake and one of the things that a person needs to know when he wants to have the right ideology is to know where to get this ideology from and what tools are necessary so the first tool that the K says is you have to make sure that your bodily desires are not controlling you but you are controlling them then he talked about the significance of one of the body parts where we call it the eyes but when we really look into the details of the mechanics of the eye it baffles the world especially the people that are in that industry whether it's from the guys that are making glasses or the people that are doing eye surgery and so on it baffles people how this little balloon is has literly literally endless mechanics that's beyond the scope of our intellect we cannot understand it to understand what we're talking about here it's easier to solve all of your problems that you have ever had and you will ever have and give you $100,000 a month cash more than most people need in their life $100,000 a month forever also put the uh adjust it for inflation too 100,000 maybe in a few years be worth $5 but let's say 100,000 or the equivalent permanently a month solve all your problems it's easier to do that than to create one cell in the human body it's easier to do that than to understand the true significance of a single DNA needless to say it's easier to do that than to understand the beauty of your eye and how complicated it is how it works so the Kish goes further and talks about other body parts now in first chapter section two he says what good is it if the eye can see but this creation known as man is without the power of movement meaning that if this person only had you know I but he couldn't walk around see things and so on what's the point of this eye any normal person thinks about this yeah of course we assumed that if he has an eye he can move other place but no there are certain people they have an eye they can see but they uh they can't do other other things so now the K says that we we were under the assumption that we have an eye we're going to move but it's a mistake there's a certain sadik that taught me a lot of mus I never met him I never talked to him I wish I could but I saw a short video of him that uh taught me enough M that if I could apply to my life every day uh my life will be better for it in fact if everyone could apply to their life every day it would uh change their life drastically this sadik several years ago he got a sickness that is simply not only not curable but it deteriorates it's day after day and he started losing control of his muscles of his entire body and he simply had no control of his body he got to the point where he could not move anything in his body other than his eyes now all of you right now listening to this feel bad for him I promise you he feels bad for you why does he feel bad for you because he was at the several months ago because he completed the sh he completed the sh how where his eyes it's all he needs they have a special computer computer connected that he has a he learns with and he argues with and all he does all day all night is learn and he completed the the how many people can say that they've completed the sh unfortunately not many why they have excuses oh I'm working oh I'm tired oh I got bills or I got stresses or it's too hard or it's too this or it's too that do you have more problems than him him he has eyes and he complet the sh he made a promise he's going to complete the shot and his own wife and his own kids are testifying to this themselves they're saying listen the only reason he is alive right now is because he does not stop stop studying tah now thear tells us that everyone is going to go up to shamim and all of their excuses are going to be put on okay what did you have how come you didn't complete the sh how come you didn't learn to what do you have oh one guy's going to say oh was really beautiful I was really beautiful all the girls came after me says is going to bring himik was beautiful he was so beautiful his skin was shining shining when he would walk in the streets when the par made him the visoy the women threw their underwear at him please Marry Me Marry Me married women single women everybody pile's wife people think she was some type of uh horrible I don't know troll or something the gar says she was one of the four most beautiful women that ever lived meaning the most beautiful woman in the world today looks like a monkey with hair on his face next to Po's wife and she was willing to die just to be with YF one time his skin was shining but he never sinned going to say to you you more beautiful than yourself let's bring yourself bring yourself here let's see you you look like a troll next to him you look like you have five heads they're going to show your you going get embarrassed you're going to want to bury yourself in the hole put him in put him in G forget forget for forget I I'm embarrassed for the excuse that I had they're going to show you yourik you going to look like a [Music] monster they say oh wait hold on a second I had you know I didn't have any money I didn't have any money I'm going to study tomorrow I have to work they're going to bring you every day would go into the woods cut a piece of wood sell it for one one uh one uh coin give half of it to his family to eat half it to pay for the so he could learn for the day with a with one day it was snowing he couldn't cut the wood he came to the BET mid and the bouncer over there says I'm sorry he Le you cannot go inside you have no money you know those days you have to pay not like today the people you have to pay people to come to the sh those you have to pay the the the mid no $15 over there you have to pay $15 more anyway not allowed he let says what do you mean not allowed okay not allow I'm not allowed to go inside no problem I still have to learn to so what he do he climbed the roof he cled the roof of the of the BET mid to listen to the sh of of of as rabbis through the glass he was sew into the Sho the snow is falling on him to the extent where it covered him completely the next day was [Music] Shabbat arrive at the mid and usually does the light of the day you know going into the place from the Dome the glass dome but he said there's no light so they looked up he say oh that looks like a body they ran up they climbed the roof dug him up saw him they violated Shabbat they lit fire to put him to Res to bring back to life it says it's a mitvah it's a to violate Shabbat for tell why you on the roof tell him learning your tor says from now on you learn to with us became became the biggest Rabbi in the world bet that's you had money problems like him did you climb a roof you climbed a roof for for with the snow oh no as soon as you got a little tire you stop studying as soon as the flat tire two weeks ago you sto studying for two more weeks why you trauma so they're going to bring somebody that had no money or somebody had too much money all types of money then say hold on a second no no Rabbi listen I I I didn't have money problems as far as no money I had too much money I too much money I businesses jewelry shop this shop that shop selling masks selling uh guns Walmart I had too much money I was giving money to the rabbi give money to it's good no still obligated to learn T who has time to learn to from making all this money in they're going to bring him razar razar benar was KES kashim could revive the Dead with his Kusa he was the richest man in the land but not rich like today what do you have a billion dollars yeah you're like an employee for him he had cities cities he owned cities he had hundreds of boats hundreds he had employees in every country Warren Buffett would be like a newspaper boy for him that's how much money he had and he still learned T day and night and became one of Theo tell you had more money than him what' you have well you had a little company a couple million dollars maybe you could clean his bathroom with your a couple of million dollars they're going to bring everybody and then they going to say no no somebody was sick somebody was sick oh I didn't feel good oh what what happened your back hurt your leg hurts your head hurts your eyes hurt your head hurt what something hurts okay they're going to bring you this sadik they're going to bring you this they're say look at him all he had was eyes and he finished the sh all he had was eyes eyes that's it that's it you're going to see this video we're going to connect this video to this video you're going to see this video you're going to start crying about yourself how much of a loser we all are why he has eyes and he finished the shot we have a problem finishing par CH Rabbi do I really have to study the par three times or could I just get away with like once RAB can I just like learn your sh and that's it RAB can I play video games while I watch your sh Rabbi can can I eat dinner while I'm while I'm studying Rabbi do I have to listen the whole sh or can I just like you know fast forward like two times on YouTube RAB RAB RAB uh what time is Shabbat coming R is this kosher that rapper is open yeah I ate it already but is it kosher he had eyes he has eyes and he's going to complete the sh again mark my words he's going to complete the sh again we go up to Sham they're going to ask us what excuse did you have what excuse money Beauty what do you have they're going to make him an example in our generation we have this in our generation we have this people always oh yeah but all these stories from a long time ago you have this story from a few months ago I saw this I started crying I wasn't crying for him I was crying for myself I was crying for myself said what a [Music] loser why look at this oh no no you know a lot I know a lot when you know you know you don't know the whole key is not amount of knowledge do key is the toil how he toiled for it I don't care how much he knows I have one guy that learns our he's in I think something like 18 hours a day 18 hours a day he learns T and he watches my sh somehow in between I don't know when he watches my Sho I have another guy just told me that he finished just this last year mid uh and one or two other things I can't remember all in the last 12 months since last PES since last PES and this is not the first time he did it he does it every year already for a few years I told hold on a second when do you have time to learn my shim why do you learn my shim go CU I need to learn M said what when do you have time he goes when I'm making breakfast what I just do nothing I need to learn something so I'm making breakfast in the morning he has to eat right he's still human I'm making breakfast in the morning BL yes he sent me a picture of him doing a I said if I had a like you I have a picture of Madison Square Gard all of these people know how to utilize their time people know what what it means to be a Jew how it's not a matter of how much you know the knowledge is gifted to you people think it's about knowledge oh he knows Pages by heart so he must be no has nothing to do with that it's all gifts it's the toil how hard do you work for that toah that's what matters not a matter I'm knowledge you know the pages by heart you don't know them by heart no one cares trust me I promise you no one cares Hashem doesn't care either what does he care about how hard did you work for it I don't think there's a human alive that worked harder to learn the Shas than this person that finished the with his eyes only and he's going to be put up in the same pedestal same place Asik as H Asar in sh and we can either be winners or losers that's Jewish ideology [Music] when it comes to learning to now if you're so focused on your physical desires all day how you going to have time to learn how you going to have time to learn all day you want to eat all day you want this all you're not going to have time to learn so you have to control them there's a time in a place to eat there's a time in a place to be intimate there's a time and place to do allot a lot of things but again control them is what the Kish is trying to tell us Kish also ate Kish also did whatever he had to do he was also married you're not the only one that's married but that's the key that's the key now gave us these eyes but what purpose would they serve if all they did was just be there the Creator noticed he continues saying the Creator noticed this as well and he made man two arms a left one and a right one each arm is segmented with many joints each joint being able to turn for quick and easy use at the end of each arm he put separate sticks five on each hand which we call [Music] fingers now we do not think it's a big deal that we have fingers why we're used to them when you were born you had them they didn't grow they were there when you were born but that wasn't always the case the mid says that until the generation of of Noah people didn't have fingers people didn't have fingers that hands like you have hands but it was like a [Music] web that's why if you look at theim in the no it says that when Noah was born says that this is the boy that's going to bring us ease what ease what ease is this boy going to bring us he was the first boy that was born with fingers and one of the most difficult things of that generation was when they were working it was very hard for them to work because they didn't have fingers to make tools so Noah was the first one to actually have fingers now when you think about it your fingers are a Miraculous Creation of its own first and foremost your fingerprint is unique that by itself should Amaze a person to the extent of no end because if you would say a 100 people have 100 different types of fingerprints okay that makes sense in our head a thousand people thousand different types of fingerprints okay that makes sense too even if you say a 100,000 in your mind it works but once it gets to big numbers a million two million the human mind can't really think in that type of size when you don't have God in your life you already think that if you have a lot eventually you're going to have something repeated statistically statistically speaking I knew a uh Gambler who um was a expert at cunning people into making mistakes based on math he knew math and other people didn't know and he would he would tell them listen I bet you as much as you want that in this room there's two people that have the same birthday just by him walking into the room two seconds everybody will take on the bed why they're figuring in their head there are so many dates you have 12 months each month has a uh uh you know 30 days 28 to 31 days you know you have all these days what's the chances that there's going to be two people same birthday cuz they're thinking calculating in their head no way how could you even know that if you just walked into the room I mean if you spent some time in the room you got to know everybody maybe have a really good memory you asked everybody their birthdays and uh and you uh and and you remember remember it yeah you found two people that have the same birthday yeah but he walked into the room how did you know it and he would win the bet every single time never failed I met the guy he was like 90 years old already in my movie at the end of the movie you see him he's a cowboy and there's a very famous Gambler and uh he uh he won every time how cuz he knew statistically if you have and he told me this if you have I think it's either 30 or 35 people in a room two people will have the same [Music] birthday see 30 or 35 people in the same room always you're going to find two people with the same birthday so when it comes to a number like that we think 30 people wow what a coincidence so surely if there's a 100,000 people surely out of those 100,000 people two people should have the same fingerprint no no they don't have the same fingerprint maybe similar maybe but it's not going to be the same same thing with DNA you're never going to have two people with the same DNA and we're not talking about 100,000 people we're talking about 8 billion people in fact much more than 8 billion people all the people that ever lived and you're never going to have two with the same thing print never going to have two with the same DNA never that shows us the infinite ability of aad when it came down to his creation when we look at our fingers we're thinking this is something simple but it would literally be easier to invent an atomic bomb that doesn't blow up cities but creates [Music] cities then to figure out the fingerprint [Music] now further he says these fingers no is the first one that got him were further given a sense of touch enabling them to differentiate between heat and cold dryness and wetness hardness and softness everything in keeping with what is necessary for the ordinary progression of life now you may not think that this is so much of a big deal okay so you have a sense of touch you know there is a very rare disease and thank God it's rare that uh some people have in the world where they do not have their same sensors like you do where they senses don't work when it comes to pain they don't feel pain now this may sound for somebody like me sounds fantastic sounds like Gad you don't feel pain wow I want to be you until I realize what what it means what does it mean you don't feel pain that means there was a little girl I believe she was in is little girl her hand was on top of the stove an electric stove on fire she kept it on she didn't know what she didn't know what was happening our skin was melting but she felt no pain she didn't know what was happen she's a little girl that's why I say thank God this disease is very rare because the people that have it are in life danger 24 hours a day because one of the greatest things that people don't notice is pain pain is a fantastic thing one of the reasons is that it reminds you that you are alive it reminds you that that section of your body is still alive it's still operational if there's no pain that means that that body part died pain is a reminder that that place is still functioning it's also a warning for something that potentially can be worse if for example you cut yourself if you don't feel the pain you'll continue cutting if you don't feel the pain you'll continue cutting and you can make the damage much much worse but if the second the knife touches any body part you feel the second it touches it before it becomes some gash you feel like ah like like the whole world just exploded it's really only a little tiny gash you're like flipping the night you're trying to break the whole kitchen I can't believe it it's like a little tiny little thing like your wife's like what happened oh no I stabbed myself where where where you're showing us where where where you're showing that where where where a little tiny little speckle of BL is on your finger you made a big deal out of it but thank God you have that why because if you didn't have that pain that seemed like it was you cut your whole finger cut your whole finger and that is a very different life to live now thought about this too in your finger he put senses sensors that tell you when something is hot when something is cold when something is forbidden to you and dangerous when something is not too hot is dangerous too cold is dangerous and a person that knows how to use their senses will stay away from danger now the same thing goes when it comes to dryness and wetness if you're trying to identify something in in the dark you're looking for a pair of glasses but when you're looking all of a sudden your your fingers feel wet then you know that you put your hands in the sight of a coffee cup or something it's not your glasses this helps now the Kaz continues and says what good is a human being if he has been granted eyes that see and hands that feel but cannot move from his place so the planner made man two legs perfectly and expertly formed so that he could walk on the ground now I'm no doctor or uh expert in this field but when I learned this it's truly amazing where explains there's a seph called in page 232 it discusses the muscles and it says really the muscles are a unique creation of its own that no one can truly understand because it's not solid and it's not liquid at all times we think of muscles as like rubber bands cuz that's what we learned in in class I remember when I took class in high school and in college uh they showed you know muscle they show you the the the the body without the skin and it shows you like a bunch of things like piece of meat all looks like rubber bands and stuff like that but that's not actually real to picture the real mechanics of your body are very very different the amount of muscles that you have is extraordinary but how the muscles operate is even more extraordinary because the muscles change state from something that is strong that's solid to something that's more liquidy due to different hormones due to different uh chemicals that are inside your body where the second this chemical touches the muscle it turns into [Music] solid and then to soften it again a different hormone a different chemical touches it now if you had to control it you wouldn't be able to move why it works too fast so for example if someone for example is walking around all of a sudden somebody opens the door right in their face what's the reaction instantly you put your hand up now you didn't think about putting your hand up but your hand when up if you fall immediately your hand goes down to stop to to slow down your fall you didn't think about oh I'm going to stop my fall because I don't want to get hurt and I want to make my wife unhappy and I don't no you didn't think about any of this stuff you're just thinking oh and next thing you know your hand is in the way slowing down your fall now in order for you to make that move there were literally hundreds and hundreds of different mechanisms that had to take place from your eyes seeing this your brain calculating it doing the mechanics not only to calculate it but to release the appropriate hormones to make the certain body part move but also making the muscles in that body part harder so you could absorb the fall if the calculation is slowed by a millisecond the whole thing fails instead of falling on your hand you fall on your face or you simply break your hand now the amount of hormones and different types of things that go into into your body is unbelievable and one of the scientists described that the mechanics of your knees is no different than an explosion itself because really what you have is two engines on your knees which are operating in two opposite directions while one is stretching the other one is contrasting one leg is going forward the other leg is contrasting it's staying behind but it has to bend and there literally explosions happening in inside your muscles to make all of this happen now when a person takes all of this into account what is he to make out of this did the K try to make all of us biologists chemists gym teachers what does he want us to do athletes he says look every day in the morning morning in you say blessed you hm our god king of the universe who prepares the steps of man what are you thinking when you say who prepares the steps of man most of the time about coffee that you're about to drink most of the time I can't wait till I finish so I can already get on with my day most of the time nothing most of the time we think nothing most of the time it's like oh yeah I got to do it check check check check check finish this one finish this one you know it's like a checklist I I I check it's like a check mark that's what we do it's a reality it's not it's embarrassing but it's a reality check mark I did it is trying to tell us before you start your day before you learn T before you do do you know why you're even blessing look at how much science has to go into the mechanics of your legs the mechanics of your arms your fingers your eyes your we haven't even begun to talk talk about the [Music] brain and then thank AEM for Thank You For Preparing the the the steps of man because in reality your right knee forget about your whole body that's needless to say your right knee or your left knee or your right hand or your left hand is simply a operating fully functional lab with different mechanics different engines different tests being made different chemicals getting together going being separated I mean the amount of chemicals that implanted in your body just to make it functional is unbelievable now the question is did he do all of that just so you could eat for 70 80 years did he make your body so sophisticated so complex just so you could just eat some hamburgers maybe some pizza once in a while hopefully not together did he just make that body so complicated so you could have a bunch of kids that's it like if he just wanted you to eat why didn't he make you into a tube a bucket just throw food in there I'm on go finished what's the legs for what's the hands for what's the fingers for why do you need eyes just feed the thing and that's it there are some creatures in the world that it seems like they don't have any eyes they have different sensors so if they could live without eyes why do we need eyes they don't have any fingers they don't have fingers surely we can live without fingers they don't have any legs they swim they go like this all day why why do we need legs we just go like this all day why aren't you like an amiba surely if he created our body to be much more sophisticated than the amiba it's for a purpose it's not just for eating it's not just for meeting surely these are different tools that put more effort in if you will for us to serve him in through those tool that means that we have to find In Our Lifetime we have to find a way to serve to justify the creation if he gave you fingers you have to justify why did I deserve to have fingers for 70 80 90 years what did I do with these fingers did I flip some pages and learned some learned some learn some K did I flip some p they flip some pages or did I just uh flip the newspaper or just grab a hamburger I the fastest uh you know fastest guy in the in the restaurant with the burger right to my mouth did he give me legs so I could just walk to the restaurant or walk to a and if I didn't have a right I wasn't going because Shalom that I would walk a half hour an hour did he give me these different tools to serve him or to serve myself when we say the blessing of that he prepares the steps of man when you have a Jewish ideology to WR aafa this is what we're supposed to be thinking of thank you for preparing the steps of man and making my body into simply a living Lab in order to serve you with each and every single part of it my job is to find a way to serve you with each and every single part of it and if I did not do it today I will do it tomorrow and if I didn't do it tomorrow I'll do it the next day but surely I'm going to die trying to serve you with every part of it why if I don't I am simply not only a failure I'm an ungrateful failure [Music] now the when he got sick he was bed written the they called the doctor and he left he says what does a doctor know about health what does he know about the human health what does he know about body you going to bring him help me no come on he's an expert he's the best known okay bring him so the doctor came to the G [Music] and as he came the gon was laying down and he got up and he sat down how are you how are you so the G says to him how many muscles did I use and how many movements did my body have to operate in order for me to go from laying down to sitting down the doctor was dumbfounded repeat that question again how many no no it's complicated no no it's not complicated how many well you know because this one is connected to that one you could really say that one no just tell me what is it the guy couldn't nothing the G says and you want to cure me you don't even know simple question question we learned simple question you don't know we learned first grade I knew it we still don't know it as I'm telling you I don't know it in first grade he knew this [Music] answer why learn to learn to you learn to you learn everything so when a person understands how many miracles have have to be done literally on a millisec by millisecond basis in order for him or her to exist it reminds them of their responsibility to the Creator because if you have yourself an 85-year-old Professor come to you and tell you I've researched the Sciences I've researched the religion and I've never seen God I don't believe in God this person is a dangerous person and the gar says such a person an atheist a person that's a heretic of that extent you're not allowed to walk next to him at night why either he's crazy he's a crazy person that is just a danger to society or he's a danger to society because he he has such extraordinary desires that are out of control that he refuses to believe in God and that's why he makes such statements and if he cannot control his desires that means that at alone at night he's going to attack you such a person says you're not have to walk next to him at night don't be next to him alone dangerous to live an entire life and still say you don't believe in God makes your dangerous person if you're 15 20 years old 25 years old all you learned in public school that you came from a monkey you know it doesn't exactly make you a sadik don't get me wrong but if you show the person the facts and the person is is is a looking at the fact for what they are he's unbiased and he's looking to learn no problem but if a person has gone through his entire life and still says he's an atheist this person is a dangerous person because he either is mentally sick and a danger to society or he is spiritually sick to the extent where he has such strong desires that he cannot control them and therefore he cannot allow himself to believe in God now page 90 at the end 90b has a conversation where the Caesar tells a uh one of [Music] theim that what the Jews are saying in the Torah doesn't make sense to him he says you guys say in your Torah that there's going to be a resurrection of the Dead is the dust alive because a person everyone knows at some point he's going to die he doesn't stay like that within a short period of time the uh worms and maggots eat the body and uh everything turns into dust and that's it so what is the dust that's left what it's alive that's going to go back to life so this Caesar was very fortunate he had a daughter that was much smarter than him and she says to the let me answer this one she says to her father I'll give you an example of what their belief is and what it is says if we have two people one guy creates tools out of water and the other guy creates tools out of clay which one is considered a much more special uh uh expert the one that creates the tools from water or the ones that creates the tools from clay so the SE says of course it's the one that creates the tools from water not makes makes it into ice and cuts it no no no just the water itself he molds the water into something of course that's the who can do that because the clay needs the water she says that's exactly what he's saying to you that's exactly what the rabbi is saying to you he says you're thinking it's a big deal that the dust is going to turn into a living person but there God he created he creates not from the dust from a piece of putrid seed from a liquid he creates the entire human being is taking dust and making into a human being bigger than n no it's less he turned a putri treat into a human being he's not going to be able to turn a the dust into a human being the bones into a human [Music] being sometimes sends certain people that are clever and see the truth [Music] and if they're clever enough they abandon their own religion they abandon their own false falsehood and they get closer to hasm as a result we'll finalize with this the person that has this debate in their head ofun during difficult times like we have right now our am I have am I going to have enough money am I going to find a wife now am I going to do this am I going to do that people are having a lot of amuna issues right now the say this is really an embarrassing an embarrassment that you're going to deal with at some point this lack of auna is an em is going to be an embarrassment for you at some point not having him n hasm is going to be very embarrassing why imagine a boy F explains this in a m imagine a boy who's an orphan doesn't have parents and his five six seven year old boy his next door neighbor knocks on his door and he says hey how you listen from now on I'll take care of all your needs anything you need I'm going to take care of food shelter everything I'm going to pay for so the boy says what do I have to do nothing whatever you need I'm going to take care of from now on it's everything's on me so he takes care every day gives him food every day takes care of the house every day the next door neighbor nicely enough takes care of whatever he needs pays for his school pays for his food pays for clothes pays for everything day after day year after year for 15 years eventually the boy grows up to be a man and it's time for him to get married he helps him find a Kala introduces him one of his one of his uh best friends here you go here you go is a daughter Meza beautiful woman everything's good okay you're going to get married oh you guys have to live somewhere ah I got your house nice Villa beautiful house brand new got him a vehicle everything's good oh how are we going to get married don't worry I got that taken care of also is a wedding on this day just show up all you got to do is show up on the wedding day this man this young boy turned into a man gets to the wedding he's there he's excited he's nervous going to get married wow wow wow wow but he starts thinking about things and he starts getting stressed out and he starts pacing down the hole back and forth back and forth back and forth so the neighbor the guy's been taking care of him for 15 years sees him stress was what's wrong what's wrong with you no no no nothing nothing nothing well obviously something's wrong why you p no no no it's okay if you need something tell me I'll help you out no no it's too much it's too much for you I I can't I can't no it's too much for you it's too much you can't do it to me what is it what is it what do you need no no no it's just too much I'll try to do myself I'll try to do myself and he goes back and forth and you know he feels for him he's like come on just tell me what it is I'll help you out it's just too much for you I don't want to ask fine too much not too much I've been helping you for 15 years let me try let me give it a shot at it it wasn't too much to build a house I got you the house the car the this the everything else I did 15 years okay let me try this one what is it the orphan system you know I'm used to every day I wake up I have a towel next to my bed and as soon as I wash my face wash my hands wash my face I wipe my face in the towel it's the same towel I forgot the towel in my old house and I don't know what to do and I don't know how I'm going to go get the towel because I don't know how I'm going to deal with tomorrow I'm going to wake up with this new wife and I don't have my [Music] towel the next door neighbor sees you you fool this is too hard this is too hard 15 years I boy I got you a house got you wedding got you a Kala got you money food shelter clothes everything it's too hard to get the towel it's too hard that's us that's us gave us muscles with chemicals and a lab inside our body give us eyes that are balloons that should be on sale at Walmart for a dollar to operate to record everything hands with fingers in them that have all types of mechanics that are beyond our ability to even think of fingerprints and muscles and bones that do all types of things that we forget to even appreciate legs that allow us to go to different places arms that allow us to do different things wives husbands kids house everything and what are we worry about oh I don't have any money when it comes to money no no I work on Shabbat when it comes to go maybe I'm going to marry a non-religious person when it comes to all types of things we sell out AEM like nothing no it's too hard for Hashem to to help me on this one it wasn't too hard for him to uh make you wasn't hard for him to grow you from a putrid seed it wasn't too hard for him to get you to be where you are today in the first place to have a house to have clothes to have a spouse to have all types of things that wasn't too hard but to get you to have a little bit of money to close the month that's too hard for him when a person arrives at sham he's going to be embarrassed for such lack of embarrassed and that's why when a person understands what the right ideology is he simply becomes embarrassed at himself for having a lack of amuna and he forces himself to get it out of himself get it out of ourself how do I find amuna why because it it doesn't make any sense not to have auna but I can't just say I believe and I really don't believe so what do I got to do to get myself to have it what do you need to do before you start complaining about all the things you need count the birds you already have count the blessings you already have okay you don't have XYZ fine what about the first 25 letters you have those a b c d a you have all those before you complain and cry and become hysterical about all the things you don't have and you feel like you need right now what do you have and I remember the first time I learned this from mother F years ago it would drive me crazy because I would tell him I'm in pain I'm losing money my whole life's upside down and his response is but you know you uh you have eyes though I said what your eyes work he said yeah I'm telling you I just lost a million dollars on the stock market today goes do you know how much somebody would pay for one eye you could sell your eye if you want goes no I don't want to sell my eye goes oh see it's worth more than a million dollars and I didn't get it what what's my I have to do with I just lost a bunch of money it took me eight years to understand this lesson [Music] it could take you two [Music] minutes if you count your bird what you have what do you have in your hand automatically the things you're crying about lose significance okay so there's something I want there's something I feel like I need maybe I really do need [Music] it but what do I have you start calculating all the stuff you have you start feeling embarrassed because a lot of the stuff you have you didn't even ask for but you got it look how many things you have you didn't even ask for it but you got it already and you got it exactly when you need it automatic did you ever ask for air you got it didn't you you've asked for vision you got it didn't you you've asked for all the things that you appreciate every single day you got them now what are you going to say yeah but if he didn't want to give it to me why did he create me that makes you a that makes you a wicked person an ungrateful Wicked person why imagine having a kid and you raise this kid he changes stinky diapers for a few years and then after you finally finish changing him and feeding him and so on send him to school and pay for school and arm and a leg and you have a second job just to pay for school and you have all this and you raise this kid and the kid eventually gos 13 14 15 years old and hey uh IMA give me some money no son time's a tough Corona virus I don't have any money to give you no no give me some money hey son don't talk to me that way listen IMA if you're not going to give you some money what's the point of you what's the point of you you're not going to give me some money you that's how you talk to your IMA what I didn't ask you to make me if you're already going to make me I you have to give me money [Music] no is such a son a good son or a bad son do you want a son like that I don't think you wish that on your enemies such a son the question is are we that son are we that daughter to hem ahm if you're not going to give it to me why did you make me if you're not going to give me a house how come you made me if you're not going to give me this how come you made me how many times do we think that you wanted something Hashem didn't give it to us and we're already starting to complain to hem if you're not going to give it to me why' you make me that's the embarrassment we're going to deal with in sh if we don't do Chua we go up to sh hasm is going to say you asked me how come I made you because I didn't give you such and such how come you didn't have the same calculation about oh hasm thank you for making me because you gave me such and such how you have the opposite calculation a few people came to one of the at the time of the the Holocaust you know it says the end of that you're not really supposed to P for the G for the Salvation to come hm's going to bring it when he brings it so is it right to really ask for mashia so got upset at them he says to them I don't understand in your amid that you pray every day three times a day on one prayer you ask fora the next prayer you ask for and then the next one the next blessing you ask for G you ask for the mashia how come you didn't have a problem asking for p to press it to press it not wait for to just give it to you how come when it came to health you didn't have a problem pressing forem to give you now and just not just wait for him but when it finally came time for salvation for the entire people and for hashem's name to be glorified now you're having questions you're having doubts oh maybe we should maybe we shouldn't how come only that one you have a problem with when it came to your own self-interest no problem pushing hasem give me now give me money now give me good health Now give me give me give me but when it came for the Salvation of the nation for A's name to be glorified all of a sudden you have questions that is all of us at different times when our ideology is confused between what it's supposed to be and what sometimes the yet influence us to have they both look the same they both have a similar address they both even have similar names but one is from Satan and one is from the T the goal is for us to make sure that whatever we think has a source in the Torah that validates it that says what I think is correct that's why it's the nature of a Jew that's learned not to look obsessively for his own insights in the Torah but rather to find what the sages said and see if they match with what he thought and say many people obsess over finding they want to find their own insights in the Torah they want to find it sometimes so much they ignore what the sages say altoe and they start inventing completely new things that are foreign to judism Al together this is a mistake first you have to become an expert in what was already said and what was already validated then you see if you could develop your new insight from that that could also be validated by the original Foundation that's what you're supposed to do you're not supposed to have your own original thought and think this is good but when you do have an original thought what are you supposed to do look for another that agrees with you and I don't mean in your own that's in the and so on why because you want to know that whatever is in your mind your ideology your thought process is in line with what was already validated and to say means blessed blessed am I that I aimed in the right direction why the direction that's already the foundation of Judaism that's the right direction there is no right Direction that's foreign to what the foundation is and you'll notice that a lot of the people that have their own weird things that they say whether it's the DS of the world or the manises of the world or some other clowns that are out there they never mention any sources they never mention any sources why they don't want the sources they want new new ways new approaches New Wave that's a mistake our foundation is as good as it's ever been it'll never be different than that we have to focus on the foundation because that's the only thing that we can validate for sure and it's 100% imit if you never have one single new insight in your life and all you focus on is what the sages said you are blessed if you have new insights that are you know that are matching and coinciding and can coexist what the S said great but don't Focus so much on that focus on being an expert in the foundation and I promise you when you focus so much on a foundation you will get new insights naturally that are good why because the foundation that you have will be good this is not just in learning Torah but also in your mentality of how to apply this Torah to your life your day-to-day life you won't always necessarily have to go to the book to check whether to buy this or to buy that because your ideology will be in such a way that you're already going to be thinking yes you're going to be thinking straight because your foundation is solid this is easy and difficult at the same time it's easy because the instructions are clear it's difficult because it requires you to swallow your Eagle regularly and act as if you're a brand new first grade student every single day for the rest of your life every [Music] day and that requires a lot of power why because you have to swallow your ego CU you feel like you're grown man you're a grown woman you already know you've been religious for x amount of years I should know this by now you don't know nothing B your first grade that's what you got to think you have to ask the rabbi he knows yeah but he reads a book and I read a book yeah you could read a book and he reads a book and it'll not never be the same why he's the rabbi you're not yeah but I'm a rabbi also but he's your Rabbi which means he knows more you could be a big Rabbi and if you have a rabbi he's bigger than you why that's how makes [Music] it that requires you to swallow your ego and I tell this to myself all the time it's funny for me because for me it's a big T cuz I'm used to being a boss I don't ask anybody for anything but when it comes to day-to-day life when it comes to everything F do I do this do I do that do I do this do I do that yes no yeah basic questions my wife says wait you asked him that like yeah he goes why CU I have to know but you couldn't figure it out yourself no I need permission I need permission to do this I need permission to do a sh I need permission to do everything Mr Boss Man $50 million need permission why that's the way it is that's the way it is if you think you're the boss you're nothing you have to ask permission for everything validation for everything that's the way of the toah all of these people that try to be superheroes these Rogue Warriors these people that are like uh you know try to be Innovative and new you'll see them eventually go into such different ways they become a small little version of Christianity and that's what's happening with a lot of people they're uncovering their masks you see them little by little one clown after another they're all new wave of ideology one after another and you see is making them as separate as possible that it's clear that if you listen to this person you watch this person you read this person's book and so on it's a different religion call himself Jewish as much she wants different religion keep up bigger than the sky different religion why new doesn't match the old our people need the old the old fashion old fashion is the best fashion never goes away never goes out of style I want the same fashion as M I want the same fashion as Ros that's who I want I want's fashion I want fashion that's what I want I don't want the fashion of uh some clown that decided to make a new wave to disagree with all the sages Jewish ideology is one of those things that you have to make sure you have it down right because once your ideology has is is good it's a solid foundation you can build a lot off of that Foundation but if the ideology is rotten everything you build on top of it will be either rotten or unstable so to have the right mentality is very very valuable and that's why why many of the when they ask certain questions sometimes we don't even understand why this is a question sometimes we don't understand why the answer is the answer and I'll give you one example and then we'll finish off with the night Shalom was I believe the nephew of the ran 800 years ago and in his famous SE he has a section in the third gate that says something to to the average person does not make sense he is describing different types of people that lose now this seil anyone that reads it simply develops or goes to the crazy house one or the other either you have at the end of the SE or really within the first five pages or you just go to the crazy house because you're simply an atheist because you have to have your reading this now sometimes you have to go over the same page a few times to understand what's going on because it's really deep stuff but the same token it's very simple when he explains it so I'll give you an example in the third gate he says something that happens every single day unfortunately a guy that has a few dollars doesn't have to be rich but but he's okay makes fun of a poor person now all of us can agree that the guy that has the money that's making fun of a poor person is a nasty person all of us can agree whether you're Jew or Gentile whether you learn to or not you could agree that this person is a nasty person is a mean person but why is he why is R calling this person a meaning this guy is like an a aist the guy that's making fun of the poor person he's like an atheist he has no where's the mindset there what is what is him making fun of some poor guy have to do with atheism okay so he made fun of him because he's dyslexic or he has missing some uh some eyes he's missing an arm he doesn't have any money he has have the job okay so he's making fun of him this unfortunately happens all the time what how what does that connect him to being an atheist though and is making it this is it he says this guy is an [Music] atheist why he says look at the mechanics of this logic that this rash has this wicked person has what are the mechanics he's making fun of somebody that doesn't have any which which means what which means that he thinks this wicked person thinks that he doesn't have any while he himself has because of their abilities he thinks he has money because he's clever and he's uh smart and he's uh you know skilled so he thinks he made the money because he has good timing and intellect and so on and that's why he has money and he thinks the guy doesn't have money or doesn't have anything because he has bad fortune and he has bad luck and he has bad timing and he's missing an eye and he's missing a leg and that's why he doesn't have any he is an atheist why he thinks that money that success comes from abilities that makes him an atheist that makes him an heretic why because your success is not in your hands it's only in A's hands to think that your success or failure is a result of your skills is a form of heresy says it's 100% heretical to think that it's your ability that is generating success or [Music] failure that is Jewish ideology at its purest we thought he's mean that's logical a horse knows he's mean but to be a Jew you have to know deeper than that it's not mean that Hashem cares about it's the heresy that Hashem cares about he's not going to make somebody lose and go to gay permanently because he's mean but he will send somebody to get know permanently if that person is an atheist if that person is a heretic and thinks that his success or failure is in his own hands my hand my power is what got me this wealth writes in this is one of the things that a does not forgive does not forgive this never for a second think that you're success or your failure is in your ability you could pray for hasem to help you you could pray for hasem to change the situation to you could pray for a lot of things but never think for a second that if you did such and such that's the reason why such and such happened your ability is what Hashem gave you you try to use whatever Hashem gave you to do your best the success though hasem decides has nothing to do with your ability has nothing to do with your ability and that's why I tell you guys a famous story was a gabai who didn't know how to read or write and after years of being at the bitet they wanted to build they wanted to raise more money they told the guy listen uh we have to let you go because we want to update our technology and you don't know how to use technology so this poor gbi was out of a job didn't have any skills so he went to the market looking for something new so he saw some guy selling tools he says I know a few things about tools let me buy some tools from you so he bought some tools and he sold them he made a few dollars and he went back to the same guy and he bought them tools and he sold them and little by little he started flipping tools and before you know it he had a company manufacturing tools after a few years he made his largest order ever he ordered 10 $0 Million worth of tools from China on the day the shipment the container came with all the tools the guy came with a contract here you go it's delivery of the goods give us the money and sign over here he says here the money is the check and uh he takes a little stamp puts his fingerprint on it and puts it on the paper as a signature the guy from China says what is this he it's my signature what signature is this no we need your name sign your name you go no that's my signature goes sir please stop making a mockery out of this if this check you're giving me bounces I need to make sure that this is you it's your signature he goes this is my signature goes what kind of signature is this he goes That's I sign goes what can you at least write your name he goes no no I can't write my name it's my signature he goes why not why can't you write your name what's the big deal he goes I don't know how to write and I don't know read the Chinese guy starts laughing H look at this guy look at this guy look you're making a $10 million purchase and you don't even know how to read and write imagine how much more money you would make if you knew how to read and write he says you Chinese fool if I knew how to read and write I'd still be a gabbi making 250 bucks a week at the [Music] bitet you're success has nothing to do with your skills your failure doesn't either that's where we have to go to Hashem and Hashem toiled if you will to make your body so sophisticated your muscles So Sophisticated your vision So Sophisticated your whole mechanics the feelings you have the hormones you have the desires you have the everything that you have so sophisticated so you could recognize that he didn't make you just for you to utilize that one skill and think that's what's generating you the results it's the opposite it is so sophisticated to remind you that there has to be a greater reason for why you alive in this world much more than just this skill the success destination that's only determined by the Creator himself you are responsible for the effort use those tools that hasem gave you in order to serve them to the best you possibly can according to his instructions and not yours if you do that I promise you that the destination will be much better than you can get yourself on this will get us even closer to the right ideology to the right destination to get us our people our friends our family and all of and the rest of the world that wants to know God to the right destination that has designated for each and every single one of us amen amen [Music]