Determining the status of an irreligious Jew in halacha - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

destroys foreign [Music] foreign Dominion the question is can you count someone who really is not throw them into a minion okay we had a Shiloh of a painful child that was summons child number one of the Derek but his home he's home with the family could you count him into Seaman he's not religious imagine that painful child like that is uh what you call traditional very respectful very nice but he's not really shambi Shabbos as far as um again he's a coin can he dock when he comes to shul so without doubt from all the shelves we ever discussed this is probably the most challenging one because it's not a question about a a piece of chicken it's a kosher it's a question about our brothers and sisters thousands and thousands and the question is what what are we telling them you know are we telling them that you are AIDS are we saying can you let us say that and sometimes the response is there because you know how are you how are you looking at them how are you accepting them and as you can understand these shouts besides today's questions and getting in marriage in Pigeon of Ben and the questions go on and on literally but the questions basically to reduce the two simple questions which are certainly not simple at all first of all is does he have the status of a yid and hopefully if yes maybe some Mitzi doesn't qualify to do if the role If he if he's doing terrible life anyways if he doesn't believe in us so how could he get an Aliyah so one thing is abundantly clear and all agree there's no Suffolk about it that's the starting point to call tigumar and Sanhedrin mandala speaking about terrible terrible Aries and the Imposter says because a person as bad as organ but but we see even more so in America if you act like a child then you're the person's child but when Maya took a very strong stance and as the gamara says even if it's Barnum even if you're foolish even if like Eamon you don't believe in Hashem even you sink to a level of Bonham that apologize for each one of these not only he's considered Israel but he's born in you know imagine you have a brilliant beautiful Diamond worth millions of dollars but there's an earthquake and it gets lost so it's buried under layers and layers of dirt but the diamond remains beautiful and I think that's really what from every it is a diamond and light it is there's layers and layers of Tim to Malay but the beauty of the diamond the he's still a Israel in other words you can't give up yeah this guy tonight Republican once told us a story about the I think someone's out of town and he saw a rather officiating by uh by a funeral in the funeral home the problem was that the Rob was a coin so someone asked him excuse me Rabbi aren't you a Cayenne he was oh yeah but I retired to my Kahuna you can't retry from here this guy often so the highway it's a simple child a year does he eat finished so what's the biggest what's the sukia but we do find in numerous Allah because I mentioned just some of them that we treat him like a guy I get a striking example we are basically when you have an aircrafters you have a apartment building or you want to put together different families you're making air frateros which is simple for everybody in this in the apartment building a little part of the Arab and the Arab is good but if you have a guy in the apartment building gazelle made it very difficult to make an air it's not just you have to admit sorry of him you have to be sorry I'm not getting into a very complicated when you have a guy on the premises it's hard to say it but we treat him like a guy regarding the end of the safer on the end of clouds where he says this whole safe I spoke about that's only by someone that's Hashem was you're here he's not like say he's not part of America there's a big big sug here regarding a friar person that touches wine or bakes or Cooks the Allah apply to Aid and many poison I should mention hold the attacker if he touches wine it's Yaya so did we see we do treat them like a guy we're getting mixed messages foreign maybe more importantly like the famous Ramba manageres taemon says a yeed can never lose that status he could smart ziff and Heinz Morgan I eat breakfast I eat and as the rambam says it very emphatically no matter how bad no matter how far it goes off the Derek There's A din on every that he does and the ramam gives a striking example was a classic Macy's will get punished for everything the fact that I'm in a different place says he's gonna get punished even for a for not making Earth to ceiling because they eat like they eat and again in fact there's a famous story in the end of Casa Reich the in August of the legend the story about the going and this is an ice hay where someone came to the Grain and he was a kaifa mama said this guy and he wanted wine so the going told about the bus give him only if he makes a brother she says Reba I'm so behind broadcast you don't know what I'm doing a brokers so the guy says you think because you're a mama so then you they forgot about you every dig Mitzvah Katana they're gonna ask you why you didn't do it and your Israel gamma and it's not gonna help you all your two Roots him and they shocked him and when he heard this device because he thought that he has a pass I'm a cry for maybe that's the way you could understand it and there's nothing to talk about it always remains to eat but sometimes he needs some very dramatic shock treatment if you tell them you know you touch the wine it's going to say what the guy that cleans the refrigerator and moves the wine we have to talk about me and that's exactly it you tell them that regarding Shabbos if you don't keep Shabbos we have to treat you like a guy that might you know shock him to the Core when you tell him that we have to talk about you because you're a very very bad example our children see you driving on Shabbos we have to tell them that that you're doing something terrible we can't accept it you know it's like Mathias Hashem so he's not that he loses his rights he's losing his his ability to function as they eat but he's not losing his obligations he has every three of and the main point is to make sure he gets the right message we have to tell him you are Aid and you and you have every single bit of Yiddish kite you're responsible for but we can accept you as it is and we treat you like a guy in some Allah hopefully you're gonna get the message not the wrong message or a guy because you're not a guy I think that's where you could understand it now to apply this I guess more specifically I think the cloud number one is there's no one-size-fits-all you know fry or from there's no such thing every person has to be looked at individually because the question is where is he holding now the truth is if you look in the truvis of the past just about 200 years ago since you know the ugly signs of Reform conservative on their Logan as it was called but there are different cool fish in history how to treat them there were some that took a very strong stand that we're not we're not we're ignoring you and I recognizing you some that took more the ace Lee karave as opposed to Ace so it's really hard to give a clout because in history every kufa had its own response but I want to share with you a few tubes about Maisha who was basically in the two for that we that we really find ourselves at today as well and I think it's a very you know good Clarity how to look at these situations asked the question I guess typical in those days this was written over 60 years ago they were making a banquet to a fundraiser and as the protocol was you invited all the rabbis to participate now in those days where moisture rights the problem was that they had reform of conservative and he writes a word I didn't know at first what he meant rage Olive base it sounds like rabies you know with a dog bite rabbis he was says over 22 of us he never once writes rub on them they don't deserve that distinction rabbis exactly what it was and you have to be as well Malaysia was the one that had to set the tone an American this is seen an American scene will we accept this because again reform and conservative was was a was a terrible threat because and before that either you were yet or you wanted yet but they created a terrible fallacy called uh reform conservative it's a new a new type of yeah this guy that knows you're not going off to Derek we have a different Barrack for you realized the threat and it's interesting you see a story that I heard that I thought was precious someone came to have my a rabbi from a rabbi but he should have known better he says you know ramayshay says you know whatever but I said you know I'm like you but there's one difference see I hate these people in my heart but I have to you have to play the game you have to go along with it you come out with all these statements and you're making trouble for us somebody says I'm not like you at all I'm just the opposite I love them in my heart but I have to play the game to wake them up you said you you hate them so we're very different that was a moisture's approach he loved every it from a fry from a conservative or Orthodox but he saw the inherent Danger it was sorry establishes a concept that if you don't believe in Hashem then the broker you says is not Abraham and he quotes a rambam with tremendous implications and you said with the ramam says that a kaifa they wrote a say for Torah you later burned to say for toy with the shame Hashem because shame Hashem only has caducea if you give it kadushi if you mean there by Islam if you mean again so moishes says if you have a person that doesn't believe in Hashem and he makes Abraham it's not a brother in order on those days one Rabbi to say the broken one Rabbi said Almighty that's that was that's the Spiel that it was then so if you can't give such a rabbi because it's not a brother and his Ali is not an Aliyah in the next chuva we'll see and that was halik Basin a very sensitive question this was a person that maybe was even a tinikshan ishma it was taka not from but he had he was a doctor that did many many services many he did many I saw them for all people he was about me this but he's married to a goiter was was asked can you give him a keyboard sister but maybe give him so Maisha says the problem is that don't forget he represents person that married a guy which was you know that crossed the line according to all opinions and if you're going to give him keyboard a covet for what does he deserve a coven and you know hanufa doesn't mean when you flatter the the mailman or the teacher to get a good Mark quotes from the Amsterdam it could be Eric vayaba because you're you're not only sanctioning you're accepting and honoring this man for what he represents he represents the the ultimate deviation of Cloudy so he married a greater voice and he says maybe you're not honoring him for what he did with the greater you're honoring him because he's very devoted to his patience and his tacklemore said maybe you could rely on that you're honoring him for his Devotion to the community not for his deviant lifestyle but you have to realize what the moisture quotes that hanufa to a person that that is doing wrong things could be dark by ever because again you're sending a message that we accept what you are and that's also part of the equation to realize that sometimes you give a keeper to a person doesn't deserve it you're endorsing his lifestyle I know this details but it goes back before the Iron Curtain collapsed there was Aid that book that was stuck behind the Iron Curtain which was because in those days in in Soviet communist Russia and there was one political figure who could get him out of of this terrible because situation with one phone call but he had strings attached he would do it but he wanted to run for prominent office and he said I'll get the jewel no problem but you have to endorse him where I run for political office and they asked foreign Style so because I have to think about it and the next day said I have no Raya that you allowed to do this because this is such a terrible Hashem maybe this Khal Hashem does not legitimize even the fact that you have them at the clock is quota saying the same thing talking about Hashem of such proportion who said that Shem even to save someone's life don't forget the I'm already said that hanifa so that's something you have to realize when we're talking about sending uh the message that we accept you for what you are that that's more the Khan you advise was he asked about giving an Alia to a friar person so Mauritius says if he's taka a kaifa one of these rabbis who's a brock is not a bracha then you can't give him but if it's just I say quote-unquote just a ballavera but who believes in Hashem as we'll soon see inhalic dalid of evidence Sim and pay about giving a rabbi a reformer under the he says you're wasting your time it's not Abraham it's just not a brother about giving one of these rabbis a bracha when it comes to shul uh Leah when it comes to shoe you're not allowed to a regular fryer person a mice was much more sympathetic but again when someone doesn't believe in what he's saying foreign that's an interesting question and about giving a fry a person if you know he won't make a broker or watch this naiva so moisture was yes but what do I do because if you tell me a fry a person's broken who doesn't believe in Hashem is not Abraham so I'm not gaining anyhow so in other words him being that status of of a kaifa might turn into a cool I could give him to eat without a brother so that would come out the famous story when Ben Gurion visited him so you don't have to do okay give them a keyboard or not maybe you don't have to give him you got to give him a keyboard because his Brock's not a broker anyhow ceramic cotton hey says no and I think what it means to say is as we began he has every single every single Seafood you can't give thee without a brother he's willing to make a bracha we have to hope for the best that at that moment he has a Heritage over and he quotes the famous American someone says even though he's a Russian government maybe hear a True Believer rommeister is being optimistic because again you can't say that he has less because he's right you can't give him tea without a broker so give him to eat tell him to make a bracha and hope for the best involved about again about the different problems with the shoes out of town School somewhere from some are not from she says if those that ain't I'm so be my car of them but when you're talking about or not because is basically treated his brother he's not a brother the deciding fact is kaifa bacon now to apply this more specifically the shylight began with but some people have this on a daily basis they have nine from a people and one fryer person is accounted into the minion so again the question is is he qualified to be part of the minion he's not he doesn't really believe what he says but here the question is much more serious telling him you don't count what are you saying you're a guy you can't tell that yet he's a guy don't forget him but regarding meaning we have one very important redeeming Factor the the concept of Minion is learned from the positive Israel that was in with nine other people if they say do whatever or I'm gonna shoot you you have to give up your life there that lock is clear even in front of Friar people as long as it's a million of people you have to be give up your life and not do an avail and from the same possible we learn the cave of a minion and this LED rahmosha and others to say maybe regarding minion the AKA is are you a Ben Israel and the answer is absolutely Israel and this is as early as DeGraw the guardian says if someone is Hashem even though it doesn't have heirus as long as he's going into kunai but we see this as long as they didn't put him into heaven he's counted into a minion as sorrow in other words abalavera is counted into a minion foreign in other words there's coming a point that he crossed the line when he's acting like a guy he's not a guy but he can't be counted to a minion i Frank the Prima God says you count them as long he's not put into that's by Tay oven light today many boys went off to there I'll say most you know like they say the ultimate that once told the kaifa you're not really a kaifa you're a baltiva but you have to legitimize your tiger so you can't say I'm no I'm no good mix yeah I don't believe in it but you do believe in it it's the tiger that's leading you to say these ridiculous statements so here here we we find the Helix versus kaifa the Mr Brewer explains even doesn't have error that is high of miso on it but as long as he's not a kaifa he's counted into a minion scenes you've gotten mem gimbals oh look at the door inside but as long as it wasn't a deeply rooted fira he is Israel Mr Brooke quotes the Prima Gotham and I said one word does rely heavily on this east side of Israel and he says we learn Minion from from The Mirage from at the time sir Maisha seems to say that basically minion is totally an idiot now he does it but maybe Taka yukota can make a minion and you could say Carson could do so but not Philippa because evil he makes his spoutless she taught so that there is no had to arrive Roomba you have to have a full minion those that are Michael on on season here as well and an ego somebody should base your test and gimbal you dalid although people strongly refuted deria from Israel and Maisha held that it's a good enough Raya it's totally a minion is totally in Yeadon tan Yeadon is enough now I want to mention this in Marcel if you want to see it inside they're not going to find the increases that movement base on the whole crease is probably a quarter a half a page of our show and different princes come out not there but there's a martial increases above on the gemara that says call tying Israel ain't a Tinus in other words you have to have Friar with froma so my show points out the hell Bona had a terrible smell but it was part of the beautiful guitarist but something myself something striking how many someone were there all together eleven because Taco we allow the helper to be part of the minion but he's not counted into dominion and look at my shop asked his final plea was if there's at least a sorrow saved to Eden that means less than ten doesn't doesn't go so my show is quoted as saying you can't count the fry into the minion but it's not a riot maybe that Michelle was talking about a kaifa that taka didn't believe and he's doctor about counting a minion afraia he says and he took that strong stand that a fry is not counted into the minion but they asked him that that's going on that brings a carbon but a table that brings a carbon includes a fry as well so I think the point is it's really unclear if a friar person could be counted into a minion but all seem to agree if he's a typical who believes in Hashem he can be counted into the minion but there's another factor that really could and should be a share for itself but I'm gonna at least mention one point there's the famous term that people quote and that's called technician isba now what does that mean connection is well the sources that basically has no side is talking about someone nisbah as in he was captured as a baby kidnapped brought up as a guy had never any exposure to you this kite so the gemara says regarding he did Shabbos multiple shabbas every week he did many Halo Shabbos but he's talking it can't be cow he can't be blamed because he was a tanishq in Israel is talking about the mishnah about how many how many cubones but this has ramifications in our sugar because seems to have a very loose reading of connection is but regarding our Asylum and he says all love someone that was brought up in a religious home he's a technique even though he heard about Yeadon he knows about Yeadon but he was brought up in such a poisonous atmosphere he's considered a tinic a very literal liberal reading of the word tilikshan isma again the Mr gemara has a totally different meaning but the rambam's reading is if he was brought up that he's also Jewish even though he doesn't do anything he doesn't have base isn't it does does not accept that he doesn't quote the rambam he says is only literally he was brought up between goaim and never saw from Aiden is tens and thousands of our brothers and sisters because don't forget today we have a new category whether you call it tradition traditional thing whatever name it is but there's a certain concept that you know you're good and I'm good you're also Orthodox and I'm not you know I'm not so religious I'm not a fanatic like you I mean I I would drive the show why not you know nothing wrong with that but how do you classify thousands of our brothers so there's interesting there's a two of a written the sperm 1861 tough tough racecar live written by the Binion CN one of the godalem in Germany the the Oracle near the rabbi of the Samsung followers now you have to know the history of this juva he writes it the title Isa yet around the world could dialem endorsed this sack the masham in Baghdad the base is all endorse achuva that prefaced again he was battling the in the in the in the in the mom is the thick and thin of this war against reform he was asked about a friar person that touches wine he said yeah because some points can hold if you had to marry his daughter after all he's still a kid why is it yeah so he passkins now he's considered and yeah foreign but then he says but Pisces thrillship with my name I don't know what to do with them he said how sad it is morning and then they and they make kid this and they go to work now the truth is this sounds reminiscent of what we had in the early 1900s and I heard a child from a Rob said he heard it from an older of asked him could he make Kiddush on on past Friday and Friday night and Shabbos so the Ralph says why don't you make on why why are you asking my past he goes remember I have to go to work on Shabbos so my eyes on past you know we hear that we should cry this was the confusion we have my son and Evan as a base your dollar with the day that tough sinhuff 1960 was asked if you allowed to make a Minion for those that have to dive in early say yes they've run to work maybe it's maybe it's they're going to work anyhow do you know that hey look at base magic show me shop is here 24 7 Min on him why was it called Sharma Shabbos because it was the only Shool that insisted that every member has to be Sharma Shabbos this is America early 1900s this was a terrible confusion that people that were officially Americans I know the right word but people that had their personal in their minds doesn't beseeching around to work and asked questions about making kidneys because of the inessa I mean it was a terribly confusing and a very big Messiah and that was the Dominion sea in Suffolk in his times even though but maybe that tonight and he says many of the of our door have this same problem and it's unless you know for a fact that they are Brazen Shabbos knickers but his sack was very mild he says it's only by the Avett but again as I told you accepted his sack now the truth is today we live in a world that this sack maybe is not as relevant because don't forget we live because of technology in a very small world like they say a person sneezing who shall I am and you say Gesundheit in America because everything is is you know all over which he had never heard about balichuva never heard about um a swarim about yeshiva's about you know different publishings that that have Yiddish kite and every level for the beginner so does the tiniks in this person really exist Ence has an interesting Outlook he says someone that that shaved with a razor which is multiple isurium Vega but since it was so prevalent in those days people so today it's a different type of connection not that they never saw you this guy I don't think anybody we could say wasn't exposed to some form of Yiddish guide but there's this there's this poison of this you know I'm also good you know like I gave him also once you know if we go to if we'll be there instead of wasting his time we just look at him and watch him yeah you say wow how many light years is away from me I can be honest light years away right but I don't think I don't consider myself fry even though I'm so far from his level he said hey look at I'm trying to be my best I can right they were brought up that that's the way it is you know you have these black Hatters whoa they are so devoted I I really respect them but you know it's not for me I can't live their lives I mean not to drive to school and jobs how am I going to get them so it says with the respect for you you know some of these traditionalists are very respectful because I can't I can't do that level so I chose you know I chose option b as if it's an option so here you have to know that the khazanis writes a few times in in your days some elephant base and again in evaneser that today the approach has to be to Makai of them in other words treat them like tonight he said maybe that was in the khazana's times but now it Israel today they all see this guide so it's really you have to know the sometimes it's Ace but probably more often than not it's a slick in the carafe because if you draw them close with a voices I have a then you'll see results so basically there is a school of thought that we could treat them like today even though it has a different meaning today but basically we're going to say count them into a minion again if he's basically showing signs of life you know I saw in the in in of this on August of Base brisk of [Music] one short one and they brought in a person off the street that wasn't from so someone asked how to count them into a minion so the biscuit of sun befall said if he's willing to dab with us that shows he believes in davening then they have another story there right you know that they once this is what I did the stories I saw in rapsles and he was once the once they're missing a minion and they told the biscuit there's a year in the hotel call him in but he's not from and they called them in foreign so again it's not a cloud but it's a pretty good Cloud that when someone is willing to join your minion you know why City unless there is some type of you know that a little bit of the sparkle that's buried Beyond layers of dirt that brilliant diamond is is that pintolete is showing up now Lamesa if again in this case I told him if you can tell we can't count you to a minion you'd be that's a death sentence you're telling him that we don't believe you're Jewish now that's going to destroy him so again the fact that he's sympathetic and respectful you can count them to the minions it might not be till the batibo but again if he's a at least a sophistic tinikshan isba definitely you could count them into a minion a friar person makes a brother can you say I mean simple question so you're wondering why not see base if you hear it make a break you have to say I mean but the same says if he's a if he's a if he's happy Claris or a KUSI you know honestly I mean because it's Broken Arrow so Taco base he says if if someone who's taka a kaifa who doesn't believe in what he says I why is he getting the broker because he was called up for a keyboard to get to the brother I guess even the prior people have the guitar for for a Kiba too but he doesn't believe it he said well I see now I see I mean but as the Brad paolin and Haley gimbal the end of Simon youth base he says if there is a in this person he's not a kaifa he's just not religious but when he says he means then you can answer him and his brother when you give him if he after him with food so you have to tell him to make a brother I he's a Khalifa but reminds decide that hopefully and now he has to hear achuva the fact that he's willing to make a bracha at least that bracha will be a valid broker in fact gimmel talking about teaching a child to make a bracha you'll allowed to teach him even if you have to pronounce shame Hashem and all the place can cross the board says say regarding to teach a fry a person and if need be teach him how to say shame Hashem now experience shows if you take someone who doesn't know anything you say he goes okay let's try this again Hashem if you don't say adoi and say he's not going to get it so then you're allowed to say it because this is love gimbal to teach someone even though is talking about a child but never this is a child in his you know yadias of Yiddish kite so if you need if need be you'll have to actually verbalize the shame Hashem I is a religious good but give him discuss and let's hope mitsubish mitzvah can a fry a person say kaddish it's your side whatever it is so the embassies if he doesn't believe in what he says so according to Mr Brewer and cuff Tess Steve cotton dialed in your emotion here they are doubted in in Simmons he says just like there's an Issa of a manusaima regarding brachis there's also an Issa of Emmanuel Simon regarding kaddish so you have to know if he doesn't believe in the kadish that he says then it really is that kaddish and her swab once took a very strong stand about someone that said kadish who was in was a known kaifa but he did it because his father asked for it so Schwab told me you are making Hashem in the world and you're saying that if he doesn't believe in what he says then you really shouldn't be answering to that but we have to hope that if he is saying God especially at this time where he's maybe hopefully you know a little bit of the toys is having an impact on him and when he comes to face with mortality it's a fact sometimes this has an impact on this otherwise very cold heart so you have to be careful if he's saying the kaddish and he means it especially the cottage by leviath is not a question of of davening so if you unless you're certain that it's not because they're saying kadish you're allowed to answer a man to that kaddish now especially a base of L or any type of you know a lavaya is an opportune conducive time to somehow connect with him so don't that's the time of Ace the carry don't forget if he's realizing that life is not forever hopefully he will get the message sometimes these type of you know encounters the levia the Shiva has an impact on the fellow what's much more challenging is giving an Aliyah to a friar person so obviously if he's a if he's known to be a kaifa and this is a form of hanufa De navadinal no matter what no matter who you're endorsing someone that doesn't deserve the Aliyah who doesn't believe the question is if he's basically just an estranged yid he's off to Derek and he wants to know there he has he has the art site so the Prima got them raise pay base if cutting Zion if he's not a kaifa he's just not from then if need be if he demands one you'll have to give him an Ali no don't give it to him but if he wants the Ali and he's not a khaifa he believes what he says you could give him the Aliyah why obviously if he wants an Aliyah then he has some type of uh connection some type of uh you know feeling for it he's saying words that he means a little trickier when it comes to a simcha so he doesn't want it because he's a dung chuva you know sometimes you have with today in the world of alachuva you could have a grandfather that's totally irreligious and his son's a brilliant balchuva type of Bali chuva and I was making an animals by his sons by mitzvah for this Ada it is aniko he knows about Brian Mitzvahs he also got bar mitzvah and he once said Aaliyah so the is famous in similar but it says given Aliyah to someone that that gives married to a goiter not only it's ASA but whatever is but then again because it's someone that represents Rebellion he can't be honored with us was asked about giving someone who came from behind the Iron Curtain who's an oral I mean an oral is always the you know the epitome of of of of lack near this kite but he says but be careful maybe it's just because he wasn't able to he quotes the but he says you have to know you know like I would say my nurse is you have to know where he's coming from he came from a country that they that the the the the the biggest um spending the government economy was spent on uprooting Yiddish kite she can't say he's a he's a kaifa he was exposed to the worst shmad probably in history but basically you have to realize as the as we say mitsagaras Mitzvah unless you're certain that he's an epicyrus and hopefully what he says he means at least at this point and he wants analia he has a yard side especially it might be an opportunity to connect with him was asked to quit the quote the question that someone wanted a bar mitzvah of his inical he wanted an Aliyah so he said give him after the shivaquillium in other words making I suffer I saw the Ralph Paul and Michaela gimmel Simon you advise he says if you really won give him an Aliyah and call up another ID and relaying what you're laying for this Friar now you have to be careful because if it happens so you're doing a lot of damage but that's what he says just relaying this he's not even getting an Aaliyah of Sternberg when he was rubbing South Africa he said today or only fat so he says that Lamesa if you could avoid giving a Lia of other you should but it's hard to say it's also to given Aaliyah because again he's basically the real question is you have to make sure that it's not Khan because unforgivable if someone that represents Merida and it's like an ongoing Rebellion he doesn't deserve an early in any situation the ravenkin and gurusa Leo Simmons was also asked about giving an Aliyah and he wasn't too excited about it but he says don't give the first or last because that was the main two brothers that's his um compromise regarding Elias but basically it's interesting the marshag you see with the world they lived in helic base pay aleph about some of those married to a greater and he demanded an Aliyah the Shabbos before his uh for his father's yard site okay a muddled mentality and he was threatening Sox says to give him your life he said right if give him the Aliyah but you see how people have to deal with these shylists he's married to a goaita and he wanted to leave the Shabbos before if you decide not to give an Aaliyah don't feel bad about what's what about his poor fathers Nisha you know people wonder about that who writes that if someone does something of a parent and is really of little value because he's not religious it's not as close to the father he gets in Aaliyah and doesn't mean it so if you decide not to give man he's okay with that don't think you're depriving the father of something because maybe it's not really such a squish that his son gets up and says and doesn't believe in it and it might be hanuff and it might be a Anissa so if you could avoid it don't worry about the fathers and shama you know he's getting scared for the preacher the real question is when he has yard sign and he wants the omit I guess the bray till that Yates are everybody has but the truth is if indeed he crossed the line then how can you give him to them has certain qualifications for about Philip a shot has to be hogwon he has to be Reika miyavaris he has to be an owner of Maritza Lako rogo licorice Tyrone via Mexico [Music] that if someone's not hogging he what he's doing is he's being my neighbor toy from Israel and the Mr Burr in Topeka of dialysis of God and you it says if someone's Messiah when he shouldn't be he's Geisel Toyman are called in he gets up and he's leading the dabbing and he's saying the bracha um what kind of what kind of you know inappropriate darling is that so how could you allow with shots like this person to be a shot now I know it's talking about a shots kavua there but Mr Brewer and non-gimbal your Dallas spells out is possible even to be a shots back right in other words to put it in simple American English he's the wrong man for the job that's not Aaliyah that's a that's his private dinner with pot but he's leading the the tibur Mr Blue and cotton Bays he says also to be a shot and don't answer if he does lead the tibur so there's very little tolerance for being a student in fact the I saw the lacket camera that it's easy to let him be a sheikha then because he says that in in davening is a lot of has to do with the hero and his heroicum but definitely in halacha is Muhammad than getting Alias or anything else come out again who is well aware of the American scene he also took again a strong stand not to allow someone that doesn't you know doesn't is not for him to be he says you have to rethink about it maybe attack maybe you should give him but it seems a shots is a much more serious problem again you have to be careful sometimes you could work it out in a peaceful way but to be a shots cool a high volai maybe volatility but basically to lead the diving is something that is difficult I'll leave you two interesting shylists which we would think maybe are not you know we would think probably the wrong way but listen to this question a friar person that's eating with you can you count them into semen so I want the demon especially a Zeman of three like you know big deal how how how how bad could you go well if you're looking at Allah gimmel I'm already it's not talking about a fryer I'm Arts England so the question is and what about the olden days you can't count it on Mars I mean we're talking about Freya or Kai frame but I'm orig is that also a disqualification foreign but today if we rejects we're going to do a lot of damage so today we do count in our March even though it's in itself is an is an Insight how we have to be understanding you know we have to make sure that Ace won't happen you you reject it on maritz you're going to lose them so today we have a big traditional that accountant on Moritz oh goofa what's wrong with our mothers and Times of the gemara so Mr Brewer explained but really did we showing him that demon is a different din it's an Israel we eat together and we join together and say the brother do you want to join with an ambarritz so Zeeman is most demanding in other words today we do count them already it's gonna be afraid to lose them but in theory zemon was than anything else even an amarus foreign because taka mores were afraid to lose but since he says the irreligious there's not so many of them we have to stick to iked in and you can count a friar person into a demon now this is a new regarding the fryer and the way the Mr Blue explains he he says the Prima God is more Michael but it's not true he says is totally in his status if he's taka khaifa but here we don't count but today we do count but once he's a balavera of any sort you can't count them into a demon now the hiddish is that the Allah yes maybe for a minute of ten you could count them because their location to a minion unless unless he's put into him it doesn't say seemon is different maybe for Zeman I saw her you could count to fry a person [Music] with a friar person and he says even to be Allah writes because there's no difference a demon of three or a demon of assar so that's a tremendous a friar person can't be counted into Seaman now I today so his feeling is that we don't have real tonight and you can count the fry a person into a seaman of three or ten has such a situation he would omit the word elekanu because he didn't want to make a minion of Asura counting in a friar person I did see the Kenyan tiger the trash he was asked this question which typical he was living in France in those days there was a minion show this someone at you know from can you make a demon of assar sir well one second and after what do you do about my rev oh that you have no problem just demon you could be saying if you count them for Meyer so why is even worse even though zemon is worse in a certain sense but his main point he mentions the Binion and basically you could rely that attention is but one thing I thought was beautiful says this whole question is counting him into demon but make no mistake he is Hive and Demon 110 percent he's Hive in every if you have three Friar people they should make a demon they could count each other there's no one is looking at because it's a cooler they should answer the demon the tragic style of but this person asked me his son was eating in his home who's not from could he count them at the zema he has one son that's from him and this is this boy after that telling him you're not from you're not Jewish what are you gonna do I told no one thinks you have to hope for the best hope that he's taka a attention is but because of the terrible tyvis and hopefully you can follow us around that opinion see and even though again it's questionable but the message is sending the unintended message is devastating be careful never labeling your child as well as a guy foreign so to us it's probably the most positive as such such a personal tests it's Mama's as clear as day like if he didn't marry somebody is also too and he's not being Tamil amazing even though his name is and as Mr Brewer explains Arena shell MS he is a Russia no doubt about it noisy as Kappa is if you have any speakers [Applause] can definitely make the Cs copaya plea what's Chad what's up what do you mean is one of them there's no exemption because he's off to there he does a various I you might want to do I want a broker from such a Cayenne you're making a mistake the plastic says he's only a candy with he's only a relaying them the brockov Hashem pillow player in other words let's let's not be make a mistake if he's doing a various that are painting his Kahuna he's married to abrusha or he's been with Tamela Mason or he's a kind that quote retired Miss Kahuna and his boom flagrant violations of kahuna that says is a problem because as the ursaru explains even though the person's giving Abraham but if he is foreign it goes back in the early 1900s there was a cry and came to shul yamdev and he wasn't talking and Rob know these guys goes I have to go to work after diving you know that the hand was two and a foreign they could go and do avoida that's the attitude we have to take tell them you're Aid and you have to dochan after you have a better perspective what to do now again the Mr Brewer does say if someone is he loses his afraid to pass him what about today maybe it's tanikshan isba the achias was asked about letting these Mahala Shabbos I'm afraid if you don't them they're gonna think that they retired from the Kahuna and they're going to end up marrying who they're not allowed so it's a very sticky issue about this question of but the right attitude is this you saw a d hand was up in the darkened they won't do malacha send them the message that you're good and I'll leave you as a vote where palm said probably the last months of his life he was extremely ill when he said this vote but it was like a rally to claw Israel at that time he said that we find in in Paris this moist the verse them told ma he said to redeem class Israel but as whatever it means didn't believe in the Eden what do you have in your hand I am my mouth I have a stick so everybody said oh take the stick and throw it on the ground and what happens she became poisonous snake scorpions and by honestly part of Maisha was frightened he was frightened because these are dangerous snakes against now stick out your hand pick up that dangerous snake why she was scared to the person told him and he picked out what happened and it became a matter not just a matter it became a matter of Kim that was that did the Isis Minnesota Pam said he once heard of art that this is a message to Claire Israel you have someone that's not religious and and today do you it looks like he's about crowd and you throw him on the ground because you're no good what happens he turns that haunts you he becomes the poisonous snakes he becomes what I say lie delighted what we see in Eric's world today but if you pick him up and you have a caravan and you say I do believe in you and I do see a future and you are a brilliant Diamond that has layers of timtim you'll see a mately Kim you'll see oiseum you'll see Nissan of flies and he said then about sugar but it's any one of these wonderful organizational thrilled that are taking this picking them up and making isisome today there are thousands of because people believed in them that if you pick them up and you see the good in them you'll see the nice them and the Flies foreign Ukraine hundreds of thousands of Eden didn't know where to go and the stone were there but my level [Applause] went out with millions of dollars to say about thousands and taco bringing them to Israel but there are tens of thousands who are still now in Ukraine and we don't understand the amounts of their cautious and the moon every single day why are we Zoe could have these bombs flying and we don't understand the lights are going over there's no water there's no toilet and the hey this world is going around we is in many communities in Belarus in Ukraine and then it's a strong thousands foreign but we have to all countries United States Europe everybody smelting billions of dollars to give the war why could they understand this is no less we're not talking about 18 or 180 we're asking everybody's weather can get eighteen hundred eighteen thousand and a hundred and eighty thousand they're having a campaign this week two days to try to raise millions of dollars to try to help out and that's the biggest physic we could give to them and they know that and the good thing the breed in America said who is also Rabbi Deshawn who is still running the moist the oil is oil whoever can help out everybody's trying to check now yeah this role or credit card that is part of it is here now and this is running in the Forefront of this is protection for our duties of our kingdom David Allah everybody take out a credit card make payments for the year checks and this is in a few minutes right after college all right [Applause] foreign he's treated like a guy that's simply as a shock treatment or basically because he's not qualified to do that Mitzvah but he's still Hive in every there are born on every seat caught in Chicago so basically with all the obligations perhaps he loses his privileges but not his obligations to be someone who's broke is not a broker and it's a class for itself but the typical balavera who even if he's not a connection is but if he's not a kaifa then basically his brother is a broken the major question about tradition in the Lord or people that are basically respectful but that's not me is that a form of of authentic shenisbah that's a question that Godzilla have grappled with but there is definitely that he does know better it's like the type of attitude if someone is a kaifa really kaifi he's not his Brock is not a broker and be careful hanuffa is not counted into a minion if he's someone that's willing to join a minion I don't know his status you could hope that's a good sign that there's something there he's not brain dead so to speak and he wants to join hopefully he's enough of a year that you could count him into the menu Gabby that it's not Allah because maybe it is not Philippa but if he wants and you say no that's going to be a devastating um condemnation of him and his as yet this guy then take him into the minion and help mitsugaras Mitzvah a even though my show has a remedies Ramos him that you don't count them into a minion that could be by attacker that's a kaifa but the painful question can we still rely on the Binion that the average but that's something that really needs a lot of umiz felt it is true others felt maybe today has changed but definitely there is a group that is still qualified to be that Hector because they're oimamoto their level is just another level it's not something that they have rebelled even though it's of course it's a toyus but especially if he's willing to help you you could assume that he has that status of ayid if he wants to say Kadesh or especially in the base of Olivia that's a time to Ace Le karave and Aliyah you should avoid because it's a pretty much of a kalashem unless Taki s word and it's not shivaquilliam if it's you have to really rethink that question because hanuffa is never acceptable being a shots is probably the most serious of all shyless at most but he's not the right man for the job that's definite Seaman today believe it or not is also Hammer even a three or ten and duchening unless we know that he's a Russia a a someone who's a kaifa he if he's just a just quote-unquote abalavera it's the verse I'm giving the bracha and most important onto the our brothers and and those that think they're off the Derek with a voices to have and hopefully that will have an effect foreign this week Tesla meets us [Music]