Do's and Dont's of making kiddush - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

to sundown [Music] we'll come avoid busy making sure I'd like to welcome everyone to today's share from of yeah cadets miss Li John a dozen dosa main kiddush like just an influencer a sheet of butcher fish Lima fish afraid an omnibus esta so sure Hurley saw me I realize it's a good school you want to learn and realize how much you don't know if wait to walk awesome gives gets married to ask you a few Silas someone asked me a few showers about kiddush that are very basic Silas we should all know them we do it every week yet I couldn't really answer him clearly because again it wasn't clear he asked me about when you make kids you have to always rinse the case if you take a case out of the break brother it was just polished you have to rinse it should someone hand you the case all you have to do it you could pick it up on your own is the case when you fill that up as opposed to overflow his father's many was to add three drops to the bottle what's shot on that and again we know a little bit about it a little bit more but as we'll see today these and many more are all based on the pharisee Kamara's all in chauhan oil so I wanted to learn this so here we call the do's and don'ts of kiddush and I think this it's a dash of AX is things that are Nagaya every single Shabbos and perhaps you don't have a clerk ID in them and also we'll see yo cinemassacre ISA the flare comes self Connor every nuance of our avoid this I share may be part of our kiddush we could say it's too late Elam shell Hall office there's no doubt about it the midst of kiddush is a very prominent mitzvah mcmorrises him Sock'em evolved learns from the PASOK in Paris yes sir I saw Paris a mischievous Tkach oh he's a prayer you all I am now that along that we learn kiddies from a pasta give me authority Burris tells us the importance of kiddush according to Rashi and brought his dog off from abased Isis ensures an inciter and other rishonim this omits of the riser to make kiddush with a case of wine now my so there's a different way of teaching the word the culture and that is just to sanctify to glorify to speak the sever of Shabbos where do you see DAF kawaii just like kids away this you don't use wine your Mac Edition then you with var and that's why a number of Regina that's the seat of the Rambam that holds that really there's no fee of the rice to make kiddush our case the inca is the cat's eye the cat's a bit var I the Lawson of the Gemara safer you al Hawaiian look that's a smart but again this is the sheet of Tice's in some places the sheet of the Rambam but what one thing we have to realize all agree that is a mitzvah the Arizer to me cottage the Shabbos whether it's Mikado's with the case of wine or minimally to say words of kiddos all the money I'm it sister I'm I'm the scent of the smog I mean Assad yoga in all count the midst of kiddush as one of the tire yack mitzvahs and I saw the Pima Gotham beginning of race I now love says even if it's only an ass master but as lost juniors I slapped the kasuba kiha havoc adaptive art IRA from sedation inhaling Bayes cuff tears love regarding a Suffolk and kiddush he says you have to repeat the kiddush because there's there's a voice saucer if you don't make it is properly he's talking actually you make it this on water instead of wine so you have to repeat the kiddush because minimally we have a lace also their eyes and perhaps we have a midst of kiddush the erisa plus I must mention the famous of some safest sheet and in the tubas test valve is iron and cobalt also in the Gillian and so Honora then even if you hold that the intimates of the rice of kiddush is Allah is the divider but we call you sir I'll have a mind not to the idea with the kiddush that we say ensure we want to be rights with Kadosh our choice okay Regan raesha and gimel Tusayan after theis the Chavez's he's gone game of misrule sitcom cough all say the same thing on their own so as you see I didn't do justice but our kiddush is very important whether it's the rice order our Bonin but for us we could look at it like a real missile ERISA of course the objective the purpose of it as the Senate Amit solomonov explains condition is I am itemizes Ellis Varga doulas hi I'm the Nick verbal of Avenue and Muna's hit asylum this is a weekly rejuvenation we refresh and we recharge our batteries of the motor you think about the simple meaning of the words of Pythias of a hulu you know you wonder how many millions and billions of architects and carpenters and electricians and plumbers will need it to build this world I'm just to build this show how many work is how much time went in but we know that's a foolish question not one worker not one bit of work keep a conscience or lavabit virus of our master and we think about the kiddush and the mice operations a person should become sick with Ramona debris is how I love the concept the Chimera says in Shabbos NASA whether that cook you a test in the base whether says via Hulu NASA should live like a disbeliever my sebaceous so now Highness what does that mean you can't put on my suit the boat was built already but again maybe and it means a person becomes closer and closer to the finish slalom and is the florists have boy Yuri but be that as it may again we're not to justice but it's certainly a very important physican Ala Moana and Bria soil to apply this Lamesa one thing is posit that since there's definitely at the rise in kiddush septimius awesome therapy Koudelka in midsole Amidala you have to be myself in the shemitah' and if someone said Kenny's without any qivana he would have to repeat the kiddush because we passed commits a surface cap on the fact that we say buy a hulu three times is based on our guys Miami needs quoting a majors so so it's a toy this man guys my medicine Philip Eric tells how laughter hey the mr. Burke quotes a recap that says the same and the calf a chimera Shayan Aleph non-test quotes RPC from the area cottage that we say by a Hulu three times actually the howl offered is also a reason we say once in Davin Inc we say it after darkening after this - I should say but they say right after this - uh because young Tiff's are called the Shabbos we don't say it in this way Nasir and will soon see the third and we say it at home is the mighty our family members who didn't davon who didn't say it in sure but that's clear that the via hulu that we say as kiddush took the tour in the beginning and raised i analysis actually in the new princess see if you'd to be might see been a base i who didn't hear say via hoola Winchell but now you realize that even if a person is home alone he has no family he still has to say via Hulu in kiddush because as we said our piggy souee them and basically opa-locka we must say three times by your Hulu and I'll show you to the extent how this is important the mr. Berg and see if cotton mem hey so erasing in alle he says if someone said kiddush and simply forgot to save our hulu how that happened I stopped asking how things happen things happen let me tell you he said kiddush with a car he drank it last a rifle so mr. Burris says that during the sued them fill up with ice and say by a hawla wala close don't make a broth oh ok you could drink the coz it's optional but you have to save alcoholic ice that'll be a very memorable kid this your family will see what's going on they won't figure it out but you have to buy a whole while of course our pllaka now p site but your boy saying here we start to see the I see master curry sale of their comics Ofcom okay we know kid this is important vehicle is important why do we start with the words you're a machine now you're less can unlearn a personal thing while waiting in the past six starts yeah a much who love Somalian but that's foolish young RCC is the end of Perak Alif embraces the hulu begins Parekh BAE's a different posting a different peyrac and why do we make a challenge to him as she seemed a Hulu and yet the Mohave Rama in sea filled race analysis must feel and you aim a cc so the simple shot that there are more himself because is because you want to start kiddush with this with the same at least their asset a vis you at cave of K so Yong has she seen via Hulu Hashem I am is the recitative as youth cave of K now lest you think this system gives up there's a minik that some even have regarding standing or sitting for kiddush now of course as you know some people stand for the entire kiddush some people sit for the entire kit is there are more has a unique minik there are most minik seem to have been to sit for the entire kiddies but when you say yo you must CC by a hula washroom I am all made fast you stand up a little bit why you don't stand to buy a cool even for le does you don't stand but for your cave after you have to stand so you see obviously that is more to your cave of clay that meets the eye because we say shame our cemeteries and many people sit but obviously you have decreased but may come to surf camp but then the Magan have ROM on this remote adds a second reason that opens a whole new window into the greatness of kiddush seldom ugh and I promise it comes off days you have another business they are mushishi because we have to have in the kiddush 72 words connecting of course the shanty the oily chamois iron base and then if we have to add you IM SGC so let me explain this because the mom is a little brief in the parish of Iacullo there are exactly 35 words that's easy because there's no different dears oyster got accomplished by a whole was 35 words in the nuts of kiddush according to some this voice there's also 35 if you don't say key part of a character and if you don't say the words kill you I'm you have 35 words 35 and 35 to 70 but you saw to the objective is 72 therefore says the mug and I've ROM you add the word joy mushishi 70 plus 2 is 72 then he says from the a Sabbath at the different gears of the ZOA obviously that you have to have 70 words because this negative in Sheamus over cut this vocal not the semi in base but the 70 Sheamus so therefore you don't say you're a magician you save Iacullo and kiddush and you have 70 so here we see a ready to something a lot more significant that what meets the eye whether it's 70 or 72 now the meaning of 72 obviously counts you a mushishi to complete the number 72 but listen to this if you take out a scissor loosen ashkenaz don't be insulting the subscribe but that's the way through my arms are firm - and you'll count the words of the brother of mine Esther of my rib okay Nabokov a saint it also will total 35 so you have a package of kiddush of course in the kiddush your package of 70 in this mine Esther by a hulu and then you have the Bravo that's 35 plus 35 to 70 so here we see it seems like you know kiddush and shame I share I wanted the same kid the spit farm kid to sell a case but her voice is much more to this because at the end of the day it's still a little strange you take young mushishi from one parrot by foolish rival different parrot can you make a sugar for a good cave of cake there's more to this is up to go in and be regressive cotton cafe on Al Rahma he says there's a reason why there's some division between your good K and both K there's a reason why after aired the youth ke sath dagoyan because the words yama yama sheesh because the Madras is a real mess for a selfish Abbas adding to the shadows so the air force of the grind is a beautiful package Yaya she she is what we add by a follow the star Chavez bisman so together the youth cave of K forms the beauty of the Shabbos so you think about it in one tiny mini get there is such a thing three reasons why we say yeah mushishi either to form the same you--it cave of K or to complete the 72 words or the going says you want to have to excel for Shabbos together with Shabbos itself but miser it is still a little strange you couldn't find the remnants in the same plastic you have to take from two different sokham two different broken so that I'll refer to a Meyer saw and have a dessert after chemo my sauce has a dolphin if look at our kite and he says that keep a car Hashem saw a woman the birth of our son created this world with youth K when will they be the same Saleh when will be under cool a Shabbos mushiya comes so it's very Madhu ik youth K we start off that's now we hope when Abby McCarthy sharp Aslam that were in the world would be one big Shabbos then we'll have you it cave of game but right now we have to keep it separate because now the keys December's not selling the case he's not showing so all we have is your cake so you're thinking about you start with two words you're in mushishi besides starting off with a bang youth cave okay but there's so much meaning and symbolism and and depth and I make it yes in my security six of them now you're probably wondering but what about me now me could mean either if you say the fullness of Cadiz you do say keep honor of a character qu and if you're you do starving to subscribe you don't even have the kiddush in governing what am i doing about the 72 words I have too much so here we have an old estoy de muchacha and now with Simon discusses that at length I also saw this in the Chula from the earlier Rob they say that the aside really these in Yanam is you have to have at least the number that we're trying to achieve if you have a little extra miss Cavell look you know color mice if Hermosilla the more the merrier one Riya that which are two refers to is we find in beginning a race sama gimel he's supposed to have two neighbors connect itself of a summer but there are myself says if you have more it's better some people make seven sample according to the children in the family so we say that if you have more the Ohio House if as much as you want so the point is to have at least seventy two so for those that don't say King yo a man keep on if a heart makes your Ted you're in mushishi but if you say it and you add it no not versa you can't go wrong so then just saying that those that say the full condition those who haven't subscribed will always have more than 72 but it's also still very effective Lamesa you'll ask me so what's the right dose up I mean there are pros and cons I think the market of ROM puts it very well he ends this sticker fully mirror there ain't a shine a shamanic keelhaul min agates time via side dike Matuschka every minute is hailing the vinegar layer the bright minute is to follow your family minik someone or banking finance ones learning with the island Hilsa skiddish and he came to a question that was totally man hug him to someone else and what's the receivers medic in other words whatever the receiver does I'm gonna do so gang give us a step ahead of him since my minik is my father's medic so unless you have the same father like I have you don't really have to know what my mini gisani gay it's irrelevant so every person should probably follow their fathers medic now La Mesa what's very interesting is that they say that you are you gotta before the mocking I've run the say dying says there's another way of supplementing to get 72 words and that's the ad sorry boys I was sorry mornin now the MS of the sorry Marilyn is based on Arum on the end of coughing invalid when a person is benching or anytime any person is saying something for others sorry rabbi say Samantha Beamer I'm never gonna ride by sight but what's noteworthy that the toys are so fun and I intestinalis says when you come to kids just say those words sorry Merriman the market SIA VIP I can end in the end of Kufa and Dalit says even if you're alone make sure you say those words a primadonna at least so now we understand where they're coming from since according to this ad hi yarn we're using those two words a premiere on on to make from 70 to 72 I guess he holds instead of shame Ashish do you count that so first of all you have to say it always even if there's no one else there it's not just for someone else it's for yourself but more importantly don't say too much you can start adding more on everyone every size you end up with 74 so this on a simple reading you have two ways of making from 70 to 72 either the a mushishi or sorry Madonna now let myself if you have cost of a guest so you have your hutch to the children it's kadai they say sorry my darlin or a bone and release I and look at them proudly make them feel good I have too much will rely on what we said the site of the muchacha more is never a problem but my point only was to see the omec the depth of everything we do except me my ramen is important yeah mushishi whether the meaning of standing or sitting that's each person follows on minik but least we understand where it's coming from those that stand by Kidd is it's the caduceus kid this you want to stand for that hulu you're saying hey those you have to spend by meda and the kiddush itself is cut cut - those that sit is more of a clears and the hood was not necessarily a real aiders and the meaning of standing just say yaya mushishi by who has Shania that's their amaz Minich what's also noteworthy that many people don't just start your magician they will save ie area by evoking where's that coming in fact that might be my cigarette because you're gonna bring it above the number 72 so the shot the lavash in our simmer a sign out of your he just says when you start kiddush save ie error by a vodka quietly and then you say you're in mushishi he doesn't explain why something some siphons in the children cinnamon iord he says really you a machine she doesn't make sense what wasn't um SEC whatsoever CC so nice you got want to give it a little more meaning so you start by your area by evoking mushishi updated at some shot oh like damn we understand you really only say that you have to give it meaning but it's not part of the kiddush so say that quietly and yeah and I see you Ray she she raise your voice and then you start the killer's what's interesting is the lavash when he describes this minik he says and you say bye everybody i mushishi he says yeah my you stand up when you say you're a man she say who love Shania now there are most Lawson is yeah Marie class and I know some people just stand up like like be doing the benching a little bit out of the seat doughboys obviously change from us in there are more he said yeah my boy - Amy's bar maybe that would be the meaning of those that actually stand up for length when they say you are in my she should I could wash tonight now um I so with all this we have a problem from a different angle there's a basic cloth called super they pass key moisture and now my past Skinner we don't make our own versions of sukham you read a plastic read it Philippe Meister gave it to us from C night so where do you say all of a sudden you a mushishi Milano so some people say yeah my she's not a problem there's only two words we see regarding the fee of of Seir took two words don't count so it doesn't count for lab is here that doesn't count for cops okay but when you say by Herve Ivanka nope that's already a few words so the MS is they are hash Oh record the mendicancy cafe Oratia in our lift that some have the Minich and he says it's a minute knock line to begin the entire plastic the Yardley Kim saying the whole posture quietly and then your msec you raise your you raise your voice this we have no problem of called Suki the some siphon that shuva discusses this problem and he says he quotes from an earliest so actually quotes in the monkey Boyer which is an earlier from an earliest source that when you have a snapped up then after yes is like a it's like the end I saw like an end of a after the snaps is like a new part of the pussing knew enough that you could start from there and the truth is by Arab value vodka is F than a snap Allah does up to some cipher it doesn't concern us if you start very very vocal then I'm sick some say this time and it could club doubted discusses this also and he says and but really the problem is not really a problem if you say something as a Leawood as a Lamesa something of meaning then you have thing of a problem called Suki but we say it there at South Lewis he says they're obnoxious is not a problem and here a kid is his base in his next attempt so you're trying to start the kiddush you can't start the a mushishi so you throw in a few extra words it doesn't really count and therefore you could say it and not worry about cope Suki but what to me was interesting so that some cipher seems to be bothered listen if you could do it right why not do it right why don't you start by yara lake in miss kailash awesome be a sport he says no that's not an option because the plastic being a toy you've more than that plastic the magic I just tied my exam novice we don't want to start Jarvis with mothers even an illusion even a referenced above us so again you say kid is yeah yo samosa creases may have hung so got a whole tiger about how to start so here we see that the kid is again is all Macomb of Miyagi Leno but on a simple level we want to start off with the mushishi and we do it right with various men hugging I must mention that the city itís the Iverson is Sidda he says the proper to do it is to say you are a machine then pause and after you pause then you continue by a Hulu why push it and you think about it like the reasons its passive yo msec is one thought one parrot by a Hulu is another parrot it doesn't mix salt will quit in my rear but then again like the reason that you want to keep together your cape off game or other reasons it might be better to combine it into one so whether you say it together or not that's will tal him and hug him but definitely we see every minute Israel is cutting now we have basically the last group of questions regarding kiddush and of benching so we'll have a double benefit and I should mention we'll also discuss a little bit about the Dalit crisis so we'll have a triple benefit but for all of this we have to learn the kymaro the Gemara isn't broadcasting an olive because that vme you can still remember it well and memory says that i quote a surah devar a member of occasional bracha crazy shell brothel requires ten features tone hidaka who Steve bubble sincere in sync I and you have to mix who male it has to be full eater crown Ito the proper dress code no you could bust a yoga cake with two hands the nice Libya min hold in your right hand McBee I'm in a character tougher you lift it up off the ground a Tesla from those days they ate on the floor as we know about in the say the night is to have a saber but they on the floor the nice and ain of boy and you look at it then the Amara says that these ten are part of Costa Brava but the real four important ones are hadaka stiva high and male those four so right away the daily acronym actually missiles and some other restrain him say this it's Russia pay this simcha in other words simple there is the mana pin before Steve firmly hi and a Dhokla also spells out the word similar so we see 10 parts of Costa Bravo four main ones now to Isis is quick to sort of rephrase this and he says but my sir we see that the time turn are you i'ma Ryan were very busy with this so we'll say yes lajas Mira do all pen in other words none of our keys but all are important now let's apply this to kiddush chandâga will also see about benching and dollar crisis first of all Lamar says it took what does it mean so they might explains now papa my actifi Austin Revathi para su ji racing in other words you have to be dressed properly for benching for case Abraha something mr. brewer and cook pay Gimbels he's cutting you now love quoting both bath and mug and I from when you been she's supposed to wear your hat and jacket yarmulke is good but not enough wear a hat and jacket and there's no right to strong lawsuit hey no hug goodbye Chi Yong Bistro that's the universal minute when you bench wear hat and jacket now this is my gaya for us / kiddush also because enraged I and olive see if your drama says that the case of kiddush needs all of their love is that a necessary for the case of benching therefore I saw the scenario service and members I'm from Zion he says a Eurasian ayam should always wear his hat and jacket for kiddush now even if you take up the hand jack but the Sudha but the kiddush the hat and jacket should be on in fact he says not only the one that says the kiddush but anybody who's right sir because he has the same fear of kiddush he's being yardstick if this Shamir gonna would apply in this respect also now generally after school Friday night we come up with hats and jackets maybe kid is Junsu you can't find your hat so he wear a towel let's put the towels over head but this is basically based on a kimono that's for kiddush like benching hat and jacket is the way to be dressed of course the day kiddush is a little a notch lower it's the cooler element me through our bond but then again it's still am its left kidneys and that's part of the prerequisite of kidneys the next question is very negative because it has many ramifications and that is is there an absolute T of to rinse the Beca before you make kiddush now let's talk on a simple level the better was polish to cover Chavez in the breakfront it's anything but dirty what am i rinsing or question number two I used it for kiddush last night and it's the way it is can I reuse it now for kiddies by day or let's be more aggressive you come to school this is part of Murphy's Law and the kiddush is ready they told the kugel smells tantalizing and you can't find the back someone just make it this and he left half the wine in the bathroom with a normal make goodness no gotta rinse it but the problem is the sink is a hundred feet from here now people have been fasting three days as you know you know for this kid this and they can't wait just make cabbage add wine can I just add wine and make kid this as it is and this is also Nagaya delaila Seder the after rinse the better in between cases so simply speaking this is a very secular because part of the four big ones the main ones is Stefan Adama hidaka the gamora Titus means wash it inside stiva demerit IH is in the outside now if you look in desire desire is probably what you have to wash on the outside toilet like cabaret and it has to be a hunger issue hoody a hundred percent so here we see Medina Gomorrah and the circle North quotes this both in cuff Peggy mo and in Rey sayonara feud that kid has to be like benching see after rinse the case so what's the Schuyler however you're looking twice this and more my first opinion and that's William breakfast they say when do you have to wash the Kois if it's dirty dirty does not mean if it has some wine residue dirty means if you ate the sudha and though days they would dip the bread or whatever food into the case of wine so as the O'Banion spells it out the shots are Fela there is some see you Ray Akhila that is inappropriate the kiddush that's a food residue that's not just wine and therefore you have to wash but our clean case or believe it or not Alba case that was used by someone else the kiddush what's wrong with it it's real clean it was clean it's go clean there's no food residue and I'll bring you a riot your brewer but if you think about it you'll see a dolphin if look we are for case ice and paste a finite now the first one is generally clean but if we drank drink the first guys we just fill it up for the second case we don't rinse it out but after the second case in other words when you're starting to make the third case after the benching we do rinse it out before the third case for the third to fourth we don't rinse it out make up your mind some you do most you don't want you do - Tanya a case has there and the plea is you look in the mr. Bruin tough I in gimble see if cotton Salma guess cuz shady you don't have to rinse it between first and second third and fourth it off the rinse it but in tough I am tests in the beginning mister versus you have to rinse the case be before you take the third case - Donna Ross is beautiful because the second case first a second there's no serial killer if there's no eating thirty fourth is no eating but from the second case which you use during the Sudha now you're about to bench there is a potential possible Sharia healer that you have to wash so there you see me now you obey that case with an ass residue of wine is okay it's only it was used in a zoo dog you have to wash it and that's indeed the muhabba sheet that seems so these he quotes this and cook Begum Oh Aleph choice or bruffett our dog having a flame but if there's no Sheila case is no food residue you don't have to wash it and that's why you'll see many people will not rinse the case specially comes from the breakfront Friday night what's wrong with it I did see epsilon mu Salman in social slime Malaysia is that iron race I an Aleph see if caught in your Zion he says he makes a killing if you're taking a kite that someone else drank from like a case of the shoe someone else drank from it so since according to my secretary instead of their hair it's rather parrot test you shouldn't drink from someone else drank from so that's lacking in covered abraca so if you're using someone else's use Christ then you should wash it but if you have your case that you use for kid this Friday night and you don't use it by the sudha you can pick it up for the day skiddish without rinsing it at all that's not part of the field I've can what we find then I love them however it's you do and many people are mocked bid they rinse out of course even if it's perfectly clean this is based our pika bola the calf of time and cough paid mo see if cotton valid this is materials area called this the of its master that every cause no matter how clean it is needs both ki Noah both had a thief and a dog went on a wild tell you exactly why the test is our law firm that was the Pell URI to safer entrepreneur and cooked a gimbal BAE's he says that why do you have to rinse turquoise is clean he calls difficult common in Iraq Michonne Pashtun shell varam Ella right some ideas Jemima I'll call kites the kites say this l uranium the answer is kites because say this Arianna now you understand that we can move on the ice and mash the grease have made some surf camp it's interesting that remember Salman and that show confinement under Africans seemed to allude that that's the Minich not even though I love you don't after the rehearsal was a big bad offer but I have a chauffeur right I don't understand why the basics of America doesn't quote desire so I could say those that only rents a case when it's dirty they're following me a lava goes that always wins the guys that I'll pick a baller and then it's both Dokka and stiva now if you come to a kid ish and assuming that people are very overly anxious they don't want to wait til you rinse it so if you want to pass skin that's here I don't need to it's only kiddush without sheering I'll call you're not Haislip Slimers Alma's extra comer of someone else drank from it and you filled up the case and make a this on it you know people are very Mac bit on the midst of kedusha raba you know this reason macademian you could do Siravo I once got invitation it says there'll be a kiddush athelets feel urabá that I liked the Dominic is the roundup operates under a very focus on the caduceus Arava so if someone picks up someone else's Christ and adds wine to it I can't say it's wrong now I will say but the wine is part of someone's rank from it so there are two answers first of all you're adding wine and also the case itself is generally not public but here we see again basically those that rinse the cries that is our peekaboo now the next question is why do some people add three drops to the wine bottle so if the wine is problem I understand but it's a new bottle it's a fresh bottles not pokum so you might say oh wait a minute isn't that the Gemara the mario says one of the things is Lizzy go cry you don't drink wine as is you have to add something but that's not true because in the olden days when the wine was so strong you couldn't drink as it is then it was necessary to turn from yayan high like the mother says intimacy go butts up the stuff American cook paid Gitmo see base that our wine is not so strong you don't have to add anything to it so why do people add three drops slavka and a konami there's no here the base even cooked bacon more quotes and measures should Wilson Elam decide this in adding three drops to the case of wine will soon see the real McCoy is to add to the wine and people some reason add it to the bottle but every Basin is quoting the reason to add drops to the case of wine you want to know the reason I'll tell you exactly it's up the kappa hi my Messiah now left none test choices game at Rhea 86 Allah Kim yayan is 97 times 7 to the D in the Connecticut e7i sealed in shame Hashem my am sorry them take the yayan is 70 connected to 70 Isis maíam is 90 connected the test using the same ayan days now you understand everything will move on but the eye and am I am and case everything has meaning so basically adding the drops is our pick of all there are more darker moisture on this day CEO says that we don't do it there now with an hour Minich but it's interesting in so Honora even though the basis have mentioned this minute he doesn't quote in Johan all the mr. Bruin chief caught involved sends you to base Yosef that there is an in Yin to add something to the crisis so it's interesting that the base Yosef close to the base URI supply nunchaku mom and mr. burr makes the point of reminding us of this minute now from the wording of the base Yosef it's clear that the mini was to air the drops into the case to my knowledge the meaning of those that aired the drops is into the battle Goethe Mary Ellen wonders about this but that's the minute that's Dominica those that have the Minich know what they're doing those that don't have the Minich it's based on a simple hollow for that today there's no fear of Mazique o the next question do you have to overflow the case of kiddush doesn't have to pour over and if a person has their very levity kiddish the time he finishes its it's not focus you have to refill it so this is my gaya to been Ching condition also the dollar crisis so what's interesting is people seem to think Amara says different and it says but the lush designer Gemara there's no indication that has to be overflowing the Russian segment Broca's is a maverick Alki small a nicely mouthful of believe it's our own now the word Mali means full where do you see over 4 though however the braava that the Gemara is mastiha class oh now full of believe it siren Oh male there's a session that might imply that it should be overflowing but there's no mention that the case has to be overflowing we know it will soon see in hillcrist abdullah rage Sadiq volved our law says via the Abdullah clothes should be overflowing but there's no mention of the case of kid is being overflowing and what this male mean I'll tell you my love we'll all you need for kiddush is a Revere's let's say you have a small amount of wine and you have a big case and now the case is not full so that is what male where Molly plays an important role so the pace can say that if someone has a case that's not full let them fill it up how do you fill it up so it's interesting minik that the price can say add bread to it any bread to it is not very appetizing I add water but if you add too much water it might lose the same Gulf especially if you have great to sneered water it loses the same grape juice I have a very simple solution and ice cubes ice cubes very elegant not bread it raised the level of the wine and also unless you have a very fine liquor kiddush it won't melt so you don't lose them you don't lose the quality of the wine or grape juice so if you have grape juice you wanna make them self you have ice cubes you'll gonna make kiddush on the rocks like they say and you only have Milo's without constraints but that's really where the male plays a role but why should overflow and the MS is that's if you read this should be Gamora that's what you're going to find what's aplia the remote and cook Begum obeys which is really based on the lotion of the Turin cook Peggy mo there are mothers cry so Bravo your Milano SIA male I'll call Godoy stuff oh that's a different word means it's overflowing and this seems to be the Minich of those that overflow every case or broker now the question is why what about ball caches why are you wasting one have dollar testers Johanna what way there are more with the tour get this from so the MMS is the tires in the EMA and see if cotton dollars an ounce an hour cook Fatima he said I see people they don't felt the Chi still atop why not what about Molly he says maybe they think that's part of it turn to leave a crown of unfilled part of the case that's not the shot he says okay I agree don't overflow it because that's wasting wine because of a mafia now place molly of auckland but the place we say the cache means to say don't waste one and this is important to mention you know when the mckenna speaks about the issue about touched it he says even a a mustard seed don't waste while Tashkent is lobbed Africa million dollars and you'll see something interesting the tires and hoses half dollar weirder Ahmad does recommend overflowing it the car says but don't overdo it just minimize the amount of overflow of all touchless in the end of cliff ayan Brammo speaks about a minik that you shouldn't drink from a crisis give it to someone else to drink I guess now the with the germs of heightened awareness of germs there must concerns about that he says but you should but you what you wipe the lid of the case but don't use the drink itself but that's about phosphorus so you see that it has to be focused about touchless so why should we overflow the case of kiddush for no reason so obviously there is a reason if the tour and there are more say overflowing it then that's why people do it but I must mention that I don't know exactly why from these two but of Simon Salman and a number of his farm he's quoted and I saw that the commandments are not talk they learned that the shot in eat or not knowledge at eyes that do not fill it entirely and leave a rim leave the top part of the coast unfilled the Mazama used to say that gives someone a case to make it Hashanah to make a broth on that's overflowing is inappropriate it's gonna spill on his hands a yo and you have a give him a cup of tea that's overflowing so he was in favor of not filling it to the top okay but this what the TAS says that that's not shot on it sir I think we could say that those fill it to the top are doing what the Gemara says those that have a minute to overflow it it seems to be based not on the Gemara per se but on the tour and the r-mo now now you're listen it has to be filled so how about after I finish my kid is does not know no longer fault but that doesn't seem to concern me because it's add-in in the case the contest would be overflowing it was overflowing as soon as you know you filled it you got the browser doesn't have to be constantly overflowing and Raisa Pella I could prove it because the we try to fill up the arbor crisis and yet the mini geese role is when it comes to the pen Marcus we take a little bit off and we don't find what how lava anybody you have to refill it now piece so it isn't him to be filled it the site glorious of a refilling Apollo it is no Keith so obviously the point of a fill or overflow movies that didn't cut cell Bravo once you did it you enjoyed some even if a person had a very laboratory kiddush it doesn't have to refill it now I think becomes less than of invidious which is very rare then you have to of course fill it up if someone as we said has domenica not to refill it only by abdullah that's following the basic halakhah will be fine me tomorrow now the next question i wanted to mention because i think it will give us clarity to some things that come who embarrassing i once noticed that someone was mostly home half of them up the bench and the case was ready say no no no and he looked at the back of them no no no he told him why don't you hand me the case so the person said why don't you take the car yourself so you don't want to talk is that my my cranium is there an in yin of someone handing you a case of benching kiddush abdullah so as we always do let's look at the Casal I will get clarity the source of this minik is a Gomorrah that I mentioned earlier and one of the 10 is nightly bestia like the pastas through your day from Cuddy descalvado SSM now let me be very clear the one thing that all agree okay thank you very much using your cup okay the real theme of the Gemara is when the case is on the table take it with two hands and then put it into your right over soon as your lefty in his left hand what's the shot I could pick it up in my left hand and put it to the right but after hold two hands this is a vinegar my nightly beast a yard of dr. materi night by which they are the men are so fun the nicely Africa could be amino what's the purpose dr. Parsons he's gotten a left because his father the sofa Vives of the case two costed macabre called quite right and then you hold it in one hand it should never commercially but what's clear the holidays is you pick it up the two hands and then reposition it into one hand now this is Clark the only issue becomes when you're looking to restrain him the rush the makea the behave and I think the first list of all the I'll neck at cooking involved they all have a different gears apparently in the Gemara not nightlife but macabre I wish they or them now the word night Lloyd could either mean take it or receive it we just learned them I made a few Amy just learned that basil myself the Shabbos the only night but not if it means taking or receive it but the cowboy has one meaning receive it from home this is the source of the meaning of those that have someone handed the case if you look at the Sahara this is your unusual kibosh on earth like the tour and see if outlet macabre bursts a yard of so here we see the different man Hogan is in a word of a Gomorrah literally a word of Adam are now Lamesa LP Kabbalah the copper Heinz he caught me a test also explains a bigger balls another reason to take it with to it to look from some more two hands because this i'll pick up all our piece artist now the only issue is maybe all of this is cooked pay gimel which is built as a Muslim benching I am benching through the entire seaboard Medina Gomorrah let me just learned the city of Zeman Zeeman really was I been to the t book so if I'm benching for the Tibor I have to show a little submission a little half not let I'm not gonna grab it let someone hand it to me especially if there's about a boss that's Muhammad me it's inappropriate to cop relax let him give it to you but who says when I'm making kids to my family or making kiddush alone I have to be macabre lit from someone so knows maybe the only din of macabre the clouds is by benching and this is indeed the taina of a blank of Emden in the city I've it sits in the new Princess okay look out on the Tufts a math test he says some people in standard a new Minich that someone hands them to clay so Bravo listen the Gemara like myself yeah I don't where they got to something I did not say that now the Emmis is his gear sir was nightlight so then like marshmallow key but if the girl says macabre lie it's in the forest then he says and even desire I'm not so convinced holes like this he says he refers you to Macomb is safe America to you but then he says what's my minute when I remember to do what I do it very laid-back attitude and then he says but one thing is for sure it's only when there's an area that's benching with Bruce's Bala bus then maybe it makes sense that the ball boss handed to the area but Stan why you wasting time you know you but you're just big mouth sick between my Mariner I'm benching and ends up we start fighting back and forth is just to get them in ik mainly by benching when there's an array of Hannibal abayas and in the Civic slice of the ROM has the same analysis it's a Denon benching with the Bala bus but what's I can mention there's an earlier source the leakage oyster which the husband of true Mossad Ashton is page 86 he says when it comes to play lay pays off there's no dinner of macabre stay yo mouth this is interesting to me he apparently had the kirsten macabre state yard oh but there's no since then on Pesach why because that like benching it's only by benching but later they say them or kiddush and Abdullah there's no din of receiving the kid there the caisson someone else's hand so it's only a didn't benching again like I say uppy uppy site some people are marked with every Christ soul broccoli even kiddush someone hands to them but it seems that the Kiev might be never if you learn night light by benching and certainly by RAF this more of an in Yin but basically the real if isn't in Yin it's more or less by benching when I found the palace you're in the car I am and it's a roof page mo he says kid is enough though there's no dinner bhima cabo only the dollar crisis he doesn't say why but I imagine that's better harris someone hands it to you it's a more prominent way to start the kiddush which hand to hold the case so that's clear Araya t holds in his right hand the muhammad cook bake em oh hey see it says a lefty should hold it in his right hand which is his left hand it Hills this lulav we find the chakra mark says differently and again LP Halawa Diwali love to say left hand for a lefty I see them and slide them out beside you always hold the case in the right hand how to hold the case so the machina from and see if got involved close to slaw the Shenmue kou Balin they hold it in the palm of your hand and the five fingers should envelop and surround the case so you're holding it with the palm and the five fingers that's way many people do it there are some Siddiq in that hold the case of kiddush like they hold the coffee cup like this with their fingers all right what about desire so the mother never already says it's a named Warhawk you have to hold it like this palm and the five thing is around it you could hold it like it called a cup of coffee so basically there are two men hugging rather the third Minik to balance the case on your phi thing is but you have to be a good balancer to do that you shouldn't drop it I must mention what the Gemara says my bi telfa lifts the case at f a-- above the ground or table now generally be standing to kid this you definitely have that if you sit by kids or when you bench make sure to hold it at F our four inches off the table and aspirants off let me share with you a fascinating question you finally realize how much goes into kid this you filled it up and you need their old and hug him what is the first thing you do and kiddush itself I'll give you two choices if you look at the case or look on the sitter hey running look at the case what's that supposed to mean that's back to our tomorrow breakfast and I love Noi's Sunday nobody zopi tomorrow no not my baby the line is C a diatom in a we want you to be focused on the case attention team Ahava quotes this and cook Peggy McDowell the mr. Brewer says you shouldn't take of your eyes or the bracha in other words don't be focused on the wine per se like you know you can't forget the wine and i'll spi not be objective connect to the brothel connect to the Mitzvah this is the way you have qivana you look at the case your focus on the mid so you have come on that's one option I'll give you another option maybe look into a sitter now today there's a heightened awareness about this inion it's wonderful people bench with a venture they say oh she also from a sign it's a wonderful thing to connect and say with qivana I must mention someone else to go and he needed a school at the bench with Kevon and not have my strawberries or ice she told them it's a plastic in the Megillah the voiceless mayhem LF all my mi safer use a sitter Yost remarks after her wrong that was not current era that was the head of the goings Ramez in the Megillah that if you say from a sitter you have come on I would add another halacha reason to say from a sitter the kiddush we said earlier that you say by a hula three might see affair now there's a whole tunnel of saying do armed civic sob I'll pair if you're being might see someone you still have a problem so how do you remedy the problem by reading from a sitter so I'll give you two choices say it's from book into them wine like your mother says or look into the sitter but guess what this choice number three is what there are more recommends and that is look at the neighbors with this coming from but back to our sauce this is broth his name gimel my base and Shabbos cookie Kimmelman base the gemara says when someone runs during the week he loses 1/500 of his eyesight how can he restore his very necessary eyesight so the Murray says from the kiddush a Friday night Rossi touches drink the wine of kiddush Friday night but the my real in the man hajiman Shabbos ice days quotes to my rash that would say you want to get back your eyesight look at the net look a to narrow is offered with somewhat what his mayor's have to do with eyesight parse it because Nair is 250 250 times 2 is 500 and since the damage is to 1 500 like tomorrow says so with the 500 you restore the loss of 500 as I say in the mario and guess what there are more in racial now left with our um up kiss some Asheville what is the first thing to do in Hilton kiddush heat Ain Ain of benares he went with this smart this Mario now what's interesting people say but I have many more than two neighbors so again we'll say either look at two neighbors or column Oyster Bay Rays in the Shiva the dark a moisture has the problem that we have it's very nice to have any on him but what about tomorrow the Americas look at the wine and you have a new a new engine but how does a new engine override the Gemara says there are back in moisture no problem for value Hulu will you need the eyesight look at Daenerys when you start to kid this where you have to connect it with qivana look at the wine and indeed there are most lawsuit is very careful when you start look at the male race when you start the kiddush look at the wine now Lamesa throughout the Morgan I've ROM it's a simple AIT's a politically correctly you say in America you stand in a position that you could look at the wine and at the pnei race and one shot but what's interesting is that many people find it difficult to steer it at the wine for a long time some people find it claustrophobic they get a little nervous looking at the one am I looking at so I once Claire the following Salem is the den of looking at the wine an Indian in itself or maybe it's a way of focusing and not being distracted looking around which kid is fighting and who's not listening you're looking at the wine you're not looking elsewhere if it's had been in maintaining qivana and I find a Siddha brings more Cup on it that might be better option and this cook here I saw in a bank of Emden America SIA and he seems to say no the Morrises look at the wine look at the wine but the veldt seems to say look in the city most people look at the Siddha I could say that the right way to do it is first look at the nail ice then either look at the wine or look at into the Sydenham I must mention for the shame a okona those that are listening have the identical same here they also me there I say the old Sapta qivana they also have weights up let them do the same look at the neighbors and look at the wine and one final thought I want to mention I saw this in the Shabbos about they quotes this my Sibella which is the result in siren mitzvahs parishes a curve their climate Vittal once had a terrible I ache and he went to his river nobody's out what should I do those days they went to a goggle for a toe so the reason says what do you mean you know the problem the Morris says that you have to restore your eyesight when you say kiddush and your kid is still there Shabbos wasn't on part and that's why you have a problem so it seems from this story that the only time that the kiddush works is we have qivana so make sure you have qivana and also remember that gave a whole we didn't mean start the kid this yet because yasuo otsuka resubmit them yourself can I talk to you Jamie you can sure tell I can finish acacho Smith today sheriff's missus they're seeking mr. shim of the same five minutes of cannot even takasho him at once I could have broken Zaki sister Charlotte Iike here but I'm Terry magician emmalin s office announced it okay yeah go Televi out there [Music] because [Music] yeah Oh you know [Music] Ronghua Barnabas I'm here to see Kim today she ain't kidding just a review we learnt about SM as you see we have a very big tiger there's a heavy every kites and tag there till I tell him sell office and certainly I see master Chris left man some surf gang but basically the kiddush is at the rice that all agree kiddush Shabbos Friday night is there ice the only question is is that our Christ ERISA or even orchid this with the farmers enough we try to do the kiddush Alec rice to be other rice a very similar we do with half dollar Alec ice the objective of the kiddush is the physic and a moaner that it's supposed to generate it's important to have qivana let me buy if it's the rice emitter Husqvarna but even meter bounine from the many sheep this mysterious cavern on the three vehicles is both appear lava and alpi side and even if there's no reason out be halacha but is a mimic to do it up aside three times minimally during the shot during the Friday night we start with youth cave of k2 stop the kid this with meaning and symbolism whether you would cave of K is plus other things will soon see some says every man and also but certainly the yamagishi vine coolest my and besides youth cave of k also supplements the necessary number of 72 some remarkable to have 72 some 70s enough but no doubt about it the everywhere of kid is literally counts we saw that in the Sebastian as the kid is until also has 70 70 words I could was 35 and the broth is 35 for those that add to kid this keep on of a heart or qu I'm so it's more than 70 to 1 this far this right Nestor is more than seventy to seventy so we'll say column Isis if I am a shoe buckets only you shouldn't have less than the amount that's necessary but more is not better therefore you could say sorry Marilyn grab on and rubbery side standing or sitting each minute is mini girl tiresome only stands for youth cave of K the young mushishi which highlights the usual importance of it some people say they are value biker or beginning of the pasta quietly and then you add then you add that to the rest of the pasta game Assisi you should pause in between um ICC by a Hulu there other pasta the rest of the pasta can say quietly and you begin laude a mushishi the Christ shell Brava as we said needs ten or certainly the main is for facial bracha including kiddush needs ten or four get tough is to be dressed the covered the broth I have and jacket even the listeners now locker there's no fear of Steve Fahad or of rinsing if it's not dirty from food residue but I'll be side it seems that it should always be rinsed tight like cabaret should be a perfectly clean better we sum those that air three that jobs it's not to take off the pogrom it's not to make it as eager because there's no problem in our wine it's not pogroms new wine that's not a problem of the needs Mo's eager but it's al P side there is no fee of to overflow the case some do it off P side and buy half dollar it's mentioned but by a regular case LeBron who doesn't seem to be a fee of certainly if you do overflow you know after we fill in a second time in the double side if someone has does not have enough wine to fill up the case he could add ice cubes or something else to raise the level as long as doesn't affect the quality or the taste of the wine there's no fear that the case should be handed to you some say by benching it's more of an onion but by kiddush there's no clear but opioid many people are marked with that should be handed even the case of kiddush how to hold it there are three ways either to hold it on the palm and the fingers should help contain it some cabal and hold it only on the fingers and some hold it like with their fingers like they hold a cup of coffee either way Minichiello Taylor it should be held at a above the table when you make the kiddush you look at the narrow eyes then look at the wine then either in the scissor I forgot to mention of course closing eyes is also an option it's not much like Davin in American are supposed to close your a financier or you could look in the city and something I should have stressed more the same applies to listen is all of this the Fiat kid dishes are men women and children boys and girls the listeners have to make sure to be focused and and really be is the entire kit [Music]