Don't Be Afraid of Hell; Be Afraid of G-d

the yeshiva dotnet they say from the baal shem tov that he once described what's cañedo ninja hanim she said that when a person culminates their life they have to face the truth and when they face that truth they get to see two things who they are essentially and how they lived who they became so you see two you see almost two pictures like two screens on one screen to see who you really are and the other screen you see what you did with that who you became for some people watching those two screens is paradise and for some people watching those two screens is nothing short of hell the contrast to see who you really are and who you thought you were or what you allowed yourself to become or what you did with that precious reality called the self the stark dramatic contrast between the two could be a very very painful experience so basically the person gets to see who they are and where they ended up that's what the kuffar quelle is where they ended up so the copper-colored is also a very healing element there there's the element of shame which produces the concept of like therapy spiritual therapy in the sense of you have to do all things with shame it's realizing the potential losses always you have to realize the potential loss and they have to grieve for it because if you don't grieve for it you can't repair your innocence and then there's always realizing the potential for rehabilitation so cough akela is painful but it's not scary what do I mean it's not scary it's not something that when you hear the word you should shut down it's about giving the soul hope and helping it go back to its natural glory and this is Macaulay aside whenever you read about punishments in Ghana India Hammond in eylem haha in Safari mustard all these things in Kazan so we often get a very very horrible feeling about it it's like almost the Inquisition pales in comparison you every read about what the Spanish inquisitors used to do I don't know if you ever read about it it's not fun reading let's put it that way right we don't have to go so back to the Inquisition they have it in other places as well right you can go to North Korea and check it out but and we say whoa you think that's bad you wait till you go royal on top and you see what God is gonna do to us a guy like you and these poor soldier and think they're like the worst criminals in the world right and it's like almost God is waiting for the day you know he stands like this oh this is good sky this is good sky that's Qaeda and this is really a horrible horrible distortion of either sides and it'll kate's people with levels of fear and dread and negative energy really for no purpose for no reason instead of them having the ability to celebrate life and celebrate God and celebrate you discards at best that creates tremendous tremendous guilt and tremendous dread and fear in this negativity for no reason so really everything when you understand the premise of it you're dealing here with someone who loves you as much as you love yourself or maybe loves you even more than love yourself and it's always a process of helping a person reach their pristine glory imagine you're sitting with very very beloved and special therapists they have a very deep relationship and he was help you tremendously and he says you know today we're gonna explore your relationship with your hey you can't go wrong with your mother right that always works today we're gonna explain your relationship with your mother okay and you look at this guy a day you're a murderer you order to say that you hate my guts why are you gonna take me to these places say I don't hate you at all I actually love you I cherish you and I want to walk you through those places that you have not walked through for many years in order that you should be able to see what has become of you because if you cannot see what has become of you how could you ever go back to who you're supposed to be if you think you are now you real self you'll never be able to be a real self because you completely trapped so let me show you what has become of you so that you should be able to go back to your original pristine glory before that has that has become you that's what he's trying to do here with the whole concept of the calf of the calf Angela differently whenever you speak about punishments I was once at a session was a very intense therapy session somebody was doing therapy with a patient like a seminar so the patient was frightened the therapist wanted to take them so she told him something I'll never forget she said you don't have to worry we are not gonna I'm not gonna take you to any place where you weren't already it's scary but you're not going to a new place I'm gonna I'm not taking you to any place you weren't already it's just this time around you're gonna spit it out yeah whenever you read cough akela Gehenna Jupiter Haven he's not taking you to any place where you weren't already cough at CamLAN Elam haba means just cough akela here over there you're just gonna see the video that's it you're just gonna see something God is gonna say oh this guy we're putting him in a sling shot boom no no no no your life was a sling shot you put yourself in a sling shot 50 years ago I'm just gonna show you the video that should I do all we do is we play the video look what happens and then you could see once you could see it Wow as everything was a lie I didn't know who I was my whole life was a betrayal of Who I am and I was catapulted to places that I thought that's my natural habitat that became my natural habitat that's a good question that's how we learned the code to Tyler that's a good question how do I Know Who I am that's the best question first I have to know who I'm not that's a good question it's worth coming here two years to ask that question that's why this summit thing that's why there's so many different types of ancient it's not like people think God has a book and he says you know this is that I really want to get him we're gonna do cafe Cala but we're gonna do the extra special you know the extra special deluxe yeah the monks hip attack over here Gannon chill Selleck you have them cilicia this guy I think I really want to get severe for we're gonna keep them there for next a year right work this way you don't have to be afraid of Gannon you're in God's infinite loving bosom yeah you can hand them is not what should fear you what you what you should be a friend like somebody will say don't be afraid of therapy be afraid of doing those things that will the end you up in places that's for years you're gonna have to spit it out you understand the therapy ain't the problem the Jahannam is not the problem it's the tickle yeah of course of course says one of the biggest sizes of the baal shem tov and we spoke about a thursday night but what a ye doesn't serve god to go into GaN Eden a Yid serves Hashem thus is gonna you understand it's not you do that Veda and you get Gehenna dive a the doses again and that's the problem the key hmmm is the video the problem is not the video the problem is not the video the problem is that's what you have to film it again and there in the betrayal of the relationship a guy says I would do this I'm not gonna do it because my wife might catch me that's not the problem the problem is not the wife catching you that's already a good thing that's really a good thing right the problem is did with the issue not that can be in court so this is where is a lot of distortion by people the focus becomes on the healing that's not the issue that you're good yeah I'm not turning I'm not trying to turn Gehenna into a romantic experience everybody should look to look forward to it's not my point there I think they I don't know kiss you one of the one of the famous diplomat said what's the definition of a death diplomat yeah he sends you to hell but you look forward to the journey yeah a good diplomat yeah he sends you to the purgatory but you're looking for it I thought my point today you should look forward to the point is we're not typhus with English guy tis you got what I'm saying mock my to forget Hanlon that's not the issue that's why he's a different guy Hendon for every person cuz it's not about it's not a punishment to punish it's a punishment to help to fix to repair the cleanser depends how the person lived that's my point depends on the person lives the cafe Keller Lear is simply a reflection of the cafe Keller here you have to ask yourself am i living a life true to myself or have I been catapulted into the abyss where I really don't belong oh I'm using the word video numerous I don't mean a video I mean a video that allows you to heal from it a video that shows you the reality so that you could spit it out and I don't mean stomach video for it but this the soul is not the soul is good what happens is the soul gets tainted with experiences that are alien to the soul that's what he's saying is the Catholic Ella the opposite of Anna Karenina so there's a process to help the person detox to help them liberate themselves as a path Ryan the host shrinkin to extricate themselves from all the stains that process is a good process but it's not a comfortable process yeah once gave a Dogma sometimes you come home that depends already I mean the summer has its journey everything summer has its journey but that's not the issue to be afraid of so that assault could go to where it belongs and go back the good stuff just like down here when a person cleanses themselves they could start living who they are they're not living something sometimes you discover in life that you're not living your own life you're living a borrowed life what's the word for Gehenna intonation and Kazaa oil taxes what is shell practice mean tight sure oil comes from the word shuttle shuttle means borrowed the definition of gamma of oil taxes you're living a borrowed life you're not living your own life you borrow somebody else's life and you're living it that's called hell and that's what the hell is that's it it is and therefore your taxes you always on the ballot when you're living a borrowed life you're always on the bottom you're never on the top not you you're not you I'm busy borrowing whose life are you borrowing I'm a F that's your therapist Cohutta from sure delay but I'm borrowing your life just like I need a car so I borrow your car it's not mine so a car because those days borrow cars as long as you can borrow your dad's car borrowed this is Canadian in some cultures that's good okay well that's the definition of purgatory the definition of all fastest is your living a borrowed life the sky Denisovan solutions guy Jenna's ogen it's you don't even realize that you look I don't even realize if I realize I'm living a borrowed life it should help the triplets already I'm half solved once the doctor diagnoses the infection you're already on the way to recovery determine I don't even realize I don't even know do something different my whole life is borrowed and the person is completely in a prison there's no they don't even know who they are anymore everything becomes instinctive that way they don't even have another perception if they were raised that way and they're always taxes and when they hear somebody speak this language they do one of three things either they shut down and they dismiss it as up recourses ask fira because it's too it's too it's too heavy how am I supposed to deal with this so what do I say this person is either or not betray this okay first of that right away works if he's a heretic I don't have to listen to it or he's number sugar now that also works he's a crazy guy that also works that's one way of dealing with it another way of dealing with it is the person actually can internalize it right and open themselves up open themself up to it and then this the opposite extreme the person has to deny it so heavily but they actually you know they start despising this person so we all react in different ways to this awareness and all taxes but this is what salt accesses so what happens there is only a reflection of what happened to here that's not a what's even I'll Omaha Bilaam hapa duck people think I'll um ha ba person dies yeah they go on a spaceship and God says come let me take you it's like a billion light years away somewhere between Pluto and Mars cuz it was a whole Jim cold Canadian and a second torture chamber cold Ganon and one place you have pizza and sushi and another place you have torture chambers and that's where everybody goes I don't know how to say her break the news Khmer then get hmmm I right here you're dealing with spiritual ideas you're not dealing with physical places so not a place you're gonna travel you gonna find an agent it's all here it's all here it's a reflection of life here that the soul experience is there Olam haba is simply a place of truth God picks up a mirror to you and it's a mirror that you can't find in a store the mirrors that I look here I look at a mirror here what do I see I see Who I am the mirrors that I see in eylem haba I don't see who I am I see who I could have been I could look at a mirror and see who I am I could look at a mirror and see who I really yes who I could have been who my soul is and what it became it was borrowed for some people wow I'm in GaN Eden and for some people shall tactus I realize my whole life was tasked that's why because it was shawl was all borrowed so I good birth 11 the whole life is borrowed how does one live not a borrowed life that's essentially what you described this the essence of you this kind is not to live a borrowed life to live a life in the most authentic honest and truthful way to yourself to your own deepest truth which is one with the divine fresh tastes feels like other than freshness of course the Gemara says him of ambassador wizards ayan the chola shitty monarch others borracho mae ni la mama a Lanka kiri bhai anthem they soil him hop in their life wasn't mean they saw them up in their life what does it mean they were living in that space they were living in that space of truth there was once a yeshiva Buffett particularly Shiva Botha he went in to see the Lubavitcher ever private audience he went into his room did I've asked them a few questions I live under the answer so you looked at him and he said these words in you this he says deed dollar Amazon deed download ominous sign in a llama MS gaya dice nemiro nammai rob dianella version from Chaka overdub is great song and the members considered these four cubits are a place of truth you're full of lies go out get rid of your lies strip when you're ready to speak the truth come back so he told the boy yes that a person lives in an environment of truth you're living in a place of truth now something I want to live in a place of truth I just don't know how to that's a prize I have to figure that out it's a Nevada and of course as as long as we're in this world we never have the full truth there's always you know we live in a challenging world but that's that's also part of our truth that's also part of our truth that we're living in a challenging world so Cal Cal is not there - Cal is here cough racquel is just the video it's the video and the experience where you become we stand face to face with what has become of you but that's not the problem the problem is not to get hmmm the problem is they get hmmm it's not the video it's the experience that created the video the video is just a mirror you know don't shoot the messenger what do they say don't shoot them and don't kill the mirror you look in the mirror you don't like what you see so what do you do you bash the mirror the mirror is not the problem that knows of the problem behind them is not the problem yeah hmmm is there any that the healing of the propaganda is the mirror Hannibal get rid of the problem something mmm the nose this is the nose it's not the mirror well yeah you don't need a nose job here for Katy has to undo the nose job the nose job is he trying to change your nose you're not trying to change you know you're trying to undo the most [Music] [Applause] it's part of the cavatelli that's why this okay hmmm a fire there's a get him of snow because it's not about money it's not about revenge it's all based on what type of life a person live looks like you're gonna say there's no one therapy for everybody no one video for everybody it's based on my life today that I have to go through different journeys in order to be able to extricate my hailer kill economy my Amish from all the over all the poison you're still thinking your your program you can smack it out delete all this master Bruce reset it's all true whatever says Emma Swami toy enough is the first eight steps up program I'll put you through torture and then I'll give you copper candy mas main scar scar Mitzvah Mitzvah scar means the neshamah can experience itself and the oil that is achieved is life it make asana shampoo in the most perfect way in order to be able to do that yeah I have to get rid of the toxicity boys that attached itself to me doesn't allow me to experience called the good season sometimes the players have a good season you were there Thursday night as for standing the Yiddish mum some I post I put online the Yiddish article escalate the most hopping tom grenade Alana's a person is married is a beautiful wife is beautiful but he's traumatized that's there he had very negative experiences he sees his children he gets angry at them is why he gets angry as well not cause he's angry at them because he's angry at himself we can't enjoy it can't be present she said he has to cleanse her side so that it can enjoy what he has once you punish him is gonna get this scar then a sum has to be cleansed so can enjoy what it is and it could have the full debeikis with the aim so that it really is and that if I carried through its journey in oil um how it reached the deepest breakers but that we share the main thing you get cleansers I think you have to go back to that experience spit it out like Chavo says what's chuhwa the gomorian humor but Isis man but Sir Malcolm Bowie some I suppose a real truth is you go back to that myself and you do a different you go back to that place and you say whoa this is not me you see how far you are from that myself and you distance is something that's what it happens will happens your toughest that's the concept of cough cough look at the tiny he brings elsewhere he brought before her lips we said before they showed that they throwed in a summer from one extreme to another extreme and it sees I went to places that don't belong to it's a sign but it's a tire that allows the neshamah to I don't want to be this the moment they could say fair this is not who I want to be I'm already not that the moment you look in the mirror and you say this is not me you're already not that and if you're not that you're ready clean snow is a different cleaner sometimes people live the life of too much passion or not too much passionate destructive passion some Thai people live the life of too much coldness apathy indifference they became detached analytical aloof they become they became ice that's the Gangnam of kena they became ice sometimes they became fire and they burnt everybody and themselves as soon as it became ice they froze they froze everybody around them they made everybody in ties it's a different type of guy it's a different video this class is brought to you by the achieve Annette please help us continue the classes make even a small contribution at triple w dot they ueshiba net / donate