Dr Stuart Hytman Founding Partner of Project Inspire PIC 2012

thank you wow do we we have to realize what explicit is to be at a weekend like this you said with 800 last night a thousand people who are focused on changing the world who said last night it is a unique experience Solomon said we have to realize what can come out of having 800 people who want to change the world in one place you're going to get you're going to get people who are going back to Muncie making a shove a toad with 150 Belgium it's a major thing change the community you're going to get a group of women who are organizing secular women to go on jwrp trips you have to realize about that group of women did they took the archives on themselves they went out they recruited they fundraised they did everything for dozens of secular women and this year they said they're going to take over a hundred I mean between everything you have to realize these are the things that come out of a convention like this another one another example people just going out and bringing people into their homes and recovering them while they're in their sleep I mean it's I don't think the first time that's ever been done uh these are great things that can come out of a invention like this so you have to ask yourself what is going to come out of this year from this convention anybody here can do that anyway we have to realize because she was of this of this to gathering this weekend you know it's it's a tremendous supposed to work with these great people who are the organizers here right down from from Sampson Jesse Freeman mordec I talk Berlin got emotions from Toronto you have to realize this is there a greater is there a greater staff who are up for a task that we have in front of us this group here I don't know of anyone but I'll tell you what the real reason that you're all here today the real person with all deference to the wonderful words of Solomon here the real reason you're all here is real North white or white because of Irish he he had this tremendous drive to change the world you had to understand what Noah what it was like to go into the walking through of Noah's office I had this listening learning with the group Noah he'd walk into his office he'd walk into this roshishiva's office inspect a real serious guy you come in and he turns you and he'll give you this smile this total disarming smile and then he'd come over to you and he'd give you one of his trademark bear hugs you know and then he'd sit down and while your catches your breath and recovering he's looking straight into the eye he says Stu this is how you're going to change the world he'd say to any person walking into their into his office this is how you can change the world he had such clarity you know he would always teach them the first character in the round Fountain who constantly teaches is so deficitis he would teach you of Northwood teachers you have to ask yourselves two questions what is your purpose in this world what am I doing here and why is it important to me why does it matter to me it says you have those are the two main questions what are we doing here and this is the reason why Asia Torah is the organization it does he Noah had that Clarity and he inculcated it into all of his timing and the thousands of people that he saw and that's why Asia Torah goes out and that's why ishitorah will their role is not just to the Caribbean it is to change the Jewish world and change the world so he goes out and he forms a project on his own Asian Torah forms a projectile zone that does it goes into all the schools and teaches little esoters of Muhammad harcina and then he forms has viral fellowships the Israeli government comes to Asia Torah to have to a cube of organization Orthodox organization to do Israel agency and teach the world about how what they should love about Israel go to a care of organization to their husband of fellowships you you go to you know you have the you know Discovery seminars around the world you have these films that give Awareness on Iran what is a care of organization doing about fighting giving Awareness on Iran but we saw that the that the roshishiva refillment said earlier that this is what we have to be involved in with Noah understood this too as an organization that looks what is the struggles of the Jewish people and therefore it's our responsibility what is your purpose however you answer that question will determine the steps you take to achieve that purpose and now that's how project inspired came about there's no understood our goal is to change the Jewish World we have to get a movement of people who are our army to help us change it that's the only formula that's even going to work we have to do that that's the way and it was it was his dream he's always coming he's rubbing no off he's pushing us pushing us to do it get the throne go on to the Cure that's the way we're going to make the change and now we're here and it's because you have that Clarity we need to have that clarity so it's nice we have to change the world you have that big Vision but what I also want to tell you is on an individual basis we also have to understand what we need to do so I'm going to tell you a story that was a lesson that was taught to me by my wife Andy and it was a story like this we were there's one uh air shot except for Thursday night and Andrea is my wife she's busy cooking the great Shabbos meal and we're having a great plan and if the smells are permeating throughout the house busy and everything's everything's going great and all of a sudden she gets a phone call picks up the phone Thursday night and it's a friend of ours we had we were friendly with this uh this one girl and she actually happened to be dating this one guy and they were on the pathway to be coming from and they were sort of like uh sort of in you know in that stage where should we get serious should we not just how serious should we be he was really into the interstate he was very involved he was let's say moving at 80 kilometers an hour and she was moving more like a 20 kilometers an hour and we were trying to sort of help them out you know help them guide them in the right way and it looked like a good potential shift she calls up and she says listen I know it's late it's Thursday night you mind if you know you have a guess who shot this can can I come and uh can I you know my friend come as well it's called let's call him uh David so so my wife says sure no problem so by tomorrow we had lots of food great it's just actually I have one more question yes I have one more guest she's a friend and do you mind if I have my friend over as well with us one of my girlfriends so my wife says sure no problem lots of food I just have one more question if you hope it's okay you know there's one thing she's actually is not Jewish is that okay okay we don't normally have non-juice or I've shot this table Friday night but you know we figured you know what if it'll get her more into coming we'll have her over no problem because actually you know I'm having one more reflection do you do you minded that she actually happens to be a vegetarian is that okay will that be a problem so I said no she said um you know vegetarian no problem did she make some salads you know some vegetables not a problem we'll we'll have her over not a problem um she's actually sorry she's not a vegetarian she's actually a vegan as I said sorry is that okay all right she won't mind you have to do all that fast forward it's not about sure that's fine absolutely bring your own because I just have one more question this is the last one I promise you because she actually is gluten allergic I understand if you say no but really it's my wife okay sure we'd love to have it not a problem you don't worry about it gets off the phone she's looking around and pitching her College bacon in the oven she's got like this gross boiling over on the pot and she's thinking Hmm she just brought in the bakery earlier on as well so no problem she has them over and she figures we'll make this so they come over the Cabo and the non-jewish and they sit down and you know what part of it went well we had a great Chavez meal the conversation was great it was it was a great deal it went through and everybody was friendly and my wife she did great she like she brought all the vegetarian meals out and we had the all the meat meals and we're all everybody was happy we were all happy and then it came to dessert time so she brings out all the pastries and the problem I mean it brings out some fruit and everything and some you know some fruit so everybody can have it and then she puts out uh places she's cutting cakes and she's putting cookies and she puts uh pastries in front of the friend the non-jewish friend so the nodular strenuous speaks up to us and I hope you don't mind I don't know if they told you but I'm actually allergic to all glutens so my wife says to her oh I know that that pastry actually is a non-glutinous cookies and cakes I went out and bought some for you so if you love yourself a person a tear come down a person's eye out for over a cake that's what would happen and I'll tell you what it affected her Jewish friend pretty strongly as well so bottom check we had the schools just left within three or three weeks ago to celebrate our sons Bar Mitzvah and yushalayan Torah and we had the friend and the guy David he actually came to them showed up to the emergency we still keep in touch with him just to give you it really was sort of still a little blank since then they actually worked everything out got married they have a couple of kids and he happened when they went back and moved back to Jerusalem they made Aliyah and he actually went birthing Yeshiva and now he's in a sneaker program in nurse alive now I'm not pretending that it was our meal that ah now we're getting married and I'm going to be a rabbi either but I'll tell you one thing it was just one step in their growth I want to tell you our goal is not to be confirm our goal is to be one run in their ladder of growth one run that's all you have to be if you if you're two runs in somebody's growth fabulous three rungs you're a superstar but we have to realize we we have to do that one step there's other people along the way in that topic will help them along the way onto their path in either strike that's all we have we have to realize that because wants them to come closer to tour they want he wants his children to come back to him we have to be those killings and just help them along the way make that his status all we have to do is just care you just have to care now in that night I want to tell you a board an incredible board that I've heard from Rubio and Society brings down the takana of Revenue that he instituted if you had to make a favor for all of all the call you throw all up to that point the way that Finnick is happening is that Father and Sons will be teaching them father to son teaching themselves and that's that was we're shooting gun that made a change and all of police throw had to form school systems which were supported by the public so the gemara says on that he love me like if it was not for that he was talking towards Israel that Torah would have been forgotten from all of Paul Israel from that because of that asked interesting question how many oh and what was the reason that they probably should be made this to kind of there happened to be a Solomon that there was gentleman who did not have the fathers these orphans had no way to learn Torah everybody else rather follow they were learning Torah and they were getting any sore the assoma did not have the father so he had to make his takana so raviankov asks how many uh your son do you think there were in closer at the time one percent maybe two percent you're telling me that for one percent or maybe two percent I'm gonna change the entire fitness system of Claudia's girl which is the ideal finish system I'm going to change that for a few you summon and not only that he says I'll ask even a stronger question because I'll say Shaka taurum is wrong and if you don't do this you don't change your entire sentences to what you're gonna have to hear all of Torah is going to be forgotten listen I have a good solution make it through schools for Orphans make a few for them and it's great then that you don't have all these fundraising problems you only have to go to one or two dinners a year for these things and then it's showing it's done all of Christ God would have forgotten Torah if they had not made this to come so it says lessons is incredible lessons if you think I'm going to have Torah for myself and my children and it's the greatest system and I'm going to learn Torah and we're gonna have Torah but you know what there's this group out there that you know what they don't have the advantages that we have and okay they'll get it their way or we'll put them on the side or I won't really care for them I won't really put the full effort to care for them if you think you are still going to have that Torah too you're not you're going to lose your tour for yourself as well you've got to care about quality Israel Torah is only effective when you are learning the view to look outside yourself to be outward Focus if you are our Focus naturally you're going to have Torah that's what they're going to ask for it that's what Greg Donovan says you know we have to realize and not only that not only will is that what we have to do we have to care forever you get to love other get it and have to care for them they care for their Torah but we also have to realize that's the best thing for us as well we're going to benefit as well I was speaking to Smitha students a few weeks ago when I was in Arizona and this is the message I told him the face of the hero is changing the face of you you're going to go out there you're going to come out and get your sneeza and do Q you have to realize you come to close to ours the face of Peru is changing out there you know how it used to be but here you learn it you get your senior high you learn it here if you go out there and you go in some Branch somewhere and start doing caring right so you start working hard you might hire a few people ten is your grade 20 plus people per year and you're working really hard but then you also have to fire it is because there's a lot of like you have to find a lot of money for your operations and then when you get to the certain stage where you're actually being successful what do you got to do you got to bring another Rabbi because you know you can't handle it yourself so then now what you have to do you have to fundraise more how many people are we going to reach in this type of the system the face of care was changing we the only formula that really will work is that if we become facilitators the key of workers out there can't just go out there my goal is to make Iris each year we have to become facilitators to get other people to become other people from the corrugated and so on that is the only formula that is going to work guess what we are the facilitators it's us everybody in this room this is the only formula that makes sense financially it's the only form that makes sense logistically there are over 5 million Jews in North America 90 are unaffiliated how can we get to them the only way is to change the way we look at here project inspired and all of you here are changing the way that curve is being done that's what we have to go out with that's what we have to come out with from this convention we have to realize that we are changing cure this is the formula that can change the game so when we go out there we have to take care of an individual basis but we have to get our friends not just to keep it to this room we have to get our friends to join and they have to get their friends to join and that is the way that we really can make the difference that is how a gallery of 800 people who are focused on changing the world can change the world my brother for everyone here we should all be those caving that are cutting food is using to bring his children back to them that we too in that process not only are we bringing these children back home that we ourselves are getting our Vegas and we are we ourselves are growing as a community and that's really the steps the steps that are ultimately going to bring what she actually came into Canada thank you