Drastic Steps To Find Your Shidduch

tells us it tells us who created the law for the people that he created and he created the people and therefore he knows them better than they know themselves and he knows the young man the young man with the hormones that go off through the roof but he couldn't find a shid he gave a shid resume he sent it to the rabbi he's doing whatever he can but nobody wants him nobody wants him or he doesn't want anybody like one of these people where no one is ever good enough him she's too fat she's too skinny She's Too Tall She's Too Short she's akazi she's a safari she is this she is that no one's good enough for him Rabbi she has to be from the same nationality as me wait so you're telling me that all of is not good for you unless they are your your nationality no you know we just it would just be easier easier what to be alone and miserable for another five years khabibi you're getting old you're getting old before you know it you're going to become a senior citizen any wife that's going to marry you is going to have to feed you with a spoon how much older you're going to get Mr picky or better yet some times women tell me listen Rabbi I'm not ready to get married yet why I need a little bit more time for myself maybe make a little bit more money cuz I don't want to depend on no man I want to have comfort I want to be you know in a good position Judaism is expensive you know Rabbi that's the best line I've ever heard I heard it from a very dear student of mine I didn't even comment why it was so bizarre for somebody to tell me Judaism is expensive as if I never knew what money was I don't know somebody tells me no Rabbi these things are expensive what do you think I eat man it comes down to my house every day like they did to mosenu anyway people forget themselves sometimes why they're so busy and worked up with their own things they forget what they say and how they say it and sometimes they get all worked up with their life goals and missions and they make mistakes by delaying one of the we learned from the the first that gave to is make babies go build a Jewish family abah ainu was commanded to go kill his own son what did he do he woke up extra early in the morning to fulfill the will of hem but people today I'm not ready yet I'm not sure if I'm mature enough yet because I'm only 22 and I'm only 18 and I'm only 39 and you know I saw so many people get divorced and I saw that the economy is tough so I'm not sure if I want to do it or I'm not sure if he's really my type you know his nose is like this way his stomach is like that way his bank account is this way or that way and I'm not really sure I really like the car all types of are forcing people to stay alone and miserable but they don't realize it until they're senior citizens I have some old people that I know from when I was a kid they were beautiful people Beautiful People guess what today they're ugly and alone why they waited for the perfect one when is the perfect one perfect one usually arrives when the perfect one doesn't want you anymore why simple took away the blessing you delayed my Mitzvah no mitvah for you no mitvah that's why thear says you want to get married lower your standards but unfortunately many times people say listen you're my favorite Rabbi you're my Rabbi but when the Rabbi says something to them listen Rabbi I have to disagree I have to disagree okay disagree fine but stop saying stupid things like favorite you are my rabbi why rabbihim tells me anything before he finishes the statement I'm already working I'm already doing something why that's what a rabbi is but people think the rabbis are friends colleagues maybe consultants and that's why people have a lot of Misfortune why they don't know how to use the Torah in order to apply to their life why cuz they have a lot of different junk in their head coming from their ideology in this place right here is one of them slavery the was given to us by our creator who knows us better than we know ourself and he knew that the young man that's full of hormones the young man that's full of hormones and he wants to find a girl but he can't find a girl why his resume is not up to par his bank account is not up to par her bank account is not up the par she's not good-look enough she's not skinny enough she not this enough and you know some of these people that reject shim literally they make me sick I want to vomit when I I never want to talk to them again after I see how they behave why they have no manners no class no ethics no nothing and I can't believe these people say they watch you but nonetheless the slave same thing happened to him so what does it have to do with him simple the slave says listen I haven't found my bash I haven't found the I'm going to be I haven't found her yet but that doesn't mean that I want to I want to stay celibate so you know what I'm going to do I'm going to go steal make sure I get caught so that way someone's gonna you know I'm going to become a slave and my favorite job in slavery is going to be not the farming not the the crops no my favorite job is going to be to create slaves I'm going to be the best slave Creator in the world he comes his whole plan is all worked up just like his sh resume is all worked up he has the perfect picture he's posing like he's on some Vogue magazine and no buyer so he's disappointed perhaps she hasn't my my my perfect wife hasn't been created well yet so he goes he becomes a slave and he arrives at The Jewish Home he says okay I'm ready for work the master says yeah good good the farmer over there go take care of the cows go take care of the sheep the horses need all the manure to be cleaned out it's like listen I got it I'm going to do all those things cuz obviously I'm a slave I want to be a good slave I want to be your favorite slave but when is the uh slave making uh job when when do I get promoted for that no no there is is no promotion what do you mean I thought that's what it is goes no no not for you why because he didn't get married so already know that your mind is so sick that you are willing to become a slave just to make a sin just like am is was willing to say their idolators and even literally worship an idol they didn't believe in why just to go with the non-jewish girl girl and therefore the Torah cannot hurt itself you came single you stay single for another six years welcome to slavery we are meant to be a light unto the Nations not to follow their misguided practices remember every Jew has to remember that he's a Jew and she's a Jew we don't celebrate non-jewish holidays even if they seem harmless it's a z disrespect to the Tor and could lead to CH hasem desecration of God's name stick to our holy Torah and our own holidays that's the path of a true Jew