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Ep. 4: The Transition to Shlichus with Rabbi Yitzchok Wolf
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In this packed episode, Rabbi Yitzchak Wolf, Shliach of the Rebbe in Chicago, IL, discusses: -Traveling to the Rebbe as a child -Ahavas Yisroel of Chassidim -Yechidus'n with the Rebbe -Shlichus in Australia, Detroit, and Chicago -The Rebbe’s instruction after a car accident-Horaos in Chinuch-Hiskashrus of Bochurim after Gimmel TammuzAnd more!
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When I walk into the mifter, I come some
and I see Shabas morning.
[Music]
It's a it's
to see how the is working today
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is unbelievable by the way. It's
unparalleled in Jewish history because
we know what people said about the day
after
and and everyone has that it's felt.
I'm Yasi Cayman. Welcome to among
an ongoing fabin about life as aid our
vibrant connection with the reb and
inspired living shaped by the way he
teaches us each and every day.
Shalom. Rabbi Wolf. How are you?
>> Shalom.
>> Okay. Um, so I I actually saw that uh
you um wrote some articles recently. I
think you're commemorating uh 50 years
of
>> correct.
>> So I mean I I read one I think there was
multiple. I read one of them. So I
didn't realize you were in Australia.
It's 50 years commemorating that or in
Chicago?
>> No, the in general which began with the
in Melbourne.
>> So that was
we walked into
and that's where it all started.
I have to say it started dalled Nissen
earlier
when we were called in by the mosquito.
I was called in by Mam Klein but our
group was called in different times of
the day I guess
and asked uh three questions.
Are you willing to go to Melbourne?
Would your parents give you permission?
We need their permission.
And if you were these were the three
questions within I think uh 90 seconds
or 180 seconds as long as it took to
contact my parents and by the pay phone
on Kingston Avenue
pay phone that we used to use for a
dime. So uh it was all straightened out
within several minutes
>> and uh so your parents what you you
asked permission or you told your father
we need I need permission.
>> No I told my father that I need
permission. He said right away yes you
have to understand where my father came
from.
If not for my father and some accountant
I wouldn't be sitting here today.
>> I think I should go into that. Your
father was a labaturer.
>> My father obviously he wasn't born and
bred as a labassid but later on he was
one of the refugees that ended up in
Samarant
Polish refugees.
So he ended up in Samarant like so many
Polish refugees did. And if I can share
with you an incredible story how he met
Kabad
the refu
>> I would love to hear it dude.
>> The refugees at the time coming from
Poland to Russia they didn't know the
language. They didn't know Russian and
they didn't know how to work the system.
So people were literally dying from
hunger. He lost his father, his mother
and he ended up being sent to Siberia in
January of 1940.
In 1941
he is off somehow Pakistan sakant first
then some
people were dying from hunger every day.
He told me that he was so famished ago
that at nighttime he became blind from
malnutrition. Can you imagine?
>> He told me he once walked into ancient
into his house and it he didn't know
where he was going. It was night time.
He was blind. But then
so the guy picks up a butcher knife and
he starts chasing him. He said he
doesn't know how he was saved, but
anyway.
>> One second. So, could I go back a
second? So, he's he's a glatian living
in Poland. So, World War II breaks out.
Where is he from?
>> He's from Krakco.
>> From Krakco,
>> a suburb of Krakco.
>> So, he escapes the Nazis over the border
into USSR.
>> Correct.
and he he was you know he was up to
Lmberg and somehow in Lav area there was
some type of a border with Russia and he
made a critical decision and that was in
late December of 1939 or maybe the first
week of January and he made a decision
which he had to make either to stay
behind in the German side. One second.
The war broke out
in the summer 1939.
>> September 1939.
So the first several months December,
>> you're busy running,
>> right? Okay.
>> So he's running and he ended up, a long
story short, he ended up in Russia and
they sent him immediately to Siberia. So
he was one year in Siberia. used to say
how they were cutting down trees and
even Pes saying
while they're cutting down trees
actually my mother went the same journey
they didn't know of each other they were
both refugees and following actually the
same journey played out with my mother
but anyway they ended up my father ends
up in a Samarant as I told you he's
famished he's he's one M shabas he's
walking the streets
no father, no mother, the m people
dying, the kadesha came every day
driving through the roads
and they picked up the mason.
So he is mamish
famished he's walking m shabas he's
hallucinating and suddenly he hears
singing
thinking he thought he was hallucinating
but as he's walking not walking
The singing is becoming louder. He walks
into what he told me
and it was shabis. There was a mal from
the going on.
It even told me who was there
that whole was there and they saw
walking in hunger vvelt and there was
the only food that was on the table he
told me was koshka mabis
mashka and they took him under his wings
and the rest is history. So later on
after the war in 1945 he ended up at the
DP camps in parking in parking over
there too he met Rebutri all the other
that ended up in Montreal he met in
parking and he was five six years in
Belgium in Belgium anthropy was a
diamond cutter finally came he was
hoping to go to New York because they
had a diamond district but pipel Mamashi
ended up in Montreal. The Hayas ended up
in Montreal. The reason why he left
Belgium was because of the Korean war.
And there was talk that it's going to
reach Europe
>> reaching Europe. He had enough of war
and dying and famine and whatnot. And
these people were traumatized. So was my
father and mother. My father and mother
met in some accountant. They were
describing their their wedding. It was
Friday afternoon.
And that's how that's where they got
married.
>> They got married in Sakant.
>> Yeah, they got married. They met.
>> So your father
came into
you know
they they g they gave whatever he ate.
>> It it wasn't exactly Benimoik
was a bit older. But
>> I'm saying like they gave him something
to eat.
>> Yeah. Yeah, that's right. They gave him
something to eat.
>> The he ended up in Montreal and there he
got back to Paris Mk and torien
and he sent us I was 5 years old. He
sent me to labavich.
>> You were born in Montreal in Montreal.
>> Yeah. So he sent me was called the labi
but was a small room on gene man street
whoever is a Montrealer that will be
hearing this and who was my first
malamit an incredible shided abdavid
leaz if you heard of David le he was the
oldest son of kanyaf
I can I can I can picture the room that
I was sitting I wasn't even five years
old yet I came in an L. I was a month
before my fth birthday. So, I'm a little
kid. There wasn't a toy in the room.
>> Wooden desks
and he had such a like a regal
appearance. He was he had a always wore
his double breasted. It was like a more
of a a langanger that the Pisha used to
wear maybe today too. And he was sitting
with his hat and jacket. He had a pencil
and a wooden ruler and he was such a I
can never forget it. I don't remember
what I learned then. I remember one
thing that he taught us the theim of the
recordings of him singing
>> singing.
>> Yeah.
>> Now it's very interesting because he
suffered from asthma.
So in fact sapp he he couldn't catch his
breath at times but we're little kids
and we we learned in
he taught it to us and the way he said
the way he taught us how to read
but he passed away in the I think it was
that he passed away but I can truly say
that that that was you know when you
learn about you know
that's the
>> but anyway I had tremendous
>> was
there too right? Yeah, I had him two
years different times. I had I had him
two years.
>> He taught me my and he taught me al and
he was
his mashia. So we heard a lot about I
can't tell you that I remember
everything that he said but alapon
there would seem over there. I remember
going into
fabangans. I remember one purim which is
so much I remember it very clearly. It
was before the time fra I was a kid. I
was 10, 11. It was before when the
hookups began
was sitting in his basement where he
lived. He lived next to the labi
Montreal and Mameish today the it's the
yeshiva gdela is there now. So it's a
different building but it used to be a
house and he lived in the basement. It
was pur night. I went with my father a
parrots was like his reb you know he
taught him and he got him involved every
shabas used to end up being there 6 7:00
in the morning learning
nakman Shapiro even lately reminded me
about that he was a kid staying over by
and how they used to sit and learn from
the early hours of the morning but
anyway it was pur
and he was sitting he took a lot of
mashkar
was behind them.
I remember it well because they were
singing some of the
I heard grow from from David and other
they were singing but it made a
tremendous impression. One of the things
that was missing at the time was as a 10
11 year old there was no fangans with
the kittas. I don't know why there
wasn't. So this fear of really really
registered it resonated
etc etc. So there's a there's a painting
of Z climbing of
and there's some kids in the background.
So this is that painting is what you
experience probably
>> 100% 100%. I mean I remember even at the
time
like every second year used to come and
fab.
I remember one thing that he used to say
over and over again and I was a kid 12
13 you know kids
and the way he said it you know
made an impression. There were times
used to come to
>> Yeah. And and one of the things that
came out from
what is at you know what of course and
they were the role models of
I'll soon get to the part of this whole
thing but uh what was very interesting
was the way
in
I remember he repeated this several
times. He used to come to visit his
son-in-law
quite often
and he used to talk about.
So he mentioned the way he said it. I
remember so clearly
said that
means by the he was by the he was by the
vice there was one there
said there was one
So there's no question that these uh
people made an impression. I had another
Mhammed
very shamov
sh I was about 13 14 in his
I mean definitely
his hopes here
he loved his
love was all over him and if he had to
if he had to explain something 10 times
he did it 10 times
and And he was mid in the writing and
everything but everything was
lip no today getting a malam
I have great malam over here but
>> I was going to say that uh if anyone
doesn't know that you're you're the head
of an institute of so when you talk
about malam you're you know uh you know
what it's all about.
Well, so I saw this and of course it
made a tremendous impression.
There was one se that I remember that I
can never forget. It was tough of Zion.
I was my Mhammed was Raban Jükovich. His
son is the Ludovich
remember as a b.
So if you rec if you know that was a the
spoke unbelievable about the massive at
the time was that the war was
anticipated
>> the six day war
>> six day war it was in the air and the
the rumor had it that Israel at all was
preparing 10,000 body packs.
Now every one of my malam was a nits
messiah.
Rabayovich was a nit messiah
>> survivor.
>> At the time we had a lagma parade. Lagma
was in Sunday. We had a laga parade in
Montreal and we knew that there was a
laga parade in New York the time parade
but we were not hooked up at the time.
The hookups weren't working at the time
not until lammed.
So he kept on telling us that we're
getting a tape. We're getting a tape.
And I can picture where he was even
standing in the classroom
just hearing that there may be another
holocaust
and they're preparing body bags. I mean
he was reliving.
He was standing I I can see it by the
light and we got a cassette tape
cassette tapes and he for the class he's
he's playing
the was like shouting
speaking so loudly he is standing
>> all of you have heard you you had heard
what
>> we heard
We were kids. How old was I? 12 years
old.
That we heard of
and the gave
telling us, you know, that there'll be.
So he's standing there and he's
listening.
with 12 year olds
the Reb is speaking and it made such an
impression
he's crying
>> unbelievable
when
but that gave him so much courage
listening to the
was just unbelievable
>> there was one thing growing up there and
I left LA when I was 16 years old. I
left that as well. That's a whole
passion with Montreal.
>> I left Montreal. So
>> we're leaving
which was
from Detroit from Brazil.
>> I was on I was on in Brazil.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah.
>> He's an incredible guy.
uh he went at his yul son which used to
come often to his he lives in LA now
used to come out into there was also we
grew up from I know him from when he was
8 years old and I heard that he went to
there are some from our yos was in my
class there were others that in my class
and they bas
younger but
No,
>> they were going they were going to
places. Okay.
>> My father told me that he would
appreciate if I got
you know
that resonated with him,
you know. But whatever
>> you wanted to go to the
>> he he he he
sent a settled
and the turtle came with an answer.
>> That's so
>> so that's so
>> one second. You used to go to the bal as
a child.
>> Okay. So I can talk about that. Of
course I hadis my father I'll tell you a
story that my father told me about okay
Indian we we'll hold a we'll hold a note
we have to get back to you going to but
>> it was
that the Montreal
and
was a given maybe We used to go the the
bus used to take us and we used to stop
in my gay mikvah and uh there was a
story then that
at times went with the bus too you know
the some of them went by car but most of
them a bus was a to go with the bus how
many had cars to go
>> and we used to come there so I don't
know they'd stop by a mikvah and
somebody was telling him
I don't know if you heard us before. So
Isaac said,
"So the guy tells him
so."
So we used to go those two times. I
remember
we came early Friday morning. Yote event
Friday afternoon was the same
>> the big the big the big.
>> So I remember that when the buses pulled
up the Reb arrived. So what I recall
from that
Reb was going up the steps
and the buses there were five Greyhound
buses. It was historic. Five buses
from Montreal at one time. The buses
were pulling up. They were lined up in
the service lane. And and this what I
recall the Reb turning around
with such a
it's very difficult the Reb
to be Messiah. But it was unbelievable.
You saw it wasn't a smile. It was like I
remember that clearly was a was already
a 15year-old b
>> like in English you would say pleasure.
>> Yeah. Like like a like a gishmakite like
a very hard to describe aim. So raffin
lammed base. I remember I went with my
father. We were sitting next to each
other on the bus and
tied bay was
it was everyone went. It was before Pes
and and for me for my father to go then
Pes was but everyone went Yudf. It was a
so everyone went Yudal Niss.
I remember on the way back
that that resonated so much you you
couldn't leave
it was so inspirational
>> whatever I'll tell you
when I was a kid but there was my
father's first time that he went to see
the rebber was either tion or yud
I'm I'm not sure
>> what year were you born
>> I I was born in Tes.
>> Okay.
>> So, so you remember the teaching
>> the what?
>> Did I have a teaching?
>> I remember the last one.
>> Well, the also not the whole but the
last one.
>> Yeah. Okay.
>> But listen to this. This is incredible.
But my father tells me that there was
such a big and this was the night after
you know at night I remember even that
fabans used to finish 2:00 3:00 was nor
late the was already like 12 12:30 even
11:30
>> you're talking about the night of the
>> no the night after
and the night later
So that year my father told me there was
so many people going at the that they
made two nights for the Montreal Eden
and his time to go was the second night.
He was supposed to be there 3:00. I
don't know where he came. He said he
came early 2 230. I don't know where
they came. And he says like this, it's
about4 to 3
and he's standing like
area
and a woman walks. That's probably told
me
was the rabbit and she said like this
lost them up.
Everyone packed out the door closed.
This was canceled.
Wow.
Incredible.
If you're talking about how Montreal was
found,
>> that's a crazy story. The cancel the as
well. Okay.
>> That's what my father told me was there.
>> Wow.
So
la what happened was
that we used to go often but I have to
admit
the in
I didn't get in Montreal at all. Now,
let's be honest with ourselves. If
you're talking about
B, I left after B.
It wasn't the normal talk of the day.
How many were there?
You know, but maybe there was 10, 12.
>> It was a it was a select very select few
>> very select few. And it wasn't it wasn't
on everyone's agenda. You know what I
mean?
So therefore
of the
green
they didn't talk about
but
was not mentioned. So Leo
opened up new horizons.
Why I came after
Pes l
it was about a year after
the mashia passed away
>> but his his vision his what he tried to
to get to the
and all that that is what the se wasn't
about at the time his vision
said I remember the first Shabas I was
there
it was about 2 3:00 in the afternoon
wasn't like really it was at
David Feldman was there at the time
there were other guys over there Gopin
was a younger man in Ko at the time I
mean there was sur over there you I mean
Slavatitzky there was a whole group Bim
that came from Cultter. One of them was
called Borovski. One of them was
Slavatitki
from the There was a whole group of them
and the one that brought them was
instrumental was Yosul Seagel.
>> There was also um Greenfield was there.
>> Yeah. Cipher. There are a whole group of
them.
There was another couple
but
it was
and who was the interim type of mash
was me what was
again he was a muik I guess from so what
did he talk about he talked about
that
was the language of the
>> it seems very seamless from Montreal to
it was similar. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Similar.
>> Yeah. Everything was
until Reb Mendel came
and then label Kaplan talk about that
comes
>> Mendle came
I think
from what I understand was very from
what I understand the was very involved
and pushed
they said that
Right.
>> You know, whatever.
>> I once heard that there was push back
because
like like is the famous that everyone
knows but you know in those days you
know was it was a different style was I
don't know
>> 100% we'll soon get to that. So men's
first it was advertised
So he's going to
all the from came
from was there everyone was there and
his opening that's what I remember his
opening words were
when you make such a statement
you know like what's going on
This is coming from somebody who's going
to be the
encouraging the I guess as a
continuation of
and he explained himself. He everyone
opened up their eyes like what is he
talking about? They said like this
Everyone's trying to get to the
So he brought in such a
it made such an incredible impression
that
it emptied out. I heard there was no
meaning yeshiva. The place emptied up
other than before.
>> Can I see a question?
>> Go ahead.
>> What is I'm just curious to understand
that Menville came from the same place
as all these other people that you're
mentioning. So what what what shift why
was their mental different?
You know, I personally think if you want
to know my personal uh he had a mashpa
>> and he spoke so much about he even
described to us
as a he was a ne
and this
opinion
he spoke so much about
Yeah. Yeah.
I think that had a lot to do. That's my
personal opinion. But
He didn't even me mention I don't recall
mention
he didn't use those words
like
yeah
like it it was like such a natural thing
and everyone went to that but was an
incredible type of a mashpia
that
he did tell a lot of stories of past.
His favorites
may sim
he once describe
can I do this one of the he was holding
talk about mayor. So he told the
following story and he wanted to bring
out
they told the following story. He said
he was a
Who was the Mashian? We talk about
Neville. He lived in Neville. Who was
the Mashp?
>> So this is after
was left.
>> The main we we actually recently had an
article in about Neville this month
actually. And so we it says over there
that um the
for for that period was in Neville that
was the main the main branch. You know,
he Kadi told us before I got to Mayor
Sim, he told us that Sigan, it looks
like it was a day after
the
he used Repeat this many times.
They heard that
>> and then they heard that there's
afterwards. Yeah. Yeah.
And we don't know how long whatever
said
like calm down you know
>> as he used to say
you know you know
they says
and he said
>> so it's very interesting because if you
learn the
always explains that even though there
was something afterwards but it's of the
it's the beginning
>> so some saying
was
to speak about you know years later
>> by the way I got a I have a personal
letter from the dated giml
so anyway we'll leave it for another
time but
this is very interesting that
if you're talking about
in the meaning of he spoke a lot about
it in many occasions in 770.
So he he wanted to tell us
the
is coming to town.
So the anticipation
a lot of people heard of,
you know, of
It was a real he always spoke about
mayor may
from 8:00 till 10:00 in the evening
but
I think he said from 8 to 10
and then supper and then 8 to 10 was
maybe he said 9 to 11 I think he said 8
to 10 was
So he said that we were Baham
and we saw that.
But we were told that we can't come till
10:00 at night.
So
away
said,
"But we're not going to go in because
they'll kick us out." So
it was a summer day or whatever.
He says, "We come to the window
and he said
is standing
Mish he thought he said the whole
master didn't speak
and his
no
was
he
said
that was
They're parting ways.
>> Are you saying to one another they're
this
>> to one another they're going to be
parting ways? He said the whole time
didn't say a word. He said
we march in. He said
he says a year later he meets
and they're talking
what came up. One of the things was
so he says
And he said it's as if between them
nothing happened and he wanted to bring
out
here is
telling
him
and he said
that that that is what was front and
center of this whole thing going on. So
it wasn't
that there was a
it was the way when told it to the miss
knew it's coming from so it's
>> so I think I think what the the problem
maybe by some people today is they only
do the first part they they know how to
zone someone else without the right
>> well there's a whole from the about that
and whatever
you know, talking about Mashk and all
that. When we were in Melbourne, man, we
walked into Alto.
He wasn't like his brother at all.
>> He was more of whatever. There's a whole
history about him.
We have his
he was crying already and he used to say
today you can't say that but he said
it was palpable
going back to to a menal that mendle was
two
was a
saying his was also to the right.
No, explain to the buck for sure. He was
so
one ber from Chicago. He ended up in
Chicago. He's not around anymore. I
don't know what his son
he was
spent so much time with him learning
with him. You were able to see
sometimes too.
What was very interesting is how at
from 6:30 to 7
>> it wasn't today guys give
the way he said it
appropriately although it was the way he
said it the way he sat
it because
it was a whole different
>> you mentioned the shaman beer
rabar from Brazil.
So he told me
um that there was a baker that was uh I
don't know today would say he's
depressed I don't know exactly he was he
wasn't so men called over maybe you
remember the story he called and says
see this bak he needs to be we need to
make him happy so I want you to do like
this I want you to make a with him the
first five minutes of the seder you have
to learn every single second. The last
five minutes you have to learn every
single second.
>> The the rest I only wanted to talk to
him.
You're you're going to cheer him up.
You're going to make him happy. I want
you to only talk to him. And that was a
he did the mashia told him to do it. So
he did it.
>> Yes.
>> I mean that that's like uh I I can't
even see Mashim today do doing such a
thing. I mean the uh the outlook.
But here comes the part where Schlis
came into the picture. At that time
label captain
was sent by the reb to be to start a
minional
light in
those days the ro
>> remind me what what year are we talking
about then
>> we're talking about as far as I remember
late bid giml
okay
>> in those days
from
to from
getting to move there was like I'm
telling you to move to Honolulu.
It was a 4-hour drive, but the theas
they
it was not something that was considered
normal to move away from
wasn't a normal thing to do. And at
first he wasn't
and I heard
that the Reb told him gave him like
ultimatum.
That's what I heard. I don't know how
true it is.
So invited him
to come to
us, you know, and get them to come. No.
So I remember who was sitting by the
table
and
these were all young and second, third,
whatever it was. I think
came to K maybe even whatever
but he was in Koda the younger was
sitting around
and talking and sitting here and label
sitting next to him
and mendal told him to say
which he did a lot of and he and he took
over the show
was elbowing him z and he started to
speak about the kite from
we we never heard such words I can tell
you being
somebody from Montreal that started when
I was 5 years old I never heard suchist
before
I remember the highlights of the words
that he used
and he's talking to guys that in their
minds
not even a question those same guys he
was targeting those they were sitting in
he was the
subject matter that he spoke
and and
for them
that gave the
myself
such a
what does it all mean to us
that I can tell you honestly that that
was the first time that it resonated
honestly
He gave in that thing. I mean, you can
ask anyone who's in before at the time
or before
saw that. It was not in the in the
cards. I mean, it wasn't the
when they were.
>> So, let me ask you a question. I think
by the bakim that learned in 770
even in the yuds or especially in the
yuds that was something that they talked
about but I think maybe because they
they were hearing directly from the
rabbi I'm saying I don't know
>> I can't ask you because I was young
I remember
this but I don't
I'm basing this on I heard from
>> from so I was told directly by someone
that was aud
the the the cloud
>> you can count them on your finger
>> right right
>> okay
>> on your salaponim
that's when a lot of it started
and uh it started to resonate.
Leeo elitimo.
I ended up in New York and in
which was the place where you went first
before 770 afterwards.
>> Was that like that was the
>> I wasn't even Yeah, I was I was still 17
in then.
>> So that's where we went. And who was
sitting in Sal at the time was Rabbi
Menlik. meant the
and
by the way I lately heard from one of my
that he heard it from somebody who saw
it. You talk about Rabbi Mlik that Rabbi
Mantik
I think you're allowed to tell the story
that Rabbi Mantley was once Friday night
walking out of his out of 770
and he lived like Kingston over there
where is his house and in front of his
house he saw a from the floor. Have you
ever heard this?
>> I did. Yeah.
>> Yeah.
Anyway,
that he looked into and he did what he
did and
you know he walked around with his gle
and he walked around
were always saying something Mishna
whatever but then the fabangans
turned into different types of fabangans
was at the beginning of his
hashb and all that He was there already
two three years
and
>> and he made a tremendous impression on
us and don't forget that he was a Tommed
Muik of Rabiel.
>> So
>> Rabiel wasn't wasn't Mashia in then in
in 770
>> Rabiel used to give Shum in 770. I heard
some from some but but Rabiel was
>> there was a lot of inconsistencies that
he used to be be six weeks seven weeks
then he stopped and stuff
>> it wasn't cons but the one who gave a sh
the first year I heard was
I learned
and he gave it was the
that's the first
and that was lame giml
his was totally different what resonated
everything was about his learn was about
and was about
it wasn't necessarily about but it was
the
first side it was getting ready on in
time and from time to time we heard
Rabik from Italy from England 770s.
So then
became one thing as you're getting older
were coming out that we but
as you're getting older 20 21 but then
the middle I was 19 and a half so that's
when I went to uh to Melbourne for two
years when you got the when when you
were called in inv
this was you're waiting.
>> So you're you're waiting for for this
moment.
>> You know what? It's very easy. We waited
that now's the time.
[Music]
>> Was that the only group then?
>> I think at the time there was also
Miami.
>> Okay.
But
thinking that I will be picked. I didn't
think I would be picked. That's the
honest truth.
I'm just done practically. I didn't
think that to me. But he called me it.
And after that, after that whole, we
understood that it's mish. I don't know
how the rabbi picked names but it was
after we finished our
Gutnik who was the one that used to
communicate with the Reb write to the
about the
he got an answer from the Reb
this was published already and
so there wasn't going to beim but months
later has meaning that till now
can exist without
>> what happened was that they wrote a
letter to the rebutnik
and he wrote that
whatever he wrote. So the rabbis
answered him he told me this several
times
That was the answer. So we heard this
answer. It was a good feeling. You know
>> this is
after we went. So that means that till
now the deba was choosing each person
>> and then so we heard this you know is
was interesting the alapon
there was and I wrote about this that
there's no question
because of the time that growner spent
with us
>> there's no question
that one of the Mus was to hear from
>> it was
every Thursday night we used to sit in
his house sometimes till memories 2:00
3:00 4:00 was
that he had I mean everything is
published today already with tapes and
everything
one of the things again that was so at
the beginning of his
he was a schlak in Buffalo, New York. In
Buffalo, New York, he wasn't that much.
He was there was a school there,
>> whatever it was. I didn't know what a
was talking about.
So, he was a there. He wasn't that. And
he came back to the Reb and he told the
Reb that.
So what happened was the Reb told him he
repeated this many times.
And the Reb started crying.
There's no question that all of these
stories and what he had
gave even more you know we're already
getting older and when you're 20 21 you
start thinking too you know and yeah
I mean
you know what I mean
you know to prepare for So,
so we heard a lot from Riak and it
really resonated time and again and uh
before we went into Yehis
going to Australia. So the Reb said that
that morning that the Allah
of in Australia should come in with us
and
>> in the in the past the previous group we
were the
>> group
>> four groups before us was part of your
group
>> was the previous group I my group was
lewimman
of
So what happened was the also said that
you should also come in.
So we came in they told us to come in
the first when we came in I was in
before this several time mental uh note
I want to hear about the
>> okay so what happened was we come into
the room and there's butcher paper
covering all of the the Reb's desk
but we came in first the room fills up
there were 22 people in the
So if this is we come in and the Reb is
standing and you can only see the Reb
like from here and up because the table
was covered and it was covered like a
foot and a half or like more than a
foot. So if the Reb is standing here, I
ended up standing here next to me. And
this part in front of the Reb was not
covered with butcher paper. Mr. Do that
prepared the room
thought that no one is going to stand
over here and see what's going on here.
They're going to be standing behind the
desk. But lum
stand there. the table at least
twothirds threequarters of the table was
full of sperm
and the last
of the table the last like a third or
whatever it was quarter a third was
satlock
envelopes and newspaper clippings
but to see that was like unbelievable
later on
told us that he heard from his other
label that there
has a minute, two minutes, two minutes
in different and quickly the table fills
up and at times the Reb tells Label to
get
if it's more than a minute or two and he
comes back the Reb is already learning
something else already was as on the
table other things already and and
interesting
Klein I once went
I once went back from the with him. So I
asked him
so he tells me that
once it was about4 to 3 and 3:15
so
it comes with
and he wants to bring it into theb
he wants to bring to the he said you
can't just walk into the rebba I'm going
in with the mail in a couple of minutes.
Whoever saw the mailman coming in,
sometimes with two sacks, sometimes with
one sack. So male was always a big
thing, but but he told me
was always the first thing the Rebel
looked at. Always. So it says he took
that safer in with the mail and vice
bakim told the fellow that he was
carrying vice.
>> He wrote the safer or is it? Yeah, he
wrote the he was the
>> MBA.
>> Mhm.
>> But he had the others copy of the safer
with him. Said that when the Reb comes
out the M. So stand in the lobby over
there in the front room and the Reb will
see you. You're holding the safer. This
time it's you. And the Reb walks out
350. The Reb walks by him
and
the Reb for a second like stop.
And the Reb works
rather
my
something similar not totally my was aim
at the
who recently passed away. So he uh his
greatuncle was called the
was
it wasn't
but he was
so he wrote a safer and he wanted the
rabbit to look at it and the rabbit g so
when he went into I because it was
before it was published. My was outside.
He didn't go into but it was outside
maybe
wherever he was. And he told them right
away the story and he said that he
walked in with
in his own handwriting and he said the
Reb went like this.
looked at the page, turned the page,
look took about two, three minutes, went
through everything. Mash said that the
was for an alter that you can hardly
read,
>> right? and theb
and he says to the
and the
so he says
so the reb said that's what he told the
say
and theb gives him on what he has
written in that in those 30 pages so he
went out he said
he said he saw
before the war, but he never never
>> Everyone says that by that wouldb
would just in one second read the whole
thing like
>> yeah gather talking about
it was in me after the rabbitson passed
away.
So at the time maybe it was meas
at the times.
He was
and he came to Chicago because his vivik
sheni
were had children in Chicago. He had a
son in Chicago brahitt.
I get a call from
there's a lot to talk about
and he calls me and he says
and he got a call I don't know from whom
that we should go over him and visit him
and so I went with him we went to this
uh Abramovitz's house and we meet him
there And of course he knew who we were
and uh
>> he knew from some
>> yeah I got a sm from him if I had me
several times or whatever you know the
normal things so he know who I was he
knew who we was too you know he was very
comfortable
and he was speaking about the rabbits
the rabbitson passed away he said to us
you know like whatever but then he told
us like this he said
and he starts naming him
the
Alexander. He went to the whole list
everyone that he knew. He said
>> he learned in he learned in
he said he said like this
The above if I remember he said the
above he said
I he named the other ones I forgot about
which what he said about the other
remember clearly he said not the he said
he said he said how theb told him he
said
And
what happened was he says
he says before I left town I used to go
into the beginning in previous years
previous years. Yeah. So he said,
he said and he was really like he didn't
have to be first you know we're like
young guys you know I'm talking already
30 some years ago
>> mhm
>> and he was very taken by the rebba and
theb was a lot but you know you know
atan alone and you know
had talking about him when I was in
yeshiva Montreal going back a bit rab
hung used They give us a shabas.
>> He was abhin was aashiva of the shiva or
he was like a guest.
What was
>> you know what Isaac handled with but he
gave a sh every week.
>> Mhm.
>> And he was the bishard.
>> He was part of the faculty officially.
>> Yeah. He was he was the best
val
because he gave the question I gave the
answer.
He did everything, you know. He was so
excited when it came to learning.
He was I heard from someone in Montreal
that he would drive him to I think I
think Tridal I think that he would um
drive him to Montreal to Faban sometimes
and he'd sit in the back uh with a gum
the entire time, you know, the whole the
whole trip.
So what he told us was
that
he spoke about himself
and then he spoke about. So about
himself he spoke that he told us when he
was 16 years old
he said he met the
was his or whatever
and the koshu met him. He was 16 years
old and he said
CH.
So
he says I like I acknowledged it.
So then he asked me he said
So in so the coastal governor said to
him
he said
then he put him on the spot they started
to talk about he said
he said he said
you said
I think he said but I'm not sure the
word
>> the word
>> you know
so he start he said the in learning
came and he's saying he was there a lot
of things that he said about the reb be
because he loved seeing it. He was very
taken by the Reb. I heard that the last
they didn't invite him because of Shak
is still so
whatever. So anyway,
I'm being sidetracked, but anyway, with
him and Rashiva, Robert Picassi Picassi
was a very interesting rash. I remember
once I don't know if it's neaya remember
once he was sitting in Z and and
770 they knew what to learn.
>> The can Yeah. There was in the whole the
started like in in the youths though.
Yeah.
was one of them to come.
>> Yes. The Reb wanted certain to become
masters in that's the idea, right?
>> Correct.
>> So what was it say? You had to you have
to give a sh
I remember he was giving a shask.
So Goldberg is sitting there and he says
so he caught him off guard. So he says
that's typical him
but he was
no questions. You see in the early
pictures we had
anyway. So then uh that was the in the
in Australia.
>> But then you came back to 770
>> in a in a Yeah.
>> We came back 770.
>> Can you I I I said we're going to talk
about I said I don't know if you you
want to but
>> what happened when you're in this when
you were a kid like I'm going to come
back to that. I'm going to come back. I
just want to finish this part of before
we get to the other. I want to finish
with Melbourne. when we came back was
Niss early Nissan.
That's when we came back.
And by the way, the Reb told us when we
were in he gave us $100 and said, "And
that was
We were given hours a day
and for and we came
and he said and he repeated it say
twice he repeated it. You can see in the
in the regime in
you bet we had it ready and we worked
with the local B we did it ourselves
whatever we did. So anyway we come back
and we asked the rebba what we should do
in the summer.
>> When you came back after two years in
Australia
>> two years in Australia so in those two
years you can't go anywhere and nothing.
So upon we asked the Reb what we should
do in the summer and the Reb's answer
was sure 770
and really it was an incredible summer
in the 770 was it was Kamat Vic I mean
he had a couple hundred people maybe
there were two benches and two benches
in the
and and
>> because everyone's in camp or in the
country or whatever
>> the the reb saw everything is not a good
man. He always saw everything but then
was
excuse me was a smaller alum. So I
remember the head of betar from
Melbourne came to town. I knew him.
>> What what is Betar?
>> Betar is a Zionist group.
>> Mhm.
>> But Ara came to town and he knew me from
Melbourne. So I invited him to come for
Shabas. He came for Shabas. I got him a
place and then by fenin
I sat him down by the end of the benches
and I stood by the last
leaf of the bench and between the I
mamish bent down I don't think the reb
could have seen me and I gave him over
at the
reb was so of that that
zit from the men and and you're
attending to him you know there's no uh
thing for them to hear. This is a
shabas. It wasn't a hookup. It wasn't
and so is about to end. Goes
>> pointed to you.
>> Yeah. But I I didn't think it's to me.
So I just turned around cuz there was a
in the backb
told me to say and him to say and it was
a feeling that the
how can I tell you the reb every smile
was I smile the I remember the walking
home Thursday nights late the great
whatever late we were up 770 at night
Thursday night was normal for Fabang,
you know, 14 148.
There was always things going on.
The Reb is walking out of the room
always most of the time with a with a
bag with one of these big envelopes,
these manila envelopes, a big one, a
small one.
The nais that you felt
was unescribable.
I didn't again.
But the the the the
stop it
when we walked the rebel home on Friday
night.
Friday night,
we walk the Reb home. The Reb is walking
the Reb's face, the Reb's We behind the
Reb, but watching the Reb come out.
It was just unbelievable. It was And you
couldn't get tired looking at the Reb.
You just couldn't get tired. I remember
as a kid I came
the first Shabas Chu.
Hey
that we came Friday
was shabas it was it was the first yard
fight of the rabbit
we were kids you know I've seen the
rabbit before that then then we came
too but then it was the first yard site
there was a bus of kids came
we were standing how old was I man 11,
you know, kids 11 want to play. You
know, we couldn't take our eyes off the
reb. It was like glued to the Reb.
What did we see?
But it was like such a a I know the Reb
was against
>> there was such a
looking at the Reb is just unbelievable.
Whatever.
I don't know if it's
>> Yeah, I know. But I'm just saying it's
so anyway. So the Reb told us this day I
remember. So people came in already some
people from the country or whatever. But
that whole was such a sitting
we didn't have there was no
other Monday or Thursday but Monday and
Thursday the upstairs was not crowded.
It wasn't crowded. It was 10:00.
>> Yeah.
>> So, it was very uh just watching the reb
was a it was like a tiny. It was like
like you're in Ghana. You know what I
mean? like you're watching
told me
[Music]
and he said that he used to come often
for
by the way he stays in my house every
year for the past 30 years he comes to
Chicago
he said he used to stand by a coffus
and he said
at that time you didn't need
mashiach.
You had mashiached in full display. This
was it. You didn't need more. What? What
do you need more? The guy talking. He
said a cuffus. I remember an incident. I
don't know when this was I don't recall.
But I wanted to see
I want to see.
So I know I'm going to miss out on going
to the tal early. So I'm going to go to
east east flatbush. East flatbush coming
>> smart boys.
>> Yeah. Yeah. But it's smart boys. Okay.
So I wanted it out. So I was inside and
of course the
By the way, I don't think there were
more than 30 people inside. the upstairs
when the
>> upstairs.
>> Yeah.
>> Because the setting up downstairs was
set up for
>> Yeah. Yeah. Theb
says Mar was downstairs,
>> right?
>> Was up and say the Reb comes in puts
down the S and he turned around with an
and where the Reb stood Friday was not
where we stood base.
Right.
B
was right by the door,
you know, by the by the hallway by the
magnet and uh it was on the other side.
Yeah.
>> Yeah. So what happened was the Reb comes
in and if you know there's a door next
to the omid
that door was open maybe a half an inch
or maybe less because there were a lot
of outside in
so they stood outside and the door was
you able to see
Mhm.
>> The puts down the sid and
don't ask me what but one of these
suddenly the goals exist.
Can you imagine? It's the only time I
ever saw that in my life. So when the
rebba did that there was some excitement
of old cooking. So you were circling the
cooked whatever the door opened up from
so much maybe maybe 3/4 of an inch
walks to the door opens up the door and
goes like this
and everyone started dancing whoever was
there ran in a lot didn't but the ratio
from was there I also mention I remember
talking about
I Remember once the um
the the
shul was like a third of the shul. So
you know how the sh was built in
>> three installments.
>> Yeah. That's like three apartment
buildings that the base the shalash
>> Yeah. So it was only
>> 784 and 78
>> that was still about
I don't know when
whatever. Then they built the the next
ones.
>> The llamadal.
>> Ramadal. Yeah.
They built it not before
>> the last one.
>> The last one, right? Yeah. The last one
was up.
>> But then only the first one was
standing. I remember also when I came I
remember clearly where was standing in
the back by the colored windows watching
the rebap
upon him. So um what was I middle? I
lost my train of I thought.
>> So you're saying that uh when you came
downstairs it was just the first part of
770.
>> Oh this first time. So it's it's
the middle of and the Reb stands up to
dance. Suddenly abruptly the Reb
stopped. The Reb said looked at God
and it was like a hush you know and then
the Reb continued. So these are things
that the Reb noticed everything
and there was by a coff many times as
you know and the fact when it grew when
the much more people came from different
parts of the world there was
>> different nationalities.
>> Okay. So it used to be the seder that by
that when it came to he went into
so I went once as a kid with my father
>> maybe
>> what before
>> your father's
>> no I don't know when my father went in
it was huge about time but I went in
with my father I was 8 years old 9 years
old. So I don't remember much only the
sitting by the table
by the way
and then I went in for my mitzvah the
mitzvah was short was interesting
because I went in after my bait mitzvah
right after my bait is
so I wasn't there for my father was
going to go some I went in right after
some my father and he and and just said
one word
and I'm talking
and this and yes said the but didn't
fire me the mimer or like he did the
others and all that just asked let us
and the m that was it like
>> every year thereafter
15 and 16. I went in right after. Don't
ask me why. I didn't go in.
I don't know
>> was no
but I could have gone in but I was in
that
when I was
No. Then I was in Montreal. I was a
Montreal camp. Could be. That's why.
I think didn't have
>> no but not only I could have gone or
could but I didn't
>> you went
>> I'm just telling you my went after that
>> all these were very short remember once
I asked for my mother asked this but
very nothing extraordinary except by the
um
when I was 18 I asked the reb about u
the rebi always looked at The
there was a time the Reb looked at the
settle of Dan Holla and all that first
as you came in you had to give the talle
from anal.
Yeah.
And um when I was 18
I asked the Reb about I told because
after I came back from I asked the Reb
about putting on film putting on then
everyone asked the Rebain
when you were 18. It's interesting. I
didn't put it put it on on my 18th year
which was I don't know why I should have
but I I wanted to be in and asked the
Reb first. So I asked the I wrote in the
said
then then later changed the said
everyone should do it from then
but it's interesting because when I came
back from Australia I had no
there was no uh
no but then was right away lad
was right away after I came back.
>> So, yeah, after the summer was so that's
a whole separate para,
right? And the Reb said the in the Reb's
room and all of that. So it was
and then came the which I had very
interesting things the
in Detroit I have to say
>> was that when did you get married?
>> I got married.
So
>> yeah. So gadam my parents were
in in the in the gnat my mother and my
father.
So he he gave
and they gave them all but to my mother
he said
and she lived till she was 90.
>> Yeah.
and she had you know lived a long nice
life.
And so I got married in Latas and just
to point out how the Rebba knew everyone
who's there even in the later years as
the crowds were so big. I'm not saying
aish the is when the Reb takes note of
it and tells you about it. That's the so
I was going to go to Russia.
>> You're saying you're already living in
Chicago.
>> I'm already in Chicago. Yeah. You're
doing a special uh trip. A special uh
>> special trip.
>> Yeah.
So, I'm I'm going to uh Russia and I was
in New York.
It was going to be after and after
I was first in New York for about
several days to get some training
preparation
was still the beginning of glass. So it
was very important that you know you
don't talk what you're doing and you
don't
>> blasphe you know the
>> the when the former Soviet Union began
to westernize
>> okay so to speak
>> so to speak
>> said we still have to be very careful we
only have to stay in the hotels and not
speak in the hotels what we want to
speak.
So I came in then and then I was going
to meet my shouldv that was the first
guy Platkin who went as a former Russian
they wanted to see whatever they sent
him first time somebody who left Russia
went see if it works
>> yeah see how works yeah so
I didn't I didn't go that Sunday to
Dallas I was in Chicago I was going to
meet him in the middle of the week at
JFK Okay. And from there go to Russia.
So
he goes by the
>> Can I just ask you a question? They were
taking a from his to go to Russia. That
was that was that was
>> You weren't the only one now that think
about it.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> It wasn't only but also
>> also
went like
of course Shapiro went several times.
>> Malu went
>> Malu. Yeah. They all went I went to me.
Some of my friends went to Marsha went
hash went and he went at the time where
there was the Chernobyl reactor and all
that that
walks by the Rebotkin and the Reb asks
him
who
they say is in Chicago.
The said
Chicago
was there because my niece got married
to Adelman. Whatever one of the Turks
got married to Adelman. So I just came
and I just I wasn't going to come again.
You know have a lot of nieces and
nephews.
I wasn't going to go but the Reb said
and Shabas
was a a big crowd you know like every
Shabasan the members big crowd that my
father was there my my my mother was
there
>> and that you're related and the whole
thing
>> yeah whatever
in Chicago
>> so from then you know
the rabbis saw everything what was going
on there were times
that when the rebba walked into the
rebba really looked around and knew
who's there not there once went into
when I was a upstairs in 770
so where we at the uh
>> so you're talking about
>> yeah I want to tell you also I think
it's neg for
to know this very neg
I was a in Michigan
for three years.
I used to write in a lot to the Reb
about
my experience over there. the
relationship with was is
so there was a lot that I learned from
discuss
but then there were times that we've had
let's put it this way our disagreements
and I wrote to the Reb a lot about it
and once I wrote a lot
that was from my last settle
And the Reb's answer was so clear.
you can leave. And I was I was pleased
with the answer because first of all,
the Reb it sounds like the Reb is
telling you to go. The Reb is saying as
long as you don't have a contract that's
holding you down, you should
>> I want to tell you how it resonated by
me. Mhm.
>> The reben
that he picked. He's not changing them.
If if
I think maybe it's too sharp for you to
hear these days, but in my opinion
and and you know what? And then later on
I had the Gaba Mliff is over here. So I
went straight from from there to
Chicago. But this answer was maybe an
other and I came to Chicago. I left
Kafal of from uh Michigan and I came
Kafalov to Chicago. So there was no Bay
Lebane in those days. There were a there
was Vil you know
>> that was already me. So there was a lot
of I came over to Michigan. I left I
came I came
and I left
I told
he didn't want to hear about it but I
got but anyway I learned a lot from and
um so one of the offers of course was
Chicago and I came to Chicago
and of course I knew Denil back from
yeshiva Montreal about a year older than
I
And um
was that uh
I want to write into the reb because
because of the money situation without
going into an IAT
so I wrote a letter
>> position was the position that you have
now the
>> yeah to start the school there was a
free school but to start the elementary
school
>> that was why I was going to come to
start an elementary school
>> in Detroit what was what were you doing
>> in Detroit was doing the same thing.
>> I was I was teaching two hours a day and
taking care of an hol shaft whatever.
>> Mhm.
>> Okay. We won't go into all that but
whatever.
I write to the I have I get a letter
from the
Chicago
that was in a letter which was also a
letter
for the upsh
of my son.
So it wasn't specially about that but it
was a bit and the letter.
So it wasn't like even an answer. He the
Reb could have given an answer.
>> It wasn't a minor.
>> It wasn't a minor although I wrote a
letter. The Reb could have written the
minor on the letter like the Reb did so
many times.
>> Right. So alapon
what happened was that the uh
alias say I'm going to look into other
things. Okay.
Okay. So the is telling me also
I'm done.
I don't know if several weeks or two
months later I get a call from Danil
and he tells me it's like I want you to
know that the shilus that you had are
being resolved
for a very interesting reason. There was
another younger man that came from
Montreal for the position and the Reb's
answer was
we don't know what means what kind of no
one has the position. No one is giving
away that like the only thing we can
think is of you.
>> I said you have your answer and I have
my answer. I have an answer.
No.
So he says, "You know what? You're
writing in Mama sauce." In those days
that sauce were all over the place and
there were to open new places or to to
>> everything whatever whatever there was
like nut remember Buffalo wanted to open
up something nearby and even Wisconsin.
I was there once and there were offers
and uh
but I was already involved in so
right back into the that came to me and
he has another
and that five people are going to money
for the first year whatever there was a
right away within two hours I
So although there was a letter like that
and
so basically what the Reb said
is it was fake.
So
>> and then I guess came
the answer you know
but then there was other that I had but
the time is rolling is the time for
>> uh I don't there's no on time continue.
>> Yeah. While I was
>> take take off your watch.
>> While I was in
>> I have a question. What happened when
you went to Detroit? I'm just curious
like there was answers from the to going
to Detroit. Yeah. Yeah. Of course.
>> I think then I also had and all this.
>> We discussed my my
lipids who was uh lived in Detroit at
the time convinced me you got to go to
need somebody for Neil for
administration whatever. I went I wrote
it first
while I was in Detroit
me.
So I had two kids at the time
and
when I used to bring them for our
copas was very late. One of them was a
year old the other one was two and a
half.
So it was you know you can only do so
much and I one of them I held on my
shoulders and the other one myvagers
took care of them. It wasn't easy
bringing the kids. You must be stupid.
Anyway, I brought them. I wanted them to
see them. So, I'm standing
by the miser to the left on top. There
was pyramidus over there. So, I I was
able to see the Reb perfectly. The Reb
was able to see and it was noticeable.
I was holding Mashi, my son, on my
shoulders. It was noticeable that the
Reb was looking several times even made
with a hand and it was noticeable but
you know what it could have been
somebody near me but it wasn't used to
stand near me but whatever
make a long story short a day afterwards
after some
I go to I drive back
I had myself my wife my two kids
and one of Stein's children been seen
Stein and Dr.
We're driving back when the Poconos
and the car goes out of control
and smashes onto the side, whatever. And
the one that was not buckled in P at the
time was my son Moshi was a year old.
And uh immediately, I don't know how,
there were no cell phones. Then the
police from the Poconos came. We were
all tied in except for him. He got out
of his car seat and he banked his head.
They immediately made an MRI and he has
a not just like a fracture, but an
indentation in the skull.
And they suggested that surgery would be
the right thing
to lift the pressure from the skull
because if not
if you don't lift the pressure from the
skull he can have seizures and all of
that as the child grows and all that.
Okay. So I said I'm going to call the
Reb and the Reb's answer was it took
about two three hours till I got the
answer and I kept on calling. The Reb's
answer was
Now this is the day after
and they were ready for a surgeon to do
the surgery.
but
and we're talking about one day after
which is I think
so it's about five weeks away from
>> right
>> so it was an interesting thing
>> so you were ready to do the surgery like
in then
>> yeah I mean
>> yeah they in the penos
>> yeah they suggested that
>> l what happened was that when I come to
by the way when I before I went back to
Detroit I went back to New York with my
son. We left him there for a day because
he was in trauma.
So I came back to New York. I came to
Min with my son
and I stood by dimes. So it's
interesting what happened because
the rabbi gives him a dime. He looks at
me. He gives him a dime, a nickel.
and he throws it into the pushka and the
reb
and he turns back around.
Yeah. Just gave him
interesting.
I don't know it was or whatever. Okay.
The doctors were mats in Henry Ford
Hospital that the Reb
should
there were mats that make the make the
surgery. So I'm going to ask the Reb
right away. So the Reb's answer was you
should
ask another doctor. We went to another
doctor. The other doctor said, "You
should definitely do it. You should do
it. He's mad to do it." So then there
was a doctor that came from Pittsburgh.
He was a surgeon, a pediatric surgeon.
And he said, "We said we're going to go
to him because he knows the mala." Make
a long story. We made an appointment and
he's going to do the surgery. a day
before the surgery or two days before
the surgery we had another appointment
with him and he says rabbi I don't think
that you should do the surgery
so my high said we just finished
research on such injuries
and the same chance that he may have
from seizures
from
the injury he can have just from the
surgery so it doesn't pay but Now I'm
really stuck because
two doctors said yes, one doctor said
no.
>> Right.
>> So I asked and there is simply no
answer.
V asked By again and again.
So I asked B what do I do?
Said if you don't have
you don't do a surgery.
>> You just don't do it.
Several weeks later, I wrote to the Reb
about another Indian God about Detroit.
And I wrote to the Rebel.
So the circle like
>> I wanted to be
>> so there is like no fault insurance
>> in Michigan. So I thought that we could
make anyway it was in court for about
five years. Uh oh.
>> My son was suing me because I bought two
old tires, used tires for the trip. So
my little son is suing me. It was in
court several years. They even wanted to
make a settlement. the insurance company
the the OID I had to have somebody that
called that case and I asked Lamelik
Silverberg to on behalf of my little son
to sue me you know to but I'll make a
long story short it took about several
years and I came back for the final
thing and the judge says that uh we're
going to have to do over all the tests
again because the attorney was saying,
you know, these tests, it's it's such
these injuries. It's not like a a stuck.
It's not like you have like a small
injury. It was an indentation in the
skull and that can still be putting uh
pressure on the skull and what on the on
the brain. But Pale Yates, what happened
was we we made more the the judge said,
"Let's make over the tests and the
pictures and the MRIs." We did it all.
We come back several months later and
the doctor who's appointed I guess from
the judge or whatever says and he had
all the pictures lined up in front of
the judge.
Your honor, there is no indication from
these pictures that this child was ever
in an accident or ever had an injury on
the brain.
and we didn't get a my son didn't get a
dime and I was very happy. That's
but
I want to because it's starting to get
I want to say something about
which I think two things I'm read you
read you read my mind because I was
about to tell you that uh I'm sitting
across
I don't know you know among podcast I'm
sure we'll have many types of people but
I don't know how
>> I don't know who the next person so so
>> so I want to talk I want to talk about
when you wrote
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the read the
read the
so I remember
I didn't know if his name was mentioned
but it could be there was a child in
11 12 year old. For some reason he was
sent to Chicago from Detroit.
He was there was a makurv over there and
for some reason they sent him here to
learn. This goes back about even 35
years ago. No, maybe less 32 years ago.
And I got a call from label
And he was having difficulties.
>> This is like
>> No, no, no. This was earlier. This was
mass
maybe.
>> Tash wants to know what you doing with
the kid in Okay.
>> Yeah. Everyone knows
know what we're doing for that kid. The
kid obviously is kite. I don't think
then
uh two things really
I mean this was already one of the
my stories but it's worthwhile to repeat
this
before I get to that I want to say
another story that at the beginning of
our school in Chicago
they wanted people in the most of the
kids we had were from nonaban homes, but
they like the private attention, the
small classrooms and all that, people
who are not necessarily from the Kabat
community had no problem sending their
kids. But then we saw that when it comes
to first grade, they take out the
children.
And then there was a case somebody
wanted to come back afterwards. So we
made a rule once you leave, you can't
come back.
because it it's
because you can have a class of then it
was a class of eight 10 kids if two of
them leave it's
so there was a telid living in Chicago
and I don't think he would mind me
telling the story
he's already over 90 and his Ben Zakunim
Benzakunim's name was of he sent him to
uh kindergarten and like pre- one night
and then he wanted him to go to the lit
vish mid in town which is a very good
mess by the name of the three he's not
as so as long as he was in preschool
nice kid nice program alterine even
there was yiddish in the school by then
full-time yedish in the school so
everyone liked it
he calls me up so okay I said you know
that once you leave you leave okay he
calls me up this was in castle also
I don't know if the year was mev
whatever year it was it was it was
around there hey me he calls me up he
says rabbi wolf
my kid doesn't want want to go to any
school other than
you got to take him back. So I said to
him, "Rabbi Rther, Rabbi,
we have a policy now.
I know your son Mustam really wants to
be here, but frankly speaking, if you
won't take him out now, if you'll send
him back now in a year or two, you'll
take him out again. I know what's going
to happen." Yeah. Tell and I have big
nice community that tells a community in
town, very nice. They have their school
and everything. So, so I don't want to
do this a kid back and forth and back
and forth. You don't go school hopping
with children.
Says, "Okay,
you're not going to take him. Okay, I'll
live with it." He calls me back several
weeks after sukus. Rabbi Wolf, this kid
has a a lab.
You must take him back.
I said we have a policy. He says policy
say you're going to take him back. He
sits every day in front of the
classroom. He's six years old.
He doesn't want to see the classroom.
Only wants to come back to
I took him back.
Great kid. And today he's achiev
the youngest of of his children.
beautiful Mishbah
today somewhere in New York somewhere
New York state recently I got to spoke
to him and his father now
London
and he lives on 580 Crown Street he
moved into so it's
very nice his mother very very very nice
people extraordinarily nice people and
of room is one of our success stories
>> there was yuchvat
Hey Tavis time and you know what
happened at the time that the Reb said I
think it was that there should be three
and
>> after after the after the seven days of
>> after the seven days of celebration
I what I used to do
>> second so that that applied to schools
all over the yeshivas everywhere
>> there's test
>> so what I started to do at the beginning
of the memsovski.
We were in yeshiva in 770 together then
ka
and he not in ka because he went in
yeshiva we were in z together and leo he
tells me well
everything that the teachers give out
you should send them to the everything a
worksheet anything they give out they
should know first of all they would be
more careful
and try to develop velop sheets that
should be acceptable. It would do that
anyway, but make them more aware this is
going into the
>> as the says if they know that the if
they know that a bus of a dam is looking
at it.
>> Yeah.
>> So anyway, so I used to have a tray on
my desk and they used to throw in the
copies of the sheets of paper on my desk
and it used to go to the Reb. I always
got answers,
you know, all these answers. It was
always kamati always answered. I did it
once a month. If Shamal gven once every
two months alo but this time hey tavis
I had
a gald
a gald of stuff from clean from papers.
to mamish a box like this. I'm not
exaggerating. I brought to New York and
I send it in. I leave it in the office
to grown
asked for the
two days after your I'm back. I get a
call from I can go on a lot about
I had a nice cash with him. I was going
to say that um because you were in that
extra special connection because he
right.
>> Yeah. The one who got me into that with
and I thank him for that.
>> He told you he told you to call all the
time.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Mhm. A once wrote a letter to
my letter head with a
means that I got to give in to the
federation
audited statements. I am I tell him that
today is not.
He sent it into the Reb. I have a copy
of it. The Reb wrote an admo here last
Kain and the initials to give it over to
Yud Krinsky
>> to give to give what it
>> the letter
>> the contents of the letter
audited statements and what he told me
later on is that as a result of that he
makes that
by the copy of the letter on my phone
>> that's the reason why he makes announced
by the order the letter that I wrote was
I don't know if it's important to read
it but the reb's answer was like
I think I that would be the approper
thing to do I write
and and the reb's answer was very
interesting so I'll come upon him so
going back to calls me two days after
and he says
So I said,
you know,
so he says that
And he asked me if I know about that
which was inappropriate. It was a Kav
book,
a book uh from Kitav that used to give
publish like Hebrew with Hebrew lines
that you should be able to write
carefully and alang carefully
and in the back it was more of a Zionist
book.
So he
>> like a song
>> a song. Yeah.
He asked me if I know about it and I
said, "I know what it is." He said,
Can you imagine? It's two days after and
I sent it to the Reb. Now what the Reb
did with it? I don't know. But there was
already a response two days after that
response.
>> Do you know Do you want Do you want to
share what the sh was?
>> It was a Zionist cheer. I'll leave it
I'll leave it up to your imagination.
um the um
one of the Zionist songs, but it didn't
belong in aim.
It's it's not the first time that you
get the feeling that mishhat
on everything I used to send in the Reb.
But sometimes some things are happening
and you don't even know it's going to
end up by the Reb. Uh I'll give you
something
Gman came to for some odd reason in our
old building. He came with Denil brought
him
and he brought him to then he said
pictures
and so somebody had somebody was there
with a camera from his people that he
came with. He took a picture with me and
Denil standing next to him and snapping
pictures.
Several weeks later, I met him in New
York. I said, "Oh,
And then you know suddenly it's going to
be by the that's what he told us
but it came from himself. I didn't ask
him about the pictures because it it
wasn't an issue. He himself initiated
the conversation. So
there was a lot of things
that it was obvious that I asked once
because I used to have conversations
with them. Is the rabbit
typical answer the rabbis
kinder
in Illinois
the twostep is mid this was the typical
I don't know if it came from the you
know I asked him on a telephone
conversation by the way
was always involved in things so I once
asked him for a certain
and several in Yonim we were going to
move the girls school here
and on the phone he's giving his so at
the end several things at the end of the
conversation I asked him
and this was in the end of me the fax
machines were going
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So he said, "Yeah, yeah." And he sent me
back with and I remember
I read it.
So you never knew what comes from the
Reba, what doesn't come from the Reb.
But that was adva
that nakov was so involved
with hin that this was sometime in the
mems that after rashan passed away
kataski
somehow the his children had a copy of
that letter I'm not sure how it came but
could be through khadakov it came to him
so I wrote a letter to khadakov
>> that I need malam I need over here
because he's in charge of maybe he
commits if he knows people that want to
go into he said but see them to contact
me can you imagine writing such a letter
to go you know like like asking him
please help me in my I need some some
employees
and I'm just telling you that the
involvement with kadakov was it there
was another thing that I had from
kadakov that gave
>> people but People think that is not
>> is 100%. I take great offense when you
make such a statement.
>> That's why I asked it because I wanted
to. It wasn't a statement. It was a It's
a question.
I wanted to refute it. I don't want to
do anything. I'm just bringing it up
because people say this.
>> Okay.
Yeah.
>> So, the ones that were
in,
>> right? and mamesh
it went into the reb was m
so even the in New York were over there
and then
is part of our over here it's so obvious
you know I wrote into the as soon as I
came here I took the blank that I copied
from Detroit
the side things was my own but the and
those days Every blank you sent into the
Reb, you know, I mean, you started a you
have a stationary, the blank they called
it, you send it into theb and of course
I send it into the and it was normal. I
didn't I didn't get a no. I didn't get a
yes, but it was
great. Yeah.
So I'll so to say that those were not
was I'll tell you another thing which I
think is is important and
it was meion the famous mezian hatavis
but the rabbel
you know about that famous the said that
50 10% I think the said he'll give him
50% of the the budget or the
yeah meas
He's going to give us a
>> It was Yeah.
>> Yeah. So, we didn't know what's, you
know, what's going on because I'm asking
Abdil like what's going on?
>> What do you mean?
>> We didn't We're not getting
>> Oh, you didn't receive it. Okay.
>> Yeah. So,
I mean, this is what I heard which went
to Khadikov. Khadikov said,
Alman was gone already eight years or
something and the ne and everything did
go through him. So I'm not sure what
kind of co meant and I'm not going to
judge but hearing that I got an I got
like what's going on? I'm afraid
who brought me down.
What do you mean then? Then I'm nothing,
>> right?
>> So I contacted Fakov and I said that's
how I know that I'm achieving
tomorrow morning.
was others. Another one from the here
that I heard wrote a letter whatever and
the pilot was nostalgic. The Neil was
the what he meant who knows you know by
him could be if he didn't get I didn't
even want to know what he meant or say
what he meant. I don't know
>> but there were things that was self
understood that when Khadakov speaks at
times he speaks from the reb and I'll
give you a mushroom what happened his
oldest son which is now here was field
Illinois
>> whose son
>> me
yeah okay
>> so at the time of his bitzvah
he uh his father wrote a letter to the
rabbi
that the mid has some and he would
rather cease by mitzvah not have him
engaged in
and he's going to send them to his aid
in Toronto was from the
mandal yeah was
mandal I I remember he used to come to
Montreal I think his
>> he had aviger over there or a mother I'm
not sure who he had
>> um yeah
>> he had somebody in Montreal he used to
come and visit the baby came to visit
the Shatland because Hashel
I learned in Toronto I know I know I
know him I mean I
yeah
so I right away I write
that there was ongoing conversations
with him right
that he was also
he was a advocate of
>> so
I already settled that
he's the son of
and it's eighth grade so I'm ready to
close the eighth grade and just have all
day because I get a call from and he was
livid
as I said
that we're part of the
he was adamant.
So that was very important to hear this
that sometimes we hear I mean
there was sometimes
but it doesn't mean that that became I
don't want to go into that but it
doesn't mean that it became
okay I'll come upon this
>> so I have a I have a question um
>> did you ever did you ever speak to
anything about tuition
>> no but the people that I hired all went
through.
We had a man over here that I brought
into the which now is the manal of a
very big
you know told me what I should do
whatever with the whatever it was someh
it went through the everything so
was involved and and the reb was
involved in our so to say that
I I think today it's so obvious that our
biggest challenge is
and and and
I can say that we gave out a lot of nice
talid from Chicago and now with the mifa
it's becoming the normal thing they go
from to to the ma and then we have the
girls high school which is also an
outgrowth it used to be labavage girls
labavage girls high school then at the
end the Neil felt that it should be
independent for fundraising for a lot of
other things and it went and today raz
from this big mid so it's beautiful and
we have just in the elementary and
preschool we have just under 500 midas
and the school is growing we're middle
of a big project and uh
I can just say one thing that the u it
was 1991
it was lip on memorial day
we had a big in our house
and it was right after at Shabas. I
forgot what day in Civ it was that the
Reb came in and washed after M on his
place.
>> What dayabas?
Right. So right after that Monday
morning was the fire. The children were
in the hospital
and the Reb told me three times, two
times to me and one to my wife. after
that
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the are growing on the we see over here
and it's 50 years since my
and I can say
is today what saves yungalite
and and we're not doing it because it it
it saves yungalite because his gosh
today.
>> So let me ask you the said there are
four levels of
there's no other way. There's no detour
that you can take.
that
the Reb's the Reb's which is so
beautiful and
is what the Reb wanted in the belt.
>> So what do you um
what's your message?
I mean before you were describing
very beautifully. First of all, the
whole upbringing and the atmosphere and
everything that you grew up with, but
also the the
you experienced by the rabbi and
obviously even on all these
and the answers you got.
What's your message to
someone like my age and younger
that doesn't have that experience? How
could and we know it's a fact that
and everything is continuing until
but how do you re how do you have that I
mean for you it's like you experienced
it so it could come with even without
today it feels like there's more a than
needed so what's your message to
>> okay so
first of all I want to say when I walk
into the mifa I come al and I see shabus
morning
it's
to see how the reb is working today
is unbelievable by the way it's
unparalleled in Jewish history because
we know what people said about the day
after gimotamus
and and everyone has that it's
I was once sitting at a table by a
dinner a banquet over here. So
I was on that table.
So a guy says to me, "Rabbi Wolf, you
guys are with your networking. You guys
are just so unbelievable what you
accomplished. If you would only omit one
thing, can you imagine what you could
accomplish? What's that thing? This
whole thing. I said, then we we would
look like you.
I want to look like you. So, of course,
we need a Reb thing.
Is a thing that it's beyond.
Can you understand that when you
and says go
and how it happens we don't know the
gave the
and he gave four things and he gave it a
huge udalis when theb basically wrote
the of his so you're asking so I look at
what's going on and I scratch my head
and I talk I don't understand it just
like I don't understand how a mitzvah is
I also don't truly understand the
30 years later
learn
and that inspires them and they go, you
know, think about it today. We're living
in the United States 2025. A teenager
Friday afternoon
from one floor to the other. One floor
of offices they let them in, the other
one they kicked them out, come back on
Monday morning and
and the comes back and he's glowing. Why
is he glowing? He could have done so
many other things Friday afternoon. I
know what teenagers are. I mean, I'm
somewhat involved. No, I I know
and and you watch this or you watch kids
want to do want to do with their
parents.
How was this happening?
I mean, if you really think about it,
how is this happening?
Was a great man. He didn't accomplish
that. Even if you think back about the
you know when you speak about the
And you're talking about
but you see the
not normal thing. I mean we all can
agree it's not a normal thing. So you're
asking me I don't have the answer. I
just know it's not normal.
and and that's the beginning and that's
the end for for man to take his wife
and we're living in a big world and the
world is small but you take somebody and
you send them to Vietnam or South Korea
I have my own son in Montana have other
other children too Miami is not Montana.
Montana is not Miami. Uh, New Hide Park
is not uh Montana. You know what I mean?
Montana. And I know certain things that
my son would be upset if I repeat it.
And
you know what I mean? In
think about this. I was a kid. The only
safer in Yiddish you had was toxin
tales.
And then you had a hut toxin tales.
There was the safer a blue book the bal
I don't know if you ever came across
today. It's included in so many others
one chapter.
What did the do
whatever he told them to do?
It's a whole story. There's another
story over there.
a story when I read from
whatever he
was
all you need people.
Yeah. Okay. Then you go
you're talking about
okay I get it
you know I get it they they tell a story
that I heard this from Rabman he was he
was in Chicago
and it was in
he stayed in one place for two weeks
and he had his whatever he had was that
gas he didn't eat by these people and
two weeks later I get a hand for. So
they see that the bed wasn't even
touched
and they needed a for children.
So they came to him they said
so he said
they basically told him you're enough of
a good reb for us you give us the
took away
he had a baggage that's a small suitcase
they said we're not giving it back until
you give us the suitcase
So he gave them
and they had a child. He came back when
he came back he I heard this from
he said that he told the what he did and
the said this time he let it go through
he didn't want to touch that. Soap
and
which was we talking about
when we came to Australia. So the one
that used to come with us everywhere was
Zusha dean. He was our guide and he was
in Australia
>> on the way to
>> on the way to Australia. Yeah. So what
happened was this time the one who met
us was
we camed we left
everywhere where we went he is following
us
we were
shabas shabas we went to we came back 12
1:00 at night for 4:00 we got to go to
tan
we come we come to the airport
and the man is standing there and we're
leaving.
He said
he made
several weeks later.
>> Yeah. The accident passed away.
So
you think about it.
And what are they doing?
We're talking We're not talking about
these.
It's unimaginable. It's unparalleled.
What What you want to say to Mim? Just
think what we're doing in 77.
young light that are going know this.
They have to articulate it.
That's my message. What a message. Look
what's going on.
It's unbelievable. No.
Have a nice day, Rabbi.
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>> All the best. God bless.