Halachos of the 3 Weeks, Rabbi Yosef Braun, 5782

what's up welcome everybody i want to welcome everybody to the summer learning program everybody should know this hat this is just it happens three times a week for eight weeks during the summer please come and tell your friends and also this year we're very lucky because the third time that we were doing this and the third time our drawing is coming to address the summer learning program so it's probably the kazakhstan and uh mr sham next year will be joyful to have it in your slime miraculous addition even before the end of this year without further ado i'll be growing so my first question is what do i do to make sure that it's not a kazakh it reminds me that the devil once told someone someone asked today to give him hanukkah gult and he told the libra that i would give him two times already hanukkah gulp so the rabbit said that's why i don't want to do a third time so it shouldn't be a kazakh he was very smart and he told whatever that the gemara says that according to the opinion of rebbi twice according to the rebel rebbe so the rebbe said i'm going to give you but i'm going to make a change still so it shouldn't be three this time you're gonna get it through mosquitos and yes i'll just turn around once naked and yeah we're talking about the halal for the three weeks so in halakha we have a range of categories we have been amazon the three weeks which stratfors we'll talk about that shortly when it actually starts we have the nine days we have the week of tish above pretty much it and i it's hard to sort of the perhaps is some of the which are problematic even the issues that we can't do in the three weeks are also issues in the nine days but it becomes much more severe so therefore in order not to confuse us we're talking now purely about the three weeks anything that i'm going to say you're allowed to or you're not allowed to that means during the three weeks could be in the nine days even when those conditions are met still could be a problem by way of introduction the concept of the three weeks having specific prohibitions is really not that very well sourced the very first source for the concept of being a masadam is a plastic in echa where the plastic says right in the beginning of icha golsa yehudim yehuda has gone couldn't find a place to rest it fell all those who chased after the jewish people were able to catch up to them quote them bane them a certain while they were standing between the boundaries a number of different interpretations what bana matata means but the literal meaning is that they were caught between a rock and a hard place at the edges of the fields and that's where the their enemies captured them that's the pressure shot but the measure says that the method says refers to this particular season between shavasana thomas and tish above why are we making a season out of this now we know a lot of terrible things happen on shavasana batamas we know a lot of terrible things happen in tish above but so do terrible things happen in some godale and many other days in the year what's this highlight in these three weeks so the madness there's a particular demon which is called ketchup you might be familiar with the with that uh i don't know how familiar with demons i'm talking about demonic demons not human demons so we might be familiar with it from yoshiba cesar in yoshipur says we say no help me out before that someone says the word cat over there no yeah gotta sit there i can't move because i'm uh blocked by this video oh here we go thank you actually it talks about pakia is the name of a demon and this demon is during the middle of the day that's when he's and his force and the talmud and the sadiq are protected from these demons will protect you says the manager during particularly from the fourth hour of the day to the ninth hour of the day that's when there's quetzal meridi particularly during the three weeks and that's why our enemies got us and based on that it's not a good idea to walk during the three weeks standing behind hamilton between very hard to understand what that means in a literal sense everybody's troubled about this what that means practically not to walk between the area between the sun and the shade there's no such thing it's either you're in the sunny area or the shady area presumably means on the line on the line right between the sun and the shade that's where the demons are and that's not a very good time that's all we know about the three weeks in ghazal that's it nothing about any of these other restrictions the only thing we know is that it's a possibility says refers to this time and that's why the one thing that it says nobody knows about but it's a dangerous time and they shouldn't walk okay fine a lot of players can talk about this this halaq which is actually brought down not to walk between the sun and the shades and also says you shouldn't hit your students during these days also according to many places it means during those particular house restaurants that's perfectly fine to attend assuming that it's fine throughout the year that is so the place can say that if okay if the room that has a mezuzah it's okay and there's people walking around on the streets that's what we're hitting and people in the street and it's also okay it's only if you're not gonna tell you only in a place where there's nobody around them between the sun and the shade and the bottom one other thing we find in khazal about the three weeks is up sit as a madrish tells us that it's something unique that during the three weeks the haftaris change normally the after it is associated with the parasha if you'll have a look at the rambo when he brings all the half toyotas he has a list of all afternoons every parasha linked with the theme of the parsha including during the three weeks and then he says but there are places and that is the common custom that they actually don't say in particular after the ones that i'm going to enumerate before that fernatus master pink cosmetics master development depending on when your three weeks are three it starts a sequence of after this three after is associated with perilous with punishment with negativity and they're not related with the parachute and that's associated with the theme those clusters are followed also by shiva naganta by seven of terrorists associated with comfort and afterwards with trey de tufta traded associated with repentance with sugar necessary sugar season and straight until we get to the sinu depending on on the setup of the year we we leave the parsha structure and we're going to it's not a thematic hospital connected with the parish but it's the theme of the season of the year that's all be all and all about the halaquahs of the three weeks in ghazal this is it tells us a bunch of restrictions the monotonous tells us those restrictions are the weak of the commission says mother continues and explains that the weak of tissue but you can't take haircuts you can launder a bunch of things you can't do the week of terrible they i should say this isn't the nightmare there's an opinion that says it says in the in the navy tells us that abrasion says that he's going to bring the herbiv i'm going to destroy their festivals and destroy their shabbos and destroy their months they're just predicting the misfortune that's going to happen to the jewish people so based on that there are different opinions if how long we keep that village if it's in the month godzilla meaning the month above was the shabbat of the week of the week of tishbov and is the week of tisha both and that's very very relevant for us to know that a lot of the things that we talk about in three weeks and even in the nine days it's all until we get to the week of tishma and the week of this but there's not too much room for flexibility because it's no longer a question of minute ago it's a question of israel hadin medina makes the difference for the ashkenazi african german yemenites week of tishma is much more serious but three weeks it doesn't tell us about anything to do the book with pious behaviors and he tells us there were great hasidim and they were careful they were makman not to make a shakhyanu during the three weeks and what was their reason because how could you say when this man is not exactly such an exciting time so now we have much much later historic i'm giving you the historical background so i'm going to show them ashkenaz can't even call me showing him cat money might be more accurate to use the term and he mentions this minute again that's the minion which is brought down afterwards in the later place and that became the meaning that we don't not all the players can agree with this the paz for example classic persecution so what that this time is not a great time obviously now i'm making at the time in three weeks i'm making on the new fruit on the new garment the gra others but the savior city brings this meaning that's that's our meaning as well and the meaning of almost the whole entire cloud is slow we don't make sure under three weeks question is what about shabbos so some players can say shabbos for me shabbos is a special time and of all people that are izal you would think that kabbalah siddis is a bit more easygoing in three weeks and that is not shabbos also not and that is indeed the chabad dominic two no shahianu in the three weeks including shabbosh and and um i mean a lot of questions and shabbos also i will get to this here and interestingly a lot of people didn't pay attention to this until the year tough sheen memphis although it's pretty obvious now you're immune but i guess you have to know how to read how you're immune in how you mean it says that there's a minute now that meaning is much much later that meaning a lot of place can question and reject and make fun of it and mark it and there's enough questions that i have a problem with it but it's our minigame and it's brought to some swarm it's not the same as the three weeks which is the safer system which is adisa which is which is the regular traditional classic postgame sphere there are a person i mentioned but a lot of people can actually question there's a lot of circles where they make a shakian sweet in fact there's a letter of the three digit we wrote it came out a couple of years ago the collection of all the letters of three of the that my father really didn't want to get into this thing of shakhian on the cedar he would try getting out of it trying to get about meaning it wasn't yet an official mini we don't think he would just try to avoid it that he shouldn't come into such a situation so in hayem both been hugging my bro for three weeks but with a slight change and for some reason i don't know why people are going to pick up this change because india is the chief rabbi that is that question he's meeting up with with a person and i haven't seen him such a long time misaligned to a person for a while and if it's a longer amount of time why people don't do this and one of the chief rabbis answered which i guess wasn't exactly uh exceptionally clever to say that to the river that today's day and age you don't know if people have the same kind of friendship or love and hear that i was telling him an expression of of the current of closeness i really should make shakhianu and he's telling the devil that yeah so the rebel says it's a good question why that's not the minute and they started addressing and they were talking about they start talking with syracuse so they never mentioned that is that we don't say shaking in contrast to the sardi tree forever that was here there's a lot of stardom there and if that's their meaning they should do their meaning and why the rebbe said it he said except for like by aimer and shabbos so when it became known and that was magette but that does now you didn't have to wait till top shimmer tests because when you open the yeah it's obvious it doesn't say the fadish when it says it says it talks about the three weeks it says we don't make shakhianas three weeks that philippe chavez so it doesn't say there are philip shabbas but the fetish we heard from tesla a lot of people modified and they realized okay we got it all wrong in syria we can make a shakhya no shabbos we're not so froome when it comes to city and the whole thing is um a questionable minute to begin with but when it comes to the three weeks even on shabbos and someone started asking the question over here what happens this year when shavasana thomas is on shabbos the fast gets pushed off the sunday know what happens talks about this too and some say that according to that arizona maybe yeah and according to the reason maybe not it's hard to know this you've got to be a catalyst to work out what would be according to that result so what's our munich so i could only tell you i saw a lot of publications writing all kind of interesting things but i could only tell what they ever wrote about this it's like i'm i didn't hear anything about this in other words i didn't receive any tradition what our opinion is about this and that makes reference to us which is an encyclopedia statute that ever put out i mean now that is safer but it has brings all the different things look what it says you'll have a whole whole range of opinions there lies united now i can't over here come and say give me an opinion on the episode almighty so i'm not going to form an opinion i'm just going to say election 19. on this by the way an interesting opinion that's the helmet brings interesting compromise friday night yes shabbos day no that's what i mean because as it is from the night also from the day generally speaking we assume it starts already from the night i'm talking about the hallows of the three weeks not the the fasting i'll i'll talk about that just briefly are you allowed to do a wedding then i should say not on shabbos obviously question three weeks right we don't do weddings we'll get to that momentarily what about the night of shiva thomas when does it start because we only start fasting from the morning so maybe we only started three weeks from the morning so this is a much like this but the accepted mainstream opinion is that we start everything from the night and the reason reason being is because really we would have started the fast for my night also like kim keeper and like tishbo but they didn't want to make life difficult for us and anyhow the status of the obligation to fast in a time when it's even when we're in goal is but at a time when we're generally living in a peaceful situation not sure if now is that time or not it's even it is also questionable but we have accepted the humor of fasting but we haven't accepted the human fasting we haven't extended it all the way to starting from ignite not wearing shoes and uh and all the other things that we're doing on animal keeper showers all those things so we haven't we haven't although it said that fish should keep all the fascists everything like him keeper van lefus is someone who's extremely god-fearing i don't know too many of such kind of people today and uh one of the crayon rights he hasn't seen any ball on efforts practice this even though the mug never done brings it so we don't keep schwarz but we would have so since the etham in essence the fast really in theory starts at night when it comes to three restrictions most price can assume it starts from my night and if we don't do weddings the knight of champs of baton is either i'll phrase it maybe differently the reason why all these restrictions apply in the three weeks is because lime is some animal so it's not an opportune time it's not an appropriate time it's a negative omen so that negative time is there that's nothing with the technical time when we start fasting it's generally there from the beginnings beginning it brings a particular opinion if it's both shabbos so the fast is pushed off and it's friday night so it's not even the night of it no sex faker it's a double doubt on a minute okay so then he lets you get away with it but i'll repeat the evidence says elisha almighty so the answer is almighty what do you mean we don't start we started from sugar beginning of the meeting subtit to say do we wait to start we don't say shaqian on any of the shahbazim right we don't say shaqian throughout all the shabbat and the very first shabbos this year because shivasa batanas the fast didn't start yet so maybe the whole entire three weeks didn't start yet they've actually asked that question in numerous different times about not about shakiano but i've asked the question about learning based off hiro one of the rebels was to learn hulk is based up here in the three weeks so chavez's promise falls on chavez when he's supposed to stall her investor now you could argue in circus stop start jobs big deal what's that veda that made a whole question out of this and some years that episode it makes no sense to start on shabbos the whole reason they remember battle the negativity that and sami is that episode obviously obviously you should learn she'll start already earlier like this is like that and touching and alpha which was the last year that i spoke about this that's the one that's most famously known that everyone said a whole entire killer in the secrets of both they finally and he extended that same question all the way to the end of the three weeks in other words you learn all the way till fish above whichever way you'll have to learn to show that we're not going with that question but the concept of learning myself here does that apply even on the tenth ave because tishra falls on a shabbos or no it finishes when the theory is over and the rabbi left it as a question but interestingly when they prepared a notice to put i believe was an algamene journal the same year when they said about learning whatever calling of the rabbit to to learn and they wrote they starting from sometimes they because i believe articles afterwards that it was given the rebels edit was i think mother shabbos or something in other words i i i'm guessing my interpretation again check the facts and my interpretation is that bespoke by fabricating the longest interesting question but lamar said to go tell people to learn about baseball here because the three weeks on the final standard three weeks that i didn't as an official formal declaration anyhow that's the interesting question whether it has been shaking or not beats me i don't think it has any bearing and the answer for shaykh was almighty let's go back to our historical in the history setting so we mentioned that the first source that we have is a safe system later later price can start to bring other manhattan that we don't take haircuts we don't do weddings and the maganavram says we also don't do the kuden we also don't do dancing which is interpreted in a different magnet when he talks about attentive to mean music also clay zimmer sometimes you can mention over here directly plays ever so marriages haircuts and dancing and music i know everybody asks the questions only about music but that's not accepted in cloudy australia many many places in the cloud israel where they follow gamora particularly amongst faraday jews and they take haircuts straight until the nine days or even till the week of time that's what it says and some of them even do weddings in fact questionable this a person has a mitsubishi mr dressler say the person already was married before wants to marry his second wife assuming that he's uh he's not bound by the hender bene gershon or he lost his first wife was mccain perry has a son and a daughter okay okay so there's no rush okay so don't get married in three weeks but a guy who wasn't married yet he has a mr derisi to get married no one push off a mitzvah so it's a it's a meaning that is being questioned by person it's the same question with sweden the same exact question what do you mean not to do a wedding for eden because it's because the time is not such a good time question could be the question but how nice the mini grip oil is if we don't do weddings unless you really need there's a crazy situation for example there was an answer that ever where we're going to do cupid's for people that live together for many years together and they're going to do had 10 russian jews whatever it was you can do you know these do many hopes all at once you know that concept and they schedule the date and deliver white personnel for so long yeah because three weeks and i've said what any love would tell you you could do it even in the three weeks or to have these people living be easter together without hope of a condition because the meaning of doing the three weeks rebel whatever a very sharp response about that notice you have to know where each thing's way way one thing against another so but that is dominican we don't play around with the mini we don't get to do weddings like i said and no music and no haircuts now let's go through those one at a time so when it comes to haircuts according to our meaning like i said other people don't have the spinnic generally ashkenazim and many stardom that will start them haircuts apply to the not taking here is applied to men applied to women applies to here and the head here anywhere else in the body applies to children adults don't give haircuts to children which is why we don't even do an upsurge in the three weeks well strictly speaking there would be room to be mastered that so when a little kid is not available by little kids it's now is the time to do it because now is when you turn three but either as it may the mini because we push it off until after the three weeks which means normally the tenth of a hour after midday but this year the tenth of hour is so fast day because this was pushed the sunday so in this case much the fastest when you do the upstarts for the child i don't mean mata tisha but much of the day that we fast tisha both a bit late late in the night for for could have his upstairs where mr shamishev will come and we'll be celebrating and partying ready for the beginning of three weeks so everybody will be up the whole time like activists when we talk about not giving haircuts that a plu that includes eyebrows that includes any other areas in the body includes the mustache too unless it's actually disturbing you from eating so where the mustache is getting in the way of eating i'm not talking about the issues of some non-cutting that's another whole discussion but if it's a lot to be done even the three weeks a woman who wants to cut her hair because of serious reasons not fitting well under the shadow no problem in three weeks again that's a question of putting things in the right perspective this is a shield of sneeze a shadow of a draisa and some meaning the meaning didn't apply to a case where it's stopping they say that the the thing was the shulker they say about him that the masculine came to him and told him that why do you keep on having humorous you guys have humorous about every single thing we need a love became a love in our town come up with good colors with good leniencies so he says i have a lot of them i hold says that if a person missed out on the day of speedo you let it continue counting with abraham okay okay what others is this is not what they were looking for i hold you lada take a haircut even the three weeks if it's fizzness one by one he was giving them his colors they said you know what maybe we'd rather your humanism and send me by the way the question of hatsitsa a woman who normally cuts her hair before mikvah even though the makers can end up being after tish above because dominic is they don't cut their hair within three days of makeful because then they might have remaining hair floating around so they could do that in the three weeks or so even a woman who has bodily hair which is pressured looks disgusting and she's not going to look well in the eyes of her husband could also do that in the three weeks so all these things is when you push away this meaning a male who has a hard time he has too much system by the blitz and his hair his beard getting in the way of his mustache also could be that's also not a problem a person who has a chip there's a lot of long hair i've had it so many times when moistures would call me the rav cam pascana yeshiva and and make a stun of the night take a mega star no problem okay what what does that mean long hair it's not which is exceptionally long which a lot of person says the question consists of a thrilling according to many personal personas long hair besides never mind it's the shirt of cookies and many other questions about a blutos but having long hair but it's a question of khatsitsa some person can say now you had to miss this film it's actually quite extreme i still want someone on 770 and that's so and the guy he had long hair and some people just don't know better and you know you know how it is some people you should approach me shouldn't approach or say something should not say something so you always have someone approaching in the most insensitive way that you have and the people that are sensitive about it they don't want to say because you know we have to be tolerant and understanding and accepting i don't want to say anything i don't think all them he looks like such a naive sincere guy he probably doesn't know i went over to no i don't remember what happened he asked me it's a question about his film that's what happened i said can i tell you something i hope you won't get offended i really mean something if you don't benefit the general rules when you tell someone i hope you won't get offended they always say no no i can say anything good i will cytologists want to point out to you i suggest that maybe should put on film again today i thought you said this one were okay it's a different thing i want to show you something i tell them again really such a thing thank you so much next day i summon shul with a regular haircut there's something how to say it i mean not always were successful in that and this was a success story so if a person has a bluetooth has long hair you can't talk about exceptionally long which is beyond normal then yeah you should take a haircut even even in the three weeks a shaytar is not called a haircut if the woman wants to cut her sheila i'm not talking about the nine days right now because that would this different set of halakhas in the three weeks it's a garment of shape it's not here so you want to cut and fix the shattle that's not called cutting here that's the reason why i could have the shadow because it's not you're here right no problem next thing we mentioned was the meaning of not getting married in in the three weeks so like we said it's not here it's a garment it's just playing around tailoring a garment that's all it is so it's not again i'm not talking about the nine days i don't want to confuse the topics right now when we talk about the three weeks not a problem it's only about here getting married we said before the meaning is that even if a person was not making a mistake still we accepted this meaning very strongly that we don't in our circles and in general ashkenazi circles are many farty circles not to do weddings in in the three weeks even if a person got divorced and he wants to remarry his divorcee which is a very big mitzvah still it's not a good omen we don't do it in three weeks but that doesn't mean you can't continue shut the box into the three weeks he did the wedding before the three weeks as long as there's no music and dancing and all that kind of stuff it also doesn't mean that you know i'll do a shirt in the three weeks in fact strictly speaking according to you even anticipate why until such time that you say hello she's free to go to wherever she wants so we're worried maybe someone else will happen questions how you learn someone actually take away the from you or the mother says someone else will daven first and then i'll get the shoulda so and the pentaphysicians of exchange again let's go through the mother right now but we don't practice that we've accepted that we don't do kidus nissun putting on the ring kopa wedding nothing to do with the meal of the wedding that's them getting married in the three weeks but of art which is about getting engaged not only now that you're laughing again because you should get engaged someone commented i'm not making the three weeks i said you must make lahai in the previous i mean he must make it today but the canvas you can't make it today you don't push that off it's a very important thing to do including with food and drink and all of that not a problem again the nine days we do la chain but we tone it down whatever we don't make a full meal that's again that's the nine days when the three weeks is not a problem we mentioned earlier that the siddhim brings this meaning of not saying shakyano so there's a second part of that minig the meaning of not saying because the negative omen attached to the time which if you remember the build-up it started with a message that says there's a demon during uh these days based on that the citrix serum says well there's demons going around these days we're not going to say anything so we came then we don't say which means that if you have a new fruit or new garment don't put on a new garment and don't eat a new fruit unless a uh expecting a woman that's expecting and she has a craving and she has a new fruit and she has a craving okay so she's invited them she's allowed to eat it and she wants it but the meaning became a jet from this extend another general minig because now there is not too many people make shafiano in their clothing so people could buy new clothing and not mexican when do you make sure you buy a new pier a new shirt but the minute it became it's not only because of the words but also not new clothing because that involves some type of symbol which is not appropriate for the three weeks even though it's not what it says in the original several sydney but even that meaning applies only to joshua fancy nice special shabbos clothing simple clothing like undergarments socks or even shoes which is considered even though today's danger became an industry for itself um is not considered a hush of a garment and those things allowed to buy in the in the three weeks a talus cotton a pair of glasses which is pressure to be able to see not because you want to get some fancy lancing glasses but crush the clothing so we don't say shakthiana but this night person needs to have it's mama's a question of cover debris is covered shabbos he doesn't have anything to wear okay so we let him it's before the shredish of because after the nine days starts a whole new issue it's not a mini anymore that becomes a much more serious there's a whole general thing about not buying clothing in the nine days and putting on new clothing and even laundry clothing that's a whole separate issue but if it's the three weeks still and the person mammoth needs it and it's not respect from tim to walk around the way he's walking around or it's not appropriate for jealous so if we follow we tell you know what may be best buy it on credit ask them that you could pay after so it's not considered yours yet so there's a machine to be to be making a person has a new daughter a person has a new son he makes abraham when his son is born and and if he has a new girl as a daughter born when he sees his daughter you make up so that you let him make even the three weeks that's how lucky you're supposed to make shaheen on that hat mate to begin with is not a problem so the boy the issue was only the worst shaking when you hear that you had a new boy in fact it's very interesting city was the right person has a new boy and the midwife comes to tell him it's a boy so before you tell the midwife thank you for the good news first say bar native thank babysitter then turn the middle and say thank you very much it's a bit hard because they think you're nuts they just gave you the good news you just turned around and started the talking to the neighbors they get they get the gist of it especially if they've been dealing with from people my daughter just had a baby boy recently in the hospital so when she was about to be distracted destruction hospital midwife tells the same time same place next year they never already know what some people are like um same thing appear in that ban you supposed to necessarily make a pidna ben so you don't want to lose out the myth you see me make a shocking even in the three weeks the next thing we mentioned was that the magnavrom says in addition to the fact that you don't do weddings and haircuts and uh music dancing and music there's a lot of pieces of one that's very very difficult for a lot of people for some odd reason even though between me and you and the lamppost not hearing music is mentioned in shaykh about a whole year around institute after mentions of the three of three weeks or nine days nine days tissue of all of that don't don't bother looking for alex for three weeks there's no section of shock legislation because it goes straight to the week the nine days because there was no such thing as the three weeks if you recall what i said so in the last of the nine days that it mentions i don't mean it no and even after finish is all about the nine days and all the lots of tissues in the last of the tenth of right after the section is that we have to keep throughout the year a lot of them people are very i'm not very well aware of and a lot of them people don't want to be aware because people don't like negative health and sad halachus and one of the things that says that you're not supposed to listen to music throughout the year now how how do we reconcile that with what people do today is a good question and there's a lot of answers entertainment but that's not the subject of this year so when people often talk about music in three weeks music and sweeter and they're like i can't account without hello you know you really shouldn't be doing this a whole year we i mean one of their team for example is um i think there's the khakis that writes no he gives a difference who says i don't want to say names because i forgot who it was says that the reason why i'm allowing him music is because people that are sick it's for sick people that are not well a lot is the music and when people are very very depressed it's like being not well and today's day and night people need the music is otherwise you could have seen these people that are pressured to they go crazy and they don't have music but that's throughout the year there's a talent that's a very schwaker honestly there's some better ones than that but in the three weeks that you know okay so you're not gonna have your your classical music that you like so much during these three weeks it's not going to be the end of the world there there are people there are all different types of leniency because you're not actually listening to the music election to recording of the music so i'm not actually hearing the music but really from the straightforward chocolate that's called klezmer there's no difference if the kaley is an organ or the kaley is a guitar or the kelly is a tape recorder or an mp3 player or an ipad that's a clay zimmer i should mention that in talks and tales which is a publication that ever gave out it was used to talk very much people should learn talks and tales let's see his talks and tales so talks oh the way it was known in the yiddish name you refer to so they're just simple basic aloha so simple people including people that don't know much about either sky the basic of yamato and if there and this was edited by the web including this section i know for a fact was written by the because the edits of the rebel there gives you the basic blocks and threes and of course it says there is music you should be listening to music which is basic if you look back in earlier sources you find they even talk about this meaning is not kept not to sing in the three weeks so we are questioning the music yeah who says you're not allowed to doesn't say the faintest it actually talks about not even singing so that meaning hasn't been accepted hashem has been accepted um i have to tell you something interesting about the rebel when the red would walk into 770 in the late years they started singing every time that i became in they used to not do that but um it was zusu whoever was that star this meaning they should start singing every time it ever comes in and it becomes like a malek you should start singing so always this was the way you used to sing all the time except for the nine days even the three weeks they were single not in the nine days nine days they would walk in be quiet and tough shinoon they started singing the ribbon i think what happened was that the ribbon ribbon started going with his hands everybody started singing they sang in the in the 90s but that's again that's a verbal thing nothing through a through an instrument if somebody is driving and people know that when people drive for a very long time especially at night there's some serious accounting fascist questions that would be first of all say no no no music every person knows that only it's going to stay away because through music obviously not only you're allowed to listen to music you should be listening to music it's not even a question does it apply in camps also i don't know the shock applies in camps applies all over the purpose of a camp is in mexico i'm a part of your champs now the way you're supposed to listen to music you listen to me not but you're not supposed to if you told my little kids and are they and you need to calm them down and the music is not there for sims i can't say this it's not really that's that's okay if person is listening to uh an old custard who has a croaky voice and he's singing in alta citizen again and the back someone who doesn't know how to play music as uh as some background stuff over there i'm not honestly worried about you not really listening to music listening to a negan that's not called music and even bems is even the cell phone rings you want to be froome and change your cell phone a little in the three weeks to change it to alnah's bubble and you could do that if you really want it doesn't sound so fiddish it's okay if it has your regular ringtones ringtone let's not listen to music even on the radio and you know this music my grandfather wrote in his saving it on the radio and you listen to the news and there's music popping up whatever that's not me trying to listen to when they put you on hold you don't want to hear the music wanting music to be off um if somebody's learning music so if it's learning for a profession they let him learn in the three weeks till they're displayed the show but it's not for professionals time to learn music it really shouldn't be learning music in the three weeks sometimes it's not really music what they're learning they're just learning notes whatever that's not a problem but a person's actually really learning music and it's not for a perfect not for a professional paranasa they shouldn't be doing in the three weeks included the issue of music is also in fact says not to dance in the three weeks i've seen so many times people come to a simcha it's more so more sweeter so there's no music but everybody's dancing because you can't have music but you also can't dance in fact it says it says and also which i guess includes music and the meaning is that we forbid dancing even in the sudas mitzvah even if it's about the music and when it comes to scheduling events which are not supposed to be in a certain day but mitzvah has a set day when it's supposed to be right when it comes to scheduling events like so today there's not safety in the community although the alert side is next week but next week is the three weeks so the rebel writes that you should try to do in a more appropriate time but definitely definitely not have to discredit yourself that's for sure enough but when you're into three weeks you should try it yeah i'm exactly doing a more appropriate it's just not which leads me to the idea that there's a whole range of things which it's not mamash usur or not even a meeting that you're not allowed to but it's just requires common sense it's not a very safe time it's a time which doesn't have a lot of positive omens attached to it of course has a lot of holy stuff attached to it and then we refrain from doing various different dangerous things during the three weeks so we mentioned already that people shouldn't walk alone and walk between the sun and the shade remember we mentioned that that's actually brought in in madrid but in addition to that in yanam of sakana anything which it says these days are alulim are having it some type of uh potential for for for dangerous results and therefore people should try to avoid it as much as you're supposed to generally avoid anything which is dangerous in fact the only time the toilet tells you when you smart i use you have to be extra careful when it comes to sakana when it comes to something which is dangerous but particularly in the three weeks it's not the most positive time to do things that has even a slight aspect of the of the danger attached to it you let us swim you let it go in the ocean although there was a meeting in many places they used to stories you know bathed in the ocean but in the in the three weeks they wouldn't do them monastakana but again it's not us the israel only starts in the nine days and some of the star did not even keep it in the nine days but again you have to do you have to use use your common sense part of that also is trips so to say they now take walks and trips in the three weeks you can't say in allah too because such issue in fact in shock there's a discussion about taking a teal teal over there means a walk on edif tishoba so the remote talks about taking a teal and that of tish above obviously a lot of do throughout the entire three weeks but again it's not that it's not the time for that if a person is walking because needs for his health or there's a camp and that's the only way to get these kids to sit and learn torah and they do their missionaries about that you take them on trips take them on trips the three to get up writes in the buddhism he describes how it was in love which in the city of and he writes that that um how from schwartz until until shabbas nakamura people used to have a cities to go taking walks every day with mini hermitage and pace the shoes there were no walks from shavasana batamas until tishb there were no walks that was the break time and he writes something and that's sitting on the fridge right there with all the details that they didn't take walks but otherwise used to go and enjoy the summer enjoy the good summer whether that was the time people take walks now between basically but from schwarz till some three weeks that was the time people would take walks but the so this was i guess accepted over there in the bavarians there's other places that kind of balaji brings there was a takana they made if anybody's going to take these walks i guess because it was perceived as doing something frivolous but if it's not done for frivolity for frivolous reasons there's nothing really strictly speaking that it's us and if we're talking about um traveling whatever told many people people ask a lot about traveling to three weeks oh no there's nothing that says in china can i travel in the three weeks it doesn't say now traveling the nine days it doesn't say now let's travel on tijuana it wouldn't be a smart idea to travel when you're fasting number one number two especially going in the air on on a plane because there's a lot of concerns of dehydration when people are fasting a lot of times when people travel they end up traveling you have to fast double the amount of time depending which direction you're flying and if we're talking about the time of sakana so the three weeks of the time it's like kind of the week of tensional times they're gonna have much more on tissue above itself yeah but it doesn't mean you're not allowed to the people that have to travel because they have to travel for whatever reason you have to travel but but ever told people often even the government in three weeks they should make sure they ever talk instructed people they go on that's doing things that i want them to do they tell them make sure that you prepare for the trip do significant kind of uh preparations before the three weeks begin even like packing up your suitcase or whatever it is putting huge matas in there so to be considered that you started a trip before the three weeks which leads me to a similar topic people have disclaimer that they don't buy a house in the three weeks why same thing lemon some animals you buy a house in a time which is an appropriate time has a positive omen attached to it someone asked me about they want to know if they can go and move into a new house next week monday i told them monday you're not supposed to move into a new house throughout the entire year monday and wednesdays check checking you don't start a new project including a new home on a monday and wednesday so i said addition to that happens to be in three weeks so that's not so serious wednesday so she's ashamed she knows there's good days so what's the good day i said tuesday actually says one of the best days to to go into a new home so can we do it next week tuesday so i said here's my suggestion to you okay i'll be din you're allowed to it's just not an appropriate omen but a person is going to a house is doing it for living he's not looking for like something he's not buying some investment for uh for simcha the house of the union should be able to have a way to live and if you don't buy a house you know what happens in the neighborhood if you don't buy the house now the real chemical so i'm not just going to buy the house and flip it so of course you're allowed to buy the house but the best is at so i said can you move in technically if you already know but the moving truck won't be able to come i said can you move in a couple of things just this week yeah for sure so do that take a couple of things put in your seconds and your flour and your bread and your water and your picture of the rabbit that means you moved in and the rest you'll get your moving shot come next week that's fine let's consider moving in so this is such a meaning that people don't go into these two prospects it's not buying a house and not going into a new house going into new house that says the faders that we don't do that in the three weeks even if you don't make shakiano on it you try not to go and then but again you could try to go do the going in earlier and there's also the idea of not buying which best not to buy them but sometimes you have no choice and something you can actually buy now but it only becomes yours officially late it's another aza you're allowed to in the three weeks ago what about renovations expanding your home so you're allowed to do renovations you want to expand your home make your house bigger all that kind of stuff there is some mini that's something like you don't start a building project in three weeks same idea because it doesn't have a positive omen attached to it start before the three weeks of course you want to continue again i'm not talking about in the nine days three weeks right now nine days is much more serious light renovations for sure is no problem decorating the home especially shouldn't be done in the three weeks because that's considered but stamped to do the renovations is fine and if i is obviously if a person moved in ages ago and then wants to make his honor it's not the best like the rebels could choose a better time it doesn't have to definitely be in in the three weeks in addition everything that we mentioned of course is a lot of the heroes which means particularly and through sudha so this is the time we're supposed to increase the limited tide and ducker during the three weeks themselves every new station in the three weeks you add on today and zucker so you start right before the three weeks in fact whatever tells us you should make already on tasain of your hakloto how are you going to add on toyota into dhaka so it'll be magnum refuge already on test none of design thomas just friday so be before the three weeks already begin we really establish already made that so it's as if we did already and then as the three weeks progress three weeks nine days week of tisch above eddie fishberg you add an increase in all of that and it first didn't start on the right time okay so you start later and that includes doing extra effort and all that i was saying during the three weeks and particularly been again to learning how to specifically have a quote that haskell was told by the hebrew to go and teach eden how the base amigos looks see haskell why am i showing them the the what do they say how this unique should be like so hashem told because hidden are angolas you have been in basic battle therefore we should put on hold building the base amigdas when they learn to buy some issues if they're building it so whatever takes on this message it's not as if you're building it since the amateur told you haskell that if i have to teach you that you have to go and teach hagrid lamb as toughness you have to teach to eat in the plan because if i don't teach you the plan where you're going to put the baby on hold you have binyan basic bottle that means by teaching it it's actually building the base it's just a form of building which is going to come down to managing gas and this is pushed in very strong ways to learn but actually learning because we know it's nice because coming in and any any given moment in addition to that in sifu cities they talk a lot about how the three weeks are very very holy days they're actually holy than any other days they said i don't know which people was that he said that uh will be the last day and everything in between will be halloween but that says actually sudden in fact the question somehow the rights and it's an aesthetic brings this down in it's not just a pedestal safe it's actually brought down it's not a very well known thing that some study canada brings down from the vedic israel parties must say that during the three weeks the king is in the field you know the muscle of melanoma that we all know about l he says it and he actually explains that's shot in the past the passage says that the enemies chased us and caught us he interprets the process differently that the way to be mastic david is just to grasp david still when congrats davis the most banana why because now davis is angolas so when the kingdom is in his palace you can't access him but in the three weeks he's in godless so when the king is traveling he's in transit it's much easier which is what about this says that it's easy to get the shingles so basham said although it says exit is that the thirst to the best are stronger and godless anashi bed at sia they have a much strongest thursday which way in the desert came back however in the time they're singing we should have the same thing that we have in goals so real these days are really holy days the problem is that the goodness that exists in these days is not revealed it's concealed and now we need to work on revealing it the closer we get to the shift the more that is coming out stronger so for example thomas used to be known as a very negative month in fact the word thomas is the name of innovation we know now time the month of gula bay's time has happened the rabbit tells us before and you'll also notice that a lot of these as on the 100 right after the herpes started getting worse and worse and worse and worse and then as we're getting closer to mashir a lot of the lady president today we're making it with this one meaning this about leaned about that i'm not suggesting we should be leaning to something that was supposed to be but the clothes they say about one of the is that he used to wear strangle whole entire year except for the three weeks because that's time of corbin later when he became older he worked including the three weeks but not the nine days the latest stage he wore even the nine days was not on tishva he didn't wear islam he was always like ready for mashiach so the the rabbit tells us now with standing off again it says that the days of the the fastest are called and they're called because it says the fastest will be satsang says it depends on the time there are times that it's time and there's times even according to mentioned earlier when it's peaceful times the the significance of fasting is not as strong as in times when it starts so the rabbit says as time as we are longer and goals and closer to gullah the same aspect is becoming less the simha aspect is becoming strong and now it's mamish namash at the very last moment where there's only a tiny massive left of the time and as somehow they're very strong the lavish elephant which should be making the word the famous word of the rebel is called martin we minimize that's not the simple meaning we minimize all the negativity through simha that the centros all the three weeks especially that we have this year the mile that we started on the show we're saying finish on the shabbos and svarim tells that the shabbas and the three weeks are holy then all the other shabbat the whole entire year we actually see it right away what when do you read about all the tavern travis learn now we'll learn then about the whole halax that it did in galas thank you advanish people have