High School Students Ask Some Hard Hitting Questions

we are lucky and have with us Sarah a treatment that is really badass Sweetman we have many many years we've been doing this we've been blessed but we've done the best it's an opportunity to hear another opinion to hear another perspective many times I hear questions I hear discussions that your topics and complaints and comments that I've always had the right whistles wins thank you peasant owners for many many years hey Barbra Jean we've seen tremendous success we'll try to get as many as we could because we don't get to all the answers but if you if he answers five of the ten questions and the five of them are good that you know the other five is also answers and it's just a matter of researching and asking and thank you just go right into the questions or should we talk a little bit yeah okay there are there are three ways to ask questions there's a thing called questions there's a thing called questioning there's a difference between asking a question or questioning there are also some questions that you're not supposed to answer for example why do good people suffer that's supposed to answer that question because whatever answer you give is an insult because you're justifying their suffering so the question is not a question that needs an answer it's a question that needs a change like for example 6 million Jews died in the Holocaust you want to know why what do you gain what will you gain if you know why the only thing that'll happen is that you'll be more comfortable with the fact that they died is that a good thing do you want to be more comfortable the only answer to 6 million people dying is that those six million people should come back that's the only answer because if I gave you a good reason for them to die and you accept my reason you've become an anti-semite the death of Jews makes sense only to an anti-semite so if I gave you a good excuse or reason for them to die and you accept it you say oh ok ok you're not the semi so the question of why do bad things happen the question of wider than the Shama come down into a body these are not questions you want to answer these are questions you want to solve so make sure I've been who asked after he went to party and party got worse and made the slavery worse Myesha asks neighbors Ted why did you make it worse what is a bridge to say look I'm taking them out ok they're coming out of my side my she said ok that's what I wanted to hear but don't give me a lecture about how good it is to suffer he didn't he didn't want that so it seems like if you look at it just superficially it seems like they burst it didn't answer him maisha asked why do people suffer and they be sure said I'll take him Adam until I am as if they're not communicating but the truth is that's exactly what Moshe was asking for not for an explanation on suffering he was saying I'm not fall ready so they'd be she said I agree I'll take him out of Italian so my she said okay that's what I wanted to hear okay so there are three kinds of questions there's a question there is questioning and there is a question that doesn't need an answer let's not get confused somebody came I think to get a tableau and that ever asked him you put on to him this was right after the war and he said no and they never said why not he said because I have a kasha that nobody can answer what the Kasia why was there a Holocaust so they never said them and that's why you don't put on to him he says yeah so that episode you see now I'm confused why was there a Holocaust is your question or why was there a Holocaust is your answer to why you don't put on to him so is the Holocaust your question or your answer no wonder you can't get an answer it's not a question anymore it has become your answer why don't I put on trill why am I not for him because there was a Holocaust so what happened to the question see that's called questioning you're not really asking a question you're simply refusing the facts so some people they question everything if you meet somebody who questions everything you can't talk to them because even when you give them an answer they'll question that you give them a better answer they'll question that they're not asking they're questioning that's their thing questions is their thing if you give them a good answer they're gonna hate you because you took away their question so there are people who are questioners you can't argue with them the best thing to say is fine so what do you want I had this conversation with a guy a student at the University he came over he came to the Chabad House for Shabbos and we're talking this that the other he says oh wait a minute wait a min I don't believe in God I said what he said I don't believe in God I said I don't understand what are you saying he said well you think everybody believes in God I don't believe in God I said I hear what you're saying I don't understand he says what don't you understand I said I don't understand what God is what's God he says I don't know this so what don't you what don't you believe him so when he said I don't believe in God he really meant I have no idea what that is so how can you say you don't believe it when you don't even know what it is how confused people get and he was so proud of the fact that he doesn't believe in God because it seemed like that made him intelligent but it's not there's nothing intelligent about it so he said ok fine you tell me what's God I said ok now you're asking a decent question by the way do you believe in ghosts you don't believe in ghosts I don't know which is worse if you do believe we don't believe if you do believe in ghosts you're a little weird if you don't believe in ghosts you have no excuse why would anybody not believe in ghosts why no one ever saw one okay so it's it's past history but you don't believe in ghosts why not oh I can I can introduce you to some people there's a Chabad House where is this and in in Philadelphia someplace or outside of Philadelphia they bought the house for nothing because nobody wanted it it was haunted they saw I don't want to convince you that there were ghosts they set up the table cups napkins plates and and and they moved no no this place was officially I don't know neglected and unwanted because it was haunted and when the Habad house bought it it was in all the newspapers they became famous immediately group a religious group buys haunted house is not afraid and it became the conversation of town anyway here's the here's my point if I asked you do you believe in ghosts your response should be what's a ghost before you say I do believe I don't believe shouldn't we first know what we're talking about what's a ghost right so the first thing we know is right the first thing we know is a ghost is not a demon don't get your ghosts confused they are the good ghosts the bad ghosts all right so there's ghosts and their spirits they're not the same thing all right so a ghost is the presence of someone's existence that is left where after the person dies it's not the soul it's the effect that he had on the place so a Marshall if these walls if these walls could speak they would tell you everything that happened in this room who was here what they did so when you come into a haunted house and I think that's the case with this Habad house in Philadelphia somebody was murdered there it was a tavern and there was a fight and somebody got murdered that event is still you can feel it when you walk into the place because the walls absorbed that event or that that horror and you can actually feel it when you walk in if you're sensitive so what is a ghost the memory of an event or if a person in a room in a place in a so if you ask me do I believe that I can't say no cuz I don't know and I can't say yes but to say I don't believe it I can't say I don't believe it I can tell what I can't say no that's not possible it's not possible of course it's possible so the person who says no I don't believe in ghosts why why cuz you never saw one well well Josh em you never saw one that doesn't hint so here's my point there's a difference between an intelligent person who loves to learn new things and an insecure person who was afraid of making a mistake usually an atheist is a person who's afraid of making a mistake say he doesn't want to believe because what if he's wrong and then it'll be so embarrassing that he was naive and they you know they tricked them and they so to be safe he refuses to believe I don't believe in ghosts I don't believe in God that don't believe in tell you that I don't believe in heaven I don't believe in Hell why because because what if not then I'll be the fool an intelligent person on the other hand if he hears something he never heard before he gets excited no what are the different between a guy who says wow I never heard that versus a guy who says no I never heard that what's the difference so who's more intelligent because he's using his intelligence the guy who doesn't want to accept it is is emotional he's afraid no no you're not gonna convince me of that why not because you're intelligent so let me give you this quick example you can use it and many a guy is an explorer and he went to Australia first guy went down down to Australia and he comes back and he tells you that there's an animal there that carries its baby in a pocket and you say oh come on you think I'm so stupid that I gotta believe that I'm too intelligent to believe that are you intelligent close-minded imagine you say to the to the Explorer you say oh come on I never heard of such a thing what would the explorer thing the Explorer would say and I'm an explorer you know what an explorer does not only that an explorer is somebody who goes to places you didn't go so that he can come back and tell you of things you never saw so if you say oh I never saw that exactly that's why I get the big bucks that's why I'm going to Explorer or if the person said oh I don't believe that I never heard that of course you've never heard that I'm the Explorer I'm supposed to come back and tell you things you've never heard so that would previously yeah well what if he's lying what are you paranoid that's not an intelligent reaction you have to have a reason to suspect that he's lying he can't just be paranoid but everybody lies to you where did you grow up so what reason would a person have to say God gave the title on how seen Iron Chef who is three thousand years ago I don't believe that know why because you aren't there yeah that's exactly why people say oh and I never saw such a thing right so if it's not in your reality you're closed that's it your reality is the only reality exactly not the most intelligent just the safest right so an intelligent person would say really tell me more what's God and what did he give and where is harsh a night instead he says I don't believe that what you don't even know what I said yet that's called a questioner not a question and you know you really can't answer somebody who's not asking a question so asking a question is an intelligent activity intelligence means I want to know more but if you're saying no I'm turned off to this okay then then let's go do something else and it's not a question anymore that is just questioning so let's take a look at some of these questions have you read the entire shots no how do they become at sadiq I don't know do you have a hundred percent emunah I don't think so you like these answers I'm not finished how to win the eights ahead and convert it to do good I have no idea is it better to stay severity or become a llama richer I don't know I'm not a smarty the never said were the last generation of mushiya why hasn't he come I don't know you know why did we learn demoted if 70% of the stuff is useless yeah who came up with that number 70% maybe 80% huh so mathematician worked this out what is hell I know how should I know science says the Earth revolves Tara says the Sun revolves how does that work everything's revolving what's the problem yeah it all depends on where you are if you're standing on the earth the Sun is revolving around you if you were standing on the Sun the earth would be revolving around you it was like two trains passing in the second who's moving they're both moving right anyway in other words I don't know it you can't know who's moving when both are moving should I live a simple nine-to-five job or should I go for a riskier life following my passion what's a riskier job be a fireman an explorer in Australia and if I understand the question properly go with the passion if it's a job not just passion a job that you're passionate about definitely when and where should I look for loving someone in your house don't go looking for strangers to love you got people right there in your house what's wrong with having a friend that's a girl now rabbis tell me because you're going to come to do something wrong but I don't think that's true I don't want to speak to boys all day and think of girls as zombies our girls um bees do you believe in zombies yeah there are definitely some zombies out there so what's a zombie a Living Dead really is that what it means actually zombies zombies come from a religion called Voodoo when people in that religion go into a trance and they became a little you know that's called zombie so they think it's a good thing everybody else thinks you're a zombie let's let's get to the real question hey these are the ones okay let's get serious why do we davon if Hashem doesn't answer first of all in most cases he does answer it's very easy to to be discouraged when you ask for something and it doesn't happen and then you forget everything that is happening that you didn't even ask for so you got to keep a balance a lot of good things are happening in your life because if that's not true you're really in trouble your life is great and you want something more and it's not happening so that means day broish that is not answering so keep you know keep keep things in balance secondly do we DA them in order to get an answer from Hashem is da Venegas preyere like an ATM you're putting your card and nothing comes out you're all upset I don't I don't think that davon 8 3 times a day is because you need something three times a day every day you're asking for something you're a nudnik gimme gimme gimme gimme stop it right the entitlement we don't we don't davon because we need something LP tosia the Mitzvah the ERISA the the Tyler Mitzvah is if you need something ask the a burster when you have a need turn to me God says that's not three times a day every day darling three times a day every day is miserable none and it has a completely different meaning it's not your needs because you can't have that many needs you davon Monica an hour later you have more needs my life come on stop it the reason for governing is first of all because he wants to hear from you not because you need it's a mitzvah like all other mitzvahs a mitzvah means something they wish they wants he wants to hear from you good news bad news what you need what you don't need but you know check-in it's also a reality check you know what you're supposed to be you know how you're supposed to serve Hashem are you and if you're not don't avoid him now you were supposed to do something for your mother and you didn't do it so now you're avoiding her don't do that if you didn't do it go tell her that you didn't do it don't ruin the relationship over some incident or detail so darling means come to the average that and say this is me I didn't do it I did do it I'm good I'm not good but I'm being honest here I am this is me that is so healthy and it's so important when you get caught up in your guilt and you're ashamed to face the abus then your life is messed up and that shouldn't happen so it's actually brave it takes courage stand in front of the Ariston and and and be who you are don't run and hide and what and they be still loves that he's not gonna get turned off he would much rather have you come and say I'm failing I'm not interested I didn't do it then to not talk to him somebody asked me a really really interesting question and we were talking about the fact that the a buster has everything and we get whatever we have from him so there's nothing we have that he doesn't kind of make sense yet we're the first halacha number he is amita's he would say and everything else comes from him so somebody said really there's nothing we have that he doesn't have can he do an availa can he sin we can send that a good question is that stupid yeah I think it's a good question because no that's a mitzvah can he can he do a sin so how is it that we can do it if he can't those are mitzvahs where our Vedas does either that's good if we do a Nevada he feels guilty as if he did okay so listen to this what is unavailing and availa means you did something that he doesn't want that's an availa something against Watson alien does he ever do anything that he doesn't want for example yes what else you know we have this impression that we're here fighting the battle we're struggling through life and we've got issues and we got and we win and we lose and we and he's sitting there drinking coke or something he doesn't have any problems he doesn't really care he's not affected by anything he's God if that what you think you have no idea it bothers him when he punishes us what else let me give you such a long list first of all in order to create the world there had to be at symptom he had to restrict himself it goes against his will he doesn't want to do that he hides from us why so that we'll have free choice he doesn't want to hide it's against his will he sends the neshamah down from the highest of high to the lowest of the low a little piece of him he hates it he created the Yates illusion he hates it every day goes he hates it even the eight of us would appear and it's a task for you have gun they then everything is perfect you have to put an HR das in there to mess everything up he hates it that's the next question we'll get that we'll get the freedom of choice in a second but first get to know the a bursted a little bit the ambush their sacrifices in order for the world to exist because there are so many things he really doesn't want like even making the moon get smaller he regrets it having to throw other than I have a head of gun Aiden he hated them that's all part of you did this neshama so dr. Deborah says and Tanya if you stop and think how much he gives up in order to have you you can't give up some of your Tigers in order to have him so now all of a sudden we're not so far from the a brush there like you thought it's not like we have all these issues and we're facing real life and he's sitting there like like on vacation now it's the opposite the things that bother us that really hurt us how long is it gonna hurt maximum 120 years something bothers him it's forever it's infinite see here's the point the physical is insensitive that's what physical means so if a physical human being can have a little sensitivity you imagine what he has because he's not physically so when we get this impression that physical is real and and and our course is not it's the opposite the physical is barely real thank you an example Davis that has an arm it doesn't tell you the day burst has an arm does he have an arm no they brush this says I have a foot does he have a foot it says a bridge that has a mouth there's no mouth right Davis to spoke come on he doesn't speak they brush they got angry he doesn't get angry he's a Brewster they burst at once it doesn't really want doesn't matter to him he's a Burstyn so almost anything to tell you this says about the average that is not true is that is that how you how you were taught which is all right so that so everybody if you ask this question everybody will tell you he doesn't have an arm it's just a muscle wait a minute if he right if I can have an arm he can certainly have one right okay so what does it mean don't take it literally you were told not to take it literally so does he really want don't take it literally is he really angry don't take it literally right right so if we're created in His image and we have an arm he must also have an arm spiritually so now the question is which is real a physical arm or a spiritual arm so again a good example my granddaughter was crying because her doll broke the arm came off so I sit down with her and I say oh I can't imagine how much that hurt so she starts to laugh says the nerd I said how could it not hurt the arm came off she said it's not a real arm I said how do you know she says it's plastic see a plastic arm is not a real arm it's just plastic so what's a real arm my arm cuz it has a bone really that makes it real it's just a bone so that's already a real arm you know what a real arm does it splits a see that's a real arm my arm can't split a see so it's not a real arm it's a muscle on the real arm so should I take when it says I'm tell you today bridge that has an arm should I take it literally yes you mean his arm is real yes give me like mine no his is real so what does it mean don't take it literally that's that's a mistake don't take it physically don't think his arm is physical why not cuz his arm is real physical is not a real arm it's just a muscle so now when the tailor calls my arm Yod and his arm Yod is that not a little confusing the answer is we're calling your arm and arm because it's a muscle it helps you understand a tiny little bit about his arm but if he doesn't have an arm and you're calling it an arm too me understand helped me understand what that he doesn't have an arm so now it makes sense calling my arm and arm gives me a little bit of help in understanding his arm two arms right side left side has said Gordon so by being created in His image helps me understand him a little bit now let's apply it to feelings he gets angry nah human beings get angry no he really gets angry human beings just blow a fuse lose control get bent out of shape so who really gets angry who really speaks a human being or he he said let there be light and there was light you try it say dark see if it helps okay so who really speaks he speaks we we babble so both his his Rutzen is real he really wants or is that too human no he really wants we don't really want because you keep changing your mind last year you wanted a bicycle now you want a car or a motorcycle so so did you really want a bicycle last year yeah yeah but it went away it's not a real need that's not forever the average that is forever so if you go against his will it hurts much more than if somebody goes against your will because by him everything is real by us it's all temporary so why do we davon because he needs to hear from you he really needs to F yes he really needs everything about him is real much more so remember the deafening on yom kippur we read about the ten larders yeah so the angels came the angels came to god were crying they're killing rabba Kega what did they burst to say remembering the dominie the a burst s said be quiet i'll turn the world back to mush how's that for an answer so they stopped yeah so they stopped complaining but what kind of answer is that it really sounds like bullying be quiet I'll turn the world back to mush in the beginning the world was tell the meaning of it is really important than beautiful the a burst is said to the Angels you're crying you're hurting because Jews are being tortured they're not your children they're my children you didn't create them I created them so if you can feel the pain what do you think you have to tell me that my pain is infinitely greater than yours so then you might say well if it hurts you so much stop it said a that says you know what stop it means stop it means turn the world back to mush not doing that in other words the qivana for which the a bridge that created the world is so necessary he'll even do things that hurt himself now imagine this is so important to him and he's dependent on us to do it how painful is that I need something desperately and I depend on you to help me right it's a good question it's a good question and really find an answer to that question but the point is that when we davon it's because it's his Mitzvah we're doing it for him sometimes I don't feel like deafening and that's what I should tell him when you're Davin and you don't feel like governing that's what you should say today Richmond Here I am I don't feel like darling but I'll say the words because you enjoy it that's a reality check you're being honest so somebody once asked as much piya I tried to Davin I try to feel something and I never do so the mushy I said that's a good Davin Inc that was that was a reality check that's what Davin is supposed to do remind you of where you are and what your are what your what's going on with you so if Davin Inc reminds you that you don't feel anything godly that's that's good how can total no better than science a scientist actually has real data Toyota is just a book written by a rabbi that never went into a real lab I have some good news and bad news a couple of weeks ago doctors discovered a part of the body they never knew existed do you believe this the human body they found something in the human body they never knew yep there's there's a layer of skin between parts organs whatever that carry a fluid it's like it's like two layers and there's a fluid that flows throughout the entire body in that in that tube the reason they never saw it is because how do doctors learn what the body is they open up a dead body a dead body has lost its fluid so they never saw that skin full filled with fluid they thought it was just a piece of skin that skin but whatever it is they're a membrane now they're there thinking that that fluid that flows through that membrane could actually control cancer a cube believes that first of all it's very good news they found it the bad news is scary you mean doctors still don't even know what the body looks like this more to discover in that in a human body there is more science has not medicine has not completely understood the like for example the genetic code still don't know as soon as we figure out the genetic code we will be able to cure everything a guy gets his arm cut off he can grow another one so eventually we are going to discover what controls the genetic code see right that was it its genetic that's it wait a minute if you have a genetic flaw what caused that well its genetic hey so why do you have that genetic abnormality what controls your genes right now they think genes controls everything yeah what controls your genes so even a genetic illness should be able to be cured figure out what controls the genes so there's there's still so much more that we need to figure out the Cohanim not today's ha ha yep the real ha ha men knew the body better because they knew why the body is the way it is if you start off in ruthless and it all comes down say the dystocia Alice that the arm is hesed and the other arm is grulla and your kidneys are whatever and you're you know the blueprint the ha ha Meem knew the body because they looked at the blueprint the doctor study the body as the body is if they're very a very very powerful argument we had a terrible accident in Minnesota a kid was crossing the street from Hayden he was hit by a mail a mail truck and he was in a coma and the doctors said that he's brain dead and they should unplug everything and just let him and the father said no keep him alive and the doctor said but he's not alive he's brain dead so the father said and he's not the biggest genius in the world he said had he the father but you know a father's devotion he suddenly become brilliant he said to the doctor how do you know he's brain dead the guy said look look at the monitor there's no activity he said ten years from now will you have a better more sophisticated monitor the guy said probably he says so you're telling me my child is dead because your monitor is old-fashioned you're telling me that the monitor can be improved on so 10 years from now we'll have a monitor that can pick up brain waves better than this machine so you're gonna kill my kid because your machine is old that's why the tailor says brain dead is not acceptable because you have no idea what's going on in the brain your machine is old-fashioned but if the kid if the person is not breathing then he's dead ah yeah so the point is this technology is fascinating and really impressive but only up to a point it's just a machine who made this machine a guy didn't get a smarter guy he'll make a better machine that's the nature of science there's always room for improvement if there's no more room for improvement you're not a scientist anymore it's become your religion so the scientist is the one who turns to the ambassador for guidance more than the non scientist more than the non doctor because the doctor knows exactly what his limits are the scientist understands his limits that's what makes him a scientist but the scientist who thinks he knows everything is not a scientist anymore he's practicing a religion called scientism for Judaism of course we don't have those kinds of common many more somebody in the garage on one of the tan William said I can estimate how many drops of water there are in the ocean pretty impressive young so double who is very good at math lab Yale asks what's the big deal you figure out how big the ocean is you figure out how much do it you figure it out what's for this you have to be a talent and his answer is of course you can figure it out if you take measurements the time they was able to tell you how many drops of water there are in the ocean without measuring yeah yeah like what exactly is a drop the point is he knew what an ocean was cuz he knew where it comes from lamella in other words he read the blueprint he doesn't have to measure one more question how much time do we have huh okay well then I want to go back to the zombie girls I think that's a very important question many mad Russian contradict each other how can they all be true is the whole title true see the whole Tyler is true and also everything is in the Taoiseach and that's why you have what looks like contradictory because everything in the world including the contradictory stuff is all begins in taejun if we really understood Tyler properly we would see how it's all one idea just like the scientist the greatest scientist is the one who can see that all the laws of nature are really just one law like Einstein it bothered him that there are so many laws there can be so many laws there has to be one law that controls everything and that's his theory of relativity so certainly it's true of Tyler if it's true of the world all right what's wrong with having a friend that's a girl if she's just a friend like a boy so what's the difference to you if she's a person then why do you have to have a girlfriend she's just a person on the other hand if you think girls are zombies and that's why you're interested in having a friend that's a girl then she's not just a person she's a zombie that's not nice so if there's a girl that you look at as a human being just a person then because until hate say good morning like a minge talk to her like a mensch not like a zombie but if you think other she's not a person she's a girl then do her a favor and stay away from her because you're nasty the girls from they certificate once asked me how come you can't talk to boys I said that's a very good question what is what boys you can't talk to them they're crazy a girl tries to talk to a boy it and it it's not normal it's like too excited to calm down I just want to talk to you you can't just talk to a boy because to them we're the zombies so you got two zombies trying to be friends it just doesn't work so here's the point if you're a mensch and you look at a girl like a mensch then what's the problem if all of a sudden it's a girlfriend stop it it's not nice there's a Mishnah the Mishna says alt are basica my OSHA what does that mean don't overly converse with women how much is overly how about one cent how about one sentence yeah right okay so when the Mishna says overly was I mean any more than necessary so somebody said to that mayor's wife somebody said to her good morning to you and she said that you didn't have to say to you is that what it means I count your words and don't say that's weird ah what does it mean I'll tire basis on that Harvey don't create conversation just because she's a woman which is a very common thing you have a guy sitting on the plane next to another guy for eight hours they never say a word to each other why I got nothing to say the same guy is sitting next to a woman on the plane all of a sudden he's got so much to say he must know what the weather is or what time it is why you're not treating her like a person if she was a person and you have nothing to say you wouldn't say anything why are you creating a conversation yes meiyan cuz she's a woman then don't do that talk to her like a mensch which means if you have something to say you say it you don't have anything to say don't say it so now the question is why can't I speak to a girl all day that's right so if you're looking at the girl not as a zombie but as a person then you're a mensch so if you have something to say you'll say it if she has something to say you'll hear it but don't create zombies this a mother tells me she's all upset she can't believe it she sewed because her son came home and said that he has a girlfriend you sure behind she doesn't know what to do a girlfriend so what should she do she should ask him what does she like let me see your taste and girls what do you like about her what's good about her know that curious in other words if you do have a girlfriend so are you being a mensch about it are you a zombie you're gonna zombie out together and that's true of everything we can't listen to this the worst thing in the world is to walk around with guilt that you can't do anything about it's horrible the alter Deborah says and Tania if you're upset because you did a Nevada cut it out that's not true ver being upset that you did unavailable is part of the evader so not only did you do a Nevada and now you're miserable - just making it worse our our response because we're Habad our response to a Nevada is a mitzvah not leave a I did a Nevada I just heard this joke a guy I'm a snagit of rumors nugget was captured by by the enemy and they're gonna kill him he makes a bracha varaha Tosh Emily Cain Amell Ohio Amish shake each Alabama trace of its even though I'll miss it as nefesh and the guy who was gonna kill him suddenly says you're weird and he walks away from the snag it says no love at all you gotta kill me I made a blow her the answer to a Nevada is a mitzvah not cracking you see if if you're afraid of an evasion then the eight Sahara has already won the battle he got you if you're upset over your availa but of course you continue to do it that's not true ver stop being upset we're not afraid of evaders we're excited about mitzvahs so some guy came for a weekend many years ago from some campus and after Shabbos he was going back to the campus and they got they got to go into your fitness serenity a fitness and the rubber set then when you get back to campus remind your friends to put on to him he said Lebon I don't put Huntsville that ever said so so because you're doing a Nevada that's why nobody should do the Mitzvah that doesn't make sense but shouldn't he fix himself first before he fixes others no yes so what's better to be a hypocrite and help people or to be a hypocrite and not help people you're not ah that's a different story you're not the best person the least you can do is help somebody put on film like Ashley has said to me they were actually a for about seventeen years is that I have to quit I have to quit I said why he said I can't stand that I'm such a hypocrite I'm telling everybody else what to do and I don't do what I'm supposed to do as I said to him and you think when they represent us with us he didn't know you were a hypocrite when the devil sent you on schrieffer's it was something like this that episode hypocrite come in you want to do something useful go ash with us he didn't say first stop being a hypocrite then come back I'll test you to see if you're still a hypocrite and if you're not I'll send you ash with us no he called them over as a hypocrite you're wasting your time you want to do something good or the same thing like should we be at Sadiq or a Russia who cares be at Sadiq be a Russia do something good that's that's the the approach that we should have we have to do good you also did a Nevada brush yourself off and go back to doing good only now do more good so but that's hypocrisy yes but I said I said to this guy he wants to quit because he's being a hypocrite I said so if you quit with us you won't be a hypocrite that's it not then now you're an honest person no you're still a hypocrite and you're wasting your time yeah you say taschlin to do children not to get into a bad mood some somebody once said why is God so harsh is he harsh look if you were in my house he came to my house and I welcomed you you're Mike you're a guest in my house and I said to you I have 613 conditions for your staying in my house 613 conditions for staying in my house if you violate 20 of them you're gonna have to leave is that is that harsh what what is what is high of Mesa what is Mesa Mesa means I don't like to run my house anymore how many of the 613 mitzvot are punishable by missing 20 30 50 even a hundred so what does that mean it means you can do 513 things I don't like and you can still stay in my house that's harsh yeah I mean if you sell if you start selling my furniture get out of my house if you light a fire in the living room get out of my house I'm not gonna wait until you do other things that's bad enough right but there are 513 things that I really don't like and you can still stay in my house that's not harsh brilliant right that's the other thing even if you burn my house down if it was by accident you can come back to my new house it's not harsh for certain for certain things how many how many how many our Vedas are high of missing of a deserter of a Shabbos murder you have to bring a card you get mochas mm-hmm fine noise you have to undo the damage but you don't have to leave the house right right if I know you burnt down my house but there aren't two witnesses I won't throw you out kind of strange anyway it's been a pleasure the point the point of the story is that if you ask a good question you'll probably get a good answer yeah a bad question gets a bad answer it matches