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hi this is Mark Bodner from l r
Distributors how do we find
retain
and sometimes not retain Superstar
employees
it's an age-old topic that's been going
on and been discussed for many many many
years join me for a great conversation
with our amazing hosts it's and we'll
have a great discussion around how just
to do that
thank you for joining me here on another
edition of my new business and a special
shout out thank you armiako for that new
jingle yes exciting here in a new fiscal
year 2023 and tonight's show I'm going
to be joined by none other than Mark
Bodner the CEO of l r yes we've been
treated to a number of shows with uh
mush here on the set and tonight's show
is going to be really special and it's
such an important topic uh especially
right we know over the last few months
how hard it has been for companies to
find Superstars land them and retain
them and that's why we realized we just
had to do a show on this in addition
there was a uh holding over here we're
gonna do a little bit of The Rush
Limbaugh thing right the Wall Street
Journal had this article the new
workplace the best ways to manage a
superstar employee hiring a top
performer can spark College to dream
bigger and work harder and uh I mean
there are very few people I know out
there who could talk and really nail it
on this topic and that's why we reached
out to moisture join just a couple of
intro points here special thank you to
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so if I could just add something to that
intro yes so a hundred thousand people
I would argue that
I don't like to argue but I would just
add that a hundred thousand people is
probably significantly more
we've talked before about the concept of
creating ripples
so you put on a great show and someone
goes and speaks to a friend a colleague
a family member and mentioned something
from that show so is that now 101 000
people
and then they pass that along to another
10 people so is that now 111 000 people
so exponentially I would argue that the
hundred thousand ten X's to a million
thank you it's pretty so it's it's the
hundred thousand maybe views
but I would say the listeners are
probably in the millions and but beauty
of it you create ripples you don't even
know where they're going
you've spoken about that many times the
impact that someone has that they could
have that they just have no idea how it
just
affects people every now and then you
get to see it so I'll tell you a quick
story I met
we're having a meal Friday night meal
and my son who by the way got engaged
last night so shout out to dovey and
Donnie
um and the case uh we're excited
obviously but I'm we're having a Friday
night meal the other uh week a couple of
weeks back and my son's there with a
bunch of his friends
and I started hearing things coming back
at me that I had said to my son a couple
of times you know it's better to be you
know would you rather be right you'd
rather be happy and one of his friends
said to another guy at the table hey
would you rather be right you'd rather
be happy
that's a ripple and that's a ripple
Sometimes they come back at you and you
get to see them every once in a while
just to get a little peek at them but so
many times especially when we're leaders
leaders of families leaders of
businesses leaders in our community
leaders in our synagogues and we say
something and it has and it makes an
impression on someone and they tend to
uh pass that along so it's
with that mindset it's exponential it's
pretty powerful and the medium that you
have here in the Forum that you have
here take you know understand that it's
not a hundred thousand listeners it may
be a hundred thousand people who view it
or listen to it but it goes way way
beyond that so thank you Mark
question
let's jump right into the key topic of
tonight's show and that is landing a
superstar employee
how does how does a company go about it
and across any industry professional
whether whether it's employees who are
going to be on the front lines b2c
how does someone go how does a company
go about
anything is there a process is there a
mindset how do you lend a superstar team
member well you have and I have
certainly had this conversation before
I'm going to use a word you'll look it
up later whether it's actually a real
word referability
are you referable so step one is from my
perspective has always been look at
yourself first
are you a referable person
are you a referable company
um
and if the answer to that question is
Maybe
then the likelihood of you uh or
certainly no but even if it's maybe the
likelihood of you attracting a superstar
employee or lack the likelihood of you
attracting Talent
let's call it what it is ultimately
we're looking for talent
is very small and if you do attract them
uh the likelihood of retaining them is
very small so first thing we get to work
on is whether we're referable and the
best way to be referable is through
Behavior through culture through
principles through leadership and
because in today's world of social media
uh all the platforms that are out there
LinkedIn for example is a big one and we
use it I use it all the time when I'm
looking
uh at people whether it's for clients
whether it's business partners whether
it's employees
um
it's it's all out there so your your
company's culture
and
whether or not you're referable will be
a direct tie and correlation to can you
track at the right talent for your
business now referability it's a that's
a great that's a great word right there
let's hold on to that
um Eleanor is looking to hire great
staff you're in touch with Headhunters
and then you know a ace
a name is put before you
you go and you look on LinkedIn you
looked like how that person engages what
they like what people say about them
maybe you could just walk through like
in a practical way what I always love
when we do have the opportunity to get
with a particular candidate my style is
I don't like calling it an interview I
like calling it a conversation
I will usually open up with that in mind
you know really just to take the edge
off as we're having a conversation and
I'm going to get to ask you some
questions and you're going to get to ask
me some questions because for it to be a
fit it's a two-way street
um we have to be attractive to you
and then your talents and and you have
to be attractive to us
and what kind of
interview would it be if you would I
really does dislike that word I mean
it's it's really such an old word you
know you really want to have
conversations you want to have real good
questions to ask you have to prepare for
it so you have this conversation with
this particular
you know candidate or this particular
person let's call it what the other
people and
coming at them with great questions but
also allowing them to ask questions
the I will generally uh look to hire for
uh a talent and it may not be specific
talent to the job but looking for but it
may just be that the person has a lot of
talents
and one of the ways you can tell and one
of the reasons why I tend to use this
style
is
I love to see how prepared they come
what kind of questions will they have
and the real what I found in this direct
correlation to
uh Talent mindset culture their culture
in how they prepared for the interview
there's a famous
um
concept that you and I both know and
I've actually turned it when I uh when I
speak to people who are going on
interviews just in the last my some
advice I'll always say you want to hit
it out of the park on an interview walk
into the interview and ask the following
question at the right time
you know I was doing some research on
your company and
you know I noticed a couple of things
about
your business whatever the business is
do your research on it and
I have a couple of ideas that I think
could really help would you be
interested in understanding what those
ideas what those things that I found are
and generally
the answer will be yeah
and what you've actually done is you've
flipped the interview you became the
interviewer and the company became the
interviewee because now you're getting
to speak about something that they're
interested in so it's really the
preparation for the interview the
questions that you come with and I've
had some of the best hires that I've
made have been I don't know if they were
necessarily the most talented person
that I interviewed or had the most
experience but they had the best
questions when about the business and
that showed curiosity and I'm a big
believer in curiosity because when
someone's curious they have a mindset of
asking questions
so that's it's those things are all
connected and those are what I call
connectors so generally I like to have
just conversations now in terms of
finding
I'll ask the question how do you find
the people so obviously if I'm hiring
for an executive a senior leadership
position that's going through a
recruiting firm and it's a there's a
full scorecard built out on it and
obviously drop descriptions for
everything and multiple people
interviewing
once we get past that level generally
the best source of uh the best source of
talent is people's role of dexes
yeah yeah for those that know what it is
so so a person's Rolodex is you know if
you have someone on your team and
they've come from another business and
they have a you know we have to hire an
N minus two or an N minus three and
okay
what do you got and those are and that's
that's so first of all it goes back to
my first point right am I referable
so are they willing
are my existing employees willing to
bring people in from their Network
people who they know to come work for
this company
or are they hesitant clear if they're
clearly if they're hesitant says not say
great things about your business uh if
they're willing to the fact that they're
going to go and help you recruit the
talent is great you also get to really
understand who the person is before they
they walk through the door for
the interview and I say through the door
for the interview now that we're passed
some of you know the restrictions and
the covids and all those pandemics and
I love being face to face with people uh
and I love being face to face with
people especially when we're looking to
bring on Talent
um so I it you know it it's you can't
read body language over uh you know over
a screen it's really really difficult so
I mean those are some of the things we
do and some of the things I find very
very useful
well I'm joined by Mark Bodner CEO of l
r Distributors and we are talking about
how to spot how does a company spot and
land and retain a superstar employee
this is more of a technical question but
I'm sure you have an opinion on it is
there
um any type of uh you know guide map for
the amount of times you should be
meeting with someone
um do you like for example is it one
time is it four times is there a length
of time you want to let it percolate
it's at over 30 days or maybe as short
as a week is there a time frame a time
span and the amount of times you need to
meet someone face to face in order to
get a really good sense before you ink
the deal with a superstar
so
it's a excellent question and I I don't
know there's there's two aspects to it
really that's there's amount of time and
then there's like who
so generally for a a important hire and
so what's in every hire is an important
higher let's but for uh you know an
important hire
um in a leadership role or a manager
role
um we never leave it to one person ever
it's a multiple person process sometimes
we'll double team and not double team
and you know to come over burning
because
I you know depending on the position I
don't want to put the person through you
know five six seven into this but I may
want five six seven people to meet them
and generally when that happens there'll
be uh we'll say you know there's one of
the people if there's a more than one
person interviewing one of the persons
really is there you know to have that
conversation and the other person is
more to listen and then you know chime
in every now and then but generally if
it's an important hire
um I certainly want uh our HR team
involved
um I certainly want
um
you know someone with expertise in that
particular area so if it's a sales role
someone from the sales team if his
operations roll someone from operations
getting involved
um and depending on how important that
role I I may actually
interview as well so it can be sometimes
three four five different conversations
with people and everyone has their own
style of of interviewing and and you
know we work with uh we've worked with
consulting firms and the best methods to
interview most of which I don't use
because I like to do it my own way which
is more of a conversational style but
that's great for me but it doesn't
necessarily work for everyone else and
everyone has to do what works for them
but it will go through a pretty rigorous
process you know in terms of number of
people and also depending on how
important the hire is from a length of
time
my opinion on that is to be short and
sweet 45 minutes max hour is more than
enough time unless there's some
competency issues and questions or some
kind of a competency test that has to be
given because there are skill sets
needed for the position
um then it can go a little bit longer
but but but generally
um but generally I would
um keep it on the relatively short side
and I'd rather go you know what I would
call deep and wide rather than just go
for a long drawn out conversation do you
have it that you'll also meet let's say
two three or four separate occasions and
if you do do you sometimes take it in a
different environment like you'll do one
at the office one in a restaurant is
there any type of uh no generally I will
meet with a candidate once
um hand it off we use a scorecard after
an interview we all fill out a scorecard
each position has its own scorecard that
was scorecarding four
um you know and which we will actually
answer these questions and rate them on
a scale usually one to five and
at the end of the process the scorecards
get collected and and it's interesting
how people can score very very
differently in different areas and and
when it's a a roller out around
competence in a specific area the
subject matter expert is going to focus
in on that area most I generally will
focus mostly into the into the culture
aspects
um very very dependent on how many
questions come back at me that's like my
uh one of my most important criteria how
curious is this person how much research
do they do ahead of time how much do
they know about my business
it's so easy there's no excuse today for
anyone to walk into an interview not
being a hundred and ten percent prepared
knowing
the history of the business knowing what
the business does knowing what the role
there being interviewed for every
candidate gets a full job description
Etc so there's a ton of of information
out there do your homework so would you
hey I'm just going to ask it straight up
would you say it's fair to say that if
someone could be someone's very
qualified very talented but they show up
and don't know a thing about your
business they're like you just they made
the impression they don't give a hoot
they really zero
that's a zero
but you know it's you know you can you
can teach things I can't teach curiosity
I can't I can't teach someone to be
curious to be interested I I can't teach
that that can be great
accountants
but I can't teach them you can't get
places you can't learn the culture of a
business you can't learn how to interact
unless you have a curious mindset so
that's how I I believe that it's how our
culture is built and
you know if if you know if it's it's
like trust right trust that there are
two sides of trust there's a competency
try to side of trust can the person do I
trust this person can get this done and
then you know there's there's the um
this person you know the trust the
honesty side of trust you know is this
person trustworthy and if in my head
when someone is not knows nothing about
your business walking into an interview
but they're really competent at that job
they have only one side
so you know you could you could teach
for competency you know it's kind of
like the NFL draft many times you'll see
a team pick a player for position that
they're pretty deep in so why are they
picking that player because it's the
best player available
so sometimes you're hiring for talent
you're hiring for
in not necessarily always hiring for
skill set
now if we could talk about kind of EQ
versus IQ and some of the important
Basics that unfortunately a lot of
people they fail at or just very weak at
uh and forgive me for asking straight
you know how important is it for someone
to show up on time
um the clothes they wear some of the
what we call Basics but I'm sure you've
you probably have some crazy stories of
people just like hello
well you know things have changed so I
was at an executive conference for
um CEOs just a few weeks ago
and one of these experts got up there
and he must have been looking at a deck
he had prepared probably six months ago
and one of the things he spoke about was
reverse mentorship
right does that puzzle you reverse meant
that this is the kind like reverse
mentorship okay and and right what he
meant by that was us as Leaders right we
came up in a different time right
won't give away our age okay because I
know you're very sensitive about that me
personally I'm not but since we're about
the same age but I won't give up my age
either but but generally we we are you
know we we came up in a different world
where we put our time in and we started
at the bottom and we scraped our way to
the top right
and that doesn't work so much anymore
when so from you just said that's an EQ
as a leader that we have to have I heard
this concept of reverse mentorship and
that's taking
um
to another level where the Gen Z or the
millennial that you're bringing into
higher
should be mentoring you on how to work
well with them now I looked at this
gentleman as if he had three heads
I was
really
okay that's taking it to an extreme
however that being said I like going to
those extremes for a second because
however that being said
for us to be emotionally intelligent
leaders today right we
should understand and should you know
that we are hiring a different
generation the things that are important
to them
we never considered the work-life
balance concept the hybrid workplace
that we grow up in today
whether we like it or not it's here
and as Leaders we have to adapt to that
and we have to have a very very high
emotional intelligence to work with
people coming into the workforce today
it's just different
tonight's show is all about how can your
company land Superstar employees and how
do you retain them and we're joined we
uh we're treated to Mark Bodner CEO of l
r Distributors lnr Services many of the
leading retailers Nationwide they have
four locations throughout the United
States and therefore we said if we're
gonna talk we're gonna have a show about
Landing Superstar employees I have a
close friend who knows a thing or two
about this and we're also an additional
point of stimulation was yeah we'll do
the Rush Limbaugh thing the Wall Street
Journal had a special section A number
of weeks ago the best ways to manage a
superstar employee and they had Pages
upon pages and we said forget this we're
calling Mark Bodner we're gonna have him
come in studio and we appreciated you
worked out the schedule the work that
the time in the first two uh segments of
tonight's show we really tackled like
how to land a superstar employee and by
the way for the people out there that
are looking for the dream job listening
to this show will give you a leg up yeah
there are a number of secrets that he
shared we're not going to re-repeat them
now because we have so much to cover and
you could always go and watch it on
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we discussed many different aspects
about how someone should position
themselves to to land their dream job
and of course how companies uh what they
should be looking out for and Landing a
superstar employee now let's go to
great the the deal is Inked they signed
on kind of walk us through what are some
of the important aspects and even some
of the failures of many companies out
there in in during the onboarding
process those first precious 30 60 90
days talk about training talk about how
to bring them on in a way that that the
relationship will really last
so you hit it right there you just
answered your question it's about
onboarding Step One is onboarding and
what is what does your onboarding
process look like
um I don't know what ours looks like but
I know it's really good wait a second
there's a lot of people tuned in but you
know it's really good right I know it's
right oh you got Jonathan heading yes
yes JB's is is just tremendous
um he's our our HR leader in the
business
and I know it's it's amazing
um and I always like you know I have
this little acronym I use called aebs
which stands for as evidenced by so as
evidenced by the people who we've
brought on
um
and they one after the next
and we're bringing on people who have
who've you know had really who worked
for some major national
businesses large businesses who have
told me that they have never had an
onboarding process at any company like
they've had at l r and I always I'd like
to understand so tell me tell me about
it like we actually give us a chance to
get grounded you give us a chance to
learn how things work you've got great
training videos you've got great content
about the business
you give us that opportunity to take
that all in
we have a process where every depending
on you know maybe manager supervisor
role has a one-on-one uh at least 15
minute to a half hour meeting with every
senior leader of the business
uh which is I think an absolute
brilliant idea so I was I was a little
faux pas that I do know what the
onboarding process a little bit about in
this because I asked him what's so good
about it and they just about they
describe back to me what's so good about
it so they get to meet
you know people who they're going to be
working with and also people that
necessarily won't be working with on an
everyday process but what that gives
them
it gives them the vision right so they
get in the getting the vision of the
business of what the business wants to
accomplish what we're trying to get to
what's our go what's the businesses
milestones and goals as we go forward
and you know Clarity of vision is the
number one
probably ingredient if you would to uh
having a successful team
because when people know where they're
going what the destination is they're
more likely to be a part of that Journey
so that great onboarding process is uh
is really important and the onboarding
process is you know there's a lot of
regulatory items that we have to go
through harassment training and things
of that nature that's hours and hours of
video watching and quizzes and we
generally allow that person to do that
before they even start if they want to
give them that opportunity but they
don't walk in day one and are handed a
computer and say go and I think that's a
that's a big deal so it starts I think
with that great onboarding process
from a retention standpoint
um you know obviously a a fair day's
wage for a fair day's work
um
I think you know
I Know You're gonna laugh I'll say it
anyway I don't like to live in the Land
of Make-Believe all right you know the
line right I love it let's play
make-believe I'm gonna make believe I
pay you and you make believe you work
uh and you know what can I get this
person for if that's the mindset that
you have what can I get them for
then that's probably not a good
retention plan uh the the plan
you know what is what is the market call
for this particular job in this
particular size business and we do a lot
of studies around
you know we're in so many markets and
we're hiring in so many markets what is
the fair pay for this particular
position and we don't fool ourselves and
say well can we get it for less money
can we get we have that can we get it
for
it's really not a a bargaining world out
there anymore a great talent if you want
okay Talent
okay okay Talent is Gonna Get You
at best okay work great talent will get
you at least good work and sometimes
even great work
and
there's a price to pay for that and you
know you can do a lot more with a lot
less so paying you know paying
and but pay isn't really pay is very
important let's let's call it and then
there's really uh that culture which is
why as I said earlier that that mindset
of curiosity is one of the most
important things to me because when
someone's curious they're more likely to
come into a business
um hopefully we have a business that
allows people that gives them the
permission to challenge the status quo
more Curious people are the more chance
that they're going to and bring some of
that wisdom that they have you have your
institutional knowledge when you right
when you have your knowledge coming into
a business now and when you blend those
two things together
it's it could be very powerful or it
could be very toxic
so that's why that culture piece really
comes in to be really important
that is just an interesting question
because of the multiple locations that
you have throughout the United States if
let's say you're looking for talents for
your plant in Reno
and
they find or you even have a star in
Arkansas
who fits that role
could you please provide some
perspective on either
relocation or is it better just to hire
a new or if you have someone on the team
who you know would be great to run a
different plant perhaps you could
provide some perspective there's there's
there was nothing
more uh satisfying gratifying
than being able to hire from within to
promote from within there is nothing
better
you've developed someone and they've got
great talent I think it's an obligation
I'm gonna I'll say that it's an
obligation
for you as a leader for you as a
business
to show your employees a career path
it's then their choice whether to do
what it takes to go on that Journey on
that career path and you know of people
in my business you've been close to my
business now for a while that have come
from
you know very entry-level positions that
are now in director and VP level
positions and humble beginnings really I
mean myself included so you know I came
from very humble beginnings and I
started you know and that but it's a
choice
being great as a choice uh so the people
who choose to be great
we have an obligation to have a career
path and when we don't
have that career path
for them and sometimes we don't and it's
sad and unfortunate
when that time comes for that person and
that person needs to move on and I don't
have that position
for them to grow into I'm the first one
congratulating them I'm their biggest
cheerleader I say please have your new
boss call me and let me tell them how
great you are and how lucky they are
that they're getting you
you know I don't have that position for
you and
we let them go it's not easy it's it's
not so retention sometimes means letting
people go as well if you don't have that
career path to them so we've had very
we've had great success in creating
career paths for existing talent and
we've also had instances where we had to
part ways with some really talented
individuals
was what right do I have to hold them
back for my own selfish reasons and
ultimately that really will hurt you so
let them go and bring someone else in
with that great process that you have
built and Elevate them
before we go to the break another one of
your great quips quotes
going to or going from
could you which you just spoke about but
I just let you explain that for the
audience I use a more uh you know
Freedom 2 of freedom from
and you know do I want
do I want the freedom to or do I want to
be going to what do I want the freedom
from or going from and I think that that
applies here as well
because
when you don't have
a particular career path or you may have
a career path but the job is taken or
you have two people who are vying for
that position and one is more qualified
for whatever reason but they're both
great
you can only fill that position with one
person
um so you got to give that person you
know that let them let them go
um they deserve to be happy and if I
can't make them happy that's fine and
guess what people see that people see
how you move on from people and when
when you move on with them in the right
way and you congratulate them and you
make them a little party on the way out
and it's not and it's not you know in
any way shape or form you know pack up
your bags and leave it's it's
there's a transition time and there's
that it's just such a powerful uh
it's a it's such a it's a powerful
visual to the rest of your team to be
able to see that for the home stretch of
tonight's show together with Mark Bodner
here he's successful sound 710 wror the
voice of New York and tonight's show is
all about hiring Superstar employees how
to find them how to land them and how to
retain them
um and we're uh delighted that Mark
Bodner is able to join us once again he
is the CEO of l r Distributors they
service the uh primary retailers
throughout America and four locations
nationwide over a thousand employees and
therefore when we realized we needed to
do a uh a a a full show on this very
important subject we said you know what
we're going to reach out to Mark badner
and sure enough he carved out a little
bit of time out of his crazy hectic
schedule thank you Mark for joining me
here once again I'm on your business
um in the last section of the show let's
get to some of the again delicate stuff
but
how how does a company go about uh
measuring performance and if they see
that someone is underperforming how do
they get them to to try now of course at
some point like you like we discussed
before the break sometimes the right
thing is to part ways life moves on but
how does a company know that that there
that that maybe there's just an issue
they need to address they really could
perform better but there's something
that needs to be addressed and at one
point does the company say all right you
know I I think it is time to part ways
delicate stuff yeah it's it's delicate
stuff but it's it's life it's what we do
so it's actually more complicated I
think earlier we talked about
sometimes great performers
Superstars
you need to part ways with because as a
business as leaders
uh both for the benefit of the business
and the benefit of the particular
employee when there is no upward
Mobility it is good and it's healthy for
both parties to move on
in terms of underperformers
you know companies are loaded with I
always say a company needs and this is
my own math don't hold me to it uh a
company needs 80 percent of really good
people
and about 20 percent of great people
and maybe that could be 9010 use
whichever number Z1 but not everyone is
going to be great but there's a lot of
work to get done and it takes good
people what does good mean good means
they're on time good means you know they
they do what they're supposed to do
they're competent of what they're doing
and they're good so when someone is not
good what does that mean right it means
they're not on time it means they're
they can't get done what needs to get
done right or we may have made
you know a poor hire may have made a
poor decision they may have made a poor
decision they may have thought they were
walking into something completely
different
so first and foremost is transparency
is to have real transparent
conversations
I always believe in looking at yourself
first am I providing this person with
the tools that they need to be
successful doing this job
and if the answer to that question is no
then how do I expect them to perform
well
and you know even a business like ours
that's been around for so long
and we've been doing things
the same way for such a long time
as as the workforce changes and they
come in and our Erp system is a little
bit older and they may have difficulty
adjusting that they didn't see the Erp
system on the interview
um some of our processes may not be
as modern
as what they were used to in the prior
place that they worked
so it's not always a great fit and
sometimes people can adapt and sometimes
people cannot adapt
so the question is have I provided the
training ask yourself the questions
first
if you look at it from that from that
lens
and look at your when I say yourself you
know myself the company that particular
manager supervisor are we providing them
with the tools that they need to be
successful if the answer to that
question is no then how can we provide
them with the tools if we can
and if we have and and the output is
still not there the productivity is not
there the quality of work is not there
then
in all likelihood the person knows
already before you say it in all
likelihood the person is unhappy already
because if I were to ask you the
question let's call a person Joe
so Joe wakes up in the morning and Joe
says to himself
you know I think I'm going to do a
really bad job today
I think I'll probably you know that's
what I want to do I want to I want to
really mess up
I want to get it all wrong
probably what Joe does right now Joe
wakes up every morning wanting to do a
great job of course right this people
don't right people want to people want
to be successful feel successful right
then Joe comes into your office your
workplace remote not remote hybrid
whatever it is
and Joe
is failing how does Joe feel
does Joe feel successful probably not
if we can't get Joe up to speed and we
can't give Joe the tools or Joe's just
not getting it we owe that very
transparent conversation we owe him what
can we do to help you get there
and if we can let's let's do it
and doesn't mean Joe's going to be great
it doesn't mean Joe's going places in
your business
but we owe it to Joe Joe as a family to
support uh in all likelihood and Joe
needs to be employed now if it doesn't
work out then you owe it to Joe
because Joe deserves to be happy and you
owe it to the business because the
business deserves to be happy
if it's not working out to let Joe go
rather than
the flip side of that is complaining
Joe screw out screwed up again Joe
messed up again I told you Joe is no
good
what is that doing
so that's that's what we call
confirmation bias
right I've got my opinion to my head of
Joe and I can't wait to find things to
prove myself right
that Joe is no good
that is so counterproductive
right if if I build in that that bias
and then I confirm it constantly so that
makes me feel good for about 15 seconds
the bottom line is Joe's not getting it
done so flip that on us what can we do
better and sometimes what you can do
better is letting Joe go
well what's what's so special about the
way you address this is that a person
always has to you know
do self-evaluation and be really honest
about it meaning if let's say the the
the individual is underperforming
they're coming late they're making
they're making areas of sloppy whatever
the case is
what can I
do better change the scenario to give
this a real shot as opposed to just
going nuclear on the person I'll give
you a real example just just hit me now
it happened a couple of weeks ago really
important employee and and they
um the person went through a a recent
divorce for children
uh completely 100 remote worker
um so very difficult sometimes to you
know measure productivity and it may
take some time
and showing up late to meetings
having to come meeting short and and the
bottom line is you had four kids and his
his wife that he just got divorced from
moved away wanted nothing to do with the
kids so the person's going through a
really difficult time and we approach
like how can we help you what could we
do maybe change your hours because
you're really good we really like you
but clearly this is not working for you
and it's not working for us so how can
we is there anything we can do long
story short uh three weeks after that he
resigned
and he said and we would we didn't let
him go he let himself because he
understood that I'm just not getting it
done and this company is trying to work
with me and I'm still not able to get it
done and he resigned using those exact
words almost apologetically that's not
to say that that's what we want we tried
to work with this individual and he just
he just couldn't he couldn't make it
work for what he was going through in
his life you know life happens sometimes
and now his family and taking care of
his four children trumps
you know work
so
he resigned
Mark where the time flies went around
and on the set with you and I certainly
hope you'll you'll join again soon
because we have so much to still talk
about in a variety of uh for many other
subjects that we like discussing with
you but just before Before I Let You Go
um what's your take on employee
evaluations
or I know it's not fair to to tell you
okay we got to cover this in two three
minutes but to the best of your ability
um to talk about evaluation and
uh getting a really good sense if the
person is a superstar now that you have
them 30 60 90 days six months
how do you measure what if if they're up
to Snuff
so employee evaluations is really
important
um there's such a thing is over
evaluating as well
um and employee evaluations do not need
to wait for that yearly or every six
month evaluation there is nothing wrong
uh there was let me just change that why
am I going negative there was everything
right
with telling someone who's doing a great
job that you're doing a great job
that before you were here
it was much more complicated
now that you've come on board things
have gotten so much better
and you know as evidenced by
you know example example example usually
the answer to that will be thank you so
much for sharing that that's that makes
me feel so good people are afraid to do
that employers are afraid to do that
that particular they're gonna probably
ask for more money tomorrow or to go on
a big bonus or okay
there's nothing wrong with telling
people that they're doing
an amazing job and do you think that
they're a superstar just transparency is
so important and it's not just you know
if if it's got to be real
um I do it all the all the time
um and I just like out of the blue I'll
make a phone call and say you know David
you are doing an amazing job every kpi
that we measure
since you've come on board has improved
keep it up you're doing amazing that
sometimes takes people for a loop that
you can actually be that just bluntly
honest and you can think because if
you're willing to do that you could also
be willing to David when we brought you
on board you know things were going
pretty well here's a few areas that have
gone South
since you know because when they feel
it's going to come on both sides and
it's not always negative negative
negative no then they're they're willing
to listen and and accept they realize
it's it's honest I myself ask for
feedback and people you know speak to me
give me my feedback how am I doing yeah
you've worked I have people coming from
other businesses like you've worked with
other CEOs how am I different
just just tell me I'd let you know I'd
love to know what do I do well what can
I do better
man the time flies we're out of time but
an incredible show a special thank you
to Mark Bodner CEO of l r tonight's show
was all about and he really hit the nail
on the head and discussed the many
aspects about finding a superstar
employee Landing them and retaining them
well this wraps up an incredible edition
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