History: Ohr HaChaim HaKodoshs' relative marries - Bagel shop in Lakewood -Toms River -East Flatbush

fellow malaysia we're here at toms river new jersey near lakewood of course an extension of lakewood it's two above tomorrow shabbos nakamu now boy i remind myself of the unity between literature and swadeshi why last night i attended childhoods my childhoods friends daughter's wedding i hadn't seen him for 50 years his son popped up a year ago or so at khabad of palm springs my friend yanko crimean rabbi crimean asked him his last name and he put me on the phone he said this is our friend's son and i couldn't believe it i said i got to get a hold of your father where is he he connected me and he's been talking what's happening and yesterday he invited the simcha his last name is banatar and his great great great grandmother or so was a sister to the oracayan somehow the same last name i'm still looking into that and i want to tell you something that he told me when we were in elementary school we studied at la babachi achievement bedford and dean starting 1967 before 1968 for three years first second and third grade until ninth through ninth grade then he went off to another yeshiva and we both lived in east flatbush he lived on ramsey avenue in every avenue a i lived in clarkson and east 55th i used to go to each other's houses and we were very very good friends and in yeshiva we've known us two and another good friend was were known as the three stooges we played sports together we laughed and joked together learned together this wonderful wonderful time special times you need to appreciate when you're young because you can't repeat them later they don't repeat themselves such a unique and important part of a person's life childhood but that's for another time so when he told me that his mother his father who passed on i believe in 1968 they had a safer holy book that was wrapped up sealed and they were told in their family for hundreds of years anyone that opens up this safer will be blind why because it was written by their makadish the holy arachim while elio anovi was watching over him and only when meshiach will come will it be open should it be opened and he said we have it in our house we're not and we never opened it later the family gave it to the rebels library and it's in the rebbe's library but i'm thinking about how there are makodesh who lived 500 or so years ago not 500 something 350 40 years ago and the basham that they say if they would have gotten together today for many yeah there's definitely hasidic ideas in there in the car hashem the razory bullet they just had an ex a desire without the retreat they wanted god and they were willing to give everything up for god and this type of teachings are full in the makotish this great great great grandchild not grandchild he himself didn't have any children but his relative grandchild got married last night here in deal new jersey there were 2 300 people there from brooklyn from canada from muncie hardly anyone that i saw was from deal new jersey they all came out you know why they came out because my friend such a fine person autonomous flying people people were so happy dancing and being there coming and schlepping and driving it's dark at night gas is expensive but they came out because they're dear people loving people it's too above we had a terrible terrible tragedy called tish above it's time to rebuild the rebuilding is even greater than the loss the mother says the simcha is on par with yom kippur the great kedusha the great holiness what's two bubble about shidduchim marriages souls uniting finding the shidduch and then comes shabbos not just one hammer one comfort but twice comfort comfort comfort ladies and gentlemen have adam friends when the leadership people when we all come together the world of their high mccodies the spartak world the bollywood the litvisor world of lakewood the qasim that came with their streiman beckish's of williamsburg and borough park and monsters they all come together to a simcoe which is two ba of you have the culmination of two above and the lesson that we need to walk away with is the importance of actus nothing is greater than actress when do we get the blessing from god the father when colonel were all one sure there are 12 tribes this one davis this nusa this text these rituals these customs but make people feel comfortable and i want to conclude with another experience you know when you go somewhere you think you're going for one reason but really you're going for another reason you know why you're going you're going for an opportunity to spread godliness to teach godliness to be an example of godliness so yesterday morning after chakras i go into a local store here in lakewood and i have something to eat and the manager comes over to me he has these long pay his curls and he says can i talk to you oh and he says you know is your name rabbi dolphin i said yeah how do you know he says i remember you from five years ago from patchamish we davened at mr montel's house friday night and you were there you spoke i think i said yeah i remember that and then he says can i ask you something i said sure come sit down it's five years later told me his life was up and down now he settled and he wants to know if nature disguises god why must we say that nature wants religion he believes there's a god but the god that god made the world in a natural way and that in the natural world disguises god so who says god wants us to put god into nature in a revealed way ie who says that we need religion as part of the natural world we live in and we spoke about it he's wearing a black t-shirt with his penis little beards pretty much and he felt very comfortable it comes from a hasidic home very facility i don't know what happened to this all i can tell you is about today you're going to eat breakfast and what's the next thing you experience an opportunity to uplift a jewish soul a jewish person an opportunity to point them in the right direction an opportunity to share a word of tata a word of hussitis and mostly to make a person feel comfortable so that he doesn't have to run away now boise each and every one of you it's the summer we're traveling here there and everywhere take it film with you take yourself with you the self of your community where you're davin every day you pray and you learn and you're fabring and yeah i and now you're on the road that's why you're on the road to give a yid an opportunity and sometimes it's not by doing this or doing that it's just talking talking and listening listen and hear feel the pain of another understand where they're coming from be sympathetic and more so empathetic and when we do this play the slowly who the jewish heart is open ready wanting and willing to do what god wants we are responsible we need to take the initiative to understand that you're not there because you need to go climbing or swimming or whatever else sightseeing you're there for another purpose and you have to make that your focus for the beginning till you return to your home that i have an opportunity now to do another shuikas another mission of akadeshwara the first place i make there's the rebuilding of it the second base i make this rebuilding of it and they'll all be rebuilt through the third base amigdas the final one which will be eternal it never will be destroyed again we'll have mashiach we'll have simcha and we see each other only in happy occasions good health and mid-swiss kind of mamish or maybe on me