How Lovely Are Your Tents - By Rabbi YY Jacobson

they tell the story about a shoe was a year the ankle who would snore meet their shoppers for Shabbat they were rapping and start talking this drew was full of sleep and not just fall asleep but he would snore and snore loudly one day the gap becomes overt in the middle of the drawer she slices Yankee ankle weights he says you have absolutely no right to behave this way this is excuse me I am prominent member pay my dues paid up my membership this is my chair I have a right to express myself and show the way I would like to you cannot come and tell me you disturbing other people says this is my right he says because you're waking them up from their sleep that's number one and then there's a most of the discus a number two that there was a Yid who was also snoring loud during a rush the Gabby goes over to him and says I am was to talk to no avail even louder the rabbi calls over the Gumby and says go wake him up he says never the Mozilla you put him to sleep you wake him up why do I share these anecdotes with you I want to take today one Posse one parsec from Paris Bullock Apothic that the Jewish people loved so deeply that 365 days a year we begin every chakras we begin every morning with this pasta stated by the Navi bilham namely matoi vu Isle si Yaakov Michigan I thought he is wrong but look if you look at the context of his words posix says empirical download pasiphae's byyee Sibylla Maceda by RAC social conservative at the heel of rua kala Kimmy lifts up his eyes he sees the Jewish people are dwelling according to their tribes he experiences a spirit of Hashem and he begins his prose and what does he say my toy of oil sa Yaakov much getting something so how good how good Li are your tents Yaakov Mishka nicer your dwelling places you saw everybody knows there's a Mishnah based on this plastic second to the last mission in Beirut Casco Sabaton Bubba Basra DAF sama of mandalas so the Mishna says Allah Allah my sir and I quote the Mishnah well you've stuck Adam cuts I look hot sir - passes can I get Pesa a hollowing can- a loin a person may not open up to a courtyard that's shared by other partners adore paralleling another door or window paralleling another window flag the Gemara and mean on amélie why not what's the source - on it's a possum what's the posit ye Sabine llama say 'no why are you so shameless part of my raw what did he see Rasha npc am makovan in Zelizer omar ruin a lucia tisha a lame Sheena what he saw was that the doors of their tents were not open to each other so the flap the opening of each tent was removed from the other tents and they don't see into each other's tents and this somehow overtook Balaam and impressed him and inspired even this legendary anti-semite to say I know you should tea shall am seen about the L of ruin look him and he stalls it and he says my toy aisle fa yakun southeast all as a she also brings down in humus where she says I am sure a non women z Musa I want to touch on this pasa camshaft literal Passat based on Ashley based on the gomorian Baba Vasudev sama and then explore for insights into the very same PASOK and meaning of the PASOK by the earliest sages of casa de s-- the Baal Shem Tov the magnet of miss rich AB nachman of breslov Talmud move ik and transcriber Arab notion of restless and a grandson of the Baal Shem Tov Rab aura of measure bush and try to apply to our lives living a few centuries later after these Toyotas were set first on the most basic level the most basic level what the Gemara is saying the shock and the mission of what tribulation and brings out what Rashi says what I'm a foreign point out is that a man like Balaam who did not have extra love for the Jewish people was moved by a simple fact and that is the component of modesty the component of privacy NP stay in makovan and Zelizer he take a look at the tense or less Yaakov as the rush bomb explains there that Maxima Israel had a definition of Caesarea schuiteman and therefore they could not have their tents open to each other and that's what the mission of means above a Basra and he was deeply impressed by the fact that people what we call today in English minded their own business I didn't look into your tent you didn't look into my tent why was bilham impressed because it is a basic human component it's a natural human instinct to uh to I once told a story so somebody in the crowd says ray Jacobs everyday without names who was it it's a natural tendency no you know uh stood sit by dinner hey do you know what's happening in the other person's tent and those boundaries healthy boundaries and borders overwhelmed even a man like below that in all the in all the tyrannous we spoke last night Rubick at saris and all the mixtures and in all the gossip and all the conversations and in all the human interests there were certain borders people appreciated borders because its borders which actually allow for better relationships when you know the boundaries here is where I end here is where you begin you have respect for me I have respect for you and it's something that often societies lose focus somebody wants that one so of art that in Hebrew the two words nori and llaha care are intimately associated luxury means an alien nake are stranger mahaki means to recognize because the more you actually know somebody the more you realize that there's a part of them that remains unknown to you the less you know somebody you might think you can get to know everything and you can control everything the more you know somebody intimately the more you appreciate that there's certain parts that actually are really none of your business they remain off-limits to you and this is true even within 1/10 certainly a husband and a wife etc family and even children and parents there is where where one and there is where we're different and when we're different and we retain that distinction it allows us to be one when we have to be one the girliest wrong once said them is not the madhavi's I invite vitamin vitamin design knowledge awesome you were close when you had to be distant so when you have to be close you become distant because it's the distance as the boundaries that allows the unity to be wholesome not to ultimately be be distracted and disturbed and destroyed by the fact that there was a violation of identity so Balaam is extremely impressed he's extremely moved perhaps if we may add Rosh ain't pissed and muscle one ands ambles that doesn't only mean I don't look into your tent I don't see what's happening in your tent I respect that privacy as you respect my privacy it also means something psychological and that is often people look into other people's tents to decide what should be in their tent I go to your son's Bar Mitzvah and based on that I decide I'll have to make my bar mitzvah I see the fastener and based on that I have to do my consonant I see what you have in your house and Kohl's man I don't have exactly the same kitchen I don't have my little cousin nefesh I don't have my notice I goof I don't have day I don't have night I define myself and my tents based on what's happening in your tent you know there's a vert unless Aksumite I'm sorry I said dipper is it says don't crave don't covet so what should lay sacrament so the Russian there is for some point out that it seems strange at first glance because he says Lusaka don't covet a Kshatriya huh your friend's wife I've Dave on my sofa surely become weary his servant is maidservant his bull and his ox so today it would be equivalent his BMW his Toyota his three summer homes his private jet that's sure to ever come you know this car is plain the coil a chalet Apple and anything that belongs to your friend so them a foursome same amount of truth if the puck is already saying with Cola shell Oriakhi so why do you have to specify a Kshatriya I'm also shade overcoming should say low sound with coil a shallow Janka do not covet whatever belongs to your friend if you want to specify items so then why can with vocalist Eliyahu so specify more items or stop right here but there's an inconsistency so it's brought in swaram how can you person a fulfill a sacrament how can the person fulfill a sacrament look at the other person's home and then I look at my own home and I say rock monoliths long I look at the other person's dress and look at my own I say I covered I look at this I look at that place that's where there's a natural feeling we sat with ASUS we have their monster should ever come here but fart he has so much more than I would like then I then I and I would love to have it stop us it ends before you start coveting somebody else's life first think about correlation LaRocca everything that your friend has another to ask yourself do you really want that other person's life it's easy to pluck out one rose from his garden but life is a package deal every person has their blessings and their challenges every person has their virtues and their vices every person has their ally it's easy to say I wish I can have this aspect of this person do you know what's going on in his mind do you know what's going on in his soul you know take into consideration everything you want his entire life or her entire life so Ross I ain't be stayin McClellan's ambles there you know there the anecdote they say that there was uh there was a salesperson always on the road smoker was mama shmita dick well halfway then they figured out what he does he had a trick every single home he would go to he would ring the bell and the woman would come and open the door the man would come open the door and he would tell her do you see with your neighbor mrs. Cohen has and this was the introduction little did she realize this was the trick and once he said that whatever he had to sell in happened to be that punk that's what mrs. Cohen had she ultimately bought our younger man came to me not long ago it just illustrates often the way people's minds work and it's really sad he had to make an option is for his son so he said he needs seven thousand dollars to make an option he doesn't have seven thousand dollars what should he do so I say be Mozilla McCoy come what do you need seven thousand dollars for an option he said he has to rent the whole there's flowers caterer somebody has to be on a keyboard a photographer a video Agra fer not everybody is as kind as our friend ivy via summer a side dish of will guard you so we may lay it's a seven thousand dollars so I said can I ask a Shila stump I want to ask a Shila stump what's the Shila stump I say why don't you ask one of the tools if you could do it in the show why don't you go to the bagel store and buy a few platters of bagels and some dips why don't you invite close family and close friends who really want to come to your simcha we're not gonna sit there and text the whole time they really want to participate and according to my estimate it should cost you not more than two hundred and twenty-five dollars and I'll give you a whole hour for that from seven thousand he says no a canvass I said my bility above that I think it was out of service a few years ago it cost me forty five dollars by the amount of people who showed a better floors a few reps so he says you're not practical because what am i what are people going to think oh there's a conga lost an archive of thousands of dollars to be able to make an option - for people who couldn't kill us if they come when they don't come but they'll be able to eat and walk out and say that was a meal so Russia is saying money is an attitude and that is lots of stress would be eliminated from people's lives if they would not define their status their identity their priorities based on peeking into somebody else's tent and based on that my tent has to be the fun this is I think all still pretty consistent with traditional maker I shall have now let's jump many generations and see how some of the great sages of her Siddhas interpreted this pasta and this my Mikasa I'm gonna begin with the interpretation of the magician Margot the magnetism is rich was the successor of the Baal Shem Tov we saw Baal Shem Tov the founder of Casa de space the way who is talk of coffe 1760 tough cough cough so tough race coughed of shin Hoff was 200 years from 250 years ago he was succeeded by his student for one year by his son ripped see but then his son gave it over to a student though he's bear from the city miss rich and Valen Ukraine known as the magnet of misery this Titus are compiled in a safer called area and market very active and there is a trade on Parsons Bullock take a look by Irish also from the slaughter fedoras are estranged animals of volumes that connect it there on my room a Letitia La Mina this is of course the statement of relation and the bottom of a basset of Sam who ramus there is also a homolytically 'rich L hint the comet Amadeus our common solution to miss Ibaka's Co akadama drew chalets upon circle o L is a memory - Azam mr sitting at a Mississippi there sitting at a gathering and at a feast and an event and each one says it's a true tsavorite saga vote it could be on a pasta it could be on a Seohyun sass I'm Indian and shots I love it Zelly makeup is a matter of course it's tell me if it's somebody have coming you know they're not going to agree one guy says his food I don't mean this little bit somebody once asked a little humor is there any humor and Dominique any human that yet a lot of humor is weird just tell me this I come in my room solemn boy I'm Irish olive oil and that's the humor your end of inning on a humorous note same a it's just a joke sorry macaws pollution is a maybe not a joke deserve me Katyusha so one person says you say the subtract shot you got it all wrong they say why is to Jews meat so you say Shalom Aleichem Sholem Aleichem I say to you good morning you don't say morning good good morning good morning good evening good evening you don't say evening but how are you you are how right it seems strange but two jews meet Shalom Aleichem peace onthe you say unto you peace unless some song so I once heard this myself from the Lubavitch erever who said that when two Jews means he said out there even before I continue the conversation immediately you have to say you got it all wrong it's the exact opposite it's not Shalom Aleichem it's a alaikum Salaam and now we can begin talking now we can begin supposing so this time as a class we shall discover namely Cantor now here there could be two types of intentions if house result their calves on isla contella Cantor means to step to denigrate to provoke to show their superiority over the other person very bits to I'm the genius I'm the real been tired I'm the Great God around atomic clock lamer Peter shall leave their intention is everybody I want to show that my commentary my shot is superior to everybody else Nevada oh you like em well enough Shamu temporally awesome open a and he quotes it amaura oh woe to them and they're so better if they're shoe you would have been turned over the Morreale material the content yourself on earth if the amniotic sac would have been turned over call us at miss Calvin a logical Adira but if each one only has the objective to make the toyota great to make the turn of powerful to express appreciation of which simply demonstrates that I was a Sheila Hamilton is most unfortunate privilege them and their neshama so this is what bilham saw raw shame piece can return delay my p.m. he appendicular pester come wish my PC people the parsec says guard the door of your mouth where is the door in the human body the door is the mouth the mouth is where we go out from guard the door of your mouth Ross ain't a-sayin their mouths Russia ain't potential collateral development for phonons ech mega their return la Mar same cover Nasim Lee a Smith's Magadan Zelizer rock a leopard I'm a Jew superior shillelagh sham sham I am on my rule email Australia he saw Shane P say in their mouths their openings are not moving second Egizi when I open my mouth you open marma are your mouth the Kevon is not it to be Zeca negative I have to disagree with you you have to disagree with me just to disagree in order to prove that you're lower that you're foolish that I'm smart that I'm great ain't per se in the components that connect is that there's no Kevon of Zeca negative rather our mouths are different we're saying different things but it's not that connected zest LeSabre samaya I'm explaining I'm expressing Toyota the way my mind the way - Shama the may why heart appreciates it Balaam says Lucia tisha la máquina this is the prerequisite of the shema should remember this is the REM is that the market of miss rich explains in this pasa Canada's Gomorrah bah-bah-bah sir let's now go to a second interpretation this one is in Lakota a locus in hillcrist Niska Shaymin by Rab naasson the Talmud mover can the transcriber of his rebel who was also a grandson of the Baal Shem Tov the hillock Arab national breast he says this of course in Hill cos in this case gained him because the admission is impressed us about them dealing with the relationships between neighbors fascinating interpretation in the first paragraph he talks about in the third line in the source number to the third line he says a ado I shake here at Jesus I sit through a clear show my ficus the Citra after whom in my latest should be installed by Atzmon ok say yes cause for Solomon am I like this or mystical collected are covalently row Maxima st. a band of a moussaka Veda the main visa of citric lira is when Jews are fighting with each other well Kate Oh sir lasses a loin negative line that's why the Mishna says I can't place my window parallel to your window yeah Cologne chop Kinnison I'm ahsoka let me throw whom Asuna horribly masculine VAR m ahsoka Vader the window represents the truth of every Jew your window which is that place from which you see the outside and from which you see the heaven represents your Shire your path to heaven your truth so he says whom eschew now I be masculine them ahsoka Veda my window and my truth is very different than your window and your waited your path to truth he called a cat that let me soak if he shows him a shift I show me some new set of a sated feel of silk if he mice of Cana emminster like every Jew has its shaven so he has his shaders that's where his new son comes from that's not feel that comes from that tourism and hug him come from could feed myself then there's who he is how he lives this becomes his truth omens and himself every boy how she knew him said Ben Affleck Aveda I feel like shading by you sharted and that's why there's so many differences between even not differences that are intended to create diversity share impo sure you shot him just rights as great people he said Miss Powell about real curve is having me heroes become this one loves traveling slow and this one loves diverting fast this one this one silently volcano Sula Adamle Stakelbeck of a daily raw I for pichia need my loyal Afiya Emma's Chalet Shack evade a enemy sniper Emma's vena Mustafa MS cameo a day AHA emmechelle Havana beautiful words my window is not parallel to your window I should not expect that your window to heaven should be parallel to my window the same dimensions same size same shape same direction uniform I could look straight through though I have my colonia michael enhance us or to make hollowing second Egizi show sinless rut of so how does he tight Cheniere the appreciation of the fact that you will never be me and i will never be you and your path must not be my path and my path must not be your path and just because you don't look like me you don't dive in like me you don't speak like me you don't live like me and there may be differences does not mean that there's no MS then it's a mitzvah to put it down to denigrate it what is true for you may not be true for somebody else of course to our common denominators there's one Senora for everybody but Connie story / Emily Kane neither skite has a whole internal world of other and here and hug him and Esaias and experiences there's a tight cover time alex says into hill and we say Chaves morning Kyani Edyta key garlic in so everyone puts the emphasis i know that our femme is great and our master is greater than all the other so-called gods i know there's a person one of the signatures for him Kiani a dyke bar DNA McCullough looking Aeneid IT there's a way in which I know that reboilers shallow them in a way that you will never know and there's a way that you know it in which I will never know Kyani or die T although there are those elements where we are one and united but there is none Nia die t dance from the washing ha Adam your desk ever he knew intimately because from knowing somebody cayenne and heaviness is a Bruce the time your rights and pay anymore its intimacy I'm Nia dirty because it's impossible I don't I don't have your life story from your life story from your gifts from your experiences from your challenges from your attention and from your inner journey you know something about Hashem something about truth something about depth something about spirituality that I could never know Nia Dottie that's what you're Nasim is explaining my toy who are lucky I ain't sayin move on in Z Woolsey it's not supposed to be that way we're not supposed to be Michael Vernon's Emma Xhosa I have Michael line you have your hollow and I have my path I have my MS you have your MS how can MS be different is it MS absolute so of course there are truths that are absolute that are binding to all there's certain truth certain law certain moral requirements and duties that this is this is the truth but within within life and within the universe there's a whole spectrum from one extreme to another extreme and each of us within that entire gamut has their own window this is AB nonsense perish let's go now to the Peters of Roberto of measure Bush now I didn't find it on the I didn't find it today on the internet to be able to put it in here so I'll tell you about that what your vertical of I still have to look maybe I can add it to the sources on the on the web when it goes up the buttock of measure Bush also grandson of the Baal Shem Tov quotes my macaws out because I'll say peacefully the posture says it shall share him coiled I did a fake peacefully a high seriously I now see some oz my beloved one knocks on the door and says open up the door my sister my wife my dove my twin so has I'll say America is burrow home peacefully kazoo dish on my Hut open up for me an opening who does shall market there are two gears is actually in Madras one is kid who does so market and one is COO - Alma hunt either who - Oh market is the hole at the edge of the needle through which we pull the thread or who died so market is the the point of the needle which is of course smaller so peacefully conclude I shall market you create an opening as large as scooter so mark Advani after some discussion alone the whole arm the part of the mace I mean is called ohm actually didn't have door was open and that's the point you open up a tiny small opening to me bunny after some capisco bush my toy royal si yeah Commission I ain't payin with one ins a connect Itza the Pesa that the jus creates and the passive that Hashem reciprocates with the doors don't parallel each other it's not that he reciprocates in kind I open a wide door he opens a why do I open my heart large to you you open your heart large - you ain't biscayne muscle onions are connected sir optimistically kudos oh my god you open a tiny door you create a tiny dent in your heart and you solve on the FM capisco you shall Ullom and I will create a completely different opening shall lay bare infinitely beyond the opening of your door this is how the butter of measurables tightens their Emma's in these words now come to the peerage of the baal shem tov sometime asks the obvious question there is a redundancy my toy Royal FA Yaakov Michigan a something is wrong oh you're left on Myshkin osaka seem to be identical how goodly are your tents how great are your dwelling places a tent isn't dwelling place and dwelling places a tent what's the difference and why buy the first one does he say the name Yaakov and why buy the second one does he say the name he's wrong what's the matter boy LSA Yaakov Myshkin a settler you sir so the baal shem tov presents the following beautiful interpretation and says as follows o yell and michigan sometimes they can be synonymous but if we translate them literally oh hell represents usually a temporary tent you go out camping you pitch a tent that's an oil of course there's a difference between an oil Kivar you know the Shabbos you know I am Simon Chantal of oil to build on IRA isn't it so they're abundant you can therefore expand the mile RA on Shabbos if you're already at least one Tefo but the word oil generally we pitch a tent it represents a temporary structure michigan Isetta a dwelling place although you can create a temporary in fact the Michigan is called a Michigan but the word dwelling place means a place where you dwell a Michigan Visconti a place where you are so oil is the temporary one and Michigan a circle represents more of there are two types of Jews as the Muslims and Balaam is addressing both of them there's the Jew who creates an eye hell Myshkin a sucker there is the Jew who creates a permanent dwelling place for Hashem here is a Jew who is epiphany with Hashem never ends his sense of intimacy a sense of celebration of Eliquis never ceases he's always inspired he's always motivated he tells our son I want to move in with you in one tent I want to be with you I want to dwell with you permanently you and me are roommates Elam vod's Myshkin I saw his excitement his motivation for our voices Hashem never wanes day in and day out i Nene raceless ambitious tiny he wakes up in the morning and he's ready to run with his God Myshkin Osaka he constructs a home and he invites her Shem into that home and he lives with God when he's driving and when he's working and when he's eating and when he's sleeping and when he's tending to his Darvin here when he's talking to people he is filled with a divine consciousness with a realization of a Shem and a connection Tasha and it fills him it fills her 24 hours a day because his dwelling place where he invites the sheen official hunty beside him is permanent he never leaves that space of a certainty beside that's one type of June but there's another type of truth about some to serves and this is the oil ha ha ha Jew he creates not a Michigan fresh ham but he creates a temporary oil this is a Jew who can't say that he's always consistent in his relationship there's life's pressures psychological and financial there are the burdens of life there are various that people have in habits and addictions and proclivities that can derail them from their spiritual source there is the incessant demands they are the pressures of life in one form or another and there are times that its consciousness is divorced from an open revealed conscious relationship with Hashem but still from time to time oh yeah Lakha he creates a temporary tent and he says I need you for five minutes I need you for an hour come be with me we're going to learn about the Gemara I need you I want to dive in now just give me five minutes oh yeah let's go Alessa these moments a fleeting moment maybe an hour maybe a half an hour maybe five minutes maybe 60 seconds he creates a temporary tent he says I said let's be together now I want you I need you I want to embrace you I want to give you a hug he demolishes the tent next now I have an appointment and I got a run what are the two names Yaakov and you sir oh they represent these two types of Jews Yaakov comes from the word akin which means a heel you sir all is a combination of two words Lee Royce my head HF is the lowest part Russia's the highest part the name Yaakov was given to Yaakov because he was holding on to the heel of Asaph the yard though it has a cave Asaph who gives a child such a name imagine your child comes out holding on to the heel of his brother so you name him he'll I mean forgive me what would a therapist say when he grows up and says what's your name my name is he'll really why your parents named you a Kim heel because when I was born I was holding on to my brother's here it's not even your heel you're holding on to your brother's a wall there's an issue here the other houses Pacus butt shot is this was not stahma name it captures so much of the life of the person the other a fezzes bike a visa he's amassed entangled in a battle in a battle with ace it's a beautiful voice you sure human parshas told us asks the big question the great question it took wants to bless a so dis agrees or does she do she dresses up go give your father food behave as though you were his brother your brother a savants take the blessing and he does so alike my father will realize and he'll curse me they may so like Lola I like myself and when you took finds out by yet other Lamesa a number of here I want to ask you a question why couldn't risk it behave like every good Jewish wife from the beginning of time till today your husband makes a decision you know he's wrong so what do you do you start dressing up people you call him mini you say I have to talk to you he knows it's trouble I have to talk to you for three minutes he knows ok what did I do now you know that comes like a seven-year-old going to the principal's office he has this sheepish look you know that sheepish look when your wife calls you come upstairs for two minutes and he goes as you know he's ready to be expelled from your Shiva and he's thinking you know what was what now how do we get out of this one and she does good Jewish wife she says you're out for lunch you detached you have a columnist at home you don't know what's happening this is not the way it's gonna be done rift castor calling you to can say to me it's Kaka listen you're a good at holy Jew but you don't know your son Asaph he's a low-life in fact it just happened one generation ago of Rome wants Edgar assess all Missouri's lavash Bahamas a symphony music what did I shall tell him coilette America Irish mob Accola eleventh commandment of that Sarah sadness what every sorrow tells you listen and note the words whatever she says not just this smile Pacoima when Laird when Russell decided that Leia has to marry Akkad not not not her so she did what she did why couldn't if could : you'd suck and tell him the truth what's wrong why deceive your husband this way okay this is the great question that one of the great questions they do share in says I might add to cavort and parshas told us some what he says he says it's rifki was the matriarch of the jewish people and she knew that these broca's these blessings are you - Mahalo ke Matala Sammamish monoliths are the blessing that will define the unique destiny of the Jewish people for eternity but it's significant new one thing she knew the generations from now there will be two types of Jews there will be yokoi's who will be dressed like Yakko but she knew there will also be archives who will be dressed like ASA they will look like ASA they will speak they will feel like and the question was will they be part of this broth will they be part of this covenant she could have taken Yaakov and dressed him up like Yaakov and said go get the broker but then who would the brother be reserved for it would be reserved for the archives who look like Yakov rifka in her foresight wanted to accomplish something more and that is even the Yak life who on the outside he looks like a sub but on the inside he or she is still Yaakov they are also part of the Brock and for this rifki had to dress up Yaakov like a self so who was receiving the Brucker the person who bit Sonia says Asaph but on the inside as ya and with this risk is secured that throughout all of the generations every Jew that you meet even the Jew externally may look like a sub but internally there's a flame of Yaakov there and therefore he or she is part of that blessing part of that huge part of that experience part of that covenant that should assure him says the young peasants back a vase of he sometimes in messed and entangled with the heel of Asaph but still it's Yaakov in the ache of there's to the youth in the a curve although he may fall low although she may fall low to the abyss but in the ache of they're still the youth ache of Yaakov so even though it's a hazards by cave I saw this Jew maybe from frustration maybe from annoyance maybe in one moment will scream out and say Hashem I built a tent just for a few moments come in and now I'm going to demolish the tent my toy violently yaki the oil is built by Yaakov the other stresses about cabeza reminds me of the anecdote you have the stories of Sherlock Holmes and dr. Watson so Sherlock Holmes and the stories they today's go camping and he builds a tent they beta cap on the fly and they build a tent it's a beautiful bonfire and a beautiful tent and they're sleeping in the tent the middle of the night Sherlock turns to dr. Watson and they're short stories and he says dr. Watson what do you see when you look up he says I see the beautiful night I see the kingdom of night I see the formation of the stars I see the eloquence and the majesty of the constellations and he goes on to wax eloquently about the beauty of night and the beauty of heaven the middle of the night and then he turns to Sherlock Holmes and he says Sherlock what do you see he says I see that somebody stole our tent so everything has two perspectives right so you have the Jew you knows as their album says bar Vucetich Cataumet his relationship a sham is and then you have the I Alaska you know somebody stole somebody stole my tent he's involved in a world in aisle Amazo who stole my tent who stole this who stole that and I'm going to get it back then you have the Jew this is wrong easterlies Leroy he's not in meshed in the heel he doesn't fall down to the lowest part of his rep Nelson calls the ache of Malachi mother's Shahbuddin because the the the the the least vitality is in the heel we know the blood flow there is smaller the scant versus the entire body that's why people who have challenges with their blood for diabetics and so on and so forth the first place that gets affected is the foot so the officer up not an ache of his Malachi mother's Shabbat them here is not a Jew who goes down low and falls low and certainly not the other night has this bike a vase of the heel of Asaph lee rajesh he serese a Malik in a menage him about took home sir II saw you sir all from the word sire a prince a minister Mischka nice are you strong this is a different pin a different category it's the difference between the six days of the week on Shabbos it's what bilham says later lira oven be a claw he bit of envy akka a Valero normal be strong in Yakka if he did not find iniquity in you slowly didn't even find amo toil oven is not a question even Alma Masari Shabbos is a mini-game indicators what do we say altaira of the yeah Keith because Shabbos are Jews in the pin of Easter all the rice the head six days of the week he's in the plane of Yaakov Commons mid sorry Shabbos Dashami you say relieves and people with sorry Shabbos are often prone to despondency and rejection omit sorry Shabbos is an empty feeling some people think they can you know with pizza or bowling they're going to take it away but Sahel bobbum Isis because it's not the food it's not the pizza it's um it's re sharpest so we sing out you're going out to the HEV but don't be afraid don't fall apart even as we yeah kaholokula diary by eva goo boy my life really came even though it's reactive elekid Erica so we sell tear I've the archive that's the pin of Messiah Shabbos the six days of the week so my toy of oil a car the oil in my created by Yaakov Mishka nice after you sir all the Mishkan is created by you sir all comes bilham and takes a look at the Jewish people naturally you would think he would preface first the Easter all my toy boil FA Yaakov he gives preference and he says how goodly how gracious how unbelievable how beautiful of the tents created by Yaakov and then Myshkin SFA is wrong Latoya the order should be the exact opposite obviously there's a mile in you stall that doesn't exist in Yaakov obviously there's a superior quality in Michigan a circular doesn't exist in ayahuasca but nonetheless there is special my tofu in the oil fa Yaakov that has a mile a even relative to Y because the LFA Yaakov represents the Eternity of the spirit that represents the coal that never gets extinguished it represents the relationship that never dies they hold on to the flame even amidst the challenges of a cliff so there's a special quality about what's even more is the Yaakov Jew represents that Jew introduces the light of our M been welcomed harshest in a place of darkness when the meddra says in time homogeneously miss avocadoes very holy lady rabbit acronym who is the one who brings in the light of the ribbon asylum but acronym in a place of darkness it's the Yaakov Jew the souls who elevates himself or elevates herself to our oasis of light to a paradise of spirituality to an oasis of Tiran Nevada the Jews struggles with a Cuvaison who struggles with himself or herself with various conflicts and contrasts with various paradoxes and ups and downs and yet nonetheless nonetheless knows right now why Aleph a Yaakov right now I want a tent and I want to have you here so he brings in the light of M s in the place of darkness he creates this Hapuku Holly : IRA their scarf you see after the subduing of the darkness in the density of our maza bak a vase off he's dressed my case of but sometimes kuru big day and he tears open his clothes and he says i want to make him really Yaakov this has a special place my toy viola say Yaakov and that's why every morning we come in - Davin II the first say I think you say my favorite lease on the baal shem tov said that sometimes you have a jew and he was describing you know that drew was working hard he's slipped began to talk and he sees a few moments before she it's a few moments before sunset and he's completely overwhelmed with his work he's sweating he's exhausted a minister a minister and he runs into he runs into show he runs into shook and he's very very busy so he darvin's a minute and he that was it pretty swiftly but that moment he gives a sigh and he tears himself away from the hustle and the bustle and mr. Gaston and the rat race of oil um huzzah and he constructs for eight minutes a temporary going right back right back into the stressful world suck the Baal Shem Tov nobody could be metalia the Gordo Chanukah siroc nobody can describe they give all the cat I know the extraordinary pleasure that he creates love Miley creates in heaven from that temporary oil from that temporary that this Yakov who's the other hazards back evasive that he created nobody can't appreciate he says them I love him and thus rough him in heaven I'm economy are jealous of this type of emotional experience and the same is true so that when a person comes so there's two types of Jews a Jew you know his pace are still wet from the mikveh and and he's very been learning for a few hours and he's gonna learn afterwards is he's on fire he's on fire so this Mishra nice at least at all that's one drew but then there's another drew you know that he already had a hundred emails he already received one hundred emails this morning and most of them are not about you know something dummy or or a question the partial Sasha who and that headache and disappointment in that appointment just leave me alone for a few minutes but he looks down at himself or she looks down at herself within all the pressure to create that that that that corner that oh hell what is it worth so we begin no my toy boy LF a Yakov how godly how goodly are those I haul him of ya coins those special moments moments of truth moments of truth in a place of darkness as it says peacefully can who - almaty splat Satan you dish at the neighbors - dr. bill Manuel masa they still manage to finish me not a brienna finish minute songs i nor mine give me only five minutes give me only the point of a needle tiny me give me five minutes out of 24 hours but those five minutes should be mine exclusively i think a proper metaphor is in marriage better to speak to your wife five minutes a day without looking at your iphone in the middle of the conversation than to speak for two and a half hours but you're answering emails by shots mice this hula judicial market give me five minutes I know you're distracted but give me five minutes but those five minutes should be exclusively mine and when the after come to be special that's toil away akka there's a muscle for this that the ballot Anya gives in a different context he uses a marshal of a desert traveling the desert allow me the Liberty since we're in the 21st century to give a muscle but to give a muscle from an airplane I travel a lot so I always I'm astonished from a phenomenal thing I see on airplanes and that is Meal Time on airplanes ever saw Meal Time on airplanes here's a Jew that if his wife you'll forgive me Desura snow sure if his wife would serve him the food that they serve him on the airplane yeah well given Chaya I get the marriage wouldn't last Monday Thursday so Luna sauce oh yeah MonaVie yum commissioner they'd be in the Connors Ezra I mean let's face it the green beans are celebrating their Bar Mitzvah the rice is usually celebrating a BAS Mitzvah the chicken and the meat they're ready are in a mesh of skating half of it is frozen and I'm not going to describe the other features of the meal and it's aged now a Jew ordered a meal and they don't have it you ever saw they don't have his kosher meal it's not upset 21 hour flight to New Zealand it's a three-hour flight a 4-hour flight maybe even a 45-minute flight but they don't have his kosher meal he threatens to sue the company to bring down the plane no pun intended - to bring down the airlines - wait till I call my lawyer hi talking islands and this food you wouldn't feed it to your enemy but on the plane and then when he gets it when he gets it because his neighbor says you can have mine it's b'seder right it's a nut oil I feel asked Elif even if would be summits there's a shine there would be if it's if it's motor um when he gets it he Mumma shows the egg salad by shell should seem Amish finishes it octopus de Macarena so the last drop to drop last drop of my macro name and blood that's there so what's what's the psychology here what's the psychology I promise you in his own home he wouldn't look at it he was thrown in the garbage the shot is vulnerability when people are suspended 30,000 feet above the Pacific Ocean they don't have 19 restaurants across the street they can't call up a hundred stores in 20 minutes have a delivery they can go to their pantry refrigerator and freezer and warm themselves up a nice healthy or unhealthy piece of food they feel that vulnerability and when you feel that vulnerability where you don't have that security that confidence that wholesomeness so even those items that regularly are completely insignificant not only insignificant you would see them as as negative as that tremendo but here here the frozen horrific food becomes a soother slime Abishai time this Marshall is not my own this Marshall the ballot Anya brings in one of his my Mari Amanda Seyfried called us Alice large Nia about a person is traveling in a mid bar and there's no food so the little tiny morsel of food it's quite grotesque becomes extremely delicious and significant and he explains this is the my love eleska yeah cliff over Michigan is such a strong and that is in our world idealism is so precious it's so scant there's so much darkness there's so much struggle that a tipper a tea / an ounce of idealism an ounce of truth an ounce of purity a little bit of innocence a little bit of kedusha and para is more valuable than a su - lima be shy in Canadian and higher world there's so much Soviet I can eat a real sue - limb of a Shia but in our world even a meal like a plain meal become so significant than so valuable because Hashem looks around the world and he's looking for a tip of kedusha and when you have it you experience it the attachment the spiritual revolution the depth that it creates peril it transcends infinitely anything else and that's the difference between a soldier is a sacred creature he enters into heaven well yeah laughs hi Yakov never leaves earth but once in a while suspended in this dark planet of Earth he says are you left I want to build a tent so bill um this clear is the first thing my playboy I left he academic an association so in summation we have a the for Purusha in addition to the peerage opposite of sneers of modesty of minding your own business of not looking into other people's tense and not comparing yourself to other people and not the finding yourself based on other people there's the peerage of the magnet of them as rich people speak Toyota they're not out to provoke each other and contradict each other to be connected their outlet same shamaya there's the Peter chevre blossom everybody has their own door everybody has their own path everybody has their own window to heaven don't expect another window to be like your have your window it's supposed to be different windows and just because it's not your truth it doesn't mean it's not the truth of somebody else one person Davin's louder than one person valving is lo one person thousands fast at one person Davin's slow in the examples he gives and other examples and in many ways it parallels the first parish because it basically means that a louver a loo you have it in tired and you have it in a voice I am in Toyota that's what the misery term and it brings out not an avoider and then you have AB article of measure Busch who brings out in the a vom a miss fame he opens up a tiny door to judicial market Hashem opens capisco Lula and finally have the peers of the Baal Shem Tov so I think it's really should I am Shane are BA the first two and the second to go into two categories the first two about diversity between Jews how we have to be able to tolerate it and the second is the relationship between Hashem so the Baal Shem Tov says is the Jew of a lesser does the Jew of which connects essa so and here Balaam first and foremost celebrates that great contribution of a holiday Yaakov the Jew in the midst of all the stress says come my Shem I want to spend a few moments with you I'm bill them himself could not hold back and proclaims ah my toy boy lefty Occam's can a circle a stroller juice rest we're stops for five minutes 10 minutes 15 minutes to learn mm a minister that I've been a mite event for a few moments and I just want to connect with you I just want a moment of purity and bilham says my toy the way Aleph a yak of Michigan ASA [Music] you [Music]