How would you define intimacy?

If you feel that [music] you can be yourself in front of your spouse without having to edit [music] yourself. And that's a version of you that your spouse [music] embraces and likes. And you feel that your spouse [music] could be herself or himself without having to edit themselves. And that's a version of your spouse that you're comfortable with. You know that intimacy [music] has returned. And if you feel closer to being in that space you're on a pathway toward feeling deep intimacy.