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If you live for validation, you’ll die from rejection.
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Praise and criticism can both feel powerful. But when your self-worth depends on either, it becomes fragile. In this conversation, @natebuzz speaks about validation, identity, and the freedom that comes from no longer letting the world decide your value. Watch the Full Segment https://unitetoheal.com/courageinchaos
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I've had the opportunity to receive a
lot of fame, which the world values so
much, right? You're an influencer, you
have millions and millions of followers,
that must be an amazing feeling.
And one rule I made myself because I was
I grew up [music] with nothing and I had
no
no no exposure to this kind of world. I
always said to myself, if I ever got to
a place where I was influencing people,
I would never take it seriously.
And what I mean by that,
people can say
really really nice things about me, and
I'll appreciate [music] it, but I won't
take it as my value system. And I'll
tell you why I don't do that. Because if
I'm going to take the good compliments
[music] seriously, guess what else I
have to do?
Take the bad compliments, the criticism
seriously. So, when I remove both, then
I'm free from that world of does the
world like me? And a lot of people
they
they live for the validation of the
world, but they will ultimately die from
its rejection. Wow.
And so, when you let yourself go from
all that and say, that's my purpose is
him.