Is Hagomel Said? - Rabbi Yakjov Zev Smith

[Music] we like to welcome everyone to practical guide [Music] spor 718 851 8651 or email ist at.com Smith this past summer we had a two interesting shouts about someone one of the had a very severe allergic reaction and that they tried with the epip pen three times it didn't work until was able to stabilize it and they want to know about the GOL what's the guidelines when do you bench gol do you bench gol and then we had another story where someone was driving up to the mountains to the camp and people behind them were hunking I guess in New York you get immune to hunking so you kept on going but they kept on hunking incly and they started waving to him so he decided something wrong he pulled over to the side of the road got out of the car as soon as you got out of the car the car exploded the people behind them saw they were smoking the car smoking there something wrong but he didn't realize it so again the he was in a situation but he walked out heal you know nothing happened to him but maybe that that itself so what we need really for these shilas and many other shilas is we should try to find an accurate definition what exactly is the of when is there when is there of and we'll see probably two dozen Shas but I'll give you a few choices is is gol said when a person sees a Ness a miracle we like to associate is it a miracle has a some meaning you know your child say I it'll be a nest that I pass the test that's not what I mean in I mean a real Miracle Do you have to have a miracle or maybe it's maybe when a person sees he sees the as as as much as we could see it that would be enough be or maybe even not that much maybe simply a person experience an unusual I guess one of them the Amplified so let's see what we could do to find a definition so it's always the right thing when you have a look up the as much as give us let's try to extrapolate from [Applause] there unfortunately a very very brief very little gor about it but hopefully it's enough there are four categories that have to when he goes in he travels by ocean goes overseas he goes through a person was sick and he recovered and also a person was in jail now these four categories now we have to first clarify this are situations of a real Sak now probably today it's different but let me explain what it was in those days when you hear the word um traveling by sea so an hour mentality you picture a cruise a five star hotel on on a boat in a boat in those days being in a boat was a constant Sak theor learns the from the capital what is boat what is traveling by a boat we were tossing and turning in the in the in the ocean like a sh and what came out and then of course what is the end result of that so you have to realize we picture a boat a massive boat and where's comes to wor there's communication there's coast guards there's helicopters there's so many ways of of rescuing someone in those days he was at the mercy of the sea it was a storm there was a hurricane he hit something there was a boat a big whale hit the boat whatever it is but there was absolutely no way of Salvation he's alone out there in the in the ocean that was If he if there was a desert is is unusual there's no food or drink plus he's at the mercy of the element the animals the the the bandits how does a PK describe desert to again the third example is jail know today jail has become pretty comfortable but what did the P describ again [Applause] again those these three are real way the describes it wasn't the Min cold it was something that came came to the doorstep of of death itself and again so here we have the four situations of s what I'm to spoil about when you got a better Clarity which is important for this the pay Bays speaking about different types of people and the mishna says something that if you don't you're not learn it you wouldn't understand it so it sounds like camels most of them are there's no camel that's [Music] so we know it means it means a now the truth is to be called you should pay a million dollars the the highest level of Godless is a you learn if someone buries his fingernails he's aad if he burns them which is even better he's a the highest level of achievement in is a so why is a sailor a and what does it mean a g is so you have to look at rash is not g galum is donkeys gum is a donkey driver camel a camel driver why is a they're living in constant fear they're living in a in a state of and that a camel driver is in constant fear and he's living with constant and but a sa zashi is even more than that they go in other words he's living like the they're seeing the D on a on a constant basis jail always was a dangerous situation you know best described as we soon see today probably things are different you know my good friendman told me once you know his father had the bakery the Risman Bakery and his father once told him one of the Russian workers who was making the orders said he asked Mr Risman said I don't understand we're sending boxes and boxes of of of cookies to ja I Come From Russia you know jail was a oneway ticket you didn't get to eat okay but in those days it was so jail is a little of a suffix until further notice stay at a jail not sure the other people in the jail are dangerous so it depending discusses if if he's sitting because of if there's if there's a or not but the point is in those days these four were the ultimate s and that's why you'll understand that the tour and the tour finds a rem to the these four quotes it and mid you and the a different also one of it's the new in the old Prince and we'll soon see what I think is the significance of this but what's important to mention if you notice the we learn from a in this led the P at least to suggest and twice the beginning of and also that maybe has a din of term means it's not just not just me it's based on a like the based on the this is and in fact he says maybe you have to say it like question if it's really all the and the himself is seems to be that a we treat like whatever the reason is but it definitely has a source into in beginning of Alim writes that some people are because this but if you look at all these places say that is so we should definitely follow although it's not right okay now the big question is when is it so there's no doubt about it that the learns from four different categories now let's let's think of the following let's say someone was in a home that M he escaped M the greatest does he bench there's a fire in the house but it's not part of the four someone was held up by a gun is that is that one of the four not a midb y or jail so that we know two two not three here the says four and the says maybe it's only for nothing else not holdups and not fires and not falling from high places it's only what the gar says and the truth is we soon see from the that this is very understandable the says that's that's what the holds in the he says something beautiful these four things a person could convince himself no big deal it's natural that's why they da need a gol but more dangerous things maybe you don't need a gol but the end of the day the in the end of says that the of it doesn't say that that that's the minic that only these doid and nothing else the that is only if you one of these four however the he says because the but these were chosen because they were very close to Sak but who any situation that was close to Sak and we'll soon see the gives examples that a wall fell on top of him or he was attacked by a s don't forget you know we learned is dangerous so that's not one of the four but the says that's enough or a lion attacked him or attacked him or anything else and that's the that has to Ben now although the like I said is not and make only those four any don't change the so now we see for it's only these four and it's any situation of s I must mention before we apply this specifically there's a different Su which really is a sh for itself hopefully and that's the where the M says that if someone sees a place that a nest occurred to him he makes the now that's sounds the same you know will be a good example of it so today holding we make on why because the nest of of the was a a person can make both bras when someone has a nest and he survives then this G when he comes back to the place of the nest after 30 days and sees it again then he makes the and call when he sees the Mak of if this 30-day laps in between one visit and the other he makes the so that's one fundamental difference between the and but that a much bigger the you look at has three stories someone was attacked by a lion and somehow survived someone was in a place there was no water maybe a desert M she was about to die and all of a sudden a well appeared out of nowhere a Ness and the third story someone was being chased by a gum and and suddenly the wall of the house collapsed he ran in and he was saved because that's what that's what the is a a miracle for that and is the the goes back one of the in the is only a spectacular but St when someone was saved from an attack an animal attacked him but it wasn't as dangerous as that there's no the end of also says this you only make the but if it's not so you walk out and say nothing what do you say so that's the in fact the wonders why do we say so I told you not the it's the fact they found the that burned for so many days the nest of is two reasons first first of all the it never happened that in a king that made a retracted it there was never do what you want and here this happened and and also he says the fact that the king because of one wife allowed 880,000 of his people to get killed some people think the nest he listen to his wife in the first place but here he allowed 880,000 people to be killed so that's so when you're talking about has and this very important you know people wake they in the burning from home and they jump out of the window and they survive it's not like there something that spectacular but even though it's that requires a so now we see a very clear definition is doesn't need a what it does need is they had in fact says it even clearer it's enough that he was saved he talks about G that apprehended him doesn't have to be it has to be that it looked very serious and let me just tell you the words of the in beautiful insight and he's because it's a point we have to hear from time to time he says the biggest Nest is our survival in gas he says the he that in in that we went the and what what does that mean that means without the we wouldn't survive he says look at our history we went from Nest to Nest from from to from One S to the other survival in gas is a nest will daily living is also aness the eyes work and the Heart functions and the blood stream is running perfectly but that's there are two extremes there's AIG we got so used to it it doesn't even Inspire us anymore then there's the that we also got used to and everything in the in between is the potential go a person was in a again he was he was hit by a car and he doesn't know how he survived and he just broke a bone so it startles him you know the fact that your heart is working all these years is a biger Ness okay you got used to it I CL was a bigoness he got used to it but this woke him up and I guess that's the so I think the right word for is and that wakes us up to reality and you look at the and the examples are are very much appropriate the sh he was Wall fell on top of him he was saved from a sh that that was about a lion attacked him G him either held him up that those are cases of now let's apply this first of all unfortunately when you say we should let's be by talking should never happen to us so we'll say once and for all but I saw quotes both that a car was in a terrible accident there were four people two did not survive and two did survive and it wasn't they were hit in the front so the front people were killed it the car was smashed total it's a nest any body walked out alive two people didn't so both ra and pasin that the two survivors if they realize that if they saw this as a situation they certainly make a and also if there's no way to explain how two perished and two walked out unhe hurt there's something very Nest about it so that's what they P now a regular typical accident again would be a case of going for now unless of course a fender bender like they say you know especially in the city you know to go past a certain speed limit so if it was then there's no question of but I'm talking about regular normal highway speed you'll say where is it in well they didn't have cause but and a car accident is more dangerous we hear about terrorist attacks so that's any ugly form of of of the Arab terrorist shooting bomb suicide but a person's a victim so it's at least what the says and that would be a case of now if it was a real disaster scene I I saw the sh also zin the where a there was a missile that had a direct hit on someone's home and total the house so right away the rescue workers went in to find bodies and they found the whole family alive there was somehow in the basement like a whole one of these like it's not even explainable how they survived so that's not it should have could have that the house was totaled so he felt besides G there would also be a Cas now usually is definitely required it has to be that see the Y you see the miracle of the Yem the next a person was held up and unfortunately this happens a gunpoint money like they say so this is the case of of the although it's not in the and we like the like like that wouldn't be but and I saw also said this even if you gave him the money and he didn't shoot but sometimes they get very upset you know you gave them a very Meek they don't they don't like your donation St they get angry a guy with a gun is dangerous so even if Lisa hold give money your life you gave him the money and they ran away but that's standing face to face with a gun is was a young going living in bar going to around 7:00 in the morning and I was going with is but this is about 45 years ago there was no and that was a very great and a great came over to me and I didn't to know him so I started going very fast he goes don't run I have a gun and this is 7:00 in the morning there was no yiden inside there was nothing inside and he and I realized he's dangerous so I decided I don't know what to do so I just stayed there and he started talk to me and he's venting how he hates Arabs and he this he was totally drugged up very dangerous and then he said okay goodbye cousin so I I denounced my relationship with him right since I left but he was standing with a gun holding a gun totally deranged so told me how do you have to so these type of things again even if nothing he didn't shoot and he missed but is standing with a person that with a gun is dangerous question a person woke up in the morning we just heard and his house was ransacked it was during the summer so the windows were open and he doesn't he didn't hear anybody he know he slept through the whole Gena but you know people came and they took what they wanted to take so that already could be a stickle of a sopic you see a window open and you know it could be a neighbor child a guy that Tred to make a few dollars maybe he's getting training you know big but if he didn't see a g he wasn't held up so again he might have woken up there would have been a gun but you don't even knowa in also says if it just was neighborhood kids that they're looking to make a few dollars so it's not that it was a so again unless the person knows that it was a real so this would be you thank every day have that in mind we saw the someone was sitting in a bus and somehow he discovered that there's a bomb s the bomb right under his seat so they quickly called the um the experts and of course they dismantle the bomb but the Pim say being in a bus but especially sitting on top of a bomb is a m it didn't go off it still it was going to go off first in a few minutes so first of all you know who knows maybe it would malfunction go off earlier but this they P up as a this I saw a true was written even if it's supposed to go off an hour later but bombs are not typically very punctual the truth is today probably it's more efficient so I'm not sure but no doubt about it being in a place where it could have gone off is Sak and I saw a beautiful Riot to this because one of the case that we say every is why because when did the letters go out the to allow us to fight back n months before the we're making said the reason why make that the king sent the that was n months before the S so's final insight that's why even though the bomb didn't go off yet but that would be a now a person was driving in a one of the these these outskirts of of the of the yes he made a wrong turn ended up in an Arab Village that's a there are terrible stories that people never come came out alive swore to me I couldn't believe it but he said he was mountain climbing and he slid down 30 ft says really you still alive you know 10 10 says regarding a it's 30t I said how' that happen go I don't know I was sliding down a mountain so I told him if you if you're accurate then you should maybe 30 ft steep Mountain but definitely that would be a g for sure the that he says also when someone fell from a high high a high height and that would be a case of the close that I found was we also speaks about falling from a ladder you have to realize he was a it's only so for him it wasn't more much more of a question but for us this would be a case of a person almost drowned this we also hear from time to time so the has a different not that he was about to drown and the life God saved him he was going like an they go on the yam the in the close to the ocean and he somehow ended up too far from from Shore and there were terrible waves and imish could not swim and he was struggling and struggling almost gave up the last minute he gathered all his strength and he somehow swam back even though he did not swim well he ended up back at Shore so says even though he' been drowned of course but the fact is that he uses that's also a the fact that he had the the the drive and the energy to to save himself that would be a case of now here too we would add said this wouldn't Ben in that case because it's not part of the but I did see in beautiful discussion about page 91 he throws out a that maybe when a person is in a regular pool and there's a life got on duty so maybe it's never a mat Sak because there's a Sak of drowning but there's always a mat but the he quotes that rejects that and I think I know why I'm in a camp long enough life Gods work very hard there's a big camp and boys are constantly making noise and boys B you know it's very possible you don't see what's going on you don't have that many eyes and then one boys is making trouble you're running after him it's a bedum situation so although there's a mat on premises but sometimes he's not aware of what's going on a person's under waterer he doesn't see so if was drowning I think that's the right even if his life got on duty a should be said this following story I know from the person z a wonderful a y that never was late in his life he he couldn't come late even if he tried that a very punctual person but it was one Tuesday morning and kadara he was by got on the train he was close to his work he got off the train it was right little around 8:00 on Tuesday morning and then he that something never happened him happened to him he never missed marra on chabas chabas there was an Sunday Monday it was Tuesday morning he wasn't here marra and to him it was like a terrible thing so he told him I'm not going to work until I MRA I'm not going anybody so he sat down in the bench in the train station and M said and a little while later he heard a most horrific sound and this Tuesday morning was 911 he worked in the upper floors there was no way in the world that he would have survived had he been there and he should have been there he supposed to been there and he could have would have and should have been there but only because I guess saved his life even though this time was a little late but he was and the question is unusual again he never comes late in fact he wasn't late today either pun he decided to have said there not in the office like what's the difference does he Ben does make so I think everybody in his life either him or family or neighbor has a similar story D 911 you're almost you would have you should have you never happened and they almost got hit a whole whole host of stories about the almost in other words it's that doesn't make sense why I punked I didn't go I did go so it comes to mind which is the right answer the learns the says that I praise you that you get angry at me what does that mean there's a person actually two people says one people going on business it was supposed to be a very lucrative offer and they had to catch a boat that's the way they traveled and this was going to be a big opportunity of prophit one of them got a a thorn in his foot K's barag glove and couldn't go he got he needed the immediate Medical Care and he missed the boat literally and he was all upset until he heard days later that the boat the boat capsized and there were no survivors in those days took took days to find it out today a moment later and then instead of in other words life is all about even and even if we don't see it because we're very nearsighted but theam sees the future and even though it looks bad but we thank Hashem but here's the here's the question what does mean does not mean and that's why that in all the previous cases that we mentioned ofl he was in a mat of s a burning house a crash in jail midb y here I would put it very bluntly he was saved from a but he's never a Conor sitting on a bench there's no way he would have been hurt from the the collapse of the World Trade Center they say a story supposed to be a true story someone came to a b he was driving West and he has asked to Ben because why because had he been driving east at the time there was a piece of big boulder that fell from a big truck and had he been going east M was parallel to him it would have hit him so he's going west he okay but had he going east it would have hit him so big asked him did you did your wife wash your shirts this week goes yeah said did you bench gol goes why should I bench G goes had you been in your shirts when your wife wash your shirt you would be in trouble that's the way you put it you know had it been going the other way that would be a case of go but it's not a case of go why because he was going in the right direction so this is the point that we have to understand that the fact that something could have happened would have happened should have happened if there was no imminent then there is no but what's beautiful and that really is the of this the gra towards the beginning of it's a big long stickle but towards the beginning it's required reading to understand the and he says why is it AR have was not a but it seems he went with the manying of only those four and he points out something moric I can't give a better a better a better thanal he says you think about it these four are unique they are ultimate sakas aidb is a place that is lacking basic necessities there's no water and there's no food yam is the most deadly natural force the waves and your mercy of the sea is's no could be has everything he's an intensive care unit he has any food he wants he has all the care but there's something internally that's destroying him that's eating him up alive what is B him could be has food he's not sick there's no waves but he is under control of someone else that could shoot him could kill him could starve him could do what he wants midbar he's lacking basic necessities y dangerous situation he has everything but there's a and Ja he doesn't have himself and that's why these four and then he adds and there some people have this Mish when an Evan fell close to them they why maybe would hit me he says that's wrong that's because he wasn't it could have happened would have happened doesn't make a is says the same thing and there he's a little more critical he says these people that that that do this that that make a on that situation is it's only now although is not really he's going with the but the attitude is important what could have happened should have happened that's it's only in that's when said wait it's not 9 no no no get that no he doesn't now if you really want there about to say the is now there is he goes even even like I should say but there has to be a and he says a bit of a he said this goes back 350 years ago that it was he has the whole details when it was shabis and whose house he was leaving and it go through a stone in him hit him in the eye and he wasn't even but it could have been worse he Ben and after shabas he had it wasn't Sak it could have been but it wasn't now here it is a little said hit him in the eye so that's already a contact it's not that it could have would have should have but this what he says this a is only when it actually hit him now there is a famous I must mention and he says that when a stone fell next to you it's not an S so he's already going now like and I like but I did find a host of that discuss particular sh and I'm going to mention them they're all and we see clearly that we don't pass like this he says is when a person was but if someone threw something and it was off Target it missed it didn't hit him there's noash and was also discusses this child and it is a crash that almost was fatal that's not going if it was Tak could have been if taka was a real crash that could have been fatal but that what could have been is not say clearly is correct zilberstein also discusses some during the Gulf War a missile hit that could have hit his house but it didn't hit his house so thank that's not this puts it very clearly so maybe you'll say it's but not missiles that almost hit him all these things one thing I should add the end of he says gives a m he quotes they shattered him at missed he says maybe that would be a g if they shoted him and it was totally they looked at him and they turned the other way okay then's no but if they shot and they missed that's a that's that's the case of they so he thinks even they shot in a different direction but if they shoot at someone even if they missed that would be a g we could say this but P you know we all saw heard of a nest there was a terrorist came to and they about to open fire and and the gun didn't work now I didn't see it but told me that hour Camp they showed they had from the security cameras they took off a clipping of this and the most they say the most amazing thing you have Arabs as frustrated as can be about they have a they have they have a machine gun probably worse than a machine gun and they have victim's Galore and just didn't go they were so frustrated so that is more than 9/11 because here you have that came to shoot and the gun didn't work maybe you want to make but definitely that would be of so just asked me he was Outdoors during the summer and he's playing ball in the backyard and he moved away 2 feet for some reason and an air conditioner Came Crashing Down four stories from above four floors so that is but that is almost would have could have should have and thank every moment but that's not going question some was in an accident terrible accident and he was saved by his airbag I says no you Sav by because the airbag doesn't always work and sometimes it makes it worse so that is a he wasn't sa by the airbag he was say no doubt about that sometimes it it doesn't open sometimes it makes it worse now a person fell asleep at the wheel so my first point that should never do that you know I was driving was on driving me and sudden he pulled over to the stop goes re could you drive please I said yeah Bo I'm getting tired I don't want to drive so when someone's tired pull over and either take a rest or get someone else it's dangerous I'm not condoning this but lay say someone fell asleep at the wheel he turned this way and turn almost and he woke up the second he stand on the brakes was the last second saying should not get there okay good point good pointa this concept of falling asleep with the wheel if L he woke up and he didn't hit anybody that would be like the would have could have should have it's not as as simple as a fender bender but again if people NE do this sometimes this would not be a he has a where someone was walking carelessly and someone was driving carelessly and the last second he slammed on the brakes he could have hit him and nothing happened so he says Thea there was no contact and he says another which is interesting he says when when when when the was sa by someone that's a that's in control could be it's not such a not such a gble candidate someone's driving and he saw him and he slammed in the breaks so for to save him maybe that would need a okay on that but that's what he wants to say but one thing I will tell you and this is 23 and once mentioned this in a share the old building where some he lost control of the car glitch he writes and he spun out of control went into the other ongoing traffic the other way somehow spun around anded a back going the right direction and continue going says was there any crash no don't B he came over and he says I was the person that asked and he told me the story andu said told you hear what he said he went in the ongoing traffic and spun back into go if there was no contact there's no go and you look at where has a bunch of other examples there that the of a car is if there was a crash now over the years I've heard time people asking buta going into ongoing traffic you know you're just going in the coming the other way but that's wherea held I would hear that some would say but that's that itself that he he says clearly this that if a person STS himself out of trouble that would not need a people are driving mountains sudden a deer appears and he stares correctly so that's would have could have should have which is a even though he went into the ongoing traffic suddenly a car appears and there are loads of cars coming P there was a nest there was no cars at that moment a person was in a home and escaped from a burning house so really it depends on the msus you know some happens that the fire starts he tries to put out the fire and doesn't go so he runs out but he never in imminent danger he just walked he could have walked out sometimes a person wakes up and then there's a fire burning he doesn't know how to go where to go and he has to run through smoke that's a now I he didn't get burnt at all and there's no smoke inhilation that's part of the he was in a now it's very hard to give but some a fire in one side of the house and he's in the other side of the house and he walks out safely see it's hard to pick it exactly what he's talking about he and maybe he Le and how windy it was and in a situation where people are sleeping it's a bigger Sak so there are different factors and a person has to try to assess the situation but definitely wake him middle night there's a fire all over and he runs out now the same thing people have a gas leak at home which of course is dangerous for the carbon oxide poisoning so a person woke wake woke up and already he starts feeling nauseous and he feels dizzy and he runs out that's G because he already it affected him if someone woke up in the middle of the night and punked he went to the bathroom and he went to the kitchen watch and he smells smoke he goes oh this is terrible and he wakes up his family and he runs out so that was not yet for the family so I'm being vague because it really depends on the variables that's why laa a person has to know the situation but if it's definitely such a m when there's when there's a fire burning or there was there was carbonox all over the house and he already was feeling the effects of it that's a and is definitely required now unfortunately a lot has been written after the Maron tragedy where many people lost their lives and many people were saved they were stepped on they were on the bottom of the pile the same where there also was a major Stampede and two people were killed but the same if someone was part of the the body of people that were laying on top of the the other he wasn't a if someone was about to leave and decided to stay for another so that's that's ER today has these various forms of gol again with bombing and shootings but the has to be if there's a m s a person benches gol and if it's really a spectacular Nest you could even make the some almost choking on food bone or whatever food stuck in his throat so someone was there and saved his life and administered that so that's if that not for that person he would have been gone and not that he could have died he he already had the problem within if someone wasn't the Sak it was just something bone stuck but it wasn't Sak you have to go to the doctor to take it out obviously that would be a case where it's not a this I guess is is no longer unless to a minute amount of people people that live through the death camps that's the right word to call them so when they survived they made the of but I saw a beautiful CH in he says those that survived would also make a when they if they revisit the camps because he said to be in a place that the the whole Mo the whole goal was that shouldn't be a Survivor it was called death camps for a reason and the fact is that such a small minority survived is not just is now the question of making after on surgery is really a share for itself which I wasn't planning on doing today because it really needs a share for itself but one point I think we have to mention and that is that a person that that was very sick she was and is a nest that he survived so he makes a when we'll leave for a different time but what's important ra no one else said it him but I think that's that's the he says a person that survived or a surgery does not make a because is that's dist stress that's why it's different than goo so he says surviving there not there's no m not the hospital that save you it's not your house maybe probably to but it's hard is a so he says that even if there was a a a tremendous yesu said but there is no now of course when to Ben at what point when he's completely recovered when he's back a little bit back to himself that's part of different but what's also noteworthy that's the meaning of this ISS even if it was that's not if he had to get into bed he was enough he would Ben this is not worthy that the and when it comes to is only nothing else the say any when it comes to says even and only probably that but one thing is clear for is only when it was a and this is a point that needs clarification person on not feeling well and they call you Call Comes he's okay he'll be okay and they diagnose it whatever it is but it's okay so now do you bch because call that and you that was the answer is don't worry there was no but you can't make a based on on calling so if the member says listen I know this situation well and we got you know he's fine we didn't save his life we we assessing it it's not a it's a by S so this is an important point the fact that you that you should call does that mean you make a g once he's okay why do I stress this the child that I saw this B had a very very severe allergic reaction and if you know little there's an EpiPen that they inject something that gets him out of it but you but person can't breathe three times he tried it didn't go and they called and he asked I says I don't know let me speak to the we have hour campus and he says I was there I know about this he was never in Sak it's hard to breathe it's it's scary it's frightening I should say but he wasn't in Sak so now 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