Jewish Nofap (Jewish Semen Retention) Unleash your Super Power

they they just became giant leap our falinda vidual x' and we got to see the before and after [Music] gentleman welcome to practical spirituality here in Asia tour in the old city of jerusalem overlooking the western wall today we're discussing the no-fat movement and the no-fat movement has to do with with men and women but specifically men who are working on conserving their seed that's a very rabbinical way of saying you know take a cold shower basically and and it this is a you know something that's part of ancient Jewish tradition and it's also part of ancient Chinese medicine the ancient Chinese medicine always says to conserve the seed and even in even I mean the ancient Chinese go further than the Jews on the extremities of this and that they say even married couples while involved in relations they should also conserve their seed that the men should conserve their season and that's not Judaism Judaism says you know definitely when in in relations with one spouse they should they should definitely not be conserving their seed in that particular situation but what's it all about and the answer is it's all about personal strength and we have a mission in the peer calvess that talks about this kind of personal power and that's the famous line Aiza who he bore who is the strong man and the answer is a koi fishes s it's right someone who is able to subdue or conquer his his base desire a person who can conquer his base desire that's the strong man yeah that's what makes you strong and that's very interesting to note because often we look at powerful people as kind of gluttonous you know like you know when you're powerful you get to do whatever you want whenever you want to do it that's the way most people look at power the more powerful you are the more free you are to to act according to your whim well well Judaism definitely does not believe that and as I said in ancient Chinese medicine doesn't and probably most spiritual traditions I'm sure in India also believe that abstinence is power and and the the more you abstain from things the the more power you get and I have watched this over the years because I've been I'm now here 20 I'm 28 years here and I'm receiving all these 28 years secular men to the yeshiva here because we have a study hall where men will study for many years and develop themselves you know as Jewish men we're not raised observant and these secular men they come in and they some of them are strong and some of them are many physically strong and some of them are very wealthy people and some of them have great academic careers behind them and and some of them are big business people and that some of these guys are quite accomplished but what they all are quite weak in this particular category because you know they're from a society and Western society that says that you know basically that sexual expression is good no matter what you know no matter what even if one's by themselves and the and of course this was a whole coming out from the thumb of the dark' in the church and God knows what they wear they they you know had to liberate them what they had to liberate themselves from but here's the interesting thing is like Who am I to call them weak and the answer is well let me tell you why I would call them weakest because when they started hearing about the fact that that that in Judaism we say abstain and we also have a famous saying that it's one it's the only animal that the more you feed it the hungry it gets and the more you leave it alone the more it leaves you alone which is also a very interesting fact that that when someone feeds that animal it just gets hungry and hungry which which is very interesting where is the more you you abstain from it the more it just becomes a side point now but who am I to say that these guys were weak and the answer is because they became so powerful is the ones and you can almost like it was almost like a line in the sand between those who succeeded because I'll tell you the truth just to stay in from a secular background to stay in this environment in Jerusalem in a study hall and you're like a little baby you know you barely can do the language if at all you don't know how to learn the Talmudic law which is what everyone's doing you know and you certainly don't have any muscles for keeping the Sabbath or a kosher food dietary laws etc it's gonna take strength it's gonna take massive strength but here's the interesting thing is you could like literally separate the men from the children the men from the boys by the men who took on to not spill seed those men who took on to not spill seed are the ones who were much more likely at a direct correlation to being able to withstand through the tribulations of becoming observant which was like you know very daunting and and a mountain to climb like any other mountain like its Everest to become observant and but the ones who were good at refraining who took unto refrain from spilling of seed had a much more likelihood of sticking it out than the men who would come up to me as a rabbi I'd just say rabba it's just too hard sorry to use that term and it's and they would eventually crash they all wound up crashing and leaving and I would sometimes get to meet them on their way out of you know this institution a chador and I I would say to them like where you going and he's like I'm out of here you know there was no convincing him back and you know and of course I'd been his you know helping him with his struggles with you know with what we call schmira de bris I'm keeping the that's what we call it the keeping of the Covenant because the this the covenant with God is the circumcision and so and so the so in or guarding start guarding the Covenant so I knew his struggles so I said to the guy like so least stay in yeshiva keep learning Terra and and you're like don't worry about it you know like okay so you're bad at one thing one thing you weren't able to do you didn't have the strength but do everything else no long and amazing the power that ignited in who you would consider pretty powerful people from their successful backgrounds but when they took on to guard this the Covenant when they took on the you know as they call it today the nofap movement when they took on the the Jerusalem style no fact movement they they just became giant leap our falinda vidual and we got to see the before and after so we saw these men because these boys become powerful men and they really became powerful men well it's very easy to see that on a you know just on a pie-chart how it creates power and that's not hard to do because because if you look at if you look at the mental real estate of a person you know if you look at your mental real estate so it's obviously gonna get divided up you know by various things the kids divide it up and quite more than those slides I mean I don't know how many slices that is ten slices maybe nine slices we're way more divided up in our mental real estate than nine slices but those are your slices but if you ask I once asked to add a group of kids here University and I asked them leave that how many slices would you put your sexuality as far as taking a mental real estate so one girl razor and a whole chart another guy raised its a nice day well you can leave one triangle out because I'm an athlete so that slice to anything I guess you if you don't have power over that you're not powerful you're just not powerful and and when you get your life together and take your life into your own hands okay I also know no pun intended you take your life in your own hands and take control over yourself what happens when you take control over yourself is you get your son oh me if you enjoyed watching this well watch some more send it click it forward it join it subscribe to it you know keep coming on in joining me in this amazing movement to make a big difference in the world and the biggest thing you can do of all is to join the yom tov 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