Jews For Sale! - MUSSAR Pirkei Avot (70)

[Music] to be here today must mean that you have many merits this group has many merits because as of uh just a couple of hours ago I was I didn't have a voice at all nothing a voice when I would try to talk I had uh I sounded like uh robot like robot robot will be an upgrade I sounded like a screaming little baby uh and uh felt terrible but apparently Hashem wanted to uh have this shoe and also uh Naomi she said only a few people are repat and I'm not sure if they're going to come usually we have Fidel and Olga and many other people come and you know uh today only a few people RSVP so I and then on top of it the uh yet had a full-blown attack on our email system uh the had a full-blown attack quiet attack it's like a sniper you don't even know he's there on our email system the entire BM email system system has been down for the last 24 hours and uh I've been so having a little bit of a tun today so I didn't even look at my email today I look at my email say there's no new emails it's impossible in my life it's not possible not to have uh new emails so I know immediately is something wrong which means that a bunch of people that rsvped got uh rejected but uh I got somehow your email actually snuck in there you're the only email got today it worked for about literally 30 seconds your email went through after that stopped working again but the rest of it before and after nothing so so we thought about canceling but then we thought about what the Torah says uh about someone that gets in the way of Torah in the um it talks about the clot talks about the curses this all the different curses in the tor one of the curses we went over in the past is someone that uh gets in the way of tah getting in the way of tah also means canceling sh T now why is canceling a t such a horrible horrible thing I mean sometimes people get sick sometimes people get busy sometimes people have stuff to do but if you have a shi kava you already made a schedule you already have something canceling it is a big deal why is it a big deal especially when it's a like this the reason why it's a big deal is because every sh T is considered like it's somebody here or somebody in the crowd that's watching online there's many thousands of people watch online live and afterwards needs to watch the sh may be somebody somebody it could be hundreds of people something that's going to happen in this sh is GNA affect certain people in a certain way that's like catching the guy before he jumps off the bridge so now what is it like I called my RAV everything I ask my RAV everything I'm much everything so I call my RAV he starts laughing in the beginning goes oh you sound like uh you know really scary with your voice so if so if my uh if my voice fluctuates during this lecture don't make fun of me it's not nice so you already made fun of me I already got T from him goes oh you sound really scary with this voice of yours which right now it's going back to it as you can see yeah started during the lecture last night so he says you sound really scary um I said no so can I cancel the lecture I feel terrible I'm sneezing I'm coughing I'm this I'm this my eye is over here my face is over there feel terrible he goes yeah he goes no problem just imagine this if somebody somebody was uh on the corner and they're asking for a ride they have two options one option is you give them a ride but you're really busy you have to go somewhere or you don't feel good you have a cold the other one is a Nazi taking them to a concentration camp are you still busy are you still considering ing how busy you are and how sick you are and how everything understand the problem is when we learn about 13 principles of faith we talked about last night and we know that one of them is that we know and attest and admit and welcome and accept the fact that there is and there's reward and Punishment and anyone to learn a little bit about the punishment whether it be from the five books of Moses or you go from whether it be books like there's many many different places you could learn about what kind of punishment a sinner against hem gets what kind of punishment he gets Ina not just this world buta it's very very scary it's very scary to such an extent that if you read just the first couple of pages of you immediately get if you didn't have until then you have it's very scary and we're not even talking about the details just just the fact that there is a there is someone responsible for punishing you I'm not talking about the details of what they do and all that stuff forget about that stuff that's already a different world not talking about that I'm talking about that there's actually angels that Hashem created like the angel Duma his only job is to punish you that's it the fact that there's an angel giant full of eyes full of this like something you can't even there someone responsible for punishing that's already scary enough you don't need to know the details what he does how he does people want me to do a g you don't need you don't need you don't need that stuff so now you have Kad hasem loves them it's a firstborn child chosen people many of them don't know that there's a price to pay for being a chosen people you have to do something about it so they go and they waste their lives chasing money chasing women chasing different types of desires now realizing that while they're chasing their desires they're also chasing away they're also chasing away the they're also chasing away any possibility of them having a gooda so when you have it the Merit to be the one that could possibly give them a hand to get them out of the gome they're building for themselves it's a very big responsibility you can't take it lightly one word you say can M change somebody from jumping off a bridge or not so it's not a uh the uh Grand type of uh show where you get Oscars and uh you get standing ovations this is mamash saving so now the good news is is that you can be a little selfish you can be a little selfish and you can't ask foray you can ask for special help one of the special because hm gives special deals to people that do people that to go help people do Chua now there's a there's there's someone that does kiru and there's someone that does K meaning there's a lot of people in the kiru world if you will people that say oh yeah you do kiru I do kiru too what do you do kiru oh I give CDs out how often do you give CDs out every day every week every month no I have like 30 CDs in my house and every time a friend comes over I give him a CD okay fine that's kiru you want to call kiru it's fine K but then there's these they continue ordering CDs sometimes they don't have any money so give it to them for free and what do they do they go door to door they put it in people's mailboxes they put in people's doors on a daily basis on a weekly basis it's part of their life that's kiru and somebody says listen yeah every time I watch a I spread it I share it on my Facebook page how often is that I don't know once a week once every couple of weeks okay that's k k but then is they do anywhere from 15 to 60 different posts per day each post goes into tens tens of groups hundreds of thousands of people get our shim every single day hundreds of thousands of people get our shim every single day the short clips the long Clips what do they do they take time out of their life they take an hour take two hours take five hours whatever they have extra time they can go hang out time they could do a bunch of other things what do they do they go take the shim and they start spreading them for free no pay volunteers is my C that's okay the other guy that shared the video that he saw once a week okay it's fine it's not a bad thing but there's kiru and there's kiru then you have a guy that gives Shing once in a while and he gets a lot of people get 100 200 300 people sometimes you see some of these uh lecturers they look like models this guy just came out of a Vogue magazine fixed the beard all nice the hat is all Street clean just came out of the shop the suit tailed specially fit everything wow the guy speaks with M perfect English you feel like a professor is talking to you there's a uh presentation in the background and you know it's like it's like one of those TED Talks you ever see a TED Talk they press a button and a picture changes you know PowerPoint presentations oh Hashem created the world picture of the sky oh there was no picture of some t or something you know I show you pictures illustration you got 500 people in the crowd at the end of the lecture somebody raises money who wants to donate to our wonderful causes we save the whales we save the uh the the Sheep we shave the elephants sometimes we save people every lecture 40 50 $60,000 they raise no problem AB enjoy how many people do CH how many people 500 people showed up how many people actually go from talk about CH the guy kept Shabbat once in his life that plenty plenty of people say you know what this Shabbat I'm going to keep why I don't know I got motivated talk about that that we have plenty that's not CH somebody decid you know what today I'm G to do huge but it's not chah so somebody goes to you he watches the guy that looks like a model from Vogue magazine watches him for two hours an hour and a half whatever it is watches the other guy that raises money for another hour and a half he's there for 3 hours he says all right tomorrow I'm going to do tomorrow I'm gonna order kosher from some kosher restaurant this week I'm gonna read tailing once a day next week I'm gonna do a month later I'm gonna do but learning to every day come relax I just relax Rabbi relax what do why I look like to you still has an earring here here here and here and sometimes over be there still has earrings everywhere learned to we did come on Shabbat ah Shabbat is my best day of work Shabbat is when I sell the most amount of cars Shabbat is when I make all my deals Shabbat is when I go to the casino put 50,000 on a table Tex hold them you give that up Rabbi I Look to You don't be so yeah you got a lot of people how many people do chva for these C professionals unfortunately not many not many this is not an insult this is a reality you could ask them they'll tell you the same thing to go from G to ganed doesn't happen overnight doesn't happen from one lecture doesn't happen from one video it's followup appointments and then followup questions and then follow up medicine that's custom made for each and every single person it's a permanent lifelong rehab very good analogy and that takes time and it takes veins of Steel and the reason why is serious like V was saying serious amuna in hasem because when you tell people the truth the truth hurts 99% of the time the truth hurts if I tell somebody listen you're great Shabbat you're amazing it's the even you're the most generous guy I know but as a husband you're filthy human being you your little ham ham was better than you was nice to his wife actually he was nice to his wife man yes according to he was nice to his wife you didn't yell at her but you have many Jews not yelling at their wives they beat them up why because the food was cold when they got home the food was cold food was don't make sure it's hot next time there's a lot of that think they're religious sometimes they're black and white sometimes their beards reach the floor sometimes they look regular whatever it is but chuva they haven't done yet even if they were born religious because no one actually told them you actually need to do chuva and the reason why is because to tell somebody you have to do chuva and tell them what's really wrong with them that they don't know how to be a parent they don't know how to be a husband they're cheap they're this they're you tell them about their bad midot their bad character traits in your own Innovative way you don't necessarily need to do it in an insulting way but you have to tell them to tell them that means automatically there's a at least a 90% chance you're going to become an enemy why says no one sees the wrong in themselves 16 no one sees the wrong in themselves meaning the guy could be looking at the mirror and he has holes in his arms his eyes falling out and everything else and he just what does he see he sees the three four five people behind them that are wearing shorts he's like hey it's B you shouldn't wear shorts he doesn't notice the fact that his eyes falling his arm is missing he doesn't feel he does doesn't notice that he looks like a zombie he noticed the other guy is not wearing a big keeper oh what is that what is that is that a black keeper no it's it's not black keeper that's a white keeper we don't wear white Keepers in our communities that's what you worried about the black keeper the white keeper what about the inside keeper what about the inside so to really tell people the truth hurts and it's a necessary job and until these uh maybe uh the early 1900s even late 1800s there used to be Bal those Bal mus that used to go from town to town and their job was to rebuke the people that was their job wasn't to tell people hey you have wow you got come wow nothing they came they heard somebody says listen this Ki in this community they're getting weaker what good put the suitcase that's it like Men In Black they go to the community what are you doing you know you're going against hem he gave you food he gave you this you know what's happened to us in mikdash but now after someone like I've been telling you about the last couple of weeks people knew this guy is this guy is of his generation rebuke rebuke everybody leaves this lecture crying people are not coming out oh wow it's such a powerful lecture I feel so strong no everybody's crying tears they realize how much is wrong with them So eventually people say I don't no he's I'm not going I'm not going come to lecture I'm not going you last time he got 500 people this time five people want to show up five people send the RSVP so what does he do he used to say he used to be clever no no no this time I'm going to show you how a Jew can marry two wives cu the outlawed it used you know um polygamy according to the Torah is allowed meaning marrying more than one wife as long as the original wife allows it allowed no a thousand years ago outlawed it why he says that at this stage already a thousand years ago today thousand years ago he says anyone marries more than one wife he's not doing it for the biblical reason he's not doing it because the Torah says Bo make me no he's doing it because he's got a sick mind he wants multiple people he wants to do crazy things he's not doing it for Kusa not allowed iow it not allowed there's only very very few communities like in Yemen and deep parts of Morocco that pretty much don't even have electricity in many of the cases they've completely are you know third world countries pretty much certain sections of them not all of them obviously certain sections of them are still third world countries they haven't Advanced so the people there are still holding by the Torah but the 99% of the rest of the world has has advanced and just like their technology advanced the advanced they're not allowed Safari Eskenazi whatever you are not allowed so said I could show you how you could actually marry two wives ago this is L 200 years ago everybody how many people show up a thousand people show up a thousand a thousand people show up the 500 men 500 women why the women are saying how how is he going to break the law how is this Rabbi going to go against my so he gives him three hours of mus giving him it on the head this is what you think to do you go against AEM this what happened and the last five minutes and by the way you can marry two women if you're one of those couple K that still has an advance in Yemen or in Morocco and yeah you can over there you can if you live here you can't he's a genius so he got a thousand people genius that's what he did he could have been he was one of the he could have actually been even bigger wrote books and things like that but after he wrote a thousand answers is like anyone that writes a questions and answers type of book shows that they're high level it's not like a regular person so many people write books but as far as you know Al that's the highest level to because to write an answer it's not your opinion you have to provide backing not just one Rabbi pretty much every Rabbi that wrote anything about this answer in the last Thousand Years serious to write an answer could take one answer could take you months in some cases years after he wrote 1,000 answers 1,000 answers you went wanted to publish it want to go publish it the day was was ready finished thousand answers his house went on fire the book burned he said same person so what what would you do me and you jump giving up I'm not becom not only giving up the books giv you lose your mind what he do says now I know for sureem that my job in the world is not to write books what is it to get CH get CH so yeah he has couple of uh writings that we have but in general the amount of books that he could have written he could have done extraordinary why because he knew this PUK this PUK is relevant to anyone that goes and chases am to go do chv on a regular basis the once in a while is good too but on a regular basis you get something different what's the PUK hasem says to the prophet isah Isaiah chapter 43: 2 he says when you pass through the water I'm with you meaning doesn't matter yam I'm there you pass through Rivers they will not wash you when you walk through fire you will not be sined they won't touch you no flame will burn you meaning when you become a soldier of says you have a different deal yes this test needs to make you into a diamond making a diamond hurts sometimes it's different test there different test P test this test that test plenty of tests but overall you're untouchable why the U says when you help another person do chuv hasem says you created him you created him you are like me hasem says I brought him to the world but he messed up when he's a sinner he's considered dead in my eyes you now made him a b cha he brought it back to life same thing so this is a special deal you get and that's why it's worth it to push yourself a little extra whether you have a voice you don't have a voice whether you have money you don't have money you have time you don't have time don't make a difference don't make a difference now we mentioned something that happened awful awful thing uh that uh happened yeah you said what does that mean like if I say could I make a million dollar this year will I make a million dollar that's means like whatever I say will do right yes so if I ask for like let's say a million dollars or whatever an example would I get it or someone become healthy sick will it like give a lot of results say can make someone passed says this person is a sinner I'm going to take him from the world the for me to kill this person a k person real K person not the like half K real K person prays for the person says AEM I don't want him to die hasem says I made a he changed it that to that extent anyone assist giv CDs he assists like like I said there's and there's if you there's a in Jeremiah he says if you bring a precious person from someone that's a sinner in essence if you make somebody do chuva you will be like my mouth means like M my mouth you will be you will be like my mouth as if everything that I sayem says everything that I say comes to existence I said let there be light there was light I said let there be man there was man I said whatever I said whatever I say comes to existence you'll be like that but there's CU and then Cube if someone is a does it 100% makes it his life makes it is something that there's no price for it there's no uh exceptions there's no I'm too busy there's no oh it's too expensive mamash makes it their life they can get to that point blessings higher than any you can get you one person one person made like fully if you make one person religious the reward for that is 310 worlds Ina could get those no one can get those someone did but the one that to become you have to do it on a regular basis not just one time the reason why is because someone could do K one time then become hasm is not going to give him the same uh same type of deal you can't fool the system like everything else in life exactly like everything else in life now before I take your questions and we go into this aot um there um there a extraordinary story I've mentioned in the past um but it's worth mentioning again as far as CU is concerned because we mentioned the Holocaust people get very very emotional but the Holocaust but yet the people that were in the Holocaust are less emotional about it not they don't care but when we tell them God made the Holocaust they say yes you're right you're right God made the Holocaust uh I heard a um clip of a lecture of uh Shalom and he says I wasn't a holocaust I was there I was alive was alive during the Holocaust I saw the Holocaust I was there why did the Holocaust happen Hashem did it why did he do it he did am a favor why they were killing themselves with assimilation atheism and going against theem that's worse than body death this is one of the one of the biggest one of the biggest rabbis wrote many many books don't complain about him complain like he said he only died only died less than 20 years ago 2001 oh there you go so no they didn't complain as much again they of course people some people complain but the world wasn't as politically correct in his days it is now today you mention Holocaust already you have a thousand people that hate you now one of the famous stories that um most people don't know apparently is there was a rim do WIS mandal most people know R WIS Mand Shalom for Torah codes Torah codes all the Torah codes that we have today he was able to do in his head he's one of The Originals that brought it to light brought the whole concept of Torah codes to light he didn't become famous for that it's later on they found out but he was able to do Torah codes he was that much of a genius he's able to do Torah codes in his head we need a computer we still can't figure it out he was able to do it in his head now but he was also a real lover of am and after the during the the whole Holocaust was the ending stage es the Nazis one of them one of the leaders was andman was trying to make an extra few dollars at the End plus save uh save his own butt so he said Jews for sale he may he tried to make a deal to sell some people say as many as a million Jews as many as a million Jews and he got in contact with Rob wise mandal and they made a deal he says yeah give us some trucks give us some money give us some this give us some that I'll give you a million Jews so now the world at this point already started sympathizing with the zionists they started sympathizing with the zionists a lot of people donated a lot of money to the zionists you're G to have a country one day you're gonna have this you're GNA have this everybody sympathizes as many zionis organizations today they all honor herel and uh all the other all the other monsters in the Zionist movement why monsters because wise menel went to them he says listen we could save a million Jews some say it's hundreds of thousands either way is a lot save a lot of them just needs some money you have the money it's not your money people donated the money where do they donate the money for you to to go by planes donate it for people for lives no no it's not for us why not for us they give a few reasons one we don't know how many spartic are going to be there we don't want spartic we want ashkanazi country we want a European country that was already a problem the spartic we don't want spartic they look like spartic like the Americans used to look at black people same thing see for no reason then they said oh yeah you know what said they already killed so many millions if we save some maybe we're not going to get as many as much St we're not going to get as much we're not g to get as much charity meaning the whole thing is a business the whole it's not love of Zionism is not loving is that's what people fail especially religious people that are supposed to know better they're are movements whether it's a modern Orthodox or this Orthodox or that or there's a lot of Orthodox today forget about all that stuff there's religious Jew not religious Jew a guy that follows the law there's a guy that makes up a law reality is you have to decide you want to make up a rule or you want to listen to God now when you listen to God you realize that Zionism is not loving am is has nothing to do with it Zionism is based on an anti-god mentality it's an anti-god mentality it's it's my power my strength has nothing to do with loving and if you look at their own records you see this you look at their own letters the letters from helzel to the pope you look at all all these different people what they did they went against their own Nation but this was not different than what the the Torah wrote the Torah wrote that at the end of times page 49 the leaders will go against their own people the leaders will go against their own people now they did it in an obvious way but somehow it's somebody covered it up because there's statues all over Israel from all these all these have statues everybody honors them her day this day this what these people killed you know how many people they killed their own people so what's loving what's loving how do we know we're lovers of this is what this Mish comes in says let the honor of your student be as dear to you as your own honor the honor of your colleague should be like you should have you should honor your colleague like you fear your teacher you rever your teacher and you should rever fear your teacher your Rabbi as much as you fear God here shua is explaining to us what's what's really everybody says no you should love each other should love each other you should love each other okay are you loving each other and taking each other to the Holocaust or you loving each other and saving each other from the Holocaust what are you doing what's everybody says no you should love your brother accept him as he is accepting him as he is means if you accept him as a sinner means you hate him you don't love him why it's you know the guy's going again no you don't say anything about it everybody you going the wrong direction don't tell me nothing but you're going into the fire just make a right make a right you go in the fire it's very easy you make it right no no no I don't want to bother him so what's m so before I answer that let's get some questions go who's who's first s you had some questions or you want me to continue gos learn somewhere else ask question because it was interest now we also explain that this is not allowed right how come people are doing this more today then the right thing knowing that this is not allow okay people in positions know okay so why okay why people so so have uh do things based on self-interest in so many words what you asking okay it's kind of a self-explanatory question but there's more details to it that have to do with this mishna next almost you have something go anything anything go go go doesn't have to be relevant there's not you know as you know already nothing's relevant it's all relevant it's all nothing's relevant um so let say someone about okay next question got it where they stand I got it um let's say someone same kind of person B Mash shows up anything well oh not B mashia comes NOA okay doesn't know anything about his or any other technically as but his grandfather his he wants to be saric right how is he allowed to do that and how does he know which one he should follow how does he go about figuring out which one he should follow okay Safari okay soal cha sh is just starting to do chva mashia shows up what happens and then the second question is B Chua technically he asazi but wants to be Safari or technically Safari wants to be ashkanazi can he change what should he do okay next allow to say that your child who already G get the child back into the are they allow to say what's more important to me right now is the child's is it body or Soul so religious family as to uh says okay right now my kid's sick and um I need to worry about his health or her health and not the soul is that allowed okay next you said before like live a life of Miracles yeah so like what does exactly is it better to live like a life with Miracles or live a good life without Miracles miracles versus no Miracles why would you want Miracles what you have against Miracles racist against Miracles maybe I don't know okay people tell me all live anyse I live in Miracles as well you live Mir everybody lives Miracles question is whether you see it or not uh yeah yeah go what does the say about being angry God angree With God genius okay next we got like 10 already two four adoption okay ad adoption of non-jews yeah okay are they allowed why can't they adopt Jewish kids wouldn't it be better to ad je kids true you're obligated to adopt a Jewish kid if you're going to adopt not obligate not obligated to adopt the non-jew you can if you want you're not out of the gate if you have a choice you have to save the Jew before you save the non-jew why well go over said other will try to answer all the questions you have more questions you could ask along the way um but um will try to answer all these questions so uh have a what exactly to who got Noah I heard like he got got raped not something have kids made sure his son was jealous he didn't want to have kids so he how do you say him I just said no uh he um castrated him castrated him no it's not because of that it's not necessarily just because of that a lot more to it but um there's a lot more to it understand okay first and foremost is say we have know who we're talking about before we decide whether we want to listen to them or not who isar sh sh if you remember is a very famous story that most Jews know about which is that RAB AKA had gone from being a ignorant to being a b cha at the age of 40 when he was divorced with a kid and illiterate came B cha at the age of 40 over the next 24 years became the number one Rabbi in the world in history and had 24,000 please please if you don't mind had 24,000 students each one of his students was a Tana Tana means be able to say one word get P meaning make a person go from dead to alive but in real life real time each one of students each one of the students was able to revive the dead each one why they named by name in the Torah the named by name in the mishna they named by name in thear if they named by name in thear in mishna that means they were at the level of Holiness they were able to revive the dead if they were not able to revive the dead they're not named by name so 24,000 students unfortunately the kavod between them wasn't up to par for their level wasn't up to par at their level and Hashem punished them with a plague well over a short period of time all of them died this is when we do the this is when we grow beards every Jew looks like he's Aid all of a sudden after a month he goes from looking like a go to looking like a RAB AKA what happened somebody die no no it's the it's the but you don't even keep Shabbat why you keep it a beard oh it's the everybody likes to grow up beard it's free everybody everybody keeps everybody grows the beer because it's free s do you know why we do it oh no somebody died what somebody died s all right so now you have a rabbi you have 24,000 students the best and the worst of them are able to revive the dead they all die every day 700 approximately die every day imagine 700 raas ra had 1 million people show up to his Al 1 million people was the biggest they say was the biggest funeral since mosu biggest biggest funeral since mosu a million people show up to Al imagine 700 gas every day by the time you finished wanting to pretty much you know go with them go in the you know some people dug themselves the grave and jumped into the grave next to they didn't want were not leaving he died were dying with him they didn't want to leave people that were close to ra they knew people that understood what R was they wanted to die they dug themselves Graves they started jumping in the graves we're dying also we have no R we have nothing someone that understands what a r is and if Rya was your R how could you go on I remember seeing my he lived m a couple of buildings away from him he says if I wasn't obligated by the Torah to live and continue publicizing Torah I would not want to live I saw he did a sh about after right after it was happening why obligation of to so now imagine 700 like this every day for over a month nightmare know he's obligated by the Tor to publicize Tora it doesn't matter 24,000 live 24,000 dead you're still obligated to do what you're doing like we always say Judaism is not based on the Jews Judaism is based on the Torah whether the Jews follow tah or not is irrelevant to you you still have to do it if everybody becomes you still have to be a religious Jew if everybody becomes you still have to be a Jew follow entire T it doesn't matter what they do you still have to follow everything why CU your own deal with hem as a Jew is independent of the world is independent of even though technically call is you yourself have a individual deal with hem you have to keep whether you like it or not whether all the guys with the hats and the beards are or not is he relevant you still have to follow everything the enti not some of it that you like that's fun poring parties everything so now AA knows this says okay they all died I still have to start I still have to restart the whole thing he goes five students five students very famous students you know uh shim and Sh sh the entire oral Torah we have today depends on and the other five that's all of our Torah comes from them we don't have the Torah of the 24,000 we have some parts of it but everything we have depended on those five and R so sh is a big deal who is his student who is one of his top students that all of us know and we talk about him all the time who is it what do wrot the enti M everything we're doing is Rabbi who's that that's his student that's his student so so Shamu was alive and well to see what happened with 24,000 students he's not telling you hey I heard a nice thing I heard a story from some Rabbi no no no he says you know why 24,000 sikim 24,000 Angels mamash Angels M the Angels worked for them the Angels were lower than them 24,000 Hashem punished them why starts right here all about all about honoring your friend giveing respect for your friend they didn't give respect to their friends well they cut each other off in the highway they cut each other off on the highway there several Pim there several Pim several uh understandings commentaries about the topic it connects to no no says Shem said to Mo I'm going destroy the world go build an ark Arc is the size of football field and a half say hem says build I go build then ashem says okay Noah go in the ark go in the ark it's time why you say go in the ark what no doesn't know it starts raining don't go in starts raining stay outside he knows 100 years he's waiting for it to rain 100 years he's waiting for it to rain finally rains why does say go in go in the ark why cuz Noah still didn't have a deal that he's going in the ark yet he wasem said build he didn't say build for me he he built for Noah he said build I built he didn't say go to read do this do this do this do this and I give you a million dollars a year he didn't say that he said go to read T do all the that's it he didn't say you're G to get a million dollars you have to do it why I said so I'm God why you going to go against me you crazy you know want going to do the rest of the people here go build an arc to build an ark he says okay no you listen so far I like you go in the ark with your family with your wife your kids their wives go go inside so goes in the AR it's a year he's feeding these animals one day he's late on feeding the lion lion gives him a on the side he's suffering the whole time he's suffering the whole year he's suffering from pain from what the lion did to him Lon got a said he was late with the serving he's not like the uh that run his house that give tea toan try to give lost his voice no lion no doesn't do doesn't care out he laid my it's lion no he gave him he gave him a nice chop to the side go miss the line see what he does even if he looks you start getting scared I think it's pain for a week just for him roaring at you so anyway after a year he leaves the ark goes outside he sees everything is destroyed he starts crying to Hashem he starts crying to Hashem Hashem why' you destroy the world look what happened it was so beautiful used to have one continent one land for the whole now we have seven broken up scientists actually confirmed this in the last 100 years that it all fits used to be one used to have nice trees everything look like ganed everything was pretty everything okay there was some Sinners why hem you ruined everything why he starts crying hysterical crying say says to you are like a drunk Shepherd like a drunk Shepherd you don't know what you're doing if you would have C what are you crying now if you would have cried before I destroyed the world I wouldn't have destroyed the world if you would have told is to do chuva I wouldn't have punished them if you would have told the dul the people the Sinners go do chuva go do chuva and you say cry to hem said okay give you more time you got 100 years give you another 100 years why cuz there's some that's crying for them is somebody rebuking them is somebody doing something you didn't say nothing you didn't say nothing that's why the flood is called after his name nothing they they came to him they they they came to him he was building he thought he was doing enough he thought listen anyone comes to the store ask for a CD I give him a CD but he didn't go and Chase if you came to the store CD you have money to pay no I don't have any money okay take it for free how many he buil he thought he thought he was enough he was doing enough building an arc you go try to build an arc 150 uh amot maybe was no space for the people when I get to his level I'll tell you when I get to his level I get to the level of the Dust that he stepped on maybe once in his life I'll tell you the reality is judging Noah unfavorably is a foolish thing to do because the reality of it is that Hashem would not save the world for any one of us anyone of us why we're not each sadik tamim we're not sadik we're not tamim why we ask questions we have a flat eye why God we don't get p on time to check it and clear why God one of the kids has a called why God everything why we has go did you see Noah say why God one time only after the Maul after the Maul he says why God why' you destroy it not why God uh like he did something wrong so hasem says why don't you say why God why don't you cry to me before the Maul pray for them before the Maul why gave him CDs they gave him CDs yeah but only when they came to you only when they filled up the hall with 500 people and they told you listen we're going to bring 500 people don't tell them just tell them nice things about tell them nice things about tell them nice things about how to raise kids don't tell them is considered a go no don't tell them about a somebody that eats is a is making his makes it not accept T don't tell him that aan that's not a that shaves with a razor or that's married to Aya or is violating on a regular basis is not only not praying for the Kila he's cursing the Kila with every mil that he says don't tell him those things tell him nice things show a movie about how you save women from you know bad relationships how you help this woman by buying her a a cart or what are those those carriages for the kids you spent strollers strollers stroll you bought a stroller you got a million dollars in donations you bought a stroller for 500 bucks show them how you bought a stroller for a nice family and you got them some corn flakes so you show pictures of the Corn Flakes show them go ahead show them they show you these movies look look it's Corn Flakes and there tuna they got yeah it's good for two days you got a million dollars in donations everybody makes a big deal oh look wow so nice they're having Hanah parties they're having poring parties they're having parties they're having food okay so what anybody becomes a sadik because he ate usually people become sadik when they don't eat start fasting so all the all theim that feed people all the time great you should feed them tah you should use the money for that not for feeding people food but whatever if you use it for both good but if it's just for feeding people just feeding the body you're not making them so says to Noah you didn't do enough you didn't do enough you should have cried before the Maul should have cried before the Maul what is it like says ifu the 24,000 students of R AKA would have honored each other the way they were supposed to they wouldn't have died not that less would have died they wouldn't have died at all why because each one of them were high level meaning just like you were saying they were expected to do more so it's not that they cut off each other in the highways Shalom or cursed each other out no you guys crazy what happened they were on such high level they said you know what they were competitive with each other's Torah so when one of them made a mistake you got to the wrong conclusion not that he started becoming not that he started eating no whatever he start he had a su he had one of these difficulties in the in the Mish and all the laws of and he was going in the wrong direction with it he was incorrect In His conclusion the other guy was so competitive he didn't correct him he correct me he says Nah I want to win I want I want to be better you didn't care enough about him you didn't respect him enough to fix him cuz you know it's not going to affect anyone what he's doing right now it's like a p pool it's not something that's for reality it's something that's like a mental stimulant it's really for the study for the sake of studying Torah it's not something that you implement on a day-to-day basis so him having it wrong or not 100% right or not the complete Chua that you already have you're not sharing it with him it's not really such a big dealm says it's a big deal why because now you've turned my Torah into something that you think is yours it's not yours it's not your Torah which by the way should you know based on Al based on Al not the law of the land based on Al there's no such thing as your Torah meaning if you write an ala book you write an whatever you have sh of your own technically anyone else can take the book copy it and sell it the law of the land is that is copyright they someone can sue you but based on Al there's no such thing as your Torah you once there's Torah even if it's your you had a huge K you worked on this 50 years you publish this that K officially becomes property of you can sell the book for $29.99 but if somebody else says I want to copy the book they copy the book it's not yours it's not your Torah it's no such thing as your Torah so once you saw another T going a different you had the answer you didn't share it your Tor is not from sh no good so sh says where does it all start it starts in a simple way starts with kindergarten says starts first of all with the relationship with the rabbi and student Rabbi needs to understand that a student in order for him to become a rabbi in order for him to become a kosher Jew in order for him to become kosher person in general regardless of what generation he lives has have some confidence now there are unfortunately many many people in the world today that are confidence killers their confidence instead of building people's confidence they kill their confidence why how they tell people every single mistake they make they point it out the guy slipped on a banana oh see hasem hates you the guy said one word you what you got upset he said a curse word ah you're the guy no came to five minutes later that's what you're do every five seconds they're on top of said now I'm not saying you're not supposed to say anything but the same token every single thing you're choking the guy you have to know how to be a leader you have to know how when and why you can't strangle the guy over you went from gay home now you want to be mosu overnight the guy just came out of the casino you wanted to go beu relax little by little you have to know when and what so sometimes those people that are confidence killers are are parents I told you guys a story this one guy that his son God bless him sadik he's got two sadik sons sonash the kid is a sadik I really like the kid ask good questions but respect gave me a couple and uh they're very valid Kim and uh tries he tries hard so anyway he some Rabbi allowed him to slaughter a uh chicken for the sake of karot for the karot but he's not a the kid he's not a he doesn't know all the laws of but the the rabbi he asked the rabbi can I do it the Rabbi says okay go ahead and do it soon as he got home he told he told his father I did this his father's like oh you're not allowed to do that you're not a certified your Rabbi made a mistake gives it him on his head like he just married three not one three Goot M like kill so he he asks me both of them ask the father and the son both asked me is he allowed is he allow is he allowed is a Kosh is a Kos long story short I said he's allowed to do it based on is allowed to do it and actually if the other guy if the real a certified sh himself that means he's certified to teach which this was a you you have to allow people to do it that's how you teach which means that if he followed all the laws that chicken is not only he allowed to do it but it's actually a Kosh of chicken you can eat it if you want you shouldn't go sell it because you're not really supposed to sell the uh the trials but technically based on after the fact it's kosher but oh I show the rabbi agreed with me the the guy is continuing to fight this whole thing so I tell him listen God bless you I know you're trying to uh be is and everything but you're really suffocating the kid instead of being interested in uh in in in in in baseball games and football games and all the garbage of this world he's interested in becoming a he's interesting in and you're giving them on a head for it the fact that you're wrong is a different story it's a sidestep something on even if you're right even if even if you're right even if he wasn't allowed to slaughter the CH even if the rabbi didn't get whatever even if you're right 100% he's wrong but even if you're right you're killing the kid you're killing his confidence leave him alone you want to go play baseball you want to go play video games he's interested in me I told him you're killing the kid's confidence if I was your kid I wouldn't want to be religious at all forget about I wouldn't want to do this me I want to want to do anything I want to leave everything I want to become a he took it personally all of a sudden I became his biggest enemy he didn't like it two years he calls me Rabbi Rabbi Rabbi Rabbi all of a sudden I told him the truth you're my number one enemy I'm the number one enemy now I'm the number one enemy it doesn't make a difference to keep to class then you come to class I'm number one enemy soal why people don't like to hear the truth why because like we said no one wants to see anything wrong with themselves they want to look at the mirror and want to see mosu they don't want to see K want to see mosu sometimes the parents are killing the kids kids trying trying at the same token if the kids are you can't say oh no he's going to do chuva eventually that's not being a parent that's being with him you have to do something there certain things you have to say certain things you got to slow down on depends again you have to use your wisdom common sense they don't sell it at stores but you still have it use it I know it has some cobwebs on it and you haven't used it in a while in this generation but you have to use it take it out of the you know out of the shelves use it it's Common Sense the kid just started keeping Shabbat okay if you caught him eating on kosher you don't have to kill the kid he started keeping Shabbat get him to keep a couple of Shabbat get him away from the non kosher Place eventually he's not going to want to eat non kosher he started keeping kosher okay so he played video games one Shabbat it's not allowed of course not low but don't tell the kid listen everything you're doing is uh worthless ah you you're going to go to no okay he's starting use your common sense I know I say tough things in the lectures but it's not meant that you're going to give it to one guy that just came out of Gom came out of Las Vegas you give it to them all in his head on the first day if he doesn't do it he's K use common sense when how who what if you don't know how to do it give it to me so sometimes you have parents that are much killing their own kids either by saying too much or by not saying enough you have sometimes you have parents no no no he's going to do he's he's spiritual what do you mean spiritual he's 25 years of his life already what's spiritual you got to tell him to keep Shabbat you got to tell him to leave the Goya you got to tell her to leave the uh leave the Amal she's dating what do you mean spiritual no no maybe May he's going to convert what convert even if he converts not all to be with him now you're not to be after he converts a different person no no maybe he's gonna convert he's a really nice guy God he's a nice guy for a different Nation so saying too much saying too little you have to know when and how you don't know how to do it you have to bring a r that knows how to do it not just anyone that has a beard someone knows how to deal with people what's a RAV what's a RAV the V describes as someone that has to know laws has to know has to be well-rounded people think in this generation all you need to know is no laws wrong go says he has to know laws step number two has to have all the laws you know throw them in the garbage they're the same thing as cornflakes worth nothing no is worthless go second thing he has to have not enough and laws a few people know have a few people know laws they're not rabbis he says don't make them your Rabbi why he has to have common sense meaning you can't fool him he can't be a sucker you can fool him say yeah yeah no no I went to Manan what do you mean you went to Manan I was there you weren't there no no I was in the back I was in the back like one of those guys if he say oh you in the back okay and he believes you don't make him your Rabbi he's a fool and eventually you're gonna fool with bigger things you're you're going to become K and he's not going to know it no no Rabbi I'm I'm not I'm not lending him the money I'm just giving him the money and he's just giving me a little bit more yeah you're charging him interest no no it's not interest Rabbi it's just that he's just giving me 20% more on my money because he's a really nice guy yeah that's interest if he believes it he's a sucker he's not a Rabbi says he has not just no I mean not just not just but he has to have common sense he has to be a wise person Street Smart you called in today's age he has to be Street Smart can't be a fool that's a r so sometimes you have RS that don't have anything they know maybe a few that's how they got their certification but like the rabbi that kicked out my younger brother out of yes this the so-called Rabbi kid was I don't know maybe 10 11 years old and he didn't like him why he didn't like him he's Safari he's Safari he didn't like him he's Safari he didn't like all the Safari kids and if none of them all Safari if you weren't if you weren't as and Rich you weren't ashkanazi fan you had to be ashkanazi and Rich a so what happened he kicked out a bunch of people I have at least a couple of people that I know personally kicked them out most of them off the went from GED to G this is this is the guy he ran this school for almost 30 years so here's the problem you have a guy that kills people's confidence kills people's lives kicks them out of schools so he doesn't accept the guy because he's askanazi he doesn't accept the guy cuz he's Safari doesn't accept the guy cuz he's a convert doesn't accept the guy cuz he's black white green yellow whatever he is that's racism that's that's why we don't have the BET mikdash like you're saying that's that's not rabbis so Shamo is telling you hey it's not a story I was there I saw it I saw the I saw it it starts from the bottom starts with the basic relationship between a rabi and a student the rabbi needs to re honor his student honor his student just like he would want honor for himself why if the student feels like he has cavod he's GNA have confidence meaning when he gives you a even if he's wrong even if he's wrong read the him in a certain way to make him right don't tell him hey you're wrong all your work is nonsense you're justan no redirect them oh yeah what you really mean to say not a Noah Noah that's what you meant right the kid so shy yeah I meant no I me no he didn't mean Noah but tell him he meant Noah what do you care was it cost you any money cost you any money to make the little kid happy what do you care when you're a teacher when you're a teacher of people you're you you are responsible for [Applause] their you're responsible you're dealing you're not dealing with bodies your body you're dealing [Applause] with you say the wrong thing this n could be lost forever I have a woman came help my the raban God bless her and uh you know she's been helping us since we moved precious lady and since she wants as Hashem would have it what does he send me send me a person that she wants to convert to Judaism it's not doesn't send us just anybody's so she wants to convert to Judaism he says you know it's kind of strange because my friend always makes fun of me that I want to convert and my wife tells me she asks why why do your why did your friend make fun of you you want to convert she says say not only you shouldn't convert you shouldn't even work for Jewish people Jewish people are evil people she tells her she goes why you say she evil people why does she think her Jewish people are evil people because because she works for Jewish people that are very rich these Jewish people they work for very very rich and they don't allow it to bring her food to their house now that's understandable because it's not Kosher but what makes them evil they don't allow her to eat their food either they don't allow it to eat their food either and they also don't allow it to take a break so she has to sit there all day not eating all day working like a slave like she's in Egypt and on top of it all these people apparently have a lot of parties with a lot of food they throw out all the food and they tell you're not allowed to eat it you're not allowed to eat it these are with a special Villa in G these are not Jews these people cause anti-Semitism they can have a keep they can have a beer they can have whatever they have they also have a villain G this is a sin that says you have to suffer for it you have to suffer and if you remember if you remember month ago we did a says someone does behind nobody sees nobody sees you doing when he punishes you he's going to punish you in public CU to him in private or public is the same thing so this woman became anti-semitic anti-semitic because of the we need more anti-Semitism in the worldit exactly so that's the thing people like people think don't think with their head they're just like just evil sometimes they just evil so but sadik sadik says listen I know not all Jewish people are like that and I meet you guys so different so you have to decide you're going to be now gave us laws is telling us listen these laws you're going to teach them to kids when the kid gives a k makes a mistake guide him in the right way he's like a rough diamond write him in the wrong way but give him some confidence because if his success is your success if you're a teacher and your student becomes a big it's like you succeeded so don't be jealous of your own talid sometimes you have these rabbis they try they see the talm advancing too far hey hey Slow Down slow down why you slowing him down why you slow him down he's on fire he's on fire don't stop the fire you're on fire he's helping people do CH he has he's finishing don't slow him down he's on fire let him go people trying to contain things why are you trying to thing CU you can't do it so says you want re honor make sure you honor your students make sure you realize you're dealing with precious Souls second honor your colleague the same way as you fear your teacher not as you honor your teacher but you fear your teacher meaning the fear of your teacher is extremely important in in order to understand what honoring your colleague means so we before we explain what it means to honor your colleague we have to skip and go to what it means to fear your teacher and Mish says yeah good and fear your teacher like you fear God this is very very hard for people to understand very hard for people to understand what do you mean fear your Rabbi like you fear God most people don't even fear God now you want me to fear the rabbi like I Fear God so the um says just as one fears his teacher I'm sorry um the uh seph says that the reason why you have to fear your Rabbi just like you fear Hashem is because your Rabbi is going to be the one that's going to get you into ala hasem is there but the rabbi going to be the one that opens the door or notab depends if your father if your father's then no you have to save your father if your father's if your father's then you have to save your Rabbi so where do we get this Mitzvah where do we get this this is this have a source so in the book of chapter six verse 13 it says your goem your God you shall fear that's the mitvah this is Deuteronomy 6113 if you notice 613 63 one of this gave me this um he says look says the place it says the mitvah of fearing hem is also chapter 6 verse 13 you fear you're going to keep all the mitv that was the that he gave me now an additional to add to his is that page 41b says that every time the Torah mentions the word it which really means and but also could mean other things it's in essence trying to increase the significance of what's being said it's almost like a adjective without a meaning meaning that it's an adjective is supposed to describe something so this is not really describing anything but it's adding to the significance of what you're saying so when it says respect your mother and your father and your mother technically it say respect your parents so why does it say respect your father and your mother it could say respect your mother and father or it could say respect your parents but Tora says this extra word is it SOA says when it says it it means you have to respect your older brother a significant meaning here so here in it says that when it says you shall fear your God the extra it means in addition to fearing God fear your Rabbi why fear your Rabbi because your Rabbi is going to be the one that gets you the Gade in into you have a bad Rabbi you're not going to you have no Rabbi you have no chance no chance why says someone says someone doesn't have a rabbi his whole life has no Rabbi hasm hates him why does he have a rabbi doesn't have a rabbi because he thinks he's a rabbi he thinks he's better than a rabbi which means that he could learn his whole life make a mistake be on the wrong side his whole life but he has too much gav ask a rabbi if he's wrong or right cuz he thinks he knows more than everybody soem says him I hate him who else ises hasm say I hate several people that hm hates someone doesn't have a rabbi intentionally doesn't have a rabbi not that he lives in a desert and there's no people not that he's Noah and there's no people someone he plenty of rabbis in the world no no nobody's good enough for me nobody's enough for me oh you didn't find the whole world there's nobody no nobody that's it the whole world you looked everywhere you couldn't find oh Shem says it's excuses nothing nonsense so before we go into more details about what it means to have um fear of the rabbi now we understand that here sh is telling us that the that you give should be in a level of the fear you have of your teacher and the fear that you have of your teacher has to be fear of hem meaning that by honoring your friend you're also symbolizing your so it's connecting not just your Rabbi to Hashem but also your colleague to hasem your behavior with your colleagues your behavior with the fellow Rabbi that's with you your k your neighbor whatever is going to be shown if you have fear of them you get it's also showing that you have fear of hasem you have no fear of them you have no respect for them you have no respect for anybody you only have respect for yourself that means you also don't respect AEM so as a uh famous story that rki the of ROV kitki the uh previous Shalom previous in America one of the main rabis that built American Jewelry uh a few Majors him and hisler were two of like the pillars also mste Shalom soov kamki his son I spoke to him during that whole debacle that whole debacle debacle with the uh Christian uh missionary he was kitki was the first one that signed our letter to stop this event it's the first one that didn't care about who signed didn't sign he said this is wrong put a signature on it over 90 years old so his father kamki is one of M the pillars of American Judaism so one day somebody nodded to him right after toov kitki asking him a question Sheil andov says to the guy that's asking him a question go ask him who him his student iski says I didn't know that I was at the level to answer questions until he gave me the ability to answer questions the confidence that he gave me by telling the guy to go ask me that gave me the confidence to become a Masha Rabbi Masha Rabbi so giving confidence to a student is a critical part of being a real real good teacher the problem is is that sometimes you try to give a student some honor some respect and he takes it to his head so I give you a couple of personal experiences so you don't think it's some stories are making up because I know I'm angry or something you know call anyone any anyone it's angry it's so I try not to have not in my life not in not in my anywhere but you know some people think oh no he's upset he's no I'm not upset just you're on fire with tah so one time I had a student and uh whatever came to me for I don't know year and a half went from g g wasn't doing nothing one day he says he decided that he wants to leave work and go to k now after a year and a half of helping somebody do Chua you get to know a little bit about them you know where they're at I told him you shouldn't go told you could go part- time to but you're married you got a couple kids young everything it's too big of a best for you right now to just go 100% from working full-time only being involved chasing money your whole life chasing the material world to you just did Chua over the last year and a half to now go become a living on Miracles overnight it's too much you can go parttime go to kab go after work instead of going home at 5: go to Cola from 5 to whatever a few hours you have to go to col right right away and uh he didn't want to listen he didn't want to listen thought I was trying to slow him down I was trying to slow him down he went to K he had a bunch of very very difficult tests some of these tests almost got him to a point where he left the religion altogether anyway one day I see him and I uh compliment him he's learning he was learning one day complimenting oh you're learning you're withholding the test even though he didn't listen to me whatever I don't keep grudges what do I care you you're learning your Torah is very holy good job keep going go from strength to strength all of a sudden the next time I see him like I don't think you are doing right I don't think you should do what you're doing that all of a sudden the student wants to teacher he starts giving me a rebuke he wants to tell me what to do no no I think it says something different no I I'm like I show it to you show all of a sudden I gave him a little compliment babaali babaali this is M just a little little while ago you were getting out of your Gom diapers now you're a little for two months oh you have to tell me what to do why I told kak initially I told him don't do it he listened he didn't listen so he thought look he was wrong about that cuz I'm holding strong and then he told me so he's admitting that he's wrong he's admitting that he's wrong so now I'm GNA tell him he's wrong or another time another time whatever it doesn't make a difference this is good doesn't make a differ yeah he's call call what the caller is doing for him I don't know but I don't know I don't know what the call is doing for him but whatever listen there was another guy another guy I like I like people learn tah I admire people that learn to somebody learns to to me is like a diamond but I'm not talking about Diamond little Diamond little homeless Diamond talking about Diamond hundred million doll Diamond somebody learns to doesn't make a difference learn learning doesn't make a difference to me somebody see learning to me it's like you're actually the reason whyem keeps the world alive so I see this young guy learning goes to used to come to a couple here and there I tell him at the end of the I give him I'm like listen go keep going to gonna be a big is revolving the world because of you your Torah is very precious compliments like to give him some it's tough to be a these days everybody else is going out with girls you have to go to you know St like give not six months past the guy starts sending me rebukes listen I don't think you should do this I don't think you should do that I don't think you should do this by the way you should know I know this and I know you're half my age half my age who are you that's the pro this happened many many times not one time not two times I'm just giving two small stories two small stories it's happen I tell people listen keep learning T listen you know what the business world is not for me anymore what I just started learning last week what do you mean the business world is not for you anymore no I think I'm GNA leave my job why you leaving your job no I think I'm GNA work full I'm gonna you know work for hem full time I'm G to learn toah all the time like how you going to eat how you going to survive hm's going to give it to me I said okay if you really believe that go three days pass they go back to work soon as there's no check coming in they go back to work what are you doing people jump ahead too fast people jump ahead too fast listen first and foremost do basic level Chua start keeping the basics all the basics you know that already takes a lot of time second of all start learning to every single day now if you think that me if you think that you could only learn Tor if you're learning full time then I have news for you if you don't go to work not only will you not work but you won't learn toah either you'll become a complete bum and the reason why is because and until you were introduced to the Torah your job or your school or whatever you were at your stage of life that was your your structure that was your structure that was the instructions that told you wake up at a certain time in the morning go to work go to school do whatever you need to do in that place to fulfill your obligation after you finish you go home you eat you are with the wife you with the kids you besset whatever you're doing you eat you sleep that's it now you have Torah now you have Torah in your life life it's not that the Torah replaces everything now what you have to do is have the Torah not only fit into this schedule but actually becomes the priority within the schedule become the priority within the schedule meaning the same schedule but now you've added the Torah but you're doing now instead of doing everything that you were doing let's say if you're working you're working to make money now you're not working to make money you're working so you have the peace of mind to know that you have money to eat so therefore you could study in peace many people think that I'm against work against business or something no if you're work work no problem but if you're only working to make money and your Torah is like a little homeless Torah that you study maybe once a week come to you're never going to survive your cha is not going to survive but the same token you can't go from K to K from from corner to corner where you were in the business World your whole life or School your whole life and now you're going to go to even if you want to become a full-time learner has to be in stages first and foremost you have to see how much you love the Torah how do you find out how much you love the Torah you find out how much you love the Torah if you see yourself using that existing schedule that you were working keeping that schedule and now all that extra time that you had that you were doing nothing with you were playing video games you were I don't know watching movies you were hanging out with your friends drinking beers now all of that time you've replaced with Tor study if youve replaced all of that time not some of that time like an hour a day if you replaced all of that time meaning every waking hour you have with Torah on a regular basis for an extended period of time and you still feel it's not enough then maybe considering getting out of the Work World the business world is is a possibility but until You' filled up your schedule with mamash 100% schedule you have no time to breathe you have no time for friends you have no you have barely time to see your spouse Honey hi how are you I love you okay I'll see you in three hours between between sessions okay all right she gives you power go go go study go study for all of us she's with you not she's against that she's she she she doesn't want she know honey I need you to sit with me you sit with her for a little while but the same token again you can't speak to her too much and nonsense all day but the same token you can't like go against everything you can't like leave her like you haven't talked her in three months Common Sense again common sense so you can't just go from K to you can't become an overnight a lot of people try to do that no I want to quit the business World okay you can quit the business how you going to eat oh hashem's going to give it to me no why is hm going to give it to you are you that level are you that level you that really that that so again everybody has to understand that when you give when someone your teacher is giving you compliments it's not because he's telling you you're really mosenu he's giving you confidence to keep going keep going keep going maybe you will be if you are you don't need compliments if you are you don't need compliments so that's one of the things that we learn here now the uh significance of students for teachers is highlighted in the in multiple places page seven it says a couple of really really amazing things so says why are the words of Torah compared to a tree why there's a verse in the Torah in the book of a uh Proverbs chter 3 Verse says why does it say that the uh the Torah meaning the the tree of life is for those who cling to it what is the significance here it's refer we all know that the tree of life is referring to the Torah but why is the Torah used as a as a something that's uh you know symbolized by the by the Tree of Life why so it says it's to teach you that just as a small piece of wood ignites a small one a large one you know every time you want to build a big fire you don't take uh the uh giant tree and light that on fire you take a little tree take a little peep take a match she say just like a small piece of wood ignites the large one so do the small the Torah Scholars that are the younger ones end up sharpening the older ones meaning someone wants to become a great Rabbi have many students why because all the little questions these little students are going to ask you the fivey old the 10 year old the 15 year old the 20 year old whatever they are but all the people don't know nothing young they're going to ask you questions each time they ask you questions that you don't think they're such really big important questions those are the questions are going to make you a significant Rabbi those are the questions are going to make you that's very sharp because you're going to be able to answer the stuff that people care about the stuff that builds the foundation of Judaism of toah so what's the proof what's the what's the uh Source here says I've learned much from my teachers but from my colleagues my I learned more than I learned from my teachers why because my teacher gave me a lecture I learned what I learned from him but the guy who was learning with my colleague went back and for I learned even more from him but who did I learn from the most you tell me but for my students I learn more than everybody more than my teacher more than my colleagues why the students don't stop asking questions every day there's questions a real student never has enough questions but says that's what made me a rabbi that's what made me it's not my myab give me Foundation gave me the strength to keep going but what made me is all the little questions from all the people that doesn't seem like they know anything that's what made me Rabbi but why did he become because he listened to this m he says when I uh when they ask me the questions I took him seriously I took the question seriously because I held my students dear to me just like I would want my teachers to hold me listen to this Mish so regardless to what the questions was of whether Noah was sadik or tamim or whether was this all these questions that seem like they're regular questions go read it yourself go to Rabbi Google those questions are what makes you a rabbi and I can tell you from personal experience a lot of people are very very um people that are in the Torah World their whole life they always uh are dumbfounded dumbfounded when uh they find out that you know we've been in at bash for a very very very short period of time and uh is a little bit of knowledge but there's much many many sh hundreds and hundreds of hours of there's a few hundred lectures each lecture is a few hours is an extraordinary amount of knowledge and we try to make sure that every lecture is very different from another and uh they always ask what Yesa did you go to's the rabbi who this and it doesn't like the answers don't match what me for 20 years me for this you know all types of stuff so I could tell you of course obviously it's all it's all 100% hm has nothing to do with me hasem gives you has your marriage he's counting all of your marriage he says they need to hear this you're willing to say it go that's that's the way it works they're willing to hear it you're willing to say it go I'll give you the knowledge that's really what it is but one of the main things on a practical perspective the way that hasm makes it look realistic is that b we have many many questions every day people email text call this that nonstop an extraordinary amount of questions this allowed this not allowed should I do this should I not do this a lot of questions so now especially in the beginning you don't know the answers not only you don't you don't know all the answers you don't know anything in the beginning you don't know anything you know what you learn the questions people ask this is this this is that you don't know anything you're about to about yourself in the beginning you're learning yourself I already started teaching while I was learning so people ask me questions so what happens when you love Tor and you love AEM and you love his Nation what do you do you go look for answers so I go to my raav and I you know I go to the books I go to look for answers and it's a uh you end up learning from all the students because they ask you questions you don't know the answer so you go find the answer and when you do it once twice tce 10 times 20 times 30 times a day 40 times a day after a short period of time you have thousands of answers it see it seems like you're at least makes it seem like you are so why because it's respecting the students why respecting the students you used to be one of them don't think you're such a big deal you used to have a lot of questions also nine months worth of questions I had n months worth of questions book nine months worth of questions can write a book write my name is already okay it's not the so now this actually reminds me this reminds me you know a lot of people complain about their wives so they say always ask always ask questions what does kazal think is the responsibility of a wife isn't that a good question cook clean isn't that a good question to cook and the clean you may stay single with that kind of attitude you may stay single with that kind of attitude what does kazal say is the responsibility of a wife you know what it says says the fact that she raises our children and keeps the husband away from sin is already enough anything else is extra this K is don't say I'm not sure I don't agree it's says it says the fact that she raises the kids and she keeps the husband away from sin what sin wasting seed why wasting seed such a big deal it says because wasting seed according is like you violated the entire the fact that she keeps you away from wasting seed and on top of it she raised your kids she's already doing more than enough she cooks for you if it's good too oh you may have here you have she cleans wow wow what are you complaining about in life you have all already people think that their wife's supposed to cook and clean and wash the ceilings and the chandeliers and help the homeless and help the sh become like the ran of the community what says the fact that she cooks and cleans there two different sages agree on the same thing this is this is this is the actual opinion says the fact that she raises the children and she keeps you away from sins it's already enough of course if she does more it's even better but the point here is that for all of those guys all of those guys that like to complain about their wives about all these different things that they think they're supposed to do according to the world today they're wrong what is the husband supposed to do for the wife the husband is supposed to support the wife support the wife both emotionally and financially that's the main thing if she goes to the mall every week if she goes to the mall every week it's his fault not her fault why says a person gets a wife just like him based on his own Deeds so now we understand that the in order to uh in order for someone to become a a solid Rabbi he has to honor his students give them some on the other hand that the honor of your colleague should be like the honor you have of your teacher what does it mean to have honor for your teacher what does it mean have honor your teacher page 30 give me that give me something uh the one one first one shabat page 30b it says something that I don't think any of you know and I don't think any I don't think many people in this generation know or hold by but this is reality this is this is what it says yeah please please she's mercy on me like like you guys keep ask mercy on me she have mercy on the people see what what says about the rabbi see this is what the says this is what you're supposed to do if you have a rabbi I don't know I'm not a rabbi you guys you guys pick a rabbi I have on myself say what the says what the rabbi what it says says say says in his name of RA any Torah scholar this is scary that I thought any Torah scholar who sits before his teacher and his lips do not drip of bitter dread is destined to be singed in the fires of G meaning when a person sits next to his RAV RAV meaning you listen he says you do not like uh he says you do whatever you want anyway he says you do that's a r when uh people didn't listen to's my students don't listen to me that means I'm not I'm not really their Rabbi he said why do you say that why aren't you aren't you upset you looked they asked you a question you worked on the answer for three days to show them what the answer is and they're still not going to listen to you why don't you get don't you get upset he goes no bem goes why because that means they're not my students because why is that a good thing because if they're my students I may have to go to Gom for them if they continue being Sinners it's my fault it's my fault they're going to come to me in sh like why they still Shabbat why don't you teach about Shabbat why they still going why don't you teach about going with a married woman why they still e why you tell about kosher laws it's your fault you're the rabbi so if they don't listen to me I'm not the rabbi it's better for me so he says if I'm the rabbi if you have Mas Rabbi in front of him you should be shaking shaking why this is a guy that's going to get you either to Gan or if he's a good Rabbi is good I think it's page 17 says if the midot of your Rabbi like an angel listen to his Torah if not don't listen to nothing he says he's not a rabbi if his midot like an angel he's good midot he's smart he's funny he's generous he's there he's got good midot doesn't always have to be funny something else too if he's got good M if he's if he has no jokes what one joke every six months three jokes a month that's not good have more but no if he has good mid do then you listen to him if he has bad mid do don't listen to nothing he say he's not he's not you're not allowed to listen to him there's one little jokester out there in the world Unfortunately today calling himself a rabbi I talk to him about a lot of times never mention his name I don't want want Toom listen to him just because I mentioned his name this guy's a jokester doesn't make a difference he's M this guy's M his G gets bigger every day he calls himself a rabbi so recently he says a lot of things that are against the Tor he tells people go if your wife doesn't want to go to the mik you still allowed to be with her if uh you know if your wife wants to go drive on Shabbat drive on Shabbat forom all types of laws that he creates in his head so recently took it to a new level recently he became a na you know what na is a false prophet he had a video made right after the holiday five minute video he says I wanted to tell everybody that God spoke to me when God speaks to you that means you're a navi you're a prophet God spoke to me and he told me thank you this is a video he made a video he says God spoke to me and he told me thank you this is M this is a this happened actually cuz I mean anyone with common sense was see this guy's an idiot this guy's crazy you can't fix crazy crazy is a you go to mental institution you can't fix crazy there's no pill for crazy once you're crazy you're crazy perod fault for giving all these he's crazy he doesn't have to keep anything he's no he's he's the guy's na the guy the guy's but this is what I told you when I first if you guys remember I told you in the beginning beginning beginning when I first mentioned this idiot I told you that this guy's eventually going to make his own religion this is exactly what's happening right now this is M yesu God spoke to me told me thank you listen the fact you have a miracle here and there fact you have in fact you have a wife you have good things happening in your life great God spoke to me and he said thank you come on no like you have to have M you have to have M like really to say such a thing the Torah says Five Books of Moses say you're obligated to kill him if we had would kill him can't say God spoke to me not like it's not like Joey spoke to me and he said we should come over more often it's not that so people dangerous so now when someone is mamash a real Prophet a real well someone's a real R and someone has a r is students have to fear Him why they fear him because this is going to be the one that get you into but how do you know if he's a is if he has good if he's a you can't listen to him if he's a if he's stupid you can't listen to him if he's a fool you can't listen to him if he's an angry person you can't listen listen to him if he has bad mid you can't listen to him if he's stingy you can't listen to him not that if he's stingy you can listen to him about all the other stuff no if he has bad midot he's P you got to reuke him no you don't rebuke him you pul don't listen go find another Rabbi so it's meaning it's very hard to find a real Rabbi it's very hard to find a real Rabbi so now in Taman in Yemen they had a of called Mori Mori and Mori from tan people were scared of him scared of him not because he would go around and rebuking people because hey you got angry your wife told me no Mory was such a ish kados such a holy person imash knew what people do in their house he says why' you go to Bessa today no no I went I went no you didn't go I know you were sleeping till 10:00 today why did you well why' you uh yell at your wife today why' you overcharge the customer why DS M People why'd you waste seed today how you not wasted seed that's something you're doing in secret you're ashamed of yourself after you waste seed there not a person in the world that's proud of wasting seed even even the the go it's a feel it's a natural feeling to be like ashamed it's a natural feeling so tell them why you waste seed you know what you're doing you're wasting seed you know what it says in when you're wasting seed I give you it's actually Shabbat Shabbat the second one Shabbat second one relevant to this relevant to this says Shabbat says this whoever holds his male member while urinating is considered as if he's bringing on the Maul to the world million times says when you go and urinate if you're holding your male member for those who don't know that means penis we have to be clear these days what can we do excuse my language it's it's a normal term it's not a it's not a foul or a derogatory term but you have to be clear these days when a man goes to the bathroom kazal says you're not allowed to touch it that's why theim by the way theim they have these special underwear where it's it's like a boxer short big boxer short and they position their male member into the hole they don't touch it all that's gets a little training to do but point is you could also sit down there's logistical uh it's not that difficult put it that way it's not that difficult but says someone that actually holds their member when they're going to urinate he's not even talking about wasting seed so we just should go and urina something you do three four five seven eight nine times a day says you're holding your male member you're bringing the Maul why you bringing a maul because what do you think made the guy think about going waste seed what made you what made the guy so comfortable with actually doing such a thing because to isad to isad his male member and his finger same thing this is kados that's kados just like I'm not going to violate my finger and put it into fire I'm not going to violate my breit and put that into fire not going to waste seed violate the T and the biggest sin in the world Shalom what gets a person to AEV of of of of of comfort where he feels okay to touch himself K says well he goes to urinates and he touches himself then and he gets comfortable with it this is a problem already why because as soon as he has yet go inside it continues and it becomes much worse he brings the Maul why he brings the Maul that's what the par says says hem was willing to accept all sins they did this they did this they did this they did all types of sins they did all types of sins when did they break the camels back they broke the camels back when they started wasting seed the world became corrupt the biggest sin was not just the stealing that people thought people think theat says they were stealing theat they were stealing but it actually is stealing stealing the fortune of others so where we know it when gave the seven laws of Noah to to Noah so one of the initial ones is to give him the uh Mitzvah of do not murder but in the Mitzvah of do not murder we learn about wasting seed how it's a big sin both for Jews and non-jews so in parat Noah chapter 9 verse 6 says so this I've gone over this verse in in the past and I'll give you guys a about it so verse six it says someone who spills the blood of a man within a man his blood will be spilled so the blood of a man we know that's regular blood but the blood of a man with a man that's seed that's seed so we see it literally in Hebrew talking about seed so someone that Wast seed his blood will be spilled because in the image of God Hashem created man so now why is this the stealing that hasem was referring to why is this the corruption that was talking to because the very following verse verse seven after he says don't spill seed because that's considered murder what's the purpose purpose of you even having seed what's the purpose of you even having a body according to the r that's what the next is it says it says in you be fruitful and multiply team on the earth and multiply on it right after he says don't waste seed he says go and use that seed to bring children to the world meaning that the corruption the stealing that he's talking about was not stealing $5 from Andi you're stealing the fortune of the that have been sitting in sh and want to come to Earth you're stealing their Fortune while you're wasting them you're killing them that's why you're supposed to not waste it and actually use it that's why those two are connected that's the so now when a person wants to run away from such a sin wants to run away from such a horrible horrible sin it's very critical for them to do a couple of things number one they have to continuously learn about the subject have to learn about the significance of the sin why it's so bad to waste seed there's a three and a half hours year we did in New York that every person every guy whether they have this problem or not sh you at least once a month it's m an overview of everything then there's about at least a handful or half a dozen or so different short clips just like we did now about the subject watch those again all of them at least once a month that's one two you have to train your eyes to stop looking where they don't belong because your eyes says in don't follow the things of your heart and the things of your of your eyes why your eyes because what you see is what you can end up thinking about when you go to sleep it's what you can end up thinking about when you pray it's what you going think about when you're with your wife if you're married so don't look where you don't belong you have to watch your eyes that's number that's number two we already covered that number three what's the number three is we listen to this in Shabbat we have to start training ourselves to not only not touch our body as often as we do as comfortably as we do but M get to a point where you don't even look there now I know this sounds to most guys this sounds like uh I'm expecting you guys to be rebi to be it's not that hard not that hard you get used to it it's hard in the beginning but it's not as hard as your is telling you right now yet right now is telling you this is this guy is expecting us to be all together no it's not that hard it's not that hard and the reason why I'm telling you is because the less comfortable you are with your own body the more holy you're making it the more holy you make it less likely you are to violated so one thing is that's easy easy pieace a cake from now on when you go to the bathroom regardless of one or two sit down regards of whether it's one or two sit down that already eliminates the issue of holding the member or not member and again this is but this is a reality issue this is an issue that needs to be talked about so sit down two try to do whatever you can not to touch your member directly three only look if it's necessary it's really not that necessary to look it really isn't only look if it's necessary as as far as you think this is this is from you and I promise you that when eventually you with your wife eventually when you're using it for whatever pleasure you want to use it for with your wife everything is even better than you thought it's still there it doesn't run away because you didn't look at it it still works everything is there everything is wonderful it's even better it's even better but that's the thing this this this Mish it all connects how it's point being is that somebody needed to hear it that's why hasem said because this was definitely not part of the Shure now next the uh the rabbi from T was telling Mas told people I know you sinned and people were much scared so sometimes hasm gives the ra Special K special strength to know things about his students that they didn't tell him sometimes they don't even know about themselves so this specific moly must knew what people were doing in behind closed doors other rabbis he gives them different strength like for example the stapler St Shalom anytime somebody that was a Shabbat would come into Yesa where he would learn he immediately start screaming get out get out get out get him out get him out get him out enemy of hasem get him out he couldn't couldn't deal with it he doesn't know the guy he didn't see him but as soon as he entered the building he knew that's that's that's so different someone that has you know closest to hem hasem gives him powers that are Beyond Norm beyond the norm so that's the uh having the fear of your student where we where do we get this uh this um the no so the Mori the story is is that these people in general all of the people in Yemen especially the ones that still live there extra extra stringent when why was scared of their Rabbi why cuz their Rabbi was really holy really holy and he knew that they sinned somebody knows you just did what you did behind closed doors calls you out on ited when you thought you got away with it you feel bad but not that bad but as soon as it came to light hey a sh why what I do I saw you you drove you did something on Shabbat how did you know it was dark I know Shem told me scary scary you don't want to sin you thinking there a there a hidden camera everywhere scary exposed right so the r chapter 5 12 says just as the students must honor their teachers so the teachers should honor their students and develop a close relationship with them why one must take extreme care with his disciples and love them for they are his children who give him pleasure in this world and the world to come so somebody has has Tam has to make sure that he gets you know he's there for them he's there for them where do we learn this from we learn this from mhu and how he treated Yeshua in uh Exodus chapter 17 verse 9 when they were going to war with Amal mosu said to Yeshua choose men uh let's uh let us choose men let's choose men together who's going to fight the war technically mosu was the leader he says let's go choose men for me you go choose go do it for me you work for me go do it to me like uh go pick up my laundry go uh you know take care of this car for me go do it for me work for me it's not it's not disrespecting him technically he's not disrespecting him it's his job he said no let us choose Men Let Us choose men we're going to fight with where did M Learn this where M Learn this he learn this from where did see it created man after he created angels but before he created man he says to the angels that were also his creation he says let us create man in our image let us create man in our image why did he say let us create man in our image why he needs he needs there he needs the help of the Angels they're also a creation says listen they're also my creation let me give them some honor why honor because if I don't give them any honor they're going to think they're not important they're going to feel bad about themselves I love them they're my creation also they're not but they're my creation also you understand I want I want them to feel important I want them to feel that they're significant so that's that's why mosu followed suit mhu followed suit so sometimes you have a uh teacher that is scared of his student scared of his student he sees his student advancing really fast like he were saying before student answers him a question he gives him the wrong answer he gives him the wrong answer he doesn't help him a student ask him listen I saw you gave a Shure you using this book you using certain sources can you give me I want to give a sh to a few friends can you can you give me your sources can you give me the information you use for this you and R like no no no it's my stuff you know how long I worked on it I L for I worked for all those sources all that stuff I worked on it for five years why should I give it to you for nothing that's not a ra that's a that's a b that's a person that's not his Tora is not from sham his T he's doing it for Honor you have to change rabbit so if the rabbi is giving wrong answers to certain people what is that a sign of that's a sign that he has no and we learned from if he has bad M which obviously one of the the worst thing you could possibly have is you're not allowed to learn from him he's not allowed to be your R you making him your love you're making a sin he's making a sin you're making a sin that's if you know he has no you know if you know he has bad mid now if let's say for example he's the rabbi of the that you are attending you don't have to make him your Rabbi he's just the rabbi of theet go pray there as long as there's 10 people that are Kosher that keep Shabbat that keep basic count you go you pray you go home you you don't have to have every local Rabbi become your Rabbi you're just the rabbi of the wiet you don't have to you know own every coaster restaurant in order to eat there you're just go there to eat same to with you go there to pray no he doesn't have to be a rabbi especially if he has bad mid not not to listen to him so that's one second thing is in regards to those same things same people the B Bala having a lot of problems these days because the F world doesn't know how to deal with them sometimes so b sometimes are very very passionate much more passionate about Torah than from from from birth people and they're coming in with fire they just started doing Chua 6 months ago they want everybody to pray with they want everybody to pray like the mashia is already here watching them you know and everybody's been praying for 25 30 years like hey relax little guy go let's see what you're doing in 20 years so the B Chua on one hand has to realize that not everybody is the same level of fire the FR on the other hand has to know and has to realize if he's on fire help him get him even higher you have to help each other you have to honor your colleague it's all Forma it's all for sh and the reason why is because that fire is what's going to save him when mashia arrives before he completed his chuva you see when you do chuva people think you start keeping Shabbat start keeping kosher start uh you know stop wasting seed you did chuva okay you started your chu you didn't complete your Chua why you didn't complete because two things number one you have to learn all the mitv in order to fulfill them until you learn them you're probably violating them it's a famous story in saw the dead person dead person body laying in a street so he took them to the Yesa said should we bury them they just said you violated Tor you violated T why if you find a dead body wherever you find him you have to bury him right there so every single step you took thinking you're doing a mitzvah thought you doing mitvah you found a dead body you brought him to Yesa to ask us where to bury him every step you took was a sin from the Tor why person that you find him as a dead body you don't know who killed him you don't know what you don't know where you don't know this he bought the place meaning he's buried right there so you made a sin so you know he made a sin he didn't get to it so you had to make the mistake in order to get to it the point being the point being is that you're going to have situations where you're going to have to sin first in order to make chuva to learn the law so it's going to take time it's going to take time to learn all these laws to complete CH you need to learn a lot that's number one number two need to make up for a lot of the sins need to remember all those sins that you made theem is not going to depress you overnight and make you remember all your sins instantly because if you really remember all your sins in one one shot you're going to get depressed you're going to leave everything and say I'm definitely going to G them so gives you bits and pieces and he gets you to remember the big sins that you're making right now violating Shabbat violating kosher wasting seed whatever you're doing right now then all of a sudden you're doing Chua for uh two years three years all of a sudden you remind you that uh 10 years ago you stole some money you stole $500 from some guy or you borrowed money you never returned it you forgot about the guy you left 10 years ago but you went to and and says said say somebody that took money didn't return it it's considered stealing and anyone that has stolen money it's like having blood on their hands when they arrive at the G they show I want to get in like hey you can't get in with blood on your hands go back you have to come back in a Gil so now you forgot about it says no you didn't do cha I'm going to remind him of it 10 years after it happened so now you're G to do cha for it or he remind you oh yeah you had a abortion you had a girlfriend in high school you got a pregnant you didn't know now you're an abortion you forgot about it you're 35 years old happened 20 years ago how you going to do cha abortion the baby's dead how you going to do cha it's murder it's 100% murder how you do Chua you murdered somebody why did hasm remind you of this just to torture you no it's chuva what's Chua first of all you have to feel bad for it you have to cry you murdered somebody you have to cry for it second of all you have to get is going to get you to remember it or in a position where you're going to stop somebody else from committing that murder some lonely woman that uh got ourselves pregnant or whatever or some couple that doesn't have any amuna is going to come to you and say listen well we're planning on killing a baby you know how many people like that come to me all the time not that I was some murderer in the past but the point is is that people like that come to me all the time some woman came to me she said said I have an appointment to the abortion when a day before Yip a day before yum Kip a day before yum Kip have an appointment for an abortion gave us the Merit I told her come told my wife tell her to come to our house sit here with the husband with not husband with whoever just come we sat with them for hours m hours why money they thought they not going to have money not going to have this not going to have that we sat with them for hours hours and hours of time that time and another time it was months months of work a little baby is born running around loving life and everything he's getting alive and well alive and well raban worked non-stop on this m this was this this little baby doesn't know what kind of P she was in six months she wanted to murder the kid because when it's inside it doesn't feel like a baby doesn't feel like a human being it feels like there's something in you you don't know what it is there's something there doesn't feel like the little coochie coochie coochie that you play with at home feels like there's something there that's bothering you makes you fat once it's out it's a human being in reality it's still human being inside after 40 days 100 100% human being 40 days 100% functional human being people don't understand this why because they call itala in Hebrew is like a in English it's like abortion what's an abortion who knows it's a big word who knows it's nothing it's nothing it's just like they take it out of you it's nothing it's like a it's like a peanut they make it seem like not a big deal so somebody did an abortion 20 years ago how do chuva she's gonna send him somebody listen this woman wants to do abortion why because she doesn't think she has the money to have the kid okay I'll give you the money I'll give you the money go how much you have that kid $3,000 okay I'll borrow the money I'll steal the money I'll do something I'll get the money I'll pay for the kid really yes that's you do cha that's you do cha you can't bring the kid back to life but you can stop someone else murdering so during your chva is going to take time so now how is that fire you have as chuva that's what's going to save you if the mashia shows up before you finish your CH cuem knows what's in your heart that's one of the 13 principles of Faith he knows that if he would have given you this test you would have passed it why because he knows what's in your heart he knows if I would have given him the way to do cha before that he would have done it open the door for him why if you're B Chua it's a real B Chua now the other question in regards to B Chua Safari ashkanazi whatever doesn't necessarily matter if it's Safari askanazi B cha somebody wants to be Safari but he's asazi somebody wants to be asazi whatever vice versa has nothing to do with in general kazal said you shouldn't steer away from your father but if you feel like being where you are is making you uncomfortable or you're not connecting or turning your connection with hem you have to find out the real reason of why you want to change if it's just because you have more friends on the other side that's not a real reason if it's just because you like to pay as more of on the other side not a real reason has to be a real reason you can't be uh Safari half the year and askanazi the other half you can't flip flap but if you have a valid reason to change change there a valid reason to change change but it has to be a valid reason has to be that's where the r comes in that's where the rabbi comes in so um that's the next point so to finish up finish up I don't know what time it is but I think we've been on for a while so finish at least not 5:40 in the morning like last time I asked you guys last time I told you guys we still have a little while left it was 5:40 in the morning so uh have a question yeah go this cons to Street to father I think concern about how the Father the father father follow any rules you grew up in this kind of EnV sure sure and this case I think that you can choose whatever you want because you don't have any any tradition to follow because your father because your father is is a is somebody who follow I think you don't allow to do that I don't know yes well I mean the forefather when they mean your fathers don't necessarily mean just your immediate father it also means your grandfather that could have been a big Rabbi or great-grandfather you if you come let's say for example your immediate father could be uh a murderer but your grandfather is uh the so the reality is that you know you don't hold by this one you hold by the the other ones but again if you live in a place what makes you uncomfortable to be one way and you want to be something else you connect to it more you connect to Hashem more you're going to be a better Jew on the other side do it go with it but again there has to be a valid reason has not just I feel like it has to be a valid reason now to um to know the significance of the mitv there's a lot of people because it makes a big deal of a difference in certain holidays like for example uh PES p is the biggest thing you know because on one side on asazi side and actually some Safari like Moroccans uh consider rice Safari if there's no rice there's no P we love rice so you understand so you can't flipflop you can't say no on P and the rest ofi you do that though he's here but my is Israel no that's not allowed not allowed if you he's not allowed if you live in America the whole year you have to keep American laws even in Israel even if you go there on vacation even if you're there for three he lives here but he keeps only one day so he's not now and no he's not's not he's making his own laws a person like that is making his laws a person like that Isaiah the book of Isaiah in his lip service he gave me honors but in his heart is very far from me it's fakers people make up their own laws no no no I keep MIT I keep holiday I keep holiday why don't you keep the MIT of my sages the raan he said that if you live in the Exile you have to keep two days Y no no I'm more connected to Hashem in Israel but you don't live there if you live there well fine so that's a faker there's a lot of fakers in the world a lot of fakers in the world so that's the that's something that people need to stay away from that's where the comes from that's where uh comes from but the reality is that all of the problems with usually have to do with Gava which is the basic Foundation of all the stuff that we're talking about here see a person will dishonor his students because he thinks he's better than them a person will dishonor his colleague because he thinks he's better than them a person will dishonor his rabbi because he thinks he's better than him it's all about having Pride thinking you're better than what you really are and the Proverbs chapter 16 verse 5 says says what's disgusting to hem what's disgusting to hem anyone that has prideful heart that's considered disgusting to Hashem says you have no reason whatsoever to be prideful the body that you're prideful of is eventually going to be in my maggots the money that you're proud of I gave you and you can't take it back you can't take it to with you to Allah to Eternity the wisdom that you have that you think you have I can easily take it away from you and make you senile make you have Alzheimer's make you have memory loss so why what are you so oh you have good speeches I can easily make you a mute you know that lost his ability to speak twice in his life twice in his life he had to test he wasn't able to speak imagine world renowned top speaker rebuker in the world can't speak not only you twice he had it in his life and he had a test he passed test twice got speech back soem sometimes gives it as a punishment sometimes as a test so when it comes to being angry at hem angry at hem for his tests that means you're disconnected from hem when you're angry at hem that means you're disconnected from hem and the reason why is because in order for you to be connected to hem you need to know your role you are the creation which ultimately your goal as a as the creation ultimately you'll become what's the highest level of what a human being could possibly be is what M reached what is that means servant of hem everything you do has hem in mind you have no opinion that's the ultimate goal of the creation if you're angry at your master that means you think you're the master you think the master owes you something you got the roles reversed who are you to be angry at hem what do you think he owes you something what' you give him what what did you give him what does he owe you who are you this was the worst this what I just told you right now was the first time I got rebuked by RAB FR RAB FR doesn't rebuke often but he rebukes he tells you three words kills you one time I got upset something happened I got upset at hasem early CH I got upset ofm loves a he loves a love hm like he loves hasem oh he loves I get upset at hem who you think you are he tells me where owe you would you give him all of a sudden like this guy never rebuked me in my life shock I got heart attack epilepsy uh tumor seizures everything on what what just happened here kashim just yelled at who you think you are who you think you are I actually start thinking who I think I am I ask who I think I am it was a real question who I think I am who you me being angry at AEM how do you have the right to be angry at AEM do you know what hem is gives you everything you angry at it on top of it you're lucky you're alive you know how many times you're supposed to kill you so that's the thing when we have anger that means we're disconnected we're disconnected from reality we disconnect if we if we if we're disrespecting our students with disrespecting AEM because hasm gave us the responsibility to take these from to G you're responsible for these little these pure's children you're responsible for them you're disrespecting them they're killing their confidence you're going against theem on the other hand you have a you have a colleague you have somebody ask you for notes ask you for help to give a lecture ask you for but you're too egotistical you're too selfish you don't want to help him it's because you love yourself you're not doing what you're doing for for for hem you're doing what you're doing for for GAA for for yourself for Prophet for to get your own miracles to answer your question is it better to live with a life of Miracles or not either way you live a life of Miracles either way you live a life of Miracles the only difference is whether you're paying attention to them or not are they open Miracles or not are they individualistic Miracles or not are they great that it's obvious for others to see or is it just for you to see the point is to see AEM at work is extraordinary there's no better life than that why you're seeing Hashem talking to you outright to you not through some uh uh burning bush but you see the guy okay listen you trust Hem Hem says I'm GNA give you parasa I'm gonna give you whatever par I'm GNA give you but just know whatever you spend on Shabbat whatever you spend on mitv whatever you spend on holiday not including your so we hold by this we learned from we learned from the We Hold by this this holiday recently cost us like I don't know $800 and something dollars food this that whatever all these different thing cost $800 and something dollars now we go spend I don't look what's in the account we go we need we take what we got to have this what we had so anyway howay finishes I go check the mail we've had a lot of problems in the mail all of a sudden I see there two uh two envelope or three envelopes three envelopes one of them is from some uh some student sent me $400 half half the got accepted half the got accepted the other one is $392 $392 from what from some insurance deal I did 10 years ago 10 years ago I did some insurance deal I forgot about it completely forgot about it completely forgot there's any money due to me at all nothing happened to H happened to show up at this time there some payment they wanted to pay me I didn't even know they knew my address new address point being the point being is hasm says I'll pay you cash I'll pay you cash just believe in me you have no right to be angry at me now do I prefer to have the cash show up like that or by me making 200,000 a month I can tell you from experience i' rather it show up like this why it's so much more fun it's it's so much more fun to see hasem pay for your bills it's so much more fun so it's better it's better to talk it's better to listen to Hashem so now when you are disrespecting your colleague you're disrespecting Hashem last but not least when you disrespect your Rabbi you're disrespecting God you're disrespecting God this is Mas an atomic bomb this is an atomic bomb to such an extent that if you just give you last story and you could ask any other questions you have that I didn't answer the was the his with the b b and he had an extraordinary amount of fear of his master of his of his Rabbi but he never wanted his fear of his Rabbi to be more than fear of God obviously fear him as much as God but not fear more than God so one time the was a in a c of a family member the person in the in the case was a family member of the bov so he saw the bmov his R was in the crowd in the seats over there and he knew that the fact that his R is in the crowd it may steer his decision it may disturb his decision it may hurt his so smash the hammer it says anyone the the court rules anyone that has nothing to do with the case has to leave the court so despite his fear of his Rabbi his fear of his Rabbi you know kicked his Rabbi out and everybody else out of the Court why so he doesn't hurt his but to give you an idea of how much he feared his Rabbi one time he found the handkerchief handkerchief of his Rabbi his handkerchief of his Rabbi and he saw there's a little bit of like smudge on it something from his Rabbi like the fact that there was something relevant to his Rabbi he saw it he passed out passed out like to him it was like his Rabbi is right there that's how much he scared scared of his Rabbi so again the they didn't get to become they didn't become you know just because they were smart has to be combination has to be combination and the biggest thing is that we have to understand is in need right now am is in big need it's no this need is no different than the Holocaust it's no different than the Holocaust in days of the Holocaust the zionists gave up on a million Jews gave up on a million Jews why did they want to pay for it it wasn't even their money people donated this money people donated this money this was willing to sell a million Jews sell a million Jews no here has a million Jews give me some trucks give me some money give me some this they said no we don't want them because they're this and because they're that and because they're this and because they're that it's not because we love we don't have is because modern Israel because we love Jews no they love themselves right now is not different right now is not different Jews are still up for sale Jews are still up for sale right now as we speak 80% of does not keep 80% of does not keep Shabbat 80% of does not do what's the what gets them to do money why money gets the lecture that tells them the truth from place to place go to California go to Tahiti go to Australia go to jenam go to wherever you can there's Jews there you go people want to listen you go you can arrange a big event get 500 people to show up to actually do chuva you go not to give them teddy bears get them to do chuva what gets people to do Chua you got to speak to them but unfortunately to get to them sometimes cost money that event to get people to show up to an 9-hour lecture I had to pay $300 for it I had to pay not somebody paid me usually somebody gives a lecture you pay them a few thousand dollar some of these rabbis they go to beet you pay them $15,000 a lecture $20,000 a lecture you go help people do chuva to actually help them do cha you have to pay them here has $300 worth of food come guys eat sushi eat this eat this just come that's ala is sick not sick voice no voice am is is in need is is in need what gets am do CH get in front of them you do kir videos you give out CDs you give lectures new application new website new movies all this stuff costs money what can get to actually do CH say it's for sale who wants to buy that's the question to buying the uh the the name to put your name plate on a zoo 40,000 would have already been donated via Facebook if I said I'm selling a plate you can put on the noahide zoo you could put your family name whatever 40,000 would have been raised I'm opening another school like we need one we need better teachers not schools I'm opening another school 500,000 would have been donated already 500,000 on Facebook on this on that 500,000 and you get tripled and quadrupled and this tripled and that tripled give me a school I am opening another uh whatever another Hanukah party 40,000 50,000 there's some uh families in Israel need food 100,000 200,000 500 just go look at all these charity things I'm saving saving I want to go okay these you want to put in the schools these they going to go to the Hanukkah party these they're going to go to the poring party these they're going to go to lectures these going to be I'm trying to save them $20 do you understand what's Happening Here is for sale and it's no different than the Holocaust it's no different question is whether we're going to make the same decision you say no no it's not for us it's not for us you understand right question you had oh when you talk about to be angry with k um I don't know I saw after Holocaust I think it' be you know I don't have any memories I don't have anybody from from the Inquisition but I think it happened they have two version like second Mark becoming very very very to very religious somebody say suffering a lot say come on it's too much I quit so mean some people some people break when hasem gives him a test some people become better says sadik falls seven times sadik falls seven times and the uh the tells us only a fool thinks that a sadik needs to fall seven times only fo what is trying to tell us there is that a sadik it's going to go through life it's going to have tests he's going to have UPS he's going to have downs but the seven times that he falls that's not the focus each fall he's using that as leverage to get higher each time he falls he sees that it's hem doing him a favor Hashem is smashing him in the face to make him a better looking diamond hasem is giving him a bigger test to make him a better one a better that's what we learned a few months ago in t t if you remember we did a sh in Miami group says to the your uh staff and you're sticking your staff that's what gives me Comfort what does it mean you're sticking your staff stick hits you staff Direct you why is it both why he say listen the staff is good not the stick says no no first I know you're hitting me then you're directing me why because you're my shepherd you're not hitting me just to hit me you're not hitting me just to hit me he's not punishing us with a holocaust just to punish us he's not punishing us with an inquisition just to punish us he's not punishing us with with some type of disease just to punish us he's punishing us to direct us so in the days of the Holocaust unfortunately what I heard actually Shalom himself says he says I wasn't a holocaust goes I was in a holocaust you can't tell me what happened I was there I was in a holocaust I saw it he says hem did for is by making the Holocaust he did for is why if is continued the sins they were making there would be no am there would be worse than killing the bodies why the amount of assimil ation that was happening and the amount of atheism due to Zionism and all this other stuff that was happening in that generation before the Holocaust it was only a matter of time where there was not going to be an so by using the the stick at that moment he saved am is as painful as that is to say as painful as that is to experience as painful as that is to know it's a reality it's not the first time he did it and unfortunately not the last time same thing happened in inquisitions same thing happened in the BET mikash same thing happened in the second bet mikdash same thing happened in Egypt same thing happened throughout all of history all of history had to hit us in order to direct us that's a reality does not do CH by itself no one just wakes up and does chuva wakes up in the morning oh how wonderful is the day I'm going to do Chua what Chua I'm going to do feeling today do you know what feeling are no but it sounds like a cool word I'm going to put some I'm going to take some cow skin and put it around my arm and you know what on top of that I'm gonna cover my head with a silly looking little hat you know on top of that I'm G take out the five earrings I have on top of that I'm G to leave the non-jewish girlfriend that I have on top of that I'm G stop stealing because even though my bank has account keeps growing every month it's not right to steal and none of all of a sudden you change your life and become a human being why why why change sin is fun stolen water are sweets the stolen water is sweeter what do you mean water is water go no the fact that you stole your says that one tastes better it's the same water same well same everything because you stole it your tells you taste better it's better for you so the sin tastes good even though at the end it's bitter even though at the end it's the worst but for now it looks the greatest so what's going to make you change all of a sudden you want to go leave amalik and his friends in Las Vegas and go to the instead why why do chuva for what if it's not for it's not happening why would you get why all of a sudden you're afraid of this God you didn't care about your whole life 20 30 40 50 years you didn't care about about him for 50 years why all of a sudden you care because you had a dream no cuz he hit you he took away your money took away your wife took away a kid took away something took away your health he made you realize you're nothing in reality the whole time you were nothing you were just living an illusion you in a matrix you thought you were something he finally reminds you he by the way you're nothing I'm in control I'm the boss eventually going to have to meet me so now you get scared like oh this health thing got to start appreciating before I don't you know before it gets too bad got to start losing weight I got to start eating better I got to start asking Hashem for a miracle to keep me alive I got to start doing better I got to start doing better my wife wants to leave me I got to start doing better I got to treat her better my kids are murderers one after another I have only one little little kid left I got to start doing better at least save this one kid got to start doing better you start realizing bad things start happening in your life God tells you hey you're nothing you're nothing and say oh you know what you're right you're right I need you I need you as Fidel our dear friend and student in Cuba right now visiting his family and he says he volunteers sadik he volunteers at a hospice center he says in the hospice center even the atheist is religious everyone's about to die any day everyone's religious The Atheist comes ask me for he asked me for blessing The Atheist his whole life he was atheist but he know he's about to meet his maker he knows he's about to meet his creator you still care about the fancy watch when you're in your Deathbed you still care about the Bentley you have in the parking lot that you can't drive anymore on a deathbed can't take it with you so fear of hasem is the foundation of everything but it all starts this chapters to it you don't get to the highest overnight takes time now need you needs every single person every single person because to show hasem that you're even connected to him just fear him you're connected to him connected to him at all how can you show up to your master to your creator and say by the way hasem I was really really scared of you but the fact that I let a million of your sons and daughters die and I didn't do anything about it the G because I didn't feel like donating 50 bucks I didn't feel like donating $500 I feel like keeping everything to myself I want to stash up my bank account as a collectible I told you guys a story yesterday there's a continuation to that story remember I told you there's a uh serious and uh having a difficult financial situation they get 500 bucks a month we try to send money to every month as the organization it's part of what we do and um but there's just so much you can do we don't get that much but we try we try a few thousand every month you try to do whatever you can but um anyway so this needed some extra help so uh the person that uh gave the money said listen he owes this much I don't have $15,000 whatever he owes it's like 50,000 checkel which is like 12 13,000 I don't have that much but I'll give I have $3,000 in a bank I'll give two yeah you have bills you don't have to give $3,000 you don't have to give $2,000 you have $3,000 in a make give a 100 bucks give 50 bucks give $200 whatever you don't need to give two-thirds of what you have in the bank you have bills too yeah yeah of course I have bills I have a lot of bills coming up but they're coming up they're not here today right now right now I don't need the money right now I have this money in my bank doing nothing he doing nothing at least going to do something that was the story yesterday so story continues today so the party that receive they felt a little uncomfortable oh it's a lot are you sure this so the guy says listen I don't have as many mitv as you I don't have many mitv why are you ruining my mitvah you have so many mitv you learned T all day every letter in the Tora is a mitvah how many Mitzvah you have every day 600,000 700,000 every day I don't have that many mitv why are you ruining my mitvah I give a I gave you garbage I gave you a piece of paper I don't even feel it's in the bank I gave you garbage so I get mitv for it and you're ruining it for me why you care go your mitv you do your thing I'll do my thing I give you garbage and I'm get for it you're actually learning what I give you I give you garbage get a piece of paper what am I going to do with them collect them what is it stamps I'm going to collect them like a like a stamp collect you know some people collect stamps what I going to do with all this money I don't need it right now I need money down the road a week from now a month from now whatever it is now I don't need it just like Hashem gave me when I don't need it he's going to give me when I need it so why are you ruining it for me you need it right now so hasem gave it to me for you what do you care what are you getting in the way for so people have people have stacks of money sitting in bank accounts and stock accounts and Ira accounts and this account and so many accounts they don't even know oh yeah I forgot about us remember in the business in the business world all these clients were tell me oh you know what I forgot I have this account at Fidelity it's a small account I have like at5 $20,000 we just forgot about $155,000 you know how many people forgot about 5,000 10,000 20 they forgot about it I had one guy many times man used to have very rich clients he goes yeah I have this small account it's half a million dollars sitting in this account whatever if you want to play with that go have a small account but I'm not talking about the rich people talk about regular Average Joe's everybody has this money they don't really need they're saving for that rainy day that didn't happen they're saving for the mabul they're saving for Noah's flood the reality of it is it's not going to help you once it's flooding don't be a Rya don't be a Noah that started crying after the Maul the money helps you if you use it before the Maul happens you understand this is why the sh should be called Jews are for sale because Jews are for sale M Jews are for sale there's no different than the Holocaust there's no different than the Holocaust cost they was for sale back then in body they're for sale now even more with soul what's going to get them to do chba I'm is people they care how do we know if we care this Mish taught us you care about your students you care about your colleagues you care about your Rabbi you care about Hashem you care it all you care if you care you have a respect you do something if not enjoy sh use this entertainment it's not going to help you any other questions adoption I didn't answer adoption everything else I think I answer what else yeah yeah oh co yes someone allow is it possible that someone could is the real is says that I think it's a zor says that at the end of times before mashia comes there's going to be so many sins that we've made as a generation as a people that we're GNA use up all of our all of the merits of our forefathers whether that's the Merit of abrah is and yob that's been carrying us for 4,000 years or it's the merits of Moshe andon or it's the merits of David and or it's the merits of grandfather and Grandpa whoever it is apparently we're going to run out of it meaning what's going to help us our own merits our own chuva who's the go gonna come and save he's gonna save the one that used to be a the one that used to be a criminal against God and did he going to help him him he's going to help the one that's aish the one that's sacrificing his life for hem sacrificing his this world for hem for hem and his for his people meaning sacrificing your life doesn't necessarily mean just literally putting your life on a line like a AA did or some of the sages sacrificing your life meaning you're sacrificing your this world you're not excuse me you're not chasing money non-stop you're not chasing women non-stop you're not chasing your friends non-stop you're not chasing materialistic world that we have right now no one says you have to be poor and no one says that you have to be homeless but if your priority in life is the materialism of this world you still have a long way in your trouba you have a long way near Chua so again it's a uh these each one of these sages that was able to revive the dead chooses to give us a very very basic foundational Shure each one of these mot it's very simple technically but you see that each one is another huge Boulder that's builds a foundation builds the foundation of your connection to Hashem because when you have a good solid foundation you don't need to look elsewhere you don't need to do anything else you have something to stand on so when hasm gives you a tun gives you a test you're going to hold strong you're not going to fall the people that fell in the past whether it be through Holocaust or inquisitions or personal test that they had with cancer and disease and money and so on it's not because of God because of them they didn't have a good foundation sometimes they look really religious sometimes they could have possibly been very religious but unfortunately there was something in there that was rotten something in there that that broke the chain usually the strength of the chain is only shown by its weakest link something there was wrong could have been the rabbi could have been the their own amuna issues they never worked on could be M you're not here to judge anybody that passed on in previous generations the point is is that something went wrong it's definitely not God the the the the U The Missing Link is us something happened it's on our end it's not inm hasem never lacks is never missing anything he never did anything wrong because remember he doesn't knows anything he doesn't knows anything so that's that's that's a uh you know when an answers as far as the adoption issue when you realize that you have technically 80% of am that you can adopt right now by helping them do CH you don't need to worry about this doesn't mean that you go out there and you ignore if you have that want to convert help them if you have that want to become noahides help them if you have an opportunity to help them help them but it could never take priority over a Jew if you have if you have 500 G nice people wonderful people donate each one wants to donate $1,000 you can give them a lecture or you have one guy Jewish guy 20 years old needs an hour of your time needs two hours of your time it's not going to donate anything not going to donate anything $10 is not going to donate if anything he's going to ask you for a loan you have to go help him why he's obligated by all of the MIT they're not obligated by fewer they can reach another way they don't you don't need to go speak to them you don't to give them a lecture you can if you want but you have to help him first it can never be the cost of a Jew you can never lose one Jew to save theim so again we try to help theim as much as possible we've been able to be successful with it but uh for those people that contribute the majority of their life to uh these noahide causes they're mistaken they're mistaken and the reason why they're mistaken is because 80% of Amel ran away from home 80% of hashem's kids ran away from home and you have a chance to bring them back but instead you're telling them that you're not going to bring the back you know bring somebody other kid back it doesn't say that the other kid is bad but it's not the chosen one so do make sense so it's it [Music] yeah that's the town he lived yeah when would they stop when it's not they sto going around that they stop going around there uh if you read there's a um if you don't mind give me some water or something to drink dying oh this mine oh thank you um if you read it's a very very good book called is is um and all is um is a compilation of uh different um shim and letters isant gave he lived about 200 years ago now the be in the beginning of all isra you see that maybe a hundred or so Pages were written actually by one of his students one of his key students his prot Blazer Blazer already wrote follows his teacher and he writes about the time a little bit of obviously M but he also talks about history what was happening and in essence what he was teaching there one of the lessons that he learned from Sal is that even already 200 years ago said that the amount of doctors that we have is at least as numerous as the amount of diseases we have meaning cold we have this antibiotic that antibiotic this antibiotic this doctor can give it to you that doctor can give it to you because science is Advanced drastically in his age already imagine if he was alive today now there's a pharmacy in in every corner and there a medicine for every sneeze so he says the amount of uh doctors that we have is at least as much as the amount of illnesses we have except the spiritual illness so in the spiritual illness we have a growing amount of spiritual illnesses but no doctors no one wants to be the doctor and the reason why is because no one wants to give the only medicine there's only one medicine available what's the medicine available teaching m in order to get that's the only medicine there's no other medicine there's no there's no Z there's no there's no uh nothing to get the only medicine to fix spiritual disease the r the r like him says someone that's a sinner is someone that's spiritually sick spiritually sick he's not physically sick he's spiritually sick so when someone is physically sick everything tastes opposite to him so for example something that's sweet can potentially taste bitter to them something that's bitter like usually most medicine's disgusting most medicine is disgusting to a healthy person to a sick person it's not as disgusting because his taste buds are off his taste buds are off sometimes his vision is off sometimes his mind is he's off he's when he's sick he's off when he's physically sick the rambam says when someone is spiritually sick he's also off he thinks that the sins are good for him he thinks that the sins are fun he thinks the sins are what he needs he's off he's spiritually sick so his student student Blazer wrote is one medicine so the um imagine if all of you would have made tea so so the uh blad says that we have a medicine we have a medicine it's like me saying to you right now ladies and gentlemen I have the cure for AIDS AIDS killed millions of people continues to kill people not as many as they used to be but still people die all the time from AIDS I have cure not only that I cure for cancer too what kind of cancer anything you want pick pancreatic cancer breast cancer this cancer that cancer the canc cancer you know about cancer you don't know about cure for cancer cure for cancer cure for AIDS cure for toothache cure for everything you want cure have cure same cure for all of them free too good to be true I have it I give it to you works I show you example here this guy sadik look what happened cured this guy took the medicine he's cured everybody says nah we're going to try something else we're going to try something else we're going to try to see if maybe somebody else is going to come with a better cure who's Crazy you or me just give you a cure that's the problem that was already happening 200 years ago Blazer is saying we have the Cure we have the Cure no one wants to be the doctor it's not that no one wants the medicine no one wants to be the doctor the patients don't know that they're sick the patients don't know that they're sick so why are they going to they don't even think they're patients why don't they think they're patients because no one wants to be the doctor to tell them that they're patients no one wants to give them a diagnosis why there's no money there's no money in rebuking people you don't get to become popular human nature hasn't changed shom nothing new Under the Sun nothing prayed to hasem said you got to cancel it out we can't do it these statues they're walking they're moving we got you got got to cancel this decree out andar says prayed andem removed is's Tava for statues so the question my R and I were talking about today we're learning today how is it that people worship money exactly like they chase money exactly like they value money exactly like exactly like idol worship they even write on a dollar bill in God we trust but they believe that the dollar is God how could it be if kazal writes in the that they ask and they pray to hem to remove a the craving for a the desire for a and it says they got it how could it be because when they prayed the says when they prayed forem to remove the desire for uh you know sex crimes said removed all desire for intimacy but then they saw that this is not good for them why because even the chicken wouldn't lay an egg meaning even the animals didn't want to be together you can't bring kids to the world so he said okay bring it back we'll deal with this but it says that they asked forem to remove they got it so how could it be how could it be that people still worshiping their money and the is is that hasem removed the desire for that specific a meaning the statue no one actually prays to some dumb statue they bought from Chinatown for $15 but the whole concept of a was not removed because the yet himself is too smart and he fooled everyone he says if hasem wants to remove he's gonna have to remove a verse from the Tor which verse of the Tor says after you sinned you're going to go to the four corners of the world and over there you're going to worship the god of man it's on what God you going to worship you're going to worship the god of money God of gold God of money God of gold see can't change the Tor therefore you can't remove this therefore you still have people worshiping that money so yes they were worshiping at that time was removed but was still worshiping today it's not removed not removed that's why is for sale is for sale because the only way that we could buy it is with what we're worshiping with this that's the price we have to leave the god of money the god of gold and how much we value it and how much we pray for it and how much we wor worship it we have to start worshiping hem because you see it even in your when it comes to kadish it's one of the most embarrassing things in the world is going to B and see the KA talking in the middle of kadish in the middle of praising Hashem they're talking to each other about baseball basketball business this that the other thing they're talking about a bunch of nonsense but but sometimes the kadish the full kadish it says a uh couple of words where it says um when it says have Prophet only time it says the word prophet everybody start stops talking and they say that word extra loud why everybody wants profit everybody wants money when it comes to money comes to money everybody stops the phone calls stops this stops that you know when it comes to everybody wants to finish in two seconds but when it comes to we say everybody has full everybody's moving like for money for money why so the way to beat our the god of money the god of gold this this idol worship that we have unfortunately still infiltrating our people is by using this thing we Chase so much in order to get am back to come to Hashem and again there is a a lot of work to do one of the main things that we need to do is expand the kiru expand the amount of lectures expand the amount of CDs distributions but the biggest thing the biggest thing is the expand the reach meaning get more people to do this get more people to speak the truth you know a little Torah you have the ability to speak go give shim get five people give him a get 10 people give him a you don't know anything read read what it says in read the M book or get 10 people watch the she or live that's what we're doing as a place in uh in New York a place in New York we got them a uh uh a projector couple hundred dollars we send it to them now they're streaming this shim when we're playing it on Facebook somebody connects the phone to the projector and the keil a few people in the Kila come to the besset and they watch the sh at the besset so you get your Kila in Colorado your Kila in Arkansas your Kei in Arizona your ke in wherever to watch that's like you have a rabbi over there it's doing kiru if you could talk yourself it's it's good also if you could bring the rabbi there it's good also point is replicating it doing more because me couple of other people out that tell the truth is not enough point that we would get punished matter you're s or not when has punish they don't they don't with everybody go there exactly always having so that's that's the thing it's it's people need to understand that if no one can just worry about themselves anymore no one can just worry no no I'm okay I'm learning I'm doing my own thing no one can just worry about themselves everybody's in the same boat whether you're keeping everything or you're not keeping everything the fact that you have somebody that you know that's not that's not religious the fact that you have somebody connected to you that's disconnected from Hashem Hashem connected them to you for a reason hem connected them for you for a reason they're not just connected to you for no reason they're not just the guy that you met at the gym that's just the guy that you met at work for no reason they're in your life for a reason they're in your life for you to get them close to hem how whatever way could be with a CD could be with you bringing them into a lecture could be you teaching them could be a million and a half things the point is every single person in your life is in your life for a reason nothing has happened stance nothing there's no such thing so for all of those people that have a relative have a brother have a sister have a cousin have a parent have a neighbor have a colleague have a doctor have a lawyer have somebody they don't live on some Island by themselves they're with the rest of civilization and thereby they're connected to people they they need to realize that need they need to start looking at them like prospects like KY roof prospects I remember when I was a kid used to watch uh cartoons Looney Tunes Looney Tunes used to be a cartoon Bugs Bunny Bugs Bunny there's one of these cartoons I must have watched it a thousand times where he was a these two guys were off a ship and uh they got into this island where Bugs Bunny was and they were really hungry so everything they looked at started looking like food the fat guy looked at the skinny guy and he looked like a hot dog the skinny guy looked at the hot at the fat guy and he looked like a burger the and everything started looking like food bug's bunny was the actual they thought he was the food and was funny funny carto and when someone is connected to Hashem you start looking at everyone like that not like a hamburger like a ky roof Prospect this guy could be this guy could be a magu this guy could be a part of a k this guy could be a good Jew this woman could be a b this woman could arrange this woman could be start looking at everybody as pieces in the big puzzle of am why cuz you're chasing it for hasem one of the greatest CU Personalities in history all of history at least the history that I know of shom you listen to his lectures aside from him being a huge could have been one of the I mean it was no exceptional every something amazing but he Liv like this he would make people do Chua in the middle of the street aside from giving lectures and big events and so on any opportunity he was next to a person he'd measure them up he'd look at them whether it's a hamburger or a hot dog or what he's going to be he get them and he would walk around with a what he would call a uh life uh a Lifeline uh bag what's a Lifeline bag bag with set of mees all the basics you need to be a Jew woman all the basic you would call a Lifeline bag so what all of his lectures he tells stories about these different people help dova he says one time I'll finish with this my voice is really going and I'm sure you guys are tired um but if you're not tired then I'll go it doesn't matter about my voice um so uh anyway he tells a story says one time he ordered a little closet for his daughter closet put clothes in couple of people came to the house one guy was doing the work the other guy was telling the other guy what to do so the first guy that was doing all the work gave some cake and he said you want to do me a favor before eat the cake goes yeah L feeling sure I'll do no problem the guy is completely secular nothing want do not atie the other guy's telling him what to do he's laying down on the floor in Rab nen's house like it's his house he's laying down on the floor Raben comes to him he tells him before he starts talking hey not doing not doing this leave me alone I got my own thing you do your thing leave me alone I got questions you don't have any answers for me he goes what do you care what what you want cake goes yeah I'll take some cake goes okay so do feeling before cake goes no I'm not doing because why not what are you antie you hate God because no I don't believe in that what was I have question I'm gonna kill you with this question I'm G make you secular with this question so I don't don't don't bother me leave me alone he goes how about this he get say to him must says how about this I tell you that I have an answer for your question but not only do I have an answer for your question I know your<03:19:20.64