Judaism Isn’t Soft. It’s Loyal.

Thank you so much for being part of the sharim. There there is so much that go just that everyone knows besides bar hashem the incredible growth that we're all doing together there is a behind the scenes crew who brings these messages to you and I just want to ask each and every one of you if you could please click the link below to help us continue our efforts and our ability to communicate together with you. Thank you so much Tiskitz. How could I go back to my father when Yehuda comes to Yf and the the sadikim the kazal tell us he came to Yehuda was a power power power person right probably looked like uh >> like Beny >> Beny Newman like guy coming in coming in ready to ready to like for real he was ready to rip rip everything apart. Why el we all remember what happened? How could I go back to my father Yakov the and my child is not with me. Stuff says it. How could I go back to my father? I promise my father that my little little brother Beyamin nothing's going to happen to him. Nothing's going to happen to him. H you just say the word binyam and we all go crazy. Where's binamy? Right. But what's the what's the is right? Thehat is the is what the sadikim tell us that that we have a gof and we have an isama and we come down into this world. We come down into this world and we're here for a limited time. Everybody's here for a limited time. How could I go back to my father after a person lives a life? Everyone's into what? Everyone's into nowadays and it's important into our inner child into the child in me that was neglected. the child in me that is hurt. And one of the tools that we could do is we can love ourselves. I know that's so cliche to love ourselves, but it's to love it's to love. It's to love ourselves and to and to is that I'm committed in my lifetime to take care of myself and to do for myself to overflow to overflow to overflow to have this connection with myself to have this love for myself. As we've spoken, we're all looking to fall in love. I want to fall in love with myself. I want to fall in love with my children. I want to fall in love, of course, with my wife. Not for the first time. No big deal that you're going to fall in love with your wife when you're on the date. That's not the big The I don't know how to translate That's not the catch. The catch is not to fall in love with your wife the the when you're when you just got married or when you're dating her. That's not a big level to be to fall in love. Oh, I'm in love. It's it's to constantly fall in love. To fall in love with Hashem is is something that you got to work on. To fall in love with the guy next to you and the guy who you don't like. That's hard. That's hard because it's not like falling in love. You got to work for it. You got to work for it. Just that everyone can take a note now right here. There's a very of a person in the bish. Uh, I'll I'll say Rebbitson even though it it's not not such a it's might sound strange. Rebbit and Layerfeld is here. Mrs. Layerfeld this year and I'm NOT and I'm not and I'm not and I'm and I'm and I'm and I'm not um it's not the forum. Uh it's not the forum today or Mitashm you know I I would I would I would uh you know what I I I I will have if the if Mrs. Leerfeld um will say something I know it's very out of this isn't no mic Monday especially it's Wednesday but we could have done no mic Monday on Wednesday. Um no don't shut it off. I wanted to Mrs. Layerfeld is a person who I personally learned from Yehuda. I'm not I'm not even talking about you Yehuda. Uh the the the the all I could say is one thing about Yehuda layerfeld. One just one thing I'm going to say mix of is that if you're able to make a shaf with him and you could get a few minutes to learn to with Yehuda and talk about life, I would sign up. And uh Yehuda is a shining star for me. Has been like that since I met him. Um, not too many people. I remember being in when I was in Durham and it was busy over there and see who do you see the little things. Rabbi Kaldeski spoke about it yesterday. Sometimes it's like we think it's like the big things that that uh I don't know if you'll probably remember this but I remember you made me a plate for lunch or you were taking care of me. I don't remember exactly how long I was there while I was doing but Yehuda's running around making sure that I was okay. It's not just oh thank you Yehuda. It says something about a person who is who is living for someone else and is there for someone else to be a parent to be a parent. Mrs. Leerfeld to be a parent and I'm saying this is where it starts from from all of us. Everybody here I don't have to take a poll. Everybody here vigosh a love Yehuda Yehuda made a commitment. Yehuda made a commitment to his father. He made a commitment to his father that I will destroy the world. I will destroy mitsim. That's what kazal say. I'll destroy everything because how can I go back to my father without my little brother? How can I go back to my father without my little brother? I will do anything in the world to be there for my wife. I will do anything in the world to be there for my child. I will do anything in the world. And this is where it is. This is where it is to be there for myself. And as we've said this so many so many so many times, I can't say it enough. I can't say it enough because we talk about codependence and it's important to talk about codependence and it's important to know that maybe I'm neglecting myself and I'm there for let let me say it like this. There's no question that Yehuda, Yehuda, we come from Yehuda. We come from Yehuda. We come from Yehuda. We all come from Yehuda. We come from Beinyammen. We come from Ley. We come from Yehuda. There is no doubt in my mind that Yehuda was the furthest thing from codependence. He wasn't coming to bring his child, his brother, his little brother. We're called Jews. We're called Yehuda. No Jew will be left behind. No Yid is not my brother. Where does that begin? Where does that begin to have a mother? You should be Zoh. We should be Z. Every one of us, all of you should be za to to have a marriage, to have a wife, to have a commitment to your children, a commitment to your child that you'll run from one world to the other side of the planet. You'll do anything for your child. You'll be there for your child. You'll be there for your spouse. I'll be there for myself. I won't let go. I'll be there for myself. And of course, that comes by having someone be there for you. Thank you so much for listening. I hope it was helpful. If it was helpful, please, if you could click the link below and help us continue to try and be more helpful by donating, by helping us continue bringing out all of this shirum to all of you. Thank you so much. Take care.