Kabbalists: Finding the Real Deal - Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller

[Music] [Applause] [Music] I want to give you a rule about real cabalists because there are very numerous fake cabalists out there those who know don't talk and those who talk don't know got it okay okay that's that's the way it goes so probably one of the most major cabalists who you would ever come across in terms of being English-speaking and accessible is rakov H who has a major cabala Yesa but when you if you're going to say like what were my past lives he'll basically say I wish you all of the best okay do you have any other questions okay I have to yeah and if he would know he he'd be the last person in the world who would say okay you got it would you not rec I mean like I heard opinions but like if you were wanted to actually meet the not for like oh it's helping my future anything but really just to like get some perspective into your life or like some clarity you're like you know would you still not recommend meeting with one or like like what are the appropriate times that you can actually meet with someone you're so in terms of like studying to you or with you that's that's not going to happen you know I'm not studing I'm talking about just if you have like a struggle or a question or something like what are appropriate times like so if people often go to sirious cabalist for advice on things are defined as spiritual as opposed to concrete like my prayer is blocked or I have a repeated dream and I can't get rid of it or something like this so rakov H is completely available you call the number the M have the number you get an appointment the appointment is usually within two weeks and um most of the time he's going to give you very concrete advice as opposed to the kind of advice that people want if he takes money he's not a cabalist take that as axiomatic I want there's another real cabalist who doesn't ra till speaks English because he's from India everyone in India from India he's from India is he like no no no he's most of the Jews who live in India who are genuinely Jewish are the descendants of Iraqi traitors who went down to India so he's actually a distant relative of mine but I'll spare you like my my daughter-in-law's mother's cousin what does that make him to mean nothing yeah so he's very available but um he's very unsp and um and won't take money there's another cabalist who I've actually been to a number of times Rael who doesn't speak English so that's why I'm not recommending him but also extremely normal extremely available extreme so he's such an unus does this interest you still I really should go back to the para he has like he's in three different directions at once he writes cabalistic books which are very very tough reads very but he also once a week has classes for boys for off the Der with singing food and kiru and you know and he receives people and then a different night during the week the boys from the elite yeshivas come to hear tell mudic um lectures he's very multifaceted extremely normal so there was um very unusual person so I brought a n girl who was in a pickle she was um she was like she had some history and she was a little older and this and that so her marriage prospects weren't what she would have wished them to be so some somebody suggested sh with a man who was young he was in like I think at that time 25 who lost his wife tragically you know to illness he wanted to remarry he had everything going for him he was like goodlooking and intelligent and from but he had a child okay and somebody suggested this sh but at the time she had been she had met somebody else and she liked this other guy and she was going to get engaged to him and then and like the last day before he was going to like say let's get married he confided in her that he has a medical condition that could lead to all sorts of complications in their personal relationship and might even make it impossible for her to Bear children so she was very torn apart because she wanted very badly to get married and I C like this was this is like way too big for me so I said let's go to Rael I trust his a because he's given my in our own family he given us extremely good advice so I took her there and he he heard about both of them she kept on going back to the one with the illness and he said um isn't what about the other one she said but he has a child and then he slipped he said but Mela will love you no one told him that the child's name was Mela so that was like and he you know he he talked it over very quickly but you know I caught it okay she didn't catch it okay but it was uh you know they there are there are the Real Deals but again the ones who are real don't talk and the ones who talk aren't real and if they take money forget it end what happened in the end is she didn't marry either of them and she and she's still and she's still single it's like it's at least it's it's a long time ago