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Let's Talk About Sex Q@A Part 10
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welcome to Let's Talk About Sex we have
got the wonderful kids and robs from
2000 here to answer all your questions
and also we have our fabulous Ambassador
Natalie and we also have a fantastic
member Jamie also is an extremely safe
space and it's also an adult
conversation as well how well do you
need to know someone before you have sex
it's a hard one because it does it
really does depend
s what what is important when you're
having sex with somebody or multiple
other people is that you are the safest
you can be and you're providing a safe
environment for your partner or partners
that are people that enjoy having sex
with people that they don't really know
that well in the sense of they might
have not met their friends or know their
favorite color but that doesn't stop the
conversation of consent happening
so even if you don't really know a
person when you're having sex with them
or when you're being intimate with them
in any way you want to ensure that
you're still asking key phrases like is
this okay is this good for you are you
sure this is okay can we do this can we
do that and
following their cues listening to their
body language listening to any noises
that they're making but making sure that
you're maintaining that safety of
consent and making sure that it's all
going fine people will sleep with people
once and never see them again and then
other people really don't enjoy that and
just want to have sex with one person
and they only want to have sex with one
person that is also completely fine
um they might have known this one person
for a really long time and know
absolutely everything about them but
that conversation of consent is still
important and no matter how long or how
well you know a person you still need to
ask and you need to ask every time and
you need to make sure that consent is
continued throughout sex however long
that is and whatever that looks like for
for you as an individual consent is an
ongoing factor and like we kind of spoke
about earlier it can be taken away at
any point as well so or Midway through
any sexual act any intimate act any
conversation you can withdraw your
consent and it ends
um but yeah so how well do you need to
know someone
it depends as long as we're keeping
ourselves safe if you are planning to go
out and sleep with people that you maybe
don't know that well and make sure that
you're keeping yourself safe by checking
in with your friends let them know where
you're going if you do end up maybe
going back to Flat going back to
someone's house text the address to
somebody make sure that you've got Uber
downloaded on your phone you know how
you're getting home got keys got money
make sure that you're doing all of these
things as well as making sure that your
things like contraception condoms
all of that is already covered
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