Living True Reality: Successful Marriage - Rabbi Daniel Coren

a [Music] fascinating story is told in the Midrash regarding what it means to understand who's involved in marriage as we pointed out to have a successful marriage make sure you know that it's god that's running the show God is the one that made this beautiful this connection between you and your spouse and so long as you avoid and watch out from that I need that force you that's going to creep in there you'll be successful a Midrash says the following a story of Romeo sabaha laughter describing a famous lady who came to him and told him what is God doing since the time of creation funny question while God created the world it's true and of course he's involved in every aspect of the world but what is he mainly busy with or what is something that you see God's hands so much more involved and he told her in she do making matches making matches why is that so difficult she said he said no prob try it yourself she said no problem she took a thousand male slaves a thousand female slaves she made a match from each one it was beautiful it was the most magnificent wedding fascinating wedding a thousand maids and female maids beautiful the only problem was the next day many of the husband's showed up one was boozed in the arm one was in the arm what was bruised in the leg etc etc it didn't work out she was stunned and then she turned to a beautiful after the rabbi and she said wow your God is the real God of course is a very deep insight here her recognition was she understood wait a minute life of true reality is recognizing who is really the Benjamin it's gone and when you see that your whole marriage changes you