Lonliness is not a Jewish thing

sitting alone a glorious Nation we are B we are alone when we mourn we feel what it's like for a moment to be alone years ago lost a brother and at the end of the Shiva I came into the house and people were coming over and they wanted to say it's going to be okay was going to give an a to your family and you know what I said to myself again and again don't tell me anything I'm alone you can't understand my pain it's one of the reasons why somebody was a sits in a different place the people who are there and they're going to be you don't know what they're feeling you don't know pain to be alone is the worst you're by yourselves CLA Israel you see how America's turned on you you see how Iran is about to get weapons you see you're a nation who sits alone you think ra you think wow people in harno were killed now everyone's going to feel bad for us no that's a 24-hour news cycle that went away very quickly nothing lasts you're a nation that sits by yourself nobody cares and you have to feel it you know why it's part of your to feel alone because the BET mikdash was destroyed for and when you hate the other person you make them feel all alone so you're going to feel alone mid I get mid you're going to know what it feels like to be bullied you're going to know what it feels like to be without a you're alone feel the pain of the next person and if you don't you're going to feel what it means to be alone you have to mourn you have to think for a moment what does it feel like to be without a look for 10 years and the moment you feel it you pick up a phone and you make some phone calls for them you're a nation who feeling alone is the worst thing the gar kin says that for a woman it's better to be with anyone than to be alone to be by yourself so what are we doing everyone should be on themselves to work at least the one why not we're so involved in business we're so involved everything else but people who are alone and they don't have a place for Shabbat it was announc that I have shabbat.com I want to tell you something there's going to be something called the shabas project coming up I like it but I'm not in love with it you know why CU that's only one week that's only one week and it's going to be a lot of dust that's kicked up and we're going to clap for ourselves we're going to say yes we baked kalad together we had a Shabbat together but what about the other 51 weeks of the Year there are people I want to tell you last week not this shabas last shabas we had 20 gim and gusot at the house 20 people who were divorced many of them brought their children you know how many of them are alone on Shabbat do you know I'm going to tell you something nobody knows this it's devastating I think about it I go crazy you know last week there was a young lady who committed suicide it's a famous story young lady who committed suicide she was off the DK every the blame was going back and forth it's her fault it's not her fault it's the community's fault do you know what I'm talking about you heard about it can I tell you something you know I did a little research two years ago she signed up for shabbat.com that means she had CH two years ago and I looked into her account and she made three requests to go to somebody for rosashana and nobody said yes and I looked into her account she didn't get one invitation I I go crazy from this yeah you want to blame we don't need to blame but we want to look in the mirror a person like that on the Sha that's crying should not be invited one timeone imagine how lonely she must have felt she was lost and confused and now she's making an effort and nobody and if you can't say yes because you're busy or out of town say but I will find you somebody I'm not gonna hope that somebody else finds you somebody because you won't be alone on rosashana you won't be alone without a you won't be alone with nobody visiting you in the hospital you won't be alone in your job search because you can't find the job We're a nation that can't stand being alone and when we are when we're complacent and we say you know it's okay C them CAU them B them B them groups groups you're your group I'm my group you know what we're not a bunch of groups we're all alone and says that the bet mikash is when we're together when we accept each other and when we stop accepting that's a reason to cry bitter tears it's a reason to mourn