Marriage secret #1 - respect

Jewish marriage secret number one. Prioritize respect over love. Love is so important in a relationship. But love is a very selfish thing because love is about how you feel about your partner. How do you feel about your husband? How do you feel about your spouse? Respect is taking a step back and recognizing how does your spouse feel. Love is about you. Respect is about somebody outside of you. How would your spouse notice if you started showing a little bit more respect?