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Mr Michael Cohen - "Chinuch The Way You Have Never Imagined It"
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Mr Michael Cohen - "Chinuch The Way You Have Never Imagined It" Beis Hamedrash Ohr Chodosh Annual Melava Malka, London - 8 Feb 2020
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somebody somebody once said we don't
need no education that person was
clearly not our next speaker of course
the way to find out that speaker is
Google and googling Michael Pollan
brings up 221 millions results yes
incredibly the first one is Michael
phone unfortunately Donald Trump's all
the way of Michael Chodos which means
Amazon unable to join us this evening
I've been all seriousness we are very
fortunate that we did not within our
circles we have somebody as passionate
of both on a math education and our
guest speaker tonight he's been in
education since the age of five and has
made great strides since then
his last position was headed Northwest
London Jewish day school and then he
became principal of what was then the
largest to school in the world in
Melbourne he then became director of the
London Fog Jewish education running in
setting up many schools within the US
framework he was an innovator in Europe
establishing family with long before
seat
Daniel age and taken a foothold in the
land of the Jewish community recently
though one of his key focuses has been
fighting off steps to ensure that we
continue to have religious freedoms
within our curriculums I don't think
that is a serious threat to Jewish
education throughout the UK
he gives me great great pleasure Thomas
Michael Cohen to speak
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thank those responsible for inviting me
to join you participate in the Sims I
understand though their name 11 multiple
Aesir
and then I'm very honored we've been
asked to find those medals is a shoo-in
domestic robot who invited me one person
particularly I want to share with you
some of the more interesting and
probably not so well known aspects of a
long career in education let me start
off by saying that I was one of the very
fortunate he unstirred to actually wait
to a Jewish school primary and secondary
at the time when it was not fashionable
to do so I was one of the glittering
tinkles oh here leave the school he's
off London where my parents lived we
grew up and I want to say people say
that the best days of your life are your
school days
well I endorsed a because I had a French
tastic fantastic time school in no match
but it was wonderful
and I always said it was the clothes
I ever got to a Jewish customs holiday
cap it was absolutely tremendous the
spirits the atmosphere the activities
outside of the classroom fantastic and I
want to share with you one interesting
story the school started by a well-known
rabbi rabbi dr. Solomon contrary they've
been studying the rock a remarkable man
was we won't know who's famous for these
rescue activities during and after the
war personally being involved in the
saving of more than 3,500 you I need to
have schools why which was giving the
school those of you who knew him will
remember a man who never took no for an
answer
he wasn't concerned about all thority
parties concerned he was authority he
ran his school's like that and one ounce
of the Aveda Grammar School he appointed
a gentleman called mr. Christmas as the
hit master mr. crystal was a former
major in the British Army not from a
Jewish but have very little connection
we he disguised the purpose of the
Poynting mr. crystal was and dr.
shamrock woody to create a Jewish Eton
and to do that he had to have high
standards in America and mr. crystal was
brought in in order to achieve that and
he was a man having grown up in the Army
was a disciplinarian second to none one
going to the story of what happened but
dr. Shawn fell the mr. crystal
fell out - thief said that mister dr.
Shawn a one day simply stacked mr.
principal dr. Chantal he couldn't do
that because the school was part of the
state system and although the dr. Shawn
thought is the principal of the school
he really didn't have the authority to
sack a state employee and so he
eventually went to court - into High
Court actually but that's what I want
everybody I want to tell you about a
morning when I was 14 years old and I
walked to school which is five minutes
away
and standing outside the school I
noticed a number of our pupils as I
approached the head boy a boy called
David Miller in big work came running up
to me and he said are you thought were
erased crystal just like that well of
course when a Jewish person is wood gets
a question like that it immediately asks
the question back and so I wasn't sure
what the purpose of what was going on
there so I said well then what
difference does it make and he said well
if you're for crystal we're on strike
Oh what does that mean we're not going
into school we're out here and we're not
going into school what are you needed
well let me ask you ladies and gentlemen
you're a 14 year old boy that is given
the opportunity are not going to spoon
and say outside or going into school
what you are sir I said I'm for crystal
right Stan here and I had a minor
everybody else within half-an-hour the
newspaper reporters are up front gates
with a photographer taking pictures of
all of us the staff as they arrived told
everybody to get into school and David
Miller was saying don't listen to him
he pay him and this way Donna we all
after the event not quite sure where
this leading to the staff went back in
school and the crowd at the front was
now nearly a hundred there are a hundred
pupils out there being taken photograph
by the newspapers which ended up by the
way Nolan who have because it on the
front page but the major arts gone about
school on strike so I had a day off next
day we all had to go back to school and
the register was taken and each teacher
would say where were you yesterday now
if there would have been an innocence in
that time I think one of the insertions
would it be the local dentist has a
record of having seen more than a
hundred pupils in one day amazingly all
from the same school that was the story
of the Invicta school strike with to my
memory has never been that repeated so
if any of you hear of governors of
schools you might want to bear in mind
this can happen on your patch I began my
career as a lawyer believe it or not I
started off the legal profession and I
do a decision it might make twins is
very late point is actually four o'clock
I believe it was that time in order to
move out of law now that was a stupid
decision from a financial point of view
especially when I decided going to penal
but I'll tell you something looking
on that career it was the best decision
I've made in my life I know there was
some lawyer sitting here and I don't
want in any way didn't mean the
tremendous work that you people do I
think it's a great profession but he
just wasn't for Michael Cote I decided I
wanted something a little bit more
interesting unusual in advance I have a
young brother who's a lawyer as you know
and I think in my time it wasn't easy to
be a lawyer and work as a front unit
today it's a lot easier most of the
interviews I had a lawyer as a
perspective lawyer as soon as I
mentioned that I need Friday afternoons
off so that was the end of the interview
it was no job and that went off from
place to place to place today you
couldn't get away with that but he might
go that's the way it worked so I ended
up in a very small firms in the West End
not very exciting until I decided the
legal profession will manage without me
most Shabbos is a time when people
normally tell stories because I want to
share with you some of the most
interesting some of the interesting
stories that occurred to me in my own
pinup career in 1975 I was invited to go
to multiple sperm yo there is my wins
was because I gave you a free ticket and
I thought when else would I get a chance
to visit Asperger for nothing having no
intention of ever settling there I was
headhunted by get alone was like saying
this but he happened to be the principal
at the time or what was then the largest
Jewish school in the world famous Mount
Scopus memorial college which at that
time had 2400 students going from the
ages of 320 enormous complex never seen
anything like it in my life and I went
there I would tell you I'm regaining the
stories of that alone I wanted to tell
you one thing what fascinates
was I spent a few days having a look at
the place because I have to be sure that
my family and I and the only family I
had at that time was this little six
months old re and he spent his first
five years about a half years if you
like almost out years in his
home he's got one is how to cook sigh so
what fascinated me was and as I went
around Melbourne looking at the Jewish
facilities I was amazed that a place
like Mullen had so many Jewish schools
what I inquired as to the percentage of
children from Melbourne Jewish children
went to Jewish schools I'm talking about
ladies and gentlemen nineteen seventy
five eighty two percent of all Jewish
children in Melbourne went to Jewish
schools in London in Britain at that
time we were somewhere between 25 and 30
percent this shocked me if anything I
saw once per day that absolutely bowled
me over it was just the numbers of
children went to do schools and then I
began to take furthers to why and I
discovered what Melbourne was built by
Holocaust survivors people who have
escaped urine came to Australia and
decided that they were going to defeat
Hitler in their own way and that was by
building up Jewish life and they
realized from day one
there is no Jewish life no Jewish
teacher understand Jewish education and
Sunday look schools one of which was my
understudy and as I got to know the
school better when we went back and we
were there for five years looking at the
registers it was amazing how many
surname
with sheep oh sheesh and as I got to
know the parents better their own
experiences of Europe have made them so
determined the Jewish education was
going to be for their children and so
they sent their children drones in
droves my school had 2400 as a school in
the center of Melbourne 1200 they even
had a Shalom Aleichem school Bank you've
ever heard about the school where
they're only teaching Yiddish and not
one single pupil is proof it was a
cultural school they wanted to preserve
what Hitler destroyed in Poland the only
Jewish school I know that was open on
Yom Kippur they didn't keep anything
nothing religious but they wanted a
Jewish identity so that open was called
a Shalom Aleichem school teacher we know
Sholem Aleichem boss a famous writer
poet but this was my beginning of
opening my eyes to a Jewish educational
world one of the most probably the most
fascinating experience that I had was
opening a school in Budapest I was
invited by some Americans to help them
to open the first Jewish school in
Budapest since the war you probably
realize Hungary was the last country the
Germans entered February 1944 virtually
when the war was virtually coming to an
end and they were going to lose but they
decided their determination to wipe out
European curing was such they didn't
care and so in February 44 till October
44 they managed to exterminate
thousand years from hungary in a space
few months which is half the population
of Hungary at the time when the Russians
took over would invest which they did
and carried on until past 56 I'm Garen
rising and then of course they came to
88 the Berlin wall collapsed and the
Russian Empire collapsed and suddenly
the Eastern European world seemed to be
free and people could begin to express
themselves and one of the first things
that happened was Americans decided to
see what they could do to try and really
divide some Jewish life hungry the
swollen river President Abbas father was
very much instrumental in bringing
together a group of people one of those
in order to try and develop the spoon
hunting which we did again but this is
weeks and weeks of stories but I'm going
to share with you just a couple of
stories
hopefully the school open on the 3rd of
December 1990 the 3rd of September 1990
we have no idea how many children I was
responsible school putting together the
numbers runes the famous arrival and
family where we think of mangry aboard
the building and mr. Aikman said to me
remark when Albert was the nicest people
you could meet you say to me Michael is
it how many people do need to open a
school I said if you get 50 we're in
business it's fine there's the money not
to me there's the money you've got it
open do what you need to do I've got
teachers from Israel I got materials I
got building really we've got everything
ready for 50 kids in those in those days
because of the communist regime and
nobody nobody applied didn't say that
besides anything in Hungary in those
days he just waited we put a notice in
the newspaper that said the jury school
will be opening on the 3rd of December
the 3rd of September 1919 any boy or
girl between the age of 5 and 15
please come at half past eight on that
day I stood on the door
waiting to see who would turn up ladies
and gentlemen 456 children turned up on
that day 456
they were like ants coming out of ankles
you saw them just coming to the school
remember
the vast majority were already absolute
deviator to 5 meters deep
why are they came is another story tell
you about that another time
but while I'll tell you this we have
major how elastic problems because we
didn't know who was Jewish she wasn't
Jewish
we were only chakras services oh well
they do it well they don't I don't know
mercy that's another issue what didn't
she didn't know what to do so my very
good colleague Moskowitz a school on a
hustle in New York went with me to see
her shop went to play Brock and we have
an appointment to Singlish after August
I was very nervous we single no we came
into this room and this little man the
couple was almost as big as him he was
sitting at our table a rickety table and
all collar table was once a firm and a
bowl of fruit with some grapes and a
couple of apples and nothing turn orange
and he sat there
remember picture of the thick black
glasses and we walked in and sat down
for a pretend
show a malaysian sit down we sat down
photographers applause snappy or you
know make sure you've all got your
momenta and noise
my colleague explains in our problems
and he said we have a school in Hungary
which we opened
it's my amazement he knew abandoned and
he went on to explain our ha laughing
problems what do we do
do these boys butcher Finley nom we
don't know if they're Jewish
can we count them for a minion all the
sorts of issues that nobody thinks about
now normally we have thrown rough just
closed his eyes and there was silence
now I thought peg dropped off the sink
because it seemed to me it's burning we
went decision I'm not doing myself I'm
looking at this little man I suppose -
waiting and waiting I didn't know what
to do that's Robbie safety wait wait
wait actually opened his eyes and he
turned around he said something I could
not believe it you turn around and he
said the following seven years
prosecuting which he said any boy or
girl who claims that they're Jewish you
accept them as Jewish in five years time
we will look at this again it's a matter
of a 93 he also that's exactly was
destroyed with a shot so we start in
school early right populace
one of the problems we had was was the
prison we started teaching them houses
we came to the story of Chris Miller and
the teachers told them quite honestly
city if you don't have a bris I'm not
really Jewish
not funny I knew what the outcome would
be there would be silicon boys who might
want to have priests so we decided that
the leadership in the school that
anybody who went to the bris we would
organize it for them as long as they get
their parents permission that means a
written letter confirming they agreed
that we can start any OS at Bristol and
that's what happens any boy brought back
a letter signed by the parents a week
ago cannot be pretty Stern probably he
would come over every so often he would
do most conversing with you like one
little boy came to me was eleven years
old and he said to me mr. Cohen I would
like to have a bris lovely I said them
it's a letter you take it home send your
parents and get them to sign it and then
leave it to us with organize it this boy
was a single child lived in a small
flats not far from the school he came
home and he shows us a letter to his
father daddy I would like the priest
could you sign it
sighing a bris please daddy I want to
have a bris
no not sign your Kris why not just that
you know what happens to choose what is
he the German state how do I know who's
Jewish
I'm gonna let you have a bris no we're
not myself not at all oh please please
please let me pick a stylist it's on
signal it comes back the next day same
thing leaves his father please dad he
let me have a grace yep I told you
yesterday there's no bridge don't talk
about it
this kid eleven years old he wouldn't
give it and it was
history to the extent that the father
lost his temper and his Schmeiser said
don't you talk to me again about this
and it really is right he came to school
the next day with marks on his face I
saw it I knew they would all die
sentence in for accent yes I fell down
it was predicting his father people in
back home built the mother was a softie
and she said to her father to the
husband Lenny memories go on he wants it
I'm linking my son's gonna go around for
if his life identify the Jew no way it
wouldn't give up this went on my riper
up his side to six weeks
the King was beaten black and blue and
every day he would come back to the
mother and father and beg and beg and
beg and each day the father would beat
him more I went to the school row I
didn't know what to do there also don't
interfere you've got to see what how
this plays out don't interfere and he
hurt me to see this big come to school
every day like it be not going by car
something one day he comes back he goes
home he asks the father contacted me he
says I'm highly after here you want me
to sign your letter I'll sign it he
signs a letter and the mother signs
it turns around for father and he says
daddy thank you
but one thing please have a bris with me
he smashes people don't you dare talk to
me like that and the key was not he's
done he kept on and on and on begging
his father's everything the father said
to the mother I can't anymore
he's driving me mad in the end what
happened father wrote and he said okay
don't say I didn't warn you you want to
breathe how breathe you want me to come
with you I'll go with you two of them
fighting closely and
both of them went to the hospital and
they both had their breasts but they're
after the bris I go to the hospital to
visit and I see the boy in the bed
looking or coach everything was fine
next to the big gym was his father but
he knows it's all because I met the
father son system this is my father the
father calls me obesity must have come
in person yes he says I want to say
something to you what I wanna thank you
thank me thank me for what
thank you for what you've done for my
son and for me I don't know what
happened but I feel a different person I
just feel a different person and it's
thanks to you nicely not thanks to me
you think this little kid next to you a
remarkable little child when he suffered
and went through to get this bris not
many boys are done man you have a gym
treasure it don't leave it alone enough
because I've got a limited amount of
time I can't want to too many stories
but I'll tell you another question
another story very quickly the Budapest
story hit the headlines in many
newspapers all over the world begin
Israel the prisoners of Israel had about
it it was a presentation on behalf of
the stove etc and a community proud
heard about the intern got in touch with
me and said I understand you open to
school in Budapest would you open a
school in Prague I said possibly a
window bra I mixed some people from
Prague and I began to talk to them I
knew nothing about
brah except it was much smaller a few
thousand look like what a test or 2%
sixty thousand gents at that time it's a
small three four thousand so I began to
ask questions are you sure you really
want to school how many children have
you got whether they come from what kind
of Jewish life just ask a multitude of
questions after half an hour
a lady in the group system excuse me
mister can I ask you a question I said
yes
this is you've asked all these questions
that you haven't asked the right
questions
it was our thinking I know about
education there was this lady didn't
tell me I wasn't even asking the right
question so I said so madam with very
respect what is the right question she
said the right question is how could it
be that you can't have a Jewish school
in your town Wow she already looked way
it's not possible for
proud to survive Jewishly without a
Jewish school there's no question we
have double Jewish school how about you
ask that question
why are you Trevor do school but after
well you know this and you afford it
etc and this woman taught me an
important lesson sometimes we educate
system to realize after more important
questions are being asked by the others
what I makes the community I ran a
three-day seminar to try to help them
understand about Judaism and Jewish
education there were about 50 people who
turned up I would say that 48 of them
were probably between the ages of 16 and
maybe 35 there were two elderly people
that are husband and wife
and are they fascinating me because I
never saw any old people in Prague
it'll be wiped out and yet these two
were they clearly their seventies maybe
at the end of these seminar I wake up to
them and I used to use myself and they
introduced them to me and I said you
don't mind me asking
we see that you are enough when nobody
of your contemporaries idea she says yes
they will be killed
well how did you survive this is our
world we survived in the most amazing
way because of Jewish education because
the Jewish education you survive tell me
when the dirt Germans opens races that
the concentration camp an hour away from
Prague they wanted this to be the
concentration camp that would be an
example for the whole world of how good
the Germans are to the Jews so this was
going to be a camp that the Red Cross
will visit and would therefore go back
and so these stories about extermination
hitting brutality and on truth we've
just been to one a model place so they
opened the zoo in tourism that for
children probably the only school rather
the her governor concentration yeah we
actually function as a school they
needed teachers and this couple were
chosen to be the teachers of the school
now as I were telling me this story my
eyes were watering because I thought it
was an amazing thing
they survived survive in coz-theta one
teaches then they started to say to me I
accept what was it like can you imagine
them your teachers to code when you walk
into a classroom every day do you know
your children
you have a register sure you take the
register sure we don't we never did you
know why because we never knew which to
that day just disappeared okay so every
day they just filled up with a few more
children we never got to know that
showed the results because they were
never the same show and we went to that
experience for four years never knowing
who was going to turn up or what
so here with people Jewish education was
being carried on in the most
unbelievable circumstances and it moves
one more place to fly finishing I
received a phone call from a gentleman
called rabbi shmuel community no
relation to the willkommen SP the wrong
in America he was a very severe in a
place called denier proper trust which
is in Ukraine he heard about were the
best known about Prague and said to me
we have a school but we need guidance
and help could you some alone now but
look we didn't maps see what you can do
to help us get on a plane change of
Vienna with an improper scoff
intervening every myself I got there and
this is the story I must just share with
you you've gone on a plane in Vienna
little plane 20 seats no more
and this plane is diverse with may flies
over goes into Russia and these suddenly
the announcement of the plane is we are
about to land
look out the window I can't see a
building for miles and we're going to
land or what I can see is miles and
miles and miles of snow and the plain
flames no fiddling no way and there are
- for the other people on a plane and we
paint stops take out the little another
and off we go down
how about 3/4 the way the cube and as we
go down I see at the bottom of the
ladder of this sort of steps - very very
strong soldiers with guns and in the
middle between them is this very large
very large Russian bleeding with boots
and a contrary unit and I'm looking at
them and I'm thinking it doesn't look
good doesn't look good enough they got
worse I come down the stairs and it's
the bottom the lady walks old and she
says this my boy yes come and she turns
around and the two dogs go behind me and
they march me off but in the opposite
direction to everybody else so everybody
else is going one way with us know that
to wear and I'm going this way
goodness knows to wear because I don't
see a building now if you've ever been
in a situation where you really are
petrified this was it I really thought
the end had come you hear about stories
people go and they never see the name
and I'm walking behind these fat ladies
with these two girls with guns and we're
walking a little way we're walking and
I'm thinking you know what
all right things I've done wrong no
chance to do this I mean your life goes
in front of you and we're walking and
I'm looking back and I'm seeing the
other people further and further in the
distance and I'm on my own with these
three very unfriendly looking people
with guns and we go to this and I'm
shaking like anything and then I see
this is fantastic
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he said all the others have gone there
and I've got to go through all the
documentation and you don't borrow you
come with me
Falcone has got a very good name in
India prophet Ross and he was allowed to
go through and to take me all the way
through that was one of the most
horrible moments of my life we've turned
out to be actually quite quite
interesting the school itself was fast
because Denis Robert Scott is an
unbelievably cool face I actually walked
over dead bodies in the streets as I was
walking doing this I shouldn't have some
people died on the streets out of
starvation cold
nobody burial they just lay there until
somebody eventually would pick him up
and it was it was awful they put in it
what would you say tell up and believe
it it was a lovely hotel it was warm
big electricity very very well and but I
came to school and I discovered to my
surprise there were a few hundred
children in the school a few hundred
children in a Jerusalem so I say to me I
said with these children will open
people this is absolutely I said
something have you got so many children
mazes you know how come here he takes me
into the dining room where the kids are
having breakfast every peep there is in
the net 400 500 of them eating breakfast
like I've never seen to it in their
lives you see this this is repeated at
lunch this is the where they have their
supper they come because they hear they
can eat food they wanted to learn so the
school has to provide food medicines
clothes holidays everything provides
everything for them when I went to Shuba
next morning going to the shoe forty men
men I'm sure for the 40 million that
wasn't the front man amongst them here
they came against it why kiss look have
a look in every room see as the
breakfast laid out for them that's why
they come they come to the breakfast and
that's what kept them going
and this spoon provides the what we
consider the most ridiculous necessities
life the only thing medicine this
management companies he was constantly
sharing money and every time we try to
have a conversation as a knock at the
door and somebody standing there please
rabbi I need money for need money for
this I need money for that it was
affecting to see and that's what this
man was doing let me finish let me
finish with one final story I go back to
Hungary it's a story that actually was
picked up by a piece of perennial in one
of his books and when micro-firm me
because he wanted to confirm it I told
you the story he put it in one of his
books
it's a interesting story because it
concerns a family of one boy who came to
our school in September 1990 we started
of two weeks before Hashanah three
months later stunning girls we have to
teach the children very quickly
everything but never seen a suit good
anything that it seemed to know was the
Jews don't eat oh that was the one thing
they seem to identify as being Jewish
everything else shadows they didn't
really know about Cassius they didn't
know about and all the other young
surgeon was not a hired nurse there and
we came to Hanukkah and I'm excited
every night of Hanukkah we would invite
the parents for honeycomb it and we have
a little more super and one on the other
Tuesday evening I make an announcement
that all the parents of the year for
seven year olds eight year olds what it
was
well they please say the Highland black
have a short meeting with them fine
about 30 parents congregated in a room
and sat down and I said to them I'd be
very interested to know why you sent
your children to this school they've all
been another source why do you send your
child to this school I'm giving out a
piece of paper and a pencil and
please write down what you have written
we worried that what you read in a few
minutes I went down the road
why did you send your chances toward us
into the first person he said well the
school my child was at was very anxious
submitting and I heard it was good
school and I wanted my job to be amongst
Jews sound announcer second one I
learned standing we're going to be very
good in secular I want my son to draw me
want to be a doctor and I'm hoping it
mean America so I'd like you to have
good education we were family
the oldest man in the room was a man in
his fifties came to him I said well sir
what have you written said mr. kind I've
written and nothing why why I sent my
child to the school I can't write I sent
to make your story I said well are you
ready to tell us he said I'll try this
is what he told me of this in 1944
I was a kid of seven and my parents and
I we knew what was going on they were
rounding up whether they procedures that
were simply rounding them up and taking
them to the station and off they were
going to house words so people were very
very rarely ventured out if there were
Jewish one night in my room and I'm
hearing a conversation going on in the
future between my parents and the
Mallory saints at the Father what are we
going to do if the Germans find out with
Jewish will be taken away what will
happen to our son
it's etc and both the pilot didn't have
an answer then after a few minutes the
boys miss Nicholas and they don't know
he sees they're outside the door in
something the father says just to say
yes to say what are you getting so upset
about
if the Germans come all tinnitus
non-jewish anything he'd approve which
your
well that we good Catholics and
hopefully they leave us alone
the mother turned and said ah but what
about this and she said she climbs up
the chair goes to a cupboard opens of
government and peeps out a book and she
says to her husband but what happens if
they find this what is it
what is he this is a sinner sinner we do
get a sinner from this season was given
to me by my mother the day we got
married as a wedding present and she got
it from her mother on the day she got
married and her grandmother got it
accept etc every wedding in the family
received the sticker and that's why I
got it the father says what Germans find
the sitter with finished the woman takes
the sitter in her hand and she standing
next to a fire and she throws the sinner
in the fire that built finished the
little boy is watching this to a
cracking the door he doesn't understand
what it's all about but what he does
know something terrible has happened he
goes into his room throws himself on the
bed and cries he cries and cries this is
the father telling the story to us fifty
years later he says the father telling
all of us I see baby notice in the
newspaper and he says there's going to
be a Jewish school so I decided I'm
going to send my child to this school
and then he look so many says mr. Cohen
do you know why because in this school
my child will get
sit up we will break down in tears it
was a very moving story let me finish
if I might just leave a message I lots
and lots of different things have
happened to me but I've learned a number
of very important lessons which I like
to just share with you very briefly
firstly if you want to get into
education or anybody listening
profession there's an element of
mysteriously nefesh which might even go
way way beyond anything else
most people that were sort of sniffers
then do it to themselves
we are hunters or when you are teaching
children you're doing it for somebody
else for children there's a mercenary
which goes beyond the norm of the sales
message secondly Jewish education is not
a quick fix job it's a very very slow
tortuous sometimes numbing process of
working a bit by bit by bit I've given
the following explanation for you the
word phenol as at the matriarch of 84
which is exactly the same material as
Duff Duff is a page because hilf is
about one thing and then another page
and then another we know things are
killing me another page and another
thing you don't educate children in heal
overnight it's years and years of slow
grinding tortuous work and that's the
only way it works 80 pages go in to
school thinking they're gonna train you
overnight they're gonna be extremely
disappointed it's slow progress and the
final thing I'll say is and this is the
message
I'm sure all of you have children
schools unfortunately unfortunately this
is not the British phenomenon
I've seen it happen all over the world
there is a tendency amongst parents to
always about what's wrong with Jewish
education very rarely can we talk about
what there's so much right with what's
going on in Jewish education evening our
own community and we don't see it we are
so besotted with what's going wrong and
what's not good and the complaints if us
there are you're entitled to complain
and you're entitled to bright if you
have to and you're entitled to recommend
and have concerns as long as you don't
forget there's so much good going on
that sometimes if you put the good next
to it you think that's what we're
complaining about this not even worth a
look what's happening to my child
it was Jewish children Megan you know it
may not be the best in the world and I'm
the first to admit from having traveled
the world British education is not the
best in Pinole that's the joy I was
mentioning to the diner for there will
never create in this country what I call
a top school we just not cut out British
people don't work that way we are always
happy to be in the middle that's our
style I would say if you know it's a
room and there's a speaker and imagine
every nationality is going to pick their
seats where they're going to sit you
know sits at the front the Americans
always they go to the front room the
front room but that's why they think
that's what is my place you know sitting
in the back the Japanese require little
people they sit at the back British
we're sort of in the middle that's it
they owe me too far too far back when
that's our style so we will never
produce the great schools Jewish schools
that are in the world it doesn't matter
I'll tell you some
if America to notice the best Jewish
schools in the world there's a small
percentage of the Muslim a ravishing
I've seen around I can tell you that our
schools by larger pretty good I can tell
you that from experience
yeah I've got my problem it all said I
won't beat them don't worry we'll feed
them will be that my show you in same
time but we will not be there but our
schools are still good and we should
remember that ladies and gentlemen when
you're sitting down here next Friday
nights and you're Charles complaining
you tell your child maybe share some of
the stories you've heard tonight about
children do so and have to go through to
raising stats or Nazi Germany in order
to get a Jewish education and if we can
do that we will all grow out much more
to Mississippi we will be happier and
will feel that our children are actually
getting a pretty good deal
thank you for attention
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