Neiros Shabbos In Yeshiva And Camp - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

[Music] eight five one eight six five one or email ist toshibanet.com because of cover i ended up in a different camp a new camp for the first time and a few different uh rebellion that came together and remember the first arab shabbos one rabbi yes what's going to be without our lucky's neighbors in camp and i realize that's a good discussion for the aloha shabbos in a yeshiva in the dorm and the dear narrative stroll and the camp and i want to mention once and for all when i say yeshiva today there's a also the girls in seminary whether it's out of town and eretz israel is there a special key of anabolic or a girl that's away from home and also i have another question i want to discuss someone told me his daughter got married and the shabbos everybody someone told her the light in the hall where the chevrolet wore in the catering hall and she was very surprised she wanted a light in her apartment the first shabbos not the light at home so basically it's a pretty much an all-inclusive question of naira shabbis regarding someone either a single bakar or girl in camp or bakal the right place to light so as aldera hoises we have to try to find one side that will give us guidance for the whole suggy and i think really we have to understand today is the following simple question we are saying hashem many mitzvahs we call the chairs of matzah no one ever thought of saying if the father eats matzah he's yay to the whole family everybody has to do mitzvah you can't have the father me might see the sons you know like a girl once said that saved you this guy otherwise you would have the guy to do all the misses for you go on a three-month vacation and give this guy aide so you can't do aye day after most myths this even kiddish that many have dominic the father says and no one else says kiddish it's not upset that the fathers might see the children the the the children are here it was jamaica were also doing something so it's very weird to find the mitzvah that someone could do for me but then we have some myths that seem to be similar to that i'll give you a muscle you have a family there are many children and they have no maze on the door who's to put up the missouri everybody in the family men women and children i don't think so i mean the the roy shabbat has to put it up if there's no right shall buy someone else to do it but can we say that the mezuzah omako the mitzvah is a goof on every single family member when the father puts it up so we have it he has a mitzvah i can't say it's a free of on every single person and then you have a very unique mitzvah called ner khannaka me ikeda din as we know it's a three of our men and women boys and girls over bar mitzvas mitzvah but then again miyaki da din the gemara says nareshube say the father lights and the children are all joits i swear them that they don't have a mahadrin you'll find the bakasvari of the from until he gets married he did in one's life mayor hanukkah that's dominic of svardhan there is very good wonderful so how you have a mitzvah there is a choice on every single person and only one does it so the question is how do we understand this mitzvah of nair shabbos is it like the gemara refers to in this and shabbos regarding is it a combination even everybody but one person does it only on the russia bias so the truth is as we'll see the resolution to this is the answer to all of our silence so there's no doubt about it let me be very clear contrary to public opinion ner shabbas has nothing to do with nashem the mahabharata is based on the rambam vehicle is you'll ask me why lemonade is pursue my niece so everybody should do it but why isn't there shabbos think america calls it why is it every single person so the answer like usually is zil bossa taimer what's tucker the reason for this overwhelming thieve of mary shabbas so the martin shabbos base suggests the reason of shalom bias now the truth is when we have solemn bodies we think about getting along with the spouse but in this context islam daf because someone who's married will soon see from even a baker who's far away from his or doesn't have a wife or far away from his wife has the shabbos al shalom so what does shalom bias mean so rashi says the niche if if the house is dark then the aids for evan he's going to trip and fall and not enjoy shabbos this summer tako we had a blackout for a day and a half and i could tell you exactly what it means no shalom by is when it's dark afterwards my wife was in the city at the time but if you can't see where you're going it's a very unpeaceful residence solemn by us is more like more or less touched as domestic tranquility as a peaceful existence to live on shabbos in the dark house is not what the urban island wants from a year on jobs you have to enjoy shabbos so shalom bayes means to live in a house that has light so there won't be a shashi my triple full that's the main reason of show of mere shabbos rashi in the same sugar base says another reason that's covered shabbos because the pseudo kashuva always has nairas you go to a brisk there's nehrus a shul has narrows it's always an air of it adds distinction when you have nervous so rashi learns that the ner shabbis is a covet for the shabbos toy swiss ads alts not because if you eat in a dark location you don't enjoy the soup the attack a person that can't see doesn't get satisfied as quickly from food so there are basically three reasons for their shabbos either shalom bias again laughed after married but there shouldn't be a concern of walking into groping in darkness covered shabbos and oink shabbos ah if you are if that we understand very well why ner shabbis is a khiev on every man woman and child because every man woman and child has the cave of enjoying shabbos cover chapes ironic shabbos and shaolin bias applies to every single yid over the of bar mitzvah now you we understand very good so why do we see that the women seem to have a monopoly over the mitzvah so that explains although the eve is on both men and women but we but women since they are matsuya's babaes basically they are constantly at home and they're home at the right time and they're constantly busy at home they were given they were honored with the mitzvah you know the man is running around making min i always say some men during atlantis marriage are underwater they're in the mikvah some place you can't light them until he gets out there's going to be a whole frenzy so we don't need men that are nervous and tense running to catch me let the women do it they're home they're more tranquil and that's the right mitzvah the maesta we see azoyvai that the mishnah says in shabba islam from the base one of the reasons that an easter dies of monoliths long during childbirth is because they're not careful with nehru's shabbos so even though the soy dementias on men and women women have a very strong hold on the mitzvah of their shabbos in fact it's interesting the sydney ibis writes if a man decides to preempt his wife and he cops the mitzvah of narashabs and does without her consent he has to pay a tenzerhooven because you have someone else's mitzvah now i don't advise the wife should demand the money because that's the very opposite of sohambayas a little counterproductive but besides that's how much the mitzvah belongs to women i'll give you another muscle let's say a woman let's say in a good iphone's in a hospital she had a baby and the first job is she's still in the hospital and the father's home with his teenage daughters who lights then so the priest can say then the father should light he's more of an ikahabayas than his daughters oh let's say the father and mother went away and left the children home then taka the girls have precedence over the boys but beside the niches on men and women equally how does it work this concept if we're saying the mitzvah of their shabbos is on every single yid so how does it work that the mother light and they're all yoitsa again bishleima kiddish by listening to yoga but here as we'll see there's no here to be home when the mother lights so how are the rest of the family and i'll tell you i saw a marvel dicker rabbenu they're interesting shiloh someone said that there's no here to make a break on their shabbos time wrote him back you know why you think so because you never heard your wife make the barakah because typically we're never there and then he airs and he says i never my wife make the broker on their shabbos because you're not there so bender tom said in his lifetime he never was there when his wife lit left so the shy listener how could you be aidsa if you're there maybe you're part of it but how you how's the husband who's in show that or whatever getting ready how's it going with the chairs so that's the unique concept of nero shabbos how is me today all the children yay when the father lights their hanukkah well they don't have to be home but that's the uniqueness of mercantile the same identity applies to near shabbos both features coexist of every single person but he unites with one hadlock it's not srikas there's no shriekers if the mother of the father eats matzah the children are yates to make sure there's an error that's burning he doesn't have to do it physically but it has to be done if you'll ask me why that is so i'll say zilbasa taima since the reason is shaolin by is kavichabis or enoch why should i think every single person has to light themselves as long as the suda is being held in a place that's well laid the lighting of the mother exempts all people ah you'll say wait a second if we're comparing their shabbos to their hanukkah so for us ashkenazim there's a big kasha because by their hanukkah all the boys light also hundreds why does that apply by their shabbos if we're comparing their hanukkah and their shabbos really there's no reason to light five neighbor shabbos once you have light you have enough light narcotic is different because it's pursuing iso and the more persimmon is the better but nareshaba is once you have enough layers you're good to go what do you have to have more people lighting so there's shabbos is like with one exception there is no mahajan a mohaju now i should mention now you'll understand a little better perhaps what the magnum writes in the beginning of gimbal is that you suppose the light in every room why don't we do that today because in every room we have lights either in the room itself or you have from the hallway so there's no concern of show and bias i covered in ionic shabbos you have that in the dining room but basically zil basati i'll tell you i saw this i never saw before there's an old question if akhala the first shabbos that she lights nearest does she make a shakiano on the mitsubis so this is really a souvenir a day of christmas that the skins if you do a mitzvah the first time the first time you sheikh there's no shahianu why because it's not as seasonal it's once in a lifetime but the ramataka seems to hold the first me to a mitzvah you have to make ibrahimov why doesn't the khala make a shakianu so i just saw this week in the mcdonald's inside the galaxy says it's not the first time she's been behind the midst of narashabas since she's 12 years old she did it she didn't do it physically but she got credit with her mother's head locker so i will say wait a minute when she's twelve she should make shakianu she's not doing it physically there's no shaykh so here you see how beautiful the sugiya is and the arkhashogen and sife [Applause] but one person exempts them all if you look at the rambam it's noteworthy and you're out of base he has a whole list of trillions of and then a list of durabonos is so he's definitely considering shabbos ambition every single person but that's the unique blend of naru shabbas like nera chanukah here in every single person but if there's a different locker that you're part of you're yatsu with that this will explain another kiddish that i saw they say for shabbos let's say you know your neighbor is stuck in traffic friday afternoon and they might not get back in time and you have the access to the house so you're going to the house without asking them without telling them and you're lighting their shabbos for them so they're shabbos you're not you're to the mitzvah they're not you're out of the midst of their shabbos they didn't do anything and you would not if you're a slave source slayer might help but you're not even a steer if you call them and and they're my money your staff fine because the point is it has to be if you're then on the bias you're not part of the bias now i want to just add to this bring a mortgage so let's say a woman was delayed air of shabbos and she looks at her watch and she's horrified it's ready after after this man whatever this man is but you're after this man so you can't lie after this man so the ralph pascal she could call the guy because since he's still being ashmore's race you could have a guy do malachi and the guy would like nero is and the rav says that the issue can make a brother now most players can argue on that part to make a broker how could you make a break on a guy you said loko and we don't ask him like the wrath in that respect but the rabb was the rav and the rav said that the guy could lie and the the issue could make a breakup how are you talking but for us it's muslim medivash because the mitzvah is not so much the maison mitzvah it's the tight side that should be nearest burning copper chap is ironic shabbat shalom zilbasa time so the rav holds it's so much of a maison mitsu for the isha that even without her doing anything abraham could be said contrast that to someone a neighbor lights in your house without shrikhas that is no shaitis so to rabbi say this is the aside of the mitzvah this unique mitzvah of shabbis it's [Applause] but one per family is good enough you know what it's like it's like heir of tafsilen nobody could lie no one could cook without after sheila but one per family that's basically the mitzvah of their shabbos and again this highlights the unique status of nair shabbos now let's talk tactless abaka is in yeshiva he's in the dormitory or boy or girls in camp we are the yay to the mitzvah of narashabas so one thing we find and this is very negaish they don't have dormitories they had what we call stancias he was a border in someone's house now obviously he was poor whatever the case was he didn't light himself but he chipped in with the bala boss that he stayed by and it was yummy to the mitzvah of nareshabas we'll sorry we'll soon see what that means to mr prudent but he's talking about for the eight days of chanukah he was instantiated he was staying in someone else's house and he chipped in there hanukkah with the bala boss busted the nesiva it's when he got married i mean it has now that i have a wife i don't have to do even that they come up apparently he went back to yeshiva with the same stancia but he didn't like it he didn't if he wasn't in his doctor why because his wife was yelled to him in the mitzvah now this is surprising didn't lighten their hanukkah but terret says he was yet with his wife but what about mahadrin he wasn't as firm as us the terrorists that's the special kiddish of ishtika goofy if in my house the wife lies that's me just like if the husband likes the wife doesn't make mahajan i see why is he different than a boys the terrorist is an ishtakufa but the question is i observe was far from home presumably he went to learn this is magna even if if the wife lit the husband is the iza and indeed that's talaka if a husband or wife are away from home when they when they like hanukkah or any of the children if the father lights or the mother lights could be the whole family is yay to the mitzvah of america why can we say the same applies to their shadows if the mother lights the family are yields up they don't have to be home we proved earlier abandoned town wasn't home as long as there's a neighbor is burning in the house all the family is the ice man if the sun's in shul he's yates if the sun goes to lake with the shabbos is he eight with the mother's atlanta why not i think i got basin and now that the boy went to a dorm and he's there for a few weeks why is he no longer part of the family but the big question is if the boy go a boy or girl goes away for a long period of time he relocates la marshall he goes to a heritage row or seminary or he goes to a dorm and he's there from from after circus until pesach like used to be maybe stuck in that part of the family and indeed the arakas if wherever he is the hezbollah seems to be since he went away for so many months he's muff got from his family now of course he's part of the family when he comes home for being his mom and he's with his mother but if he's away for so many months indefinitely he is no longer part of the family ah you'll say wait a second what about rap zero why them zaryotes and their hanukki's away from his home the terrorists observer was ishta kigufi ishtakagufa is never severed is never disconnected but a child has to be part of the family and takai saw the smear shabbos in memphis says the bakr that goes and lives in a dormitory or girls in a in a seminary dormitory if they're there for a long period of time they are not yo to with their mothers had locker that's back home now again as i said when they come back of course during venezuela they're not out of the family and a wife a husband and wife has a stronger relationship and it's never severed but a child a boy or girl in yeshiva if they go away for a longer period of time and that's what seems all the pie skin i'm asking but the question is what about today in tough shin pay aleve for two years straight in this two years he didn't pay success not by his family i heard that someone said tells the boys got by mitzvah yeshiva they didn't go home they had a sifter started young you don't go home during yeshiva every four weeks there's a of shabbos and the nephews up sharon or the nephew shalom zucker or he wants to chill or something like that the kid says he's home you know he's not there too indefinitely i mean he's pretty much you know anchored in at home and at the achievement but maximum once in four weeks you know he's back home so this it seems that that would still connect him to his home if he doesn't go away for such a long period of time i don't know the exact cloud but if every four weeks he's home the shabbos is back home so he's still home was talking about like observers type of person that didn't go home every so often so a bachelor in the dorm unless again he's an eritreal and seminary or when yeshiva days away for months is still probably yoitsu with his mother now the question then is does that mean that taka there's no to light in yeshiva well let's say he wants the light in yeshiva because there are so many boys that spending a shabbos it's just very strange so the embassy is in in tough race i and zion sif gimmel the mahabharata says even though someone is here with his family's headlocker if he's not to be out with them and he could light with a broken well how does that work with the family so the mariel and the two of us says because you have to understand allah says it's good enough allah says because persumenissa is a great mitzvah and you could not be it's with family what's the national community's two reasons regarding their shabbis where there's no pursuing israel light to marielle if you have cabana not beyond and it seems very clever even if someone is yitzo with his vinegar bias if he's in a different location and wants to light his own heiress he could have a mind not the it's with the russia bias the mother of the light and he could light with a bracha where he is and the emma said this is a possibility a girl a daughter has a baby moves back home to her parents and she's there for a while she's technically part of the ad locker of the mother she's living there for quite a while but the every mother wants every girl wants the light as long as they're married to with the mother teres you have a mind not to be honest with the mother and this tackle works but to apply this more specifically we have to learn an extremely important mordekai in shabbos simon ray sadiq that there that this quotes but listen to an interesting lesson [Applause] very interesting and what about covered in shabbos so let's go is with his wife he doesn't have to make a brother now pasta bakad the saying back office you started for the bakker end up with a younger man so you look in the oil ass shabbos one and the same young man if he's home he's yates with his wife that's the second half but let's say this younger man goes away to learn for an extended period like grab zero now he's basically living alone ah you'll ask why can't he be it's with his wife that's the key word the one word is roy if he has his own room apartment he has his own apartment that's dark and there's no cover job there's no induction there's no shallow it seems that there are two khoibas have got that every single yid has he yields him with the mother with the wife but if you're in a person that his yachts are with his mother or his wife but he is in a home now that is lacking so unbiased everything fits in it's all talking about a younger man now why you call him a bacha no in english say a summer bachelor so he's a winter bachelor i remember when i was in yeshiva there was older book and i got married big mass meet him so they said what happened he got married from a book he became a bachelor with a refrigerator that was a nice way of saying with the wife and what sneezed but others he was the same aspect learning 24 7. but he has a wife and help no no alive was also like that because there went away and it was like so the the the murder is all the pie skin say is a married person but he's away from home he still yikes and that's why it's so medullic that it hops on al-shalem bias because really he's eaten by someone else and by the suit he has light but when he's staying in his room there's no solemn bias and that's the aside of the bialog there's a bias typically when a person lives at home he has both in one when someone's away he might have a crib now let's learn steve zayn will apply this independent he's a single but he doesn't have his own room [Applause] why does he have to start because he has because again he doesn't have a wife who might see him so based on this we see that there is each one is so a married person is with his wife but if he's in a place that has his own abadi has delight now let me ask an interesting question let's say a single person shouldn't be doing this but he camps out on shabbos and he has no bias but he's eating in a tent whatever it is or maybe he's eating outside the takaski ministry fellow so in there he has no here because there's no bias but on shabbos he would have because he's eating in a place of darkness and he has a fear of alts the reasons of shabbos so it's not again it's similar to but either one is now one thing i want to mention before we apply this more specifically let's say he's eating in someone's house and he has wonderful lights where he's staying there's also lighting there's a light in the in the hall and he has axes in the bedroom he has what they call a shabbos lamp and he could use light spells he's not in the darkness then there's no quebec i the light's been going on it's been on since friday morning you didn't put it on the cupboard shabbos it makes no feeling as long as where you are now you have access to light you have no certain challenges he's right it's with his wife or it could be start to breathe with the family so this privacy is only when it's pitch black literally and i must say today in our society it's very rare that a person stays in a place that it's pitch black i mean even if a room is nice and dark so you could sleep at night but the mice you could open the door there might be a street lights it's not dark enough that the exis existence is nice shall be eights for evan this is extremely nigeria and i'll give you this the first martial arbor book yeshiva let's say they go every [Music] with their mothers do they have to light in the yeshiva so the answer is technically they are with their mothers but what kind of shabbos is going to be yeah if you want beneath eating in a dining room there's no near shadows now i can't say it's a but where's the covered oink shabbos that only nero is could do now i know the dining room is well lit but there's a certain order the certain ambiance that nareshabas bring that no light in the world could accomplish do you feel shabby stick when there's neighbors you're eating a shabbat suit there's no nervous at all so many times from a tuesday night supper the nearest shabbos do what all the light can't do so there's no hussarin of shaolin bias because he's well lit but how do you eat a shabbos without nervous so they want to light neighborhoods but la maison with their mother because they live close by so then we'll use the marielle that i mentioned you have kavanaugh not to be your it's with their mother and indeed they can make a bracha in yeshiva based on that alone and that's taka dominic in yeshiva's salmon lights and the eyes of the entire yeshiva the same is true in the camp boys camper girls gives the hillary even if taking their youtube with their mother because they're only there for a few weeks but to spend the whole shabbos in a yeshiva or camp and there's no near shabbos is lacking now typically in a camp there's usually a robertson or some director's wife something along these lines that lights and that brings the cover chapters and ironic shabbos the entire camp now you'll say but i have nothing to do with it i didn't chip in you don't have to chip in because you have your mother so basically it could be also you did chip in by paying tuition you get room and board and part of room aboard is not just the meals but they're shabbos you have a tickle hey look in the nearest but the point i want to bring out is that there are two independent and in the camp of yeshiva even if he youtube with the mother you might want to light nearest alts covered or any shabbos and that you could do with a kavanagh chalet lot says what's in both issues that i'm saying to be and we have this interesting shirley the bagham stay in the dorm and they eat and sleep in the dorm and because there's an over boxing over abundance of tommy then they have to rent what we call dearest we're going to get them ready for air to throw life they rent for them apartments full apartments and the balkans stay so the first week they move into the department do we have to like nervous then i'm in the building with the dorm they're around the corner could be a block away deera sounds like near shabbos after light so really truly think about it where do they eat they don't eat in the deer they eat in the dining room it's one kitchen so just like in a camp you think about it the camp my a person's bunk house could be a a nice distance from the dining room so how are you eight sir the terrace is what's the problem where you're eating these nairas yes your bunk house is lit enough that there's no your customer baits for heaven yes so what's the problem so what's the color if the boys have a deer a block away the mockingbachilla discovered that in exhaust that you're eating with that and they get home doesn't digitally crush the baits without a problem and that's why mitsara din adira is not a machayev for atlanta's neighbors well soon see eric israel deera is a different story but i don't think there's any much of a move here in this viral the only thing is i ask them when do you feel something a little overtake a little downhill depressed you're in a house a full house with a dining room and a living room and there's no neigh race so if they feel that there's something lacking then you could have cavanaugh says and lie in the dira but i told her two very important to know him the first more important than the second and then you have to have resources from the either yeshiva or the bala boss or both they might not want to leave nehrus unattended because you're not going to be there so if there's no resource then it's not a mitzvah that's i told the boys if you like when you're not allowed to it's the darkest nearest in the world it's called the mitsubo bavaro that just darkens the world so if they don't have resources of these shiva says don't lie there or the bosses don't like it then don't light them then you have to worry about another problem you're lighting before minh understandably right so you're not makable shabbos with your locker so when you have enough in the neighbors you like three-hour nearest and you're running to minnesota even if you want to have no now but you didn't wear a couple shabbos yet it's not javascript right because you're first average so you can't have shabbos so you're gonna not makable shabbos and then a pseudo and there's a seder and you come home there's no zach of the nearest so that's what we call the broccoli you lit nearest on friday before shabbos there's no hand on shabbos so if you want to do you have to do it right so basically what i told them is either you get longines that will last if you want to be a little more careful you put on the lights that you're keeping on on shabbos in the dining room or living whatever it is and then you light daenerys you have a mind that the mitch is going on both so then even if the neighbors burn out the fact that they that the light is burning and that's giving coveted ironic shabbos and shalom bias so but the evid even though some don't like making a break on electricity but in this context you're making a bracha on the so that's always a good idea rather if anybody is living alone a single and he typically eats out and he lights in his apartment before shabbos so very often you get back after the suda and the daenerys burnt out this is a wonderful later you light put on the lights light the nairas and then when you come home certainly at least the light is still burning so you have some form of hana from the nearest but basically again a dorm is typically even a deer is not it's just if they want to create a fear that would be acceptable he's going to visit a different yeshiva for shabbos he's staying in that you see the house he is like his neighbors so there are a few ways either with his mother because again he's not from our mitzvah or i told them obviously you asked rashus to be in the yeshiva i'm sure right you're allowed to think of coffee part of the room and boy that you asked for this trust for is the neres so however the other buffalo that live in the ishiba you are part of the same kitchen the same bias for shabbos with them now what's important abacha and eritserol presumably he might have his own especially in the olden days that adira means you have to fend for yourself the shiva didn't give meals so he was namish like a independent by the bus he's too far from his mother because again he's away for many months so that might be somewhat of a saguf and and that makes sense but really to knows a little better we have to learn another because the question is let's say a bacha in a door in a dire narrative's role he has a real hriva lacaze but he's eating out this friday night can he be out to where he's eating regarding hanukkah it's in the furious in sukhanari but fairies regarding hanukkah by eating in someone's house for one night you can't light it and you can't be eaten without luck that's possible you can't be yet sir just overnight okay mr mercy's supposed to be the seven days okay the developers make or if you go for shabbos it's enough but it's time to fall in for a sudden you're not part of the manhattan if you're eating in someone's house friday night even though you're enjoying daenerys and looking at the neighbors you're not part of his family just for friday night soon and you can't be youtube with that neighbors however from the rav in the end of tess and again in safe test valve and i saw that the shabbos and mam hey lambert bays and you're not part of the banayabai is just a friday night soother so you can't be your it's but i saw the mcdonald's elio alexa the gimbal quotes where he what what what the uh wrote him a uh trouba to this question but shabbos is the ick of the suitor shalom by his cove should be in a place that you enjoy if you're eating there look at their shabbos it's enough even if it's not enough intestines but in this respect eating friday night is enough with the bala so therefore we could say if someone for some reason couldn't light in his beer he's eating out by family he would be itself with that family if he wants to be questioned for the sheet is that i mentioned her shabbos and others you have to be there more than just friday night there's a simple eight sir and that's be mistake that will soon see the details but if he chips in with the bala sabai with the balabayas then he's even if he's not part of the nehabis we had this child at the mesif the bahamas they went away for shabbos and they got there but what do we do about neighbors so again they youtube with their mothers is not a problem and usually there's a a rabbitson that comes and lights in the dining room so she's again the same heisman she's uh to the entire island not just because i have me and mine but it's a din in the bias and the bias has an ad locker a few barcam asked me if they went away for shabbos i said any parents there no so first i said i don't advise that you know boko haram going for shabbos alone they should have a little of us but anyhow la maisa if taka they have mothers in within the city i mean even african city their mothers are lied to their youtube again here i would say that if they're eating alone and they have mom is no little nervous on the table it's missing a lot in in the cover chapters and ironic shabbos so the eights that would be i told them to taka have my not viet with their mothers and then they have a regular free of choice and they might even have a sabayas and again if it's safe and there's no problem they could light with the broker where they are a bakrim a group of bhagavad-gita for shabbos and they're staying in someone's basement and they're eating by the balsimha so i told me it's that with at least two hajbanas first of all with your mother because again you're still part of the family they weren't dorm they were muffled and also you're eating by the by the balsimha so you that you're a guest by him now the only thing is if the mice they the balsamic is not eating at home he's eating in a hole and the balsimika lights in his house so then that we would say you could be eight with the mother or if they feel very uh a little bit missing in shabbos they're in a in a basement there's no coverage there's no neighbors burning then you can use the same i told you earlier they could have might not be eight with their mother and they could light attack in the basement if it's safe with rishus and make a bracha because now they have that mind should not to be it's with their mother now what i saw a big credit just to mention it in the newly printed say for hashabas um he says let's say a baka's in yeshiva and they yeshiva typically gives meals and he's the it's with these shebas are lucky neighbors but one friday night he eats out by someone else so he says you can't be yikes with the yeshiva if you're not there friday night why because the the ecologist that's the ghetto husband and wife but is not bae soy now hoven i don't understand because if you become a chris in the yeshiva you lost your citizenship at home because you're freezing yeshiva and you also would deceive them and it's one family so one friend that you lose your your shaykh it's love that's goodbyes it's a big kiddish to me i thought i met my first time yesterday and i asked him he said he doesn't understand once you are part of the yeshiva and you're typically issued with the yeshiva this shouldn't be acrylic if one one friday night you go away just like in afghanistan it's loved after husband and wife that we have this he's been if you're kaguya yeshiva that should be good enough a few do's and don'ts about being yoitsa so first of all i want to make a point which is positive whenever it's he can't just do it allah has to be done la marshall he's inherits israel and he has his own tira he has to know what to do so first of all i always tell the bahamas you have to know that the women do it different than you do it because the women typically when they lighten their eyes they're makable shabbos so you can't make the broc and then light because once you made the broccoli in the cable shabbos so they light first and then they make the brochure but you since you're daring for whatever reason you're not being the cabo shabbos you have the option of doing the way it should be done of course make the bracha light and then go down the cable shabbos whenever you can also the waving of the hands which the women do that's the ramos says only because because you don't want to have a no until you actually you know made the bracha but if you're making the first you'd have to wave your hands just basically light make the broken and light which what's the right place to light when a person is making taco brocco when it comes to the mitzvah so there are enraged time of you it says but there are clouds is the better place to light why posh is ill buster timer cover chap is ionic shafts even shallow bias you have more light when you eat now the embassies that's why in typically homes we like but on the dining room table that's the right place the only question is like i see how i began with akala the first week she's lighting do you want the light at home or pop no tone light in the hole i think that was the wrong suck because in a hall you have many other people lighting it's a shiloh basically about them but also that's you know that that doesn't add what she could add in her own apartment off her apartment the first week has no nerves your house either the dining room or place a different room but if you have a house without an a-race or a hall that has 50 other sets of nairas certainly the home is a better choice the same thing in a hotel or camp if someone again big big if if they allow you to light in the room which typically they don't because of the exhaustion of of of a fire but if you like allow your light in the room of other lighting in a room that's better than lighting it downstairs with so many people especially typically hotels tell you to light it in some back room and they make it very safe so safe you can't even see the nearest which means you're not you don't enjoy the nails in a camp also they tell you light in the corner if there's no handoff from the nearest then you gotta you have to think if that's the right place to light it's the campbell we go to they have they made a special like a shelf high enough that people could see and see by the suda also high enough that the children can't play with but if you lied in any public place camp yeshiva or a catering hall it has to be a place that people could have enough from the neighbors a person asked me going to hotel they don't let them light in the room only downstairs downstairs means a big huge hall where she liked so the truth is what i told them is lyessa says and we have no choice you have no choice but what he should do i heard from the ghostly ones before his wife wants to light she should put on a light in the room they're staying even if even it has to be the bathroom light that will give you light and then try without a have to go downstairs wherever they they let you light and make the light and light with mirrors make it broken so basically the bra goes back on both not only the nearest but on the light and the light will burn the whole shabbos the light gives you plenty of access to shale and bias that you need again that's uh there's no other choice but the place is unless of course doesn't give the right setting as far as feeling the connection to the neighbors an interesting question about mustache so the truth is it's this is a gemara and the surrender quotes it when you have different people that want to be itself that you already started to pruta you can't give someone a protein but you're into the midst of filling or matzo with it with him right there are some mitzvahs that you don't have to give a prudence if someone puts up a message you'd have to give them a penny someone puts up a micah in my house i don't have to give him money so the the mistake to be put there like that's the uniqueness of mere shabbos it's a goof but since it's in their issue based on if you have cycles to it with a proto it's also good you're not going to find the combination like this put it doesn't help or achieve this are biased and anybody could do it could do it i could put them azusa on my neighbor's house and does not pay me money but this is the uniqueness of hilhais now let's see if a few people or someone comes to the house he wants me to start with the prudent survivor you see they have 200 bucks from eating together and the two nairas that they light does not cost uh 200 uh protest so even if each one's mistaken but at the end of the day you need a kingdom without actually being a protest worth of kenyan so that's why typically if the person wants to chip in that's fine give a proof that that's fine but it's not practical you're coming to the shop oh could i get i take my penny the bala bus won't want to take it you don't want you feel uncomfortable giving it but it's lav dafka mistake you have to have a kenyan in the neighborhood so the baubaster i'm giving you part of the nearest and you could be kind you could pick up the neighbors if you want and it's certainly the same as actually the price can say mr verse says beferish you can't just say oh i'm part of it but doesn't help and that this this mr guru says regarding chanukah but verbally does not help but if you talk and make a kenyan of any sort the kenyan is good which is even more challenging the very end of tough race wonders how regarding dalit minim does it help the kenyan of mauis we know hazal that maui's anakin is with him so he quotes that regarding mitzvahs hazal one wanted that the mix should work even though moyes ain't ukrainies made on but for a mitzvah it does work even with a bomb they want mafia the kenyan can you have moyas by mitzvahs so it's very mustafa the same is true regarding shabbos or hanukkah and since it's a mitzvah hazal would say as long as you are you have a party you gave money me their eyes so even but this person is still included in the mitzvah shiva are you if they want let's say an in in the worst scenario is the bachelor in the same dhiram each one independent basically but le mais so they're living together so even though they're basically on their own and let's say in the old days where the yeshiva didn't give food each one had to get their own meals but they're not different than what the mr bird discussed and seat cotton laminate a few balabathan that come together they could be mistaken so that they chip in a binaris and one bakalites for all of them and the zikh even though each one has a separate favors in a yeshiva so i tell the bakum you're not the balabata you are guests it's one happy family so you don't have to even do mistake because it's like one happy family it's the shiva giving neighbors to the entire and you'd like a part of that as well another point that i that that i thought was kadai to mention is that let's say a person is a guest a from them and he wants to take part in the nearest but he's still stuck in traffic he hopes to get there on time what should he do he can't be mistaken but ruthie is not there and he wants to be part of the neighbors so it's not a problem at all because the truth is there are other ways that being marked with something someone else the balabas that gets their phone calls as goes to someone who's not part of his family ideally to be knocked for something to someone else you someone who's not part of let's say i'm dybala bus so i don't give the neigh rice to my children my wife i give it to a neighbor please be kind of part of this for my guest and that is a valid kenyan so the guest has a helicopter the in shin sambhav seafield regarding the maknan heir to someone else there are two days but it seems that you shouldn't imagine somebody someone else using your own family because it's not going anywhere i'm giving something to my own family so if you want to be there to someone else so use someone else to be kind for that person what also is possible is that the mice is not work but what could be a lifesaver taco sometimes a person has a problem he knows that his guests are stuck and and even if and some of these guests are even have their own here they're staying in a basement so then he could just notify them and being mcnamara's on your behalf giving you nervous and when i light yo yaya the light in the house and that will definitely save the day for the guests that might not get back in time another point that i guess is kadai to mention because we had the sheila a baka that was the mona in the yeshiva to light daenerys and once one friday he forgot so this is a very sticky question because the emma says that the rama in the beginning of our semen where islam gimbal says an issue that that that forgot or even an inus listen even an oinis is to light a cannas call your a very traumatic experience for a woman but they stayed in the rama so the shy liz if a baker forgot to lie does he have the light or his wife have the light when he gets married does he have that kanas well how about a single person that's living alone who has who forgot this is his neighbors so what's interesting is that the price give him a diet in the lotion of the rama which is it seems that for some reason the cannas was only instituted on women for a man even though he lights but there's no such kinase maybe because whatever the case is but even though the man is the woman in this context if he forgets there's no class calls gain a bachelor that's just doing it because as a volunteer about that he wouldn't have a kanas we had a question a fascinating question that parker came to me and yeshiva he's lighting theirs for the shiva now's him kipp what does he do where does he light the dining room has no shot because no one's there so i told him to put i thought the best place to light the nearest and best majors don't forget in this medicine is always necessary hashem you like nervous by the cousins ahmed at the poise can say the light nearest but if you lie by the ahmed it's never extra so light in there is in basement someplace put it in a prominent place that's safe of course i thought that's the most positive sack and i talked about yasmine ashrae is gimmel kuflam that says just that but i saw in this lucy for shabbos in amit gimmel he says you can't light in the dining room and lighting in the bedroom maybe is not enough of a here so better just light without a broken it doesn't entertain the idea of lighting a bismudge i don't know why someone could tell me why but i thought the perfect eights that would be to light in bismajis i got for the bulk of the lights and the bismarck i told them this is the once a year that you're going to do something different than you ever did because typically when a bachelor light is not in the cable shabbis or yamtiv let's say he lights on earth's lewis because he wants to have a minecraft yum kip already holding after and if you're ready for yam kipper moment be mkippa with the nerus then you have to first of all you have to first light and then make the baraka and then you'll have a bonus you can make a shakianu we men we have a problem making shahiano yam kippah we don't have a kois we don't ever have submits of nervous so we do it in seoul but would be better would be to do it with a mitzvah that's why on yom kippur the women are ahead of us they make a shakhyanu on the nearest so in this case you have a bonus with your job light like an isha nerus bracha and say shahiano and of course remember that you're keeping yam kippah from now on that was really unkippa and and last but not least i'd like to give you a beautiful horror to think about again this this is something but i'll give you enough to think about until the next metropolitan race uh but imagine a person living in america and now he went there to stroll yum but he's someplace there to throw and he's not basically he's he's moving around he doesn't have a kris he went to verse hashanah to the region he came here rashad what does he do about nehru is shabbos oyamtif in other words he is an earth sure his wife's an american or let's say he lives in there it's israel he came to america for a service whatever it is whatever it is and it's hard from the light there is could it be outside with his wife till now we said this upset didn't have ishta kakufa you could be honest with your wife now we're talking about real long distance a distance of seven hours from america there it's through all the time so pastas is goofy works right but then again the logistics of this are very daunting because how could he be he's in there it's raw's wife in america let's not forget if he's in there it's israel it shabbat seven hours earlier where's his neighbors when does his neighbors kick in 1 am is that good 5 carrot is even more problematic because let's say he lives in there at this row and his wife lights nervous bisman four o'clock during the winter he in america is seven hours earlier so he's friday morning how could he be yields to the midst of their shabbos friday morning then i'll ask you a riddle to think about how is it shy that a person that was nifty arab khan okay he's 120 years old he was nifty heir of hanukkah was your to that year the mitzvot it can't be if he lives one place and la mais his wife is elsewhere his house the marshall in the case where his wife is in eretz israel and he made a stair flight at my house he's then she's and he's eats with her so his wife likes the bizman but for him it's seven hours earlier it's our hanukkah there are many pistons that hold his yachts in their issue basically ah that even if you're far away and maybe you could say observer also was out of a different time zone and that's why it was yates and i saw attack shabbos is comfortable in both cases ahead behind rabbi yashev made a hillock and he said if it's by you shabbos but your wife's lighting first seven hours later nope eventually daenerys will be attributed to you you have a mitsub but if you when your wife lies your arab shabbos that doesn't work and somehow both are problematic so think about that i couldn't talk to you smith for the wonderful rabbi said give me a minute everybody knows about the tragedy of cloudy sword that went through over 700 700 bahamian life fell in one shot and kalinin gave a dev knee some gloom over 500 were an injured at all 30 feet tall all fell together over 200 people were taken to the hospital with broken hands and feet ahmad lost a husband and a child and we really should make 200 campaigns for this but stalin is making one big large campaign to cover down mana to cover the tens of people that are still critical in the hospital there's a list of 42 kailumi they're still with big reforms and operations and forget about the hundreds of kids and they need therapy and all that and everything is going to be covered every dollar is going through that everybody said we're asking everybody this is a tragedy that since the second world war never happened such a 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