Never Give Up There Is Always Hope - Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser

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Javed goldwasser sleeper Bravo carbonate Itzhak and noted international speaker to speak an important topic I've never give up there's always hope of gold awesome [Music] yeah sure kale goggle is interesting if a person has stock up and they had it for Tom with Tyra they put it away for Tyra but something came up Pratt solace Natasha's the Dean is you could take the money from Tom with Tyra and put it ourselves Natasha's the mashallah Akasha on this particular a locker we know Goodell Ottumwa Tyra yo sir may Allah support us Talmud Torah is greater so the Marshall says so why can't you switch it his answer is startling it's shocking the Marshall says this close for Tommo Tyra is actually greater but when there's a presenting need fraught solace Natasha's that naturally have some take precedence this evening we're here under the auspices of Jurgen surah Tyra one of the greatest organizations in the entire world that I have the schools to come year after year for I'm a handsome Shana I got to tell you what Rivoli to does in a quiet unassuming uneven stick away I don't know anybody that does it throughout the in he doesn't stop night or day heat or cold at the best time at not the best time it's amazing they're going to be making a dinner bezu Fache em it's a community event its huftalin of August 16th I asked everybody mark your calendars it's a Yom Tov it's la mouche yom tov on that day is a child to sate afternoon or not please be me started rabbi Deutsch the entire staff of irrigant Charette IRA they asked one day a whole year out of 365 give us a little his ik they saw Seamus Park I look forward to joining everyone I owe it to them I was on my way to this shear a couple sees me on the street with a baby carriage they stop me and they say are you Rob Goldwasser and I said yes and they said could we ask you a question or are we not supposed to stop you like this on the road I said you could stop me of course as my honor it's my exclus and they began to say well are you sure you know I'm from a broken family I took one look at the man and I said you know who else is from a broken family I want to tell you Avraham Avinu also came from a broken family and look what happened with Avraham Avinu Akkad Haram of Rama vino stood up against the entire world and look what he did so look at you and your robbing is your Rebbetzin together and your little children you're going to start a tremendous shaving in cloudy soil you'll be much Leah so many times in our world a person for whatever reason it is maybe it's the Ayush maybe it's the times that we live in maybe if a person looks in a tighter dick newspaper and they see the headline or sometimes they hear something so it seems that my Reuben sorry I'm close it's a lot that goes on and a person starts to become overwhelmed a lot of people tell me I'm overwhelmed I'm lost I don't know I'm trying in so many different areas and areas of penal control and bias and Panola and shineth and marriage everything no matter where a person goes a little boy called me up for his hook he said I can't get the Gemara a little boy isolus Gemara I can't get it I want to forget about it maybe I'll do something else maybe I'll do the club maybe I can do some mission ayahs and the mama says could you possibly give him some words of his look how's the little boy have yesh has a little girl a little Madeline and her friends don't get along with her so well because she doesn't have the social skills developed yet and she already says I have no friends I'm afraid if I go to camp and they pick sides no one's gonna pick me individual has to understand that our life in today's world in the thick of the gulleson equus of the mushy huh is having the proper amount of he's look beat Oakland and a muna in order to get through these times and I'd like to start this evening with the Gemara and gemara that's fascinating I can monitor that we're probably all familiar with all of a sudden we learn in baba metzia duff hey hey I'm at Olive follow me for a second there was all of a sudden huh who eglow Dava come on to Leila shaquita there was a an angle a calve it was led on its way to schita it was going to the short its khalaf the chocolate was ready in the angle of the calf it caught on to what was going on it knew that's why there's a din that you shouldn't show the knife and choke on AutoKey oh yeah they don't show the knife when I was little I used to go to watch sweetness by IFAs and I remember their sharted referee used to take their the whatever it was the chicken used to Pat it and talk to it and then and a half a second he did the sheath it that's the din sometimes they know what awaits them and we have to be careful table I like IMD Raisa and what happened also Talia a shame the country that happy and all of a sudden the cabinet state and that went into the robe of rebbe reb he had long flowing robes and it ran in to those robes the car buffet in the cab the little calves was crying tears because it didn't want to go to the slaughter it didn't want to go to be shafted on my leg Rebbe took a look and he saw the calves and What did he say he'll go across the street go to the schlaf toys go where the Sheep does to take place Lacock nitesite o because this is what you were made for this is what you're supposed to do because of that he had such give out to Gil you saw him such pains and afflictions that a person cannot even be massively olena well cobasys RAL to scream and to yell from the pain he couldn't be so low and you can imagine the threshold the pain threshold of Rebbe it was a lot more than mine that's all I know and Rebbe is screaming and crying so bad that you could hear him the sailors that were on the sea they could hear the screams that's how immense the pain was why because he said Lacock Masato this is what you should do this is what you were born for the Haley Graham Nelson box logo the great sonic inform us Kiev Lakewood asked the question what did they want from Rebbe and shamayim the calf went into his clothing what should he have done taking him to the Shiva arrogance sure a tighter put him on the missile front would they want him to do with the cab it was the Catholic SATA it was to send him out to the - fascinating fascinating he should have let the calves remain inside the coat until the sharklet would come in taken away that sphere was that the Engel escaped to him it cried it ran it was missed on an omen by cash it cried and it begged him shield me shelter me why'd he throw him out even though so Caligula shitta even though the ego was going to shoot the Rebbe didn't have to throw and I took a look at this from Revati Fogle and I thought to myself for one moment I shook and I thought to myself that little child can't go - until you achieve anywhere and it's waiting around and ello I was down on Ocean Avenue only a few blocks from here walking minding my own business all of a sudden a van pulls up a van pulls up his Menino you keep your eyes open a van pulls up man jumps out of the driver's seat someone jumps out to him the other seat and I see two ballet bottom run over to me well gold bus this is miniature Mayan miniature mine I said well what's a minute remaining Kagami was hit me it's not me to survive no no I want to tell you I cannot get my son right now auntie Shiva I don't have a place for him I tried here and there and I didn't find out about the last place until it was too late and now all the registration is closed and he doesn't have the best abilities and he went on and on and on so what do I do I tell him listen I deal with older grades I deal with base magician postgraduate do I tell him it's not my division it's not my business it's not my responsibility call you sellout Athens that was that that's not any excuse that a ye'd can use I could tell him well look I almost saw the children get into you Shiva's not every time does everybody get in Lacock Masato maybe just doesn't have a place right now home school him or take some other ASA someone comes for the person comes in and I think to myself well they probably had a lot of choices and a lot of chances they shouldn't have been so picky and I can think all the other thing you know why I want to think almighty routes in because I don't want to be bothered that there's someone that needs a off I don't want to know that I'm affluent to go out and to strive to get them enough even I don't know them at all it's my team it's my field you see that guy walking down the street and he's unhappy though Tiger yelling I'm glad my dog it's not good that he's by himself it's not good that she's by himself what do we think happens as they go down the street as they go down the roads of life and they're not married local cop my boy side I could say well you know there some statistics came out and somewhere and somebody don't know where I don't want to see it that there is a certain amount of people Lacock masata no way no way biryeo alum doesn't say that or Panozzo and the person struggling so they come over and you say look there are people that have Panozzo and there are certain people that it just is difficult for them and they may not have Panozzo and you know there's other ways is welfare and other things Lacock Monsanto says Rubino sandbox Fogle not so a person has to Sholem never be me i shun ourselves we never give up we never be me I assure on deceiver or another individual we have to be careful always to give peace of we have to be careful to know that our courage Martha's Nicole Yakko we say it co Yakko can do anything can do anything there is nothing that is impossible for the barrio alum to do hyah - anteater is the hand of a chef ever too short to accomplish anything in this world never never a person has to strive to try to the utmost of their hair stylist and they will be seen at different times in their life they will be able to see the nice M&E flows is interesting - extremely interesting my should have been at one time said ah one time in Aveiro one time in his whole life so we're familiar with the rajah cottage says why did he get punished why the problem was the Hakka sauce elihpa moyen he hit the rock twice what should he have done Buddha Bartonella sell he should have spoke to it however he take a look in the Rambam he says the reason was is because much should have made it was not careful in the way talk to Chloe so she will know how my name he popped down to them that was degrading so because of that and the person goes so which one was it was it that he hit the rock or was it that he said Shimon are my to him interesting the bay science said they both go but Sigma in Oakland they both are the exact same path once more should a man who said she will know how my rim he gave up on him ah this is the class as that town mid once he was quite gaming its Russian to speak that way about them how can you speak that way a child that's not good hostage so I mean it's not behaving who knows I'm Alice I'm super close our Teague beam Sheik living VI el torneo since the Heyliger ago same time zone Infeld be careful for each child how you touch him means how you talk with him how you know yeah how a person is careful in their comportment towards children every child can become a shared CK know every child the best of the children the ones on the top that what is the greatest the one with the highest IQ in the one with the lowest and the one that's are so good with mushiya Ani the royale Elohim or are they the poor man that comes riding in a some more how about Gewehr shiroichi bala sauce how about the girl that comes in with the white Stalin cost about $5,000 beautiful stallion purebred poor whoa why not because my chefs in Cana was not that machine Santino is here to pick up the masses Michele Santino is here in order that we should have he's look that we will know one day according to the Heyliger rebel Conan Wasserman's episodically Rakesh I mean condom I that we should know machete will lift up the entire world so because mashallah Bain was mafia and why should I may know said Shimon though I might him then already it wasn't the same anymore the way that he was going to look at Claudius royal was going to be different and this is something that I think that we have to go in in ourselves especially during these months in which a person is forced to introspection it is impossible uh Turley impossible when a person sits on the ground when an individual takes a look in the Kenneth's when a person goes through the weeks it is impossible not to do introspection or midnight Oh a new Galena mayority no it's got a dawn on someone sometime minato a new girl Luna may art say no it's not fun this is not fun at all nothing about the three weeks nothing about the nine days nothing about tisha book the sooner we're out of this particular Torah the sooner we're out of everything the sooner were on to great days ahead the sooner were on to life so I have to understand what is it about me that may affect it I have to understand how do i improve what is my call during this time so it is interesting a lot of times an individual has done a nivara it is possible to me is a lot of times a person said look I know already how many of Eros I did I know for this surveyor I had a London come in one time told me how many things he's over by this time how many things he was over when he went out to dinner last night in Manhattan how many things he was over on Shabbos when he wasn't Carroll so I said so I don't need you I could take a computer and we could probably find the program someone who's good in program all these sir even though if you do this many things in a day so how many times you over live how many times who needs it your brother shel olam doesn't care Hashem only cares about one thing I eat you do Chuba and come back to the right way not that we look at ourselves in any way the next day when a person wakes up after having a bad day Sununu Sharma then a showman's clean it went upstairs already it came back down a person was i huh they must be pretty good if it came back down they had live in another day once they're living another day they got to give visit to themselves and say on this day I could be muhabba all of their violence to screw us I can change every bad thing I did and it can only be good from now on that is our Emunah never that a person should be me i ish look in life look what happened look at life Menasha looking at las amended i look at big ballet Avera thyroid i their hashem use process to Chuba Poirot how many did Poirot kill living sir Robin how many killed Hashem is Park said do chuhwa do to form a cure ever do to var make you a king that is the power that a person has so the great has Aneesh Sadiq asylum had a sister and the sister with the stapler Rebbetzin in the stapler Rebbetzin took care of the house Aneesh that was her job she took care of her brother one day hasn't he said no matter who comes nobody is allowed to come to the room no one can come in to see him he had something to do that day we don't know what nobody is allowed to come in nobody gains entry Rebbetzin faithfully guarded the door and abided by his instructions all of a sudden was in the middle of the morning Rebbetzin said sorry there's not any audience is granted today kept knocking the knocking grew louder and louder the Rebbetzin opened up the door and told the young woman outside I'm sorry but the husbandís cannot see anybody today can't hear anybody today and you'll have to go and come back another day she did not listen she would not leave she adamantly refused I will not leave this room I have something that is the door shut I made the rules shel olam it is something I cannot say to anybody I've got to have the cousin each disciple er Rebbetzin saw it was impossible to get her to leave so she went into the cousin eesh the cousin each said I tell you what send them to her abusive of Rome wolf in Bnei Brak he was the özkan who formed the base Yakko who made the seminary's who did a lot a big sonic send her to him and whatever it is he'll be able to take care of it Rebbetzin came out explained it to the young woman the young woman was calm and she went she went into the office of Rev wolf and she told him what was on her mind into her heart as soon as he heard her words he said there is only one person in this world that we can talk to about it huzza nish they pick up and they both go the cousin eesh revolve goes inside and here is what he transmitted the woman endured a lot in her life and she suffered during the war because of the ordeal that she went through she left Tyra she left the Taira life completely unfortunately she was Mitchell in many he saw him hammering many bad things she regretted that all that she did she had great SAR she knows that there is no reform there's no Chuba for what she did therefore she Devon decided she's going to be mohammad at Smola das she is going to take her own life her own life in order to have Khepera for the terrible things that she did that husband each listened carefully and said the following tell her in my name here hooray Aveda casa mia vera here hooray Avera thinking about the Avera is worse than the Avera itself to think about the Avera about the sin about what a person did and about what they did wrong and about how well they were pygame and how they did this not like that that is worse than the a favorite that they actually did with their hands it's thinking about it she should know that tell the young woman she should not think about the past anymore know more about the other she should accept upon herself the oil mouthwash a mime the yoke of the heavenly kingdom she should do chuvash Alima and know that in the future she's gonna be rewarded and go to many symphysis the young woman heard this she broke down and cried if hasn't each said that she's going to future simplest she's going she went out she did Chuba she Leymah she established a buy some beer oil Lachey Melissa Ferris a true Jewish home her children went step further her grandchildren are the splendor of coloca zone ish in Bnei Brak here hooray Avera thinking about what a person did is sometimes much worse than the Avera itself I had somebody who missed an appointment and they felt that they weren't ms they did something maybe me made over solemn Mutola shadows from dead over solemn micellar shadows made of a show where you're allowed to tell a little bit or whether you're allowed to tell whatever it is check your LaVon check whatever it said it because they missed an appointment the person came to me if I tell you a hundred times it's a low estimate telling me I did such a bad Avera I don't know how I could do mitzvos anymore why because I didn't tell the truth to that appointment and I got out of it the individual will not allow themselves to go on in life a bigger at societ sir there isn't in this entire world there's no bigger Yates ER than the eight sir says getting and you remember that uh very you did I didn't forget you think I shouldn't forgot you think anybody forgot we have it no it's captured on video the beauty of Cuba Salima is it erases everything chuvash Alima sherry Chuba says you want to get out your stain from your shirt and it's a stain that's dirty and it was ground in didn't change your shirt the entire nine days except for Shabbos and it got bad see is they after Earth after the nine days I'll just throw this one in the in the pile no you could clean it you could wash it says the Heyliger of a new Yana Shari Chuba it comes out you can't ever tell it was there it's gone it's gone no longer is it part of a person's judgment that is the thing that an individual has to know some explaining to this person that you forget about it it's gone already you got to let yourself go on but the Yates er wants to hold us on and I want to be mikata SH just a smokiness only from me the hustler sat on milf on a no macarena wits me open an American a No the hustler sought to milf on a know a person comes to do an aver and they think about it so the Sultan is always beckoning them calm calm be Tom Tom MIDI surah mine ganoub aim stolen waters a sweet calm let's go tries to entice us all kinds of ways that's before the Avera then a person does it who may have had a go after the person did the Avera the sultan does not want to let him go once say remember you did me a very memory did it they're walking in with their Kittel well yom kippur all of a sudden the about Fela starts Kol Nidre and what's the person that first second that first thing just finished to feel exactly everything he thinks about a severa and he can't get it out of his mind and the whole Kol Nidrei was finished and then next is finished and then the next and then by the time they're on to the pewte them it's also gone he nako home a Bri I'd say yeah yeah yeah when a person has to know his chuhwa magatha kisi I avoid children doesn't say in this forum it doesn't say mr. consumer it doesn't say Mesilla Seashore him that Juba is like the Vilna going by accident one time he bumped into the lamb bumped into MOOCs really good faith it right it's not doesn't say that by accident a person's in the middle of drinking and they don't know whether they made the shackled with kvarner they didn't it's not talking about that it's not talking about the small little minor things someone once asked me at a facility they had matzah satrom Aatish Mura but they were machine matzah and the person came over and they had mama SH a person that was ill and they said by accident they didn't have Matz's that was Maura avoiders Yad hand matzah they had machine matzah so what circa para machine machine schmear it's not talking about that it's talking about a various cameras that people do that people have always done if you look in the tubers forum if you look by the Aeneid sock if you'll take a look at moisture if you look in your beer a mer if you look in any of the certain the betty sky you take a look anywhere you'll see that various that people wrote in about we're major of errors it wasn't simple and that's for taking shuva it means there is not yes in this entire world at all at all a person only has to remember at all times the three-button shel olam is waiting with open hands the rebuttal item is waiting for each and every person and wants everybody to know that in the second that a person does chuva he will not anymore she will not anymore be asked what did you do why did you do it the only thing is what happened with a person's chuva another onion mmm yum condom uterus Allah have LOD 40 days before right Pascal yo seis Basco goes out from sham I am there who Maris my presence it calls out vas plainly lip line e the shuttle bus flying in the plane e that person has a up right so what happens in today's times jus nominee people came over to me after there was a certain something that was put out on the media and how careful we have to be in medias yesh meaning you take a look at it a person has to be careful unless something is from the Taira unless you come in the bustin based on measures and under the bust of the rebus you take a sitter and take a safer and you take a look at something that has already been given our scammer and they say it's okay then I can learn from it but a random piece of news I ran the piece sent around do you know that there's a father in this face matters right now that his son came over to me at 11 years old in the base mothers you know they have these handout things I don't know where you'd oven wine diamond by me but they have little Shabbos you get these handouts the boy comes over to me and he says roof is this proper for the base matters take a look at the papers it's it's partial yeah take a look at it fold it up immediately took it and put in the back where nobody could find it yes who said it which God said it who gave us coming it should be said how do we know who is the manda Omar who's the daya's ogre who's the one that can formulate the opinions that will affect Claudius royal Latoya or hosta Sholem opposite it's only Gedaliah Sorrell should be p.m. on Ohio it has to be from a respected individual that has that's tighter so I would like to just say when it says bosco yo say star Maris that the Baskerville comes out and says that there is a there is a there's a of an astounding yow coat an astounding yaku says what is the reason why you have a boy who becomes my Mitzvah and he goes up to the Heyliger Tyra and his father is standing there and the father says burrow chapter on a man chooses shallow Zoo workshop autonomy I'm happy that I'm getting out of this sinus right and he says that some fathers I see say it but cover naraba other saying just softly it's different ways right why don't girl she's 12 years old bas Mitzvah she's a good Ola so the parents should come the father should come to the Bema and say the same Bravo boy Hashem now she's on her own it's her own squeeze it's not going on my husband anymore fascinating you cook the output says because in shamayim it's one unit it's a husband and a wife it's already joined before they came into this world the future husband has already taken our eius for his future wife he's not the father it's astounding it's fascinating so some will say yes but look and what is going on okay I understand that but we even live in a different way Simon Wiesenthal sacred sonic live Rocco he was interviewed interviewed throughout the entire world on one particular outlet and they said to mr. Wiesenthal what does it mean to be Jewish what does it mean to be Jewish he looked at them straight in the eye he said to be Jewish is to invent hope where there is none that's what Simon Wiesenthal said we are an arm that lives on hope when um that lives in the future where an arm that every day dreams her you know kaathal name what does it mean it doesn't mean wake up from your dream you shouldn't be dreaming now let's get the reality harsh realities stood know how única Coleman means that we're supposed to dream yourself exotic Columbus and what did they say hello in a bubble economist the dreamers coming down but look where his dreams took us look what happened with his dreams look where everybody went in Claudius royal because of his dreams and so I was in Philadelphia they brought me over for Shabbos to a convention and their beautiful convention sued us the rockness the gosh me is beautiful beautiful all of a sudden it came to me after the shear little Shabbos I'm going back to my room it's late hi Yeats waiting for me in the hall he says ruff can I talk with you for a minute I said of course whatever you like so he said I would like to talk to you about my sister I have a problem I said yes tell me what it is she says could weaves a little embarrassed could we go to the side I went to the side with him there was a little hole you know where you buy the coke you know when you buy the machine in the in the hotel tomorrow science I said let's round the quarter you shouldn't think of the roof is buying a coke you know well Chavez so I'm standing there he says I have his sister my sister is 40 years old the most popular my sister is the most popular she makes a lot of money she's professional she was the best in school she was ahead of the Gemara whatever the head of everything everybody likes everybody and she never ever found this off well she's me I you know it never happened up until now that she's she's given up I never saw her like this could the row of give me a schoola that she should get married her boy sigh I think I've been asked more times for a schooler than I've said been asked if I could possibly give an ASA because amount of times the people today want a quick fix schoolers are great but sometimes individual has to know that there are a lot of things that go behind it so I said I tell you the truth I'll give you a grat gladly a couple of schoolers right now but your sister she needs to something she needs some direction she says well you want to ask me questions I said okay I say I ask him a number of questions I said I can't see from anything that you're saying that there's a problem that there's a difficulty situation comes to be mud so Chavez he comes over to me says would you agree if I would bring my sister to talk with I said yes I'll agree brought the sister in months a Shabbos the next night she comes into me together with a brother and I ask all the questions what she does how she does it what type of personality how she acts when she meets somebody is she looked biiian japhet does she ask the right things does she comport herself in the correct way does she give it a chance is she miss Paola every single answer was correct she passed the test 100% 100% perfect paper at the end of an hour and a half I said I don't have an answer however outgoing Rebbe Elkin on my Rebbe is father a going rips MCAS father said that if you ever get into trouble and you don't have an answer for somebody look into Heyliger Torah open up a safe it doesn't matter what it is doesn't matter doesn't matter which the safer is open it up and look in it so I looked in the safer I said to her 1:8 sir the only thing I could tell you is the next time you're going out the next time you have an outing call me before you say no she looks at her brother does the rub mean that I should call him the brother says I think so Oh Ravi I never did anything like that before I said I know it's a radical thing it's up to you if you want to call we can discuss it a little bit maybe show lights is okay tighten my thymine Oh a flood two are better than one try it out try it out okay she left the office and that was it about some time later I get a call she went out and she would like to discuss the outing with me to see that it's proper to say no she told me all the reasons why not it was categorical it was well-organized she said her piece she rested her case and I said I agree with you finished a while later yet she went out with another person called me up said my brother said I should call I said well do you want to call and she went through it why it's not for her and everything else I heard it I said okay I agree with you mas him a while later couple of good months went down the road she calls me up and tells me about the guy I said I don't agree with you he sounds to me perfect he sounds good he's a bent IRA he's about has said he's a proper person yes there are ferrets he smiles he cares he has good manners yeah but it's not to sing you knows the chemistry in there how many times you're out you're expert in chemistry already yeah you one time no matter how she argued I said I'm not muscum go out again she called her brother immediately the roof told me something I don't even want to tell you what he told me brother said what'd he tell you he said that I should go out again you have to go out again you asked she went out again she said okay I did what you asked she called me back after she went out again she said now I'm gonna tell you I saw ready it's not for me and she gave me two other reasons I said it doesn't sound to me like you have any mom or sister no reasons he Dana pushes we got to be careful he sounds like a real nice man in fact I would like to meet this guy went back and forth back and forth I won't tell you what she said he said I would be happy to arrange it with a rub I made it go out again and then the next time and then the next time and the next time until the point where it became the right sunny that she saw he is some special fellow ok I'm there to answer questions I'm there to give an answer finally I get to call the called that I waited for that called that everybody was Mustafa waiting for decades she tells me tonight's thing didn't go so well I said what's the matter well he's he startled me I said what'd he do he did something that it was not right I said what'd he do he asked me to get engaged I want to say Khalil oh yeah asked you to get engaged beautiful there's only one thing to do she said what is that Mazel Tov get engaged it's the time you got to know the shots are kosher Mitzvah bullion saw our talk meets and the the Reeb initial item gives us certain to my name don't pass the by in life jump in get ready do it know the time that a person has to act I begged her she said all right the robe has been helpful I'm gonna listen I get a call back later that night I have a problem what's the problem my father said I should not get engaged my father said this is not the one for me by this time I tell you the truth I was going out of my Caleb I said to her fine tell your father did rob Dovid Goldwasser chelita is now coming to his house for a private meeting I put my coat on I got the keys I'm going out the door also the telephones Ricky can really come out there's somebody on the phone I ran inside she says my father said I can get engaged anything but don't have Rob goldwasser come to this house what would another person do what an individual think about they think wha 40 what's gonna be what's gonna happen yeah you shall I made us look the Heyliger cuts go what does it mean I by Omar la Xavier oh Sh yes hello me das the Cusco says a person that gives up doesn't have das a person that despairs a person that grows hopeless they don't have that we always have hope we always have beat Oakland we always have in us in no matter what do you think that the people that walk down emaciated from the Holocaust from the Shia from my donek and Treblinka now sweats and beer canal and from all of the places that I don't even want to mention booked involved in all of the work camps in Siberia and from Iran and from the worse than the worst in from Syria all the places do you know do you know how they came out barely alive barely able to walk in some of the old clips you can see mama SH they look like in the summer just walking with a little bit of skin and what did they do they came and they rebuilt throughout the world centers of Tyra centers of yeshivas and centers of casitas and they went out and look what they did they marched they marched out barely alive and they came from that and beautiful beautiful island that we live in today after the Holocaust che was up late to Eden imagine if he would have said at that time my life is over I'm done look at what I saw look what I went through look at the horror but they didn't say that they continued because that's the nits kiss of Claudius RAL the cloister me Lublin says that what is Claudius trial what is Klaus royal we are people that get up once we're down we get up immediately and we go on we don't stay down anybody that went through anything in this life that is our rationale that is our hash buffer that's our mindset we have to continue to go on with great great resolve that bays rush mes para the better days will come ahead it's interesting that during this time and you know there are certain things that happen with Panozzo Parnell so can get a person down Costas column and things begin to pile up on an individual loyal a know and it is sometimes a bit overwhelming so we begin to think to ourselves wow this is a lot I don't know if I can go on like this it's it's it's something that's too much for me so sometimes the person gets the a oh Sh and they say I can't make any money or I might as well stop or whatever the case is an individual should know that a in person at any given day in this life can change from being a person who was on the bottom to a person that's on the top I'll never ever forget it never never forget one time I saw ye that came to collect stock up and he came before you'll know him and they asked me for taco and he was embarrassed to ask never to be embarrassed and I said to him you can never tell you can never tell one day I may be able to send many many people to you to collect stalker he looked at me he started laughing me he says I man it's Turk look at me Rebbe look look how I'm dressed look look look how I look look what I'm doing do you know that I stay out by the camera sometimes in different places in order to collect up money whatever mind just to bring home some some little food I said you can never tell bemis Paulo semillas motherland of it be careful do other things bemis follow FERPA no sir he'll Kel Solomon finest like oil Hashem doesn't say I only give the give Ihram but i don't give to others Hashem doesn't say this person was only destined to not the other person every individual South SEO therefore must be a local chiro toy we say with the same qivana the same graph of the st. Alamo that we say with the same qivana a person does not know where they're going on any given day neither neither neither I was invited to go to California for he de bruit waiting at the airport when I came in with the ye'd who I recognized but he wasn't wearing the torn clothes and he wasn't down and out and you know Bianca smashed over his head but he looked like he's doing ok he comes over to me and he says Rebbe I'm here I just came to show you that what you said it came true I said it's not what I said it's what the burro eylem says that every person has a chance and there isn't anybody that will not have a chance and we don't know in the craziest ways in the ways that we could never figure out a person could turn overnight from one thing to the next it's happened it's happened many times then individual the next day we'll see something that didn't happen before I eat walked over to me I was on Avenue K Avenue K in Brooklyn a yield walked over to me was on Chavez all of a sudden he came over to me and he says I used to control I don't remember how many million dollars was the company I don't have a penny and I'm staying up all night worrying about it and he calculated for me how many nights that he stayed up worrying about the Panozzo and he began to tell me as titers and why and why I said can't see a question I see a good question what is it gonna help that you stayed up and you're worried about it at night what did you do did you help yourself during that time did you look for a job William Miss Powell did you davon yeah with that yup we'll run o'clock in the morning beautiful Deacon cuts ice take it out ticking Rahel ticking layer you can even get a beautiful English today thinking ahead so this gives you all the explanations say it what are you doing don't wallow around we are a nation hey uncle of Ayako when we're down we don't say that we get up and we jump a person had a little problem with shoveling bias so they want to go for cleft or give out Oh yo yo yo yo do I have a wife you should know when it says in the Gemara me shushing I'm talking about me hey the governor had a Paris goes straight through till today oh you know my husband could you want me to tell you about my husband Hamish I tell you the truth I get scar god--all every day that I stayed together I want you to know it's mama Schleich give it's like you suit but I'm sure it's ma Harper who knows that it can't change from one day to the next is the person rayma Hooven is the person the same beloved individual that were joined together under the foot per or did they go a little bit different did they not go in the same Derrick in the same way what happened with the individual why did it sour why did they end up why is it that twice I was Masada condition for a person was max max are you sure so they took back the first wife took back the first wife from Catskill here rough cut school Hillsboro verdict super fourth how come she was bad enough that they gave her to get the first time calico give him away why because we sometimes lose that something gets involved there's always hope there's no hopeless time there's no hopelessness an individual has to remain always strong never ever to let go on it doesn't matter and Panozzo doesn't matter in Chelan bias kindle kindle are a lot of times a person will get up said Kendall ah they got a report home from school I love it got a report home from school sorry young killer today dinner to follow along and after he didn't follow along it was throwing recess and he did this and after that he did invention mama SH you get like Cola hot I'm show him and they you know singing what are you doing well yeah what what should the parent feel like about what do I got here right what is the parent thing a normal parent they need a C's look right a normal parent they rely on whatever they rely on and they get as I report and they open it up how they supposed to go on how they look at their child knock a soul coming daddy look at them they get upset with them they get this point do with them well I have my other kid my other kids are this you tickle star you know started a amazing the other child that one okay you know we're gonna go through the school whatever we'll just push it through no way you cannot tell which one is going to be much Lea you cannot tell but we are so used to putting it down exactly you can't tell the Kindle ah they need a chance they need to be able to shine they need to be able to flourish in their own way a person has to be able to see the Kindle lock in front of them and know for each one is different and I can never say your brother always does this without any problem how about you your brother I ask him to sit down to learning them I'm sure yeah I have to tell him to stand up you should go to sleep and you I can't get to sit down probably one of the worst things that parent could ever say to a child probably one of the worst things every child has greatness every child every child so a boy came into line well Shabbos everybody came to say good Shabbos and I noticed there's a boy that's standing away from everybody else so I was wondering why I was standing away from everybody else he was waiting for everybody else to leave after they left he says Rebbe I have a Shila for you so I bent down I listened to it and he said I got the report card today from yeshiva and my Shila is do I have to show it to my father or can I just return it and you know so what I wanted to tell the boy was I had that Schuyler myself a few times when I was younger why is it it's a good grade or not a good grade what does it mean what does it mean what is the entire grading system the person that knows how to take the test great that individual strikes the individual that has mental block when it comes to testing they can know everything right Einstein pretty smart fellow interesting ongoing regulative command s key once talked about of Khayyam and Einstein and compared them how going rube rube young kid comin etske compare them Einstein had delayed speech Einstein didn't speak today what would they do if a person didn't speak right away all kind of things right Rambam Rambam look at the early history of the Rambam in his learning look at others that weren't so great look at others that became great as the time went on inside and learned a dose of M&M mana Macky must a see what does it mean my schema speci what's up SE it means that they have the ability to sign anybody and everybody every girl and every boy they're all stars they're all stars they're all click love him we have to believe in it we have to see the Mahalo Kanda to Gong we have to see the way the methodology what wins their hearts and we have to know well what the challenges are this money no there is no joke rabbi sigh with our little kinder luck see in the streets when our little kinder laughs can see from a roadside when Lindelof see and I don't mean to say anything at all but it hits me so I can only imagine it hits a child we are not supposed to have anything on ourselves and I don't want to say pat pat male we're not supposed to have anything it's a dia Raisa a couple of assumed when we were little when I was little did I see one person that maybe got sicker one night and had something yes this Menino you can see a person decorated both arms head faith or up it's a different world it's a different world the children see it and the children knows what's going on and unfortunately for the media and the fact that the media is so much pushing us in social media in this media that media Halla by halle by halle by we wouldn't have it but everybody will tell you how great it is and how wonderful it is how wonderful Eithne Lukey boy team how many people fell because of it that brings Yahoo SH into the world so what happened in garlis let me just go for one more second honor of Shimon this is fascinating we went through it Kufa we went through it to Kufa lately I'm enough Shimon Misha Raul is bolts are a person that is used to withstanding pain okapi shebar lights are latisha even though sometimes kalila they'll have pain soy el azul i the aina die egg they'll be Seibel this is the zyre pasha mice they'll be Seibel i could withstand it I will me Shane a rug of a char but the person that's overly indulged the person that's used to hi a moisturize that has everything in puss but how you call your mother tough no can be done in all the pleasures and all the extras and all the everything who bullets are and that guy has star Zefat are Shalin that's completes our the all Jets we can look like and on that a person has to cry says desire caucus felsham yard limits limits ryeom when Benet sir I went to meet Ryan Righi limits are they had already grown accustomed to desire shower Rico your mashallah VMI Jankovic Sarah share that Yakima vino BK shot boy they shave a shower gentlemen Vito said I just want a few moments tranquility hm I don't want the Tsar I know I'd be pursued I won't have to think with asa I don't want to have everything just let me alone let me have peace nice talk I'm in a Sheena well Akane sub Lois I go loose with Ryan kuroi they were cut out to be survivors of godless I will go loose mahvel what happened in gullu's bevelle Oh who hired Sascha lame it was that completes our it was the LOI Moomba na mila show how you regulate a flu came along came a Khandala die in a car looking acre fourth paragraph I sighed they were used to everything great path Luke a look him all the things all the indulgences and the pleasures that the Kings had all the beautiful things in the world parasha of our yard in Bogalusa now they went to gull of iron you say oh I and when they even came broken into gulls when they had the yolks put on their back and they were taken in Chains iein what happen how they went to tar that I Shyamal air pump and they had the heavy chains on their neck the damn cat Sherlock and their hands were bound behind them Hashem is Mara had to come and said to the pimalia shall Milo said to the heavens sent to all the maloca sent to all of them are coming everybody that was in cha-am matthos accountant what are you doing here why are you up in cha maíam you see my people you see Bonet you saw you see them suffering what are you doing up here go down and we read that they all went down and I could have work who went together with them why because Hashem was afraid that Benes royal would be the Irish they would despair they would give up and once they would despair once they would give up what would happen and we see from that that you Tess : nobody was allowed to reveal what he saw the cadre hedorium and read the comments why was he allowed to reveal it because we have very much I'm shows you something in private and all of a sudden you show it to others he was a no VMS the reason is he's with given ruse to give his look to Claudius well he had to tell them what he saw he had to tell them that I chemin the pimalia Sharmila all of the heavenly hosts came in order to tell them in the future is going to be a based on meekness in order to tell them all the good things that's gonna happen when we sit when we sit on the ground on teach above when we sit and read the Kenneth one after another all of a sudden in the middle creeps in did say see who shall I am and there's a n-- and everybody's uplifted at that time and there are other things that we read that we learned during that time and it lifts us up in tissue bob is a MyID and i don't say talk to them in all the different things about the day is to give us his look it's a day that's down it's a day that i got to be more careful than any other day it's a day that's hailing it's a day of Chuseok it's a day when each and every person we learn we reading King us until after hot toys and at that time we don't even have enough time because we go through each one the field with his hook filled with inspiration filled with looking forward to the future to understanding what's going to be we understand that Hashem is vara gave us all gave us all that ability but if a person gives Casa Sholem if they gave up on life if they gave up on themselves if they gave up on their wives on their husbands they gave up on the kid they gave up on somebody else has to show them has to show them I once went to a husana I went to a hospital Long Beach beautiful hasslein beautiful I come in I'm a guest I want to go to the smorgasbord at least Sabbath I soda I'm just about to take my soda just that's all I wanted someone came the Husson needs to see you immediately I'm not the Masada condition I'm a guest I'm drinking my coke or mine finds I going to see the hustle he's sweating doesn't look like a regular cousin to me sweating upset hats off coat open tie loosened and I says what's this he says rough my father didn't come to the wedding he's not at the Copa there are a couple of people that said that you should talk with them because you may have the right way to talk with them so we were waiting for you to come to the FAFSA no I came just in time for the hook I said okay I never forget it I walk outside they give me a phone in the office I sit down everybody is standing over me you know it's the easiest way to make a call like with everybody over your head i Scott if the telephone I must have rang it a hundred times didn't pick up the phone when someone doesn't want to pick up a telephone they don't pick it up someone's trying to get you you got to pick up the telephone someone wants a ski Mithila you pick up the telephone even they don't ask you Mithila you pick up the telephone and ask the Mithila what is this not picking up the phone someone should explain it to me if you have a good reason for it you can answer it I'm not talking with you right now you I'm not going to talk about maybe tomorrow I will see me idea what's tonight me i day i'm my eula dying what's going on I'm not talking to you I keep ringing hundred and first time the he picks up I get on the phone hello I want to introduce myself my name is Goldwasser and everything is good I won't tell you a small devourer Toyota I tell him a small devourer Tyra and I said weren't you once in the-- no he said yeah yeah yeah I said oh it's interesting you infinite and I start a whole conversation with him and I said to him it's amazing by any chance are you are you busy tonight because I want to talk with you about the matter and he know so he stops and he says well actually he said it completely out tonight is my son's wedding we are completely in different worlds I hold it against him that he was not Muhammad me properly and I'm not at the wedding I said I don't believe it I won't talk with you over and you know Kenneth and you're telling me this how could you say I you're a respected mechanic I told him it's back to Mahana can we talk for a minute yeah well why don't you go to wedding look rough I'm gonna tell you something I heard of you I know you I respect you and it's just it's not for you this is not for me yeah will you deed them or not yeah you might you did I said yeah so can we talk about this for a minute all right so do you want to talk about I said how could you not go to son's wedding your son so consonant it's a consonant for your whole life he's married one time that's a sham and where you at and it keeps telling me why it's not going so soon I said let me ask you a question if I will go with you and we'll sit down you're not coming to your son's wedding but you're coming to speak of an Indian and phenol with me would you come then I kept pressing him he said well if that would be the real reason of coming and it would be a covered for the rub if I would come so that I would come I said okay when should I be there he must have looked at his clock and he said I can be there in two hours I said to him let me ask you a question let me ask you a question I I can't go to sleep that land I wake up very early I got Nate's tomorrow more to get our early dates 3:30 okay could you come a little earlier he said well if I try but then I'd have to get dressed I said yeah usually we get dressed before we come I'll give you a little bit of time I went back out I waited at the beginning of the parking lot of the Sands Hotel until I saw the car coming I stake them out you know as he's coming in I started driving I hope the heard a couple of times so he should know beyond him I get on the car I got a car I run over the guy I never met him I hug him and we both walk in together so he said ok we just stay in the back I said wait a minute I can't sit in the back my name is Rob I go boss I'm gonna sit in the back of the thing there she says well we want to sit I said I like to sit near the hostel you know is it that's the only seat you considered I said you know I'm a wrong I take him now the whole time I have him in my arm like this lock because I'm afraid the guy's gonna be barea get Innoko but everything based are safer right so I take him inside i sat down with him to Hudson's dish I told the Hudson before he leaves before they get up to go to the bed again you come and you take your father he told me I'm afraid I don't know what my father's gonna do I said don't worry about it I will hold him from the other end I'm holding him like this the muffin comes in and holds him but I'm holding him so strong that he's wondering what is he holding me like this look it was that with everything and I'm holding him like this and we walk in the Father I don't know the Kyle I don't know the hustling I came for a favor and I'm already from the winter Pharaohs walking shiny I mean he stayed I danced with him truth is I was gonna cut out after the hooker but I felt it would be prudent to stay for a little while that night you give up you give up on a son you give up on a father you never ever ever give up on anybody and it doesn't matter every child miss Hoban I easily mood they ashamed it doesn't matter who they are the barrel shot mark do you know how many get Toyland when they were younger had difficulties in learning we think everybody from the time they were little babies so the golem they sat in the crib and they had the shyness thing you know the little shots they had the Tanakh they had this all yer Raziel amount of the irish mira and they had on the other side tour and they had the Sawyer and that and they're going like this the whole night like that mommy I need a little shock oh and it and it going back and forth or your assignments in pathology I'm not even to see himself not at all not at all they were quite normal quite human quite as we are today Hashem did not make my local Bay no name no no no no we're all that way every one of us we are as it says until him were almost my love him all of us all of us a Chevy spark gave it to us Hashem use Barak Valley pasta op of Hashem is was breathed meat enough of me to like Martha that I shall breathe into a service cam come Yoho we all have it we have greatness inside of us the lowest one the one that gave us the most trouble the one that made us the most upset the one with the biggest rebellion never ever ever ever give up on anybody and so there's a fascinating fascinating reminisce that I got to tell you from Roberto I never saw anything like it the Heyliger of Southwark and this is something that as many times as I go over it I still have difficulty understanding the greatness of it but if so luck says the following eleazar eleazar let me read it to you reshma from Avram heard King Mesha octave that is brother rabbi sir let's go learn it up together that is that his unfortunate has been taken as a captive what happened what did he do he armed the Eureka's canoe club you leave they Bay so he armed everybody he got them ready in the army how many 318 were his army the militiamen the military 318 and he pursued them by years I had done he pursued them to done the Gemara in the door him says Tom and Bob limas echinoderms off lemon-basil morales Shmona also / mayors what does it mean the 318 armor of amoeba rabba and loss are connected Coulomb it was a loser that when not the 318 green beret dad stood up not the 318 column that stood up it was Eliezer that came what does that mean if the Gemara tells us 318 the Commission tells 318 is the gematria it must mean that there's an Indian it's an Indian of beat Oakland why because Eleazar had he scabrous oh yes he was able to overcome huge despair disillusionment and what did he do his number of Eliezer comes out to 317 what is the number 3:18 says of southwark it is the clay Allah my Allah from yesh it means that you can overcome Yosh you got one more point than the 3:17 in itself how a person should understand a fellow haripada manaka-san Sabah Rochelle Adam him nah otsuma Menachem him never ever give up and Lakota Mehran it tells about that there was a building that burned down to the ground burnt down to the ground and there was a certain ye'd that had a partnership in the building and he stood there and he was watching it and old ye'd the building burned to the ground and they saw the old ye'd and he starts to gather from in front of everybody he starts to gather one piece of wood that wasn't burned and he gets another joint that wasn't burned and he gets another place he's going around all the destroyed building and everybody's out there laughing look at that old fool look what he's doing and one of the Columbian that we're sitting there said how foolish you are this old man he knows never give up right away at the scenes of the destruction you take whatever you can save in order to build a new that's the way we live if we're me is we change the din we change our local I'll end somebody $100 thousand dollars and afterwards he doesn't pay me back I wait a year he didn't pay me back I wait two years he didn't pay me back three years here to pay me back after the three years I got only a certain level I say you know what I'm me forget about it hello Lucas April Hasina he's gonna pay me back now after I was me I ish I gotta give my sir on the money I gotta give my sir I was me iose my thinking changed the din my thing who gives you a right to be me I SH who gives you the right to ever give up in this world if I could I would go on the whole night LMI I'm afraid that we'll have to do the first part tonight I'll be missing with over toys assignment over toy a future of cada una casa da Verrazzano Dom there's an interesting Rambam and this Rambam is in Hilda's chuva something that I think is Nagaya to each and every one of us the Rambam me Hilda's chuva says the following even though a person could do a lot of Avernus they could go very very far away from a sham even though that individual could do such a thing it could go far away from a sham when they will return when they will come back to a Shem they will be considered a cutter of and Oh someone that's beloved by a Shem an s-1 and it you did an estimate anew you did somebody who is greatly greatly beloved and that's what it says so there was a famous clustered famous famous closer to me I see review I see had a son that went completely off the Dara he went off the Dara have a father that's so great and the father never ever mentioned that all the years never said anything never complained he never brought the Sun up he didn't say anything at all one day they were sitting and talking they have read whom were in the coil oh and they brought up this Rambam and the Rambam says that an individual even though there are missions at Ava they were abomination in our Shems eyes they were far away when the person does chuhwa they will become a you did and Oh a neck mud in the indeed of a chef so that should be I see to ask him what's shot which shot in this he kept quiet all these years he stood up and he told them all do you think that if my son after all these years would come today and he would knock on the door and I would open it up and I would see him do you think if he would say taffy I'm here to return to you do you think for a moment that I wouldn't forget all my grief all my ACMA's nefesh all my heartbreak all the Asura from the years in hug him I would be totally elated that my son came home similarly said of Malcolm Hashem is overjoyed when a Eve comes back any heed whatsoever and when he comes back he's an old banette mod Acorah vana you did the tone of the valley ole says sure mine were our excavators that more than a father waits for his son more than a wife waits for her husband Hashem sits and waits for Claudius well-to-do chuva robust I wish you be zarqa basil Sheamus para CMB mismo tipo de mission rabid stalker in the school set worm its Apulia schewe we should all see Simkins in Yeshua's pan also refers in Yeshua's shell and bias a lot of shidou commissars timers Sholem buys everything good for everyone in class or whatever is in the needs in base our shame is bath we should hear the paella chefs it came to be mayhem of your men or me [Music] the shame here unit armistice pasta not too big a stretch or by golasa for inspiring to be serviced by society for remember to take part in the annual dinner of agency retire but making use of one of the paper the headlines throughout the shul sent if you add in honor of well my gosh I assure you enjoyed it spot little calling to sponsor a future shear for the rainy shearing for the summer seven one eight eight five one eight six five one email tape sentries Shiva net.com that give your cigars oldest Ponce's we announce that the start of this year she got so everyone for coming with an onion when I came out second Okazaki Sela figure him an entire mission in Milan earth officer Mansi a grilled avocado