Orchos Chaim of the Rosh #130-131 {End of First Mahadura} Don't Be Lazy To Greet Another First

this store class is brought to you by torahanytime.com and we are up to the final two icosystem of The Rush we just said don't speak be faithful and honorable to everyone even to a guy now in kuflamid the Russians artists do not be lazy to advance in peace to every person be the first one to greet your friend don't be lazy now this is interesting there might be many motivations why somebody would not greet their friend first it might be arrogance it might be honor it might be a host of bad Midas but the Meda that the rush is emphasizing is the media of laziness and that's the middle that one has to be most aware of one might just be lazy to be the one to uh greet the other person first and one should never be lazy to greet the other person not feeling lenachary even to a guy out of um the manner of peace now a noise the rush said don't lie to anybody be faithful to everyone even when you're allowed to Don't Lie straight out even to a guy there the Russians that's because when it comes to lying that's inherently obligatory it's not because of Dr shalom it's because you can't corrupt your own character but when it comes to greeting someone else especially Rashi and gipton points out you're mentioning the name of Hashem and the gemara says in Lafayette was so here where you're saying hashem's name we need a special header of darkest shalom with Goldberg points out it's not only if you happen to meet your friend in the street and anytime you need to greet someone you should be the one to greet the other um I guess you're invited to a bar mitzvah a wedding or so forth you should be the one to respond that you're coming and you should need the other person to call you up new or you're coming um this is a the Makar The Goldberg says for the story brought in the nasivas are on solanter that when a great person would come to the city the Ruby straw would not stand on ceremony and say well the proper prevalent custom is you're coming to my city I'm the rev the important person in the city you should come greet me no if you throw one out of his way to greet the other person that's we find a similar and Hugo by the khazonish when Arab Rosh Hashanah the year 1949 the briskarov came to beneb rock for yamnaram and sukis and the briskarov arrived on Thursday and Friday was Shabbos before even the riskarov was able to inquire about where the khazonish lived because initiality came to greet him and we learned this behavior and conduct from there was nothing in this world that he did not forsake he was the head of Sanhedrin nevertheless it never happened even one time that somebody was able to feed him to it to greet him before he greeted the other person now we mentioned earlier that hagon review took Shiner would say that robiso cilantro had a special vad to teach his students the proper way to wish a good Morgan that was he gave a special Vibe how to smile at people how to greet people that was a special class that robistro salanter gave and and they say for that he um he brings what Romero Shapiro would say that he wants her to schmooze from the outer of slovaka one time during hello the altar gave a schmooze on how accountable a person is in shamai and how awesome it is scrutinizes every word every thought every action and it was like a dark time in the Yeshiva it was like a depressing time they were thinking about the profundity of the Midas haddin they would call that ello the dark yellow and that year on Rosh Hashanah the author wouldn't speak denial of that yarn Rosh Hashanah the altar spoke even more sharply and then he would end off he said how could a person successfully Traverse a Rosh Hashanah only with a warm smile on their face greeting someone a good morgan that is the best way to overcome on Rosh Hashanah let us now see the last ice in Arkansas The Rush more do not train yourself to associate to stand only next to a wise person and listen and be attentive to his words don't train yourself meaning it's not enough that a person has a desire to come close to him but you need to train yourself to do it that it should be second nature that you want to associate with but even people who associate with sometimes they like to rub shoulders with the important people the rush reminds us listen and be attentive to their words that is the most important thing okay so this concludes this concludes the uh um the last ice cream of the rush in the first edition namely in the uh the first Madura and they're another ice 23 icy ice in Madura Bays in the Chevy monster he says that the second part the second part of the safer is the second Madura um and we're gonna we're gonna learn that as well but we're gonna begin the animation after Tish above so this will be the last year until after tishvab thank you everybody for joining us and may this limit be I made for you and your families thank you very much everyone and have a great day call Tuff you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you by torahanytime.com