Outreach Impact - Rabbi David Kaplan

[Music] this mu game that Sal told story many people have heard it was a Jew was an unemployed actor couldn't find the Confederate jobs and actors which is the standard state of most actors of the world and one day he saw an advertisement there was a zoo the zoo had a monkey the monkey was the main attraction at the zoo people would pay a lot of money to come in and see the monkey in the monkey would perform and the zoo was making a lot of money and then one day monkey died and the suit didn't want anybody know about it because that the the paying customers would start to decrease so they put an ad in the paper they're looking for somebody to pay to play the part of a monkey so this guy got jobs a job they went down the audition and they saw that the guy you know he's cocky he's a natural monkey put down the monkey gonna for me put out the outfit swinging around the other truck he's the guy was good he gets in the cage and he's he's the monkey and paying customers come in to the zoo and throwing peanuts and all the things that monkeys do and everybody's having a good time and then this guy his confidence started increasing the crowds were getting bigger and as his confidence increased he started swinging around you learn to use his tail it was really good and then one day he and I swinging around the cage and he's really put down the show and not knowing his own strength he went up over the top of the cage and he landed in the next cage which was the lion's cage landed about ten feet away from the lion so looks at the lion and you know what is it you do when did you realize his last few moments of hurt on earth and he just looks at the lion he just goes Shania Easter similar cana michelle michaud the lion looks at the gozaburo shaky focus this is Moises that you see yes like me what are you doing here that couldn't find a job young me either so that conditions are bad just a little hot in this outfit buzzing the zebra from the next cage yells realistic both you guys keep it down we're all gonna lose our jobs here this mu game told that story years ago as a description obviously there are different spins on that story of the theme and great mental element he mentioned this story in terms of a person who identifies himself by his external garb he doesn't really never got in touch with who he is on the inside whatever his job is or whatever he does that's how a person sees himself and we live in a world where obviously people it's a world of such emptiness where people unless they have a job to go to the next day they what are we gonna do with their spare time when a person is alone that tells you what the person what you do with your optional time is really an indication of who you are and we live in a world of confusion in a world where people have very little direction I mean really after 2,000 years of technological development the best the world could do is come up with a spinner you know this world is in trouble and people are running around with with absolutely clueless what they're supposed to be doing where it's supposed to be going and everybody knows that in World War two at the end of the war they're different Rob Bottin would subscribe to I heard it was her Blazers silver others say it was reverse I not sure who it was was a chaplain the United States Army with laser silver and he went to Europe after the war and he went to try to identify Jewish war orphans and so what he would do is he would walk into churches in the middle of the service that it would be accompanied by a couple of burly American marines and right in the middle of the church service he would just walk right up to the front and it would face the audience and he would say out loud Shema he's relish ever locater I shall fund he would look around and any of the kids who instinctively put their hands over their eyes he would identify those of those are the Jews because those are the children who from the earliest age had heard that from their parents from one years old two years old that was his way of identifying who the Jewish war orphans were so unfortunately nowadays we have Jewish orphans a world full of Jewish orphans these are Jewish orphans or have been working from traditional Yiddish guide and obviously anybody who wants to get involved in the Moluccas a kodesh of cure over fo Keon understands that we have a job our job is to try to identify and reach out and bring these spiritual orphans back the problem we always run into is how to do it how do you motivate them now motivation is a very very tricky motivations are very tricky different types of motivation in life when I was 19 years old my father araignee cabarrus we Chicago he took me out to a parking lot to teach me how to drive a stick shift we had a car hold ships kohli it was a Ford Pinto it's a little small car he had one problem once in a while you hid it in the back that would blow up but all the Jews had him because they were cheap and he took me out to learn how to drive the stick shift and after about 20 minutes I couldn't get that I couldn't get the hangar with the car kept dying so I was very frustrated I said you know dad forget about it I'll just drive the automatic he said oh no keep trying try it again for another 10 minutes still couldn't get the angry I was very frustrated that they had forget about it he said look they're millions of people in real God drive a stick-shift you could learn how to drive a stick shift so I tried a little bit more and again I couldn't get it I just sit there I was very frustrated my father was a very wise man you let me sit there for about two minutes silent didn't say a word after two minutes he says to me you know mom knows drive it within 30 seconds I was the best stick shift driver in the city I think the wheelies backwards for it ain't spins anything you want because there was simply no way that my mother was going to drive a car and I would be able to drive it so when you find the right motivation it's amazing what you can get people to do our job and it's a difficult job is how do we motivate people to Ezra Childress you ever mentioned earlier not only to become Froome but to take it a step up to become Benito wrote um tell me difficult for men to devote their life not only to religious observance but to some sort of connection to Torah learning the more the better so first of all we have to know that s been a Torah which we are the impression that we make the impression that we make is often going to be the motivator the makeit or break-it for the people who are not yet connected to the Irish guy as a kumara Exodus enough full of war says rob una when he gave me with when the rabona got up from the yeshiva of Roth wound above law when they got up there was so much dust from his yeshiva have a pie she tell me Mira Bona in Roth Hoonah when he would dharshan he had 13 play ser amory in those days they didn't have loudspeakers and have microphones so the rugs would give the truck up and he had people who would stand there and they would kind of guess with some sort of foghorn or something they would then repeat what he said to the crowd they were human loudspeakers Ravana had such a crowd of Tomita that he had 13 people who would then broadcast it out to the entire crowd of Tommy who were there and when they got up from his Shearer the Gibara says the Nazi gleam I knew they would shake out their garments of the Solek Africa the castle of the Ummah the dust from their garments would go up it would block out it would darken the Sun that was shining then redo my rub it in Eretz Israel they would say come believe me Missy stood there I would above law a narrative show they'd say yeah well what a shear is over how do you know got a little dimming today I can imagine that if we were here right now and it got a little dark outside we'd say yeah I guess here's over in Lakewood right they all got up in Lakewood and they all shook out their garments or the dust went up but it blocked out the Sun of this one can see that's what the course is where it says it above all there it's the straw would get dark and they'd say yeah the commissioner punished here for his 800 Toby demand in Bubba so the my Russ says what's going on here what does Gabbar mean says the mare show that the person's me toes are called as garments behold a sea of Gaddafi livonian you're begun diem are you me toes you're regarded as your character in a row who knows you Shiva with a finished learning Torah they went into the base register Saint learned then they didn't go and get involved with their pernessa on those few hours that they had Ella they went and started working on their me toes which is symbolized by the regarded shaking out the begun the dust of their begun and says the Marcia is an illusion of some sort to their meetups and the meatus of the tam beatab of ravana blacked out the Sun the Sun we find symbolically in thes Allah many places the Sun always represents a sub the oh they called it the core of the other nations and when they would shake out their garments symbolically their me toes the work they did on their me toes developing their character bringing it to perfection that was a protection for klystron against the whatever the a savonia enforces work so we know that as been a Torah if we're gonna affect people one of the things that effects and we've heard it over and over throughout the years people are watching us we have a tremendous responsibility when I was learning in Colonel de rocha cohort if I check of its keys at home relieve Rafa he told us when we get on a bus here in Israel if anybody and the bus is standing we should get up and give them our say we shouldn't sit not somebody who's elderly who anybody would give the seat to anyone out of the bus is standing we shouldn't be seen sitting because a secular person will look around on that bus and they'll see ah there's the Fermi why is he sitting and I'm standing it's irrational it's unreasonable but it's true and we have to make the best impression that we possibly can because the impression that we make is often going to be a life decision that's being made by the person who's watching us the they had a the machiya famous Messi F of the gate said you shiver Amisha Schwab's itself the peshwa have said that one point it was their crossroads was he going to go in follow eight become a bender and go to yeshiva or was he going to pursue a career by going to university so he decided to see what a yeshiva life is like say went to the is Shiva he's in the yeshiva it was in the lunchroom checking out what is you should have a like fight and somebody poured him a cup of coffee and he was walking with this cup of coffee and as he was walking with the coffee he stumbled slipped coffee spilled and one of the buckram sitting in the in the kitchen and the in the lunchroom so this bar immediately jumped his feet and he yelled down quickly somebody another cup of coffee from Asia he said he made his decision to be stadia Shiva based on that my son that one incident then he you know you're waiting for the end of the story and then the guy sued no no no he made his decision he said I wanna tell you I told this story twice did he happened to be when I mentioned the story a grandson and one point a grandson over at my Schwab came through he said yeah that was my Zetas stories true and there was another place where as a granddaughter came over he said yes the story shows about her sake so the impression that's made by the Ventura is absolutely vital there was another rose Oberstein brings down a one of his farm there was a young man in Bnei Brak he had some relatives who were completely secular as the expression goes there were fright as an egg and he was trying as hard as he can to to you know influence them and they have discussions and they're talking this that and the other and what time he invited the secular relatives over for a shop is the Bnei Brak i assume it wasn't july but but december is much better than today brach but he invited these secular relatives over they spent an entire shop is talking about everything talk about the Froome install throwing stones and we come from guerrillas we don't cover girls everything all thing nothing not a movie nothing no no no no crack in the and no in the armour boats a Shabbos he was walking them to the bus and his walking into the bus stop they heard a noise it's 10:30 at night they heard a noise he said to what's it what's that noise he says well it's a group of people got together there in one of the shoals says what are they doing there it says they're saying to Helen why are they saying till Allah said because there's a young man unfortunately this town was not well and there's a special prayer session for so these people got together they're gonna say fill them they're you know they could tell by the sound it was it was it was the dozens if there are hundreds of people they said you mean all those people know him he goes no I'm assuming they're most of the people there probably don't know him but there was a sign put up come say Tehillim for Polonia been clawdy and the people came to to say to him he said these people are willing to come out at 10:30 on a Saturday night and say till were some they don't know that was the straw that broke the the couple changed and eventually came from so these are bonito who will never know that they're saying to Hill and people always ask I said to Hill him but it didn't help huh we don't know how it helps we don't know what the effect of that Ilham is gonna be there's a very very direct effect and therefore a person understands that that behavior is key it's crucial when it comes to the effect when you have on people Taurus says impartial vehicle well sure banal gathers the people together vehicle Moshe is calling us with a straw and he gives them the command regarding the Mischka comes along tells of what they have to bring and then the tourist says vietze of color that's been a so beliefs they Moshe the people all leave from the presence of most Robina so Bollywood sir asked what second it says Morocco Moshe is called a spinning so we know where two people were they were all standing in the presence of Moshe Rabbeinu why does the turret then go and repeat again if I hate to call it that's what they show belief their motion should save a it's upon us today so why is it me least they the answer is any of you who've been never been sofa for example see rip ciyon can you have ski ashleeta you go in and you get a Bravo how do you feel when you leave how do you walk away imagine you've gone in you got into a giant you managed to get in most people walk away could see written all over them why God walks like we once took a group of guys here for worse a man guys completely not connected we took him to Bnei Brak going took the whole group in to go to hit her a client came out give a profit to the whole group we came out I said to one of the guys so what did you think the guy looks at me wide-eyed he goes I mean he was exude including something and that's something that we all feel y'all going well I mean you know you walk out whoa whoa and we just we just you know walk out what's wrong no nothing on it's very high but you walk out you're on what we eat personal leads most Rubino you could take a look at them you see where they came from somebody comes walking out of the base Spanish a ben-tor could walking out a base whether she gets out where we a person walks somebody's you could tell man's walking down the street he obviously just came out of a terror that's clear because he walked he wobbled this way wobbled that way and for no good reason fell flat on his face there is definitely somebody came I've never seen anybody come out of the base meddra shin fall for no good reason a person out of the tavern you never seen the opposite person comes out of a ballgame with his buddies they went to a ball game that came out of a gymnasium they've got a certain look they've got a certain feel certain sound about them the person who comes out of the way submitted should have a certain look in a certain field I've been Torres behavior he has to show that he's a Ventura and a Ventura has to realize that people are watching him they're watching his behavior and they're being very much affected by it they had another in a pool here in Arizona in a place called Craigh Hassidim up north it one day the cashier at the pool became from st. but that's it sister for the yarmulke starts increase run so they asked what happened how did something obviously happen the guy running a pool in Israel decides we come from he said one day he was late getting to the pool he had the abandoned who's supposed it happens in Israel anybody who's never been here you know you go to a store so they just see a sign of the sources I'll be back in 20 minutes the stores open cash registers right there you know just walk right in a very informal country and he was there he had abandoned his post and the pool is open he got to the sea got the back to the pool and there were a group of you Shiva guys when he's shoving Farkas seated we're waiting there what are you doing here that we want to pay you they were the only ones who were waiting to pay they were the only ones who are waiting to pay everybody else snuck in you got a deployed away collecting he said if that's been a Torah that's been a Torah that's what I have to be there countless examples of to throw you one more a train conductor here in Israel also started becoming observant start becoming from what happened he said I got off what happened you said one day I stopped the train got to the final stop one man black hat beard I saw him get off the train he walked all the way up to the front where I'm sitting is the conductor he said thank you for the ride in all my years as a conductor no one has ever thanked me ever and this man came up walked over to me he thanked me for the right you understand the impression that makes we get on buses here in Israel we make it onto the bus that's it don't get caught in the door well we make it on one way or another a lot to thank the guy for a lot of people who didn't make it throw those doors in one piece thank you very much it said it yelling it in is as the min ago Marco let's say thank you good morning to a bus driver the impression that it makes there's no way of knowing ourselves how far that's going in any individual case what is vital here and I feel always has to be emphasized to only discuss this subject is there's very little more admirable than being concerned as Robert Levin mentioned not worrying only about ourselves worrying about other people and trying to get out of their natural inclination of thinking about myself myself myself and the best way to think about other people obviously is to do whatever necessary which off ended by the way is in the gash meais end of it to bring them back theater sky but there is one area where we do have to think about ourselves and that is that no matter what we're doing you know whether we're doing it as a bein as Darin I project after Seder whether you're what they call a key roof professional right whether you're a ready in a Shiva whatever it is that you're doing but you yourself have to count we grow the only way you could share the enthusiasm is bite you yourself we ourselves Romanian thew Z astok a Ventura yes the constantly growing is learning what we are is going to come across Laura my yacht Samina Liam that's us they believe it's our lathe which is affected by her own learning if a person is himself excited if a person himself is enthusiastic that enthusiasm carries over it's got to be genuine there's a college football coach who once said the key to this business is sincerity once you learn how to fake that you got it made you can't fake it you can't fake it you have to be able to give it over it has to be the real you that's coming over there goes about that goes much further to people could say the same thing yet it's the one who they feel they sense the quality that's what they respond to a person running around a college campus who has done very little learning but he could tell you everything that he's heard on tapes and he brings it over and tries to give it over okay people now they're at it comes across very much as something it's good that he knows it well they could go to a Talmud talk on they could go to a Rebbe that you good as somebody who's learned and he's giving it over cuz he really knows it he comes across differently because this his essence and a bent aureus ago that he always has to continue growing into her no matter how much it is how difficult is our challenging ritual burn bombs ourselves we Shiva Tamir you Shiva and I think that this gives a little perspective of what Torah is and what our responsibility to tourists should be and what our connection to tour should be Ribera bomb was well known tremendous masks made he was the one who was once sitting on a plane and he gets he sitting on the plane and in the business section of the plane was a former Talmud of the miry Shiva near in New York he was worship of Mary ship in New York and what are the former Tommie time in the mirror Shiva was now a bit successful business and was sitting in a business section he comes to the back of the plenty of they go to the back of the plane for some and all of sudden he sees here's his former Russia Shiva room show bierenbaum sitting and learning on the plane in the cattle section so he you know he's he setting up up there in business the I felt marbles they walked so Reese's Rosa Shiva for Shiva please III have a seat I have a seating business so let's switch seats church rule says Tim I don't need a seat in business I need a perusal pelvic going next to me to go sit in business you sit down let's work how's that for an upgrade expected was it say was a tremendous mass of it one day he had otamatone Izzy shiver Reb Yaakov bender vehicle bender is a receiver now if there's Shivan I think dark Haiyan in New York very bigoted regatta that is a story there was a competitor himself told over it appears of the book I'm actual beer mom we had the bender his mother was an Amana and he was learning in the yeshiva and one day he didn't come to Seder and the next day ritual sent them where were you where were you for Seder ritual was he took people to task for it the Seder was Seder where were you he said well my mother's and our mama she asked me to go to Lakewood I had to do her a favor so you know I went this fast site guy came back he said yeah but Yaakov was Seder he says he a Peruvian but others brahmana said I know there was Seder she said Rebbe what would the ratio of himself have done so she will didn't answer five months later Rebecca bender with roofs wools permission was the head counselor of one of the camps and my in the catskills head counts was a very big responsibility and it involved coming back does man ellos van started involved coming back five days light in rib Shmuel very uncharacteristically gave him resist to be that had gone through that though meant coming back five days late so a backhoe bender went up to camp and then within that five day period ritual for some reason he had to be in the camp so he walked over through Yaakov bender and he said to me ah Cove where are you this man started two days ago he said yes you know Rebbe I gave me was just to be he says yeah but this man started sugary shows you understand why can't you find a substitute this is very and the head counselor head counselor is a tremendous responsibility I can't leave here for a minute she feels us him now what if your mother would ask you for a favor what could you possibly say oh well this is different you know there's camp yeah that was only learning it's exactly this point firstly us appreciate what Tori is and what our dedication devotion to Tori should be when the Russians do you know that in Russia they had a clandestine Bob Shiva movement right under the noses of the Communists Ravana they were abundant from here used to go to Russia and right under the noses of the Communists they would start teaching Torah the Russians had a pyramid system whatever you learned whatever you were taught you then taught the two people and the two people would teach it to two more people and they started a movement right in Soviet Russia communist Russia what does the red button went there and a Russian about chuga kPa said I have a shylu what's your Shila so when I learned I usually am able to learn for about six hours at a stretch after six hours my mind starts to wander I have this problem all the time after six hours my mind starts to wander says what's your Shila he says well I know how to stand on my head so I stand on my head for about 20 minutes the blood goes to my head it clears my head then I get myself up right and I'm able to learn for another three or four hours what's your Shila my Shila is while I'm standing on my head am I allowed to recite Mishnah is by heart I've been in the see Shiva 35 years thirty years I never had anybody approach you with that question right I could tell you rub under Mugen rub under 50 or 60 years and never had anybody approach with their question first of all most people don't know how to stand on their head and most people don't know Mitch nice by heart so you know whatever the answer to that question is that's the dedication to learning we have to always remember that no matter what we're doing that's what the primary emphasis has to be on it's got to be on our own personal Talmud Torah if you're out there I don't care for persons being makar of the world twenty-four hours a day cut it down to 23 if you cut it down to 23 you spend their last hour learning you'll be more effective as a McCarver you'll be more effective as a much spear you'll be more effective as somebody who's reaching tell me - that's the estrellas of a person to always realize that that is something that he should be doing the yeshiva in the TiVo really saw her Mayor's that's all Eddie is Shiva still there now it's named after him my brother was one of these ship both of my brothers attended a Shiva and it was after the think the Yom Kippur War during the Yom Kippur War there was a call-up for the boys in the yeshiva to give blood there was a blood drive they gave blood and then he went back to the ship the next day the Rebbe and Shir said to the boys it turns to the first place as roofing what were you thinking when you were lying on the table giving blood said Rebbe I was thinking it feels good to be able to do something for the war effort Shimon what were you doing what were you thinking said the same thing lady went around the entire room after the last voice spoke every boy gave the same answer except one my brother he didn't say anything cuz he smelled he knew something was up everybody said same thing it felt good to do something for the war effort so he looked into that one say something you're all a bunch of happy person the kumar's says somebody who says my yeah I'm leavin rub bun and what are those rabbis help us when they're learning Torah so this is was returned if you don't realize that when you're learning tour you're contributing to the war effort so then that's what the corn senator says it's a person who does not be Cory you have to give blood because that's a hollow claw and you have to go to the military center to give blood because that's what you have to do but if you think that the giving of the blood is any more a contribution to the war effort then your total earning that you don't appreciate what or is that you're a person who says by a Hamelin rabona you have to give the blood that your responsibility at that moment but your total learning is responsibility in the mortar that we learn the more people are going to be susceptible to our efforts to be makar of them if you learn Torah here there's somebody in Kansas City who's going to be successful being the car somebody because the Torah brings that caution to the Bria and that's something we have to be reminded of constantly that's what a person is one of the pitfalls that awaits a person their person gets involved in outreach there's no end to it it can be doing it 24 hours a day there's another sign to put up and there's another another program to run for what about your own growth which is ultimately going to be the big mafia and that a person has to stay focused on number three is that we always have to remind ourselves that it's our job to make the effort we have to do the best thing that we can but like all situations in life were not responsible to bring about results now there are two where's two directions to go with this first of all besides the fact that obviously we don't do it anything that compromises how often for the sake of our coders were who according or whose children we do what we have to do based on what the Torah says we do in order to get to get imagine the irony in reveille a chef said to him invite somebody over for Shabbos by having them drive a book drive on Shabbos so what do you want to do you want to teach them how to keep shoppers by having them being mahalo Shabbos so obviously these are silos have to be a spoke to post get but the first rule is we don't do anything that tampers with or compromise Aloha and a person has their they post sake that they go to a post sake somebody who pass concealers not somebody who is an experienced kirov professional it has to be post sake pass conceal wha they ask the halacha shadows to the number one number two like everything else in life we know that I could as work who is running the show the effort that we make he has to be with the awareness that that's all were responsible to do the quarren sucker says slow mamela once saw the malcolm of us the malcolm others looked said someone else said that why is it that you look sad so he said because there are these two men that he was sent to terminate their life and he's not been successful so slow my amela called the the heads of deep of the serum and he said i want you to take these two men and bring them to the city of lose the mythical city of lose where no one ever died there and so slow marmella the the head of the of the of the shaitaan' takes these these two men and transports them to the city of lose city of loses that city no one ever told a lie and no one ever died there I don't know which one is more unbelievable no one ever died and no one ever told a lie in the city of lose and saw my mouth said I want you to transport these two men to the city of Zeus so they transported them and right at the gates of the city of lose they died before they get into the city the next day flowing up so the mouth of other city was all smiles he said what are you so happy about he says exactly where I needed them that's where you sent them that's where I was sent that was the place where they needed to be to terminate their lives I might ask a question they saw my mouth do the right thing they died how could it have been the right thing the answer is imagine your standing at a 16 lane highway you're standing there first guy runs across the highway he closes his eyes and he runs across the highway car slams on the brake from the right from the left screeching tires burning rubber the guy runs across makes it to the other side of the street and he finds a wallet with $40,000 in it the next guy looks both ways waits for traffic to clear starts crossing the street in rate in the middle of the highway a light aircraft crashes into him and kills him who did the right thing who did the right thing the answer is let's see what you do when you're the next person across what are you gonna do well let's read the data the first guy closed his eyes made it across it's got 40,000 dollars the second guy looked he looked both ways and he died so that I'm the third guy what am I gonna do well third guy is obviously gonna look both ways you look right you look like you may look up also but the last thing you're gonna do is close your eyes and run across a 16 lane highway the rule is we have to do what the right thing is and letter code is worried about the results reg Lloyd the Bert aneasha originally a person's feet taken where he's meant to go how he status yes to be with an awareness that will try and let I could've should work we'll worry about the results of course Brooke was all sorts of ways of doing all sorts of things bringing about all sorts of results that's our responsibility in Kiros you do what you have to do the story I have to tell you I've mentioned it in the past but it's an unbelievable story a group of cassius mush gave him many of you have heard it but it's it's just so unbelievable a group of Cassius met him went from the United States to Japan and when they got to Japan they had to catch a connecting flight and when he got to the counter the lady at the counter in Japan said to them they have to pay another $200 for the connecting flight and they said no that's not true they're particulars all the way through they did it's covered travel agent took care of everything and they started arguing with each other and these guys from long flight from the United States so they were there already jet-lagged tired and irritable and she was frustrated hearing them in a certain point she turned to her colleague at the day at the desk and she cursed them in Japanese she cursed that you have to be a genius to know you've been true cursed and these guys were these guys are frustrated they're tired and one of them looks at the other one he kind of nods his head makes a gesture in their direction and equals statement from the guar he says she a Mussolini samus unit which roughly means may they die a painful death he was in a bad mood and so she looks at him and she points down she says in broken dishes his little office so they walked down the corridor they knocked on the door in this office I hear her voice come in they walk in as a Japanese Colonel sitting behind the desk so some imperfect English what's the problem gentleman said listen she's given us a hard time our tickets go through she wants other 200 bucks says let me see the tickets he pulls out a pen and he initials the tickets he says go ahead he get on the plane no problem it turned out that his name was Shia Muslim assumption and when she heard them say she a Muslim Mesa Mishima she got nervous that they got protect sia with the boss she got all nervous under to the boss so they go into the office and mr. Shia Muslim assumption then pulls out a pen in the end of the ticket you see there's something called I coulda chuckles I should go huh cause we're running the world and we have to do what we have to make your hitch tablets in this case this table says you know Walton the Guevarra I wasn't very nice thing to say but whatever the establish is this sort of person say when it comes to heroes Percy has to know that is the F price their price is to do the ruts on a shipment to do it the way it could his broken once finally there was a story here near to show took place who was going around probably about ten years ago I think there was a traffic accident and I was in the car accident young man lying on the street an Israeli soldier he happened to drive by he picked them up hey guys on motorcycles something he picked them up took him in his car drove him down to the hospital and dropped them off in the emerging went to the emergency room they took him in for emergency surgery soldiers saw that everything was under control so he turned around he left jury came out told the parents of this young man who is in the exo they said listen son's gonna make it who would have gotten here about five minutes later he'd be gone by now but he's gonna have a complete recovery and sure enough took a couple wit months rehab he was okay parents felt very bad because they never got to meet the young man who saved their son's life parents owned the mockolate a little McCullough they put a sign on the wall of the my colon if anybody knows the identity of an Israeli soldier who was at a certain place at a certain date and his saved took our son to Roswell please let us know we'd like to thank him about a year and a half passes and a woman walks into the store she takes a look at the sign she says sir I think I know who that soldier is she was white white because I think it's my son my son was in the army he was coming home from furlough and he told me that date that was right around then and he said that he was in certain place he saw an accent he took somebody to the high school I think it's my son and I called him up at the turnout sure enough was their son and they're very very joyous reunion now this woman says mother the soldier says to the proprietor to the mrs. McCullough she says I want to tell you something this isn't the first time we've met so are you serious she says yes wouldn't we I don't remember meeting you she says well actually did one was it she goes about 20 years ago I was expecting and I was planning on having an abortion and I was very depressed and I happened to come in here to buy something and you don't remember it but we sat down and you spoke to me you empathize and you convinced me not to go through that you couldn't really have that child the baby that was born it was my son the soldier who saved your son's life they're both sigh the life that we're saving when we reach out when we introduce people to the beauty of Torah beauty of his guy life that we're saving may very well be our own person has to realize we've got a tough kid we've got a job we've got a risk because ruffles dropped it on us because Robles saddled us with it it's not a choice the same way that everything else in Yiddish Kate is not a choice this is not a choice either every one of us has the capability each person in his area each person based on his personality based on his talents based on bilities capabilities every single person has the abilities they have a positive effect on other Jews that's our responsibility that's our top kid we Davin fresh out the dish Maya we understand that I could as well who is really responsible for the results if we do what we have to do we leave the rest our coders work with across grow a bless our efforts that we should be so fitted as necessary see out the dish Maya do the ruts on a show and bring others closer [Music] you