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Parshas Korach with Rabbi Simcha Bunim Berger
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Evening parallel
in
that
bay that discusses
Gammorra says
let's use the Pik
number one.
Those were three groups as soon explain
plus another 250 people that were there.
says
in the second column
that
these four bal
that's a second
those are four different groups Meaning
their motivation
which they what they wanted and why they
showed up
and what happened to them
different
were fighting because with their with
their aus
They couldn't care less about the
kahuna.
something we've spoken about in the past
in safer tollim
calls
his or his people
adas aim
talks about the kahal the people the
adas the ado of aim
doesn't aim couldn't care less about the
kohuna they didn't like moherenu
they were negenu
From
the first day
was
who said that
Mosa's first day out when he killed a
mitz to save
>> they were miser
and because of that would have been
killed if not for the making a miracle
and mish not to run away When is being
told by the to go back
the people who want your
says
they have no influence
calls they weren't dead but they were
like
they had no influence.
Who was their beef with? Who were they
upset at? Who are they out to get? Aaron
couldn't care less. That's what they
were all about. So they're called one
cat. They're one group.
>> The 250 people which says
they wanted to have kahuna.
They were looking for kahuna. the
opposite of
it's a
it's a where each person or the group
has their own
as we just saw in the zerosim
was against and was against the kohuna.
He was encompassing both of them
against
and also against the appointment of as
the
He was jealous of both. There's a hand
out over here. He was jealous both of my
love says a fascinating thing.
He was not interested in the kohuna per
se. He didn't want anybody over his
head.
He just didn't want to have a boss. How
do I know that?
Like it's from the that his wife said
that was the one boss.
>> That's what he listened to.
>> What's he referring to? It's a Gimar
that I have open over here. Gumar.
The garra says
palis.
His name is like an
there was something amazing that
happened to him. Ben Ruven Ben Shro
Haven. He saw and he understood
ravishto
or
his wife saved him. How so?
What's your problem?
If he
says over here
if wins
then
if
wanted the kahuna
should have said to his wife what do you
want from it I want to be a kayen
why says the maral is the Gimmorra
teaching us the message of Aes
and as the Gmorra says he agrees to her
but I already swore I was going to come
which means says from the Gimra that the
Tina that's wife had on him teaches us
what O's reason was he didn't want to be
subservant a second fiddle to anyone he
didn't he saw This a as the maral says
over here this is a separate cat it's a
separate group there are those who
wanted the kohuna those are 250 there
are those who didn't want and didn't
want him and wanted to takeenu down that
was
kra was both he was at the he also
didn't want and he also didn't want and
he wanted the kohun he
He wanted it all for himself.
Just didn't want to have a boss over his
head. And therefore, when his wife said,
"But
if Kyak wins, you're going to have a
boss. Main is going to have a boss." So,
sorry, you have to have somebody you're
not you cannot be independent.
So, he said, "I don't know what to do."
Continues the
She said,
"I know that they're all holy."
She said,
"I will save you."
I will save you.
She gave him to drink wine or beer. She
got him shiker. She put him to sleep.
She put him into bed.
Then she stood.
She sat on the gate, the doorway of
their house and took off her head cover.
Rashi says
when they came to get her, imagine they
had
they were verbs because they wanted to
kill.
Whoever went to get saw her like that,
they walked away.
including
them. They would saw a woman with with
uncovered.
They walked away.
They went ahead and
they and they were and they were
swallowed up by the ground and he was
saved.
On the other hand,
the wife of
look what he did
is truma. When there's truma, give it to
the ken
gets first. Mer you get.
She went and t it to him visu
can be the leader and you not. She
started talking about aloh.
Maral says something fascinating.
Take a look at the moral
a little bit higher on the page.
Same column.
If you want to know who says according
to the underlying difference between and
it was all in the wives
it was the women the wife of versus the
wife of
writesim
The
builds a house
and the mistakes of her hand will
destroy it.
It's underlined for you Rabbi say
the tremendous amount of kadusha that
had from Ben
Ley Kai embodied tremendous kadush like
we said in the sh as I'll say he was
from the
He shouldn't have been involved.
his wife who is
who represented physicality and
loneliness.
Head
became void
of his through his wife.
A woman if she's not careful cannot just
pull herself down but
rab that's what happened with that's
what happened with Marish she sinned she
brought mis upon herself she defiled
herself with the and then she defiled
her husband as
had the same story
says
the Gmorra says when you have a
conversation with your wife and she
wants to talk to you about millias
what the house should look like how we
should furnish it It's her domain.
She's the boss. She's
that takes a person away.
She was saying that the says not like
that.
Now change the gear in the morals I saw
that don't know how to be
the o the next g the word is
do you know what happened there?
How she told her husbandra?
No. You know what she did? She did
because that's not her place. She was
able to save her husband
with the thing that the women have the
advantage over
when it comes like the Gmorra says how
to fear a household. husbands, their
wives, you know, want to they want to
let's let's let's um get a couch. Let's
get a table and this. He has an opinion.
It's not your opinion. It's her opinion.
What she says, you say yes, honey.
That's what you do.
She likes it 100%. It's her domain. If
you look at a guy's apartment, see what
it looks like or when his wife goes away
for a few days, how the house looks like
a
right cuz you know, you know how a guy
thinks why should I wash the plate away?
I'm going to take it out going to make
it dirty tomorrow. It's right. Why
should I fold the clothes? I'm anyway
going to take it out. It's a self
self-defeating thing. A woman takes such
pride in the fact and rightfully so that
the whole house, look how neat it is.
Look, everything is put away and etc.
That's her honor and her glory. Millie
debasa, she's the queen. She organizes
everything. Also
is how Asus saved her husband. She
didn't come with a
she didn't come over with. She just said
something very simple. Anyway, he's
going to be the boss, not you. Let me
help you. How did she do it? She gave
him to drink. She put him to bed.
That says
that was herma. I don't have to go ahead
and start. Go argue with them. Go tell
them that they're wrong. Tell them. That
was
that was her approach. That's what the
Gamorra says in the balance between the
couple when it's and you want to ask go
ask your don't ask the rabbitson when
you're talking about
that's her domain says the
heer
she has the
the
of helping of assisting
she's the person
like it says in the over there
that was the
of
she didn't give him an that was the
pelle she was acting the way a woman was
meant to act she was acting as a proper
balance of her husband and that's how
she saved him in milaya
heresis in mil
complemented the mil that's how he was
saved that's one of the lessons says of
this of the of this piece while as
inb
and he's the boss and this and that with
the talis and and as soon as they
started getting involved in in
that was the downfall of that's what the
moral says
>> wasn't her place
>> exactly and she pushed him to a place
which didn't belong
he was Allah are saying good she was
that's exactly right it wasn't her place
that's not where the balance is
you don't listen
to what she has to
Besser in this story as
who has saved her husband and the wants
you to know that he's up there with
Ben
and as well why his was saved his house
was saved because of his wife because
she understood the balance between ish
is she understood where her
where her husband
husband has to listen to a wife 100%.
Beware in her in her he has to listen
not in his
in his where it doesn't belong. Now you
have a Kyra. That's where Kaira comes
from. When you put yourself in a place
where you don't belong as Kyra was the
downfall says Kazal of Ky as Benella got
her husband out of the downfall took her
took him away from
because she knew her place and used it
well and he listened and she was right.
That's the story of these two women.
is
and
the difference between palace of all the
lessons and there's so many in the
parish
when there's
between a husband and a wife where
there's a proper balance where each
person knows that they have a separate
role to play that complements each other
and each one is humble in their role
giving giving each other the other one
the and the to lead in their
each one the bal and the isha have a
kayak of leadership in certain ways the
husband has to listen to his wife
in certain things she has to listen to
him each one has a they don't go ahead
and they don't compete with their they
understand that the what one has I don't
have and have to be what the other one
has. I don't have so there's no
competition when they understand that
each one complements each other the
right way. That says the moral is one of
the messages of this week's para as kai
brought her husband down brought herself
and her family straight to gehenn
like we said in the zerosimir she opened
up the doorway to gehennam together with
him she opened up her bias became gehenn
her house went to gehenn she and
everything that they had
because she herself
She pushed herself in a place where she
doesn't belong and he followed her and
he was as smart as he was he was
influenced by his wife and their whole
their whole house went to gehennis
goes it goes down in history of
listening to his wife
where she's supposed to be listened to
and that
and that saved her and him and their
whole family. So
that each one of us in our own should be
able to know when you have to listen and
when you're not supposed to listen. When
you're in your and when you're not in
your
is Shalom.