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Right? Yeah. Okay. Good evening,
everyone.
Welcome, everyone. Welcome and welcome.
So, I have to say Baruch Hashem we have
sheer every week and I always enjoy
giving it. I always enjoy preparing for
it. But this year I had a extra degree
of satisfaction preparing and learning
about really the information is
Yosel Yosel Minaclau. It's really
extraordinary
meaning and message and something that's
very meaningful and powerful. Okay, Reb
Boaz, let's let's get right into it.
Yaakov Avinu's first encounter with his
uh
with his second wife,
Rachel Imeinu.
He thought it was going to be his first
wife. So, you know, this is his first
meeting with her
and the Torah says VaYishak Yaakov
l'Rachel. Yaakov kisses Rachel VaYisa
koloi vaYevk.
And he raises his voice and he cries.
Rashi wants to know
Farvei Farvei veinstu? You know, what's
he what's he what's he crying about?
Lefish she'at sofah beruach hakodesh
she'einah nichneses imah l'kvurah.
He saw with the holy spirit that he's
not going to be buried with her.
You know, you're getting a little
carried away here. You know, they're not
even engaged yet and he's worried about
being buried next to her. You know,
first let's get the vart the the tnoim
and the kiddushin. You're worried about
where will you be buried later? Why is
this like the first thing that comes to
Yaakov's mind is that he's not going to
be buried with her. What does he care?
He What difference does it make where
you're buried? Remember in old shul one
time before we had to go to levaya,
Baruch Hashem, you know, it was a
different age bracket. So, we were
driving and driving there were a bunch
of alte yiddenas in the backseat and
they were talking about where they
wanted to be buried and I remember one
of them said, "Oh, this cemetery, it's
so noisy there, you know?"
And the the other one said, "You know,
Rose, when you're 6 ft under, you don't
hear the traffic, you know?" So, why do
Why does he care where is he going to be
buried? What difference does it make?
And if anything If anything,
think about it. Is that really the
greatest tragedy about Rachel Imeinu?
Why doesn't he cry about the fact that
the poor woman is going to die young,
and she's going to leave over uh Yisroel
Imeinu? Why doesn't he cry over the fact
that Yosef's going to grow up without a
mother? Benjamin's going to grow up
without a mother. Benjamin never saw her
mother.
Why is that what she's crying about?
Okay, so tonight's sheer comes from uh
two sources, but uh they both say the
same thing. The name of the safer is
Siyain V'Oraiyah. Siyain V'Oraiyah is uh
a safer about the kedusha of Eretz
Yisrael and the cities of Eretz Yisrael,
written by Rav Moshe Wolfson, the
Mashgiach in Telshe Yeshiva,
and it's also printed in his Ma'amarei
Emunah called Emunah She-Techa.
And uh it's really fantastic concepts
about the different
types of kedusha that emanate from
various cities in Eretz Yisrael.
So, that's that's the question that he
asks. Why is uh Yaakov Imeinu crying
because he's not going to be buried next
to Rachel? And very interestingly, the
Medrash tells us that when Yaakov goes
down to Haran and uh Aram Naharaim,
and he sees, the Medrash says, three
herds of sheep, and then it says, "Ki
Me'ein Ha'Aretz Yishkuha Ha'Adarim." And
"V'Nis'fu Shamah Kol Ha'Adarim." The
Medrash says this is a remez to the
Dalet Galios, the four exiles, where the
three flocks of sheep represent the
first three Malchios, Bavel, Madai, and
Yavan, and then the final Ader uh
represents Rome. So, in other words,
Yaakov Imeinu goes down, he's looking
for his Bashert, and through prophecy,
what does he see? He says sees Galus,
you know? What does his uh future
marriage got to do with Gallus, okay? No
jokes, okay? What does his future
marriage have to do with the Dalid
Gallus? For real, you know? Why is that
what they're showing him? Why is this
the vision that Yaakov Avinu was seeing?
He's seeing the Dalid He's going to meet
Rachel. Why
benevuah are they showing him the Dalid
Gallus?
So, let's come to this week's parsha.
The opening episode in this week's
parsha, Yaakov Avinu is speaking to
Yosef. Yaakov is on his deathbed and
he's asking Yosef HaTzaddik, "Do me a
favor, bury me in the Ma'arat
Hamachpelah."
And then Yaakov tells, you know, Yaakov
addresses the elephant in the room.
Yaakov says, "Look, I know here it is,
I'm being matzliach you to bury me in
the Ma'arat Hamachpelah and
and I didn't do that for your mother. I
left your mother on the side of the
road."
So, let's talk about that. Where was
Rachel buried?
Answer is, which cemetery? You know,
which beit olam?
No beit olam. Which cemetery? No
cemetery. Where's she buried?
She's She's like roadkill, chas
v'shalom, right? She's Basically, she
died on the side of the road and then
just they they they were nice enough not
to leave her on the highway, so they
they took her and they cleared her off
to the side of the road and they put her
on the side of the road.
So, what does Yaakov Avinu say? Why did
I do that? "Oh, va'ani b'vo'i mim padan
masai Rachel b'eretz Canaan baderech
b'oid kivrat eretz lo aleha efrat
va'ekbereha sham baderech Efrat." I
buried her on the road to Efrat. He Beit
Lechem. That is Beit Lechem. So, Ramban
wants to know, why didn't Yaakov Avinu
bury Rachel in Ma'arat Hamachpelah? I
mean, that's, you know, primo real
estate. Why didn't he get her into the
Ma'arat Hamachpelah? And the answer is,
Ramban says,
he was embarrassed.
What was he embarrassed of?
He was embarrassed of the the zaida and
the tatta.
Why was he embarrassed? Cuz it's
embarrassing that he's married to two
sisters.
So, what's he going to do? He's going to
bring into Maras and Machpelah, Rachel
and Leah. It's going to be embarrassing
to him. It's going to be shameful to
him. So, he brings Leah. Why does he
bring Leah in? Cuz he married Leah
first. Leah he married better. Leah is
the wife that the parents, you know, are
proud of. When When people ask the
parents, "Nu, who's the Yaakov married
to?" So, what does Yaakov say? "Oh,
married to Leah."
So, they're saying, "Well, I thought I
heard he's married to Rachel." You know,
that's the one they don't talk about.
That's the one that he married better.
He's embarrassed about Rachel and
therefore he doesn't He did not bury her
in the Maras and Machpelah.
And again, Rav Wolfson asks, "Well, wait
a second. He's embarrassed from his
parents?
Why isn't he embarrassed from the Ribono
shel Olam?"
If it's an avera to marry two sisters,
he shouldn't have done it. And if he was
allowed to do it, he was allowed to do
it, then there's nothing to be
embarrassed of. But why say because he's
embarrassed of his forefathers? What was
so embarrassing? Why wasn't he
embarrassed from the Ribono shel Olam? A
very interesting Ramban. Okay.
More of our boy side, here's a whopper.
Let's talk a little about Kiryat Arba.
Where did Sarah die?
Kiryat Arba. Where is Kiryat Arba?
Hebron. Near Hebron. In Hebron. Adjacent
to Hebron.
Why is it called Kiryat Arba? Look in
the pasuk. Va'tamat Sarah and Sarah died
beKiryat Arba, Hebron, be'eretz Canaan.
It's Hebron. So, the pasuk says, "Let's
Kiryat Arba."
Kiryat Arba is Hebron. Okay. So, she
died there. Vayavo Avraham lisped lisar
of kisa. So, here's a million-dollar
question. Why is Kiryat Arba called
Kiryat Arba, right? Stop any yeshiva
boy. Stop any kid. You ask anybody. Ask
an am ha'aretz. Ask a talmid chacham or
anyone in between. Why is it called
Kiryat Arba? Everybody knows. There are
four zugot buried there. Avraham and
Sarah, Yitzchak and Rivka, Yaakov and
Leah, and I forgot Adam and Hava.
But interestingly, that's not the pshet
that Rashi gives first. Rashi says, "Who
Who's buried there?" Like, you know,
four defensive linemen, four giants,
four chayas. Who's buried there? Uh
Achiman, Sheshai, Talmai, and Avihem.
So, it's called Kiryat Arba named after
like these four mutant oversized, you
know, gi- gigantic people.
So, I asked R. Wolfson, "Wait a second.
You're telling me that Chevron, the Ir
HaKodesh, is one of the four holy cities
in Eretz Yisrael, is named after four,
you know, giants, four huge people? Why
in the world would we name one of the
Arei HaKodesh in Eretz Yisrael after
these four people?" Ela mai, it's also
for that reason. Why would Rashi give
this reason first? Shouldn't Rashi say
the better reason first? Adam and Hava,
Abraham and Sarah, Yitzchak and Rivka,
Yaakov and Leah. Why uh Why does Rashi
mention this reason second?
Okay? So, so far we have a bunch of
questions. Why is Yaakov crying that
he's not going to be buried with Rachel?
Why when he comes down to Aram Naharaim
are they showing him a remez to the
dalet goliyos? Why doesn't Yaakov bury
Rachel in the Me'arat HaMachpelah? Why
does Rashi say that it's called Kiryat
Arba because of the four huge giants
there? And why is that the first pshet?
And finally, another question.
Mar v'raboisai,
if I were to ask you,
everybody knows there is something
called kiddushin and there's something
called marriage, and there are three
ways to get married: b'kesef, b'shtar,
u'vi'ah. But min hag Yisrael is we get
married b'kesef. And what right? And
what is the makor for kinyan kesef?
Kiddushin beis amud aleph. what? Kicha
Kicha mishtei Ephraim. It says Kicha by
marriage, ki yikach ish isha, and it
says Kicha by the purchase of the Maras
Hamachpelah, nasati kesef hasadeh kach,
Kicha mini kach mini, just like there
it's kesef, marriage is kesef. As Rav
Wolfson, you know, this question is a
yeshiva they call a bomba.
How many minhagei Yisrael are there that
were so makpid that the kiddushin be
with a good siman, right? A mazal
dikshur, as they say, right? A night a
good shot. So, for example, um the
minhag is to get married at the
beginning of the month.
Whether it's a good minhag or a bad
minhag, the law by the way, the Rosh and
the Rambam is nahagu means the Haflo'ah
reads it, not that it's a good minhag,
it's just what people do. But, believe
it or not, people like to get married at
the beginning of the month when the sun
when the moon is getting bigger and not
when it's getting smaller. Why? It's a
more better it's more of a mazal
dikshur.
People get married they I can't get
married in that hall. Why? There's no
window under the stars. Well, one
second, you're telling me that your
marriage, your shalom bayis, you're
you're
you're not a mensch, but you're going to
have a better marriage cuz you got
married with the window in the open.
Yeah, it has to be tachas kippat
shamayim. It's minhag Yisrael. And then
there's a minhag to get married either
on Wednesday or Thursday because on
Wednesdays bracha for dagim, on
Thursdays bracha, right? It's a day that
you get married bracha l'adam.
And people don't get married in the
three weeks, it's not a mazal dikshur.
So, so really?
And what's the source of marriage?
From the from the purchase of a cemetery
plot. And and that's a good siman.
That's a nice siman. So, you're telling
me you can't get married on the 17th day
of the month, but where do we learn
kiddushin out of? The purchase of a
place where you stay after you die and
worms eat you. Oh, that and that's a
good siman. That's a nice siman for
marriage. A burial spot, a kever. Why do
we learn out marriage from
buying a burial spot?
A plot. A cemetery.
First Okay, well, you know, I can think
of nicer places to learn kiddushin out
of. Why are we learning kiddushin out of
the purchase of the Maras Hamachpelah,
as great as Maras Hamachpelah is?
Okay, another question.
So, the the 12 spies come into Eretz
Yisrael, and we have 10 10 of them are
they're going off the path, and you have
Yeshua and Kalev. And Kalev's getting
nervous. He feels the pressure. He feels
like he's going to be influenced by the
other meraglim. So, Kalev makes a
special detour. What's the detour? It
says, "Vayalu ba Negev." He goes to the
south. "Vayavo ad Chevron." And he comes
to Chevron. "V'sham Achiman, Sheshai,
v'Talmai, y'lidei ha'Anak." He comes to
Chevron. So, Rashi, what in the what in
the world's he doing in Chevron? What
what what does he need in Chevron? Says
Rashi, "Nishtate'ach al kivrei avot." He
went to pray by the Maras Hamachpelah,
by the grave of Abraham, Isaac, and
Jacob. Why? So not to be persuaded by
the council of the meraglim.
Wait a second.
What what's he going to Chevron for?
Last I learned in Parshas Vayeitzei,
Yakov Avinu goes to the Har HaBayis, and
he says, "Ein zeh ki im Beit Elokim."
"V'zeh sha'ar ha'shamayim." The gates of
heaven are in Jerusalem. What in the
world's he doing going to Chevron? What
what's in What's in Chevron? There are
dead people in Chevron with the with the
stone on top of them. What's he doing
there?
The gates of shamayim Abraham Avinu
doesn't answer t'fillah.
Isaac doesn't answer t'fillah. El
Amayis, it's a nice place to daven. What
happened to Why doesn't he follow in the
ways of Yakov Avinu? Yakov Avinu went to
the Har HaBayis. "V'zeh sha'ar
ha'shamayim." Why doesn't he go to the
portal of heaven? My Rabbosai, what
we're going to learn tonight is Mamish
Ayom V'nora.
We're going to learn an appreciation for
what is the difference between
Yerushalayim and Chevron? Why was Rachel
not buried in Chevron? Why is she laying
on the side of the road?
Why do we need two cities, Yerushalayim
and Chevron?
And what do they mean to us here in
Golus today?
We say in the Yotzros of Parshas
Shkalim,
for those who say it,
says as follows, "Dodi, my beloved,
Z'chor li shkalay Ephraim.
Remember for me the coins of Ephraim
asher shakal Av b'Machpelah Chevron,
that my father weighed out to purchase
the Ma'aras Hamachpelah in Chevron.
Chaiker shkalay Y'vusi mashbisay charon.
Let the investigation of the coins given
to the Y'vusi
cause your anger to rest." What is that
referring to? That's when David Hamelech
purchased the Har Habayis from the
Y'vusi.
Z'chorah li ad l'dor acharon. Remember
it for me until the last generation. So,
listen carefully. The Yotzros is saying
we're invoking two z'chusim in the same
breath. Please remember for me the
purchase of Ma'aras Hamachpelah. Please
remember for me the purchase of the Har
Habayis. There seems then to be a deep
connection between Ma'aras Hamachpelah
and the Har Habayis. What is this
connection? What is the significance of
Chevron vis-a-vis the Har Habayis? And
what are Why are these two z'chusim
mentioned in the same breath?
My Rabbosai, let's speak about what the
Ma'aras Hamachpelah means. So, I I
invited my good friend Reb Teddy Pollak,
who's the president of the Chevron Fund.
He's We're going to have a
special appreciation for the Kedusha
of Chevron and what it represents to
Klal Yisrael until today. Okay, what is
Maras Amachpelah?
Why did Yakov Avinu, why did Avraham
Avinu want to buy the Maras Amachpelah?
What did he notice about it? What did he
appreciate about it? Says the Yalkut
Reuveni, and by the way, this Yalkut
Reuveni is the Zohar. Straight up the
Zohar.
Says like this.
The first person to recognize Maras
Amachpelah was Adam Harishon. And this
is something we're probably familiar
with.
What happened?
Says Adam Harishon was looking for a
place to bury
Chava.
And he started to smell the scent.
Smells good, you know?
Smells like uh it's not Mexican food,
you know?
Maybe. Well, we thank Donald Trump not
for for not building the wall yet, so
this way the food was able to get here
today, you know?
But um
Adam Harishon smelled this wonderful
scent. Smells like Gan Eden. So, he
buries Chava there.
And then he says, "You know what? Maybe
if I dig deeper I'll get mamesh into Gan
Eden." And a bath scale came out and
said, "Ad kan vasulo. Don't get any
further."
And then when Adam Harishon died, the
the Yalkut says, "Sheis buried him." Or
there's an opinion Rebono Shel Olam
buried him. And other people wanted to
bury their dead there, but they were not
allowed to. Why not? Because the
Malachim guarded it until Avraham,
Yitzchak, and Yakov were buried in the
Maras Amachpelah because in the Maras
Amachpelah is the gateway to Gan Eden.
In other words, you want to know where
the door to Gan Eden is?
It's in Chevron.
Now, you go there today, it sure don't
look like, you know, the Garden of Eden
over there. It's It sure doesn't look
like paradise.
But uh that's what the Midrash says. The
gateway to heaven is in Gan Eden.
In fact, what did Avraham Avinu pay?
Oiver lasoicher. Oiver lasoicher implies
soicher is dar visochras. It's a lashon
of a pleasant fragrance of paradise. So,
if you want to know, how do you get into
paradise? How do you get into Gan Eden?
It's through the Maras Hamachpelah. Open
up the door, go down there at your own
risk, and you'll enter paradise. In
fact, if you look over here number 21,
the Yalkut Reuveni brings down
that Chevron, that the Maras Hamachpelah
is the base sha'ar to Gan Eden. And
therefore, Avraham Avinu wanted to be
buried there. Says the Yalkut Reuveni,
when a person passes away, in order for
the neshama to get to Gan Eden, it first
has to fly through the gates of Maras
Hamachpelah, and through there it enters
Gan Eden.
Not only that, says the Yalkut Reuveni
from the Megaleh Amukos,
all tfilos that we offer
go up to shamayim through the Maras
Hamachpelah.
Interesting.
So interesting, but only problem is
that's not what the Torah says. The
Torah says about Yerushalayim, "V'zeh
sha'ar hashamayim." So, what is the
Megaleh Amukos saying that all of our
tfilos go up through Maras Hamachpelah?
I mean, I would assume then, maybe we
could say, that whenever you want to
send something somewhere, what's the
first thing you got to do? You have to
put in the right phone number or put on
the right address. So, when we give a
tfila, we're sending it somewhere. So,
the first thing we do is we say the
address, we say location. It's being
sent to Baruch Ata Hashem Elokeinu,
Elokei Avraham, Yitzchak, v'Yaakov.
Elokei Yitzchak, Elokei Yaakov. This
way, the tfilos know where to go because
the tfilos need to enter through Maras
Hamachpelah. But, what in the world does
this mean? That the tfilos enter Maras
Hamachpelah? I thought the tfilos enter
through the Sha'ar Hashamayim on the Har
Habayit. What's going on over here? Make
a What, half the tfila goes up one way,
the other half through the other way?
What's going on over here?
By the way, what do the Avos do in the
Maras Hamachpelah? Like, what are they
doing all day?
What do they do?
How do they occupy themselves? How do
they spend their time? What are they up
to?
So, it's amazing Gemara about this. The
says Eliyahu Hanavi frequented Rebbe's
sheer. So, every time Rebbe would give
sheer, the first guy, the first person
to come to the sheer, none other than
Eliyahu Hanavi was sitting front and
center.
And one day he came late. So, Rebbe
said, "My hi, what's wrong with you? You
know, why do you come late today?" So,
what do you want to come late?
You know what kind of job I have? Every
morning I wake up Avraham Avinu, I wash
his hands, I get him dressed, I take him
to to the basic necessities to daven,
and then I put him back to sleep. And
then I wake up Yitzchak, I wash his
hands, he davens, then I put him back to
sleep. I wake up Yaakov, get him
dressed, wash his hands, and then he
davens, and put him back to sleep. It's
a long davening, you know. The chazzan
sang the Piskei of, you know, that the
schlepped schlepped the Piskei, so it
took long today.
So, they asked Eliyahu, "So, why don't
you have a chacham, why don't you wake
them all up at the same time? Why do you
have to wake He said, "I know, I can't
do that. If they all wake up at the same
time, and they all daven, Mashiach would
come right away. So, I got to stagger
it."
So, from here we see, what do the Avos
do? They daven for the coming of the
Geulah. If they would all daven
together, Mashiach would come.
So interesting. So,
what does Yerushalayim do? Is
Yerushalayim the Sha'ar Hashamayim, or
is Chevron the Sha'ar Hashamayim? Are
they both the Sha'ar Hashamayim? Are
they connected? So, one thing we see is
yes, there must be some kind of
connection between the city of Chevron
and the city of Yerushalayim.
So, what is the connection? What is the
meaning of this?
Comes the Zohar Hakadosh. The Zohar
Hakadosh says an incredible thing. We
know that the place where Avraham,
Yitzchak, Yaakov, Avraham, Chava, Sarah,
Rivka, Leah are buried is called Me'arat
Hamachpelah.
It's a doubled cave, doubled cave. Why
is it doubled? What's what's doubled
about it? So, Rashi says, "One shot by
his alley." It's two floors. Or Rashi
says, "They were zugot, they were
pairs." Says the Zohar, "No, Machpelah
Machpelah does not refer to Chevron.
Machpelah refers to Yerushalayim.
Yerushalayim is Machpelah.
What is Yerushalayim Machpelah with?
Itself.
Because it says
Yerushalayim Habenuya Ke'ir Shechubra
Lah
Yachdav. Yerushalayim, the built of
Yerushalayim is like the city attached
to it.
There's no city attached to
Yerushalayim.
You know, there there's only two It's
not like Dallas-Fort Worth, you know,
sister city.
Go to Yerushalayim, there's no city
attached to Yerushalayim. Yerushalayim
is Harim Saviv Lah. It's not attached
anything. No, there's one city attached
to it.
Right? Yerushalayim Shel Ma'alah
Mechuvvan Keneged Yerushalayim Shel
Mattah. So, Yerushalayim is Machpelah.
Yerushalayim is double doubled.
What's the Zohar talking about? But,
that begs the question. We're not
talking about Yerushalayim, we're
talking about Hebron. We're talking
about Ma'aras Hamachpelah. We're talking
about where the Avos are buried. Why say
that it's called Machpelah because
Yerushalayim is doubled over?
So, Mar Bar Raboisai, with Hashem's
assistance, we hope we could explain and
articulate the following very, very
profound idea that Rav Moshe Wolfson
says we could derive from here.
And that is Yerushalayim and Chevron are
the same city.
Same city, what does that mean? You
know, look on the map. Yerushalayim is
the one place, Chevron's in the
They're the same inyan,
but polar opposites.
What does that mean?
Let's explain.
Kedushas Yerushalayim. Where does it
come from?
We know we're we're required to go there
when the Beis Hamikdash stood, Shalosh
Pa'amim Bashanah. Pesach, Shavuos,
Sukkos.
It comes from the Avos. Pesach is
Keneged Avraham Avinu, the Torah says.
Pesach is Avraham Avinu made Matzois for
the Malachim, right? Lu Shiv'asi Ugos.
Shavuos, the Torah says Shemen Tav
Yitzhar is Keneged Yitzchak. because the
show for my tires from the Isle of York.
So the second Jacob said the
Arabi is is from the office.
After all when Abraham Lincoln was at
the arcade and he got in a shower
and I shall
I shall
the heart of me right. It will be said
today that God will appear on this
mountain says Tiger number 25 Abraham
Darwin that this should be a market to
feel forever and ever.
And when Jacob passed by the bias on the
way to on the way to another Ryan he
said
after all the party market is a little
voice that is quality. That means
to declare that what is the lion is
to feel the voice I. So the truth is
has the office and certainly is where
the office are buried.
So let's explain what is the connection
between heaven and the lion. What do
they represent? What do they reflect?
And they they teach us a very very
important lesson.
I shall manifest himself in two ways.
Our connection to him is in two ways.
There's
what's in
him is revealed openly. There are open
miracles in the base time dash. There
are 10 miracles every day. The mission
says in
a nice place to
be. There are 10 miracles. It was a
place of China. It was a sham
show them the show you cause the
you shall is a market of Gilroy China
market.
On the other hand,
Chevron is the exact polar opposite.
Chevron represents the fact
that even when the Shkhinah is in galus,
and even when the Beis Hamikdash is
destroyed, and even when the Har Habayis
is plowed over and Turnus Rufus could
come and plow the entire Makom, the
Ribono shel Olam is still with us. Where
is he? I don't see him.
You're not going to see it.
It's subterranean. You ever know, you
know, in some places they make the
telephone wires under the ground. Why do
they make it under the ground? So that
it won't be uh susceptible to weather,
to to to hazard, to to breaking, to to
being cut. In other words, when the
telephone wires are going above the
ground, that's wonderful. Everyone's
confident in the service. The problem is
what happens when the big wind comes
down, and there's a hurricane, and they
go down.
But when those telephone wires are under
the ground, you don't see them, and you
know, you know, how do I know that
they're there? But it works. It's just
there, and guess what? It's going to
work even better because they're they're
immune to any type of disconnection.
There is what is called our relationship
to Hashem begiluy, openly, when things
are going well, at a time when we have a
Beis Hamikdash, at a time that the
Shkhinah is in Klal Yisrael, at a time
when we have a Sukkah and Nilus and
Maslos and Maslos and Mikdash. And then
there is a concept, well, what's going
to happen when the Beis Hamikdash is
destroyed, decimated, Klal Yisrael is
exiled, the Shkhinah leaves the Makom
Hamikdash? Are we still connected to
Hashem? Then there is a connection
called Yisrael af al pi she'chata
Yisrael hu. There is a dimension of
connection to Hashem that is
untouchable. Let's explain as follows.
In this week's Parsha, okay, this is a
very important nekudah.
This week's Parsha.
Yaakov Avinu davens,
Reuven bechori ata, ko veish enah.
Shimon u'Levi achim, klei chamas
mecheroseihem. Besodam al tikach nafshi,
nafshi because I'm out to cut the
wedding." You know that beside them I'll
tell my nafshi. In third grade right in
parts of me where you had to memorize
entire
what it meant what it still don't know,
right? But at least we know about pair,
right? Beside them I'll tell my nafshi
because I'm out to cut the wedding.
What's Yaakov davening for? Says Rashi,
Yaakov says, "Korach, when you fight
against Moshe Rabbeinu, I don't want my
name to be mentioned. It's going to say
Korach ben Kohath ben Yitzhar ben Kohath
ben Levi and not ben Yaakov."
"Zimri, you come from Shimon. When you
mess around with Kozbi, it's going to
say Zimri le-mateh Shimon but not ben
Yaakov. I don't want my name associated
with that."
Frekht der kodesh. Oh, wait a second.
What, we're a bunch of fools? We don't
know that it's Korach ben Yitzhar ben
Kohath ben Levi ben Yaakov. We don't
know who Levi's father is. How many
times does the Torah say ben Yaakov?
We don't know that Zimri comes from
Shimon who comes from Yaakov. Of what
difference does it make whether it says
Yaakov's name or not? Who cares? It's
still ben Yaakov. Says
Rashi, "Oh, you so nifla."
Listen to this he said.
When a person doesn't have a vera, they
could contaminate their neshama. You
could sully your neshama. You could
dirty your neshama.
But there's something called there's
like one nekudah
in you, in your soul, that is
untouchable, that can never be ruined,
that can never be destroyed, that can
never be sullied, that can never be
dirtied. You know what that nekudah is?
Every person's soul is not just their
soul. There's a piece of your father in
you. There's a piece of your grandfather
in you. There's a piece of your
great-grandfather in you. There's a
piece of your great-great-grandfather in
you.
There's a piece of Moshe Rabbeinu in
you, Aaron in you, depending where you
come.
And every Jew has a piece of Yaakov,
Yitzhak, and Avraham, and then
that little nakuda of the avos is
untouchable. I mean, you could do an
aveira upon aveira upon aveira and chase
God out of your soul, but there will
always be what we call the Ma'aras
Hamachpelah in your neshama.
That deep, deep, deep down in your
neshama
is a nakuda of Avraham, Yitzchak, and
Yaakov.
Then no matter how low you fall, you're
always connected and you're always pure
through that soul. Through that nakuda.
Yaakov Avinu, what How does that nakuda
remain pure? Through the tfila of Yaakov
Avinu. Yaakov Avinu says, "Kol rachman,
you sin, I don't want my name mentioned,
meaning I don't want it to sully the
piece of me in you."
That's the concept. That's the meaning.
That the piece of the avos in a Jew can
never be defiled, dirtied, or sullied.
You could chase God out of your system
the same way you could chase God out of
Yerushalayim. Is the Shechinah in the
Beis Hamikdash? It's not there anymore.
Is there any kavod in in the Makom
Hamikdash? No. Is Yerushalayim built or
being built? No. So, does that mean our
relationship with God is severed? That's
what it looks like. That's surely what
it looks like if there would only be
Yerushalayim.
But the Zohar says that a human being is
an Olam Katan, which means every chelek
of this world exists within a person.
There is what is called the chelek of
the Ma'aras Hamachpelah in you. And that
Ma'aras Hamachpelah is so different than
Yerushalayim. Listen carefully. What is
Yerushalayim?
It's a mountain top. And on top of the
mountain is a Mikdash. And on top of the
Mikdash is a cloud that comes down, and
that's the Shechinah.
And that's wonderful. That's great
because we see it with our own eyes. The
only thing is, the more revealed
something is, the more you could lose it
and it could be destroyed and it could
be
the churbana and it could be chased out.
And the Mishkan left and the Mikdash was
destroyed and the Har Habayit was plowed
over and all those wonderful levels that
we achieved are gone.
So, does that mean God forsook us?
That's what it looks like.
But then, deep deep down, there's
another city.
And in that city,
you go there and they tell you the Avos
are buried there. And you you go into
the into the building and you say,
"Where?"
Down. So, so say, "I want to go down."
No, you can't go down. So, one guy went
down and he goes down and they say,
"Well, what's there?" A cave. So, you go
into the cave. And what's in the cave?
Another cave.
Ma'aras Hamachpelah. Rashi says,
Ma'ara betoch Ma'ara.
Well, what's all these labyrinths?
What's all these caves? Meaning, it's so
deep down that it's untouchable. The
Ma'aras Hamachpelah is a physical
representation of the fact that in the
core soul of the neshama of a Yid is the
a piece of Avraham, Yitzchak, and
Yaakov. And on that level, that
connection with the Ribono shel Olam can
never be severed. Yes, the reveal, it
looks like God threw us away.
He destroyed Yerushalayim. He doesn't
doesn't talk to us anymore. No nevu'ah,
no ruach hakodesh, no giluy Shechinah.
We're kicked out of Yerushalayim, kicked
out of Eretz Yisrael, no Urim Vetumim,
no carbonos. All the revealed things
that we used to have are gone. So, the
the what Yerushalayim brings to the
Jewish people is out. It's out the
window. We don't have it anymore.
So, does that mean we're unconnected?
No, there's still a a subterranean
connection to Ribono shel Olam. It's
underground. The wires that are
untouchable.
The same way Avraham, Yitzchak, and
Yaakov, where are they buried? The pasuk
says, "Anochi haster astir panai bayom
hahu." The Medrash says, "Hester betoch
hester." Hidden within hidden.
That is the Ma'ara she betoch Ma'ara.
The cave within the cave.
Deep, deep down, you go to Machpelah,
there's nothing. There's no tomb.
There's no place, oh, Abraham is there.
And oh, and Isaac, he's over there,
under that stone. Nobody knows. It's
under a cave, it's a cave within a cave.
It's what is called
the inner point of the Jew,
that even when the Lord of the world
throws us away, there's still a
connection and I see ice, connection.
We're still connected to the Holy One,
blessed be He. Hebron and Jerusalem are
like two flip sides of the same coin.
It's the same thing, it's the same
concept. Jerusalem is the relationship
to God revealed. The revealed part of
the problem is a revealed relationship,
the revealed the revealed part of it
could cease.
But if there is this constant that no
matter what, we're still connected,
nothing can be severed, the
the inner point of the soul, which is a
piece of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, the
cave of Machpelah
within the Jewish soul, is untouchable
and can never be changed.
My brothers and sisters,
why do we not pray
toward Hebron?
The truth is,
all prayers go up through the cave of
Machpelah
to the gates of heaven. So then, what
are we doing facing Jerusalem?
We should face Hebron. Listen to the
concept.
What is Jerusalem always called in the
Torah? A place.
It's called a place.
And he saw
the place,
right? Rosh Hashanah, and he saw the
place from afar.
He saw the the place from far. What's
Jerusalem? It's a place.
The place. Every time it refers to the
Holy Temple, it's called a place. A
place,
Jerusalem is a place. It's a this is it.
It's a mountain with a building, with a
cloud.
The problem is that and that's why we
face it. You could face a Makom. A Makom
is a definitive object. You could turn
your attention to it. The thing is
something that is revealed and
definitive could be destroyed.
Chevron is not a Makom. It's an e-Makom.
It's a lack of a Makom. There is no
Makom. We don't know where the Avos are
exactly. There's no building. There's no
monument. It's subterranean. It's
Ma'aras Hamachpelah.
It's Hester Hester. To face Ma'aras
Hamachpelah would be the antithesis of
the whole concept of Ma'aras
Hamachpelah. You can't face it. It's not
a Makom. It's the opposite of a Makom.
My Rabbis, everybody knows there are
four Yesodos in creation. There are four
elements of Briah. There's There's Aish.
There's fire.
There's Afar. There's earth. There's
Ruach. There's wind. There's Mayim.
There's water.
You know, it's interesting.
What is the Yesod of Yerushalayim? What
is Yerushalayim made out of?
Yerushalayim is Kuloi Aish. All the
Avodah in the Beis Hamikdash was Aish.
The Pasuk says, "How did they destroy
Yerushalayim?
Uve'aish Atah Osid Livnosah." The Yesod
of Yerushalayim is Aish. You know what
the lacking of Aish is? Aish is the most
powerful. It's the most manifest, the
most revealed. It's the most
spectacular. The only thing is it's
subject to extinguishing.
Where did David buy Yerushalayim from?
Arvonah. Lashon of Ar. Lashon of fire.
Or in Divrei Hayamim it's called
Arvonah. Arvonah is Gematria Aish.
So Yerushalayim is majestic fire. The
thing is it's subject to change. It's
subject to being extinguished.
But the most unspectacular of all the
Yesodices dirt.
But,
dirt is immutable, it's unchangeable,
it's everlasting. In fact, there's a
concept
that the possuk says
the dirt, the earth will last forever.
Dirt cannot be changed, dirt cannot be
affected, dirt is
Netzach Netzachim.
Did you ever realize
that one of the most important things
that we need to daven for, we don't
daven for in Shemoneh Esrei?
We daven for refuah, we daven for
parnassah, we daven for Eretz Yisrael,
I'm
You know what we don't daven for in
Shemoneh Esrei?
Our children.
You ever wonder that? There's not one
bracha in Shemoneh Esrei for children.
There's no mention of children. Or like,
what happened? They forgot to put in a
bracha for children in Shemoneh Esrei?
I mean, I would assume most people if
they make kesafos in the Shemoneh Esrei,
that's the first thing they're going to
daven for, their kids. There's no
tefillah for children in Shemoneh Esrei.
Says Tosafos in Brachos, there is.
But, it's not revealed.
It's in three words in Elokai Netzor.
Venafshi keafar lakol tihiyeh. Let my
soul be like dirt.
That's the tefillah for children.
What does that have to do with children?
Says Tosafos, the same way dirt cannot
be destroyed,
venafshi, I want to be like dirt that my
descendants last forever. That's the
tefillah for children. That's what
Tosafos says.
Chevron?
Who What is Chevron? It's not aish, it's
afar. Where did he buy Me'aras
Hamachpelah from? What's the guy's name?
Ephron, he's dirt. Why dirt? Because
Yisrael Eretz is much more majestic,
it's much more manifest, but
it could cease, it could end, it could
be changed, it could be extinguished.
The connection of Chevron, the chibur of
Chevron is subterranean, it's constant,
it's everlasting, it's afar, we got it
from Ephraim.
These are the two levels of connection
to the Rebono shel Olam.
Mar Raboisai,
is it any wonder then
that when Calev ben Yefuneh
was about to
go into Eretz Yisrael, he's he's in
Eretz Yisrael,
and he's worried, what's going to be?
I'm going to be influenced by the
Meraglim. And at that moment the
Meraglim are walking through Eretz
Yisrael with bad kavonos to speak badly
about Eretz Yisrael, and what tragedy
are they about to bring? They're about
to bring the Churban Beis Hamikdash.
Churban.
At a time of Churban, you can't daven
toward Yerushalayim, Yerushalayim is
destroyed. It's like they already set
into motion Churban Beis Hamikdash, you
can't daven to Yerushalayim. The
Sha'arei Shamayim Yerushalayim are gone.
There's only one last ray of hope.
There's only one level of connection
that can never be severed, can never be
extinguished, can never be put down,
because it's afar, we got it from
Ephraim, it's it's the nekudah hapnimis
that no matter how lowly the Meraglim
fall, the nekudah of the avois is still
there. Where did Calev daven? He davened
in Ma'aras Hamachpeilah. That's the only
level of connection left.
Now we understand Rashi. Rashi says,
what's Kiryas Arba? Says with Mashal of
sin.
Kiryas Arba.
Look at it.
Kiryas Arba.
It's looks on the outside like a bunch
of resha'im. These four chayaros are
running around. It's not like
Yerushalayim, Yerushalayim begiluy is
giluy Shechinah. You Rashi says, in
order to appreciate what Kiryas Arba is,
you need to hear both perushim, and you
need to hear it in this order.
That what is Kiryas Arba? It's something
that on the outside is full of Arabs,
it's full of giants, it's full of um
Achiman, Talmai, Sheshai. On the outside
it looks like all levels of connection
are severed. There's nothing redeeming
over there. But if you look in the
second shot of Rashi, look a little
deeper, look under the ground, you'll
see that the connection of the Avos
Hakdoshim, that is un-
cannot be severed, cannot be destroyed,
cannot be lost, it's everlasting. That
is exactly why Rashi lists both
interpretations. And the first
interpretation he gives is Arba Anakim
Shehayu Sham, Ahiman, Sheshai, Talmai
Va'avi'am. That's the way Chevron looks.
That's the way the Yid might look on the
outside. On the outside he looks like a
Chayara. His maasim might be rishus, his
maasim might be
metzuav, but nevertheless, Davar Acher,
deep deep down in the neshama is still
the nekuda pnimis of Adam, Avraham,
Sarah, Yitzchak, Rivka, Yaakov, and
Leah. That's the meaning of this.
So now we understand
the following.
Okay? The next concept is really it's
mind-boggling.
We all know, we mentioned it in shul,
um,
couple, maybe a couple months ago.
The marriage between a woman, a man and
a wife
is a dugma, a mashal, to the
relationship that Hakadosh Baruch Hu has
with Klal Yisrael.
That Hashem is the chasan and we are the
kallah.
And in our own marriage, our
relationship with our spouse is a mashal
for the relationship that Hashem has
with Klal Yisrael.
And with every spouse, there are
Yerushalayim days
and there are Chevron days. What does
that mean?
You need both. You need Yerushalayim.
You need to have good days where you're
both
enjoying each other and
and you're ba'al
and it's like, you know, the first week
you got married. And there's
the is revealed.
But if people only have the
of them,
forget it, their marriage is doomed.
Because not every day is going to be,
you know,
in the year.
What's going to happen when
comes in the marriage and their demise
and people are fighting and you're at
each other's throat? What's going to be
then? You need to know that it doesn't
matter how things look on the outside.
Bottom line is deep, deep down you're
still connected, no matter what. When
you said
you meant forever and ever. I it doesn't
look so good today. You need to know
there's a relationship of
every healthy marriage has to have both.
You have to have good If you don't have
If you don't have any good days, it's
not going to work out. But you have to
know there are good days or you shall
lie in the
and the you shall lie in the
but the way you shall lie in the can
survive is if you understand deep down
you have this bond of
the
Now let's explain. What's my bond to my
wife? That if things are not going well,
that I'm connected. Very possible. There
is a level of connection that you don't
see.
And what is that? That there's a concept
that's planning the plan. No, I can't
take it. I asked you to put the food
over here. You put it over here.
Relax, pal.
She is not your wife. This is you.
You're connected. Your souls were
attached in
They were broken apart and they're back
down here together. There's no way
around. What what what are you thinking?
You're the same person. You know, it's
your fault. You didn't serve her. She is
you and you're her. You're one entity.
And that means your
souls are connected. They're one entity.
And even
you're both in the ground and you're
dead.
So you say the marriage is over because
Mesa ends the marriage. No, it only ends
the marriage of the Giloy, but the the
Nishamas are still connected. The
Nishamas are connected to his skin lying
in a minute. Binyan Adead. People forget
about. People think they're only
marriage is like an arrangement for this
world to make things work. No, it's not
an arrangement. You're the same Nishama.
There's the Giloy of marriage. The Giloy
of marriage how it looks on the outside.
Everything's wonderful. You love each
other and you enjoy each other's
company, but you have to realize there's
something subterranean about the
relationship. What is it? That you come
from the same soul and the souls will be
united. Hanay Hoven Behayayem of a Mesa
and the brother. Yeah?
Now if in a marriage, the marriage is
firm and connected,
that is symbolic of our relationship
with Hashem.
Abraham Avinu knew
that because he's the Rosh Ha'ayin, he's
the head of the people, the beginning of
the people.
His marriage to Sarah will will create
the relationship between
and
and the stronger his bond to Sarah is,
the stronger the bond of something as
well. And if his relationship with Sarah
is forever and ever and ever, then the
will never get rid of us. Therefore,
Abraham made it his business that he's
not just going to be with Sarah
but he's going to be laying next to her
under the ground in the same place.
And then the will be a connected to
forever and ever and ever.
Says Wilson, really, one of the most
beautiful ideas I ever heard.
You know what the Makarov Kadushin is?
The Makarov Kadushin is
Hey, hey brother, hey you see the
brother. You think you're getting
married now for 20, 30, 40, 50 years, 60
years?
70 years?
No, no, no.
Kicha kicha mishtaya fryin.
This marriage is going to be
past even when you're both gone. You're
going to be lying in the ground together
for how long? The hiskin loy me men of
being in a day odd. You have to
understand the eternal relationship that
you're forging. The reason we learn
kidushin from stay after from the
purchase of the burial spot is because
the maras pela represents the fact that
marriage is lanetsa and that's the hack
doma to kidushin. That's base on off and
kidushin. What's base on off and
kidushin? Marriage is not when you're
both in your 20s or your 30s or 40s and
and things are going the way you like.
Marriage is when you're both toothless.
Marriage is when worms are eating you
up. Marriage is when your skeleton.
Marriage is when your souls are in God
aidan. That's the marriage forever and
ever and ever.
That's why it was so important for Avram
Avinu to buy the maras pela.
Ah, that's why I'm pashas Yisro.
What's the hack doma to shiduchim?
Where's the pasha of shiduchim in the
Torah? Chai Sarah. WHAT'S THE HACK DOMA
to shiduchim? The purchase of maras
pela. You can't make a shiduch before
you understand what the marriage is all
about. What is marriage? You're going to
be together forever and ever and ever.
Ah, now we're ready to make a shiduch.
But if once you think it's disposable
when you if you think it's only in this
world, then we're not ready for
shiduchim. Shiduchim is first with by
the maras pela.
Then we're ready for shiduchim. But even
on a deeper level, the eternal union of
husband and wife represents the fact
that we are connected to Hashem forever
and ever and ever. It's mamesh
one of the most beautiful things I've
ever heard. That is the source of
marriage. Kicha kicha mishtaya fryin.
Okay? Now, this is out of this world.
Okay?
This is this is I am an heir. So, Yakov
Avinu, here's the thing, he has two
wives.
So, how does that fit in? It's Rachel
and Leah.
There is a well-known concept, a
Kabbalistic concept. Let's just explain
it. It's not something I was familiar
with. Let's explain it very clearly. The
Ramchal writes, there are two levels of
relationship that we have with Hashem.
There's Yishuv Olam, which is our
revealed relationship. And there's
Chevron. What's Chevron? It's
relationship subterranean. You don't see
it, but it's a constant that can never
be broken.
There is Rachel. Rachel is what is
called Olam de-iskalaya, the revealed
relationship to Hashem.
And there's Leah. Leah is the
subterranean relationship with Hashem.
There's Rachel and Leah. These are two
Kabbalistic concepts.
The Olam of Rachel and the Olam of Leah.
Rachel represents the revealed
relationship. Now, let me ask you a
question.
Which Who's the main wife? Who's the
Ikar Sabayas?
Rachel. Rachel's the main wife. You know
why?
What's marriage? Marriage is you're
you're at each other's throats, but what
can we do? We're stuck? Or marriage is
when you know, the good times?
So, the Ikar of the marriage is the
Rachel. You need the Leah, but the Ikar
Sabayas is the Rachel.
Rachel always represents the
relationship that we we have with Hashem
Begiluy. Leah is Yisrael Al Pi She
Chata, Yisrael Hu.
Rachel is when Klal Yisrael is in Eretz
Yisrael and we're doing mitzvahs and
we're learning Torah and Hashem reveals
himself openly. That's the level of Leah
of Rachel, excuse me, Olam de-iskalaya,
the revealed world. And Leah is when we
go into Galus and we're thrown out of
Eretz Yisrael, but we're still connected
Chevron. Why? Because the Olam
de-iskasaya, hiddenly we're still
connected. Deep deep deep down in our
souls, there's a pristine kernel that is
untouchable. Fine.
Yaakov Avinu is a smart man.
He realized he has to marry both of
them. You know why? Cuz again, if the
marriage of the Avos represents our
relationship with Hashem, we need to
have both relationships with Hashem. We
need to have the good times. We need to
have Yerushalayim Bevinayana. We need to
have the glory days, the days of
Nevi'im, the days of miracles. That's
Those are the Rachel days.
And we know we're going to go into galus
and we know we're going to throw in and
we know we're going to be in America in
the Five Towns. We need the relationship
of Leah. We need to know that no matter
you throw a piece of cloth or you throw
We need So we need Yakov to marry both.
Yakov sees Rachel.
And Yakov says, "Wait a second." Yakov
sees everything.
He knows which one of the girls is going
to live longer. Leah's going to live
longer. Rachel's going to die young.
Yakov says, "I have a great idea.
I'm going to marry Rachel first.
She's going to die young anyway.
When a sister dies, you can marry the
other sister.
So if I marry Rachel and then I marry
Leah,
I'll have no problem bringing both of
them into the Machpelah. Listen
carefully. Right? Nothing to be
embarrassed about. I married Rachel and
then if she dies, I'm allowed to marry
Leah. You're allowed to marry a woman's
sister after you If a person's wife has
run die, you can marry her sister. Al
Leah B'chaya.
So Yakov says, "I have a great idea.
I'll marry Rachel." Now, if Yakov would
have married Rachel first, Rachel
represents the glory days when Hashem is
revealed.
If Yakov would have taken Rachel into
the Machpelah,
he would have been taking Yerushalayim
B'gilo into Machpelah, buried her deep
down with him.
Yerushalayim can never be destroyed.
Then not only would our secret
subterranean connection to Hashem never
be severed,
but then even the revealed connection to
Hashem would never be severed.
And guess what there would never be?
No galas, no korban, no tragedy.
So Yaakov sees Rachel, what's the first
thing he does? You know, first date.
What's the first thing going through
Yaakov's mind?
I want to be buried with her.
Cuz if I'm buried with her,
and I bring her deep down into Maras
Anak Pela,
and I make the revealed relationship
that Hashem has with Klal Yisrael
untouchable,
call it a day, that's the end of days.
That's it. We call it a day. Mashiach
comes right away. Cuz that means not
only we know the secret relationship
with Hashem, the galus-tic relationship
with Hashem is untouchable, but then
even Yerushalayim Bivinyono would never
be destroyed. The revealed relationship
would be untouchable. So Yaakov sees
Rachel, he knows she's going to die
young. So he says, "I'm going to marry
her. I'm going to bring her with me to
Maras Anak Pela. Then I'm going to marry
Leah, and I can have Iska Layon and Iska
Sayon deep down in Maras Anak Pela
untouchable. All wires are untouchable."
Yerushalayim would never be destroyed.
But then he sees he's not going to be
buried her with her.
You know what that means when he sees
he's not going to be buried with Rachel?
Korban Beis Hamikdash,
uh the the loss of the Shechinah, the
destruction of Yerushalayim, all
Holocaust, pogroms. When Yaakov saw
Rachel and saw that he wouldn't be
buried with her, the deeper meaning is
that the revealed relationship with
Hashem one day would cease.
And that's why he cried.
And that's worthy of crying about, not
that she would die young. Yaakov
envisioned all Jewish tragedy in the
fact that he would not be buried with
Rachel.
It's brought in a safer when the
Munkatcher Rebbe came to Eretz Yisrael,
they recorded in a diary
his travels.
He came to Kever Rachel,
and it's brought there that the rabbonim
in Chutz Aretz were not happy with Sir
Moses Montefiore. Why? Cuz before Sir
Moses Montefiore, you know where Rachel
was buried?
On the roadside. Where? Like in the
ground. Just just there. You know, they
covered over with a little dirt. But you
could go there and then where's Rachel?
Oh, she's she's right there.
You could see her? No, no, you know, we
covered the face with dirt.
And it was dafka they wanted it to be
that way. You know why?
Because Rachel comes from the iskalaya,
from the revealed world. Her burial
place had to be revealed.
Leah's from the hidden world. She has to
be deep down in the Maras Pela.
But until they told the rabbonim, look,
the Arabs are surrounding the area and
they have a cemetery all around and it's
not proper that it's going to we can't
daven with with dead bodies strewn all
all over the place. So they were they
were maskin to what Moses Montefiore
did. But there is a concept again that
Rachel represents olam de iskalaya, the
revealed connection to Hashem. We have
two levels of connection to Hashem. We
have
the revealed connection, which is
subject subject to change and
destruction and extinguishing. And we
have the subterranean connection, the
connection of Chevron, the connection
that is immutable and cannot be changed.
If Yaakov Avinu had his brothers and he
sees Rachel, he would have married her
first,
buried her in Maras Pela,
but marry Leah and bring her with him as
well and he would have nothing to be
embarrassed of.
So who orchestrated that Rachel cannot
be buried in Maras Pela?
Laban
shlaka resha koel.
Laban wanted to be uproot everything. So
everybody
What was Laban? How did Laban try to
uproot everything? Very pashut.
Laban who's Bilam the he realizes that
if Yaakov marries Rachel and takes him
with her to the Maras Pela and then
basically what's the Maras Pela? It's
like a security box that's untouchable.
If Yaakov gets Rachel into the security
box,
it's the end of days. The Jews are set.
So, Lavan has a whole cheshbon. I'm
going to switch Rachel for Leah.
Yaakov's going to marry Leah first.
Leah's going to live a long time. Leah's
going to live a long time. Yaakov cannot
marry Rachel ba'heter. He's going to
have to marry her ba'issur
and leave her on the roadside.
Once she's left on the roadside, there's
no security on the revealed relationship
with Hashem. Then Yerushalayim is
subject to churban. Then the revealed
level of connection to Hashem is subject
to be undermined. This is the deepest
p'shat in "Lo yikash Lavan l'Yaakov."
How? By orchestrating that Yaakov cannot
marry Rachel first, but rather marry
Leah first.
Oy oy vey, nira. So, let's just conclude
with
the following.
Think we explained why Yaakov cried when
he saw that he would not be buried with
Rachel. He envisioned all the Jewish
tragedy. Because Yaakov married Leah
first, he could not bring Leah He could
not bring Rachel with him into
Machpelah. What is Machpelah?
It's both p'shat and midrash. On the
outside, it looks like all is lost. It's
a situation. In other words, there are
different levels in life. There are
different stages in life. There are
different dimensions in life. Every Jew
has what is called mochin degadlus and
mochin dektanus. In simple terms, that
means you have days you feel connected
and days you don't feel connected. Every
Jew comes
a Yom Kippur, you feel uplifted, you
feel connected, you feel cheshek to
daven. Sometimes a person has cheshek to
learn. You feel like you're connected to
God. That's the Yerushalayim. That's the
connection of Yerushalayim. But that
level of connection is subject to
extinguishing. It's not going to be
every day.
Sometimes the yetzer hara is going to
come along and he's going to be machriv
your Yerushalayim. On such a day, says
Rav Moshe Wolfson, "On the day you can't
go up to Har Hamoriah, no problem. Go
down to the Mikdash of Maharal of
Prague.
Go down into your soul and realize, even
if you have no desire to pray,
pray anyway. You're not in the mood of
learning, learn anyway. But I'm not
connected, I don't feel it. Don't worry,
you are connected. There is a unique
soul in the heart of the Jewish people,
and that's the unique soul of the Jewish
people that is not subject to change.
We, by the way, take on Tikkun Chatzot
very quickly. There are two There are
two parts of Tikkun Chatzot. There's
Tikkun Rachel and Tikkun Leah. Tikkun
Rachel
we only say during the week
because Tikkun Rachel is crying for the
destruction of the Temple.
We don't say it on Shabbat. It's so sad.
Tikkun Leah
Tikkun Leah you say the whole week. You
know why?
You ever realize Rachel is crying for
her children.
Leah is not crying for her children.
You know why? Rachel's level of
connection is destroyed. So in her mind,
the way her children are supposed to be
is not the way it is. It's not the way
we are. We're not the way we're supposed
to be. In the eyes of Rachel, Rachel is
crying for her children. Leah is not
crying for her children.
Leah looks at us, she sees the unique
soul of the Jewish people. We're
wonderful, we're we're perfect. Tikkun
Leah you say even on Shabbat. My rabbis,
Jerusalem and Hebron are two parts of
the same coin. Jerusalem is the
revelation of the divine presence,
Hebron is the level
of the Jewish people in the land of
Israel.
So we hope that in this time we don't
have Jerusalem built, we do have Hebron,
and we hope that we will merit
to also have the level
of Rachel our mother and the promise to
Rachel our mother is that the children
will return
that the Almighty will love us not only
in the unique soul of the Jewish people,
but even in the revelation even in the
revealed. Thank you all for coming. Have
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